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Weirdly enough, just being with my girl friends has gotten me better with girls. Before I used to not be able to talk to them. But now I’m more easily able to flirt, tease, and touch girls. It’s like practice but with no pressure because you’re just friends.
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:29 PM
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You’re right. I want an LTR because of caring, loyalty, and affection. I don’t think I can be like you guys, no matter how hard I try. And it’s sucks, a lot
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:35 AM
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I got the protagonist enfj. Dude, reading about it makes me think “holy shit, this is me!”
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:25 AM
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Yeah. I guess being 18 and all, I’m still trying to figure out who I am and how to succeed
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:53 PM
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Thanks. That’s very kind of you. The red pill teaches some good stuff, but I don’t think I’m gonna utilize everything. I just gotta figure out who I am
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:52 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:11 PM
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Tinder isn’t really for me. I’m short and tinder is very superficial. But, I do get what you’re saying.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:11 PM
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Dude you literally took the words right out of my head. I’m not the type of dude to spin plates either. I honestly just wanna know how to handle myself with the right girl and not be beta as fuck when I find her. Things like frame and working out and other things that red pill preaches is important. But some things I just don’t like
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:53 PM
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Yeah you’re right. Obviously, I’m still gonna be working on myself and improving. But I’ve gotten to the point where I am happy with my life and I do love myself. There’s no point fixing what isn’t broken, right?
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:46 PM
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I’ve already read it. Now it’s up to me to actually approach girls and try to flirt. One of the main reasons why I didn’t do it at first is because I thought girls would automatically not like me due to my height (I’m 5’5). I got over that by simply choosing not to think about it. I’m also pretty damn scared of rejection.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:28 PM
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I’m not gonna get all into sappy backstory but being unconfident and other past trauma is why I’ve never really tried talking to girls before. Honestly, I’m pretty damn behind on experience with them
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:25 PM
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Damn you’re quick to give up haha. I agree that red pill does have a lot of useful tools, I never said it didn’t nor did I say I wouldn’t use them.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:23 PM
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I have read the sidebar before. My impression of the sidebar on my first read through was that a lot of it was basically theory about “female nature”. Then the last parts of it got more into application like how to set goals,flirt, handle shit tests, etc. I guess I am kinda boring. I mean, it’s not like I party a lot or go absolutely crazy on weekends. Usually it’s just hanging out with friends, playing volleyball or swimming and shit like that. On weekdays it’s school, friends, gym, nothing too…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:20 PM
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How do you get preselection when no one is preselecting you? Very weird way for me to put it, but basically without any girl looking interested in me, no girls will be interested. How do you advance from the starting line?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 04:44 PM
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How? Can you read the comment I posted on this thread
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 11:43 PM
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As someone who’s 5’5, it’s not that simple. Having to live with the fact that people are better or more well liked/attractive/respected due to something that I can’t control is demoralizing. No amount of accepting is gonna make people respect me more or have girls see me as more attractive
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 11:10 PM
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Counterpoint: if you’re a loser in your local marketplace or live in a small town where reputation is hard to change (as I am) online dating opens you up to other more bigger markets where you can gain more access. Thus not giving you the feeling that you are trapped
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 02:37 PM
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I could but that’s not the point. I could easily where stilts or things of that nature but that’s just avoiding the problem
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:01 AM
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How does one stop caring about something that’s always staring them in the face?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 04:04 PM
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Cold approaching is scary and I’m not good at texting either. But now I’m just making excuses
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:44 PM
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No I’m not actually actively trying. I guess I just want it to kinda fall into my lap, but that’s a bit too unrealistic. I wish it could be like that but sadly I have to actually one day put myself out there. I wish it were easier. Also dude, you’re pretty jacked good job haha I guess I’m also insecure because of my friend. Whenever he talks about girls he’s getting, I either wanna wallow in self pity in a corner or strangle him. Although I do well to hide it
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:10 AM
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That’s true but also I’d rather not be a “Napoleon complex” type of person. Instead I choose to ignore it, or if I’m feeling risky I’ll laugh at myself as I crack jokes about my own shortness. It’s only some random times where I’ll get a bit insecure about it
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:04 PM
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Yeah measuring success by lay count is a bad habit of mine. Recently I realized that quarantine has given me such a bad victim mentality that it’s left me rather irresponsible, and wanting to blame the world. I’m trying hard to get out of that mindset. Usually height doesn’t bother me but sometimes the insecurity comes back. Today was one of those days yet I still dragged my ass to the gym. I’m still gonna finish all my homework for today and I’m still gonna go to work later. Maybe even meditate…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:49 PM
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So you talked about an SMV pie chart. I’m guessing that pie chart would be filled with shit like: a purpose, physique, game, frame, etc. Do I have that right?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:31 PM
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Usually I’m fine and it doesn’t bother me. But it’ll come back to bite me in the ass at random times
