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I wonder what are the exact demographics of these subs. It's pretty clear that these subs are largely female. But at the same time, I think many are young and quite immature as well. They don't see it obviously which explains the reasons behind why the top comments are almost always very short while long comments which address issues from POVs of both people involved aren't much upvoted. Also most young people (of both genders) have become heavily reactionary.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 04:26 PM
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OP what subreddits did you use as input ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/25 02:54 PM
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Policies that address the education gap in schools and colleges.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/24 01:11 PM
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Glad to see the article ending with a silver lining though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 03:59 PM
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I'm not from US but is this even possible ? Circumcision isn't illegal right ? Those fb posts are definitely weird, I know but they're simply saying that their sons got circumcised.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 04:55 PM
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Yeah exactly lol. Insert that "first time ?" meme. But I have a small feeling that despite what people think, DNC will see this and take actions to repair the damage of alienating young men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 03:41 PM
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It is against the rules. But I'm asking how can you report a private sub which you can't even see.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 03:32 PM
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how to report a private sub ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 03:23 PM
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USE THIS FORM https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us?return_to=%2Fhc%2Frequests
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 02:31 PM
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Even a sub like mildly/extremely infuriating will help out. Most people in Reddit are against pedophilia.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 02:18 AM
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You can see the sub but you can no longer interact with it. I'm not sure what exactly is the difference between banning and restricting. But I don't think people can post any newer posts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 07:29 PM
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The sub says "Restricted". I think it got banned already.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 07:15 PM
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Post this in as many subs as possible. Not just ones here. I'm sure if many Redditors reported it, this would go down. This is literally a pedo sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 04:08 PM
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It's just another way of derailing a conversation where the perpetrator might potentially be a woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 06:13 PM
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what is this show ? where and how popular is it ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 12:18 PM
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You said that you're black. So can I know if this phenomena is wide among other POC communities like yours or is it just among white people ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 07:09 PM
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Actually there are several Are We Dating the Same Girl groups. Even though they're not as big as the ones OP mentioned, you can post in them without much of a problem too. This is one : https://www.facebook.com/groups/190498760088540/?hoisted_section_header_type=recently_seen&multi_permalinks=452595670545513
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 03:45 PM
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This is a pretty complex issue, but the "cis het white male" has been a very popular term throughout the discourse around gender and race. I think some white men still do have some privileges over minorities but I can hardly think of any major privileges they can have unless they're very rich and powerful. But even then the average working class man is blamed for privilege and patriarchy. It's a hard discussion to have. But I'm curious to know what others think of it. I also think that the bond …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 01:11 PM
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Wow awesome. Great work man ! Keep it up. Wish many others would follow too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 01:50 PM
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Well can you post a single thing that supports your notion i.e. Republicans are better for men ? By the way I never said they're the absolute best. But I've never seen them addressing any such problem during this campaign.
/r/MensRights16/09/24 01:43 AM
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Genuine question : Where exactly have Trump stood on men's well being ? Workers' rights and Union rights ? Immigrant men's rights ? Draft ? (They were the one who said that they didn't want their daughters to be drafted) Rights of men who belong to racial minorities ? (Remember he wanted to execute central park 5 boys and didn't change his mind whatsoever at all) Republicans support death penalty which may put many men who may probably be exonerated at some point under grave risk too. And how do…
/r/MensRights15/09/24 06:39 PM
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Yeah I 100% agree with you. So many straight men and boys still think that the validity of their existence depend on their relationship status. I think it's a really negative mindset. Parents and teachers should plant a picture where boys can be independent and live the best life possible just like girls can.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/24 08:11 PM
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That maybe a reason. But what I got from the article is how the difference of masculine expectations between straight boys and gay boys may play a major part here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/24 07:45 PM
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I also saw a research recently done in some Scandinavian country, which basically said that better the gender equality in a country is more distinct the male dominated and female dominated fields will be. For example, men will continue to go into careers like STEM while women will continue to go into careers like teaching. But in countries with lesser equality, women will try more to get into traditionally male dominated fields. https://arstechnica.com/science/2018/02/globally-women-tend-to-avoi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/24 05:42 PM
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For those who get paywalled use archive.ph to bypass it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/24 05:34 PM
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use archive.ph to bypass it. Actually the article does some pretty good comparisons about how the "masculine" roles differ between gay men and straight men which according to them is a reason why the education gap has occurred.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/24 05:34 PM
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Aren't most of those points usually brought up by right wingers ? So I'd say that they are typical right wing talking points rather than actual misandry. Also they are the biggest racists you can find.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/24 01:48 PM
