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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 22 | Laws are so broken. | InSearchOfLearning | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/21 01:42 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Laws are so broken.No. Things were great for the first year and a half or so. Things literally started to change the day after our wedding. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/21 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Laws are so broken.I haven’t settled for anything. What she was awarded is a fraction of what she asked for. She wanted at least $3K per month indefinitely, wanted me to incur all of her debt, pay all of her legal fees, and agree to pay for reimbursing her mom for everything she has helped her with. What the judge decided was as he put it “a fair compromise.” The idea of my consent to her moving was never even brought up by the judge. When my lawyer asked for what I requested, 45 overnights during the summer and 1… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/21 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Laws are so broken.Thank you. Anything helps. Food is a luxury at this point. Since they’re still living in the house I’m paying for, I get to watch as my wife and her mom go out and pick up dinner or stay in and make dinner intentionally for everyone except me. If there are leftovers, the make sure to throw them away before I can get to them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/21 02:16 AM |
| 10 | Laws are so broken.Looking back, there’s really no really to get married legally that has any advantage for a man/dad/higher earner. You get get together with someone, you can have children, you can name them your emergency contact, put them in a will or give them power of attorney to make choices for you, marriage never has to (or should) enter the picture. Honestly, it’s an outdated concept that needs to go the way of the dodo. If marriage is to stick around, it needs to hold to more legal authority than giving … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/21 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Laws are so broken.$3,000 for the first month (96% of my take home pay) then it drops to $1,800 per month (52% of my take home pay) and stays at that rate until the divorce is finalized. Last I was told is that if we need to go to trial, we won’t get in front of a judge until spring of 2022. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 6 | Laws are so broken.I’m in Washington. I hired the lawyer that was supposedly the best in the county. She wouldn’t respond until 10 days later on average and never seemed to have time to talk with me. 80% of my conversations were with the paralegals who always had to keep reminding me that they’re not allowed to give legal advice but if I’d like to schedule a phone appointment with the lawyer I could do so the week after next. Finally I sent the lawyer an email expressing my disappointment with her representation a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/21 01:54 AM |
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