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I liked your first point. I thought the same thing. OP's intern therapist was trying to argue the zebra in the horse barn. It's hard for me to conceive of the issue except through a lens of privilege, but I have friends who are disabled, and they've managed to find relationships and get married. Granted, they're smart, personable, talented people despite their limitations. But they're not scraping along on SSI, either. Then again, you're talking about prostitutes dealing with a clientele of disa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:22 PM
6

They made a movie trilogy about a guy so horny he stuck his dick in a pie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:09 PM
19

Meanwhile, 80% of adult men are fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:05 PM
4

Johnny No-Arms can hump a pillow. Nobody needs someone else to jerk them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:13 PM
9

Makes you think. If he ever had a male client who expected his wife to cook and clean and be a "tradwife" all day, would he jump in on that guy saying he was brainwashed by religion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:03 PM
6

Exactly. The dude can go be a sex worker for another guy, if he wants men's needs to get met. Oh, but he's not attracted to his customers? But neither are female sex workers, generally. Should female sex workers only do work for men they find attractive, then? Ugly dudes won't get laid again. So...we agree that women need to degrade their preference and consent in order for sexwork to benefit men.../Meangirls.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:54 PM
4

Women need to wake the hell up and realize that a marketing strategy to turn all women into two-bit hookers is not a winner for female empowerment. Want to test the theory? Start saying you want a site that turns all men into two-bit hookers. Developers, architects, project managers, vice presidents. Take off your pants and dance for a fiver. Then we'll screencap it and doxx you on LinkedIn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:59 PM
11

That's because he wants to come in peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:21 PM
12

Hahaha. They have all of the entitlement issues and none of the Paisley Park
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:19 PM
140

Might as well be named "Mommy Issues"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:54 PM
255

He's here to create relationships. So he doesn't see the point of demonstrating basic etiquette or fundamental interpersonal skills. What do those have to do with anything? NOW ONTO THE QUESTIONS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:54 PM
8

Thank you for describing that valuable process. So many of us have found ourselves in crappy relationships, wasting our effort on people who wouldn't reciprocate, and starving ourselves of that care. Rewarding yourself with self-care makes you feel like a million bucks. I've discovered that for myself. It's the absolute cure for pining after someone and waiting for them to give you a fraction of the same energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:28 PM
11

"Why put in the work of being a sexy lawyer or software developer making 6 figures, when you can be a two bit hooker and make $50?" OnlyFans Logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:22 PM
71

Ouch. That's terrible. I dated a guy who dumped me to attempt to level up in the "girlfriend as visual accessory" department. He got a DUI on his next date, and she had to bail him out. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:12 PM
6

You can't tell how you're acting right now? I wasn't disputing your standards. I was telling you to have a little class about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:05 PM
74

He's even trying to dictate what size feet she has. Like what, Prequel Santa? Can you even see your feet? Where the fuck are you taking anybody that they need "formal" attire, anyway. Olive Garden? Because they have cloth napkins and don't sell pulltabs there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:50 PM
8

That's because they're sniffing the opiate of the time when that was the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:04 PM
12

Welp, you heard it from the horse's mouth, ladies. You can either have: A good job A good education Friends and family Your own money Even pets who love you OR, you can have a man MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:58 PM
2

MBTI is astrology for men. Every single one of them is convinced they're INTJ masterminds, even if they cashier at TJ Maxx and the biggest mastery they've managed is Halo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:44 PM
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Do the opposite. Just go balls out and say straight to his face, "Wow...I think your ex was right, actually. Your head was on a swivel during our entire date. It was really noticeable. It felt really rude." See how he responds. It's like, you've only been on one date with the guy. He can't claim you're "crazy" because 1) YOU ARE NOT and 2) he doesn't even know you. Who's crazy, according to him? The woman who points out that obvious behavior is obvious? What are you worried his reaction will be?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:16 AM
13

"Champagne will be served at the wake"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:28 AM
19

She doesn't need a lawyer. They weren't even legally separated when he croaked. She gets everything. Side piece gets nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:23 AM
25

She weighed 110 lbs, ffs. She was not ever a physical threat to her boyfriend. The cops are completely full of shit by even trying to pull that line. They know it. They thought it was funny to label that tiny gal who looks like she could maybe curl a 12-pack of beer as "the aggressor" and leave her with that guy who they almost certainly knew was slapping her around and would continue to after they left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:00 PM
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Fuck the police. They took a 911 call about a guy slapping around a girl, looked at a guy clearly acting smug with 2 scratches on his face, his 110 lb. girlfriend being freaked out and crying... AND LEFT THEM THERE, ALONE, IN THE MIDDLE OF A FUCKING NATIONAL PARK. AFTER THREATENING *HER* WITH ARREST! AND TELLING *HIM* HE WAS BASICALLY ALL GOOD! Oh, she ended up dead in the middle of a different wilderness park? Who could have predicted that? Oh yeah - every single person on earth. That's right u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:50 PM
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This is so true. Men claim they're bLiNdSiDeD when women end relationships always say the same thing, Not "I had no idea I was being such an asshole," like they were oblivious. They say, "I know things weren't great and she wasn't happy, but I didn't know she would actually LEAVE me over it." Basically, they know they're being assholes. They just assume you'll put up with it and act accordingly - until you don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:02 PM
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I don't bother looking fake-confused. That credulous type of behavior just encourages the dickheads who assume women can never grasp a concept unless it's mansplained to them. I just keep a deadpan expression while visibly rolling my eyes at how stupid his remark was. Then I inform him that he sucks at jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:42 PM
58

My 50/50 situation with my ex came to a screeching halt the minute I started making more money than he did. Then, his tune switched to "all money is our money." By the time I kicked him to the curb, he was siphoning money out of our accounts. A guy who pinches his pennies when you're broke, will pinch yours when you aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:10 PM
38

Don't waste energy building a guy up that would be much better spent on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:07 PM
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Is it even a "mistake", though? Because you shouldn't really NEED to block him in the first place, you know. You would only NEED to block him because he still does shit like spam-call you after 3 years like a fucking freak. So let's rebrand this mindset as, "he is still an obsessed loser, and you are a normal person who moved on with your life." Answering an ex who is incessantly calling you, in case it's something exceptional like the death of a mutual friend, is something that normal people do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:06 PM
20

I'd just say, "Yes, we get it, you think girls are icky, like a 7 year old scared of girl germs." Then if he doubles down, just sarcastically say, "OMG WATCHING MOVIES WITH GIRLS IN THEM IS SO GROSS! EWWW!!!" or "WATCHING GIRLS PLAY BASKETBALL IS ICKY AND DUMB! ONLY BOYS PLAY BASKETBALL! I ONLY LIKE THINGS WITH PENISES"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:01 PM
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He called you all morning from a random number on a forgotten app, just to hang up on you? Let's temporarily set aside the triggering, and focus briefly on HOW FUCKING PATHETIC IS THAT!! Like seriously, let's all sit and contemplate the galactic level of small dick energy he must be currently experiencing, of which the cure is to scam-call his ex over and over from an unknown number, so he can hang up on her. To properly measure the level of lameness, subtract his current age from his emotional …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:53 PM
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Exactly. Why don't more women become auto mechanics? Because it's a minefield of machismo, Darren, and maybe they don't want to live a life that will eventually turn into an Oscar-contending movie starring Frances McDormand, just to earn a damn paycheck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:31 PM
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The men who get testerical over being used for a "free" entree during the first date are the same men who expect you to cook and clean for them like a housemaid. After paying for the groceries 50/50, which YOU had to shop for because they're "too busy" to go to the store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:26 PM
16

Yes, how he actually acts is "not him, he's not that guy" and the guy that "is him" is the guy he insists he is, right after he acts like the guy that's not him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:04 AM
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She sounded like she was about to say she sent him to bed without dinner and grounded him for the weekend. HOW OLD IS THIS MAN? Bradley, you can only be in one womb at a time, and it sounds like you haven't left your mother's. NO DATES FOR YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:50 AM
16

Dear fucking lord. Texas can be full of some fucking weirdoes as it is, but these two dillweeds sound like they grew up with sister wives and shit. Has this woman even CONSIDERED returning one phone call?! STOP CALLING HER YOU COMPLETE WHACKADOOS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:46 AM
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They're not being "pushed out." They choose to drop out. Because men still have channels for high income jobs that don't require a college degree. Women's non-degreed jobs mostly pay jack shit. When they pay an oil rigger the same amount as a nursing home assistant, they can moan about losing out in the higher education arena that was designed for, and for a long time exclusive to, men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:36 AM
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It seems like far too few men who participate in that sub manage to successfully dispense with the crazy level of misogyny and objectification that comes with ingesting porn to addiction levels. They're more like dry drunks of the dick. Then there's the whole weird superstition that they think not jerking off gives them magical powers and shit. Like, okay Travis, we still seem to be a little overly focused on our penis. Let's go sit down over there and call up nice Dr. Freud for ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:24 AM
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LOL, ikr. It's basically a guy who you have to pay the bills and also clean up after them, because they're totally pointless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:47 AM
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LMAO. "You should date my son/brother/cousin who sits at home staring at the TV all day and shoveling Tostitos into his face. " Well, Lois, the way you describe him sounds like he needs a halfway house, not a companion. Another subreddit came up with the term "souploser" for these guys. Basically, they're the opposite of breadwinners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:51 AM
5

Seriously, if there was Redpill Bingo, she would have won the blackout prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:11 PM
2

Well, he actually screamed, "I'M TELLING MY MOM ON YOU!!" and now I'm dying to hear what Mommie Dearest said to the mean lady who hurt her baby boy's feefees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:42 PM
47

A guy can still shoot blanks with a vasectomy. That doesn't have anything to do with this stupid product.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:03 PM
9

Wow, she is super cute, too. I wonder if that idiot has spent one hot second reflecting on why the hell he stood her up in the first place. Like, why are you screaming at her, dude? You HAD A DATE with her and CHOSE to blow it! You know...what the blue fuck is going on with guys these days, that they are so far up their own assholes that they're ditching the dates they invented TRP specifically in order to get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:00 PM
11

Brad: "IF YOU DON'T CALL ME BACK I AM GOING TO NOTIFY THE CORPORATE OFFICE OF WOMEN AND FILE AN OFFICIAL COMPLAINT!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:55 PM
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That sounds like an invention made by a man for an imaginary problem he thinks women have, like the guy who invented labia glue because he thinks we have periods because our vaginas are mouthbreathers. We already have stick-like vagina sponges. They're called tampons. And they don't cost $25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:26 PM
4

I wouldn't be surprised if that was a LARPing attempt, tbh. Like, we're boycotting guys trying to turn us into free prostitutes. We're not boycotting Starbucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:22 PM
3

I bet you're absolutely fetching while eating a kebab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:15 PM
13

Men act around the subject of going to therapy like active alcoholics act about going to AA. "I know I have a problem, I know it's ruining the lives of the people around me, I know it's going to ruin my life...but I'll only consider it if I hit rock bottom." It's like, god forbid you actually be well-adjusted AND clean up after yourself, Todd! That's like women are expecting the emotional Jonny Kim, doctor/astronaut/Navy Seal! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:07 PM
5

I struggle with this daily. I was married to a manipulative gaslighter for a long time, and he would constantly rewrite history after the fact, then tell me that I was misremembering/overreacting/dwelling too long on things he did that upset me. Now I have what I've come to realize is basically a trauma response of poor memory and self-gaslighting. Journaling has been a big help. Even when I feel like my self-perception of a situation or event is off, or I'm starting to think, "Oh, it wasn't so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:59 PM
3

LOL. He's being ridiculous and deliberately obtuse. I suppose if he was that interested in dick tattoos, the proper response is to start sending him picture after picture of giant dicks, hopefully with tattoos, since that's his subject of choice. Why even need to have a conversation? He clearly needs examples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:50 PM
13