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That's exactly why I picked him. There seems to be some exaggerated hate against celibate young men especially in social media platforms like Reddit. So that's why I said that if these young men change up their minds, on how they can live without women, then it'd be great.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 07:56 PM
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I really hope that so many problems men face could be solved if men as a whole stopped desperately chasing after women and dating. But this needs to be come organically and naturally. If not you'd end up with a bunch of very violent incels like Elliot Rodgers. Men need to understand that their validity doesn't depend on their relationship status or girlfriends.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 06:16 PM
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Unfortunately the guys he talks about such as manosphere podcast bros have a louder voice and there's a significant lack of serious left wing progressive men's advocacy voices. Having said that, I really like to listen to Scott Galloway's and Richard Reeve's videos. What's terrifying me personally is that these guys' have been bringing these issues up since a long time and we still haven't seen any viable solution.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/24 11:55 AM
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Most people in these subs are women users and they will obviously be much more biased when it comes to their gender. I think it's fair that women are more cautious around men/ relationships and I think we should be too, more so than men usually are. So they will always look at things in their POV. So it's hard to decide what's exactly right in their situation. Yeah the part where you said about people suggesting communication in other instances is true here too. But at the same time, taking from…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 11:53 AM
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Extreme Misogyny To Be Treated As Terrorism Under Yvette Cooper's New Crackdown (msn.com) From the article : The home secretary’s plans include making it a legal requirement for teachers to refer students they suspect of extreme misogyny to the government’s counter-terror programme, Prevent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 07:23 AM
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I read an article about this where teachers have a duty to report a student if he says anything misogynistic and then it will be treated as a terrorist threat. Wtf is that ? They're literally subjugating the freedom of speech and if anything needs to be done for the student, it must be discipline and teaching him how to be respectful. Not being put on a terror watch list. I wonder how this is helpful either. Actions like this will only increase the hate and resentment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/24 06:39 AM
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Feminism has become so broad recently. A self-made millionaire woman in Wall Street may very well be a feminist. But she may be disliked heavily be progressive far-left feminists just because she's rich. So there's definitely a difference here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/24 12:12 PM
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Yeah I know. But I don't think the average man is anywhere near the power to enforce it. Most of the times "male privilege" which comes from patriarchy is hold by rich and powerful, often cis het white men. Other than that, I can't think of a normal man like me, you or anyone here trying to control or police a woman's life. So I do agree with your comment 100%.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/24 08:16 AM
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It does exist in other parts of the world, but certainly not in West though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/24 06:59 AM
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Yeah I hear you and I want to specifically comment on the education rates of men right now. I often worry a lot about this and future seems really bleak for men right now. With AI and automation on the rise the few men who work in manual and physically hard labor will be gone or reduced by a significant number too. Unless there's a radical reformation on educating young men and boys, men are going in for a very hard time. There are plenty of studies showing that a college grad is more likely to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/24 02:22 PM
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Lol, you're so dumb. I pointed out what's wrong and you know nothing better than complaining. None of these problems are as big as you think they are. Yes, they do happen, but if you use them to excuse it, then yeah men are going on a downfall and you wouldn't stop it. If you're so worried about false allegations, Don't interact with women outside working matters such as labs etc. Don't date any woman from college since you go there to study, not to fuck. You don't even have to make female frien…
/r/MensRights08/08/24 11:16 AM
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The "men' you're talking about are a rarity. A significant majority of men are just average working class men who struggle just like every other person to meet their ends. It's not like every man has "male privilege".
/r/MensRights08/08/24 08:34 AM
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Yes, but still my comment above is true and I don't know why is it downvoted when I simply stated the facts. K-12 has always been like this and men outnumbered women before, but not now. This is going to be a huge problem in the future. There are so many hypothetical scenarios in the thread, but this is something parents and young men can actually do to achieve a change.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:14 AM
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That last paragraph is weird. If someone needs to dress like a woman, go ahead it's your right. But you're putting it as if men "have" to do that, if they need to be embraced by the current society. It's very toxic imo. If it ever comes to a point where society needs to police a whole demographic to dress or act in a certain way, then it's a society on a downfall. Also what are you even doing here ? Just let these people have their own community. You don't have to come up here with your opinion …
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:46 PM
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Why hasn't anyone here addressed how lazy young men have recently become ? Men's enrollment in colleges are at a steep decrease. When women take more and more college degrees especially in degrees like law and education (which they've already outnumbered men), they can easily get into more political positions and establish more and more "overcorrective" justice initiatives which will be much more harmful for men. We seriously need to encourage and motivate the youth to learn such skills like law…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:35 PM
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good times Why did you put 1970 Islamic revolution in Iran as good times ? They're literally killing a young man every week and even a young teenage girl can't walk in the streets freely. This is not what good times mean. Pre 1970 was a prosperous era for both men and women.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:32 PM
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If you did recruit, always try to get as much benefits as possible. If they're going to sponsor your education, go for it. Don't stay in the military all along.
