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6

Agree, never lie regarding your intentions. My answer is usually something along the lines of „first I need to see if it works short term and we have a good rapport / vibe before I can consider taking it long-term.“
/r/seduction12/06/26 07:08 AM
2

She wouldn’t think that if you were Brad Pitt.
/r/seduction18/01/25 04:58 PM
4

The problem isn’t that she thinks you only want sex. The problem is that she obviously doesn’t want to fuck you.
/r/seduction14/03/24 07:43 PM
58

It’s only weird if you think it’s weird.
/r/seduction13/02/24 01:02 PM
1

Plates break. It’s a law of nature. They might feel romantically towards someone and her sex drive (with you) just goes poof. Or she just wakes up one day and decides to move on, or that there is something in the current arrangement that doesn’t scratch her itch. It’s not even a conscious decision. We are different after all. The point is, it doesn’t matter. Plates break. So make sure you keep spinning up new plates.
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:57 AM
8

Don’t be fat, I guess.
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:54 PM
16

Always a pleasure to read your posts! Thanks for keeping contributing - if I think Red Pill I think of you more than anybody else.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 09:06 PM
1

Keep doing what you’re doing at the gym and go meet women outside of the gym (and work, for that matter).
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:05 PM
2

I‘ve had good success by imitating Geralt‘s grunt from the witcher. Blew my mind that it even works. I‘ll take it.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:49 PM
0

To quote from entourage: „never be the first or last“
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:56 AM
1

Wow, looks like negging really works!
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:17 AM
1

Definitely gain some pen spinning skillz.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:45 AM
0

It should be obvious, but not as in telling her „I‘m interested“. Tell her that you’re interested by being flirty, touching her on the arm or shoulder, maybe throw in some dirty jokes or insider jokes. She‘ll know and you need to closely watch her reaction. This is of course easier with people you’ve just met as they are still undecided in which bucket they are going to throw you. And once you’re in a bucket it’s difficult to escape, so if you want to leave a „friend“ or „nice guy“ bucket for th…
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:34 AM
2

See, that’s the problem. You’re doing something that you don’t enjoy for the purpose of pleasing other people. It’s the definition of neediness.
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:23 PM
1

Most people hate texting. And those who love texting also love wasting your time.
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:19 PM
3

Would be helpful to get some pic from your profile. There are subreddits for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:27 AM
2

Rule 1 and rule 2. Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:25 AM
2

The grass is always greener on the other side…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:04 PM
-1

You should totally white knight him: Make a lengthy insta post and lay it all out there. For good measurement I‘d recommend tagging him, his side project and his SO.
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:56 PM
6

This. Mark Manson was right - it’s all about neediness. Same with funny people, you can see who does it to please and who is genuinely funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:17 AM
1

Gym
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:16 AM
3

Read the title and the first sentence. You’re making dating more difficult for yourself than it needs to be. It’s either „fuck yes“, or anything else is a „no“.
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:33 PM
-1

Might be a felony in some places. Even just receiving unprompted nudes from underage girls. Hope OP didn’t share personal details with her, deleted everything on his mobile (pics / text messages), this thread and preferably even this reddit account. There’s a reason it’s called „jailbait“.
/r/seduction06/01/22 02:44 PM
2

Start working on that threesome!
/r/seduction05/01/22 03:45 AM
2

This is over, forget her.
/r/seduction21/12/21 12:01 PM
6

This is the comment OP needs, but doesn’t deserve.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/21 07:50 PM
1

This. If it’s not an enthusiastic yes then it’s a no. Simple as that.
/r/seduction22/09/21 03:10 PM
1

Are you sure people notice a small dick in the club? I never noticed, but as a guy I never paid attention. Also, are you sure it’s because you get hard or not get hard? Well anyways, if you enjoy clubbing then keep doing it and maybe experiment a bit? As in, try stuffing your pants and see what happens.
/r/seduction05/09/21 12:49 PM
3

Just smile back, say hi and see where the conversation leads you. Possible topics are: ask her about her summer, ask her what she’s training for, talk about school, make a funny / goofy joke. It’s also probably a good idea to think beforehand about follow-up action? Do you just want to get to know her? Get her number? Ask her if she’s down to hang?
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:37 PM
11

Nope that’s not true. They might be into you, but it’s a leap to conclude that they would ever approach you. I‘ve met a ton of women who have never approached. Their form of approach is sending choosing signals. If you don’t approach they‘ll just think „whatever…“ and turn their attention to the next guy they’re into and who actually approaches them. Never expect a woman to approach or take the initiative. 1. you’ll get disappointed and 2. it’s you fucking job.
/r/seduction26/08/21 10:22 PM
18

Yeah I mean… do you approach women you’re not interested in?
/r/seduction26/08/21 10:00 PM
2

