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You can approach girls with your friends that you meet at the weekend. Its also a team activity that you can do. You can reduce the time you spend with your family, the time you spend alone. Work less time as a freelancer. You can do daygame and online game at the sporadic hours you are off in the daytime. ​
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:33 PM
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Make a list of a bunch of things that you are afraid to do even if you are afraid a little bit doing them but you want to do them and then make a plan for each thing on how to gradually achieve doing that. In other words be getting outside of your comfort zone in each area of your life everyday. I think this is one of the best ways to improve yourself and become powerful as a person and have more fun in general in your life.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:17 PM
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You do a slow sexual escalation where you can easily see at each point how the girl feels, if she is comfortable or not and act accordingly by either backing off a little to make her comfortable or to move forward. Some examples are here and here.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:10 PM
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Their knee/thing area? ​ This is how women are in these situations. We men do the same when approaching girls. How many times did you see a guy say he's gonna approach many girls tonight and then you go out and he completely changes and does not do anything. With women fear can come up when things get sexual. So when she freezes up stop the kino, make her feel good and comfortable with your body language and the things you say and then do kino again but less and lighter. Also do kino lighter and…
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:01 PM
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When you get married, will you do the party in a hotel or at the beach?
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:59 PM
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Yes, girls like a slow escalation, its almost never good to say everything from the beginning. Going for a drink before she leaves town and then escalating slowly would be best.
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:50 PM
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You can un-condition your social conditioning by doing a meditations everyday for 30 minutes, visualizing these negative past experiences you mentioned and being with the emotions that will come up for a few minutes. Not trying to change or avoid these emotions that come up but staying with them and feeling them. Feeling them rather than running away from them. This way the negative emotional charge that these past experiences evoke in you will get reduced which will make you more comfortable ap…
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:15 PM
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It's good to be talking to more girls than one so your caring if a girl likes you or not is less.
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:54 PM
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Every 5 or 10 minutes on the "date" tell her something that shows that you like her. Start with something very innocent and gradually move it to more sexual. I like this blouse that you are wearing.. anyway..so what did you do today? Your hair looks nice, what shampoo do you use? haha I never noticed until this moment you are actually very sexy.. but anyway.. how is the food? etc.
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:48 PM
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Going for a walk can also be a date.
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:38 PM
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Always sit next to a girl not opposite. If you already did the mistake just go sit next to her. If she is about to go sit tell her "sit here" and point next to you. Never sit like this Sit like this A good routine to create sexual tension is here. Im not sure if you need to log in there to view the routine though.
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:30 PM
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You can be over 30 and do that. Here is a guy over 30 gaming girls outside campus and being very successful with it.
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:03 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/seduction19/09/18 02:53 PM
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You can be more stealthy. You can write down on a piece of paper or a card: I think you are cute. Would you like to be friends? Facebook name: And give her also a pen. This is not being a pussy. This is being stealthy in a an environment where you want to be unnoticed. The other approach would be to talk to her very socially without hitting on her and then at the end exchange facebook/instagram or do the card thing or show her a text on your phone. And by the way fear of people watching is also …
/r/seduction19/09/18 02:09 PM
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It is the fear of rejection. It's always the fear of rejection. If it wasnt then you would always ask for the number and then do the first thing that would come to your mind even if it was something not considered the best thing to do. Knowing what to do will reduce fear and doing it often will reduce fear. Think of a few things to do in these situations and then do them often.
/r/seduction19/09/18 12:24 PM
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This is considered in psychology a trauma. You can release that trauma by doing a meditation for 30 minutes every day. You could be visualizing yourself and the things that you consider unattractive about you and also visualize all the times that you've been bullied and then be with the sensations and emotions that come up for a few minutes. Not trying to change or avoid these emotions that come up but staying with them and feeling them. Feeling them rather than running away from them. This way …
/r/seduction19/09/18 12:12 PM
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Fearing fear is also fear. By being with that emotion rather than running away from it fear becomes excitement and joy. Always go towards fear in your everyday life in small steps. Always going outside of your comfort zone in all areas of your life. Then rather than having the habit of trying to avoid things that create fear and then the fear of fear you will be looking forward to doing all these new exciting things.
/r/seduction19/09/18 12:00 PM
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Go somewhere with her after class for a drink and game her for an hour and see what happens
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:50 AM
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Here is an amazing video on How To Overcome Porn Addiction by the amazing Teal Swan. But take it slow, i know i have mentioned many things that you can do in the other comment.
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:38 AM
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The thing you mentioned that you are scared. You could do some meditations by visualizing these scenarios that scare you and being with the emotions for a few minutes. Not trying to change or avoid these emotions that come up but staying with them and feeling them. Feeling them rather than running away from them. This way the negative emotional charge that this type of scenarios evoke in you will get reduced. You can add also some affirmations at the end of each meditation session like: Going to…
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:28 AM
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RSDMax uploaded a video this week on this topic here
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:17 AM
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Friends sometimes are not good at giving feedback. On this website they have a service where girls give feedback to you Girls Give Feedback A good video on how to like your appearance is this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYJCDYNsL6A
/r/seduction19/09/18 11:06 AM
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Learn game. Practice it often. Get more friends. Join a pua group and find wingmen and go out with them often. Go to meetups on meetup.com . Have sex with many girls that you don't find attractive to practice. Get some more information about pickup from websites like: rsdnation.com creativepickup.com Youtube.com/pickup
/r/seduction19/09/18 10:07 AM
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Handle it like a normal test that girls give to see your reaction. Your frame could be: She likes me and she is testing me to see if I'm confident. So do these girls like you that say that? Some do and some don't. Learn good game and get the girls that like you. One popular pua that plays Ginger Game is Tyler from RSD https://www.youtube.com/user/RSDTyler
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:57 AM
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Doing some meditations on it by visualizing these scenarios and being with the emotions for a few minutes. Not trying to change or avoid these emotions that come up but staying with them and feeling them. Feeling them rather than running away from them. This way the negative emotional charge that this type of scenarios evoke in you will get reduced. You can add also some affirmations at the end of each meditation session like: Chatting with the boyfriend, family and friends is a lot of fun. Boyf…
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:47 AM
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