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1

Don’t approach too much in supermarkets etc close by you too frequently. Change up the locations.
/r/seduction25/07/26 03:05 AM
3

No one said looks are the only thing that matters.
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:43 PM
2

Yes! They have tons of options. However, When it comes to relationships that will Last it’s a bit different. They can easily get into relationships or get hit up for sex, but it’s hard to find a committed guy that will work on continuing to build that relationship without them through the ups and downs.
/r/seduction13/07/26 09:55 PM
1

Love the details! Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction08/07/26 12:11 AM
5

Find the shit you are lying to yourself about and do that. So you don’t talk to the hot girl in the group. Talk to them and take a shot with them.
/r/seduction27/06/26 07:21 PM
2

How do you usually transition into personal convo from that? Thanks
/r/seduction25/06/26 05:08 AM
6

How did he get her?
/r/seduction23/06/26 05:42 PM
1

People who use these apps are just wasting time.
/r/seduction17/06/26 11:29 PM
2

Damn bro. Love it. Give more details of the approach as well!
/r/seduction17/06/26 02:01 PM
1

I love these posts. Bro keep sharing your insights.
/r/seduction14/06/26 07:32 PM
1

I’ve tried so many ssri etc No response :(
/r/seduction29/05/26 10:26 PM
1

Damn bro what’s the drug? My anxiety has been constant, And I’m trying to figure out what the problem.
/r/seduction29/05/26 06:52 AM
2

I don’t see it. Also on Instagram or YouTube?
/r/seduction04/05/26 07:32 PM
5

You need to rack up wins before you make posts like these. All you did was say hi. You didn’t stay in the set long enough to even generate a date. So you don’t know how to generate dates yet.
/r/seduction29/04/26 02:23 AM
3

I feel like of people don’t actually approach here and just comment.
/r/seduction23/04/26 10:02 PM
8

Not they don’t. Lots of women don’t chase
/r/seduction22/04/26 02:07 AM
1

What do you need to progress? I’ve done some and have had some success but I feel like it’s just timing and the girl finding me attractive.
/r/seduction21/04/26 06:07 AM
6

How many have you done and how successful are you?
/r/seduction20/04/26 08:41 AM
2

Add some more examples in the OP If you can please!
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:21 PM
6

Fake story just trying to promote apps.
/r/seduction05/04/26 11:27 PM
23

Gym is tricky. Even if your approach is good you can get flagged to the workers and banned.
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:11 AM
13

He’s saying you arent giving constructive advice to get more matches/likes
/r/seduction04/03/26 07:35 PM
84

So 2/3 are already when you have the girl back to your place. I’m gonna try the pink hair band and see what happens. If you have more suggestions to try while cold approaching or meeting new girls, I can try those out and see what happens.
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:11 PM
2

At least you are trying! When I was cold approaching, I made sure my energy was soft and warm, To make them feel Comfortable.
/r/seduction26/02/26 09:53 PM
1

Clav also has tons of status now and has camera man following him around. I feel his status plays a big part
/r/seduction22/02/26 02:15 AM
1

What does the 5’4 guy weigh? I’m curious what you mean by good physique
/r/seduction12/02/26 10:11 AM
1

You are so spot on. I hate how so many of these posts are so binary and don’t understand context matters. They take everting so literally.
/r/seduction30/01/26 05:28 PM
6

You smoke with them? Or just get them drugs?
/r/seduction16/01/26 01:34 AM
9

So have you been successful with getting the attractive women you wanted?
/r/seduction26/12/25 10:39 AM
2

Why?
/r/seduction08/11/25 06:11 AM
4

I like your example! You have more examples for grocery stores?
/r/seduction05/10/25 11:12 PM
9

She’s doesn’t fuck with him more. If she’s attracted to you and you are good at making her feel things, she’s not gonna care about better looking dudes. If you can make her feel things, she’s gonna be yours.
/r/seduction24/09/25 06:02 PM
3

