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How will you improve without being willing to self critique following a rejection?
/r/seduction07/05/26 10:31 PM
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Actually low supply of men women view as attractive & high demand for such
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:28 PM
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“It’s very hard to believe the plight of women when one of those plights is just not wanting to do better at losing weight. And to a similar extent, girls complaining about fit women being treated better, but not wanting to do the work to be attractive like these woman do.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:49 PM
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Such pain beneath these words, I wish you the best in your relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:44 AM
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That’s b/c rule 2 is soft advice. If you confidently walk right up to her, call her beautiful & ask where she’s from then carry on the convo from there no woman is thinking “woah what a simp who’s beneath me.” The issue is the convo usually ends there, or devolves into further compliments. That rule helps prevent that route
/r/seduction25/04/26 12:51 PM
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Ye I firmly believe in the ‘samurai’ strategy of all-in on first impression/first date. It’s either a magical night for her ending in sex or it’s gg with no expectations of another chance/date Coined from historic duels between samurai being decided in a single, decisive blow. Blowout or strikeout
/r/seduction25/04/26 12:48 PM
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You’d do all the same stuff if you could. That you can’t doesn’t make you a saint. Some of the most brutal dudes I’ve ever seen in how they play women were former ‘nice guys’ who became attractive & exploited it to the fullest extent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:14 AM
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Ye
/r/seduction24/04/26 10:01 PM
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delaying sex w/ touch girls is wild, she just wanted to not seem slutty w/ plausible deniability
/r/seduction24/04/26 01:43 PM
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Likely got more tail in his short life than the other will in 80ish years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:53 AM
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Modern red pill is Designed for cope instead of progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:52 AM
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It’s quite true. Waaaay more girls will let you eat her out than bend her over. If she only allows the former n it stops there u didn’t get laid in any sense and her subsequent coldness relative to if you had that night should hint that After sex the power dynamic shifts between you, eating pussy will never trigger that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:47 AM
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Wrong sub
/r/seduction24/04/26 10:35 AM
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We haven’t met yet, how much she likes me is irrelevant. After we’ve met, she either dropped her panties that night or there’s very little chance of a second
/r/seduction24/04/26 10:32 AM
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b less friendly
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:03 PM
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those "abundance of options willing to be providers" aren't perceived as genuine options to those women. Just like femcels dont consider incels a genuine option and are thus femcels
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:02 PM
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Those dudes described are mostly invisible to women so aren’t accounted for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:20 PM
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Those observations tie into your behavior as well, guys successful with women have an aura about them that makes future conquests easier even in the absence of third party signals of value. The first few (noncommittal) lays are the hardest regardless of her attractiveness for this reason. You have to overcome that initial lack
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:15 PM
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Rlly Curious ur approx age now n if u settled down w/ 17 years of experience. I wonder if even 40+ you can still run FWB lifestyle w/ at least late 20s girls
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:09 PM
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Having other girls interested in you in the first place like that is already such a big boost it doesn’t matter
/r/seduction19/04/26 06:26 PM
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I agree with the others, having big OLD success makes transition to cold approaches very difficult but OLD won’t get you as hot of girls as you otherwise could cold approaching. You’ll feel incredibly out of your element now speaking to girls who haven’t already expressed attraction and interest in you first
/r/seduction19/04/26 06:22 PM
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Women have been ‘looksmaxxing’ since ancient times. That men doing the same is so relatively new is exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:02 PM
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My fav is the upsetness that he’s sleeping with someone else not still hung up over u n that’s the problem in ur mind
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:47 PM
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Male attractiveness isn’t culturally enforced. Most dudes don’t realize the importance of being attractive until they’re already an adult looking to date. They get confused, go online to ask y 0 matches n get fed cookie cutter dribble that won’t help them in any way. Many girls told me even as children they knew how important being pretty was culturally. Often because other women told them directly. So many girls have a lifetime to figure out how to optimize their beauty. Men only begin to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:43 PM
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Most girls don’t want/expect to but will for the right guy. There’s always an exception to the rule n the key is to figure out how to be that exception Saying ull take literally ne girl tho is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:31 PM
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I’ve gotten tail from ghosting pussy b4, it takes very little effort to reengage 2 c y they ghosted n maybe retry compared to what you’ve already put in. Just have many convos spinning at once
/r/seduction04/04/26 02:23 PM
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This is why Reddit is an atrocious eyeglass to judge anything about the real world by
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:12 PM
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You’re a non-threat. No one’s fighting you for the same reason a 9 year old could do the exact same thing & be in just as much danger of being beaten up. It’s not bravery, it’s being subconsciously aware of this & using it to diffuse a situation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:13 AM
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Preferring bad boys remains a dating stereotype i believe in for most women. Slutty too, but not to that extreme moreso just that they enjoy sex about as much as men do but have far more pressures to not seek it out casually with multiple partners
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:18 PM
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10
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:24 AM
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There it is. This ‘looks benchmark’ isn’t the bar women are referring to when they say it. It’s how men act.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:54 AM
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I had girls come straight to my place for the sole purpose of sex. Make out at the door, dicking her down within 10 minutes of meeting her. She leaves shortly after I finish, texts me when she’s horny and looking to fuck again. Girls want sex too.