Her business account seems like a good way to build chemistry. Seems like a side project and people are usually passionate about it. You didn’t ask about that?
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:08 PM
2

If you talk to her and she’s not receptive just tell her it was nice meeting her and wish her the best and then unfollow her accounts. As in, call her with a plan on what you want to do and ask her if she wants to join you. You‘ll be able to tell if she’s into you. I wouldn’t do anything before that. Why would you? Apparently you’re still still willing to date her so don’t shoot yourself into the foot by taking away your own options.
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:05 PM
1

A shit test is basically just women poking at your frame. They try to rock it, see if you are for real or just pretending. Read up on shit tests, they come in many different forms and it’s important to know how to handle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:40 AM
1

Dude, zoom out a bit, think about what you want out of this and then be honest to yourself snd to her about it. Otherwise it won’t end well and you will not be happy. Always look out for no. 1 (yourself, in case this isn’t clear).
/r/seduction09/08/21 09:30 AM
4

Congrats! Stop fucking around while in the gym and focus on lifting! 😛😉
/r/seduction09/08/21 07:43 AM
1

You win this thread. In the end, we are who we are. This goes for everybody. Women do similar vetting with shit tests and congruency tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:56 PM
3

Thank you for another great post sir, highly appreciated. Whenever I see your name on reddit, be it a post or a comment, I‘m looking forward to reading it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/21 01:34 PM
1

Look up madonna whore complex.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:02 AM
1

Look up madonna whore complex.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:01 AM
1

Look up madonna whore complex.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:01 AM
1

Look up madonna whore complex.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:01 AM
2

Do you know anything that she likes? Any shared interest? Easiest to just chat her up talking about something you both like. Don’t know her at all? Just go over, smile, and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:55 PM
14

Never expect a woman to approach and do “your job“. It’s just not going to happen. Just go for it and enjoy the experience / process. Won’t get bigger IOI from a conservative, introverted 17 yo girl than what you described.
/r/seduction20/07/21 12:57 PM
1

Go into every conversation (not just women, everybody) with the goal to realize your agenda or that they like you better after the interaction than before.
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:08 AM
2

Do it. Sounds like you need to find yourself, even if that sounds cliché. Women want men who are experienced in life and know what they want. And if a guy has never experienced being attractive to women that’s what he’ll want and it’s perceived as needy. Find your mission. What are your life goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 08:53 AM
-5

And then you finish your shower anyways and answer later? Doesn’t check out. But yeah, like most people said here… this is a red flag and she’s probably not interested.
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:05 PM
1

Work…?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:22 AM
5

Seems like you did a fine job sabotaging yourself already. Did your ex know about this arrangement with the plate?
/r/askMRP17/07/21 01:20 PM
1

Yeah those are comments. If a few people mention it that means a lot of people are noticing.
/r/seduction17/07/21 12:13 PM
2

That’s rough. I‘m not going to armchair-therapy you. For myself, it has helped to understand the dynamics that are going on, and then when somebody smiles at me it starts a positive feedback loop. We will never be liked for who we are. Our personality or whatever. People like us for what they think we are. It’s a Disney fantasy to think we will ever be loved unconditionally for who we are.
/r/seduction12/07/21 08:27 AM
1

Do you know why you feel this way? Why she wouldn’t be attracted to you?
/r/seduction12/07/21 08:17 AM
1

I mean... look at it from her side. She's probably not very experienced and matches this guy who lives very freaking far away. What are her prospects here? Then she finds out that this guy would hop into a plane for a few hours just to visit her without knowing anything about her. Wouldn't this make you suspicious as well?
/r/seduction09/07/21 01:48 PM
1

Because you want something else than she does. Do you enjoy entertaining her and giving her attention without (what she wants) without getting what you like (relationship, physical interaction)? Do you think she‘d tell Zac Efron she’s not into dating? Sorry to say, she’s just not that into you. Move on and talk to more people.
/r/seduction09/07/21 01:42 PM
1

You hugged her 2 times? How far did you escalate kino-wise? Since you didn’t kiss the problem might be that she didn’t get the tingles. Also, try to take more initiative. She’s welcome to step into your life and take part in activities you enjoy. If you get worried that she didn’t like it and want to appease her it might seem needy (read models by Mark Manson). Take the lead. escalate by touching her and by the middle of the second date you should have kissed her latest. And just tell her „hey I…
/r/seduction09/07/21 01:34 PM
3

Bingo!
/r/seduction09/07/21 07:33 AM
1

What’s your endgame with this? Visit her?
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:01 AM
1

It’s not too late. Just put yourself out there, try things out and see what works for you. Look at it like you’re and observer from another plant conducting a social experiment.
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:50 AM
4

Women are born. Men are built. Don’t become successful or hit the gym for validation or women’s attention, do it for yourself. Your post says basically „I exist, where are my women?“. Find your mission.
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:20 AM
4