This is actually good advice.
/r/seduction20/09/25 02:51 AM
4

Forget the haters. I thought this post was interesting. Smiling and softer eyes has yielded me much better results!
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:08 PM
0

What do you mean way too nice?
/r/seduction05/09/25 07:54 PM
4

It is. However there are people that are just never going to make approaches. So this app makes them feel like they are doing something.
/r/seduction01/09/25 11:08 PM
2

How many dates have you gone since you got in this state?
/r/seduction29/08/25 08:00 AM
5

Interesting. But what they dislike about what? Qualities in a partner?
/r/seduction28/08/25 06:47 PM
13

Where do you cold approach?
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:40 PM
5

What do you mean drop breadcrumbs?
/r/seduction18/08/25 06:58 AM
4

Try this OP.
/r/seduction16/08/25 10:56 PM
2

Lmao 🤣 This is too funny
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:43 PM
1

Interesting post!
/r/seduction06/08/25 08:08 AM
1

I’m curious as well. How many have actually lead to dates?
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:18 PM
14

Did you jaw get wider? How?
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:05 PM
13

Just go with the flow. Text less and eventually ask her out again. Meanwhile talk to other girls!
/r/seduction23/07/25 12:03 AM
2

You can keep talking to her but you should be trying to meet other girls as well. Don’t put your life on hold for her.
/r/seduction21/07/25 10:34 PM
1

Interesting stuff!
/r/seduction21/07/25 09:21 PM
1

Keep us updated if any of the strategies from the comment work!
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:30 AM
4

Lol I the opposite problem. I don’t how to talk at bars well but I have fun on the dance floor
/r/seduction20/07/25 08:39 AM
2

You have to hold the frame that what you are doing isn’t creepy and you aren’t a creep.
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:23 PM
1

Great post!
/r/seduction13/07/25 10:23 AM
1

This is a great comment!
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:22 AM
3

Why don’t you try being delusional for a few months and see what changes. Basically just believe you are amazing and see what happens. You need to experience it yourself
/r/seduction09/07/25 09:44 PM
2

Where do you approach?
/r/seduction08/07/25 04:29 AM
1

Interesting stuff!
/r/seduction07/07/25 08:49 PM
2

What does your friend in 40s do that stands out to you? I’m curious
/r/seduction06/07/25 11:36 PM
10

I agree. I swear most of this doesn’t really talk to girls. They just post shit they read and have no real world experience.
/r/seduction06/07/25 07:42 PM
2

Love the details! Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction06/07/25 08:49 AM
2

Take action and see for yourself. The thing that helped me the most is just doing tons of different social events and keep getting out of my comfort zone.
/r/seduction05/07/25 11:03 PM
3

I’ve gone on lots of dates with girls than never showed any interest before I approached them.
/r/seduction05/07/25 08:16 PM
4

I’m very curious of what you learn after you are done! Also if you upload the field reports that would be cool as well. I’m curious how your mindet changes after 100 and then 200 etc etc
/r/seduction05/07/25 08:15 PM
1

So what changes did you make to go from no success to lots of success?
/r/seduction04/07/25 07:09 PM
1

What do you think your cousin is doing that working for him?
/r/seduction04/07/25 04:55 AM
17

The opposite is working for me. Showing more vulnerability is having girls get hooked more. However internally I am not as attached to girls. Of it doesn’t work I can move on. I’m also older, So maybe with the younger girls your approach works better. Would need to test.
/r/seduction03/07/25 10:05 PM
1

Do you tell girls you play the guitar or do you get them because they come to your shows? Thanks!
/r/seduction02/07/25 06:57 PM
2

Love the details. I’ve never been to a music festival so you gave me some ideas on how to approach!
/r/seduction26/06/25 09:10 PM
5

Interesting stuff here! Especially the studen pilots
/r/seduction25/06/25 09:46 PM
1

