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Off-TopicIndependent-Mail-227/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:16 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Utah_monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:43 AM
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And there was no law at the time that compelled them to do so. And? You sound Stop with the emotional argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:57 AM
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That does not mean that they are a monolith Yes it does, the monolith may change the materials it's made but it's the same structure. That's a lie. What make it a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:53 AM
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Oh, men were trying help? Quote exaclty from where did you got this idea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:42 AM
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So basically you just think something is true because it's what you lived with zero measure or questioning? AMAZING.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:39 AM
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Did you just toke a heuristic principle as a literal phrase? Do I really need to tone down the cognitive level of my replies to meet you halfway trought? Do you need an explanation of what the phrase "the purpose of a system is what it does" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:39 AM
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that’s how I met my wife it's not the 80s anymore, times changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:27 AM
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How do you know it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:25 AM
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They build their social circles. Ok if a woman approach a group what will be their first reaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:25 AM
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How many Elliot Rogers theres around? How many BP end up as a new Elliot Rogers? Little to none, it's not what BP does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:23 AM
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Dude, only the outcomes matter what part of "The purpose of a system is what it does" do you not understand? It don't matter if they say they want to save puppies if they're killing cows their objective is to kill cows. It don't matter if any eldritch horror is mindwiping the whole population to see that they want to save puppies, they're killing cows, the objective is to kill cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:19 AM
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Women were totally happy and content being domestic slaves who couldn't open bank accounts or credit cards on their own until the 1970s. They could, this is feminist revisionism. There's no law at the time that banks could't. Men need to ask permission from their wives to open bank accounts and credit cards until 2082. Do the wife is sattled with all the male debt as well? Because the reason women were not permited, IN A MARRIAGE, to just make new bank acounts is because the men would be conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:14 AM
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Women are not a monolith. They core higher in conformity and social cohesion. Not slaves, but not first class citizens either. Men were first class citizens neither, never were.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:04 AM
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This is not an accurate summation of feminist The purpose of a system is what it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:01 AM
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Do you think two triangles are the same just because they're triangles?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:57 PM
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did you just compare DUI with fraud as if they're the same type of crime? Fraud aways has damage because it's fraud, you can't fraud someone for zero damage other wise is not fraud. Do the red crayon taste like strawberry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:39 AM
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Anything outside a refund for the money spent on the child is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:21 AM
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Sanity Pill Woman most insane pov ever posted in the face of know writen space
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:19 AM
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it’s the same as any other perjury. It's not, the biggest difference is that resources are extracted from a second party hence the FRAUD part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:17 AM
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? What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:09 PM
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They're the same thing wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:17 PM
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As it's descriptive what stop you from describing human behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:09 PM
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What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:36 PM
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Just stop with the bulshit and says what women AS A GROUP suffer, it should not be hard. You should be able to say it, why can't you even say it? Why it's so hard? You have to pick ~1% of the population to say how women suffer. Is their supposed suffering so rare that you need to pick 1%?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:31 PM
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because science doesn't describe how human beings are supposed to function in a social or cultural context Yes it does, the same way we know how chimps works in a group, the only difference is that we can say unpleasant things about animal behaviors while human behaviors it gets "problematic"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:28 PM
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They're unreliable because it's not science, it's survey wannabe pseudo science where they think that "person say X" and "X is real" to be the same thing. It's no different than scientology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:26 PM
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There are still countries where women can’t even show their damn face dude So your argument is a small subset of the population? is this all you have to say. Women in a shithole other side of the globe can't uncover they face therefore the woman in the west suffer the same as the man. Are you **** or just faking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:23 PM
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My opinions in relatios to dating are based on the okCupid data that is currently the most reliable study about human mating and sexual attraction with each possible caveat covered and any counter argument awsnered by the same set of data. My opinions about gender relations are based on current female behavior and extensive action of feminism (the dogma women follow in the west), their arguments and results. So no, my "views" about dating and gender relations come from objective reality based on…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:15 PM
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You're the one saying there's, if you're not going to be specific and just vague posting don't bother replying, don't waste my time not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:04 PM
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Not really, if women were so keen to find sexual assault so bad they would stop voting to import sexual assaulters into their countries or would allow us to lynch them. But women do not, because they see their sympath above their own safety. A concern men do not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:01 PM
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just different problems Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:57 PM
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You can't be this *******, I just argued that fighting a default decision is basically unwinnable and the first thing you says is "weeeell most of they time they agree with the judge decision". No shit Sherlock, is the thinking department lacking in funds or personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:31 PM
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Kentucky had a reduction of 20% in divorces after setting custody as default 50/50, men want custody but they want such process to be possible. Women want the children to have more gibs with them. If you're just not aware how justice work at a system level (because why would you, it's typical of people that never think outside their own head) if you have to fight a decision of a judge you're aways at a disadvantage. It's why the presumption of innocence exists since if the state can prove you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:17 AM
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as a group only men pay a surplus in taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:10 AM
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The amount of severely disabled people is a drop in a bucket in the average population, so yeah, no difference. Helping them bring no positives, letting them fend for themselves bring no negative. Another useless job whose actions and inaction brings no difference to society and is just there so you can speak that you have a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:10 AM
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Iran still gives the males the social and physical advantages together with conscription, what sk do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:04 AM