/r/seduction05/12/24 05:36 PM
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I think the reality is very few men are truly incels. Incels can’t get laid at all barring prostitution. ‘Slut’ can be applied for any number of partners. There’s guys who genuinely think if ur not a virgin for them ur a slut simple as, & there’s guys who wouldn’t consider u a slut until 100+ partners
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:00 AM
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People are not birds.
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:26 PM
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Romantic/sexual implication either vocally or through body language n touch
/r/seduction22/11/24 09:45 PM
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Girls love main character syndrome when it’s embraced & they’re allowed a special place in your ‘story’ This is just insecurity & that repulses women
/r/seduction21/11/24 12:13 PM
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I agree in the sense that you can seduce a woman anywhere & don’t need to treat her to dinner to get her to want to sleep with you. Coffee, drinks, a walk in the park. You turn her on, not the date itself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:59 PM
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Hence the results not being Trump doing better but Harris losing 17m+ votes compared to 2020 He only riled up the same people he always does, this election was a reflection of Democrat failings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:21 AM
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You mentioned minors a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:05 PM
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I think he’s saying back then you needed fault to get divorced, and being denied sex was considered a valid fault, similar to adultery, infertility, abandonment, abuse, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:01 PM
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I’m quite confident her idea of “friends first” still involves you paying for all the ‘friendly’ dates you’ll be taking her on as you patiently twiddle your thumbs Don’t bother imo
/r/seduction07/11/24 12:21 PM
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Have you already slept together in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 08:57 PM
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You don’t need to be nice or good to have a successful relationship with women. Stop listening to what women say they want & look at who they get with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:10 PM
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Terrible advice at the end. The vast, vast, vast majority of women are attracted to some level of confidence, it’s no different than guys being attracted to tits & ass. How they prefer that confidence expressed does vary tho
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:38 PM
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I’ll give the total reverse. If guys were more willing to treat women as equally sexual creatures, as depicted in porn, versus taking their cues from the latest romantic comedy & pedestalizing them, they’d have much much more success attracting women. Both for casual sex & relationships. Genuinely dominant men are very hard to find now, to the point just mentioning BDSM experience gets many women deeply fascinated, whether they have any of their own or not It’s just so odd to me then how online …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:18 PM
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I find harsh but honest criticism the most helpful. No, because you said ‘able to get a hug & kiss’ like this was a big deal. That was a big deal in middle school you should be thinking at least in terms of making out in terms of escalation if you want things to get sexual with this girl. This would be your third date coming up & you haven’t sexualized at all to this point. You haven’t seduced her nor tried to, instead you ‘got to know her’. You need to establish a sexual vibe & go on your dates…
/r/seduction26/09/24 06:27 PM
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That comes after you smashed her
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:19 PM
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That’s not what seduction is bro. But yes you need to be physical with a girl to express romantic intent
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:19 PM
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Serious question you’re trying to fuck this girl right? Like as a goal you’re trying to escalate these dates to where she’s horny enough to wanna go back to your place & smash?
