Imwaymoreflythanyou Archive

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2	Are fat man the only hope for women that want a man that does not cheat? Is this satire lol? Sure an obese person may have less opportunities to cheat but would you rather have someone who doesn’t cheat purely because nobody else wants them or someone who doesn’t cheat because they’re loyal and committed to you only? Also plenty of men don’t cheat. You need to meet better people, if you want to dispute this. You just don’t hear about these non cheating men cos as a species we seem to focus on negatives and ignore positives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/21 01:53 PM
9	Is it OK for a man to ask a woman he's dating for emotional support? In theory yes, in practice no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/21 09:23 AM
6	You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating Climate Okay I guess I wasn’t clear. I’m referring to the illusion of endless options that social media gives. Eg being able to see limitless accounts of guys on Instagram or dating apps. As well as the fact travelling is easier. Hope that makes more sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 08:05 PM
5	You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating Climate Yeah it’s very dependant on whether you’re a man or a woman if this is actually a good thing on a personal basis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 12:52 PM
13	You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating Climate I said it’s a probably a great thing for women and not so great for men. So whether or not it’s bad is entirely subjective. Women have the most autonomy they’ve ever had and can pick a partner out of endless options at will so by that metric it’s great for the majority of them. Men now are competing with the aforementioned endless options women have so it’s going to get harder and the bar is going to keep rising. Also they’re competing financially in the work place with more women now and we all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 12:50 PM
27	You May Not Have Been Born in the Current Dating Climate This is the first genuinely interesting/ thought provoking and actually original take I’ve seen on this sub for a long while lol. Honestly when I think about it, a LOT of our parents (ie people age 20+) would absolutely not have got together in today’s world. So much has changed and standards have changed (probably a great thing for women and not so great for men). The illusion of endless options technology and social media have provided us are probably the biggest thing to cause this. I often s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 11:03 AM
2	Hypothetical Discussion: How would you imagine a more matriarchal society functioning? What are some aspects of such a society that you as women have always dreamed would be true? I hear you, I really do. But maths is one of the best ways to teach these complex types of logical problems. Personally I think we should be trying to get more kids into math as it is healthy for their development. I get not everybody likes maths (even I hated doing it a lot of the time) but I still value it highly as It and science helped to build my logical/problem solving mind which is in my opinion something we should all want. Anyways, I guess this is a good example of the general trend whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 04:39 PM
7	Hypothetical Discussion: How would you imagine a more matriarchal society functioning? What are some aspects of such a society that you as women have always dreamed would be true? So many people need to understand that we don’t learn all these things in maths because we’re all going to use them. We learn them because they teach us critical thinking and problem solving skills that are transferable in many high level jobs. For eg: It’s not like everybody with a math degree becomes a mathematician. The critical thinking skills they gain enable them to adapt to so many high level jobs that require a strong mathematical mind. They teach you and get your mind familiar wit solvi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 08:41 AM
7	Do small women even like small guys? Your first mistake was trying to understand lmao. Taller is just more attractive to the vast majority of women. Doesn’t mean you won’t find the few that don’t mind, just gotta look harder I guess.	/r/seduction	20/09/21 06:05 PM
1	Lets discuss another datingoverthirty post "Anyone struggle with dating because it's too stressful and you're too comfortable alone?" Yes I wasn’t trying to single out women it’s just I can’t speak about men as I don’t seek that with men so I wouldn’t know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 04:27 PM
25	Lets discuss another datingoverthirty post "Anyone struggle with dating because it's too stressful and you're too comfortable alone?" I think a lot of women don’t understand how draining you can be in a general sense. Even if we like you. It’s just very mentally and physically draining (particularly for us more introverted guys) to have constant contact and communication that’s centred around keeping you happy/entertained/attracted etc. When you add our often draining work lives to this there’s just not much energy left to go around even if we do desire a relationship. This might help to explain some of your experiences with m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 07:31 AM
1	Why do women prefer kinky sex outside of their LTR? My bad, should have read the post properly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 11:11 PM
7	Can someone explain this behaviour? Women tend to be into you drunk then sober up and feel the exact opposite, don’t take it to heart. Also she could just be busy tbh.	/r/seduction	19/09/21 05:03 PM
3	Do you think there is too much discussion and that people make a simple thing complicated? People over analyse and over think because of failure which then becomes a self fuelling cycle. But the root is because they failed miserably in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 04:07 PM
3	Ugly - hot people Definitely, and it’s unfortunate. (Some) people put way too much value on what everyone else wants/thinks/desires rather than paying attention to what they want/think/desire. It’s a logical social protocol we have that often gets taken to counter productive, illogical extremes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 05:01 PM
24	Ugly - hot people Sounds like you have an internal conflict where you believe you shouldn’t be attracted to someone that others aren’t attracted to. I guess there’s some logic to this in a “what am I not seeing that everyone else is” sense. A feeling of “I must be wrong”. However, I think this is a horrible way of thinking about attraction. Shouldn’t think there has TO be something wrong if you’re attracted to someone and others aren’t. They’re attractive to you and it’s that simple. Who cares what other people a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/21 01:59 PM
5	The best situations happen when they choose you Literally all the best relationships I’ve had with women, be it friendship or romantic, have all been when they’ve gone out of their way to seek me out for whatever reason. I have been wondering why this is a consistent trend and I’m unsure why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 07:17 AM