It falls into the category of frame and being congruent (make your intentions clear). Your goal is to get a face to face meeting. If you’re happy just texting it can be interpreted as neediness (read Models by Mark Manson if you haven’t already). It’s fine to text a bit lighthearted back and forth for 1-2 days, but pretty much as soon as you feel she’s interested go over to something like „hey I think you’re interesting, let’s meet up for drinks / workout / climbing / whatever on Thu“.
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:35 PM
4

Tough situation. You should have dates lined up from your city anyways and just occasionally say hi to different city girl. Are you still locked down? Because where I live we’re pretty free again to do most things, so better make sure she’s not using that as an excuse to be entertained without intending to physically meet. Anyways, if I were in your shoes I‘d pull away my attention to local prospects and say hi 1-2x per week. I’d do some jokes but mostly send pictures of cool stuff I‘m doing or …
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:58 PM
1

That’s a sure way to end up as the „nice guy but didn’t connect“.
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:22 PM
3

Meant more like stretching (Yoga or whatever) if you really go hard in the gym. You can get it done in 3x 30min per week or so. But it’s usually the first thing you don’t do if you are short on time.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 02:48 PM
22

Ask her in which movie she liked Danny DeVito the most.
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:32 PM
25

The response rate measures IMHO how interested she is and not your texting game. The goal shouldn’t be to „talk“ much when texting but to set up logistics for a date. This has various advantages: saves your time. It’s valuable and you have better things to do than „provide value“, which is a nice way of saying that you are validating yourself to them. You can’t really gain attraction through texts, but you might lose it. Polarize the women that actually want to meet (right back to 1). It’s ok to…
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:27 PM
6

Getting jacked is a lifestyle. When you do it properly it takes way more if you include food prep, mobility and sleeping 8h.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 07:14 AM
2

Approach the girls you like when you’re in a club. If there is none (or you strike out with all of them), just have fun with your friends. Otherwise why are you even there?
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:00 PM
7

Do it better next time. Live and learn, buddy. Nobody is perfect. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction03/07/21 11:19 AM
1

Set up a date within next 5-7 days. Keep texting, but not excessively. I usually just tell them that I hate texting and that it‘s more fun to meet in person. At the date don’t just kiss her to greet her. Start with a hug and set a light and playful mood. Start kino early, then go for a more passionate kiss. What I usually do is holding her cheek/ neck with my right hand and kiss her passionately but without tongue. You’ll know if she’s into that. If she likes it place your left hand on her hip/l…
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:46 AM
2

Yep, probably. With time it becomes automatic to go „primal“ when you’re getting those kind of signal and just tease her, playfully but mercilessly and then (isolate and) escalate if you’re into her. Can’t win them all, but some degree of self-reflection and introspection is great to identify opportunities and where you screwed up, which we all do pretty often.
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:36 AM
2

It’s better to say sorry than please. Literally almost always with very few exceptions, and dating is for sure not one of them. Just feel out the situation. Try starting with some jokes to set a light mood. Then start touching her lightly on the arm and back to set a sensual tone. You don’t just go for a kiss without paving the way for it. That’s why dinner dates are terrible if you haven’t had sex with her yet, awful logistics. You’ll be terrified when escalating kino for the first time, but re…
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:40 AM
6

Why would you assume she wants to take it slow? That’s literally you shooting yourself into your own foot. Also, taking her out for dinner really hurts your own chances: You sit awkward opposite of each other, watch yourself eating, hard to escalate and a lot of other people around you.
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:28 AM
5

Just rock that clean shaved head. Better to have no hair at all than half.
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:23 AM
1

Isolate and escalate - like always.
/r/seduction02/07/21 09:03 PM
8

Are people not getting laid or are you not getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:23 PM
1

Sweet, looking forward to it. I think it’s an important topic because clearly a lot of women enjoy it but you need to kind of ease into it.
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:14 PM
1

Same as always - isolate and escalate.
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:02 PM
4

No, game is used to talk to women, period. Having game means not to talk and argue logically but playful and vague where necessary. To make a dirty joke at the right time. To be unfazed by shit tests. To hold frame. To calibrate. To be fun and exciting to be around. To escalate kino. etc. etc. If somebody has great looks but no game whatsoever, he'll probably pick up a few women here an there. However, somebody who has great game but not the jackpot genes will outperform him pretty easily when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:20 PM
1

We need a choke-post!
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:27 PM
7

Hit the gym and learn to socialize, develop game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:31 AM
7

Right back at you! 🤗
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:38 AM
43

You won’t always be enough. But at least you took your shot and you’ll feel better to die trying than to just put your tail between your legs.
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:34 AM
4