LOL. "EXCUSE ME, I WAS TOLD YOU WERE HANDING OUT THE FREE SEX ONLINE. I WOULD LIKE 1 FREE SEX NOW!" Also, I think he just used that as a line. Who the hell would be able to pick a stranger out in a grocery store based on a profile picture? People can't even pick out a criminal in a police lineup if that guy waved a gun in their face. Next time, say "I'm not on Tinder" just to really derail those fools. Honestly, your response was *chefs kiss*.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:41 PM
319

"Broken dick sex maniac"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:32 PM
13

Totally. "It's not sex work, you just appear in a bathing suit and if you're hot enough, I give you money to be able to go to college." Oh, the story of every single sugar baby and stripper. Yeah, sure, not sex work-adjacent at all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:28 PM
18

Honestly...this is a PSA for women everywhere, but if you come across a guy who has made it to the legal drinking age without having even gone on a date, it needs to be a hard pass. It's literally less work to date someone who's actually cute and knows how to talk to women. These guys with zero social skills are only looking for the woman who will lower her standards enough to train him how to be a good boyfriend, so he can go after the women he really wants. That goes double for if they're into…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:25 PM
2

I love your username. Probably have to keep your normal job...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:08 PM
10

Exactly. Men are such talking experts, except for when they're randomly slapping someone in the face without any warning or consent. It's so AmAzInG how men know so much about the power of communication, yet never actually communicate first when it's to their benefit not to. If some guy slapped me, or put his hands on my neck, I'd have kicked him in the balls, the face, and thrown him out of my house. Guys like that need to be put on a list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:05 PM
25

People are fucking high if they think that beauty pageants are in any way feminist. All beauty pageants do is judge and award the ideal female companion. They're basically a replica of the process of choosing a concubine for a king. That's what they're judging. Beauty, physique, ability to dress formally, ability to sound interesting, a talent. But in what context? The context of being the ideal female companion. That's it. The scholarships and everything else were just added to obscure the orig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:49 PM
84

Wow. Too intellectual. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:44 PM
9

Stated so well! Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:37 PM
29

It's hard to tell if someone is going through their "angry rant" phase, or if they're the "here for the drama noms" type who is just trying to farm karma by posting something they think will get a lot of upvotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:36 PM
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Exactly. We have all been on the "doormat rollercoaster," putting up with increasingly shitty behavior while questioning our own perception about it and listening to drivel like "JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE." (Or worse, some dark triad type trying to gaslight us on behalf of assholes everywhere, saying all guys do it/we're overreacting/we're imagining it/we're in the wrong and violating their boundaries by busting them) But even with that, there's a certain point where you know you're making the choice to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:31 PM
10

LMAO. Quote of the month!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:06 PM
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Dirty bathroom. A guy will clean himself to impress a new woman. But if his toilet is gross, he's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:26 PM
12

You're describing the pity play, which is the harbinger of the emotional vampire and the mooch. Want to hear a sob story every single time your SO complains about being expected to do more than the bare minimum? You're hearing it now. The #1 play I've always come across is guys who act like you have to earn their attention or convince them that you're "worth the effort." Fuck that shit. You're a bank teller, Connor. You have 3 roommates and don't even own silverware. Don't even try to act like I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:14 PM
15

Some people must really want the herp a derp. Either that, or she's a pro. I'm guessing she is. Nobody needs a whole ass lingerie wardrobe and outfit advice for a "first date" unless her "date" is bringing "500 roses."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:27 AM
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I can think of a couple sushi restaurants where the omakase would be about $150 per head. And, I can think of a couple very high end steak restaurants that could approach that, but it would also mean you'd be having 4 martinis and end up with enough leftovers to eat 3 more meals. Other than that, I have no idea how this fool got into this predicament, unless he was literally a substitute teacher pretending he was a hedge fund manager to score with someone majorly out of his league. And it's like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:24 AM
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LOL. How dare you exclude the illiterate. Ur StAnDaRdS R 2 Hi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:04 AM
13

Ya know, I think personally it's good that he realizes he can talk to women and develop a rapport as an individual, and that he doesn't need to join the salmon spawning season that is the horde of thirsty, uncouth OLD dwellers. But I also think he should spend the whole week as a woman, gauging his catfish experience for responses and see how fun it is dodging the guys who are literally trying to send pictures of their dick to people, and otherwise acting in a way that would get them sent headfi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:02 AM
7

Praise doesn't pay the light bill. Women aren't being feminists for the praise. Furthermore, you can't refuse to train someone in school, sports and the arts and then use that self-same lack of training and investment as proof they're not fit. That's like the circular argument the NCAA tried to use, that men's sports get all the attention and deserve all the financial benefits and advertising they dump into it...ignoring the fact that the men are at that point due to the financial benefits and a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:54 AM
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And then your elbow gets infected, and you have to get it treated at the doctor. And then there's a bunch of assholes outside the doctor, talking about all these infected elbow sluts who should pay full price to treat their elbows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:21 AM
5

Not to be a Red Lobster historian or anything, but they have gone through branding phases in the past where they've presented as more upscale. My parents think I'm a food snob because I always try to seek out an indie restaurant over a chain. But that's because they're 80. These days, I wouldn't want to go to Applebees because their food fucking sucks. Not because they don't let me wear my tiara.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:16 PM
32

I lived in a college town with 50k people, and those were the only two places nicer than TGI Fridays. Just saying, there isn't some sort of ex-urban bistro industry happening in probably 75% of the country. Especially not after 2020. People who live in smaller, cooler countries may not have this problem, but not everyone lives in a metropolis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:45 AM
101

He needs to take the midnight train going anywhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:26 AM
63

Just eat all the Cheddar Bay biscuits they will bring you, and take your shrimp feast to go. That said, there are quite a few towns where the Olive Garden and RL are the nicest restaurants in town. Not everyone can live near a Ruths Chris.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:22 AM
8

How many are actual performers complaining about being deplatformed, vs. men complaining about losing their porn source? This is like sniffer row complaining that the strippers are going to pull a muscle reaching for dollar bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:22 PM
39

The actual act of wiping may be a new experience for some...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:15 PM
4

Cue all the Wilford Brimleys of the world wondering where their beautiful 35 year old is, while completely ignoring the fact that they look -500 anywhere near John Stamos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:10 PM
83

Gofeedme. A platform for poor men who are starving and abandoned by feminism in that they have to...sob....serve themselves at the buffet of already-prepared dishes.... in the aaaaarms oooooof an aaangellll..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:59 PM
19

Don't you ever watch those shows?? Every episode is the same: Bald, chubby, social skill-devoid high earner employs heavily made up woman to find him a concubine. All candidates must be ludicrously younger than him, educated and articulate, yet still willing to schlep around with gumdrop-shaped mumblemouth for indeterminate time and possible permanent alliance. Aforementioned sad sack will also employ legal means to ensure minimum amount of compensation for said service to ensure "romance".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:37 PM
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Ikr. Like...dude. What the fuck are you doing. Imagine me sidling up to some poor 22 year old kid trying to listen to his Drake playlist and going, "Oh hi...what's your name, Hunter? Is that spelled with an ER or an OR? So, what brings you to the gym? I'm here because my doctor told me I need to stave off osteoporosis...bat eyelashes" and then getting butthurt that my osteoporosis line didn't work. LMAO!! Like, jesus christ, just no. I would create a rip in time-space with that level of cringe. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:26 PM
17

I've seen about 10-15 SAHM arrangements in my day. 1 worked out and the other 14 ended up in either divorce or near-divorce because, over time, the husband stopped seeing his wife as his partner and started seeing and treating her like his home appliance that was "breaking" every time it needed "his" money or time off. 1/10 do not recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:18 PM
84

You just tell those geezers, "Compared to you, I am." I'm almost 50 myself, and even I don't feel old enough for those weathered crusties. Sorry not sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:07 PM
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I am that guy's age. I can assure you, I look a hell of a lot better than he does. The only thing worse than being stuck with your average middle-aged man who never took care of himself, is being stuck with one who does shit like this. I'd rather join a convent, and I'm not even religious. It's like no, Darren. The lovely coed is 10,000,000% not interested in you and your black socks and your old man injuries. And you're not rich, you make $65k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:03 PM
6

Fair enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 06:28 AM
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What kind of numbtard is this guy?! Honestly!! I bet if you asked this guy how he would plan a get-together with a new, male work buddy, would he suggest, "Well, I think I'll ask Derek to meet me in the middle of a shopping mall, and I'll stand there showing him shit on my cellphone in the direct sunlight for an hour or two until we're all sweaty. Then we'll go home."??!?!?!?! OR, would he actually be a normal person and say, "We'll go catch a couple of beers and shoot the shit. Then maybe get a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:41 PM
131

The POS shooter literally created his own social media content hating women, and frequented the Reddit subs that focus on content about hating women. Then he shot up a bunch of people. The problem is not that women have standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:25 PM
31

I'd have been gone at that guy's appearance in the first 30 seconds. Where is he looking like that, a homeless shelter? I mourn the amount of hair product and quality makeup that lovely woman clearly wasted even giving that scrub the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:59 PM
15

Let's all remind ourselves that this is the manipulative asshole group whose mantra is to lie to and manipulate women into becoming disposable sex partners... complaining that those same women aren't forming emotional attachments. Like, no shit Travis. Could it be because they sense you're a shady motherfucker and they trust you about as far as they could throw you? Oh, it's because you aren't the first shady motherfucker they've ever dealt with - more like the tenth. Clearly the problem is wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:54 PM
40

The reason you never see men calling out other men is because they will draw all the same fire from the same misogynists that is normally aimed at women. And the average man is absolutely terrified at the prospect of facing that level of disrespect and anger. Terrified. You see it every fucking day. A man will treat a woman as a meat shield rather than face her same level of adversity among his own peers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:49 PM
23

Exactly. Why does this human piece of shit still have some sort of intrinsic value awarded to him that guys like him should have access to women for sex? Here's an idea to create valuable humanity and societal contribution out of the guy: let him become an organ donor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:43 PM
30

Oh gee, let's long for the days when men just turned into serial killers of prostitutes. God forbid we instead consider the women as people, and the incel shooters as being treated like spare parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:40 PM
21

Time OP spent on this graph: 180 minutes Time OP spent washing his own genital area in the last month: 5 minutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:06 PM
18

That's why I'd love to know what it was. It would be hard for me to even keep a straight face, frankly. I mean, think about it - what dude could try and school a woman about diets? "Oh, you probably haven't heard of it." Oh, a woman on earth who hasn't even heard of a particular diet, especially if she's thin and in shape? I call bullshit. Also, I second u/yesbutnou in the opinion that a man whose idea of a "date" was to invite me along to help him do his housechores would not get enough airtime…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:02 PM
21

If anything, FDS is the anti-Redpill, since it devotes so much space specifically towards debunking Redpill theories and manipulation tactics. It doesn't matter whether insisting on being taken on an old-fashioned date makes a guy up his game or if it just sends him ReeeeEEEEEeeeeing into the distance, never to be heard from again. The goal is to exclude men from our lives who are aiming to treat women like free sexual/labor commodities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:41 PM
41

What was his special diet, anyway? Why would he pick a restaurant (assuming that's where you ate) that didn't cater to his special diet? Did he bring up his "special diet" during your chore-date of grocery shopping and cooking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:19 PM
2

What the fuck is this, Hobby Lobby's version of a ransom note from the Son of Sam's mommy? Bitch, keep him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:28 PM
49

Imagine thinking your "wallet is getting raped" over the cost of an entree and a cocktail. How broke are these guys? Sorry you can't afford a $35 steak, Eric. Sucks to be you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:09 PM
50

Just get a roommate, Travis. Sorry, it'll mean you still have to jerk off and clean your house yourself, but those are the breaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:04 PM
109

Pretty sure that "don't date an emotional manipulator" is not anywhere on the same planet as "foids should be forced to be sex slaves."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:00 PM
7

So that means your boyfriend is going to act like a child with an oedipal complex. Gee, how alluring. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 09:13 PM
79

Exactly, these "bottom 75%" of men aren't complaining that they can't find a wife. They're complaining they can't order free pussy on the internetz without having to go to the trouble of showering and putting on a decent outfit first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:43 AM
32