Thanks for the details
/r/seduction25/06/25 07:01 AM
1

What kind of TikTok’s did you make?
/r/seduction24/06/25 08:56 PM
1

Dm the group. I will check if there any paid tiers.
/r/seduction24/06/25 04:52 AM
2

Keep talking to girls, just don’t lower your standards and have less expectations. Things will workout.
/r/seduction20/06/25 07:19 PM
2

There are no answers! Even If you had great dates, You don’t know what her mindset it. Lose the expectations 😊 and just keep looking forward!
/r/seduction16/06/25 08:11 PM
4

Thanks for the hard work
/r/seduction15/06/25 09:05 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/seduction15/06/25 09:03 PM
0

Looking at lips is def a good sign
/r/seduction12/06/25 11:57 PM
2

I know tons of girls and they go out on dates even when there is no initial attraction to see if something can build up. OP wants to know when they are really attracted to you.
/r/seduction12/06/25 11:56 PM
10

If they say “we” in the convo I usually ask you and your husband?
/r/seduction12/06/25 11:51 PM
4

I’ve never had someone ask if I’m filming time when I go talk to them.
/r/seduction12/06/25 10:02 PM
-4

This isn’t true.
/r/seduction12/06/25 05:39 PM
1

Interesting post
/r/seduction11/06/25 09:14 PM
3

This is a really interesting take!
/r/seduction11/06/25 08:02 AM
1

I’m curious about what your doing to improve the face? Is it plastic surgery? Thanks!
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:02 PM
2

Those guys from your main goal, are tall and have good facial genetics and young. How are you going to become like that?
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:17 AM
4

This simply isn’t true. Lots of survivor bias imo. There are tons of girls I barely text that don’t text me. I must forget about them. If a girl is into you, She’s into you.
/r/seduction31/05/25 06:23 AM
1

Please make a full thread. I am very curious as to how this is done!
/r/seduction27/05/25 08:54 AM
2

This is a very nice insightful comment!
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:34 AM
1

Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction25/05/25 01:21 AM
1

How did you get her over to play video games? I want to meet some of these girls.
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:45 AM
1

I’m assuming the coffee dates are near you? To bring them back for dinner
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:39 AM
11

Post workout smoothie sounds like a great idea. I gotta try it
/r/seduction22/05/25 03:05 AM
3

Take a salsa class! Or acting class
/r/seduction21/05/25 10:26 PM
2

Just my opinion. You should have asked for alternate days. Instead of trying to text more. For the most part, If the girl is into you she will want to meet up. Aha I knew you were a marcha girl, I know this cool marcha spot. You should join me. You free Friday? “ “Her: no in busy” You: what days work you? If she’s interested she will want to meet up. It’s also timing. Maybe she enjoyed the interaction it she’s interested I someone else.
/r/seduction21/05/25 10:25 PM
1

I gotta try being more consistent with the gym! Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction21/05/25 10:14 PM
2

I think you need to have a huge following or be extremely attractive to be able to pull Instagram girls from just dms.
/r/seduction19/05/25 09:11 PM
60

What stood out about his charisma?
/r/seduction15/05/25 10:25 PM
1

Cause having Women in your life makes your life much better. I am focused on work as well but I also make sure to socialize.
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:15 PM
1

Elaborate on number 2 please!
/r/seduction15/05/25 05:14 PM
2

This actually fits my vibe.
/r/seduction12/05/25 07:15 AM
2

From my experience it depends on the girl. Some like to text a lot and some don’t really text much. I honestly just try to calibrate to their energy. Main thing I look for is if they are willing to come out again; If they are then I see that as a sign of interest. In your case, I wouldn’t think too much. After you continue to see them, Eventually they will text more. So get them out and continue to escalate. And continue matching their texting energy.
/r/seduction09/05/25 06:58 AM
1

It’s more about deciding to approach or not, So you don’t overthink
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:04 AM
5