/r/MensRights05/08/24 08:05 AM
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I wouldn't say you overreacted, but what was your original dream was ? Honestly, none of these seem to be "obstacles" that were sitting in your way. Of course your peace of mind matters above everything, but still I'd say that you overreacted a little bit. You could've gotten a lot of benefits especially if you wanted to pursue higher education that's why.
/r/MensRights05/08/24 08:03 AM
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As long as the man in question gets to reap the benefits of his achievements, it's all that matters. For such a person, all the noise they hear from outside doesn't matter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 02:35 PM
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Ok I'll be honest. I don't really think she's the exact female version of Andrew Tate. Most of her points in X are quite similar to ones I've seen here in Reddit. Tate literally encourages men to beat women, cage them and so many violent bullshit and he even did so very publicly. Not just that, Tate is even accused of human trafficking and rape. Most of her points are related to men being "violent", "abusive" and same shit that men in general are accused everyday of. But still that's not even cl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 02:28 PM
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Does WSJ work in this extension ? What I commented above doesn't work on WSJ though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 05:45 PM
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I'm a brown skinned person, but not African American. Yet, when the white women who complain about patriarchy use the term "slavery" to describe what they've been going through (actual discriminatory acts like voting, but still the word is too much) I always roll my eyes. They have no idea what slavery even was and how badly POCs (both men and women) were treated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 03:11 PM
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Use archive.ph
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 03:07 PM
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Dude I'm certainly not a stalker. Please don't think like that. I've had some traumatic experiences in the past, but none of them were related to romantic relationships. I'm sure you are referring to my posts in r.manipulation. It's fair you feel that way. But I'm just trying to be cautious. There are many women who take such measures before they go hang out with a guy. But why can't I ? I hope you can understand.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/08/24 01:49 PM
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Please consider posting this more in some other support subs as well such as r/self, r/MensLib, r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates, r/lonely, r/domesticviolence etc. I'd like to ask you to include hotline numbers in those support websites. For example, add the hotline numbers in DV support initiatives so that people can directly access them without visiting the website as it'd be much easier.
/r/MensRights29/07/24 11:13 AM
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You guys are a team. Why do you let your husband do whatever he needs with your son? Your son is his own individual even if he's still small. Communicate with him and tell him strictly that as the mother you oppose this procedure. If he loves you and your son, he will understand. Your son can get the surgery himself once he becomes an adult. Convince him of those facts.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:41 AM
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Also make him watch the stories of boys and young men who suffer from PTSD due to the improper handling of the surgery or the general bodily pain.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 04:38 AM
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I agree that your ethnicity does definitely play a role here. Thanks, I'll definitely be looking forward for what you said. Never even thought how tattoos might play a role here. Guess I'll have to do some research lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/24 07:25 AM
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I'm not very dark skinned. Idk I may have some skin tone similar to Steph Curry's. Anyway I understand the whole white man hatred in Reddit and elsewhere, but I wonder if that really affects a lot. At the end of the day, most of them don't specify the skin color, just the gender in general. After all, I think many white women would be more vary of POCs and than white men.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/24 06:49 AM
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I am of Sri Lankan descent in US.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/24 06:02 AM
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Then convince your father and other conservatives around you to vote for him too. If they've changed their ideologies entirely, then ask them to vote for anyone they align with.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 02:02 PM
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She won the popular vote though.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 08:55 PM
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That's what the right wing parties and the early polls said in France too until the left wing and centrist voters turned in mass numbers to polls.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 08:53 PM
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That's what the right wing parties and the early polls said in France too until the left wing and centrist voters turned in mass numbers to polls.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 08:53 PM
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ban women from voting Are you being serious or just being sarcastic ? Ideas like this are stupid and necessarily opposes the idea of egalitarian society where people advocate for in this sub.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 03:29 PM
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This is just from my perspective. Yours maybe different. There's a whole radfem political party (very small tbh) in UK called Party of Women. Almost all the top members of the party are lesbians.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/24 05:16 AM
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Love to see them triggered so much. Edit : I wouldn't risk myself to help a man either. My life matters a lot regardless of the gender of person in need. I'm quite small as well. So there's no way I'm gonna put myself in risk. These people are so crazy and hypocritical !
/r/MensRights17/07/24 07:21 PM
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TERFs are the most extreme man haters out there. If you've been on the shithole Twitter for a while, you'll see an interesting phenomenon : So queer people are some of the most progressive people out there which include lesbians. Apparently most TERFs are lesbians. But at the same time, there are right wingers (both men and women, they are are not "feminist" at all) who seriously oppose the queer freedom and queer rights. You'll often end up seeing these far left progressive lesbians agreeing wi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/24 04:32 PM
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I don't think DEI was the primary reason behind the layoffs. Many people of all genders and all ethnicities including whites were laid off.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 03:32 PM
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Do you have any source on this ?