You‘ll be fine. Now stop masturbating, go to the gym and work on getting more options to be less insecure and learn how to converse etc. It’s ok to feel down after something like this, even if it was foreseeable. But it should fuel you to be a better man and to round out your social game, to have more options. It’s a glorious circle, really.
/r/seduction30/06/21 09:52 AM
1

Your age divided by 2 plus 7.
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:46 AM
52

Go back and read your own post. Why are you even with him? This is 100% doomed, just cut your losses.
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:12 AM
0

I think not blowing it would have been to try and bang her then and there, or at least establish some kino.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 10:00 AM
1

She’s just not that into you. Do you think she should sleep at Ryan Goslings place and not bang him as often as she could? You are providing for her with money, free attention and your valuable time while getting nothing out of it except the „pleasure“ of courting her. How did you reply when she made the jokes about other women? Hope you A&A‘d the shit out of it, that would get her juices flowing. If you ensured to her that she’s the only one then that would have been a big turnoff for her. Star…
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:58 AM
-5

She wouldn’t tweet it overtly, so it’s probably a chick. And yes, she’s probably getting plowed.
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:52 PM
1

for like 5ish
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:51 PM
6

Sorry for being blunt. Those are rookie numbers. Work on that, you should be able to double or better triple that with easy. When you squat 220, deadlift 245 and bench 195 you will look so different that even if you have an ugly face they will often not notice that first.
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:53 PM
2

What are your height, weight and lifts? If you’re not focusing on heavy multi joint lifts like squats, deadlift and bench you’re doing it wrong imo. I‘d also consider joining a crossfit gym. Often they have good communities and easy people to talk to.
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:26 PM
10

Lift. Hit the gym. Hard.
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:51 PM
6

You‘ll want to position yourself smartly. e.g don’t just sit opposite her with a table in between, sit next to her. Read her vibe. Tell yourself that if you don’t make a move that means she’ll probably lose interest pretty quickly. Just. Do. It.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:11 PM
5

If I can feel the vibe I go for a kiss pretty quickly. If I can feel that she’s more reserved I just try to have fun and ask questions that really interest me. After a while mix in Kino when appropriate and see from there.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:42 PM
11

Assume attraction. Just take her hand at that moment when everything in you screams „flight“. Just do it. She‘s on Tinder FFS, it’s not like you’re groping some granny at the supermarket.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:24 PM
5

That’s the spirit. In my book it’s a win if you tell anybody what you want and they comply with your rules. Until there’s a better option (not in the sense of a „better person“ but somebody who gives her what she wants). But we’re also not robots and it’s normal to feel emotions ins this situation. Embrace it, it makes life more fun.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:05 PM
8

You’re not dropping her, she dropped you. Just move on, get more plates and who knows, maybe you’ll be inside of her again.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 09:44 PM
6

Next her if she annoys you.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:33 PM
3

If you’re hiring somebody at work for your team and you interview a couple of people… would you hire the one who says „I‘m pretty hot and interesting, but I‘m not really good at my job“? No, you‘d re-post the job description and look to get more applicant in.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:24 PM
6

Yep. Being able to fuck whoever is the most exciting thing coming out of a LTR where the sex probably died down.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 06:51 PM
1

There’s an old saying… a BJJ black belt is only a black belt until he gets punched in the face, then he becomes a brown belt. If your gf of 10 years cheats on you it will sting and leave a mark, even if you know it could happen.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:32 AM
6

You are „plating“ this girl that you didn’t have sex with? Stopped reading there…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:05 PM
1

They probably think they want something reliable and safe. Want to give that nice guy a chance, maybe he is pretty cool. But betas are gonna beta, and women are gonna be women and the tingles will be lost quickly. They’ll lose attraction and soon they’ll change their internal story to make up something why „it just didn’t work“. It’s not malicious, it’s just how the brain works.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:28 AM
1

Then cook with him etc. But this isn’t going to work if he doesn’t want to improve. So I guess my approach would be to give him some space, monitor and when he’s ready do some stuff with him that addresses his needs/weaknesses. Be it gym or food or whatever. You‘ll see.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:59 AM
6

Take him to the gym.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:43 AM
1

Agree in general, but isn’t it of the lean body mass instead of bw? 285g of protein seems like a lot…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:03 AM
10

Go read your own post history and reflect on what you tolerate and what not. I just read the titles and I feel like I already know what I need to know about you...
/r/askTRP30/04/21 12:37 PM
7

Plausible. Deniability. Show the your stamp collection or some shit and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:13 PM
1

Models
/r/askTRP27/04/21 07:33 PM
1

Dread. Head over to the married red pill sub and read the „60 days of dread“ posts.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:15 PM
-1