This is the best answer. Just meet up with her after dinner at a bar.
/r/seduction03/05/25 11:13 PM
2

I’ve had some success talking about some product.
/r/seduction28/04/25 09:15 PM
1

Ah sorry about that lol 😂 Thanks for the write up. Sometimes I make approaches in stores but I def don’t want to get banned from the store. I will try to find some festivals!
/r/seduction28/04/25 09:14 PM
1

What was your opener at the grocery store?
/r/seduction28/04/25 06:52 AM
2

Where do you recommend to do ca to get this volume?
/r/seduction28/04/25 06:51 AM
1

There isn’t anything wrong with what she is saying I’d that’s what she feels. If guys hit on her you have to trust she will reject them cause she likes you enough. If she cheats then she wasn’t the one for you. The hard part to determine is why are you feeling insecure? Is it her actions or is it a you problem? You also shouldn’t be afraid of losing the girl in this situation. It seems like you feel you aren’t good enough for her?
/r/seduction28/04/25 05:40 AM
2

The word once Incel is thrown around way too casually.
/r/seduction28/04/25 05:33 AM
2

Good point
/r/seduction28/04/25 05:20 AM
2

Yeah. Seems fishy
/r/seduction26/04/25 08:48 AM
1

Lol 😂 Damn that’s a savage comment
/r/seduction26/04/25 08:37 AM
2

So before you end the convo try to bring up Something you like to do. If you like to dance or go to museums etc. And see if they would be interested? Have you been to x museum? I’m thinking of going next week, You should join me. Etc
/r/seduction25/04/25 08:05 PM
7

Move on or just ask her out
/r/seduction25/04/25 09:04 AM
3

This one fits my vibe 😌
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:37 AM
1

This is good stuff 😊 Tanks for sharing
/r/seduction06/03/25 10:49 PM
1

A post specifically on examples of free association and going more in depth about it. It seems like a interesting concept.
/r/seduction01/03/25 01:49 AM
3

Did you do a deep dive on free association?
/r/seduction28/02/25 07:59 PM
22

I agree. I’m having more success with pulling back and doing less and being more subtle with physical touch. Every girl is different though. The ones that were really about it in the first date Made it super obvious and kept touching me or had these infatuated eyes. I don’t drink though and my dates don’t involve drinking. I’m assuming If you go for drinks, You can be a little more aggressive.
/r/seduction28/02/25 07:07 PM
1

More please. Learned a few things I want to try out
/r/seduction28/02/25 08:40 AM
6

Don’t sweat it. You took your shot. Just review what you could have done better and continue taking shots.
/r/seduction26/02/25 09:56 PM
2

When you hang out as friends, Do you split the bills?
/r/seduction25/02/25 09:36 PM
1

Thanks for this 🙏
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:07 AM
0

No. Why are you posting this?
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:05 AM
2

When do you use the “am I bothering you line”? That’s an interesting like to take the pressure off the interactions.
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:01 AM
3

Great examples 😊
/r/seduction16/02/25 07:39 PM
10

You are just at the beginning. You should be making the post when you had lots of success.
/r/seduction15/02/25 06:56 PM
3

You said you rejected 3 and accepted one on a date. Where did you meet these girls?
/r/seduction13/02/25 06:25 PM
2

She knows the second date is expecting sex, so she could have changed her mind.
/r/seduction29/01/25 05:10 AM
1

I’ve never had some ask me for gas money. Even the girls who were not working at the moment never hit me up for gas money. I find it strange.
/r/seduction16/01/25 07:22 PM
3

Damn that’s a shitty situation to be in. My friends and I try not to chase the same girl.
/r/seduction14/01/25 05:57 PM
8

I go social dancing and see lots of same people. Sometimes I will flirt hard and then calibrate If it feels like they aren’t feeling it. If I ask a girl out and she rejects me, I still talk to her normally the next time I see her. It took me a while but now I don’t really feel awkward taking normally to a girl that I was rejected by. Sometimes we end up getting cool And then hangout.
/r/seduction14/01/25 02:03 AM
2