He probably lives in that RV and is all mad that girls aren't impressed with his #vanlife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:40 AM
72

Because women in those circumstances end up dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:21 AM
12

"YOU'RE DRAMATICALLY OVERREACTING!!1" He screeched, as he flopped down on the floor and ripped his shirt in two at the prospect of being required to cook his own meals...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:01 PM
24

Women get shit on for preferring taller men, but men don't get shit on for preferring shorter women. I'm 5'3 and my SO is 6'4". He isn't attracted to tall women, but nobody ever bags on him about it, even though it's the exact same scenario.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:29 PM
3

Hell yes, it's a turnoff. It's not exactly a stretch to presume that the guy trying to relive his prepubescence has an Oedipal complex to match. Put away your Harry Potter shit, you middle aged clown. You're not cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:13 PM
8

LMAO at “House in California you can’t sell.” I hope you have “Mom, you gave zero idea what you’re talking about” recorded in a loop you just play constantly, every time you’re forced to talk to that woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:42 PM
7

You can get a functioning one at the dollar store or Goodwill. Only a lazy slob keeps a broken one and an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:37 PM
28

Don’t forget all the “hard work they did” to get their substandard result, which according to them is somehow more intrinsically valuable than any effort you do that produces a superior result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:34 PM
2

Then we already know she’s a dedicated pescatarian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:26 PM
2

Let’s make sure Gloria gets her credit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:25 PM
16

They'll try to neg those women by saying that "All the men who qualify are going to go for young hotties. Why would they want to date YOU? They don't care about your success!" Well, why the fuck would the female equivalent of a baller dude want to date YOU, Brad? You're a loser who's not even young and hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:26 PM
15

Nah, you just get creeped on by 60 year olds instead of 40 year olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:36 PM
64

My ex-husband demonstrated in marital therapy during a conversation about our bad sex life that, despite our being together almost 2 decades, he had NO idea how to perform any kind of remotely sensual touch. The therapist told him to stroke my arm in a sensual way, and he did it really hard, like he was wiping mud off of me. I was like, are you serious!? Jeez, what an idiot, I'm sitting here getting Sahara Desert vibes just remembering it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:53 PM
100

Especially with the ridiculous positions, crouching, etc. It's like watching two dining chairs bang together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:43 PM
8

That guy is just blaming women for his own assholery. Typical. "If she were a perfect muse nurturegoddess, then it would have cured me of my normal tendency to be a selfish piece of shit. But I still consciously act like a piece of shit, clearly she wasn't good enough..." Like, do you fucking listen to yourself, you greasy turd of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:07 AM
19

This would be the masculine gym ritual of "I have no idea what I'm doing, so I will flail around like a crazy moron". He probably went home and then talked all day about how he totally crushed it during his hardcore gym set.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:35 AM
53

Oh dear, living your own life makes you "not marriage material." Thanks for the tip, Daniel. I'd hate for my personal autonomy to get out of control and affect my #1 employee status for my future husband. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:23 PM
84

They also assume we all work as hostesses at Cracker Barrel for $8/hr. They can't conceive of the notion that a lot of us are also career women who make significant money ourselves and aren't looking to open up an orphanage for "University of Hard Knocks" flunkies and call it a relationship. Like don't try to cry about 50/50 if you can't even bring $50.50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:35 PM
132

No shit, like what even the fuck with those kind of guys? Thanks for the compliment, Ted Bundy. I hope your next date makes off with your wallet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:14 PM
393

That basically deserves a Mean Girls meme that says "So you agree you don't respect women?" Like, no shit dude. That's why no one wants to fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:11 PM
105

Broke guys: "Don't use me as a meal ticket!" Also broke guys: tries to come over and eat dinner at your house, which you cooked, 3x a week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:06 PM
14

THANK YOU. I'm really enjoying the sub's trajectory towards the positive with examples of great improvements, mindset shifts, lifestyle changes, and the supportive comments that people are sharing. The trauma and outrage porn from terribad LVM interactions might be entertaining in the moment, but it enables people to wallow in negativity instead of motivating them to learn that change leads towards healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:14 PM
21

Incels use MC Escher logic to assume a woman would give 1/10,000,000,000th of a crap how fuckable they might look to someone whom nobody would ever fuck with a 10-foot pole and stolen pussy. Like, a fence post hole looks fuckable to you, Trevor. So go fuck it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:55 PM
21

Haha, what can I say, I'd really be impressed if he bought that sweater himself. I know men that age whose mothers still buy their clothes. It's like, you've been on the earth for half a century, Dennis. When the fuck are you gonna learn life skills, you failure to launch loser. Cathedrals get built faster than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:56 PM
25

Pretty sure Theo 52's fish is just out of frame. But I'd forgive Hot Gorton Fisherman of the occasional fish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:58 PM
11

As someone actually in that range: Wow, guys over 50 who still have hair, aren't fat, and actually wear real clothes. Both of them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:57 PM
13

It's just a constant misinformation campaign to make women always feel like their duty to men is to put in more than they get out. Basically, if you're a woman, and you don't make that much money, you should wait on your husband hand and foot so he can "focus on his career." If you're career-focused and have money, you need to foster some charity case of a guy to "help him reach his potential." Oh yeah, and always be hot and socially perfect while doing so, so a guy doesn't lose the status assoc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:20 PM
3

This advice is perfection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:06 PM
7

Retail therapy and restaurants are money sucks. I treated myself like that a lot while I was broke-as-a-joke, but honestly the fizz was never worth the pop. For $30 you can buy yourself a lobster tail. My high end splurges are good coffee beans and expensive candles. A $20 bag of coffee beans gets you a lot more tasty cups of joe than $20 at Starbucks. As to the financial end of things, my #1 advice is to get a side hustle. It saved me when I made $20k, and I still have one or two while making $…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:03 PM
6

Feline Doting Stories
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:17 AM
3

Men to women: "IF YOU DON'T TRY TO BE A PERFECT WIFE, YOU WILL LIVE ALONE WITH CATS" 25-year old women: "Noooooooo!" 45-year old women: "YAAAAAAAASSS"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:14 AM
2

He was all about her putting in 50/50 for his vacation. But apparently it didn't even occur to him to go 50/50 on his food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:05 AM
11

The easiest way to prove it is: Ask them what the name for a "male Karen" is. They'll either not be able to come up with one, or they'll say "male Karen" as if it's impossible to imagine a man in that role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:44 AM
15

If the pandemic didn't teach you that bras are meant for burning, then what the hell girl. As for the rest of it...who are you trying to get "I'm the perfect amount of feminist" points from....men? She talks about all these issues as if they're only theories, not actual life experiences had by real women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:39 AM
149

Just imagine Jennifer Aniston having to deal with some scrote online, whose selfie is in his Toyota Camry and features the camera's view straight up his untrimmed nostrils, implying she's a gold-digger who needs to lose 10 lbs and was hotter 20 years ago. She'd probably buy a flamethrower after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:54 AM
85

People Magazine, they never change. I guess they finally had to give up asking her why she hasn't had a baby yet, since she's 52. I hope she mailed them her last tampon and said "GIVE IT UP ALREADY!" Like, she already nailed Brad Pitt. Her work is done here. Let her enjoy her successful life. Or, ya know, write a puff piece about all the projects she's working on, ffs. Her companies have won Emmys and Golden Globes. One would think she turned letters on the Wheel of Fortune for all the attention…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:48 AM
25

The Mummy's Curse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:46 PM
12

Lmao, when men are so ridiculous, they become a metaphor for other ridiculous men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:20 PM
17

[Do a lIttle dance in a circle with other potential dates, before swanning gracefully up the staircase and out of sight]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:18 PM
27

Lol. His specialty can be Scrotato Olés. (For those not in the know, there's. Midwest US "Mexican" fast food chain called Taco Johns, featuring the world's least authentic Tex-Mex food ever, including tater tots called Potato Olés. It's Low Value Mexican, haha)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:12 PM
12

I mean...Elon Musk fixed his...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:53 PM
53

He found a high-earning girlfriend and moved in with her. My mutual friends complain that he seems to be constantly showboating on social media with travel and dining posts. I recently found out he lost his job, too. Hilariously, he actually called ME a "money-hungry gold-digger" when we split up. I guess I was gold-digging...myself?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:23 PM
87

I divorced my husband because I finally realized that the discrepancy between our financial contributions to our partnership was never going to reach parity. It was a struggle for me to save any money each month in my own savings, because I was putting most of it in "our" accounts to pay bills, healthcare, and fund our entertainment. Meanwhile, he was using those accounts to buy himself stuff, put money in his own savings, you name it. He even used the remaining funds in our joint accounts to pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:15 PM
6

If I woke up 20 today, I would focus 90% of my effort and energy into reaching my potential, and the other 10% to frivolous enjoyment of my life. In my 20s, I got way too caught up in the popular culture myth that you have to gamify your life to earn man-badges until you're deemed suitable enough to be wifed. and that being part of a couple is some sort of integral milestone that you can "accomplish". Be very careful about absorbing popular culture items like magazines and TV shows. They're so v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:06 PM
49

And I'm a baby boy of only 360 months old! Manchild prodigy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:29 PM
314

Totally. "I didn't have an ulterior motive, yet I acknowledged a woman's humanity. Am I literally Jesus Christ?" /butterfly meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:43 PM
5

Balanced with "you need to listen to all my problems for 2 hours every day like a licensed psychotherapist, but also be a ray of sunshine 24/7 because nobody wants to listen to how you had period cramps and a hard day at work"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:44 PM
68

Worse than that! He didn't just eat his dinner and then all their dinner. He ate EVERYTHING IN THE HOUSE to the point she didn't even have enough food to make a meal. And then he got mad she didn't order him more food!! They were gone for FOUR HOURS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:52 AM
46

He's probably orthorexic and manages his binges by over-exercising. But with those habits, he's one knee injury away from needing a toilet brush to wipe his asscrack within 18 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:46 AM
199

At the risk of blaming the victim, I wouldn't say she's the "average" woman. Apparently this is the only relationship she's ever had. She's probably sold her soul to the purity myth, and she thinks she won at relationships because she married the first dipshit who ever asked her on a date. Now she'll ignore every single person who tells her to leave, because that will wreck her current undefeated record of 1-0 and because she thinks that clearly their advice is suspect, as coming from jezebels w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:41 PM
164

The dude has an eating disorder. Passive-aggressive, haha. There's nothing passive about telling your husband he's a selfish pig. She's on the right track. But I don't know what solution besides "throw the entire man away" for a glutton who sees no problem with starving out his own family because he loves to stuff his face so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:21 PM
4

He was ripping off Jack Nicholson so bad in Heathers, it was a 90 minute Nicholson impression. Sadly, his hairline decided to keep on impersonating Nicholson, haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:00 PM
22

Eh, popular media loves to portray women as being pampered freeloaders, even if they work. One of the things that bugged me the most when the show "Real Housewives of the OC" came out was that several of the women were not only working, in a few cases they were the breadwinners. But nobody was focusing on how they were the real earners of the OC or how their spouses were the House Husbands of the OC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:41 PM
21

As someone in my late 40s, I have to admit that I think Brad Pitt looks pretty damn good for a guy in his mid-50s. I wouldn't kick him out of bed for eating crackers. I mean, look at the regular guys in their mid-50s. Brad Pitt is still the "Brad Pitt" of guys in their 50s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:41 PM
3

Well, they are also stingy. It's a trifecta of ridiculousness in which they expect women to: 1) Have no financial expectation of being treated on a date 2) Put out on said date that they themselves are paying for 3) Still appreciate a man's ego and attention, despite the fact that this same man has made no investment or effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:05 PM
5

LVMs are like the gender equivalent of redneck trailer trash, though. Even though they know they're at the bottom of the barrel among other men, they consider themselves inherently above women as a whole, so no matter how shitty they think of themselves or treat themselves, they will always consider a woman to be beneath them. The worst thing you can do for an LVM is to put yourself at his level. You're already operating at a deficit as a woman, according to his misogyny, so the only way he'd ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:47 PM
4