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:53 PM
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OP deleted his profile. I'm genuinely concerned about him. I'm sure that making the post which included all the childhood trauma must've been very hard on him. I truly hope he's okay.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 04:59 PM
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You are entitled to your opinion. Also you know there are male therapists right ? If you know any "solution" then why don't you suggest it without attacking my comment here ?
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:36 PM
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Take a break if you want to, that's fine. But today what you did is really brave and from the comments, I'm sure many people found their experiences acknowledged and heard. But please don't give up. Keep making such comics. God luck !
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 11:29 AM
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Did they permaban you ? I can still see the post but it is locked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 11:27 AM
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Just support and be there for him. In the meantime, encourage him to seek other methods of support such as therapy or even a suicide hotline. I know it may not be as easy as it sounds, but I'm sure that if he listens to you, he'll certainly get on with it. Please encourage it. Good luck !
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:11 AM
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Keep up the great work mate ! Sorry about your experience, but don't let these shitty people from getting in your head. They surely don't like you and want to downplay what you've went through. Please continue doing this. For a bit of constructive criticism, make your comic slides a bit brighter than it already is. It's a too dark and grey imo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 05:56 AM
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You linked some subreddit above and in almost all the posts by women, they see men as heads of households and themselves as submissive. I'm sure that alone contradicts a lot with mainstream feminist beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:06 PM
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I wonder why do you have the flair "red pill/ feminist" since the two contradict with each other's belief system ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:55 PM
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You should post this in other places too.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 01:55 PM
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You're welcome. I wish you all the best ! Be the strong independent person that you strive to be. Don't let a man, woman or anyone be the factor that validates your existence. Good luck out there !
/r/MenSupportMen10/07/24 08:22 AM
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First of all, "girl things" or "boy things" don't define your masculinity. If you prefer to do stereotypical "girl things", that means you're not insecure about your masculinity. But I can see that the parenting style may have influenced you a bit, and you want to change. Again ask yourself, do you want to change for yourself or do you want to change because the society tells you to ? If you think it's bad that your sister is acting "boyish" then you're wrong, because that's her life and you sho…
/r/MenSupportMen10/07/24 05:48 AM
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Not the OP, but I think it's pretty obvious when you look at the negative stereotypes against black people. Almost all of them are actually targeted at black men rather than the entire black people. For example, crime rates and violence is largely concentrated around black men, mainly due to poverty, systemic racism in some instances, or fatherlessness in homes. Some of these folks commit crimes like shoplifting and theft for the sole reason of feeding their families.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/24 04:31 PM
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Seems like it's not that popular among liberal young folks. At least it's a good thing to see.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/24 10:24 AM
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Does any one know how strong is the opposition to circumcision in US ? As far as I know, it's prevalent only in religious communities. The only acceptable circumcision is if it was recommended by a doctor for an unavoidable medical reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/24 10:02 AM
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If you're a member of this association, you must file a complaint. You can twist some words for your own advantage since it ignores the existence of other racial minorities and sexual minorities such as members of trans community, NBs, Genderfluids etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/24 04:58 PM
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There are some disagreements that I have with red pill ideology. I don't like to label myself as any.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:35 AM
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Tell me one good thing that he has done or achieved then for the sake of men ? As I said I linked it only to display the negative stuff and clearly said in the comment above it is biased.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/24 01:32 AM
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Just look up "Sprinkle Sprinkle" and how many women are in it to screw up the men they go out with just to get some money out of them. I personally do want to marry, but seeing those women and how they are giving advices to other women on how to manipulate, cheat and other stuff I do think that risk or fear is somewhat rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:15 PM
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I'm not sure about others though, but upon doing some digging on Paul Elam, I can clearly see that he's not using his popularity and influence to rather actually help men. If you take a look at some of his comments, he's spouting out many blatantly misogynistic comments similar to "she was asking for it" for a rape victim and even endorsed comments from Trump such as "grab them by the pussy". He could've helped thousands of men around the world, but most of his work is centered around not helpin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 05:34 PM
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Are you citing this study ? Cause it says that men going conservative is mostly stable. But I'd be happy to know if you drew this conclusion from your own personal experiences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 04:52 PM
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I wish you all the best !
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 03:22 PM
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Great. Keep teaching them. I hope you could find like minded people to increase the number of male students and also to tutor them !