Good point
/r/seduction11/01/25 10:34 PM
8

Thanks for all the details. It gives my insight as to what I can try to do better. Putting my arm around a girl during the night is something i want to try doing.
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:43 AM
0

I agree. I thought it was an interesting question as well.
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:55 PM
1

Desert as in ice cream? I don’t drink so very curious
/r/seduction22/12/24 12:32 AM
0

If girls make complaints, You can get banned from the gym. You can’t make too many approaches.
/r/seduction11/12/24 12:52 AM
13

Curious but where is approaching these women?
/r/seduction07/12/24 09:58 AM
2

Interesting stuff.
/r/seduction18/11/24 07:21 PM
1

Can you expand on the 3 second part?
/r/seduction12/11/24 09:09 AM
1

This is interesting stuff. I feel like trade shows and festivals (all kinds) etc might be easier and was going to give these places a try.
/r/seduction12/11/24 09:06 AM
2

Thank you for the details. It helps a lot.
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:33 AM
1

Thanks for sharing this
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:49 PM
3

Your friend sounds toxic. Go out a few nights solo.
/r/seduction03/11/24 07:24 PM
2

I like these
/r/seduction03/11/24 08:45 AM
2

This was a very interesting comment. I learned a few things!
/r/seduction15/10/24 11:51 PM
1

What places did you find most effective for day gaming?
/r/seduction15/10/24 05:52 AM
4

I like this idea of common event.
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:33 PM
1

What book?
/r/seduction19/09/24 02:03 PM
3

What is ONS?
/r/seduction14/09/24 04:27 PM
1

This sounds interesting. Are you first following the girls? How are you finding so many local Girls?
/r/seduction13/09/24 08:21 AM
2

Thanks for sharing the details. I like the whole nickname thing (lasso).
/r/seduction09/09/24 06:48 AM
1

Ripped jeans model lol I like that one
/r/seduction03/09/24 04:40 AM
3

You are getting shifted but I appreciate it! Going to try some out
/r/seduction20/08/24 05:44 AM
1

You mean he paid models to act as strangers?
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:03 AM
2

Interesting stuff! I wish you had more examples
/r/seduction13/08/24 08:41 PM
1

Can you give some examples of open ended questions?
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:06 PM
1

Interesting. Thanks for tip.
/r/seduction11/08/24 10:04 PM
1

Does that really work often? I mean grabbing the hand and pulling her out of the venue.
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:18 PM
0

Just talk to girls. Don’t worry about getting girls. Learn to enjoy having convos with them
/r/seduction10/08/24 07:31 PM
2

Interesting stuff. I’m gonna start trying it out.
/r/seduction10/08/24 05:54 PM
0

“Hey Jennifer, You crossed my mind. How have you been?”
/r/seduction10/08/24 05:06 PM
1

For real lol. I need to be more direct it seems lol
/r/seduction10/08/24 05:01 PM
6

Great job sharing. I have to check out the video, but it’s great you aren’t caring what people think. I still give too much fuck of what people think about me, but I’ve had some success.
/r/seduction08/08/24 04:46 PM
2

Curious as well
/r/seduction07/08/24 07:12 AM
2

Great stuff. Thanks for sharing the details. Was the second one in the grocery store as well?
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:04 AM
2

How did he pursue?
/r/seduction05/08/24 09:32 PM
0

Nice idea about playing on the phone 😌
/r/seduction04/08/24 09:44 PM
1

Who is the guy your watch? I’m curious cause I like grocery stores as well.
/r/seduction01/08/24 07:32 AM
1

So you are right that getting IOIs before making an approach makes it a lot easier. I don’t get them that often, but when I did get them everything escalated very quickly. I just don’t get them that much. However, I really enjoy talking to people, and usually go indirect. When I don’t overthink and stay grounded is when I have the most success.
/r/seduction28/07/24 06:47 PM
2

