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| 0 | Picking up when you're married? | InTentsInHere | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 03:08 PM |
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| 2 | Men, please don't be like this guy at the clubAlso don't be like OP. You knew that guy would be pissed, you were acting like an entitled sleazeball. You should have got her number after making out a bit, then ducked. Now instead of the girl all you have is this shitty story where you unrighteously feel superior to the guy who (probably) took home the girl, probably at least had been as far you as dancing+making out with her (or further, which is why he claimed she was his gf), and if you see him again, an enemy because you were smug. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 07:58 PM |
| 12 | Ways I've Been Socially Conditioned> there aren't any attractive women over 35 Sure there are, I see them all the time. Maybe it's a matter of taste? | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 05:14 AM |
| 16 | A question for women: Is it off limits to approach you at the gym?That phrase gives me a hardo | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | The Only Opener You'll Ever Need For ANY Situationlol good point I think 50% was referring more to the initial reaction of disgust/okay, not the final boning | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | how to flirt with shy guy updateYour potential new bf is gonna want you to hoe out for him. You cool with that or do you think of him differently? | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be too intimidating?Wait, you want to be approached by women? I mean it's pretty much just being handsome and relaxed and social. Those are the minimum qualities for women to approach *you*. Otherwise you have to approach, and yes, you can be too intimidating with staring, no smiling, too rigid, etc. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | how to flirt with shy guy updateNo offense but you're going to mess with this guy's emotions if he finds out you're a big slut (your own words) with everyone else but him. Not saying be that way right away, but what I am saying is he deserves to enjoy that side of you too (at some point when you are both comfortable etc). | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | The Only Opener You'll Ever Need For ANY SituationIt is 3% if you're attractive, 50% for the rest of us | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 08:13 PM |
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| 4 | I feel clueless and usually the guys I like have somebody.This stuck out to me: "All those guys who are like a supervisor" Why do they have to be supervisors? You seem to have unusually high standards. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 01:48 PM |
| 9 | What do girls expect/ want a man to do?Are you sure it's the job and not how you feel about it? "It's not a problem unless it is." Next time you talk about your job, take the attitude you posted in the second half of your post: "Most office sissies wouldn't last 5 minutes doing some of the stuff I've done". Don't talk about it like it's a black mark on you, | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do PUAs not be breaking hearts left and right?Those girls chose to sleep with you, their mistake not yours. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 08:19 PM |
| 4 | How to act towards flaking girl you see IRL every day?If she enjoyed your company, then its time to make her miss you. Withdraw your attention but still be friendly when you happen to be around together. Don't try to put yourself in her orbit, in fact do the opposite. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Please help - flaked by 14 different girls in a ROWOne red flag to me is: why aren't you still seeing any of the girls you had before this dry streak? | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 8 | I'm starting to get that creeping feeling of entitlementWe don't get what we deserve in life, we get what we can take. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 03:44 AM |
| 0 | Getting over fear that someone's not single?Hot girls at the gym don't stare at guys. They aren't like men, who stare at girls in lust. We signal we like a girl (consciously or not) by staring at them. But girls don't fall in love immediately over looks like that. I mean there are exceptions, super handsome men, unless you are one of them, you have to build attraction by approaching. The girls can fuck whatever guy they want, so it's up to the guys to approach and build something more than basic physical attraction. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 03:40 AM |
| 0 | Getting over fear that someone's not single?Gyms are usually a very frustrating place to go if your goal is pickup or socializing. You'll go home beating yourself up, almost every time. How many gyms are in your area? Maybe you can get another gym where you actually work out, and ruin your reputation at this one with foiled attempts at pickup. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Getting over fear that someone's not single?If he approached you at the gym, chances are high he's single (unless it was long ago), or non-monogamous. Now, approaching at the gym is pretty tough for most guys, so if he did it once, and it went nowhere, chances are slim he'll do it again. Unless you stand around with no headphones staring and waiting for ten minutes. Then you'll look funny but maybe he'll get the clue. Otherwise, just talk to him. It's an honor for a guy to get approached at a gym. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Getting over fear that someone's not single?I don't really care about any of that at the gym. Starting up a conversation there is just... weird... like you know as soon as you do, all eyes on you. And I have had a time where a girl was super pissed off that I talked to her (oddly, not hitting on her, just seeing if she was done with a machine, she just standing there on her phone so). I have gotten conversations and numbers on the exercise bikes, but... I really should man up somehow and talk to more girls there. