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| 1 | What is really a "10" to men objectively speaking?Similar features to Monica. Long flowing hair, lean round face, good bone structure, clear skin, tits, nice lips and teeth. Something about her eyes and overall vibe looks softer and feminine too. Monica just has modern skincare products and makeup, better groomed eyebrows, and better hair styling tools to look more polished. Today genetically she'd still be top tier, but you'd find her much hotter with modern cosmetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | What is really a "10" to men objectively speaking?Jennifer Connelly was a babe in her time. I still think so. She has gorgeous naturally feminine features. Belluci just has better cosmetics. Vinetria is too fake, gross. People looked different then. Gen X fashion was different. Women didn't have filters or the same quality of cosmetic enhancements. On the other side most young men weren't sedentary and were fit with low body fat. Since then, women got better makeup and men got weaker and fatter. That's why fewer guys get laid now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 02:13 AM |
| 1 | To advise men to "just be confident" is useless.I asked because the path depends on how bad off you are. If your social skills are 1/10, it's a longer path and more work than if your skills are 5/10. That message is about *how* you approach. People with low social skills can't tell the difference and then get afraid any approach is creepy. Society has overreacted by making posters like that, because otherwise the socially-retarded guys don't get the message and harass women. When you improve social skills, you'll be able to tell the differe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | To advise men to "just be confident" is useless.Practice developing the skills, don't practice trying to pickup women right away. You don't have the experience to get the job, but in this case you can get practice without a job. How bad is your situation? Does no one want to be around you "because you're creepy", even platonically? Or do you just mean trying to cold approach and pick up women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | To advise men to "just be confident" is useless.If that happens, you failed at practicing the "don't be creepy" part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | "Standards" are largely irrelevant, because the market tells you how desirable you areMarkets self-correct. If women aim too high, the market will tell them so, just like the guy who thinks he's a 7 but can only get 5s. If she aims for 8s and gets an 8, she wasn't wrong about her market value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | To advise men to "just be confident" is useless.It's good advice. The problem lies in people expecting instant results. Everyone wants instant gratification, instant results. Results take time. It's a mindset problem. Be confident & don't be creepy is good advice. Wrong mindset: what switch can I flip to immediately become that ASAP? Healthy mindset: I want to put in a little work every day so I can be like that in 2 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | The primary cause of singleness among men is simple yet overlooked.He wants to be able to rant publicly about incel issues and how awful feemales are. It's not politically correct to do that in a mixed-gendered bar or coffee shop, so he feels he cannot be "vulnerable". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 05:00 AM |
| 5 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.If they were really HVM, couldn't they attract women who can add that value but don't have those negatives they preach against? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Pearl and Realfemsapien would consider them too beta to date lol. These guys are coping so hard. Calling themselves alphas for preaching RP content to internet strangers, but they're really betabuxxing and simping to get women. Even some of the "RP" guys on this sub are just betabuxxing (sugar or whores). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Porn, High body count, unfair criticism and the red pillI couldn't date an ex-porn actress. I don't have a problem with them as human beings, but we'd have incompatible values and lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:59 AM |
| 12 | Rapper Waka Flocka walks off Fresh and Fit podcast over debate about rape culture and body count. 6 girls leave as well. Myron says rape culture is a myth. Was he being way too insensitive with this topic whether it’s true or false?Lookup "Last Minute Resistance" and tactics to overcome it in the RP materials | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Rapper Waka Flocka walks off Fresh and Fit podcast over debate about rape culture and body count. 6 girls leave as well. Myron says rape culture is a myth. Was he being way too insensitive with this topic whether it’s true or false?Waka wanted no piece of that incel shit. He saw where the conversation was going and got the fuck out. Waka was the only alpha in the room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:25 AM |
| 1 | There is a certain hypocrisy in RP creators who simultaneously go on about men in their prime picking younger women vs “young men aren’t getting sex and its a problem”Easy? Most men date in their 20s, having sex with 20-something women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | There is a certain hypocrisy in RP creators who simultaneously go on about men in their prime picking younger women vs “young men aren’t getting sex and its a problem”Most women date within their age bracket. If you want early 20s, you're best off being in 20s too. They date guys close to their age for free. With a big age gap, she expects you to pay and pamper her. Late 20s is the sweet spot. Gives you time to build yourself up while still being close to their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:48 AM |