/r/seduction26/09/24 01:49 PM
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Yup. To some extent. Best way to think of it is as primordial humans who had to communicate their intent & seduce mostly through body language & gestures
/r/seduction26/09/24 12:44 PM
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She’s asking why you’re still single in so many words, which is a great sign of interest it means she’s trying to figure out why despite the attractive qualities you’re displaying you’re not with someone already. I almost always say that I was in a long term relationship for several years & took a break from dating for awhile & have only really been looking for a few months
/r/seduction25/09/24 12:36 PM
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You’re not here to win’s society’s approval you’re here to fuck girls. You cannot do both. Worry about what works not what the masses tell you
/r/seduction24/09/24 09:48 PM
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What she posts on tik tok as her standards are utterly irrelevant. Look at her Exs instead
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:04 PM
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That was an actual neg, u just didn’t intend it but the whole point was it’s teasing/playful exactly like you did
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:10 AM
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I show up 15-30 min early to scope it out & decide where we’re gonna sit
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:54 PM
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Hell no be upfront about your intentions. Who has time to waste months on some girl u haven’t even fucked yet anyway. Say “I always start things casual but I’m open to things becoming serious with the right person” you can have sex with loads of relationship girls this way & not mislead or waste time. They know if they don’t put out you’re out because from the get-go you made it clear, so they’ll sleep with you so you don’t move on
/r/seduction19/09/24 08:12 PM
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Say you’re short term open to long. IE you start all relationships casual but you’re open to things getting serious over time with the right person. Given that even dudes who get into this with 0 LTR intention still end up catching feelings for a FWB this statement is almost always going to be true
/r/seduction14/09/24 10:32 PM
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To encourage the behavior in men by making them think it’ll help attract women. Same as with all nice guy advice. Understand women by the actions they take, not the words they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:24 PM
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You’re asking how getting consistent hookups work for guys who neither use the apps or approach women irl? It doesn’t, you need agency in your life.
/r/seduction14/09/24 02:00 PM
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Open relationship with the latter girl so the former is my FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:20 PM
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Women love complaining about fuckboys almost as much as they love fucking them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:10 PM
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Nice, good shit. Furthers the point bro doesn’t need to swap his game up at all just get back on the apps
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:40 PM
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For Tinder agreed but for Hinge? That’s the app people seem to have the most trouble getting back on
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:17 PM
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Just learn how to bypass the bans bro (way easier on tinder than hinge) and keep doing what worked. This isn’t some big deal, you’d just need a cheap burner phone with a pay by month sim card, not use the same IP address & clear any meta data from your photos or use entirely new ones. & if you wanna pay for subscriptions don’t use a payment method tied to your legal name
/r/seduction11/09/24 03:52 PM
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You cease to be another of an endless number of suitors & instead join the inner circle of guys she’s fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:32 PM
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This reverses the moment you sleep with her. After you’ve had sex with her it’s infinitely easier to get the girl in the chaser role. Until you’ve had sex you’re still just a prospect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:49 PM
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A self-survey of users is very unreliable. If women were less likely to respond to the survey & men were more, just that fact alone would skew the results
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:10 PM
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Where are the dates usually @ with this method or depends . Any straight to your place?