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Getting over fear that someone's not single?Why do you need to ask him out as the first thing you say? Instead, make some chit-chat. Ask him what he does in his spare time, etc, stuff that will reveal if he's in a relationship or not. "Oh I go to the movies alone" vs "I hang out with my girlfriend". Even if he goes to the movies alone, you can't be sure, so say, "Why wouldn't you go with your girlfriend?" etc. Once you are in the clear, ask if he'd like to get together sometime. I'm only saying this indirect approach because I'm assuming … | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on texting a girl again if she hasn't replied to your previous message ?Why are you asking if you can call? Say you're gonna call in X minutes, call. If she doesn't answer, tell her to give you a call back. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 11:26 PM |
| 20 | I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful.How about a playlist link? | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | If you run a good game on someone to manipulate them into becoming obsessed with/dependent you, do you have a right to complain if you decide it's annoying?No, but also the girls are half the equation, allowing themselves to fall for douchebags, or not vetting them, etc, so don't just blame men. And vice versa. Near everyone gets their heart broken by playing the victim at some point. | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Guys that go to bars alone, have you ever had success?Don't you and your friends have smartphones? Hard to believe you could really lose them nowadays. | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Swallow this.Definitely. I think if you live in an area with a lot of wealth inequality, you'll see that too: attractive women with wealthy unattractive men. Where I live it's fairly balanced so it's rare to see any wealthy unattractive men with hot women because the wealthy married young either before they were wealthy or high-school sweethearts. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Swallow this.I get pissed off because when I'm hitting up a hottie, as soon as a handsome guy stands near her, it's game over. Sure I have a lot of success but it comes at the cost of monumental amounts of failure. I do get a bit jealous of handsome friends who just have it so easy. Why wouldn't I want the same level of easy access to hot pussy? I have to try harder, and get less. It's unfair, and it sucks. And if I have to complain about it on a message board, and hurt some handsome fellas feelings, because… | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Swallow this.Maybe it's that men aren't as attractive as women, in general. So when you see a hot woman with a guy, you think he's not as good looking as her, but she's still with the upper echelon of good looking guys. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 04:43 PM |
| 10 | Swallow this.I am the exception, dude. I am great with women despite my looks and have a crazy weekend lined up with four (!!!!) dope chicks. But I have to earn it the hard way. Let's not pretend it's a level playing field where looks are irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 09:29 PM |
| 12 | Swallow this.Plenty? They are the exception, not the rule. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 09:13 PM |
| 4 | i dont know if i'm posting on the right place, is it turn on when a guy moan during sex ?Some phrases that work for me: "My dick feels great!" instead of "Your pussy feels great!" "Do you like my dick?" usually gets a response like "I love your dick!" By staying in your own POV you let her know she's giving you pleasure instead of too many validating/compliments thrown her way which can be a turn off, which is more like you're 'taking' pleasure from her. A subtle distinction. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Picking up when you're married?Damn this in an excellent response. Thank you. BTW I'm not cheating, wife is on board. I always carried my marriage as a liability and psychologically I'm handicapping myself a lot of the time. Like I'm always thinking "I have to hide this for as long as I can". But your advice is dope. I'm also impressed by your success in 1-2 years you have 4 steadies. Nice. I recently lost my main side and, while having an awesome wife to keep me from desperation, I'm still having a bruised ego from it. Becau… | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Picking up when you're married?Yep, she's cool with it. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)On the flip side, good looking men often elevate "game" and say "looks don't matter very much" because it would hurt their ego to admit their looks are helping girls overlook so many mistakes in game. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Does dancing at a club increase chance of hookupsProbably 1/20 daygame and 1/10 club | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being creepy.Don't look at a woman's body for more than a couple seconds, unless you're further in with her. Don't stare at her eyes until you're talking to her. Basically those two things make you creepy. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 11 | I massively screwed up my first ever approach - SummaryDon't ask what she's doing after work. Stalker alert. Ask if she wants to grab a drink sometime, or some variation of hanging out. Probably not coffee since shes a barista. Then trade numbers if she says yes. Alternatively just go with the goal of chit-chat. Find out some of her likes + hobbies. If you have similar interests then use that as a reason to hang out. Also it's hard to tell if a service worker is into you because it's their job to be nice and smile to costumers. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Does dancing at a club increase chance of hookupsTwo-thirds of my lays are from day-game, one-third from dancing with girls. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 10:55 PM |
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