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 01:22 PM
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Awesome ! All the best for you and your future career.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 08:20 AM
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Yeah you're right. I shouldn't have included it. I'll edit the text. But anyway I'd like to know what specific things people here have done that advocates for other men ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 04:10 AM
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Yeah you're right. I shouldn't have included it. I'll edit the text. But anyway I'd like to know what specific things people here have done that advocates for other men ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 04:10 AM
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As I said, this was from a gender reversed post I saw in TwoX. I know it does sound like discrimination. But I've said above that you should only use it as a tiebreaker. In most companies they almost always give the priority to a female candidate over a male candidate if both end up with same qualifications.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 03:47 AM
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Stop with the use of demeaning word "males". No one here used the word "females".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:32 PM
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Must be the reason those Korean women tend to act just like) those shitty men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:29 PM
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Visit this beloved South Korean feminist website) to get an idea of them. womad.life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:27 PM
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Does anyone have any idea on how many Dems and Republicans are in favor of the act ?
/r/MensRights20/06/24 09:18 PM
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Not just this, all the dumb comments by Trump such as "grab them by the p***y" and the abortion ruling really shifted the pendulum very far. I could see how online spaces became extreme in real time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 04:34 PM
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Schumer has already said that he'll not let it go past the senate. He said it specifically for the decision to automatically register men for the selective service which the house passed some days ago. The best way to move forward is to completely abolish draft.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 03:39 PM
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If the number of women in military goes higher, they'd certainly get more representation to voice their concerns which is the exact thing the above act expects to do.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 03:34 PM
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No human being regardless of the gender has any idea on what constitute as the "burden". If they feel enough trust in their partner, the other will surely open themselves up. If you weren't prepared to hear them, well then that's a problem you have to deal with later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:08 PM
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If you find interacting or communicating with someone even if they are of your own family, you are 100% in the right to either completely cut off or to avoid any communication with them at all. If you can call them out on it and see their reaction. Your decision to whether minimize interacting with them totally depend on how they'd respond to it. There's no bound of what gender they are or what relationship you have/had with them, as long as it helps you mental well being.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/24 08:01 PM
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Someone mentioned that they can form a coalition. If they decide to do so, which party is better ?
/r/MensRights08/06/24 01:47 PM
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Do they have a chance of winning the election ? It's good to see a left wing male friendly political party at least in UK.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 10:36 AM
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Best way to deal with loneliness in finding comfort in your own solitude. What are your favorite hobbies ? Do you have any activity where you forget like you are there, instead you dive deep into it/ immerse yourself deeply into it ? Engage in such activities. Watch a movie, TV show. Read a good book. It can be either fiction or not. If you're creative enough, get into writing. Try to write a poem/ a song about your own thoughts. Engage as much time as possible with your friends. Meet new people…
/r/MensRights05/06/24 01:46 PM
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This is why young men should start their own businesses. Men are more likely to take risks when it comes to entrepreneurship. This should be an advantage.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 08:58 AM
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Sorry I don't get what you're saying. These are some valid arguments against this trend especially since it was brought upon as an attempt at "inclusivity".
/r/MensRights29/05/24 07:09 PM
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Have you guys seeked marriage counseling ? or therapy ? or the simplest answer to all, communication ? How often are you going on dates ? Outdoor activities ? Fun activities within your home like singing/ dancing ? How is it that you have lost attraction to your wife, but not the entire sexual desire ? Ask yourself what do you lack before listening to any of us. Why waste money on OF ? Which one out of you usually have the higher sexual libido ? How does she satisfy her own sexual desires ? Also…
/r/MensRights29/05/24 06:52 PM
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Honestly, I'm seeing this very rarely nowadays. The trend of this statement quickly went down especially due to its blatant sexist and racist idea against not just men, but other queer groups like trans and basically every other minority who had been historically discriminated. I think the people who used this term realized how stupid this is since actual "inclusivity" doesn't just prefer women, but also men, non-binary, trans people with their own sexual orientations and men from other ethnic g…
/r/MensRights29/05/24 05:53 PM
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Even though modern DV laws have been modified to acknowledge female-on-male DV cases (not all the time, but we've seen some progress at least), Duluth model is still widely used as a reference model.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 02:43 PM
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Follow legal actions if you want to. Anyway spread the news about her so that she won't become a danger again.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 03:45 PM
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I’ve been advised by lawyers that the courts don’t care if she hit me, even if it was in front of the kids because she’s a woman. What joke is this ? This is literally what lawyers are for. Find a new lawyer immediately.
/r/MensRights24/05/24 07:48 PM
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I agree. More the number of safe spaces for men to seek mental health, better their lives will be. I'm still seeing "man up" comments here and there even in this sub and even saw a recent anti-therapy thread. I don't think such actions are healthy at all. If you have any mental health struggle, please seek therapy with whatever psychologist that you find comfortable. Most importantly make sure that they understand you as well.
/r/MensRights24/05/24 03:25 AM
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So if you have a better solution, then please provide one. Unless the next generation of politicians address this issue, I can't think of much ways to solve these problems.