WTF man, how can you even look into the mirror and be proud of yourself if you can’t even tell your boss why you’re fucking them over? I‘d really enjoy doing that because 1. you’re doing right by yourself by standing up for yourself, 2. when you tell them they’ll probably see where you’re coming from, 3. you can display having principles and 4. you are perfectly in your right doing that. Honestly, just ducking out without telling them why would really make me ashamed of myself. Not because it’s …
/r/askTRP16/04/21 04:17 PM
4

No
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:33 PM
23

I mean yes... But then we are practically done and I‘m just pimping her out to the internet.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:26 PM
1

Go to HR and say what?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:29 PM
8

Only needy people „want to be your bf/gf“ before even meeting once. Can’t gain attraction through texts. Show her, don’t talk about it.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:08 PM
2

Start with the basic and easy stuff... like holding her hands behind her neck in missionary, grab her neck (without choking her) and pulling her to you, put your flat hand in her face and touch her lips with your thumb, fuck her when she’s on her stomach and hold her right should (your left) with your forearm putting slight pressure on her throat, moan directly into her ear (maybe add in some growls lol). Just to give you some ideas where to start. See how she likes it (if she’s into it you’ll k…
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:05 PM
1

Shave your head
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:22 PM
1

Troll much??
/r/askTRP12/04/21 11:16 PM
9

Move on. It’s not only over, it never even started and was ill-advised to start with.
/r/seduction11/04/21 09:39 PM
1

The fact that you got 2 independent people mentioning it probably says more about your weirdo doppelgänger than you.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:32 PM
1

Seems like you handled it ok but lost me at the ghosting. Seems like she was being playful. If you liked talking to her I don’t get why you‘d ghost her over that (leaving the whole „text for logistics only“ policy at the side...).
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:32 PM
30

To add to that, I‘d even argue that you need to see it for yourself to believe it. If you just read about it and then you meet your „perfect match“ you‘re probably susceptible to the unicorn-bias. So yeah, live and learn...
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:26 PM
7

1 year is a short window of time. Keep proving to them and yourself that you’re „better“ and it will work out. Compounding effect is your friend.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 04:09 PM
2

For me it’s mainly about allowing myself to be vulnerable (in a non-needy way). Also I liked the emphasis on polarization, which also promotes an outcome independent thinking. A lot of the other stuff from the book is not that new, such as having interesting hobbies, dressing well, working out etc. That stuff is pretty much dread 101.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:22 PM
2

Did you read „Models“ by Mark Manson? It’s pretty much all about that topic. Loved it, it’s very relateable.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 02:44 PM
1

Was going to recommend that one as well.
/r/seduction07/04/21 07:45 AM
2

Usually you only have a limited window to approach women. It can be minutes if your out at a bar or days / weeks for acquaintances, but months is for sure pushing it. So go to her, have a great time and show her that you’re able to shoot your shot and make a move.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 04:25 PM
1

Why shit where you eat?
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:01 PM
3

Gym, and talk to as many people as you can.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:44 PM
1

good bot
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:25 AM
2

If she says it for a third time I‘d just ask her what she means with that.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:24 AM
5

Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:09 PM
1

500 Days of Summer
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:57 PM
1

They are not. And if they were it’s usually when you meet somebody and then split due to life (like vacation, study in a different country etc). But nobody ever starts a LDR from distance. That being said, a LDR is usually not advisable for various reasons. I know a lot of people who had LDR and it’s one of the few mistakes that people don’t repeat. Game chicks in Egypt.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:42 AM
3

Personally, it helps me to remind myself what I want out of a discussion, situation etc. When I have an agenda that I want to execute it makes it easier to take the appropriate actions and not get steamrolled. And that’s basically what frame is.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:55 AM
1

Organize something for the team, like a bbq or hangout.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:58 PM
3

Exactly this. Just go out there and be bold, in a non-autistic way.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:23 PM
4

Don’t give him attitude, he hit it right on the head...
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:43 PM
10

The first 2 paragraphs tell me everything I need to know. Unfortunately this isn’t going to end well for you. Does she even know this is a „relationship“? You went for a LTR way too quickly and now the initial attration is fading and you are stuck with someone who lives in the same flat and will probably soon be your ex. Give it some time and her some space and start controlling the damage and your frame.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:11 AM
1

Maybe you lost frame in her pov. As in, you were not acting interested, then she makes a tiny move and you suddenly become super invested. Inconsistent behaviour basically.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 06:38 PM
1

Might also be testing your frame (subconsciously). Checking if you’re feeling guilty which would lead you to apologize or validate your actions to her. Basically looking for inconsistent behaviour. Whatever it is, the response is always the same: keep looking for more plates, give it some time and hit her up when you feel like it in 1-2 weeks.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 06:09 PM
1

It’s a marathon, not a sprint.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:32 AM
2

Yeah... that’s a big no no. She probably saw too many red flags in you already just based on what you wrote (not even her POV)...
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:31 AM
1

Break a leg :)
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:24 AM
1

A doctor will probably also work that amount of hours. So yeah this is not going to be easy...
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:18 AM
2