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If you were smart enough you would realize that art is a privilege from cultures that were able to satisfy their basic and core functions in abundance. But of course since you don't know the difference between cause and effect you probably think art is what make those places good and not the reality that those places are indeed so good and well off they can afford useless positions like artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:56 AM
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Do you understand the meaning of the world mostly? Or did you just not vibed with the comment and thus need to act emotional to its contents?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:44 PM
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Women as a group consume more in taxes than they contribute, the deadweight men still not consume as much in taxes. Society will keep running without psychologists, it's a sham profession that were previously done, for free by the priests in the community. People say there's "great female software engineers" because they're nice to be around, they're often not effective workers if what you want is raw performance. If you ever had the displeasure to senior in such position you'll realize those wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:39 PM
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I really don't care about your mother and I have no idea what relevance she have to the conversation in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:26 PM
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It's not about being physical or not is about being necessary, CEOs as well are useless managerial positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:25 PM
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I do, most of them writen and produced men. The point being, if I could't, everything would be kep as if while if the guys in the water treatment decide to stop working I will die in no time. There's a reason engaging in artcraft are seem as signal of a prosperous society since it means everything that was of importance is already garanteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:18 PM
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Nurses and doctors are valid. Considering current state of teaching teachers are questionable. Daycare workers exist to replace the mothers that would under common circustances take care of their own children. Artists are useless. Psychologists are mostly useless as well, psychology is a pseudo science that exists to gaslight you into ignoring your own problems. Majority of police officers are men and I would prefer that the people cops are supposed to protect don't get shot point blank while th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:02 PM
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So your opinion is based on nothing LOL. If he can date a young woman why would he bother with a post penopause eggless one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:41 PM
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Not too stupid, just not strong enough for the productive resources extraction, not willing to pull the hours for the productive desk job sectors or simply lacking on the interest for high level thinking jobs. If a lack of intellect is your first guess it says more about what you think about women than me LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:35 PM
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Their jobs are mostly useless managerial jobs, they could disappear tomorrow and the world would still work fine as it is. Those useless jobs are backed by a huge contigent of productive men doing productive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:24 PM
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What make him a man child?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:21 PM
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Yeah because women solitude is backed by male taxes. It's why men should give up on dating and focus solely on themselves. no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:20 PM
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It's also easier to get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:59 PM
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What a surprise, low social classes tend to have more children. Irrelevant What a surprise, men engaging in risk-taking behavior are more likely to hook up. Contraception and birth only happens if the woman so desires, male behavior has zero bearing on it. What a surprise, women choosing criminals are not exactly the ones engaging in responsible contraception. Circular logic. What a surprise, higher fertility rate doesn’t automatically mean their kids grow up in a loving, stable environment. Irr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:10 PM
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It don't, it simply don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:07 PM
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My family What relevance does your family have towards social trends?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:23 PM
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Criminals have higher fertility rates than law abding citizens, we don't need your useless anedoctes when we have raw data to point a trends. The world exist outside your own social circle, I know it's hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:16 PM
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And many men would rather be with abusive attractive woman than a nice unattractive woman if given a choice The point is that women have the choice, men do not since they're not the selectors in human mating. This is the point, in your face and somehow you still miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:13 PM
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The difference is that it's easier for women to get partners, so a female criminal getting a partner means jack shit. If you don't know the difference between "X is easier and is getting result" from "Y is hard and is getting results", le gourmet la crayon is down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:11 PM
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What you define as "backbone" is tied to inumerous factors adjacent to "bad". Ignoring that perception of a "backbone" is more tied to "bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:05 PM
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relationship is not a proxy for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:00 PM
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they explain that ratings were on a 0 to 5 scale They didn't, not in the blog post nor in the original book.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:00 AM
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So that's why I don't think OP conclusion that these women therefore have "zero attraction" necessarily follows. Well then think harder, just because a woman is entering in a relationship do not means she has attraction towards the man. You're basing it on a false premises where a long term relationship equals attraction, it do not. Women will enter in a relationship for material, opportunity or emotional gain independent of their attraction. Everything on the original book dataclysm points to i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:12 AM
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In real life men are definitely getting with women who find them attractive How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:48 AM
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I find nihilism to be rather lazy I find nihilism to be rather lazy I find nihilism to be rather LAZY what you think calling something lazy is? Do you think shaming is just when you get to your little group pointing fingers at someone? Do I need to point the definition of shaming as well if you don't know? Definition => "an uncomfortable feeling of guilt or of being ashamed because of your own or someone else's bad behaviour" This is what calling something lazy is, since you're trying to produce…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:17 AM
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ok, point where I ever asked if you're responsible for anything. Can you read? do you know how to read? Do you need help engaging with ideas as opposite of the shitty romance novels you read all day and night? If you're not going to engage with the comment and just say random shit don't engage, don't waste my time nor yours. Do I need to put in all caps and bold so you can read?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:08 AM
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Don't you think it's extremelly cruel to: Be a person in a position that allow yourself to be optimistc and positive to shame those that are not in such position? black pilled men live in a completely different reality than me so it doesn’t affect me at all. The "empathetic" gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:01 AM
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Not this garbage again. Research has been conducted on this very topic Women see as okcupid data 80% of men as bellow average, so ANY value closer to the normal distribution AKA objective reality will be seen as someone overastimating. If I had wealth and status, I would be terrified of ending up with someone who wasn't genuinely attracted to me So what? you think men will not end with someone that is "genuinely attracted to him"? LOL, LMAO EVEN. The whole post is garbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:48 PM
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Mongolia fertility rates have been decreasing non stop since 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:45 PM