That's an old joke. The punchline being, "See you picky woman, you are alone because you expected too much!" The punchline should be that the woman goes up to the top floor and sees herself surrounded by other women, with the sign saying "Wife department store, ground floor".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:13 AM
198

They feel guilty because they see the date as transactional, because they want sex out of it. Yet in order to get it, they know most of their dates aren't interested in a hookup, so they need to feign an interest in establishing a potential partnership, which they also pretend to prefer as being egalitarian. So they know it's a swindle, that's why they feel guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:14 PM
25

"BuT WhAt AbOuT" [thing that happens to men 1% of an equal or much worse thing that happens to women, like false accusations regarding rape]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:46 AM
137

Every single B horror movie starts off with the premise of some guy taking some poor hot girl to some awful abandoned building, or shack in the woods, or his car in the back of some dark parking lot, etc. and trying to bang her while telling her to ignore the creepy noise/guy with hook/skull in corner. Shit's a documentary on why not to have free dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:54 PM
45

He expects his SO's genitalia to look photoshopped and smell like a beach cabana in Waikiki. He leaves shit stains on the sheets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:35 AM
37

Men are just regular gold-diggers. My ex was the cheapest bastard on earth the first several years of our relationship. He blamed it on being taken advantage of in his prior relationship, so he was adamant at 50/50 due to this. But once he moved into my place and we got married, he turned into the biggest gold-digger on earth. He had me buying him shit literally the day I moved out. Then he hooked up with another woman with a tasty salary and now she is enjoying blowing all her money on him. My …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:30 PM
47

LMAO. "Together." What's he going to contribute, the mailbox?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:04 PM
350

Call it "fanmale".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:20 PM
118

I was married to Permanently Terrible In Bed Man, and it was one of the main reasons we divorced. Not only was his dick physically substandard, not only did he suffer from PE, but he was untrainable. Believe me, I tried, for YEARS. Step-by-step instructions in bright light, verbal cues, nonverbal cues, calm discussions in non-sexual situations, guiding his hands, repeated redirections. Googled articles. NOTHING. WORKED. NOTHING. Worse, he would actually DEBATE with me about my preferences. He wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:49 AM
67

In my opinion, men don't want to be treated like "the patriarch," because that comes with responsibility. They want to be treated like Mommy's Favorite Baby Boy, which is all of the entitlement, coddling, participation trophy-level praise for doing the least thing, and complete freedom from normal, adult expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:56 PM
47

I think that women need to be just as careful not to fall into the Ward Cleaver Delusion that there were many men like this in the 50s. If men were actually like this in the 50s, and not the same men they are today, then nobody would have bothered inventing The Pill or fighting for equal rights. Women were literally on downers all day just to keep from murdering their families, and those were the well-off white ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:40 PM
12

Tl;dw: Weak men need strong women to sustain their lives, but to also sublimate their needs and power in a relationship into salve men's fragile egos. Don't make men do icky emotional work that forces them to consider you a REAL PERSON!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:59 PM
5

Exactly. OP had mentioned it first, even above their opinion of having future daughters. Being cordial to strangers and service people is an incidental trait at best. People act like it should be in the DSM-V.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:14 PM
24

Yeah, "being nice to wait staff" is so massively overrated on Reddit, it's just parroted over and over by a bunch of clueless teenagers who rarely date or go to restaurants with anyone besides their parents. I say that as a former restaurant worker. The vast majority of people are nice to waitstaff. It's not like every other customer is a hedge fund douche canoe who snaps his fingers at you like a dog. It's entirely plausible that you can end up in a relationship with a guy who acts like a sweet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:30 PM
122

Men are constantly trying to beat their chests on this site about how they "work so hard" at their big man job for man-money. It's like, we work the same job, Ted. Why do you think you need a full maid and cook when you get home, yet I'm seemingly effortlessly capable of doing that additonal work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:13 AM
43

Yes, his hair does look like Grandpa Jersey Shore. But I thought Joey's quilted bomber jacket was even more ridiculous. You don't need quilting, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:05 AM
111

Jennifer Aniston's hair stylist deserves a lifetime achievement award. Courtney should lend a few of those filler syringes to Matthew Perry. Maybe he can rediscover having a chin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:41 AM
232

I wouldn't have thought that David Schwimmer would be the one to go the distance. Matthew Perry looking like the type of guy not allowed within 500 ft of a school was totally predictable, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:38 AM
16

It's astrology for douchebros who think that being an INTJ actually makes them a "mastermind" in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:21 PM
25

Lolol, so many Gen X men have aged like total shit. I don't know whether to laugh or cry when some guy makes a pass and I'm like, "in your dream, Gramps!" And it turns out he's only 5 years older than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:14 PM
30

Exactly. Where are all the women who have "bad days" and decide to commit atrocities? Hmmm, nowhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:51 AM
61

Kinda weird, how his bad day is somehow considered worse than her last day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:40 AM
75

Yeah, they give up cooking and housework
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:13 AM
141

Also men: when all else fails, they will k**l the women they impregnated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:48 AM
4

I laughed at the beach house part of that fantasy. I live by the ocean. No beach house that costs $500/day could accommodate the parking and room for a wedding's worth of people. $5000/day, maybe. That said...I disagree that weddings are supposed to be the "highlight of a woman's life that we've been conditioned since childhood to want." That sounds like someone sucking on the tailpipe of theknot.com for too long. Plenty of people grow up with median expectations of their wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:32 AM
18

His anorexia fetish did not "ruin their lives". It ended hers. He is a perpetrator, not a victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:15 PM
72

Bingo. Most women are taught that their energy, labor and resources are commodities that need to be given to a man to be exchanged for love and a sense of worth. Women, even if you don't agree with some of the views of FDS...ask yourself why it feels so downright decadent or selfish for you to "treat yourself" by doing the SAME things for yourself that you REGULARLY do for a man in a relationship. Ask yourself how he can be so blasé about receiving that level of care from you. Ask yourself why i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:58 PM
5

Holy cripes, #2 and #3 are like staring into a mirror in a fitting room with bad lighting. How did you manage to totally describe my ex-husband? I even got the bonus points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:55 AM
55

"Stop playing the victim," said the guy who probably justifies being a shit head to women daily on the internet at age 32 because in 6th grade Becky laughed at him when he asked her to the junior high dance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:47 AM
490

Do I even need to look? Let me guess: one of the "men's" forums full of guys forlornly stroking their neckbeards while writing entire manifestos over That One Time A Girl Was Really Mean In Sixth Grade. Get the fuck over it, dudes. What are you, 26 and still mad about what some thirteen year old did half your lifetime ago? There's a 50% chance you were a flaming Satanic prick to some woman on the internet YESTERDAY, and EVERY DAY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:20 AM
4

Why don't we force men to be second class citizens to women instead. Then they might be inspired to work hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:45 AM
16

There can be, yes. I'm vouching for my own personal friends who are gay, rather than generalizing all gay dudes. A lot of gay guys tend to have weirdly internalized heteronormativity issues, like they want the house and kids and white picket fence just as much as your average Southern Baptist, so their views are just as patriarchal. It strikes me as a form of exceptionalism, IMO, along the same lines as pickfems who think feminism means we all support their "choice" to be submissive housewives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:00 PM
6

Ah yes. fuckboi anthropology. A necessary evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:34 PM
116

There are some guys who are so chickenshit they'll only declare their "feelings" BECAUSE you're in a relationship. Horny-math makes them calculate that there's a 1% chance you feel the same way and are totally cool with dumping your boyfriend like an asshole and running away together. In the other 99% likely scenario that you reject them, they can tell themselves that it's clearly because another man already had the spot. They do it so they never have to face the "real" rejection of someone who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:30 PM
9

Ugh, to hell with that guy. Wouldn't your friend group be pretty understanding if you just said to them, "He keeps trying to use my friendship to get in my pants, and I'm not having it"? If you've been friends for that long, surely his behavior isn't a secret. I mean...not to be a bummer, but there might be a chance you're not even the only one in the group he's fishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:01 PM
124

I'm old. So, basically, I went to college in the mid-90s, and then MySpace happened in the early 2000s. I was so excited to reconnect with all the people I knew! And I did find lots of high school classmates and childhood friends and it was a lot of fun. But in college, in the 90s, I was one of those "don't get along with other girls" types and I liked computers and the internet and stuff even back then. So, I had mostly (somewhat nerdy) guy friends. It was a decent-sized group of over a dozen p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:45 PM
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Imagine what he possibly would be like if HE had much more money. Even more controlling and just as (or more) entitled? He would buy an expensive house where he wanted it whether it was in her price range or not, then not only charge her 50% of the mortgage to live there (not even touching the deed, which would be in his name only), he would invoice her for the expenses down to the meatball for Spaghetti Saturday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:35 PM
14

Sadly, there are literally dating "experts" going around telling high-powered women that "Sorry, all the men at your own level want supermodels. If you want a home life and kids, you'll have to date down, WAY down. Perhaps we can interest you in this swell guy who loves cats, failed out of community college, and works 30 hours a week at Guitar Center. I bet this guy can supposedly overcome all of his internal expectations and biases developed by an entire lifetime of benefitting from the institu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:30 PM
11

Ooh, I can answer this: He thinks she's emasculating him by being financially successful in her own right (making him look bad for not being A PrOvIdEr), and also by not buying him a house that he can demand to be the man of. His hobbies probably also include demanding to know what's for dinner, shirking his half of the housework, and endlessly criticizing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:25 PM
19

OP of the post, if you're reading this: Run, girl. Run away from this man. I married this man. He talked an amazing game the whole time we dated and were engaged, about how we were going to be a high-powered career couple. We got married, and all the hot air went out of that balloon within a year. He lost his job in his field, we started a business, then while I did all the work, he sat around with his thumb up his ass for an entire year until the money ran out. Then he got some nothing, minimum…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:19 PM
25

I am becoming a nun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:30 PM
10

LVM love to spout evopsyche bullshit about how women are auto-bio-magically pre-ordained to be wives and mothers, doting over their man's needs. But ask those same dudes to rate their manly man priorities, and the duties of being a husband and father are WAAAAAAAAAY the fuck down the list. Like, many of them cannot even conceive of a construct of the nuclear family that obligates them to sacrifice and serve, not be served. They say those things because they want status and servitude. They have a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:08 PM
37

I don't think they love being martyrs, or feminism wouldn't have happened in the first place. I think they struggle with the cognitive dissonance from being TOLD by society that they should love being martyrs, while realizing in their more quiet moments that they actually fucking hate it and wonder why it is never their turn to benefit from someone else's energy the way everyone else gets to benefit from theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:38 PM
36

You're describing a textbook scenario of the Madonna Whore complex. He only desires women that he cannot respect, he worships the ideal woman whom he cannot admit or even approach with desire. There's a couple flaws in this scenario - one, guys like this are literally not loyal. They use this exact rationale to justify side action. Two...I think you're assigning these motivations to guys you meet to rationalize and rebrand what is likely a low level of interest on their part (and perhaps some in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:51 AM
115

Been there. Sadly, if you look at the fine print of the Pickme Lifetime Relationship Contract, you are obligated to Try Everything To Save The Relationship, regardless of whatever magnitude of ridiculously hopeless loser behavior you're dealing with, otherwise you Have Not Given Him A Proper Chance To Redeem Himself. Oh, you told him 27 times to improve his behavior calmly and rationally? He didn't know you were serious. You got upset? He didn't like your tone, you didn't explain it calmly and r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:02 PM
19

Not create it, though. Then it's "you should respect your man's opinion that you not let other men objectify you in your relationship the way he objectifies other women while in your relationship"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:29 PM
65

I picked up after myself! Game changer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:17 PM
118

Maybe she should just put her friend on speaker while she debates whether he's a 5 or a 4 because he dresses like shit. Apparently that's totally cool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:46 PM
5

Whenever I feel bad about my 90s tats, I realize there are women who thought prison neck tats were a nice look. At least I can hide mine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:10 AM
52

