I'm repulsed by them, in terms of sexual attraction of course. They might be good people but that's a different matter. I can't speak for all men though.
Having sex is in that category. Most men aren't attractive enough to get it consensually. Most reproduced through force, back when there wasn't a concept of consent.
You said the property crime element was irrelevant so I couldn't drop it. Yes it was considered moral to rape rather than not to rape in the times and conditions I have already mentioned. For example: Many modern cultures and most past cultures consider it the husband's "right" to have sex with his wife. Even the women in these cultures think that a husband always has the right to have sex with his wife. Of course the particular woman being taken against her will wouldn't want it, that's why it'…
When raping slaves. Marital rape. Raping as spoils of war. There have been periods of time where none of these was considered immoral. Marital rape isn't even a concept in many cultures and not criminalised in many countries. Note that I'm not saying any of these is/was right. I'm only saying that morality is cultural and dynamic. And reasons are very relevant. Rape as a violation of a person and as a violation of property are very different. For example: A girl could be married to her rapist as…
It has not always been thought of as immoral and hasn't been thought of as immoral for the same reason. Might makes right and the only reason women are more equal today than they have ever been is because men have let them be.
Not rape as a violation of a person's personhood and right to their own body but as a violation of property was the thought process around it throughout most of history. There is no such thing as a universal eternal human morality. Morality is based on culture and evolves over time. Men have given up holding women as property through sheer physical force in most places in the modern world.
Very insightful. Talking to more people and socializing more should make me good enough with women to never have to visit this subreddit again. Thanks.
But why not be kind anyway though? Assuming(big assumption) that you're right about being rejected no matter what you do, wouldn't being kind be better? Maybe it's different for you but being kind feels better to me than being hateful.