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:30 PM
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Well that’s reassuring.../s. Honestly though I think this comment is too incel like. I’m a mess with a disadvantage who has to get his shit together, but (no offense) I don’t wanna think like this
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:29 PM
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In order it’s 185 for 1 for bench (haven’t tried it in a while but I hit 160 5 x 5 pretty easily yesterday), 275 for 1 deadlift , and 225 for 5 squat I’m currently 146 lbs right after the gym. Today was deadlifting so I did 245 5x5 for 2 sets and then 225 for the last 3
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:28 PM
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I currently know wrestling and have done a couple months of boxing. I do wanna continue boxing but it fucks with my shoulders after a while. Maybe after covid I’ll go for another martial art
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:06 PM
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I never thought of SMV as a pie chart, it’s a very interesting way of looking at things. I’ll continue to work on myself. Right now I’m just trying to get out of a victim mentality that I built up during quarantine
/r/askTRP06/03/21 04:48 PM
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I’m trying to get big right now. I’m currently 150 lbs. but I’m 5’5. I’m no where near a giant, so how would that work out? Obviously I don’t let it get to me but I gotta admit it’s not the best situation to be in
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 12:04 AM
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I’m trying to get big right now. I’m currently 150 lbs. but I’m 5’5. I’m no where near a giant, so how would that work out? Obviously I don’t let it get to me but I gotta admit it’s not the best situation to be in
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 12:04 AM
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That’s actually a really great point. May I ask what you choose to prioritize, just for reference
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 11:29 PM
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What if you feel like there’s not enough time in the day? I find myself having to give up a few things on certain days due to lack of time or other circumstances
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 11:15 PM
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I don’t know. I’m quite young, but the life you described doesn’t really sound like a good one. I think the purpose of life is to enjoy it. If you’re grinding like that everyday, it just feels like hell. I think there has to be a balance between grinding and having fun. The life you described in your post sounds boring, tiring, exhausting.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 07:10 AM
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Thanks man! I’m still a bit young to grow a full on beard (I just turned 18) but I love lifting so I’ll be sure to stick with it (I’m 2 months in). I’m gonna keep improving myself
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 06:48 AM
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Reading this while being 5'5 kind of hurts haha. Anyway, that's not gonna stop me from continuing to lift and get stronger
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 06:38 AM
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Very true. The court system is awful. In fact, I’m watching my uncle get fucked over by the courts because of his awful wife right now. It’s really sad
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 05:19 PM
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I never said I would do it. The problem is that we have a very tough problem in society with no good answers. These kids need a good father figure, however due to circumstances many kids only get either a mother or a father
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 03:27 AM
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Any dad who leaves their child is scum
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 03:26 AM
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Here’s the problem though. If there isn’t guy’s like that who are willing to bite the bullet and take care of the kid, then the kid might become a mess. Kids need a father figure, and it sucks having a deadbeat dad who leaves. Having no father figure sucks and has horrible effects, trust me I know, which is why I plan to adopt when I’m way older.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 12:53 AM
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Man you talking about gen Z men like that really hurt haha. I’m 18 and life just seems so confusing that I sometimes have no idea what to do. I’m lifting and focusing on school but I’ve never been good with girls so I’ve only asked one out (and I got rejected by that one. Go figure since I decided to ask the hottest girl in school). I’ve never even really texted a girl before now that I think about it. Maybe I am like the way you describe gen z guys
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 07:57 AM
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I know you mean intimacy and I agree as my life is very lonely and tiring, but I wanted to make a funny joke by saying “oh no I’m gonna be robbed of my anime waifus” lol
/r/seduction17/11/20 02:40 AM
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Maybe it’s way too early in the morning, but reading this left me pissed and confused. That’s what I get for trying to understand bullshit that is impossible to understand
/r/seduction10/11/20 11:54 AM
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The thing is, I used to be in that group in school that gets invited to parties but I left that group. They weren’t real friends and I was hella depressed because of it. Thus, I don’t get invited to parties anymore. I don’t really go on insta too much but I have almost 400 followers and about 500 following with 2 posts. I don’t like social media. I like getting drunk and partying every once in a while but I wouldn’t leave my friend group who actually cares about me for that. I’d rather be a virg…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 05:52 AM
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how do you start texting a girl and what do you say? I would find it quite weird if I just started texting a girl out of nowhere. What's your perspective?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 02:53 AM
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Yo, I'm 17 and have a question, how can I bang girls? I've never exactly had anyone interested in me and I find it weird to just start texting a girl out of the blue. What advice would you give me? I don't know how to start texting nor do I even know what to talk about.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 02:52 AM
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Woah woah woah, I’m not that ugly haha
/r/seduction01/11/20 05:29 PM
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I just came out of oneitis. I don’t wanna be back there for a while. Also idk if a 10 with a good personality would even look at me haha
/r/seduction01/11/20 06:59 AM
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I'll avoid that time for as long as possible lol
/r/seduction01/11/20 06:38 AM
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LELOUCH LMAO you sold me on this post man! I'm saving this rn
/r/seduction01/11/20 06:35 AM
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a lot of them seem so hollow, like they don't have much depth in their personality and their being. Do you feel this as well?