I ended up in an argument the other day with some scrote who insisted that his time was the most valuable because he had a job. I pointed out that the vast majority of women also have jobs, and that 47% of women earn as much or more than the men they're with. He literally justified doing nothing around the house because "men k*ll spiders." Spiders. Apparently to the average LVM, k*lling a bug should net him free housework for the week. At that point, I seriously could not discern whether I was j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:21 PM
15

We're talking about the same guys who write entire chapters and verses and hypotheses about Chad with his charisma, his prowess, his razor jawline, big muscles and giant dick, right? "Political lesbians" sounds like such a woman-hater cope. It sounds like the "political" version of a guy calling you a lesbian because you refused a date with him. Yawn. Like oh no, you tried to insult me by lumping me in with women who don't pander to dudes in any way whatsoever and have almost no use for them....…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:32 AM
24

What an idiot. So now they aren't even getting coffee before getting to the free maid service. Have some dignity, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:15 PM
3

I'd mentioned in another comment that The Offspring's song "Pretty Fly for a White Guy" has a similar premise (basically about a white guy appropriating hip hop culture in an effort to be cool and failing). Granted, that song is over 20 years old now. But what's your take on it? Do you think they'd get the same reaction if that song came out in 2021?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:52 PM
1

They are getting a lot of attention, so I wouldn't say it's failing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:39 PM
4

So it's okay for them to benefit from traditional mainstream marketing methods, and it was okay for Justin Beiber to get famous via Youtube, but this time, with this band, it's not okay because....reasons... Eminem was a protégé of Dr. Dre. Dre produced his album.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:31 PM
11

Lol, I just find it ironic that people are complaining about....checks notes...the corporate packaging of a band to follow music industry trends... Which literally describes the prominence of every single signed music act. Do you think people just resonated with Demi Lovato as a musical act? Or One Direction? Or Justin Timberlake? Or fucking Justin Bieber? Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:25 PM
17

Why bring it up at all? It seems like such a non-issue. Since when can literally every guy band in history sing about Stacy and Jessie and Michelle and Tiffany with no one blinking an eyeball, but the Tramp Stamps are suddenly being performative and anti-intersectionalist, heh? It sounds like stupid bullshit to me. Offspring went global for "Pretty Fly for a White Guy," did they get UnIvErSaLlY HaTEd" for doing the same thing? Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:17 PM
11

Funny how no one cared about the race of the fictional characters in a song until just now, in this song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:11 PM
55

Meanwhile, there's a song all over Top 40 right now with the hook, "Can't make a wife out of a ho."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:32 PM
15

His STIs enjoy traveling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:05 PM
9

He doesn't act emotionally caring and he "had no desire" to participate in the thing she wanted to do most, which was travel. Travel?? Like where, anywhere? You can't even suck up a trip to the Grand Canyon for a weekend?? I wonder why he was rendered unfuckable in her eyes. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:57 PM
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Don't forget that in exchange for becoming their housemaid, they will start counting all the time you spend in their presence as "quality time," so you will see a corresponding drop in their desire to go on dates or perform other courting behavior. After all, why do they need to still date you once they've got you in their house? Enjoy a relationship that's now twice the work and half the fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:01 PM
11

I saw that meme myself here, and it truly spoke to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:14 PM
1

Depends on whose daughter that is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:28 PM
15

Yeah, darn. So sad to be disqualified from consideration by Jabba the Hutt with filthy, ramshackle house. Get Mike Rowe for that dirty job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:59 PM
94

Followed by front massages. I would love the woman who answers that ad to show up looking like peak WWE Chyna and holding a work order for 3 thousand dollars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:38 PM
319

Men: Bitch better not expect a FREE DINNER!!1 REEEEEEEE Also men: Needed, one under-35 hottie to clean and paint my house, then give me back massages. I guarantee you, this guy's attempting to spin this "chance for romance" in order to get out of compensating what Paintstripperella would actually cost for several days' work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:28 PM
60

Scrotes in comments: "How dare the actual woman who is a human being porn lady talk back to me! Porn lady no need feelings! Porn lady not supposed to make me feel bad! Porn lady not supposed to make dick feel bad! Porn lady only have one job! Do job NOW, porn lady!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:23 PM
28

Actually, they still did have to. They just weren't allowed to escape them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:43 AM
15

Um, yeah. Kids these days start getting their grubby mitts on internet porn in elementary school. Pretty sure we're not going to start fucking little kids, as much as this author would like that, I'm sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:12 AM
25

Of course not, because when a guy refers to another guy as "hey ladies" or "hey gals", it's derogatory. Men think "guys" is the default because it's non-derogatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:58 PM
54

"Single against their will?" No one is making them be single. They choose to suck to the point of being undatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:08 AM
22

Cops are the HR department of humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:26 PM
27

MRA: women are gold diggers! >:( Also MRA: Date a girl with an eating disorder, she has money and will buy you shit! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:40 PM
7

A boyfriend who talks shit about how you spend your own money is a husband who won't let you have any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:52 PM
3

I kind of wish FDS wouldn't waste time posting and dwelling on these dipshits who write these 5-paragraph bullshit Letters to Penthouse about how they're totally dating models who we don't know, because they don't go to our school. This reads like the mental narrative of the guy who just found out the hard way that the barista was only smiling and being friendly to him every day because it's her job. This guy wouldn't get swiped right by a raccoon if his profile picture was of a dumpster behind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:38 AM
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Yes, there is a distinctive undertone of, "Well, he killed some hookers, as one does. Clearly this guy also has ideas about the subset of Asian sex workers, but that's not a hate crime, that's just his sense of personal taste." Like, WT fucking F on about 1000 levels. Were these women even sex workers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:23 PM
61

Guys just need to call other guys out on the whole, "bitch about my wife appliance" flex in general. Stop talking about your wife like she's your maid. That goes double if she's also supporting the household financially right alongside you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:08 PM
19

His entire post history is trying to post here and in...lmao...seduction subs. I see that's going AMAZINGLY for him. No wonder he's so mad. He can't even gamify a yes out of a woman in any circumstance. I detect some fragmented DNA on a few levels. Clearly female autonomy is to blame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:49 PM
87

Lol, more like Avon Musk. Cheap, pungent, and trying desperately to market himself to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:45 AM
96

LOL. Well, some guy just tried to DM me to personally and unironically take credit for all the life-saving medicine, the discovery of electricity, infrastructure, literature, all the humanities, space travel, inventing the internet, and curing poverty. LMAO. I think the sperm quality has already degraded past the point of no return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:33 AM
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Guys who jump into discussions about violence against women with "Not all men" aren't just trying to defend themselves, they're trying to defend the creep who did it by drowning out the woman who stood up and said something. If you were really a "Not All Man," you'd be on the woman's side, calling out the other "Yes That Man" guys. But if you're jumping in to circle your wagons around the creep, then fuck you. You're just as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:00 PM
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It's more like men want to be judged on YOUR best intentions. Way too many men have either a kindergarter's emotional intelligience level of always escaping consequences for their actions, or else they're deliberately manipulating you. So their responses are a litany of, "I didn't do it! Well, I didn't mean to! Well, it wasn't my fault! Well, you're making me feel bad! Stop being so mean!" By the end of it, they still haven't apologized for what they did, they haven't demonstrated any intention …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:20 PM
23

High Libido Man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:17 PM
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She's a prostitute, advertising. Oh really, the woman whose career is giving men an extramarital fantasy outlet is posting about how she wakes up every day, so glad to be able to provide her service? "For only $2000/day, the price of a Disney vacation, you too can help save a poor, abused man from his responsibilities as a husband and father who's sick of hugging his icky old wife and dumb kids (in the arrrrrms ooooof an aaaaangelll)..." thanks, Sally Strumpet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:16 PM
10

Lol, I feel personally called out by this comment because it's so reflective of my Nex. The few times I could manage to drag him out, he acted like he could barely stand to be seen in public. It straight up gave me a complex. I'd be sitting there like, "I'm your girlfriend and I actually made an effort and look nice. What the fuck is your problem?!" EtA: I enjoy FDS for the recreational "men are trash" element but this weekend there are several threads that are making me seriously evaluate. The …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:37 PM
13

I could, and almost did, write a novel on this topic based on my own experience. But I'll try to TL;DR it by saying that my husband still developed that shit attitude towards me. Even though I never had kids, I focused on my career, I ended up the breadwinner, and even after 15 years, I kept my body in the same shape as it was when I was 28. So in my case, he had to bring me down by saying I was shallow, materialistic, and not devoted/sacrificing to him enough. It's exhausting and, in the end, p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:15 PM
10

By that same argument, her husband is also not her responsibility to feed, since he's a grown man, and all. So why is he asking her what "we" were getting for dinner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:21 PM
3

LOL@ the guy "keeping warm" in his own back yard. Klasssic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:19 PM
23

Why are they even there, intimidating those women?? This is like watching Minneapolis cops during the George Floyd protest, just using the situation they created as an excuse to demonstrate their own violence against their constituency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:26 PM
17

Oh, it's annoying to share a few fries or sentences in your life with the woman you're with? Then suck your own dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:17 PM
6

Meanwhile, every single one of them will date someone with a full-time job, yet also cooks and cleans up after them, and they are unironically convinced that their entitlement is standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:58 PM
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It takes a LOT of bridge burning to end up under one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:08 AM
5

"I don't have a six pack, I have a keg, harharharharhar" Then go find a chick with a drinking problem, Travis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:16 AM
8

Severus was the hardworking Snape who studied hard at wizard school and took his career seriously, and Heath Snape just used his powers to conjure pot and snacks all day and works at UPS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:10 AM
3

I mean, he isn't wrong, in that there are a lot of guys who decide their 6 pack means they get to be terrible people. Buuuut, there are even more guys who are terrible people with no 6-pack, and a whole lot of guys trying who date who don't even wash their butt or brush their teeth, much less put on a clean pair of underpants and jeans. Guys think there is a group of guys that all women are always swiping right on, and they either get mad at guys for being in that group, or get mad at women for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:04 AM
1

"Lack of accessibility to images." What a load of dogshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:54 AM
7

I don't even get that whole deal. (I follow thus stuff basically 0.00%) Piers Morgan decides to make it his life's work to shit on Meghan Markle because she gave him one interview and then didn't talk to him after that??? He's a professional interviewer, right? How many other famous people has he interviewed? He deserves to be told to get help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:31 PM
3

I was thinking, gee, for being sarcastic, we're really good at this...we need a title for our portrait of a Cool Girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:11 AM
10

she rocked back on her 3-inch patent leather stiletto heel, which she usually wore at the office despite being more at home in the hiking boots she spent her weekends in while bouldering and rock-climbing - a hobby that helped sculpt her long, slender legs and toned arms but miraculously never caused a scrape, bruise or other unsightly mark on her golden flesh. She had a momentary craving for a single malt whiskey, neat, or a pint of porter. She was not the pina colada type!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:19 AM
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Hahaha. I'm nearly 50, and some (even older) guy claimed he wanted my contact info for marketing work, then instantly tried to segue it into a date. I told him I wasn't available and he dusted off that same stupid rant we've all heard since 7th grade about how he just wanted friendship and my ego is too big. My response was basically like, wow, guys still use that speech when they get turned down?? LOL! Byeeeee Just as an aside, if you want to decline someone and don't want to make it some "I'm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:54 PM
76

He's taking a short break from his full-time masturbation habit over his 4 terabytes of indexed porn to cryface about how mean and sad it is for dudes like him when women verbalize their opinion of hot guys they see on Instagram or TV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:32 PM
10

I get charged the same rent whether I'm a woman or not, so if 50k is weak for them, it's weak for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:55 PM
27

incongruous non-sequitur list of body descriptors to assure reader that the female character is indeed extremely fuckable I'll have you know I'm a highly paid engineer from an Ivy League school! idly plays with thick, sandy blonde hair cascading halfway to slim, flat waist and biting full bottom lip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:50 PM
21

To find godly women, natch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:44 PM
237

"Give me a chance!" That was your chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:40 PM
112

"I want to bone a bunch of randos until/unless I meet that special someone to marry and live happily ever after." Why are you trying to rebrand indiscriminately boning randos like your own personal season of the Bachelor, Travis. Are you a whore or a househusband? Pick one or the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:39 PM
31