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South korea have LITERALLY every single men stripped of one year of their lives (the most important timeframe for carreer building) in order to protect the gynocracy while also getting set behind due to heavily adoption of DEI and ESG. It's currently the second most feminist country on earth losing only to ukraine that are dying in a ditch so their wives and sister can go and fuck someone outside. expected Expectations means jack shit, if all your argument is about muh expecetations make me a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:41 PM
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Yes, it's their job since they're causing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:33 PM
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Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:00 AM
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Is a little more insidious than this, they mock those men because they know they no one will bat an eye, no one care so they'll exercise pettiness in a way to affirm their own social status. They just can't help but mock, because not mocking would mean that that their social status are closer than what they want to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:10 AM
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It's not idependency, it's gain. The biggest factor in a divorce is how much a woman is up to gain with it. See Kentucky as example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:37 PM
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I think those people really have zero idea of how things works, they think that the iphone they use just materialized out of thin air, no trucks moving, no developers creating, no african kids mining. It just one day appeared. Just like the water they drink: it just comes out of the pipe, the guys digging, keeping the eletricity in the waterplant and the guys filtering waste into drinking ater don't exist. It just appears.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:22 PM
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Every rebuttal seems easy when you're clueless about the subject. It's, most men. Electricity, infrastructure, transportation and extraction that are the dorsal of society is mostly men and the large contingent of it as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:18 PM
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taxes do not fix roads, taxes do not produce food, taxes do not sanitize water, taxes do not transport goods, taxes do not produce energy, taxes do not save people from burning buildings, taxes do not build homes, taxes do not build bridges, taxes do not create machines, taxes do not extract natural resources. Workers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:43 PM
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The majority of workers that keep the basic functions of our society are men. How many men do you need to keep society running? Most of them, due to the interconnected way our infrastructure works and the effects of supply chains has on everyday life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:32 PM
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But you don’t need men to solve demographic problems, certainly not all of them Depends, do you like to live in a mudhut without eletricity? Even if you took women’s rights away the question is why would men in power take women’s rights away and then give losers the women. Because they like eletricity and a functional society since they're the biggest winners of it. One man can Impregnate a 100 women How 1 men will keep your country running?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:07 PM
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By the time of the irish idependecy the IRA active fights numbers were less than 0.5% of the population, your post shows how you have absolutely zero idea of how the world works in practice and and even less understanding about history as a whole. Problems are NEVER adressed at first hand because there's incentives into not doing so, so they will not be ridden of at the time it would make it effective, the group is already marginalizated and you cannot exploit a group that have nothing to looks …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:05 PM
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The issue is the advancement of technology has incentivized a lot of men to rot behind a screen at home rather than go out and socialize. You can already write psychology studies since you can't differ cause by effect. Socialization is a core of human biology, the incentive is aways there, is part of who we are. The only way for it to not be the case is if socialization brings negatives that superceed the positives of fulfiling this part of our biology. What is the current states of affair, wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:56 PM
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Do you think that is or not selfish to donate money with the purpose of self gratification? YES or NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:38 PM
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there is a difference Do you understand that to say that something is different you need to compare two things right? As opposite of making a single affirmation. Women can recognize physical traits, but have not desire to act on them. Pick one: Women have sex with sexy men. Women have sex with men they don't find sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:58 PM
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This is not what incentives are, so yeah, yo don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:53 PM
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he’s cute, sexy way I said she and her friends won’t have sex with them Do you understand the meaning of words or just use them in an emotional way?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:20 PM
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but not enough to have a sustained relationship why would any men want it? what you basically said was "yeah he can get the best part".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:15 PM
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"It's a good solution" she says she points to a solution that goes against basic incentives and human behavior. Amazing. You do understand the concept of incentives right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:05 PM
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So basically your solution is an impossibility, nice waste of time. What is next? You're going to say that we can solve world hunger by just producing food out thin air? Do you even thing before typing? Does what you think sounds like an argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:38 PM
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Why would you want women be forced to Are you going to keep the strawman up? Answer only yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:36 PM
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You can see for the "successful enough" part that the ego is still there since she is not humble enough to try and understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:31 PM
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So let me get this straight, those guys women are not interested in will stop approaching and it will change things? Who upvotes this garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:25 PM
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Most single men are chasing Borderline What evidence do you have of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:16 PM
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women spend more time Inneficience is not a positive and you thinking this is shows the selfishness op is talking about. Women also give to charity Giving to others don't make you non selfish, the reasoning and system behind why the choice is made defines if it's selfish or not. Once you realize women do it due to social expectation, self gain or just to feel good about themselves you realize they're being selfish. But the reality is that solving male loneliness comes at the expense of women bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:15 PM
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Metoo was originally about rape and that needs to be treated with extreme deference and respect. It don't, and this is the reason why it allows it to be used as a weapon against men. It should be treated like any other crime like murder. No respect. No privileges neither moral nor systemic. The fact you think it make me want to puke in disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:36 AM
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Women will never win, their whims are incompatible with the very society that allow them to have such whims. They'll just lose, slowly or fast but will lose anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:29 AM
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If you consider the current situation the blames is perfectly put the blame where they're due: in the women for the action and in the men for not controlling his wife as he should. Men spread myths, false statistics and flat out fabrications about women. Such as? Exemplify.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:28 AM
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Ooooooh grammar spooooooky. Learn to develop ideas before being pedantic like a child, you should have enough IQ to understand the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:21 AM
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I would still survive without any of it, throw a modern woman in the wilderness and is comically tragic. Women rely on men, men rely on themselves and other men. As a group, men DO NOT rely on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:16 AM
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It's the field that produced the most advancement in the past 20 years in relation to everyday life application, but nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:58 AM