/r/seduction01/11/20 06:33 AM
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Yo I just turned 18 last week and I really liked this post, I even saved it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 04:40 AM
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I have been lifting for about 1 month 6 days a week (I'm also a wrestler so I already had a strong foundation) , I'm not afraid to maintain eye contact at all, I practice hygiene, although I've always been bad with girls as in no girls have ever really shown interest in me
/r/TheRedPill27/10/20 01:09 AM
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When was this so called golden age? I’m pretty new and only 18 so I’m ignorant to the past of this community
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 11:13 PM
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Either way, I feel like it’s pretty common knowledge that the average post on this subreddit is pretty shitty. The only things a person should be reading are the top posts of all time, posts by specific vets/long time players here, and the sidebar. Am I wrong?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 11:11 PM
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Loving yourself is hard. Mainly when you have no one loving you back to prove that you do indeed have value and are desirable
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:45 AM
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Idk man, maybe it’s because I don’t feel good right now, but I can’t lie to myself like that. I know that no girl likes me. This sucks. Also girls are really hard to read and I just feel undesirable.
/r/seduction10/10/20 11:45 PM
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I can definitely go over my body weight with every one of the big lifts. The only one I know for sure is that I can bench 185 for 5. The other 2, I’m not sure of how high I can go because I haven’t tried testing my limits, so all I know is that it’s above 140 for squat and deadlift. Although, when I used to tire flip, the tires I worked with the most were 300 pounds and 450.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 06:02 PM
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I used to be all into calisthenics, boxing, wrestling, and doing sledgehammer and tire workouts. Now I’m going to an actual gym to lift (I always have my jacked friend help me out) and I have been doing the big lifts. I’m starting at a short and stocky 140 pounds and I get told that I look good. However, my goal is to gain weight until I hit about 155-160 Thankfully I moved away from the party crew and have a new group now
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 03:40 PM
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I’ll work on my bad verbal habits and stop saying sorry as much. Also, you say I should party but ever since I switched to a better but less popular friend group, I haven’t been invited to any parties. And honestly, it would be cool to have the hottest chick in my bed, but I know it would get old after a while
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 03:22 PM
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Sorry about that, I know you’re just trying to help me through this. I just started picking myself apart, it wasn’t your fault. 2 adjectives to describe myself ... let’s see, I guess I’m courageous (I usually do things that people wouldn’t do. People give me too much credit) and hardworking (people think I do these crazy things yet I don’t see it like that, I’m just normal). My friends and family, they find me fun and interesting. I’m too young for a bar and haven’t been to any social event in a…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 06:14 AM
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Thing is, I don’t really know if I am fun or interesting. I mean it really isn’t something quantifiable and I’d be biased. So I guess for now, and due to the bad head space I’m currently in, I’m gonna say no. I’m not interesting or fun and I care way too much about stupid shit like going to a subreddit to learn about the things that average guys should be able to do without being taught
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 05:38 AM
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Acting indifferent is about being stoic and keeping your cool. I guess the fun and interesting parts come in during interaction, with you being confident and charismatic with the teasing, kino, escalation, etc . Is that right?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 03:05 AM
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This is what I don’t understand though. If being too direct leads to this and being too indirect leads to nothing, then what should a person do? What’s the answer? Girls are just so damn confusing man. I don’t understand
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 02:22 AM
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I think it all stems from the fact that I have a bad habit of comparing myself. I look at guys who are taller than me and get bitter sometimes. I look at the people around my age or even younger who are these rich tiktok/social media stars with fame, riches, girls and everything and I feel lesser than them. I look at people who are better looking than me or have a better body and feel worse. I feel like I’m behind everyone else sometimes. Because of that, it makes me feel like I’m not good enoug…
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:09 AM
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It’s because inside I still feel like I’m not good enough or if I’m unworthy in some way. I gotta gain more confidence, forgive myself, and love myself
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:03 AM
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I think I’m gonna stop trying to make excuses before I write myself in a hole haha. I gotta just put myself out there more
/r/askTRP22/09/20 01:44 AM
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Well I’m not exactly an idiot, but when I was younger I was never good socially
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:38 AM
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After reading your post, it seems to speak more to the mid 20s to late 30s demographic. What do you think would be a “top 20% guy” for someone my age (17)? What do you think someone my age should be focused on? I’m curious to hear your response
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 11:09 PM
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Thanks for telling me. That makes me feel motivated to work hard and get to that level. Also, wdym by a good career? Because I’m still undecided but am thinking of being an engineer (specifically aerospace engineer since I love learning about space). Also I think I kinda understand what you mean by don’t be a goober. Just don’t be a bitch right? Be chill and exude good vibes, right?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:58 AM
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Well, you got me there. I’ve never grown up confident so doing stuff like this is really hard for me. But I will learn and try and get it right!