Marriage doesn't have to last until you're 50 to work out. It just shouldn't prevent you from reaching your personal goals. If you marry the kind of man who expects you do devote all your resources to his success over your own, you'll end up screwed no matter how great your marriage is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:37 PM
7

Reddit: why don't you buy him a mattress and bed frame and sheets and pillows and build him up to be the kind of man who understands why furniture is necessary, even though he grew up in a typical middle class home with normal parents and has no excuse to live like an animal at the zoo? Women are so heartless...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:43 PM
2

He acts like he had anything to do with it, when she was already successful when they met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:27 PM
3

He hides behind lampposts, covering his eyes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:19 PM
7

I guess "are women sentient" Guy found Tinder. Now he's texting women to brag to them that they can't read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:18 PM
17

You're lucky. Mine thinks it's group cuddle time and tries to get in the middle for snuggles while purring his head off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:12 PM
22

What if he's like 5'9"? He probably looks like a teletubby now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:09 PM
6

This guy is jerking off to himself, lol. He uses it for "inspiration," really? Is he on a diet and workout routine, or does his lard ass still weigh 350 lbs and he's still housing double doubles while jerking off to his 23 year old self? She should take the USB and tell him that she's going to start paddling the canoe to it, since she agrees he was so much hotter back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:08 PM
21

That's why they only interact with other men and hang out with other men, doing narrowly-defined (weak) man-things like gaming. They aren't manly enough to compete with "real" men, so they fight a war on the line between them and the femmes, gays and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:02 PM
5

If she said she was and has people corroborating it, there's no reason to invalidate her claim just because she looks good now. Maybe she wasn't LITERALLY the ugliest person on earth, but plenty of us looked like real dorks in high school because we were late bloomers who were bad at makeup and hair and had skin problems. (Also, that may not be her original nose.) I had a similar glow-up in my 20s after high school, but in my case, I didn't think I looked THAT bad in high school. But when I woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:58 PM
40

Men of OLD: why buy or even lease when you can just take it for a test drive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:40 AM
53

And in another comment you find out his girlfriend wouldn't put out because she had surgery that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:33 AM
47

He doesn't want to downgrade her because she's overly great. He wants to downgrade her so he can make less effort while still keeping her around. He wants the same girlfriend while renegotiating down to not bring expected to do boyfriend things in return, like dress up for dates or remember her birthday. This is why we don't date ugly, introvert dudes who won't make an effort. Because then we end up with ugly, introvert dudes who won't make an effort, and this is what they sound like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:56 PM
10

HV men would not be sniffing around at work. That said, let's not throw around HV status on every guy who managed not to be a dick to a woman for 5 whole minutes. Guys are supposed to appreciate and respect their coworkers, "even" if they're women. The stuff you're describing is basic kindness, like the other guy said. When I got divorced, I was also coming out of a relationship where, at the end, I was taken for granted and I didn't receive a lot of respect. As a result, I felt about as emotion…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:09 PM
4

Look at that chinless, 3rd eyebrow mustachioed, Chad Kroeger of Nickleback Before Plastic Surgery-faced uggo even asking that question in the beginning of that video, too. Of course you don't know women have hobbies, Travis. You only see them at a distance, like the buffalo at Yellowstone National Park
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:31 PM
23

Wtf. Those men are fucking hateful. What grown adult tells someone "I just don't like you that much" or makes fun of their junk? And you're just supposed to move on, too and #notallmen yourself to get over it in time for the next guy. Meanwhile, the men's subreddits are full of men who hate women for life and make incel anthems because some girl said something like that to them once when they were junior high schoolers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:55 PM
41

Why does she not just bust into his room like the Kool Aid man and say "what the blue fuck is this?! Get out of my fucking house!" Lady, your boyfriend is posting vids of his dick in other people. Why bother with the technicalities at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:19 PM
19

You have to be kind to him, and he has to strangle you. Interesting dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:17 PM
146

Same guy, finding out his girlfriend does sex work: (((((((MELTDOWN ABOUT WHAT A SHITTY NO GOOD DISLOYAL INTIMACY-SIPHONING HOOR SHE IS)))))) Like, if you ApPrRecIaTe ThEiR HoNeSty so much, date them exclusively. Why are you roping in a regular gal and making her "accept" you slavering over sex workers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:14 PM
14

This guy sounds like if she dodged a bullet he'd charge her for the wasted gunpowder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:09 PM
7

We're good men, we're just ugly. Well, a lot of us aren't even ugly per se, we just refuse to wash our asses and brush our teeth, so we're just gross. But it's unfair to be judged on our grossness! Because underneath the grossness, we're good men! Well, except for when we get together and imagine depraved shit we would do to women. And revere guys who did do depraved shit as our personal heroes. And also traumatize victims and their loved ones for lulz. Aaaand, sprinkle in a few death and rape t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:00 AM
3

Lol, that one was all for you. Until the next time we're on Reddit while being up too late...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:09 AM
17

When she has to go looking for him in the woods after he gets confused and wanders off: "Hello? Is it me you're looking for?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:44 AM
34

No fucking shit. Oh, you're a post-pubescent man who built a sleepfort that showcases your legos. We all know why you fuck a pillow, Neverland Ranch. Don't even act like a real woman has ever, ever entered this equation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:28 AM
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Ooh, tough. I calle meself a noble, manly man, I ne'er waste my gayze upon the gaymes A worthy knyght, I work alle wyth me hand, My intyllect and houmor nearly faymed Allas my wyfe, wyth whom a house I share, A faire partner, admittedly is she, To rayse our enfant daughter, en our care, But I seke a newe beaute sexually Alas, my lovre, I mustn't be away To spynd the endless hours in yer bed, If only, my dearest mayden faire, You myght be cool wyth only given head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:03 AM
180

I do not care for the sportsball, being a refined gentleman of handicrafts. Also, my old lady still pays all the bills, so I can only get away for blowies in the back parking lot at Costco. Wherefore art my perfect "free sample?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:06 AM
10

Men: Just LOOK at how AWFUL it will be if women get to vote! makes series of ads where men are cooking, cleaning, baby-raising while women act assertive, wear awesome dresses and hang out/gasp, date with each other while walking adorable dogs Also men: wait, what? No, this is supposed to be bad! Stoooop! STOP VOTING! NOOOOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:42 AM
3

Side note: Pete Davidson looks like every formerly hot guy ever who let the pizza and keggers catch up to him. Like, holy fuck dude, you're only 27. Pretty early in the game to go from Ariana Grande to Taco Bell Grande.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:26 AM
3

He probably quit that job to go explore his creative side as a sandwich artist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:26 PM
8

Men, regarding listening to women for dating: DoN't AsK A FiSh HoW tO FiSh Also men: It's womanhood-at-large's responsibility to lovingly nurture me into not acting like an oblivious, fucking asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:24 PM
11

Good thing the lurker, who can't post here, had to DM you unsolicited to mansplain your own date to you that you were on and he wasn't, so he could re-define English incorrectly, as if you don't speak it. Travis....what does it fucking take for you to realize that you need to shut the fuck up about stuff when you don't know what you're talking about? No one even asked you. You're like the mediocre male equivalent of that person who goes to the zoo and climbs over 3 walls and a barbed wire fence …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:14 PM
24

Expressing surprise at your ability to demonstrate man-level competence at something, especially if it exceeds theirs. My personal most efficient shutdown response for these comments is, "Oh yeah? What's your excuse?" Like, if my skill makes me man-like, then your non-skill makes you... This also becomes even more enormously amusing when their backup plan for you taking offense would have been "CaN'T YoU TaKe A JoKe," which tends to evaporate when the joke turns out to be pointing out that they'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:37 PM
2

Eyeroll. Oh, so all the women getting tossed around in porn are just channeling Daniel Day Lewis-level method acting, now? Ask him if he's ready to go get violently throatfucked by some giant dick until he vomits and tears run out of his face and then find out how entertaining that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:58 PM
67

Let's get real, these guys will never buy a sex doll. They'd probably just go to the sex store and start calling all the dolls gold-diggers for costing $5000 dollars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:41 PM
22

LVMs: "Most men aren't looking for women to be providers." Also LVMs: "Work full-time and pay exactly 50.000% of the rent and bills, even if you make half as much as me. Bring all your furniture, linens, glassware, small appliances and dishes because I have one crusty towel and a solo cup and I eat off paper plates. Please cook gourmet dishes because I "hate going out". And clean. And bring the vacuum cleaner and mop, you'll need it. And I will never buy you gifts because that makes you material…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:19 AM
14

Omg, the people who are .000125% Irish and the last person who came off a boat was their great-great-great-uncle's 2nd cousin once removed. But they're always showing up with their kilt to the Irish faire to drink a Guinness and listen to some Celtic jigs and buy some claddagh shit. So embarrassing. There are also a weirdly numerous amount of people who claim to be related to Johnny Appleseed. That's a real puzzler in itself since the dude himself didn't have children. (However, to my knowledge …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:39 AM
29

Part of me imagines memes from that era. We're invading your hamlet...with hotness. The kind of men who take Bath...take baths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:27 AM
14

If a guy has to go back to the 1200s to butch up his tinder bio, he is certified pathetic. If you're claiming to be a Viking, you'd either better be wearing a purple jersey with your own name on the back, or get regularly confused with Alexander Skarsgard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:23 AM
42

He watched her lips move for longer than 2 seconds and assumed that something wrong probably came out. That's how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:12 AM
16

They like to perpetuate the myth that when women talk and men refuse to listen, it's because women obviously didn't find the magic talking words, not that men are acting like fucking idiot assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:59 AM
1

My cat did that to a bag of donuts my Dad brought to my house once. On the front, they looked totally normal, but the back was totally hollowed out with little cat bites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:40 AM
12

Yes. Why does she have to overcompensate every time he does something marginally nice? Lunch is cheaper than dinner. A suit costs more than shoes. She sounds like she's advertising to be a sugar mama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:42 PM
12

I dunno. Sure, lots of people need to get to know someone before they realize they're really into them. But even so, they will likely have at least a positive impression of that person's potential. Kissing a bunch of toads in the hope one ill be a prince is just a fool's errand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:40 PM
6

I'd make a video of myself enjoying a delicious, homecooked dinner, and send him a GIF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:33 AM
4

Keep in mind that there is always at least one person ready to treat you like a million bucks, and that's you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:44 PM
32

Men: "Lose weight, you fat cow. It's called self-control." Also men: " 'Biology' conspired over millions of years to force me to collect 4 terabytes of internet porn and break my dick off over it 24/7."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:22 PM
7

The only comment needed before blocking would be, "You need therapy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:04 PM
5

A bricklayer ex-con deadbeat dad. Dude, you need a filter on your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:00 PM
30

I got the chronic masterbator NoFap blowing up my DMs, demanding I tell everyone he's not actually pathetic. He.....failed to convince me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:34 AM
72

I think that men like that seem to suffer from the delusion that waitresses and women from third world countries all exist in a different universe where we think $3 is a ton of money and dropping Lincolns makes them look like high rollers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:41 PM
152

When I waited tables, the Venn diagram of guys who made crappy "be sweet to me and you'll get a big tip" style "jokes," and the guys who subsequently left 8-10% tips, was basically a circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:18 PM
51

I mean, there ARE already surgeries for hair replacement and even to make you taller. Hair replacement isn't even that crazy or expensive. But dudes don't want to spend the same money women do on plastic surgery, they want women to delude themselves en masse that short baldies are hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:07 PM
25

Ah, yes. The pickmeisha believing the boyfriend was "getting abused by his ex," not clearly sticking his dick into her. She's just so mean and bossy, he couldn't help but go over to her house for another bonus round of naked time. Boo hoo, someone save him. Sure, Jan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:48 PM
47

Because the 3 men who assume women are always lying, the 2 men who concern troll about the rapist's life being ruined by accusations, and the 2 men who think that accusing men of rape is some sort of cottage industry for women - they don't want to be lumped in with the rapist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:04 PM
67