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A level 1 trauma centre emergency nurse? Nursing numbers skyrocketed since the government mandate the expansion of the positions at state level in the 2000s demand staffing by law SO YEAH even your nursing job. Men and women pay the SAME amount of taxes As a group only men okay a surplus in taxes. WOMEN run Did they never taught percentagem in nursing school? Wasn't statistics mandatory since the 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:56 AM
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They should just not receive special treatment, it shouldn't be too much to ask, equality is what it's called I guess. But hey I guess real equality is really scare to women, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:44 AM
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Again, the question is not "is X good?" the real questions are "is X good under pressure?", "am I critical enough of X to define their actions as good?" And "is X good or just following social norms?". Then you'll realize there's little to no gold women, just self serving ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:26 AM
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I make supposition based on averages, I don't need to know the person. If the job contributes nothing but red hearing it's a fake job; the classical example is the jobs whose whole objective is schedule meetings, fill spreadsheets. My current job is building software for automation, you know real life stuff that will cut costs and make processes more effective. If a third work on it what are the other 2/3? Light beings?? Saying that people work for things is shows a lack of knowledge about what …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:17 AM
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Women still rely on men heavily. Men do not. They're never going to be equals
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:06 AM
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There's not, the issue is that you're confusing perceived social response with goodness. When you remove such perception you realize that is indeed the majority. For example: lot of men are very conditioned to take things like gaslighting as not abused nor toxic so they'll take a woman saying things like using your one sided crush to extract as much resources as possible of you as not toxic nor abusive or even something that you deserve for being dumb. The question at it's core is "would those w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:05 AM
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Your fake job that serves no use in society exists due to male taxes. The company that gave you such fake job is very likely founded and funded by men. The politician that want votes and give those companies money to hire women directly and indirectly are men. The economy that thrives enough to allow for such waste of resources are built on the back of high productive male sectors. Hell, even your food, water and electricity whole infrastructure was built and is kept by men. You think that you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:58 AM
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You're still reliant on men. No, you're not oppressed but if you think you're opressed give me a single example of an oppressed group that lives longer, has preference in hiring, has preference in court and is more likely to be believed than the supposed group that oppress them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:35 AM
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Not all men are toxic, or evil, sexist, rapists, or abusers. Yes Not all women are toxic, or evil, sexist, rapists, or abusers. The majority is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:08 AM
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Women were not oppressed, this is feminism revisionism of human history. it's been a struggle to be independent and not need men for survival and expecting them to keep up with us Women are still heavy reliant on men, the government just act as a middle man extracting male efforts and giving it to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:07 AM
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Ibisworld, we are currently ~3k short in bars and clubs in 2024 than we had in the 2000s. Current profits margins on such business are increasing bellow inflation meaning most of the current post COVID boom is unsustainable and we will see a decrease to COVID numbers in 4~8 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:09 PM
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It's true when the stats show it to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:40 PM
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Just more garbage to appease female neuroticism, this is what "paid television" is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:11 PM
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They see the them as a boyfriend they don't have to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:07 PM
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Partners are not proxy for sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:06 PM
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There are in fact many environments, groups, and settings specifically designed for people to meet one another Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:04 PM
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The average women inability to think about societal trends outside their shallow perceptions in life's should be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:03 PM
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So how it wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:07 PM
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the general trend is an aversion to leaving the house across the world It's a result of a low trust society, my father would play outside and I still remember the stories he used to tell me. If you were a lone child were I used to be you would end up recruited by gangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:03 PM
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No we didn't, science evolved pretty well with mistakes being corrected as soon as technology allow for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:56 PM
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Everything can be learnt, the real question is how realistically something can be learnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:36 PM
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Adopt a life style that provide the least amount possible of taxes. How much longer are people gonna complain about dating and women? Until societal collapse. If they dont like you, get over it. LoL, get over the people complaining then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:35 PM
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So I should just shut up, accept how things are and keep society that will benefit women running? LMAO are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:02 PM
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It's definitively obvious that girls and women have been throughly pushed aside when it comes to the education sphere, schooling, academics etc but also the workplace and corporate sphere. There's no such a thing, education sphere was never real, is still not a real thing. Today the current "education" is basic indocrination using the prussian model to create compliant workers, it's exclusively a model tied to the workforce not as a cause but as a pre-requisite. In the past schooling was extrict…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:00 PM
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Most of bluepill logic runs on just world fallacy, so they will say it can be learnt for n factors outside logic that include: Blank slate, the fact that it have "skill" in the name or the idea that experience equals competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:48 AM
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OkCupid tested with different photos of men from non dating apps, result was the same. Every rebuttal you think you have was covered by the tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:31 PM
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Any act of evil against a woman will receive backlash, any act of evil against a man will be seen as normal. something something male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:03 PM
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How? How long do you think that takes for you to be know as "the guy that hit on every girl?", do you think that social places are limitless? Do you think that you won't have to change places to more expensive ones cutting your resources and reducing opportunities? Do you think that you will be able to be with your friends as well to those other places making you seems like a less social person? How does the recluse get to point of escalation The girl will do it because he is good looking, he do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:25 PM
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Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:17 PM
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Most people are in a relationship Relationship do not equals sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:37 AM
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The person who talks to 100 girls is going have better odds of finding someone who's into them than the person who talks to 10 girls. Until you realize that every failed attempt will reduce your chance of success on the next atempt. A average looking person who has a large social network and is meeting new people all the time will likely fare better than an attractive recluse. It don't, the recluse need only one chance with little to no effort and little to no resources usage while the person wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:36 AM