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:31 AM
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I mean, you can see why it’s easier in the moment to post right? Haha sorry bout that but I’ll keep it in mind next time
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:03 AM
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Thanks for being so supportive man. This shit is hard when you’ve got no father to teach you haha. Luckily I got you guys and some amazing family members. Sometimes I just get too insecure to approach. I think it’s because I see myself as not good enough sometimes. Like I’ll be walking and see a good looking girl and sometimes I’ll think “she’d probably want a taller guy. Or someone more jacked (I’m working on this one)”. It’s the height thing that gets to me the most since I can’t really change…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:36 PM
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The problem with smv is that I feel as if no matter how much I work on my features (I’ve got good facial features and a fit athletic body), my height will hold me back a good amount. I’m at a final height of 5’5 so I didn’t exactly get dealt the best card. I’ll admit, my height does make me feel insecure, sometimes to a small insignificant extent, and sometimes to a great extent.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:33 PM
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Yeah I really don’t know what I want. Some days I’m like “I want girls” and other days I’m like “eh, it doesn’t really matter, I’ll just workout and study.” I think the main thing is that I’m afraid of looking like an idiot. I think I’m also a bit afraid of rejection (even though I’ve already been rejected once). Inside me, I still feel a bit unworthy, like I’m not good enough. But I really want to be confident and love myself, that’s my main goal
/r/askTRP19/09/20 09:17 PM
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Haha I’ll admit, socially I’m not the brightest kid
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:56 PM
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I do agree, but the mute for a full year thing is kind of excessive haha. I didn’t see what I wrote as “victim puke”. It’s a legitimate questions from a confused lost teen haha. I already approached a girl once so I know I have it in me. Anyway, thanks for helping me out, even though you took quite a round about route
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:55 PM
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Damn I forgot how toxic this place was haha. Looks like I can’t ask a simple question these days. Seriously what’s the sub used for anyways if not to ask questions based on trp. Isn’t this exactly what this sub is for? Listen, I grew up an insecure kid, talking to people has always been hard for me but I’m trying. I’m not trying to justify not approaching, I want to know how to get over that fear and just fucking do it, without thought. Thank god you’re not the trp_cops
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:23 PM
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Ight, I tried kindness so now humbly F off
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:44 AM
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Now I can add this to the infinite list that TRP recommends haha. I’ll get around to it. Thank you
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:31 AM
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Thanks. Also with what you were saying about my response, Woujo told me that next time I should give a definite time and place (like you described). However, I knew she wasn’t interested so I wrote that follow up without really giving a fuck. No matter what I said, the same thing would have happened. I just wanted a direct answer from her and that’s what I got
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:30 AM
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I did it. I basically wrote it without giving a fuck because I knew she wasn’t interested. I just wanted a direct answer so I can fall asleep easier at night. I explained in another comment what happened
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:28 AM
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Not really haha. I knew she wasn’t interested either way so no matter what I said, I would have gotten the same response. Basically, I wrote the follow up because I was looking to fail. Anyway, may you please take this as an opportunity to teach me and explain to me the right way? Woujo told me that when you ask a girl out you gotta have a definite time and place, is there anything more you would like to add?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:26 AM
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I’ll give it a read but I’ve been up for way too long doing homework. Possibly tomorrow if I remember. Where can I find this anyway?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:06 AM
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That’s the plan
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:04 AM
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I took it bad at first, like really bad. Those first 4 days my self esteem was destroyed, I shut down and could eat, sleep, or exercise right. The first approach and rejection hit me hard. I’m doing better now that I have a straight answer. I’m motivated in life again and ready for the next time this happens
/r/askTRP15/09/20 03:09 AM
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Idk man Woujo told me he gives it 2 times before he nexts
/r/askTRP15/09/20 03:08 AM
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I followed up (it’s been 5 days since initial acting out. I snapped her saying “Hey you free anytime soon?”. She gave me this whole paragraph about how she was thinking about it and she just wants us to be friends and that she’s busy and that she appreciates me. So basically all bullshit. After that whole paragraph I answered “Ight that’s cool.” I’m happy I got a straight answer, now I’m just gonna go on with my night and onto the next girl when that time comes.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:38 AM
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I actually did do it in person haha! It was my first ever approach. I got so many compliments that day for having “balls of steel”
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:58 AM
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