Once you’re in the friend zone it’s very hard if not impossible to exit it. You can still be friendly with her if you enjoy her or your friend group’s company, but don’t expect anything of her romantically. And once you stop simping to her she’ll show her true colors.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 08:00 AM
1

Same as with all the others. Isolate and escalate.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:48 PM
5

I‘d do this. If you had sex with her and generally liked her I feel it’s fair enough to give her a quick call if she texts you and you’re no longer interested.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:08 AM
1

Seems like we have another case of shitting where you eat here.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:08 PM
30

Not bending yourself to please others shows that you’re non-needy. Which is attractive.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:40 AM
2

It’s not great...
/r/askTRP13/03/21 03:34 PM
2

Fair enough. Don’t really have any advice. Have you tried taking more leadership in your role?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:43 PM
2

What makes it „the best“? Or is it the biggest? In my book that’s not the same.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:39 PM
2

I know what you mean. There are jobs that are so demanding and stressful at times that it’s easiest to shut everything down and just function for your job. I‘ve been there. But when I do that I feel shitty because I‘m setting something that’s not me above myself. I usually try and take a step back, get through it while trying to minimize damage and reflect on how people do it that have „success“, families, active social life etc. And tbh usually the conclusion I end up at is that my habits need …
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:38 PM
6

Build you own empire. Also: not all white collar jobs are the same.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:30 PM
1

Download tinder
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:24 PM
11

Yes... but are you really??
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:25 AM
3

500 days of summer
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:00 PM
8

Go with 2. Why would you get butthurt after such a polite text, especially when you are still going to see her?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:40 AM
1

How old is she? Because you might wanna block her and lose the number, maybe switch up where you eat...
/r/askTRP07/03/21 04:40 AM
1

Be nice, not needy.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 10:49 AM
2

Disrespectful. If you still want her I‘d text her that you need to know to plan your week and ask her to reply by eod. But if you don’t want her I‘d totally understand and I‘d probably only hit her up after that week and never mention it to her again. Maybe also consider that since you earn good money and offer to „provide“ for her transportation there might be other guys. Or maybe she is angling for a LTR somewhere and not ready to money-swing her status from single to taken but doesn’t want to…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:27 PM
1

Get a new job.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 11:32 AM
1

Totally agree. Go to the pros and like-minded. I‘d give AA a shot and see how you feel about it.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 10:29 AM
2

Honestly, could be a number of things. ASD, attraction, maybe you don’t read her vibe etc. But always remember: She would fuck Brad Pitt
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:31 PM
1

Yeah pretty much this. It’s work, talk to her like you talk to co-workers. Banter, make jokes, keep it light. Read her vibe and act accordingly, like you would with a 40yo co-worker that’s the mother of 2 kids. You’d be nice to her, keep it it light, sometimes be funny when appropriate and just keep a good vibe, without thinking of fucking her. Like a leader does. Be aware that she has options and maybe doesn’t want to shit where she eats because of the baggage it brings. Totally legit imo. Whic…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:36 AM
0

I detect high level of autism. Or narcissism. You fuck her 8 months, end it without a warning and then you ask what she wants? You had time to decide where this goes and then just told her the result of your pondering, breaking off contact with her without an incident (that she could see). Take a step back and think about how it has looked from her pov.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:41 AM
2

Nah, just move on. She might surprise you and get back to you. Learning experiences. /u/sora26 solved it
/r/askTRP02/02/21 03:46 PM
3

Did you feel like he AMOGed you? Worst thing you can do is get butthurt over not enough attention and to get hostile with him. He‘s probably a cool guy to know, therefore (as mentioned before) try to befriend him. He might also be a good talker with bad game since he didn’t make a move, or not interested in her. Difficult to tell from what you wrote. As for the girl, I‘d try to isolate her. Her worst fear is probably to be known as a slut, so getting her away from the rest will do wonders. Also,…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:40 PM
7

Befriend the other guy. And don’t fuck your study group if you can help it, not worth the hassle. There are plenty of women on campus or pretty much everywhere.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:27 PM
3

facepalm.jpg
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:16 PM
18

„The market can stay irrational longer than you can stay solvent“. And to call women rational is already a stretch...
/r/TheRedPill27/01/21 11:34 AM
1

It was probably her BF :-)
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:23 AM
1

I like this guide: http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:08 AM
1

Forget her and get out of her orbit. You are way too invested here.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 07:03 AM
2

Go back and read what you wrote. You are way too invested in this. And yes, you are probably drifting apart when you don’t see each other for 10 months.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 10:03 PM
3

Make it a habit to talk to everybody. Personally it has helped me to not wear headsets when going outside to be more alert for interactions etc
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:50 PM
1