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I am a Man and in a Relationship, and i would give myself 5 out off 10 Social skills. I have no Agenda here. The just world fallacy is an agenda on itself, you accepting it or not. How "well spoken" and witty you are, if a Friend insults u as a joke, a charismatic Man will have a even "funnier" counter where the People laugh theyre ass off. The issue there is that you assume both friends have the same level of status within a group, that person A is allowed to denigrate B while B is (socially)al…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:32 AM
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Not being single don't mean women find them attractive a relationship is not evidence of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:12 AM
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Women see 80% of men as bellow average in looks as per okcupid data.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:08 AM
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Easiness is not relevant, efficiency is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:07 AM
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Feminism is an ideology not a gender group, women don't need to be feminists. Just because the issue is "societal" don't means feminism is not the cause, thinking that everyone has equal blame in the situation is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:52 AM
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But they still are done by men and women are still not filling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:50 AM
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No it's an issue with feminism stop with the bullshit it's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:01 AM
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What evidence do you have that it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:53 AM
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Is still a lie, anything that opposes the truth is a lie independent of intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:51 AM
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Lemon gecko and the useless post again as if the useless comments where not useless enough. Personality is not social skill. Men have different personalities and saying to "change it" is no different than saying to a short dude to "just get taller". Social skills are heavily affected by physical factors, look at president and CEOs average height. Men understand perfectly what personality matter means and we laugh every time women try to sell the snake oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:49 AM
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Every issue feminism and women by proxy have is apex fallacy, they will never be satisfied until every women have the life of the 1% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:35 AM
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You do understand that the majority that maintain it are men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 08:45 PM
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What are “male resources”? Resources produced by the male population. What if women just stop producing males? Total collapse of infraestructure with a return to mudhuts and fireplaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:31 PM
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"The motte-and-bailey fallacy (named after the motte-and-bailey castle) is a form of argument and an informal fallacy where an arguer conflates two positions that share similarities: one modest and easy to defend (the "motte") and one much more controversial and harder to defend (the "bailey")."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:13 PM
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Man pay more than what they receive in taxes, women receive more than they pay in taxes. Every "benefit" men would have from taxes they could pay if out their own pocket and still get more out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:46 PM
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Sure, this is why water treatment plants are filled with women and electricity production and transportation is to the brim with female workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:44 PM
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For the communist every issue is capitalism and the solution is aways communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:36 PM
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And giving the resources so society can extract more resources from you and your sons is winning at life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:24 PM
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Men in the top of hierarchy of looks + status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:18 PM
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Why do you think they should have power if you think this a biased position?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:40 PM
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Because society as a whole is built on men producing an excess of labour. Men that have little to nothing to gain or loose will just do nothing. Female idependency is an illusion created by the government, they're still heavily dependent on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:39 PM
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Isn’t the gender stuff just a distraction for us all to ignore the economic problems and growing divides. What make you think those are separated? A tip, immigration heavy reduce wages and there's a gender that is heavy in favor of it. Most of current jobs produce literally nothing and is just there to movement money guess what gender occupy the majority of those jobs? Guess who doubled the workforce? Guess who votes in favor of nanny state?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:35 PM
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How is it a “war” if women are choosing separatism? Except women are getting male resources trough the government, when are women going to build society out their own efforts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:32 PM
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Men will win, as they have aways done trough human past and future simply because female societal structures remove incentives for stability. The longhouse will burn down while the women inside it keep gossiping and demanding the fire to be stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:29 PM
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Wife paycheck with the removal of wife expectations in case of marriage, the very (extremely) slim possibility of getting topmen at the cost of current mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:26 PM
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Good partner is universally: Loyal and willing to do sacrifices for the good of the family. Good person do not matter for what a good partner is or isn't. If you look at the current dating behavior and divorce rates women are pretty much not willing to sacrifice momentary comfort and convenience for short term gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:23 PM
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People need to learn basic, statistics it's painful. Imagine you have 2 categories A and B A has a value of 1 while B has a value of 10. A increase to 2 while B increased to 11 A had a 200% increase while B had a 10% increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:17 PM
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wealth is privilege Don't bother replying any other of my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:38 PM
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They do, they just won't be in relationship with them as first option. Friends are the bench while she plays the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:26 PM
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Don't matter, it's how things are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:14 PM
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I don't i'm just pointing why one is an issue and other is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:10 PM
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Two or three What you think would be the situation if each women had 50 possible partners, maybe 100 even 200. All without leaving their homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:09 PM
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If you didn't understand: The reason why men complain about things like women interest in money and having to pay dates is because the woman on the otherside have ZERO chance of being traditional in a non passport region.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:54 PM
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Jennifer Aniston and Natalie Portman there's any solid evidence about it? or is just we believe because we believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:53 PM
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Prostitutes with a pimp are worth the payment, prostitutes without one are a coinflip, escorts are extremely expensive and not worth the pricing. Would it be more thrilling to have sex with a stunning escort or an ok looking one night stand? Pussy is pussy, you're not paying one to paint her on oil. For those who have done both, what is your take on it? Escorts were very disappointing one of the two I hired was very spiteful because I didn't prepared any gift while the other was just there, sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:49 PM
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we have tons of examples of male actors/athletes/artists who have pulled some incredibly beautiful Success is irrelevant for female SMV, so cite those examples of high value men cheating on "incredible beautiful" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:34 PM
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Make an educated guess, you can do it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:28 PM