| 1 | There is a certain hypocrisy in RP creators who simultaneously go on about men in their prime picking younger women vs “young men aren’t getting sex and its a problem”Even if you take care of yourself, by 40s your testosterone is lower than at 20-30. It's harder to build and retain muscle, hair loss can happen, skin quality decreases... age-related issues that can't be stopped by self-care. The only advantage of waiting that late in life is to gain wealth. He'll need that wealth, because he'll need to be a sugardaddy to get 20-somethings. But he could get them for free younger... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you really struggle with dating and what is your relationship status?Did it work for you? How much success did you get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Seems too many people think that having amazing dates or an amazing relationship should automatically lead to marriage.It's both. But a marriage chosen over ONLY fun is a bad idea, because life isn't fun all the time and the other incompatibilities could drive each other nuts. You date, have fun, build chemistry, and then eventually have those mature adult talks. If you don't, or if you disagree on core values, she shouldn't be surprised if the amazing fun doesn't automatically lead to a ring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV:Men who do not have Narcissist personality Disorder,do not cheat or leave if they are treated justly by their woman.And why is that not remotely surprising to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV:Men who do not have Narcissist personality Disorder,do not cheat or leave if they are treated justly by their woman.Yerrrrrr..... O my god....... I NeVeR CoUlD hAvE GuEsSed........ Can you translate that from incel to English? I really didn't expect Black women to have such a high rate, since culture portrays narcissism as more common among the rich elites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the concept of an "Alpha Widow" is valid? (i.e. As an average man, it's fair to assume that a woman with a high body count has been with someone who is more attractive than you and this will make her value you less.)She may not think she needs to lower her standards, but that doesn't guarantee she can attract the same caliber of men. So she sticks to her guns, doesn't find anyone, and this goes on for years of frustration or loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Seems too many people think that having amazing dates or an amazing relationship should automatically lead to marriage.And who you would fuck is a bullshit way to decide who to legally bind yourself to in marriage. Choosing that way must be how RP gained so many mad divorced guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 08:03 AM |
| 5 | Seems too many people think that having amazing dates or an amazing relationship should automatically lead to marriage.A mature adult conversation about whether you two have compatible future goals and values and want to build a life together. Having amazing fun dates is no indication of that. It just shows you can have fun together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:59 AM |
| 1 | What is a good father?I also said cooking and cleaning. Did you assume I meant men should do 100% of that, that none of it should fall on women? No, you just got triggered about protecting and interpreted that one differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:03 AM |
| 1 | What is a good father?But more vulnerable than their children too? Even babies and toddlers? Because my comment was about fatherhood and protecting kids, not comparing men to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV:Men who do not have Narcissist personality Disorder,do not cheat or leave if they are treated justly by their woman.Without a source, I wondered if your 10% rebuttal came from applying 5% of people entirely to men (all men, no women). So it was relevant to add that narcissism exists among women too. There are those who think only men can be narcs. You never know. Thanks for providing a credible source! I see 8% among men, 5% among women. Even higher for young people. 12% for men 20-29, 7% for women 20-29. If your dating demographic is only white men 20-29, then 10%. What surprised me is that black women have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | What is a good father?Your argument is that you're physically weaker and more vulnerable than a baby, toddler, or 7-month pregnant woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV:Men who do not have Narcissist personality Disorder,do not cheat or leave if they are treated justly by their woman.Source? FDS podcast doesn't count. There are female narcissists too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Benevolent sexism is underreportedThere are lonely men commiting suicide Agreed, but that's an individual choice, not forcefully done by the other sex. Those men could avoid suicide & depression with therapy. Hence the meme of telling incels to go to therapy. It won't get them laid, but it will deal with the psychological trauma of being outcast. The murder, rape and abuse on women is physically done by other people. It cannot be solved by women going to therapy, because it's other people doing the action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV Since Western Europe Man have a way tougher Competition, they dominate when they go to Eastern Europe.Both. Commenting on the dick stroking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:35 AM |