I feel like this is wrong. I’ve gone on a bunch of dates with women, Who only started showing interest after I approached them.
/r/seduction28/07/24 09:34 AM
1

Damn this is something I’m picking up as well(not showing too much interest).
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:41 PM
2

I see. Thanks 🙏
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:07 PM
2

When you say intimately, Did you mean your fingers crossed with her fingers after examining her rings? I’ve held hands while examining rings but never pushed it to crossing fingers.
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:29 AM
3

Appreciate the effort but it needs to be more organized
/r/seduction20/07/24 08:07 PM
1

I feel like I gotta get better that the talking nonsense and keep convos light part. Any examples or videos I can watch?
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:42 PM
1

Interesting stuff but the audio quality was really bad during the pickup that I couldn’t hear what you were saying. I think putting the phone in back pocket ruins the audio quality
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:03 PM
2

It would also get you a chance to meet other people struggling and maybe seeing others progress might give you motivation. At this point I would try it and see for the experience. But you need to fight the right coach to push you.
/r/seduction16/07/24 05:04 PM
1

It’s being playful. Like when they ask what you do for a living and say something absurd
/r/seduction16/07/24 08:13 AM
1

Lol that’s very clever
/r/seduction16/07/24 08:10 AM
3

So I like dancing alone as well, seems to be the line that broke the ice. Interesting.
/r/seduction16/07/24 08:09 AM
3

Do those week bootcamps where you travel To the PUA artist location, and they force you to cold approach.
/r/seduction16/07/24 08:03 AM
2

What was he whispering in their ears?
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:52 AM
1

Best answer
/r/seduction11/07/24 07:33 AM
2

I appreciate the dialogue as it gives me some ideas how to escalate. Is there something unique about you to get the initial attraction?
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:54 AM
1

Can you share some examples of what was successful?
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:56 AM
0

Damn I find a guy like that I can learn from.
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:52 AM
2

What did you do to tackle game head on?
/r/seduction18/06/24 06:51 PM
2

Where is the video?
/r/seduction18/06/24 03:53 AM
1

I’ve been cold approaching as well as a beginner. I like the detailed post So I’m gonna dm and we can share some ideas.
/r/seduction18/06/24 03:52 AM
0

Can you give some concrete examples examples what you were able to see? Thanks
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:29 AM
2

I like this answer
/r/seduction11/06/24 05:58 AM
9

I’m curious what the dance move is and how you start convos with it.
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:39 AM
1

These are actually pretty good examples!
/r/seduction08/06/24 09:56 PM
2

I am as well
/r/seduction04/06/24 09:57 AM
2

I’m curious about number 3. Wish you could expand
/r/seduction18/05/24 03:14 PM
1

What should you say instead of complementing their look?
/r/seduction29/04/24 06:56 AM
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That’s for sharing this with all the details.
/r/seduction18/04/24 10:06 PM
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I like this advice :)
/r/seduction07/04/24 05:54 PM
2

Quick question : So you exchanged no texts for three days and The only texts were the “Hey come out with me… eggs “ Part you included in the story? Thanks!
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:35 PM
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I’m curious about how you approach in grocery stores. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/03/24 07:50 AM
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What are good openings?
/r/seduction04/03/24 01:21 PM
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Yeah I was confused about the opener as well. Just to clairify: If you see a girl at a bar, You say “ can I meet you real quick”? And then follow up with “I think I saw you on bumble” And then show her your profile on bumble?
/r/seduction26/02/24 07:52 PM
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Ah. I see what you mean.
/r/seduction25/02/24 08:01 PM
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Can you expand on the body language for sexual energy? Thank you
/r/seduction25/02/24 07:01 PM
1

Thanks for sharing. What was the opening? Also you said you went from normal convo to spicy. What’s spicy and how did you transition?
/r/seduction18/02/24 08:47 AM
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