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and? So she will not give attention and cut the interaction short. Is this supposed to be a negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:27 PM
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And? If you're trying casuals you woudl't care about paying expensive dates or her medical bills nor would stick with her for time enough to make the fact she is interest in money relevant. If it's not casual you'll just pay for it and get a conservative women. So your comment is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:26 PM
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This is unrelated to the comment wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:22 PM
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And? What relevanced does this have to the argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:17 PM
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And then reason was that all my friends and everyone I knew pretty much never went out on “dates” at all. We would hang out and drink and tell each other funny stories and dance and sing and inevitably hook up with each other. Awsner this simple question how many possible partners each girl had at the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:13 PM
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Yall complaining paying $60 for a date while the expectations there is to pay for her father’s medical bills. Complaining about women targeting you for your money while it’s common there to ask your date his salary. The difference is that you're paying it for a conservative women (that if you're smart will never touch american solo). The price is worth the result.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:03 PM
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Yeah sure, let's expand hypergamy so height became a norway dude, salaries became an arabic oil prince. What could go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:02 PM
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No country in the world has reached full legal equality for women and girls | UN Women – Headquarters the original affirmation was "54% of countries do not have laws that base the legal definition of rape on the lack of freely given consent." What only means that 54% of countries don't use the definition of rape they want the one where "consent can be removed at any time retroactive and the guy be criminaly acused of rape" most of those 54% still use the logical definition of rape where is neces…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:59 PM
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No, freelance work with company built housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:07 PM
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Afghanistan, Yemen, Sudan, DRC, Somalia, CAR, Pakistan, Iran, Saudi Arabia, India... then you have nations like Niger, Mali and Chad So 13 out of 195 = 6.6% Fifty four percent of countries don't even define rape on the basis of consent What evidence do you have of it? in nearly three out of four countries you can be forced to marry by national law Evidence being? about half of countries worldwide you could legally be paid less for the same work. As you should, you should be free to define wages …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:49 PM
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Because if shit hits the fan they'll conscript me against my will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:16 PM
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But if you look at most OF who actually get rich Apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:15 PM
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Most women are very similar due to higher social cohesion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 05:15 PM
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You understand that all is implicit to be the utmost majority right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:33 PM
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What make you think those ambiguous were not a situation of discomfort? Since they're ambiguous you don't know. Even the ones you think were friendly you still don't know because it would need you to read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:07 PM
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You're the one who wants a woman to look beautiful without makeup. Make up don't make someone good looking, it only make someone less bad looking. Someone less bad looking is not good looking. What make someone beautiful is not lack of facial defects that can be masked with painting but objective presence of facial harmony and strong traits. The only exception is professional make up artists but your suburban woman is not one. Even supermodels wear makeup so you must be expecting some genetic 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:06 PM
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No, capitalism is good. Allowing people to vote without drawbacks is not good. Do you just not have a job? My current work situation is optmized to generate the least amount of taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:56 PM
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it's easy for the utmost majority of women? yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:39 PM
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There's currently a supply shortage of labor for those jobs There's not, there's never a shortage of supply just a shortage of wages. They don't want to pay the wages because immigrants reduce those. Why aren't you first in line? I'll not produce taxes to a society that hates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:03 PM
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Men always want a women who looks like a 10 but she just needs to be the top 0.000001% of population who naturally looks that way - real realistic. OkCupid data shows the opposite, what you're describing is female behavior not male. Has no one told you women don't care about your muscles and gym obsession? Except they do, if you're not naturally big with wider shoulders the only choice is to gain a few millimeters of muscle to compesate for the millimeters of bone that you don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:00 PM
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I 100% know that it's not easy for every woman. Semantics, is it easy for the utmost majority of women yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:57 PM
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Ok, so at what point do you think it's time to do something as opposite to let things roll? Do you understand that directly or indirectly this will affect you even if you choose to ignore right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:57 PM
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I have to use uppercase since you seems to be blind, also you have no comments on r/TwoXChromosomes so stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:48 PM
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Women often end up being the ones who are generous in relationships, as they take on the biological burden It's not a burden, they want it and they can not do it if they want. Women spend hours getting ready So she can't manage her time and it's something I should be grateful for? using expensive products So I should be grateful because she is using a product she already brought that she wanted anyways? Is she going to pay for my gear and gym membership? Is she going to pay for my protein shakes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:42 PM
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No, I don't. Then POST AN EXAMPLE of it happening and not just another pile of garbage unrelated. t's up to me or another person to decide who exactly is a bigger threat. It's upon objective reality to decide, your feelings are not reality, reality is reality. Start arguing about reality and let your feelings behind the door. If you want someone to appease your feelings r/TwoXChromosomes is there for it, go there and stop bothering me. If you want a rational argument I'm there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:36 PM
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I dont understand where men are coming from when they say women have its easier? Every issue that you think women have, men have with the drawback of having no options to mitigate those issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:33 PM
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This is ONE “study” from ONE app. Match rates, men vs women: Tinder, 1% vs 30% Bumble, 3% vs 40% I’m still shocked that people reference this study so wrong They do it right, its the only study that is based on behavior of the users with wide avaible data being parsed using a multitude of factors with hypothesis closely tested. It's a better paper than everything psychology has reviewed in the past 10 years. It’s never even been retested. There's no reason to believe that retesting would change …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:29 PM
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It’s just super helpful. Until you realize that every unsuccessful attempt results in you being less likely to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:19 PM
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Because their communities are the back burner, since they know they have those men aways present and the fact that those men have no interest of other women it make them confortable to go and search for better and more since in case of failure they aways have those to go back to. They don't want to hang around those men because it can pass the idea they're "taken" to other men better than those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:18 PM