/r/MensRights24/05/24 03:10 AM
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When the current generation of old politicians die in the next 25-30 years, there will be a very different political atmosphere. If Gen Z and the millenials who have witnessed any form of discrimination or suffering decide to follow the political path, I'm sure there will be some progress. But that's a big IF and depends entirely on the type of men and women who go down that path. Just stand up for the man you see. Let it be a friend or a stranger. Just help him out. If you can help 10 such peop…
/r/MensRights22/05/24 02:42 PM
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I'll sum it up in two quotes. "The personal is political" "Be the change you want to see in the world" It's a long way to go, definitely not a lost cause.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 11:42 AM
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Yeah. The college entrance system, where I come from (Sri Lanka) is purely based on an academic level / local AL exam results and there's no gender imbalance even when it comes to generally male-dominated fields as they call in west such as STEM. Even though countries like ours are still quite backward when it comes to issues regarding abortion and other social constructs, the push for academics is very egalitarian between both genders and there's literally no quota system as they do in US. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:46 PM
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Depends on the degree. You can't become an attorney/ lawyer without a degree. Also getting into any field in STEM or finance is much easier with a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:52 PM
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Yeah I think so. But at the same time, there's a steep drop of college admissions among men, not just in US but in the entire west. So I'm sure that , these divisions among men and women will continue to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:06 AM
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Well then how would you respond to the opinion of these male students themselves saying that they don't prefer to pursue power and money than their female colleagues ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:37 AM
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Sample size for both men and women is equal right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:27 AM
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Yeah it seems to be. But what surprised me most is how driven women are more than men to pursue power and money. Maybe that's a good thing, for their own independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:24 AM
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I'm surprised about it too. The gap between men and women who want to pursue money and power is 16% with women higher in number. I think women in general are more driven to it, since that's the easier way to be independent. But at the same time, 54% of them prefer their partner to be the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:21 AM
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I'm surprised that no. of women who want to pursue power and money is higher than the no. of men. I know that it's a good reason especially to be independent in these times. But I expected to see it almost 50% on both sides, but it was 16% lower when it came to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:16 AM
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Aren't there rage rooms available for this purpose ? They're also gender neutral. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rage_room#:~:text=A%20rage%20room%2C%20also%20known,rooms%20on%20a%20rental%20basis.
/r/MensRights15/05/24 05:31 PM
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If you don't mind, can you please tell what that sub is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:50 PM
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OP made the same post using a woman instead of man, and the most of the responses from men were "yes, I would try". Most comments in this post by the women are a direct "no, I won't". This is really weird, I hope someone could give me some explanation. Why would some of these men go into a lifelong agreement with someone that you don't emotionally connect with ? As a man myself, I still can't figure it out why would these men take such a risky decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:04 PM
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Take pictures of your bruises as fresh as possible. Also record from your phone whenever she puts up a fight with you. Can you record it in secret using an installed camera ? I've heard of several stories where both men and women installing cameras hidden to obtain footage of one partner abusing the other. This is the best course to follow since you have all the evidence in hand. Check out the documentary "My Wife, My Abuser". It's really eye-opening and will give you some great tips on how to a…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 07:33 AM
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Even undergraduate ? You mentioned research funding. Aren't they usually for graduate studies ?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 09:25 AM
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Care to elaborate please ? This was based on my personal observation. What is the point you have to make here? There's literally no such discrimination when it comes to undergraduate admissions and the article clearly mentions how young men are not applying to colleges rather than them being dismissed. There are many disparities in graduate colleges, but I can't think of such when it comes to undergraduate admissions.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 08:08 AM
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Yeah I got it thanks. I definitely feel that except UK and US, EU countries are generally doing better when it comes to men's issues, especially regarding employment. But the recent conscription laws certainly raise some eye brows.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:47 AM
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How is the employment rate and college disparity between men and women when it comes to EU ? Never heard much of it. Please do tell. Also I'd like to know how is the education in schools between boys and girls ?