| -2 | Benevolent sexism is underreportedMalevolent sexism literally kills, rapes and abuses women or keeps them financially trapped by abusive men. Men are the #1 predator of the human female. Benevolent sexism gets them free drinks and likes and smiles, from men who could choose to not give it if they feel used. It doesn't balance out. Malevolent sexism gets more attention because it's a bigger threat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:20 AM |
| 3 | You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat personThen go to the gym and eat less. You're not entitled to love and dates. If you want them, go do the things, instead of trying to get them by blaming society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV:Men who do not have Narcissist personality Disorder,do not cheat or leave if they are treated justly by their woman.Aren't they 5% of the population? When you consider that they're also predatory serial daters, they must have dated over 20% of the women. Maybe more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV Since Western Europe Man have a way tougher Competition, they dominate when they go to Eastern Europe.I get it. It's an ego boost to come to subs like this, see the whining incels, and realize how much better off your life is. But if you have any empathy, you feel bad for the sad autistic short guys and the porn-addicted tradcons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the concept of an "Alpha Widow" is valid? (i.e. As an average man, it's fair to assume that a woman with a high body count has been with someone who is more attractive than you and this will make her value you less.)But I wasn't talking about men. I was talking about a type of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the concept of an "Alpha Widow" is valid? (i.e. As an average man, it's fair to assume that a woman with a high body count has been with someone who is more attractive than you and this will make her value you less.)These are women who stay unhappily single, not my gf or women I'm trying to date. Man, a lot of people here are knee-jerk reacting without reading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Being the guy who shes obsessed with because you treat her as disposable ALWAYS comes with the double edge sword of you don’t actually want her, despite her being “hot”The incels don't care. They just want HER to feel that way about him, because they're defined by external validation. They crave the obsession and validation Chad gets. Has nothing to do with a quality relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | How are short man supposed to date?I went to men because that's the OP topic. You getting all defensive and insecure is on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.What do you think is handicapping men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:12 PM |
| 6 | How are short man supposed to date?Did I say there were 0 LVW? I'm tall-ish and still do all those things. Not to get laid but just for myself. It's normal adult stuff. Let the others race to the bottom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:42 AM |
| 4 | How are short man supposed to date?Most guys who aren't LVM do. Are more men these days becoming LVM? Probably. But those are all choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Weak men had it just as bad as women in ancient/industrial timesLol no I'm not calling you an incel. I used sarcasm to fake-CMV, but really agree that weak men were much more fucked in ancient times. They have it easy now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:37 AM |
| 16 | How are short man supposed to date?Sure but that's normal adult human shit. Tall guys should do that too. He should also remember to eat food and breathe oxygen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | What is a good father?If that's how you feel, don't get married and don't be a father. Reluctant & unwilling is a bad way to start. How to be a good father? Be reliable. Be emotionally and physically strong. Protect your family. Make your kids feel safe. Always be there for them. Make sure your kids know they have someone to turn to if they feel scared. Show them how to maturely handle tough emotions like fear and anger. Show them how to be brave. Set an example for how to keep your cool. Set an example for how to ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 05:10 AM |
| 13 | How are short man supposed to date?Have social skills and personality. If all you have is that you're short and insecure about it, then of course there's nothing to attract women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the concept of an "Alpha Widow" is valid? (i.e. As an average man, it's fair to assume that a woman with a high body count has been with someone who is more attractive than you and this will make her value you less.)It's more than being hung up on an ex. As I get older, I meet more women like this. She's used to a certain standard of men. Maybe her "Chad" ex set the bar for looks and quality sex. Even years later when she's over him, she struggles to accept dating guys who don't meet that bar. But she's gotten older, fatter, more damaged and jaded, and she can't attract guys like that anymore. The men actually interested in her don't compare, she can't bring herself to date them. So she just stays single fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | What are some double standards you’ve noticed with men and women’s standards/preferences for one anotherI’ve always been a gym rat and worked out a lot and previously dated guys who were very out of shape Why? According to guys here you had 20 Chads to choose from too. I’m also aware that there are female fat activists who say they wouldn’t date a fat man In my experience there are a lot of those, especially as you get older. Women want a guy on par with who she could attract at 22, even if she got older and fatter. Her self-image is stuck in the past. She's still too cool for the fat guy, even th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:32 AM |