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I explained how women are historically trained to be cautious of men By using an exaple where shows that a child should be cautios of everyone, do you agree the position and example are garbage? How many women can outrun a man? Bears are still animals, most of them leave people alone unless threatened. Funny how you apply that "most of animals leave people alone" but the man will aways rape. Don't you find this very hypocrite? A neighbour can be of zero use but familiarity will still make a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:10 PM
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Afghanistan isn't the only country with abuses concerning women. Ok, so what percentage of the countries in the world do? At least thousands in the US, millions across the world. Tell the percentages. Women pay taxes too They pay less in taxes than they receive. Men have always had a greater privilege in society historically and presently. It's not privilege if you have expectations attached to it, privilege is getting to vote when you don't need to protect the country from the consequences of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:03 PM
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Yes, absolutely. And sometimes a stranger is a man. A woman has a chance against a fellow woman, but not against a man. So you agree your point was garbage? Didn't grow up Catholic, but I'm pretty sure most Catholics practiced chaperoning So you don't know but is pretty sure? What make you so confident in your ignorance? I'm gonna just point Nadir fallacy. A man can rape and torture you for days. Don't you find amazing that with the bear is only if "they catch a human" but not with the otehr hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:55 PM
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Like sure, a small amount of people get rich that way Is still an option to get resources, your objective is not to be rich is to make any amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:30 PM
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You wanna go to Afghanistan and tell the women there they have an easier life? nadir fallacy. Many women who do end up in sex work are trafficked, pressured or abused into it too, either by a violent spouse or toxic partner, by economic circumstance or by a trafficking ring. Define many, what you think many is? Men don't have to worry, as much, regarding being thrown into a rather oppressive lifestyle The male lifestlye is opressive by default, we are constantly paying in taxes for a society tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:30 PM
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Not if you're an unattractive or severely introverted woman (like myself) This is you saying that the reason for you being single is because you're lazy and not in the "mood" to enter talking stages: https://np.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1s13tf1/comment/obys8uk/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Men who claim women have it easier seem to be forgetting that there are women who no one wants There's no such a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:18 PM
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Genetics play a role in OF success too Men are FAR FAR more into different types of genetics than women will ever be. You'll have a midget making money with only fans before you see a short men being US president in current society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:16 PM
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Men sell their bodies all the time for work. It is called a job Women vote in favor of mass immigration cutting those jobs earning potential and positions. If I could choose between offering my body sexually to someone to no longer have to work, or just work my job, I'd rather work. N=1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:14 PM
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Since childhood girls are warned against men. And it's not a new thing. The Little Red Riding Hood is basically a story made to warn girls against the dangers men pose to them. It's not, EVERY FAIRY TALE is about strange danger, not men, not women, STRANGE. Almost every religion has rules that are meant to ward girls from men they are not related to Point where catholicism has it. You can ask any middle aged man, who would he prefer his 14 year-old daughter to meet in the forest: a bear or a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:09 PM
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Wouldn’t I have some responsibility to at least get curious about how I could potentially improve the situation? Replace gender with race and watch how this became the most disgusting argument possible :) Ultimately the point of the bear /man analogy is that women are waving a flag, hoping men will hear them and collectively improve. It's not, the point is that women want to put men down by saying they would prefer a wild animal, anything else is just your ingroup bias and rationalization. We wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:58 AM
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Offline, most women like men How do you know that they like men vs they like what men provides? I go ask any of the normie, non-chronically online people I know, boy or girl, about near anything They will say the socially acceptable thing that will result on them not having any antagonistic reaction towards the person asking for it. The truth can only be extracted from anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:54 AM
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What make you think those are not a reflect of society? Single women still want men to hit on them They define as "men" only a subset of men making such affirmation useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:53 AM
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if one woman out of 50 is uncomfortable. The problem is not me. Ok, what you're going to think whe it's 40 out of 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:52 AM
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Oh yeah they attacked sexism... By using sexism to avoid their due punishment. I also fight against slave labour by buying all the products they made and selling it for profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:10 AM
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But not every boyfriend became your husband, not every men you had sexual interest vmbecame a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:58 AM
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No the survey is a walking breathing living garbage pile that have no upsides. Do you understand why we do not accept hearsay in the court of law? It's because it's unreliable, a survey don't say that X happened. It only says a person said X happens, therefore the only information that a survey will ever convey is group of people we interviewd said X happens. There a no "margin of error" in a survey, those are make believe numbers conjured out of thin air using shady math. In other words. “Scien…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 03:08 AM
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Chlamydia rates, they only reduced once lockdowns started at the time that was physically impossible to go out and fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:54 AM
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Let me guess a survey?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:51 AM
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No, 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:47 AM
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The most is implicit in the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:47 AM
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They're, most women are. Genz or millennial don't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:45 AM
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I have heard The average young woman in the us spend 3 hours a day in social media, 2.5 in the uk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:34 AM
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Only idiots and malicious people use surveys to try and get the truth. It can be inferred by pulling user overlap from PPD with other subs. The subs who have heavy female overlap with ppd are femaledatingstrategy, datingoverthirty and datingoverforty. Both dating over subs have a heavy overlap with askwomenover30, femaledatingstrategy and askwomenadvice. Femaledatingstrategy has a huge overlap with purplepilldebate, datingoverthirty, askwomenover30 and datingoverforty. datingoverforty and dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:30 AM
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Everyone spend a lot of time in social media, did you ever saw stats before positing this bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:06 AM
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Husband's don't matter, marriage is not about attraction but about security, the only thing that matter is the boyfriends and ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:04 AM
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No, we don't. Women has higher degree of social cohesion + social media makes girls have the same values and core principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:53 AM
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soft spoken not obsessed with being traditionally masculine Those are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:49 AM
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Men are not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:48 AM
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The male group in this sub is on their 20s while the female group in their 40s. So the men live on the today while the women lives on the 80~90s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:46 AM
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Only if this "some" is exclusively women in their 40s or ultra religious. Outside it No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:45 AM