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:41 PM
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If you’re just meeting up at your place to fuck multiple times a week is fine IMO. If you guys go out and do date stuff first every time once a week to avoid feelings
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:13 AM
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Thanks Al-Qaeda
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:12 AM
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No more or less than any other random guy I don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:20 PM
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Neither the facts nor reasons would be normal/average though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:15 PM
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My photos are 4 indoor selfies with no smile and the same 2 shirts. But I look very attractive in every single photo. 20-50 matches a day across dating apps & my profile states short term open to long I had 1 single not as good photo that had me smiling with teeth that I kept around for the longest time & ‘only’ got 10-20 matches a day until I replaced it
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:10 PM
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I see things differently. I know virtually every guy would fuck any decent looking girl who asked them, friend or not. I also know the vast majority of men, as they presently are, stand no chance of being picked for a casual sex encounter, so I’d only be concerned about those men who women often choose to sleep with casually. That’s the guy you don’t want around your girl w/o you nearby, fuckboys & players. The type who can seduce her in a single night and get her panties off before her senses r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:48 PM
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I’ve have a FWB I took to see the new Deadpool movie & a FWB I text every couple of days asking her to come over that night. I’m also casual ATM with a girl I’m potentially interested in an LTR with at some point, My flow chart is we sleep together, it was bad sex/some sort of incompatibility, one night stand. It was good sex, FWB. It was good sex & I’m interested in a deeper romantic connection, casual open to serious as our connection grows Of those in the FWB category there’s those I’d hang w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:39 PM
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I always just sorta go for it after enough physical escalation. I try to wait for a moment sometimes but others just gotta make that moment. I moved way too quickly once and got kiss rejected but by the end of the date we were making out so it isn’t that big of a deal imo
/r/seduction11/08/24 03:31 PM
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🥹
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:38 PM
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These days only When/if she asks
/r/seduction07/08/24 12:37 AM
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I say I’m always casual first but open to LTR with the right connection. It’s completely true & sets the expectation that we won’t be committed just because we fuck
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:24 PM
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7+
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:12 AM
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By not telling them about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:10 AM
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For me being laid a lot has absolutely helped. It would be nice if all my confidence came internally but using past external validation like seducing and having had sex with cute girls before is a big driving force behind my confidence now with women & in general
/r/seduction02/08/24 05:02 AM
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You know what’s funny now that I’m attractive I get to be extremely blatantly sexual and chicks love that shit so long as it’s not the very first thing I do & they feel like I’m still treating them like a person versus sex object outside the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:19 AM
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I respect that. I was married before, though, and I see myself married again in the future. When that happens her notch count will be of very little importance to me I’d just expect her to give me the same respect with my own
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:44 AM
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Nah I love sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:37 AM
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So I can have sex with you obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:30 AM
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Black Dragon’s ultimate open relationships manual is a good start. Talks all about how to differentiate FWBs from spinned plates & how to spin those plates in a fairly ethical manor that avoids any actual cheating and scales all the way up to open marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:38 PM
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You have to touch her and escalate physically. That’s the entire point of a physical date, no matter the setting. Without it you can’t build the sexual tension needed to turn it romantic from platonic You can be talking about the EXACT same things. Exact same convo word per word, but one with you touching her a lot and one with you sitting there & the vibe is night and day
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:50 PM
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I assure you I am very, very rewarded
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:30 AM
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Touchy girls likely have touch love language which is the best kind imo and at least the most likely to have hot sex with you
/r/seduction27/07/24 02:31 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:47 PM
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Yeah it needs to include all the male patrons being replaced with bears whenever the women feel uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:31 PM
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Yeah men should also have electrodes hooked up to their junk that detects whenever they get the slightest erection that zaps their balls whenever it detects increased blood flow within 100m of a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:23 PM
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This sounds like a red pill strawman for an extreme blue pill stance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:03 PM
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Mocktails/sparkling juice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:49 PM
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And yet I’m rewarded by all women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:46 PM
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Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:40 PM