You can‘t rely on her feelings and emotions the night before, to her it is as if it happened a lifetime ago.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:42 PM
4

You propose sex? Just meet with her under plausible deniability and then escalate.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 11:31 PM
3

In my own LTR it has happened when I lost frame and was too accommodating and trying to please her. I think it’s a tough starting point to claw your way back from and if you are not super invested it’s probably easier to just walk away and start over. And of course, if you are super invested you need to be asking yourself if you are not too invested. Usually it doesn’t work when you are more invested than the woman. You should always be ready to push the „nuke-button“, otherwise it spells oneiti…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:31 PM
9

Hard to give advice without knowing the problem from first hand experience, but I‘ll give it a try. I‘d say it would be beneficial to spend as much time as possible in company. Don‘t try to game women, just enjoy some good company. Have interactions with other people. Build friendships. Lean back, take a deep breath and understand what’s going on around the table. Know the dynamics playing out and observe what’s happening. And of course, lift weights to build your body, it changes a lot when you…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:18 PM
6

Don’t be the clown.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:48 PM
2

Looks ok. Weirdly specific. Depends on the context tho I suppose.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:35 PM
2

So just because you are better looking (or think you are better looking) she should be into you? There are like 100 different things you could have done to turn her off. Looks get you foot into the door, but if you don’t vibe (calibrate) or lose frame / don’t take lead / aren’t confident etc. then your looks are pretty much worth nothing. And your „but... but... I look better“-post says a lot more about you than about her.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:37 AM
2

I think it’s fair to follow up after a date (if you feel like it), but in similar situations I‘ve also moved on if we didn’t connect and I didn’t think she was into me.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:28 PM
5

Keeping the options open.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:59 PM
4

Go out, talk to people, enjoy company of others and have a good time. Feel comfortable. And meditate I suppose
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:22 PM
-2

I‘d reply something along the lines of „too bad, would have like to get to know you. take care“.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:20 PM
4

Don’t take her mood swings serious. Women love emotion, good and bad. Men look for solutions when we feel bad, women enjoy feeling bad. If she‘s in an emotional state you should try to have sex with her. It’s like a PAT in football, and you‘ll do her a favor. Trying to be her lawyer, counselor, psychologist etc. is pretty much always a mistake. She doesn’t want to be helped (by you) and you’re not doing your frame any favors. Try to make fun of her, change her mind etc. but try not to go into HE…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:22 PM
1

It will probably get downvoted to oblivion, but in my experience a crossfit gym (one with good coaching) is a good place to start. You get to learn the basic lifts, exercise in groups (= motivation, cameraderie) and people are friendly and easy to talk to. Sure, you’ll have probably better gains if you do the hardcore lifting / bodybuilding routine, but if you don’t have experience I don’t believe that’s the starting point for you. And operating my own gym I have seen first hand what people can …
/r/askTRP04/01/21 09:05 PM
2

If you’re losing hair and it’s an issue for you just shave it. Or buzz it or whatever. But there are a few things where it’s better to have zero than half.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:16 PM
2

yes, it’s a book.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 09:12 PM
3

Start with why // Find your why
/r/askTRP25/12/20 08:23 PM
5

Yes, you are of course absolutely right. Thought about it a lot in hindsight. It was a glorious circle of getting more positive attention because I was able to be myself without thinking of my hair in the back of my head (and looking better with shaved hair. For some things it's better to have 0 than half. IMO.). And that enabled me to open up more and getting even more attention etc. Because it was always in the back of my head. Literally nobody said anything negative about the shaved head, but…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:14 PM
19

Had the same issue. It was always on my subconsciousness and did not do me any favors, both mentally and with the ladies. In the 2 months after I shaved it I got hit on by chicks more than combined the first 33 years of my life. Never looked back.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:12 PM
5

Forget women and start lifting.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:47 AM
9

Sometimes taking a second to respond is being more respected than making a stupid joke that moves the conversation nowhere and kills off the vibe. Know where you want a conversation to go and take control.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:25 PM
7

"I believe in equality"
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:57 PM
4

But the first law of economics is also "there is no such thing as a free lunch".
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 12:32 PM
4

You don't know that.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:49 PM
2

It sounds like he is talking about 20 - 40 lb more than you weigh.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:42 PM
1

It basically just comes down to feeling good about yourself. That's why often the answer in this sub is "lift weights". It raises your SMV, which gives you more female attention, which in turn makes you feel good about yourself and boosts your confidence. It's a glorious circle. There is no shortcut to lifting. Once your SMV starts raising you will know, don't stop before that. Or after that. You'll learn to laugh in their face if it doesn't go your way and NGAF, because there are 10 more like t…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:26 PM
1

And then, if she sits next to you, say "hi" and see what happens. Don't say anything retarded / autistic / sexual. If you like what you see ask for her number. But make sure you know her age...!
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:06 PM
1