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:23 AM
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If you do have a son, please involve in his education and support him through out. If you really love him, take the financial risk and try to send him to a good college for a field like STEM which is still a mostly male field. As stated in the article, education and college is very important for future employment. So please encourage their studies regardless of how much shit the society throw at them. Just as women have proved that education gets them to higher positions, men should do that too …
/r/MensRights07/05/24 07:20 AM
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Ok but am I wrong about how these problems perceived in other spaces ? I did say these spaces will not take them seriously and will always end up with a fight. This is just facts, not something I made up. I'm sure you've seen this too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/24 03:29 AM
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I didn't say they are unrelated, I just responded to OP's question on how men's issues are sometimes presented and perceived in women's / other spaces. Above is just an example of how easily the way some people use it to present these issues, get addressed by other people (ones in other subs).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/24 03:05 AM
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Yeah man, I feel the same. With DEI and boys' education challenges, I feel our problems won't be addressed in the near future. We really need a voice who totally relate to the common young man in modern society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 09:51 PM
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Yeah I 100% agree with you. By the way, have any of you written any letter to a senator/ any representative about these issues men face ? I've seen this been suggested a lot, but never seen anyone doing it. Lack of political intervention into these problems and lack of voice from our side is the biggest challenge I see rather than any debates in an online platform.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 09:24 PM
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I agree that there's some opposition to it even from some other men. But one thing I've seen regarding these issues is that outside men's spaces, or in women's spaces, some men bring up these problems in comparison to the problems they discuss. For example, recently there has been an increase in DV cases in Australia. So when women discuss about the weekly reported cases of women being found dead, some guy derail that conversation and say X number of men have committed suicide. While both of the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 09:01 PM
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A woman who advocates for abortion, which is a basic human right is still a feminist. I don't think that's a bad thing at all. I mean she does say how the mainstream language used in social media and the social stigma around "male privilege" has turned down a lot of common men from all the social levels. She doesn't say how to find a solution, but she indeed say that understanding everyone's struggles equally is important. It's not that feminism is the biggest challenge against us. But the lack …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 05:21 PM
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She never identifies herself as a feminist. I think someone from the opposite gender acknowledging the problems that men face, rather than ignoring them saying that they don't exist is really a good thing imo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/24 04:56 PM
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Glad to hear that you're doing somewhat okay now. Please go to therapy if you don't already in regards to PTSD and keep continue it if you already do. Wish you all the best man !
/r/MensRights05/05/24 07:31 AM
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You're very welcome. Please get help in any way you can. I know that a lawsuit is risky, but I'm sure with proper evidence and a good understanding lawyer, it'd be a risk worth taking. As I said before, post this in those 2 legal advice subs as well. I'm sure they'd be of great help. Good luck !
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:57 PM
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Hey can you contact some of these unions in UK over his labor rights ? https://www.gmb.org.uk/join-gmb https://www.unison.org.uk/about/#:~:text=UNISON%20is%20the%20UK's%20largest,the%20public%20and%20private%20sectors. Also I ask you to contact a lawyer immediately and sue this hellhole of a workplace for his workplace injuries and also the blatant disregard for employee safety. I genuinely can't give you any legal advices since I'm not a lawyer myself. But please post this to r/legaladvice and …
/r/MensRights01/05/24 04:12 PM
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I get your concern about male spaces bashing women, but understand that a lot of those female bashing comes from a place of hurt and real abuse that men endured at the hands of women. If we want men to act like humans and fully express ourselves, we need to allow them to do so (within reason) and not expect us to be squeaky clean, whereas women are allowed to be humans. This is exactly why I said being specific about who did what is more important than a generalization. The reason why some space…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 03:48 PM
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I know what you're saying, but who generalizes whom shouldn't really be a competition right ? If Reddit or anyone doesn't care about someone generalizes hate speech against a certain demographic, that doesn't mean every group will have the same privileges. That's why I said we should be careful with language we use.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 01:14 PM
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As I've mentioned here, we should address our own problems more without bashing at or generalizations. I'm sure spaces like these will be fine if we did just that. This is a possibility, but keep the basic etiquette going on. For example, women are not a monolith. If you want to criticize someone, be specific about it. Minimize generalizations as much as possible. Also, this sub should be a place where we address men's problems and how to be supportive of them. But if we decide to centralize all…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 12:50 PM
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First off, I'm not really from UK myself. I saw this and shared it here. But if you have any link that is not spam, while also supported by actual facts and statistics, then please do consider submitting them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/24 11:44 AM
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This is a possibility, but keep the basic etiquette going on. For example, women are not a monolith. If you want to criticize someone, be specific about it. Minimize generalizations as much as possible. Also, this sub should be a place where we address men's problems and how to be supportive of them. But if we decide to centralize all our discussion on women and blaming women for every problem we have, then Reddit will notice. Instead be supportive to each other and provide actual help you can. …
/r/MensRights30/04/24 10:15 AM
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My account is less than 30 days. They won't allow posts from such an account to prevent spamming. So I guess someone else will have to.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 05:11 AM
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Please spread awareness is other related groups as much as possible. I already shared this in r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates. Please consider other ones as well.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 03:40 AM