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That’s because RP men aren’t a monolith. There’s RP men who are successful with women, excluding logistics factors like low pop area. These guys believe what they believe and do all that they do because it works, and often find conservative ideals annoying because they’d interfere with their harems. These aren’t the ones pushing for no contraceptive & shit like that. Then there’s the RP dudes who aren’t successful with women, and they use RP justifications for why that is rather than using the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:22 PM
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Read “The Ultimate Open Relationship Manual” by Black Dragon. It tells you exactly how to get traditionally monogamous western women comfortable with a non-exclusive relationship with you. If you’ve got the attracting women aspect of your life down learning how to manage them so you can have as much drama free sex and fun dates as possible makes seducing women a much better investment than having a bunch of ONS. Seduction is the most difficult part of the interaction, as fun and thrilling as it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:56 PM
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The perfect mentality
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:46 PM
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Once guys get very successful with women the confidence boost it gives them makes them think their opinions on other things outside attracting women are more valuable than they really are, just like experts in one field thinking they know what they are talking about outside of that field.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:17 PM
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A playboy would absolutely hit on every single attractive girl of his friend group and that would be the expectation
/r/seduction23/07/24 12:00 AM
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Guys crying gives girls the Ick there’s a reason no dude cries in front of his girl no matter what shit they say unless absolutely overwhelmed. You even hear it from the women perspective of seeing her guy in a certain light until one day he cried and she could never see him that way again. Just don’t fuck with it bro they can’t help the way they are
/r/seduction22/07/24 10:19 PM
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All I know is women love how I smell it’s definitely an aspect of attraction that gets overlooked but I don’t think it’s them smelling high t or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:23 PM
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Evil women exist and are attracted to evil men. All this talk about sexual disorders belittles them & stems from the women are wonderful effect. Maybe some have a genuine disorder and are otherwise good people, but most are just morally bankrupt evil and genuinely see shit like that as hot or at least not a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:12 PM
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Agreed, new guys have little choice but to fake it till they make it, convince the first few girls & then use that momentum to build inner game from past experience.
/r/seduction21/07/24 05:49 PM
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Men can also mentally get her to lust after you too for casual sex. Your photos turn her on + ur words turn her on = sex provided she’s comfortable too once u meet in person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:35 PM
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‘Dates’ as in straight to my place for sex with no public visibility? Absolutely. But I’d only do public first dates w/ girls I’d want to be seen in public with.
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:11 AM
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You want her to be trouble though, no? I’d say “you’re pretty cute. But you look like trouble” and when she says she is you can very easily sexualize from there. Just be sure to pivot to investment building afterwards and not try date close from here unless she’s blatantly and spontaneously DTF Real qualifying should occur later, just before the date close so she feels like she ‘earned’ you asking her out with her responses. Very important step to reduce flakes
/r/seduction17/07/24 01:48 PM
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“Learn to talk to women as regular people” ‘regular’ is the keyword here. You’re right, to learn game you need to learn how to talk to women as a man to a woman, not like she’s one of your bros and not like how she talks to one of her friends either Its a hard balance to master
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:13 PM
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You’re not going to logic and argue your way out of men nigh universally seeing being a single mother as unattractive. You can debate men until you’re blue in the face that it shouldn’t be considered as such and how bad and shallow they all are for seeing it that way, but it is what it is. At the end of the day there’s something innately off-putting about having another dude’s spawn attached to you, and to deal with in any relationship with you. It’s a natural, instinctual response of repulsion …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:54 AM
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I always pay but I also always implicitly go into the first date trying to get laid, don’t do beyond casual coffee/drink dates until the deed’s been done and only ever wait until the 2nd date before moving on if she doesn’t put out. If you made your intentions clear the entire time you want sex but it’s not a communicated expectation tbh that’s the best way to get laid casually
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:31 AM
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What? I’ve FWB bi and queer women & they like the same stuff other women do. I will say they’re more appreciative of having certain feminine aspects, but only secondary to still desiring the primary masculine aspects women universally find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:06 PM
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Former athletes, male models and movie stars are top 1%, not 10%. Top 1% male dating is hugely different from top 10% male dating. There’s rungs of OLD success that tell you exactly where your profile’s perceived SMV is. 1-3 matches a week? Average/above average. A few consistent matches per day? Top 30%. 10+ matches a day? 20%. Guys getting 100+ matches a day would be top 10% and top 1% would get the same treatment men give women in OLD with thousands upon thousands of matches a day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:47 PM
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Actually a no-commitment ONS just has the prerequisite of being physically able to look at you during the sex act, and sometimes not even that. In attractive male OLD you can focus your time on the highest quality matches, taking your time going on multiple dates before pushing sex if needed, because you have ‘free’ pussy mostly on tap with minimal effort. Everything about dating as a guy becomes infinitely easier with that dynamic of being able to casually hook up with less attractive girls whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:34 PM
