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She really harakiri'd at the end there when she says she'll settle for a sexting buddy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/20 02:51 PM
2

Damn 911 I want to report a homicide
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/19 06:50 PM
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Whether you are creepy 85% of the time comes down to if she's attracted to you.
/r/seduction18/04/17 09:47 PM
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Yup. This same thing basically happened to me yesterday. Wife and I go to watch her HB9 friend get her doctorate. I hadn't really talked to her before, we have some good conversation in the car, I'm holding her friend's attention and eye contact over lunch. Before you know it, my wife is basically all over me in front of her friend and we fucked last night and this morning, her enthusiasm as obvious as her mate-guarding.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 05:04 PM
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Too much rationalization. Wouldn't even go this far
/r/askTRP16/03/16 11:44 PM
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As someone who just got hired for a FT benefited position, and went through two interviews, the biggest confidence comes from OI. If you think the company needs you as much as you need them, you're putting yourself on an even keel, certainly helped me remember that none of this is life and death, it's a job.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 09:27 PM
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Keep doing what you do Russian. Some of these comments reek of beta bullshit. You take a class, have a story to pass along, we gain knowledge, and some people choose to crap on you? Forget that, live your life. Honestly sounds like clucking hens monitoring each others' movements. Pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:17 PM
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Damn that hamster sure is fast....
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 04:43 PM
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I realize I may attempt to grasp English too tightly for the internet. She feels like she is YOUR friend. I didn't say being hers. Your frame is showing...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 11:08 PM
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You should look at this as a potential bonding activity: insist on doing it for her. You get what you want and it only increases your bond, more sexy time etc...
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 09:03 PM
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Eddie Griffin, one of the greats. Also on a great album, The Chronic 2001
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:25 AM
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No. Love is a part of life, not life itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 12:23 AM
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Don't shit where you eat. You enjoyed her, now move on. Workplace romance is either all good or all bad, which one do you think this will be? Hint: not all good. Someone fell into your lap, just enjoy it til it's over.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 10:42 PM
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I know this is going to sound hella RP and typical, but bro, do you even lift? Seriously, you need a strong body to contain the emotions. Romance is for the strong; I'm married and I still feel the physical weakness at times. As others have said, displays of weakness are to be avoided at all costs.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:05 PM
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My advice: low and slow, play the long game. Insist on massaging her back or shoulders next period. Work on getting her used to your touch while she is under the weather. If she refuses all physical contact, that's time to break that nonsense. I couldn't tolerate my wife if she was untouchable a quarter of our life together. Sex may not come or even a bj for a long time but build something.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 11:01 PM
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NEXT. No exceptions.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 01:57 AM
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Remember, you're a stone, she's the ocean that crashes on you. Maintain frame at all times.......when it comes to emotions always do less.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 07:43 PM
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Not upset, just a bad sign of the feminization of our culture at large. It was the Super Bowl, after all. That's a lot of eyeballs.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 05:50 AM
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The Nationwide commercial where the kid drowned was horrible, as was the one where Sarah Silverman apologized to the pregnant mom because it was a boy.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 05:48 AM
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Eye contact is a huge mode of communication for my wife and me. When we first started dating, on several occasions, we made eye contact in silence for several hours; trippy experience to say the least. Currently, its a huge indication of the strength of our marriage. Also, eye contact is a basic bonding mechanism between people, much more so then in relationships. It's like you're forcing the other person to take you seriously.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 02:00 AM
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All that considered, MOVE BACK IN. It's not just your wife but your family. Reclaim it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 04:42 AM
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If you're going to give her more time to grow up and act like an adult, then maintain frame, and wait it out. She'll look back at her behavior and be sorry, but only if you keep doing what you have been doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 04:25 AM
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Hard to be passive while fighting. Spar, box, find a martial art you like.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:14 AM
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Chris Rock is not a beta. Please pretend you've actually read something or watched enough of something to make an opinion. This post is just noise
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 12:31 AM
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Here's how to reconcile these ideas: when you remove affection when she denies sex, the outcome independence comes from your subsequent attitude. Focus on the other areas of your life, and really go after them. Let yourself forget about her for awhile and do your own thing. If you keep the focus on yourself, and what you're doing to improve your life, she should come around. If she doesn't, then you're primed to get out there and do better, with your improved self and new attitude, which adds a …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/14 04:40 AM
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Honestly if you're a guy and you're not with some chick anymore, it shouldn't matter who is with her after. I'd say roll with it, unless you know or suspect she's just using you to get at the exes.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:52 AM
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What I'm about to say is a running joke, but sounds like it actually may apply: do you lift? Strengthening your frame starts with the body.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 02:18 AM
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The bigger the city, the less online dating should even be part of your game. Get the hell out there and remove the buffer between you and what you're after.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 10:48 PM
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I agree with Professor, I stopped caring so much about my wife's pleasure in bed and what do ya know? She comes more easily and submits more than ever. Other factors involved but take her and use her a little bit. Not abuse, just use.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 10:27 PM
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Yeah the tests will never end, because I have to live my life, and there are some truly gorgeous women in life, and all of them but one are not my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/14 10:07 PM
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Yeah big time/energy gap between asking a girl about herself at the start and getting her on the hook. You have to prop yourself up enough in her mind for her to miss you when you're gone. You're worried about getting in too close early on. Keep it fun and moving forward. Take charge, because it's much easier to evaluate the playing field when you're doing what you can to set it. Think of your pickups as actual pickups, like in your car. Do you ever want someone else to drive your car? Take her …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 09:13 PM