4	List CLEAR Examples of Flirting and other Indicators of Interest I’m not gonna lie there’s been plenty of women throughout my late teen and adult life that have done this and had zero interest in me romantically lol. It doesn’t mean shit unfortunately. I think women will naturally do this if they just get on with you/ are comfortable around you/ and you make them laugh. Still might have zero actual romantic attraction to you. This is just how women interact even with their female friends. Doesn’t mean they’re attracted to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 03:21 AM
2	Would you date a woman you met at work? And then bring your relationship politics to work and your work politics to your relationship? I’m cool lol. Work, home and relationship shouldn’t mix, with the exception of WFH but that’s a little different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/21 03:09 AM
7	[deleted by user] She’s keeping you as an option, a plan B, a fail safe. Just something women do as a backup plan. They play these types of games cos they know it maximises the amount of guys they have to revolve around them and give them attention/validation. Also from what you’ve said seems very much like she’s manipulating the fact she knows you like her, hence the flirting and constant mixed signals. They just get off on the attention you provide them with. I’d honestly abort the situation if you don’t want t…	/r/seduction	31/08/21 09:26 PM
2	There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner. I don’t disagree with much of what you’re saying but the reason people are having less kids earlier is mostly because women don’t want to have kids, they’re prioritising their career, personal wealth and fun earlier. That and kids costing so much to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 11:44 AM
4	Is it typical for women to avoid eye contact in public these days? Lol yeah I feel you but it’s all relative I guess. Same way someone from a war torn country who risks their life every time they go outside would feel safe af in an “rough” part of London for example. Individual feelings of safety are relative to the individuals life experiences.	/r/seduction	17/08/21 12:05 AM
12	Is it typical for women to avoid eye contact in public these days? I think in the modern world women in general don’t want any interactions or contact with men they don’t know. They avoid eye contact and general interaction cos they don’t feel safe. Male presence = potential threat to them. Also they could just be tired/in a rush/busy. It’s not personal they’re just taking action to avoid the worst. It is what it is and I’ve accepted it, I don’t blame them if they’ve been attacked before and stuff. That said occasionally women will initiate eye contact and smil…	/r/seduction	16/08/21 11:41 PM
1	Are the warlords who control Afghanistan alphas or betas? Lmao your reply is an infinitely better caption for this post than whatever OP was smoking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:27 PM
23	Are the warlords who control Afghanistan alphas or betas? What the hell is this post lol?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 04:19 PM
36	Online dating really is for a small pool of men Ah yes, A 6’7 average male lmao. Honestly man, if anything you are the exact small pool you’re describing. With your height: just work on your career, work out, practice self grooming and smile a lot. You’ll be ticking every single box.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 01:03 PM
4	Can Tall women and Short man come together ? That would require tall women to actually be attracted to or even notice short men lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 01:40 PM
1	I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation? I mean the fact you’re so good financially is in itself a major turn on for women, you’ve done the hard part essentially.	/r/seduction	28/07/21 01:13 PM
1	Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 10:22 PM
2	Do women actually sexually assault & harass men as much as men to women? I had a girl unbutton my shirt and grope my chest and I sat there uncomfortable af not really knowing what to do lol. I guess I could have just moved away but I was semi in shock at how bold she was about it, weird experience, didn’t want or enjoy it. Also had a girl grab my balls as I walked past her in the club, which for starters hurt and she just walked past laughing with her friends as I was, again left confused. I’m not even an attractive guy and this type of thing happened. It happens a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 08:53 AM
2	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? You’re looking at this in such a negative way which is really intriguing. Not even saying I don’t see where you’re coming from cos I do. With such a negative mindset I can see why you’d assume guys who are attracted to those types of women are attracted for the wrong reasons. Try to remember that reasons for attraction can range, don’t always jump to the toxic reasons. I can only speak for myself though: I’m attracted to women who don’t entirely fit in with the masses of generic women. The type …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 10:17 PM
1	Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested. I don’t think any woman would want to be friends with me to begin with if I wasn’t attracted to them. Without the attraction I’d most certainly come across as boring and uninteresting to them as I wouldn’t ever go out of my way to be funny/interesting/useful or to show my personality. They would never see that side of me or wouldn’t even notice my existence to begin with. The attraction from my part or theirs is what initially brings us together. Also I’m very introverted and am happy keeping my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 03:53 PM
2	Why is depression in men a turn off for women? I too have been the person before. This is the best response OP could have been given tbh, very well said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/21 05:14 AM
8	28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?) How does one go their entire adult life at 6’7 and not realise that women, you know, are REALLY attracted to that? Lmao. I’m truly astounded but also very happy for him. Better late than never.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:27 PM
3	Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows! A lot of western women don’t really want children anymore, they want degrees and careers and their own personal wealth & status. Only until later in life they maybe decide to marry and have children as children jeopardise all of the aforementioned things they desire. Add to this the growing cost of life itself, such as living costs, childcare etc. Western society’s value of Individualism, self, self sufficiency, working, education and careers has skyrocketed. Of course over time this will lead t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 10:43 AM
38	What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad? “Be yourself” Like thanks for advice but I’ve been myself and it’s a one way ticket to friendzone. What did work was being forward, confident, extroverted, assertive and dominant. Anyone that actually wants to help you and not be delicate with your ego will tell you this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 01:22 PM