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There are a lot of elements at play because what makes an attractive male attractive is so hotly debated. You have many people here convinced male attractiveness is all physical, that you need to be 6 feet with abs and movie star looks to have any real shot being seen attractive enough to enjoy casual sex with multiple women or find the woman of your dreams. They’re closer to the truth than whoever said “just rescue kittens” as a way to increase SMV, but the other camp isn’t wrong for their effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:53 AM
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Susan. Maybe Susan just needs some me in her life to relax more. Mary is next
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:54 AM
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I feel you. Even if that were that case though it still shows they aren’t the exact same brain, which seems to be OP’s point. Even if they’re focused on the .001% difference ignoring the rest, it still implies there’s a fundamental difference no matter how minute. From then on we’re just debating the degrees of difference rather than debating if the brains are exact replicas or not, which personally I’ve never fully bought into even during my blue pill phase
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:07 PM
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Yeah I was gonna be FWB with this girl but then found out she had a lot on trauma (SH scars everywhere) and was blowing up my phone about how depressed she was so I ended up just making it a ONS which she was very upset about & accused me of that being my intention all along
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:40 AM
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‘Beta game’ lmao. Game is one of the last few TRP aspects left from the OG, and you don’t run red pill game you run game that works. TRP just explains why game works. You can have crazy good game and not be RP, and you can be RP without a shred of game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:09 PM
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The ideal would indeed be rich and beautiful. But for men, between the two, it’s beauty every time. It’s career successful but average looking/below women who suffer the most dating wise from this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:52 AM
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Tbh I would love a cis puppygirl wife idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:33 AM
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“Avoid the chronically unfortunate. You cannot help them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:24 AM
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There’s nothing to support. Women are attracted to what they are & there’s no choice in it for them. All the logical arguments and guilt tripping in the world aren’t going to light her fire for someone she’s not attracted to. It is your problem, because that fact isn’t going to change. So if you want women to be interested in you, you need to learn to be attractive to them rather than spend time arguing with them that they should be lowering their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:23 PM
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You know I’m actually more suspicious now than when you started ChemicalBroad3199
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:26 AM
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I pay for dates but I don’t do romantic dinners & expensive things like that until we’re exclusive LTR. Still remember where i took my ex-wife on our first ever date together. Bojangles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:33 PM
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No I just tell them casual sex only unless it’s too unattractive for even that but even then I’m still not offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:02 PM
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The feeling of being undesirable that plagues the majority of men is something few women seem capable of relating to empathetically
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:38 PM
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I like your recycling bin analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:27 AM
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What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:08 AM
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Not really. Aren’t you red pill? They can only pick from the top% of that litter because that’s all they’re attracted to, and that % is notoriously difficult to pin down for relationships, hence their frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:00 AM
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Nah there’s a type who claim a woman with a high notch count is just as indicative of value as a man with one is, and that’s delusion. It’s harder to sleep with lots of women than lots of men. Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:58 AM
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Virtually all men would be fuckboys if they could be. The vast majority of men cannot get consistent casual sex, so the only way to get consistent sex would be through a relationship. Look to the gay community for an idea of how men would engage in sex without women serving as gatekeepers. I assure you if you woke up the next day with hundreds of women blatantly interested in casual sex with you, marriage to 1 of them would be the furthest thing from your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:53 AM
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“Not white enough to be blue pill” too fucking real
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:32 PM
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That’s…a good point lmao I was visualizing mountains of women’s clothing and the worlds hardest working washing machine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:12 PM
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Yes, a BPD flag actually, and those are black flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:01 AM
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Do you one better. Get successful at OLD with crafting an attractive male profile, live in a major city of 1m+ and you have access to hundreds upon hundreds of women interested in you you can interact with. And with enough game they’ll drive themselves over to your place on the first date for a ‘chemistry check’ just from enough flirty text exchanges. None of this would be anywhere near so easy without all the sexual liberation stuff. Red pill focus shifted from self improving to thrive in this …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:30 AM