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Yeah but then you start getting into emotional damages, civil penalties.....if her lawyer can establish the idea that he wantonly disregarded her and her child, he could be in trouble. Plus this is a UK case, and their family services and social laws are more prohibitive than US laws.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 09:03 PM
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Seriously. This is disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:07 AM
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This is not just for talking to women. In general, it is better to command than inquire for reasons stated by other comments.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:19 AM
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Monk mode will be good for you. Stay on it
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:09 AM
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Next. Meaning no further contact. Value your time man! I would say it's occasionally OK to give her a second chance, but not if she "forgot". Whether you or she knows it, this is a massive shit test that you fail by being available.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:02 AM
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Every city, just by populations being in the millions, has potential. Gotta put yourself out there
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:06 AM
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You: What are you in the mood for? Let me stop you right there. Gotta lead in that situation, she's frustrated because you're giving her the power. Take charge and just start driving somewhere. Chances are, once you're there, she's not going to disagree with your choice.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 02:47 AM
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You're probably right. I was kinda annoyed because it had been going on two hours and we hadn't yet done anything I actually planned to do. Next time, I'll try to remember the humor and "amused mastery", as another comment suggested.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:59 PM
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Swallow the red pill, and you will never ask a question like this again.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 03:11 AM
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Keep it up bro. By not feeding into her shit test, you're slowly building the dread. She'll eventually think you might bail due to your detachment, and act right.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 06:02 PM
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I suggest driving out of town to some venue to go practice. Go make a fool of yourself in front of people you won't see again. That way you can work through your rejection issues with little impact on your potential social circle near home. Also, take a class, anywhere, on anything. You need immersion in social situations.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:19 AM
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I gotta admit, the last couple weeks I've been shedding my "nice guy" little by little, but the slut comparison to nice guys is making me think about all the times I may have "slutted" myself out to make some unimportant female feel better. Wow
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:34 PM
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I don't know how he did it, but agree and amplify would be my preferred course. "Oh, so you're some type of player?" "Yeah, and I've got another date in 15 minutes, could we hurry this along?"
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:30 PM
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Spike is the alpha, and is prone to acting rather than talking. Chester talks way too much and is the beta. Moral of the story: just shut the fuck up and do it already.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:12 PM
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"When men are married to women who scream like you, they just wanna die sooner." Fucking priceless!
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:05 PM
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Me not doing the thing I want her to do will have zero impact on the situation. We're married so the dating game stuff doesn't apply as if she were just a plate.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:25 AM
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Imagine you punished your child for walking into the street for the first time. Just a stern warning, right? Now imagine they did it for the tenth time.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:30 PM
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What you don't seem to realize is that I am most certainly willing to risk the marriage.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:32 PM
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Yeah she has never cried to get her way with me, ever. If she cries, she feels it.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:31 PM
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I would agree with you, if I was gaming her up like a plate. She's my wife, and while my feelings may change on this red pill journey, for now, I want her to be somewhat informed.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:28 PM
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LOL. Nope, just real life over here
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 05:54 AM
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Bro, can you even read? I said....you know what? Never mind, cuz you're what's wrong with this and many other subs. You're so eager to join the conversation that you misread what was said in the first place. Stupid
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 04:25 AM
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Naw, not embellished. I was there. To your point about this potentially starting more drama, that's EXACTLY what I hope to bring to the surface, so we can test whether she can knock this shit off and be reasonable, or if my first marriage is a failure.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:22 AM
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I hear ya, but this is my forum as much as it is yours, and my story is unique. Felt like sharing and will continue to do so as long as I follow the sub rules.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:18 AM
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Yeah I was torn because we haven't had any touch now for 8 days, including her trip. You guys are right. I can be loving and accepting to her and carry out the punishment too.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:14 AM
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This is only about the tenth time she has failed to call on an overnight trip.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:12 AM
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Haha true. The grandmother is getting senile and needs our help, and we get helped by saving $$.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 12:32 AM
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Agreed, her tears felt like a good thing and a mini breakthrough.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 12:04 AM
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Changed the flair. Thanks for that. Yeah to you veterans this may not be a good post, but there's plenty of lurkers, like I was, who could use a real world example of how to take control of their relationship. I'm telling you, the mood and smile she gave me before I left today was priceless. There are many betas who want to assert themselves the way I did this week.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 11:25 PM
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You obviously misread my post. I said I have no reason to believe she has, she's not very good at hiding serious things like that.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 11:22 PM
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Couldn't happen. She needs my physical comfort, she's a woman. I maintain frame and remember I've gone a long time without affection, most men have some experience with this.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:34 PM
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Make no mistake, this was merely the tipping point. As I said, we've been together 9 years. Lots of history to make up for. Not a waste at all
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:26 PM
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I asked her today if she wanted to be a submissive wife. She eagerly said yes. I think she could be coming around.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:22 PM
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4M views in 2 days?! Not bad for a channel with 225 subs. Haha this is golden
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:42 PM
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Sounds like a chance to make a date. No one wants to spill their life story to just anyone, so if she's not interested in meeting, move on.
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