His BMI is 35
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:23 AM
14

Well, the good news is that this motherfucker looks pretty easy to outrun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:22 AM
3

He DMed me, whining that I ridiculed him for being addicted to his peepee to the point where he needs it to be his username. lolololol. Your very existence is worthy of ridicule, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:54 PM
48

Oh dear, deemed unsuitable by the chronic masturbator. You must be heartbroken...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:48 AM
3

Lol, they call bougie people cakeeaters in the upper midwest US as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:42 AM
1

That's because women are usually more risk adverse. Just like you don't see a lot of videos of women trying to skateboard on armrails and smash their crotch. I bet the hedge fund people who decided to short the stock 140% weren't women, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 05:52 AM
66

The cheating rationalization always starts out with "You would totally cheat if Beyoncé asked you," then becomes "if it was Beyoncé's cousin," which then becomes "looks a lot like Beyoncé," which then becomes "listens to Beyoncé"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:06 PM
156

Men: "I demand 50/50" Also men: "my 50% should come with free cooking, cleaning, and life coaching, tho"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:03 PM
22

Not to blame the victims, but what are they putting in the water in Kansas that makes people ready to seal the deal after 3 Tinder dates? Jesus Christ himself was single at 33, bitches. I'm sure you can hold out for 6 whole months, holy shit. If you're that desperate to improve your situation in Kansas, just leave Kansas!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:50 PM
43

Newspaper: "Man shoots 10 women" Dudes: "not all men" Oh sure, it was the ratio that was the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:01 PM
168

Lol. I'm guessing his HOURS OF CLEANING is, like, 2 hours. It still looks dirty because he still uses the same sponge from 2018.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:14 AM
54

Yet another guy with a mountain man beard which acts like physical OSHA calendar of how long it's been since his last date, trying to promote literally ruining sex for women. His next post will probably be about how women prefer men who smell like dirty asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:03 PM
4

Lol. I didn't even have to read past "School of Hard Knocks" to automatically KNOW this guy has: No school No job (probably got fired from all of them) Mental health issues that probably make him a crazy asshole Probably illegitimate kids and baby mamas, all of whom are after him for past child support Probably lives in a garbage can somewhere If a guy posts "School of Hard Knocks", do not swipe, do not pass go. Just mentally spray paint a big red X on him like a plague house. Heaven forfend you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:12 PM
50

Think about it. Every time we read in the news that someone has dug up their yard and discovered a buried pile of gold coins and shit from the Middle ages/Ancient Rome/Vikings/etc., it means that there's clearly some historical dude back then who had that exact conversation to his wife who probably told him he's a fucking idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:41 PM
52

Because they only have $35
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:38 PM
61

I just just don't even get what he thought was an intellectual rationale for jerking off to pictures and videos of women over relating to his SO sexually, no matter what they looked like. It's like guys think "well duh, you are just one normal woman, and for me to get off I need 42 women, as sexually exaggerated as possible" is actually a "logical" argument. Um yeah, if you dated someone who said they need to eat 7 dinners every night to feel like they had enough to eat, you'd know that's some "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:47 PM
-1

Her position was compromised the second she complained. Honestly, if a client felt that comfortable sending that picture, her position was born compromised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:04 PM
13

How else do you explain a guy who tries to get you to do drugs with him multiple times after you said you were in recovery? To say nothing of trying to lure you into the woods to his house like John Wayne Gacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:36 PM
23

He was trying to get you to relapse out of your recovery so he could bang. He's a total piece of dogshit, that was eaten by a komodo dragon and then vomited back up and run over by a garbage truck. If he's the "simplified version" or previous guys you meet, then I suggest joining a convent or moving to a different country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:13 PM
70

Men, upon being corrected that female human beings aren't synonymous with coitus: "There go the raging feminists again." Same men, reading the phrase "men are trash" or someone's recollection of actual victimization: "THIS IS HATE SPEECH!!1"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:06 PM
65

Jesus christ! "Oh, you got laid off? Come fuck me on demand in my filthy house that I hope you clean. Oh, but you need to pay half my mortgage so I can buy a car with it. No??! What are you, some kind of opportunist?!" If he thought you should cough up 50% while you were making 0, I'd hate to see what his equality invoice would be if you were fully employed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:33 PM
0

Like, so the fuck what. So was Kurt Cobain. But at the end of the day, Cobain made 3 albums, ODed a couple times and then stuck a rifle in his mouth. Sure, there are still people who jerk off over the documentary and blame his shitty parents and Courtney Love. But it doesn't change the fact that he's the one who did what he did. There's nothing to respect or romanticize there. And it's been 30 years. Nirvana made its mark but the world has also moved on. The rest of us look at the big picture an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:31 PM
12

Women feel guilty for not being submissive chattel even though they have their own money, careers and self-sufficiency the same way men "feel the burden of being the provider" even though they split the rent and utilities down to the bare nickel and sit at home playing Xbox all night while waiting for someone else to feed them and put their laundry away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:54 PM
8

What level of delusional entitlement does Crazyboy have to think he has the inherent right to say psychotic shit to people but not get banned? Like it's right there in the ToS, you stupid ballbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:47 PM
5

"I'm a boob man, that's why I date girls with 32AAs." Said no "boob man" ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:34 PM
357

Lol. "Money-grubbing WHORE!" Derek exclaimed angrily at the screen...then after a quick glance around to check if his wife was still busy doing laundry, he surreptitiously input her credit card number into the checkout screens to buy a new pocket pussy on Amazon and donate to his favorite Onlyfans. It's the joint account, he reasoned. It's technically both of their money...so what if she earns twice what he does...he works hard and deserves to treat himself...He added another $20 to his Onlyfans…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:54 AM
-12

She's been dead a decade. She doesn't need anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:39 AM
43

Exactly. Sometimes we see sewer rats carrying a whole slice of pizza back to their rat family. High value rats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:40 AM
8

Yeah, he forgot where the food was in his own kitchen, he forgot there was no money in their own bank account, he forgot his kids need to be watched even though he's their parent. If I were that woman I'd tell him to forget coming home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:14 AM
22

And despite my previous post, I do have a modicum of empathy for Amy Winehouse. Sometimes the very talent that makes people famous is the worst thing that can happen to them. But it's like...I'm a Gen Xer. The number of famous performers who self-destructed and died outnumber the ones who are still around. Why would I have more empathy for Amy Winehouse than Scott Weiland, another performer who got tons of chances and couldn't get his shit together, like ever. He just managed to make it to 47 in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:49 AM
178

Like, let's just do a reality check: Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos and Brad Pitt are all divorced. So there literally isn't enough money or hotness in the world to put up with some dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:36 AM
12

No one willingly signed up for the date rape! I'm forced to use treachery! It's bad UX, not the fact that I'm a psychopath!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:41 PM
12

If they don't like our 1st amendment rights, let's see how they like our 2nd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:40 PM
7

What a fucking rapist. If you have to consciously and deliberately pretend you're not rapey just to get a date, then no it is not the women who are mistaken about "how Tinder works."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:36 PM
9

Women everywhere need to start adding "must function at 3-digit IQ level at all times" to their dealbreaker list. If your man acts like he can't figure out how to look in cupboards in his own home, ask him if you need to file for government aid for caretaking the mentally disabled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:10 PM
13

How lazy and stupid can someone be if they "can't find food" in their own house??!? Like, where does he think it's kept?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:51 PM
12

I picture Patrick Swayze in Too Wong Foo, in full drag, describing the people in the car as "Career girls" to Officer Dullard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:42 PM
11

Yet another middle-aged, bald scrote tries to justify flexing his Svengali kink by siphoning off the energy of college grads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:46 PM
2

I agree. I'm not going around dealing with dudes demanding strangle anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:00 AM
10

Day 2.... Blue lighter came to me in a dream to inform me that touching my own butt is "gay". And being thought of as "gay" by random people who have no actual impact in my real life is basically a death sentence socially, professionally, perhaps even physically. And by socially and physically, I mean "on the internet where I post anonymously," which is basically the same thing. I have thrown away all asshole-adjacent materials such as my washcloths and moist wipes. Goodbye bubble bath and loofa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:20 AM
7

READ THE FUCKING HANDBOOK! 1) DO BELIEVE THEM when they say shit like "I am bad at relationships" and "I've been single forever" and "I don't often meet women I like." Do not treat this as a challenge to prove them wrong! They will prove YOU wrong. 2) DO NOT FALL FOR THE FAMILY OPINION! It's not a fucking democracy. You're not dating his aunt Susie, so it doesn't matter if she thinks you're great. His entire family could think you're the bee's knees, it won't make him like you anymore than he do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:52 AM
6

Yep. You were the practice girlfriend and now he's moving on to a real one. I bet he told you a bunch of crap about how he can barely bring himself to do [tiny relationship thing normal guys have no problem doing] because he's so rusty at relationships and so fragile after being terminally single, so you should be super duper flattered and practically consider yourself married because once he tagged you on Facebook. That's why you don't settle for zoom dates and other minimum BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:43 AM
1

Well, if you have his parents' address then you have a good start. Just call his mom 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:49 PM
3

You could probably do an information search based on his last known address
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:37 PM
7

You don't need a lawyer for small claims, iirc. If the judgment goes in your favor and he still doesn't pay up, many jurisdictions allow for a sheriff's writ of execution. You file for the writ and pay a fee and basically the long arms of the law come in, pick him up by the ankles, and start shaking until the monies and property that satisfy the debt fall out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:21 PM
31

I would...but...it's getting...hard...to....communicate..... Please signal again....but use a nicer tone of voice ...I. am...not....a....mind.........reader.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:49 PM
42

Blue Lighter just told me that all the stupid shit I do with zero self-awareness isn't my fault; it's due to the lack of positive male role models in my life. Clearly that's the fault of all the female role models in my life. They should have done more than already-everything so they could actually keep a man. Men are such elusive creatures. So true, gendered lighter...so true...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:38 PM
87

I would have gotten the 8-in-1 soap that also cleans my oven, but then I was like...why should I clean my oven?! That's some other bitch's job. Thanks, blue lighter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:21 PM
153

I feel that guy's pain. I needed a lighter to light my aromatherapy candles, and they gave me a light blue one. I ended up going home, punching a hole in my wall, throwing away all my skincare and buying some 7-in-1 combo soap, and grinding cheese curls into my rug while binge-watching old Spike TV shows. Damn you, gendered lighter!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:11 PM
45

You're being a massive pickme. Dating self-described "players" who literally act like they could take you or leave you? "Long-distance" relationships? So what do you do, send nudes and blow up their egos from afar while they pursue connections with women actually in their proximity? Give me a break. Know what first prize is for winning the "everlasting affection" of an asshole? It's an asshole. Get some self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:00 PM
529

I've known a few guys like this. During their college days they just churned through so many smart, pretty, hard-working, studious, ambitious women like they were nothing. They'd neg them, treat them like crap, ditch them on weekends with lame excuses. Dump them by blatantly cheating on them. But college, like all things, came to an end, and then they weren't cool frat guys anymore, they were just entry-level small-town dicks whose beer and pizza habits packed on 40 lbs they couldn't shake off. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:17 AM
104

Eh, he won't have the balls to ruin her wedding. He won't even make it through their "closure lunch" at Applebees without getting his ego shredded into microscopic pieces over finding out just how short he measured up against the competition. After all, he's the one who found the idea that she'd move on as laughable. He literally thought she was going to sit there like Elf on a Shelf for TWO YEARS! What arrogance. She might have been as non-committal as "I'll have my people call your people" and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:57 AM
3

Well...one of my high school classmates had twins via IVF, then developed ovarian cancer a couple years later and died. So, there's that. That said...you can develop ovarian cancer and die at 43 without having done anything with your life. Is that really how you wanna play it, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:24 AM
2

> Sure "Just like they can take pictures of themselves out on the town or of their delicious dinner because they want to commemorate their personal experience" but I keep seeing people celebrating things that consists in taking picture...I don't know if I make sense but the main event becomes taking pictures. I get what you're saying. They're doing it to be "more popular" instead of to remember how they live their lives. Living life is definitely not the same as gamifying your life by having all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:24 AM
3