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I should mention this is a modern harem where they all have their own places as independent women unrealiant on me for their economic needs. It’s 2024 after all these women have careers hell maybe they earn more than me and bring luxury gifts over. Point is they all come over purely for my company and of their own volition, individually. That’s the dream thank you for helping me articulate it better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:13 AM
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A harem of women. Big enough for a different FWB in my bed every night for 7 nights straight. I’m a man of simple dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:56 AM
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There’s two huge misconceptions hurting men in the modern dating. That lack of sexual attraction can be overcome by signaling positive relationship qualities, and that sexual attraction for a woman is purely physical. Neither is true, and comes from a misinterpretation of women’s dating behaviors and statements of preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:40 PM
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You're good, I'd say losing weight was by far the single most helpful thing to make me look attractive. It has less to do with how it effects your body but rather your face, it makes your jawline and stuff more prominent and all your features more sharp, which women find attractive. I can't really speak for weight lifting though since I've always been reasonably well built muscle wise and haven't gotten into body sculpting beyond weight loss yet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:19 PM
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Its not that she realized she lied, because in her mind it wasn’t a lie she really did feel it was his playing that did it, but rather she experienced cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:08 PM
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How are women’s standards for casual sex delusional? She can choose almost whoever she wants without rejection. When women match for casual sex the vast majority of the time you’ll still have to court her so she feels comfortable enough to sleep with you regardless of how attractive you are. Contrary to popular belief, hooking up is rarely a same night process upon matching, it’s more about when you do meet up you both knowing why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:27 PM
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The 6” thing isn’t even true, I’m 5’9 listed in my profile and still get more matches than I could ever handle. Tall guys are a preference, not a deal-breaker. So long as you trigger that ‘spark’ in her it really doesn’t matter what qualities you lack, she sees you as attractive and an exception that she’s happy to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:22 PM
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At a certain point those explosive orgasms just don’t hit anymore apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:28 PM
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The median in the US is also 6-7 partners for a heterosexual male. Average is 8-9
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:13 PM
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Ty my WiFi has been wildin this one won’t exist by the time you read this follow up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:14 PM
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You’ll find quite the overlap between those who oppose this and those who believe husbands can’t legally rape their wives. There’s no reason someone should be bound into a loveless marriage for the rest of their life under any circumstance, but Marriage counseling and reconciliation should still be attempted before divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:31 PM
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You’ll find quite the overlap between those who oppose this and those who believe husbands can’t legally rape their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:27 PM
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When my tinder profile exploded in matches I went straight hypomanic, made this acct and started plastering all my matches over my profile feeling like a total chad. Barely slept. Came down and realized I still had to actually put in effort and matches alone didn’t bring them to my bed room. But I included my abs so it wasn’t anonymous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:13 AM
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💪
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:39 PM
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I like the shiny white armor your prof pic has
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:02 PM
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Realizing they aren’t truly rejecting you can be a big help with overcoming rejection in general. They’re rejecting the mental image they have of you in their head. Put another way, your presentation is what is being rejected. Not your true unknowable self.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:53 AM
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The equivalent is accepting a FWB when you wanted a relationship and hoping it’ll turn into one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:55 AM
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On a macro historical level this is true, but in the perspectives of the young men who flock to this sort of ideology, feminism has been the standard of western civilization their entire existence, and ‘returning to the old ways’ is rebellious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:25 PM
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Nothing, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:55 PM
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Long ago A girl NTR’d her boyfriend with me and was texting him completely normally while we did it. I saw some of his messages, he was an insecure wreck after her prior infidelity with me and she was assuring him and giving him some alibi for where she was complete with emojis, hearts and ‘I love you’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:38 AM
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Contrary to popular belief persistence is very attractive to women. Neediness is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:15 AM
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Nah, guys get seduced out of this mentality all the time it’s cautioned over for a reason. guys can be compelled out of what they think they want through the same way women can seduction two way street
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:45 PM
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Looks are an important but overvalued aspect of your attractive value to women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:09 AM
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Issue is insecure dudes trying to pick fights over your energy when it’s there for the women not as some challenge to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:32 PM
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