| 1 | The Rise in Online and Bar/Club-scene Dating, and the Decrease in Social Circle Dating Explains Poor Outcomes, Due to Reduced Reputation EffectsMust be a boon for all the redpillers with shitty reputations of mistreating women. Meet via apps or bars and she'll never find out! No wonder there's backlash about finally outing serial cheaters and pathological liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:10 AM |
| 3 | The Rise in Online and Bar/Club-scene Dating, and the Decrease in Social Circle Dating Explains Poor Outcomes, Due to Reduced Reputation EffectsThat means 61% of couples don't meet online. If you're not in the top 20% prettiest photos, relying on apps is shooting yourself in the foot. You can meet people with your specific values and lifestyle goals more easily in the real world. Online gives you a mix of random people from all walks of life and puts photos first, while doing real world activities puts you around people with similar values, goals and hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:05 PM |
| 5 | The Rise in Online and Bar/Club-scene Dating, and the Decrease in Social Circle Dating Explains Poor Outcomes, Due to Reduced Reputation EffectsReputation still works in the bar/club scene. It just works differently than in a social circle. If you know how to demonstrate good reputation in that scene, you'll do well. Many guys don't. Introverted shy high-inhibition guys struggle in loud bars and should use a different scene that makes them look good. If they have low social skills too, they may not be able to figure out how to do that. Guys with that combination of traits (introverted, shy, high-inhibition, low social skills, low social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:01 PM |
| 60 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Yeah, women don't justify the ick. Men shouldn't have to either. If you get the ick, you get the ick. You feel what you feel. You can't control your attraction. Sometimes overjustifying just makes you look like more of a judgmental dick. Stop rationalizing, embrace the feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Newly Single Female Friend of 20+ Years Realizing the Wall is ApproachingOld friends. Friends' wives. It's low-inhibition behavior if you're comfortable around each other and have the established trust that neither will escalate or take it too seriously. Especially drinking, partying, out at the club. With a new woman it's probably sexual. With a friend of 20 years, if it never escalates, seems platonic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Newly Single Female Friend of 20+ Years Realizing the Wall is ApproachingSome ass-grabbing is sexual (if it happens making out or grinding). Some ass-grabbing is platonic. In sports it's platonic. Platonic male-female friends touch each others butts sometimes too. It's a low-inihibition thing. You don't give a fuck because it's just a body part. It doesn't mean anything. It's playful or silly. My point is if you've been friends 20 years and nothing else is happening, good chance these interactions between you two are platonic. She's just comfortable with your body, l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Newly Single Female Friend of 20+ Years Realizing the Wall is ApproachingI'm from the US too. If you count ass grabs, 80% of the football team is bisexual. Cheek kisses happen with family members. Non-platonic means hooking up, dating, or at least making out. Though tbh I've made out with people I consider platonic friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Newly Single Female Friend of 20+ Years Realizing the Wall is ApproachingAss grabs are platonic bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Newly Single Female Friend of 20+ Years Realizing the Wall is ApproachingDoes your "rotation" include kisses on the cheek? Your aunt & cousins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenThe biggest casualty of the obesity epidemic is the obese people who will suffer from a litany of health issues. Next is the healthy taxpayer, who will get stuck subsidizing all the future issues of obese people. A far last is the dating life of non-obese men. We have non-obese women to date. If you're somehow repulsive to all of them, you can fuck obese women too. It's harder to wow normal-sized women because fewer women are open to casual sex than before. More women are on the FDS train, deman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:41 AM |
| 2 | You should not shame people for liking someone that's fat, it's already hard enough to date as a fat personIf women aren't fucking you, it's not because of social discrimination. That's a cope. Women fuck guys society discriminates against... in private. That's what apps are for. If they're not fucking you on the DL, social shaming isn't the reason. Stop blaming external factors. Focus on what you can control and improve in your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 07:10 AM |
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