Hmmm. I don't think it makes EVERYONE uglier as a rule, but I have seen people in real life who look fucking weird because they've confused their Kardashian Profile Angle on Instagram with how they look in real life, and they got all sorts of shit injected in their face that looks too uncanny IRL. I think that social media tends to promote an extremely pervasive, insidious form of performative conformity. Beauty seems to be a component of that conformity. Everyone needs the same face, the same a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:04 AM
20

When I was 25, my future husband coquettishly said "he didn't know what he wanted to be when he grew up." When I was 45 and divorcing him, he was still saying it. 'Nuff said. Ladies, your career will never sit at home for 18 months, waiting for you to get through evening traffic so you can start cooking dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:13 PM
20

Eh. If it makes you feel better, I'm a "90s adult" and I can tell you that when I was your age, plastic surgery was just as popular because everyone wanted to look like Pam Anderson with her ultra-fake everythings. I was terrified of wrinkles as a 27-year old and planning on saving my nickels and dimes for "preventative" Botox and all that shit, just like you. People were just as worshippy of the 30-and-under crowd, and shows like Friends, SATC and Ally McBeal made women just as obsessed with be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:45 PM
8

I think there's a difference between wanting to look like The Hottest Woman On Earth and wanting to look generally like an improved version of yourself. I know plenty of guys who've gotten nose jobs and other cosmetic fixes. They weren't trying to look like Zac Efron, they were just trying to "more normal".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:31 PM
10

Don't spend $800 perfecting your face if you're not willing to hold your male standards higher than a guy who definitely washes his own asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:19 PM
22

And Alfred Hitchcock was obsessed with her, and since she wouldn't touch him with a ten-foot pole, he abused her in his movies. It must have been the best day of her fucking life to tell him to go to Hell as she swanned off to be the Princess of Monaco.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:14 PM
19

Especially when that article features Russell Crowe, who looks like the last peak he conquered involved a giant stack of Krispy Kremes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:10 PM
28

I'm nearly 50 myself and I can tell you that MAYBE 10% of men my own age look fuckable. Another 30% have that "Paul Giamatti-ish" quality like they could grow on you if they have other good character traits, and the rest are ready for the fucking dumpster because they look like shit, they're boring and have no interesting qualities, and they're idiots. I will be a cat-hoarding, atheist nun before I settle for some Larry David-with-no-money-or-humor type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:07 PM
7

under the table
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:57 PM
14

Russell Crowe has aged like a comedian's 12 year old "edgy" tweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:57 PM
59

That's the dumbest shit I've ever seen. Hopefully every woman this guy dates decides to cheat on him to "see if they feel bad about it." Is it even cheating if they don't feel bad about it? /JadenSmithlogic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:54 PM
34

That post pretty much summed up my sex life with my ex-husband. Just throw on the whining if he didn't get sex on demand, plus the endless critiquing of how I didn't do the sex correctly and made him cum too fast (he was a minute man) and other ridiculous shit. I went 12 years without an orgasm during sex, thanks to all that. I literally got to a point where I just could not force himself to fuck him one more time, ever again. His new ladyfriend is the jealous type and I just want to tell her, n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:13 PM
5

It's kind of amazing that the world has gone on this long blaming Hitler himself, instead of Hitler's mom and Eva Braun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:45 PM
33

I've never met or even heard of any woman who had a hoard of a million dildoes. But there's legions of dudes proud of their terabytes of curated porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:33 PM
4

Pretty sure the last chick that fatass Mike Butler spent $150 on was Chik Fil-A. Who does he think he's kidding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:00 AM
4

He's probably hoping she validates so his parking is cheaper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:41 AM
131

Who cares about his swimmers. What about the rest of him? Do you really want to have to deal with toddlers all by yourself because Daddy Double-ARP needs a nap more than they do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:04 AM
33

The best way to make a pickme face her own choices is to stop letting her try to get partial credit. That's what LVMs tell them, and they need to realize it's bullshit. This is a pass/fail world, henny! Sure, he can take you on a home date if he somehow does that romcom, "fine dining on the roof" thing where he sets the table with flowers and linens and wine and cooks/procures the gourmet dinner, and puts on a suit. That's a home date. Pizza in sweatpants? That's just home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:53 AM
3

Too many dating gurus tell successful women that they have to accept dating down if they want the family thing. Which is like...that's a good argument to change your mind on the family thing. What's really going to be more rare, a guy who's on your level or a guy who will actually make a good and enthusiastic support partner/house husband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:36 AM
5

Feel inadequate, then project it back onto her like she owes him a financial aid program so the neighbors can think he makes enough money to date her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:47 PM
136

Are they even driving anywhere? Are they even GOING anywhere? It's a pandemic. This guy's bitching about having to spend $50 for her food on Grubhub. Which they probably eat in her nice apartment that she furnishes and cleans, on her nice plates, drinking booze she probably bought, before going to her bed. Like, what the fuck does he expect? There ain't no double coupon Tuesday in dating, Travis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:11 PM
256

He's probably using scrotemath where he thinks he could be taking 20 waitresses out for coffee and walks for the price of 1 lawyer with a nice apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:05 PM
140

Guys like this always think they're getting totally fucked in the dating phase, but then you go on AITA and see the 1208756519th post from a woman who makes 1/3 what her SO makes and he's insisting she go 50/50 on the rent while he gets his own man-cave. Like, cough up for her entree, Travis. Even if she makes more than you, $80k is enough to AFFORD DINNER. If she's expecting you to pitch in half for her penthouse, then you might have room to complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:59 PM
5

Who needs an IRA when you can dump all your extra income into your econo-hooker fund? Enjoy living off your $1k/month social security check while you rant that there's no nice women to take care of you OR free hookers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:56 PM
15

Lol. There was a video from Collegehumor from around 2012 called "We will marry your girlfriends" to promote legalizing gay marriage. They made a very strong case!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:53 PM
37

Loneliness can also be a result of projecting all your self-worth onto other people. If you depend solely on external validation to feel good about yourself, you set yourself up for settling for crumbs from shitty people. You can be alone or single without being lonely. You can even be lonely, but without feeling worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:43 PM
17

There need to be more trucks and fat baldies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:35 AM
23

Dogs don't get worse the longer you own them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:44 AM
13

The keyword that LVMs always rely on and emphasize is the word "TRYING." They're not actually changing, they're "TrYInG tO ChAnGe." If their effort looks suspiciously like next-to-no effort, that's because they're STILL TRYING. It's such a slow process, trying. Like, people become medical doctors in the same amount of time that LVMs achieve improvement through trying. (/s) Oh, they totally forgot they should also clean the bathroom even though you've been telling them it's their turn to do it ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:05 AM
5

I hear you. They make it sound like men are finally making some noble sacrifice when women are the ones who actually have to recover and manage things like breastfeeding if they go that route.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:44 PM
25

It depends on whether one's work culture includes hand-wringing tone police (oh dear, you were acerbic to the inappropriate guy), but I agree with you that ideally a straight no is called for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:33 PM
38

You may have to also literally add, "No thanks." at the beginning to get that "no" officially documented. Also, keep any mention of "we" or yourself out of the phrasing. Don't say "our communication," don't say "our professional relationship" or anything that could remotely imply a connection between you two beyond your work interaction. Keep the focus on him and the fact that he is acting this way all by himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:46 PM
60

Fuck that guy. Oh, he "doesn't like giving gifts?" Yeah, it's so sucky and inconvenient to be thoughtful and generous towards other people instead of just a selfish asshat all the time. /s I'm sure he's totally the same way about receiving gifts and would be thrilled with a candle wrapped like a hobo's 40 oz., not. Invite your friend group to your housewarming without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:43 PM
10

It could have been worse. He could have been angling to move in and pay $100 rent while demanding you add him to the deed as a show of faith in your relationship. Make your house your dream nest! It will scroteproof your life and provide a fortress for every time some jackass tries to coerce you into a $5 coffee date by asking, "WeLL WhaT dO YoU BrInG tO ThE TaBLe?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:29 PM
131

"Please keep your communication professional." 1) gives him no implied option to sniff around on other channels, 2) gives zero indication of returned interest 3) implies that his job may be impacted. Also works for those type of HR departments that expect you to prove you told them no first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:11 PM
77

Lol, panorama. Definitely look at the big picture, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:58 PM
5

Definitely the vibe of, "it costs a little more, but I’m worth it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:36 PM
3

That is so pretty!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:34 PM
8

Hello, fellow ~kids~ adult women! How u doin. A/s/l. What do you mean, go away!? I am legally entitled to hit on you, now shut up and sit there while I do so! Where was I? Oh yeah...how u doin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:23 PM
9

He was too dense to recognize the meangirl laugh...probably because he's been out of high school for 13 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:09 PM
41

Why would I need to cook, if he is literally a professional chef. Here's your $15. Get in the kitchen and do your job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:46 PM
23

Yeah, Kevin Federline called, he wants his look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:20 PM
13

There are so many posts in relationship subs that go, "I (20F) am sick of doing basic life shit for my SO (26M). How do I get my several-years-older-than-me man to learn how to cook, clean and pay bills and rent? I feel like I'm going crazy. What is this?!" Ladies, you aren't crazy. Unfortunately, you were told a lie, which is that nowadays, men are taught to reciprocate. If anything, they are more hopeless than ever, for far longer than you ever feared. Run while you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:58 PM
51

Or "clearly this necklace cost you 25 bucks. But that's okay, I usually mix your sausage with at least 50% real beef to make it palatable"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:20 PM
3

When it comes to men, it's NEVER the case. Because men are raised to feel entitled to a selfless, ingratiating woman no matter what. The assholes don't treat you well because they think they don't have to, and they don't want to. They think it's amusing not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:56 AM
37

Someone who is constantly eating is never hungry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:56 PM
10

What you describe is proof that you can't cure an LVM by leading by example. It only highlights the abyss between the behavior you show them and what they show you. When you find yourself ruminating over all the energy and care you poured into that black hole of a man (an exercise in self-loathing if there ever was one), break out a piece of paper and make a list of how you could use the same amount of energy, care, time, thoughtfulness, MONEY - to benefit yourself. Cook your favorite comfort fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:45 PM
71

And she should take "their" furniture with her, because it's clear who paid for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:36 PM
14

Because they view sex as a commodity and the person they want sex from as an object. Asking them to deprive themselves of pleasure is along the same lines of being deprived as much steak as they want for the sake of the cows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:23 PM
22

Just try "bantering" with a man like men are so proud to do to each other. A 30 second roast later, and they'll think you're the biggest bitch alive. Because men are hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:44 PM
23

Honestly, unless your major is in something totally superfluous, yes it is. It's basically a golden ticket and a lot of top employers will only choose Ivy League for upper level career tracks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:30 PM
16

It sounds about right for a non-subsidized Ivy League education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:21 PM
4

Funny, women also want men to make a decent meal and be romantic. Chop chop, jackass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:55 AM
6

Guys: Porn is just a harmless fantasy! It's a meaningless, idle way to pass the time! Guys when Pornhub removes 80% of its content for being unverified and potentially nefarious: WE WILL OVERTHROW THIS COUNTRY FOR TAKING THIS AWAY FROM US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:15 PM
68

It's a take on the Matrix, where if you take the blue pill, you stay in the Matrix. But if you take the Red Pill, you learn how to master the Matrix, because Agent Smith could be beaten by taking him on cheap coffee dates, telling him he'd be hotter if he lost 10 lbs, refusing to do chores and sexting Agent Smith's friends and then telling Agent Smith he's just being insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:48 AM
170

My ex used to work at a pawn shop. There are plenty of dudes out there who will put a pawned Rolex on layaway for a year as the finishing touch for their $30k millionaire costume. I mean, who are we kidding? They'd put the belt on layaway. Then they'll waste their paycheck buying bottle service to snow some poor gal who will still subsequently find herself in a shit hole one-bedroom garden-level apartment in Sketchtown, watching him watch Scarface for the 100th time because he thinks Tony Montan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:53 PM
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