Just smile at her to induce her to approach you. If someone is into you, you'll know and they'll try and make it happen. It's as easy as that. Just play it cool.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:57 PM
2

Fair enough, but you're also red pill aware. You're the 1%. In my experience, even alphas, who instinctively use red pill knowledge but are unaware of the trp ideas / terminology, haven't wrapped their mind completely around it if you just spring those ideas on them. It's just autistic / badly calibrated if you go full "AWALT tirade" on non-red pilled people without reframing it for their POV. And that's easiest by pointing out selective examples. There are a few red pill ideas which are easy to…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:02 AM
5

It's more like "women will choose the highest status male they can get, regardless of past history with other men".
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 07:43 AM
32

Lifting gives you a purpose/goal. SMV increases if done properly, which makes life easier in general. But you can't unplug them, they need to find out themselves.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 07:21 AM
3

Whatever you do, don't make general statements such as "all women do...". For people I want to make more aware I usually go for the "I know you can't say that for everybody, but have you noticed that some women...?" or I point out specific examples that I know they have seen as well. They don't have your experience and have another truth than you do.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:07 AM
17

Top right, then "community info"
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:31 PM
1

I agree, but it's not what the TRP main sub description says what it is about.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 08:21 PM
3

How do you "find" such a video!?
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:34 PM
15

That's a long list, make sure to prioritize and implement one after another. People don't just reinvent themselves by setting new goals for routines, or else everybody would do it. If you want to change your habits fundamentally, I'd recomment reading (listening) "the power of habit".
/r/askTRP03/04/19 01:55 AM
2

Don't ask where she wants to go, tell her!
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:17 AM
5

https://www.google.com/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2011/09/12/the-myth-of-the-lonely-old-man/amp/
/r/askTRP24/03/19 05:40 PM
32

This. They don't care about a gf, they just want to know if you can pull girls.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 05:36 PM
26

Don't post on reddit about killing someone, what's wrong with you?!
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:29 PM
1

The audio books are pretty well done.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:06 PM
1

I like it because it has an epic feel to it, 2'000 named characters who are often recurring, many different POV and I really enjoy the foreshadowing and slow story telling. However, it only really gets interesting in book 3 imo. It's probably not what you are looking for because it has sort of a gender reversal in which women have all the power since only they can safely channel magic. Almost all women are written similarly and have either anger issues or think they are better than men. My frien…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:39 PM
1

I love the wheel of time, but I doubt it's what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:24 PM
4

All nice guys are beta, but not all betas are nice guys.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:14 PM
1

It doesn't even matter why she changed (probably branch swing attempt or validation seeking, AWALT). You need to ask yourself if (1) you own her anything (most often this is a strong no), if (2) you enjoy spending time with here (toxic, nope) and if (3) she helps advance your mission (hell no). Cut her loose.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 12:51 AM
2

Cut toxic people out. Let her drown.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 12:40 AM
5

Completely agree. You could have broken up over less (e.g. Her lying to you and for sure if she cheated on you!).
/r/askTRP15/12/18 08:55 PM
6

Make sure you don't get doxxed.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:59 AM
1

You could try a crossfit box with a good community.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 11:52 AM
2

I think that tells you all you need to know.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:30 AM
1

I know it's chliché, but do you lift? It helps a lot with confidence and how other people view (respect) you.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:16 AM
4

Agree. Just say you weren't invited. Nice pressure flip (if there is no reason not to invite you).
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:20 PM
2

What are red pill movies though?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:54 PM
9

Same with crazy stupid love, hated the ending.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:52 PM
1

Lots of good answers, won't go into the philosophical. As for meeting new people, try a crossfit with a good community. Met some of my best friends like that.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:54 PM
1

Are you eating breakfast? I'm experiencing a huge difference since I've bought a nutribullet (mixer) and started eating proper breakfast. Less hungry all day, less temptation to eat a shitty snack etc. Just remember that your health (like finance) is the accumulation of your small everyday decisions.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:21 AM
10

Why are you texting in the gym?!
/r/askTRP07/07/18 10:37 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:45 PM
1

I agree, do your homework snd find a good coach. But the homework will show that the whole growth plate issue is a myth from the 80s. If supervised by a good coach (which it should be), lifting for kids is perfectly fine.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 03:38 AM
1

Why do you care? She's history!
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:08 PM
1

This. There will always be someone more alpha. And someone less.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:43 AM
16

My point is: let's say the 20% alphas get 80% of the pussy and the 80% betas share 20% of the pussy. This also means that all the women share the 20% alphas (simplifying here). So if someone makes the statement that the average chicks fuck more than the alphas then I have to ask: who are they fucking? Each other?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:57 AM
19

Game theory-wise this doesn't make sense at all.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:28 AM
17

How did she get the pictures though?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:12 PM
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