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All of these comments are from men unfortunately. These men are the reason why other men and male victims can't advocate for themselves.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 03:22 AM
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Please do vote for any candidate since it signifies the strength of the said candidate over any other candidate. For example, Trump got more votes in 2020 than he did in 2016, but in the latter case, he won while Biden got much more votes in 2020. I'm not going to ask you to vote for a particular candidate, but voting is better than no vote at all.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 04:57 AM
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Are you undecided or do you have any candidate in mind ? I think voting for anyone is much better than no vote at all.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 04:51 AM
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That's good. But as always don't get addicted to it especially visual things. (you used the words "most of my time" which doesn't sound healthy). Reading and writing is fine and much better. Make sure to lead a healthy active life and achieve other things (college, academics etc.) in your life as well. On a side note, don't blame the world for your shortcomings, you are your own person. Everyone has their own issues, even the richest person. Work towards where you see yourself in 5 years. Build …
/r/MensRights17/04/24 07:15 AM
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I think the best way to approach this is how men (or anyone in general tbh) should try to find comfort in their own solitude. For example, I prefer watching a movie or a TV series when I feel alone. When I'm really attached to a movie I love, I don't feel alone. I feel like I'm immersed in what I watch. Same can be said about a video game or even reading a story book. Try to immerse yourself in something you can visualize and imagine. Make sure that your mind is occupied with something that you …
/r/MensRights17/04/24 05:34 AM
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But looking at the way the world goes, some of the shit they speak about aren't anything related to kinks. So this kinda scares me. For example, men are falling behind in education and colleges. This is the biggest catalyst for how women outpace men. We need to encourage men and high schoolers to enter colleges more. Especially for law, economics, STEM and finance.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 03:25 PM
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Maybe you're correct. The sub has about 30 women at maximum, every other person is a man with a self-degradation fetish.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 09:17 AM
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No idea why though but if you look at almost all of her posts and comments they are strikingly similar to the ones she posted in her previous account (I remember because I've been a lurker in that sub before)
/r/MensRights15/04/24 08:44 AM
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Also why are you commenting on that sub ? Stop interacting with it. Your comments support nothing. Just keep it chill. Just observe and report.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 08:09 AM
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Yeah sure. I'm filing a moderator report right now.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 08:05 AM
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Dude she's indeed a real activist. Just search her on Google. Almost all of other people she mentioned are too. In the text above she clearly mentions that they're keeping the philosophy secret.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:48 AM
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As I said above it's mostly "bio-essentialism" not exactly misandry. Bio-essentialism mainly goes against some people in queer community, trans people specifically. Reddit has indeed taken down some comments which mainly promoted such views (I've seen because I've reported some). Don't give up. Some attempt is worth than nothing.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:45 AM
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The philosophy they promote is bio-essentialism which goes against many people in LGBT community, mainly trans people. Reddit has previously taken action against transphobia. But do you think giving up without even trying would achieve anything ?
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:42 AM
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I'll send a link. We can at least give a try. Not sure if Reddit will exactly do this. https://www.reddit.com/r/AgainstHateSubreddits/comments/1c381bp/found_a_hate_group_on_reddit_heres_what_to_do/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Follow this. Report all the comments that you can see which promote the "female supremacy" and bio-essentialism. Also you can file a report against moderator conduct. The person above goes by the name EndEndoSilence2002.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:24 AM
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Hey man delete this. Don't. That sub is relatively small. By spreading about this, you're increasing its popularity. Seriously don't. Users in r/Feminism aren't as delusional as people in that sub. But smaller the sub is easier it is to inform about this to Reddit.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:06 AM
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Are there any Germans here ? They must report about this unhinged mentality of this particular person Theresia Crone to the party she represents or the governing bodies responsible. Imagine what the outroar would be if genders were reversed to "male supremacy". This isn't even feminism. This is biological essentialism. Seriously all this including the evidence (texts, posts, comments) must be sent to the necessary institutions in Germany. I'm sure they will take some action. Please some one from…
/r/MensRights15/04/24 07:03 AM
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Do they not have their own support system like their own family members ? What about their friends at least ? I understand your genuine desire to help them but at the end of the day these are grown adults and if they don't seek help, then that's on them even if it's hurtful to accept. Just try to talk to them at least to find out if they're open to speak up with you. You can't make assumptions like this here on Reddit, especially if you haven't initiated any communication with them. If you have …
/r/MensRights14/04/24 06:45 AM
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Please introduce them to therapy. They're just depressed like most of people these days are. This will help them immensely in the long run. I also see that you're very close to them. As long as you're comfortable can you encourage them to bit more vulnerable especially with their own feelings. Toughening up doesn't work all the time. Ask them to express their true feelings. Then encourage them to move forward step by step starting small towards a career they're truly qualified and passionate abo…
/r/MensRights14/04/24 06:04 AM
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Hey I think you should have some conversation on them and ask why are they wasting their youth like this. You've said they respond with cynicism, but do they raise any fair points or just brush you off. Since they're adults, you can't be their mother or baby them. So it's difficult for me to say stuff like encouraging them to have new friends or find a new career which I'd otherwise would say to a school teenager. But have you tried asking them to engage in some new hobbies. Hobbies have proven …
/r/MensRights14/04/24 05:45 AM
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