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Female arguments are based on the apex fallacy? The majority is. No males ever fall for the apex fallacy? The majority of male arguments? No. No males ever follow a leader full of garbage? I don't think you understand what the apex fallacy is. Have you seen the US? Who voted for that? Women, women are the majority of voters and the most malleable block of voters. They alone have been deciding politics since they got suffrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:25 PM
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Redpill: Because they have no idea what the dating landscape has turnet into, you can see the ones advocating for it are the same users: 40yo pull yourself from your bootstraps that engaged with PUA 10 years ago and think nothing changed in past decade. It's a very outdated way of thinking. Bluepill: Because their argument are based in the just world fallacy and wishful thinking. Dating apps don't work so you should go out an try in person because something aways has to work so if you tried X an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:34 PM
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there are women who don’t want or don’t expect them No there isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:13 PM
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You make such contemptuous statements about women. We only rationalize while you use logic. Direct logic. Rationalization is still a type of logic, it's subpar. Studies show we empathize more than men. If you see the studies methodologies you'll realize they use as metric sympathy not empathy. The tests are aways about "how much one care" not about "how much one understand". you are superior because you talk about general ideas. Yes. Only you do things right. No, a lot of people do things right …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:21 AM
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Law exist to remove ambiguity and give the state have a monopoly in violence. The state exist to consolidate power over a group of people and land. Men wouldn't be at each other throats if no written law or authority was present because the lack of order would be a deterrent on itself. Doing crime is very advantageous when the drawback is a warm bed a free food, not so much when the drawback is getting beaten to a blood pulp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:38 AM
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Define "alarming" and provide evidence of such affirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:11 AM
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LMAO "allies"? You expect support offering nothing? Then you want a slave not an ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:57 AM
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What argument do you expect to get when someone extrapolates <0.002% of the world population as some sort of widespread bullshit? What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:38 AM
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Most domestic violence is mutual. Mixing domestic violence with sexual violence to inflate the numbers is gross and help no one. Loose time period like "once in a lifetime" mixed with loose definitions fo what is considered "rape" don't make your argument stronger just inflate your numbers. That’s from the UN btw. Why should I care about it being UN? Only methods matter. The numbers are irrelevant if they do not show how they got those numbers. Appeal to authority is a very poor form of argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:36 AM
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No. There’s just way more information out there now on how to actually do well with women Only matter if doing well with women is a possibility to begin with. The bar is low as hell HHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA no it's not. A lot of Gen Z and Gen Alpha women are more socially isolated and awkward than before. Don't means they don't want the same small subset of men. Their “bad” qualities are more forgiven now If by their you mean men, NO. Back in my day, if you weren’t charming and didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:11 AM
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Ok so don't bother replying any of my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:05 AM
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Also, do the women of Orozo not exist to you? They do exist, I have no obligation to care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:04 AM
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There it is. "The whole thing is disgusting." That's it. That's all you have to say. Do you really think that just because men don't speak about it that they think this is fine? IS THIS YOUR POSITION?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:03 AM
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Did you forgot? No one deserve anything wasn't this the female motto?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:01 AM
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But then in that case you don't have the right to go around saying not all men if you dont care for the cause. Because? What make you think that just because I'm not speaking about a third world nigerian village in the middle of nowhere I have no right to say about the things that affect my life now and today? Explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:00 AM
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Do you think this Orozo exists in a vacuum? Do you think it's a representative of the world? Do you think a third world country with 0.00224% of world population does?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:57 PM
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I think the point is that when men feel that raping and harassing women is acceptable Not caring don't means a person find it acceptable, not caring means they do not care. I’d bet Unfalsifiable claims have no place in a debate. Men are so quick to say that men who would commit violence against women are a tiny minority but that really seems not to be the case. Really? 0.00224% is not small? What is small for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:56 PM
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A zero position is not adding to the problem, I nor any other man have an obligation to solve or take active participation in what happens outside their own lives. Everytime you go with this bullshit of "silence means you agree" make me want to go against your cause even more and care even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:54 PM
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So I should care because of some invented bullshit? Make me care even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:51 PM
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Yeah, ozoro equals 0.00224% of the world population. Is math hard for you to understand as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:49 PM
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As per curiosity what point you think you're making?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:46 PM
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instead of understanding what women are telling them We understand, we also think using 0.00224% of the population to base your fears is idiotic. Start acting with reason as opposite of being emotional and eating the news slop to justifiy the neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:45 PM
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Why should I care about what 0.00224% of the world population decides or not to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:41 PM
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Some would claim the contents of the post is evidence that there's nothing to rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:19 PM
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a text message with extra enthusiasm I think it should be mutual where both are giving clear signals before asking for a number I'm supposed to handle her a an anonymous letter?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:15 PM
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Because explicit verbal communication removes ambiguity. Women loves ambiguity because gives them an out for the result they want. If she says she want to go out with you because she likes you it means that if you receive the news in a way that she gets an "ick" she would have to commit or be explicitly flacky about the situation. If she just give signals it means that if at any moment she gets the "ick" about the situation she can just go and say that the men got the wrong idea and still leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:14 PM
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Im trans and have never had trouble finding women to date. Do they know you're trans?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:59 PM
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Female arguments are based on the apex fallacy, so you saying that on average men is worse for them do not matter. They only care that average women is not a the same position than top men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:55 PM
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I am debating your delusional superiority Try debating ideas, not people. Obviously the "feelers" are just so wrong. Perhaps you will find ways to manipulate them with your superior reasoning since you might have need of them. Yeah, those who follow emotion above reason are wrong but you cannot rationalize one in a position that he did not put himself by reason. It is unfortunate that you cannot understand that thinking people are not inherently preferable to high feeling people. I can understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:46 PM
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Your comments reek of arrogance and rigid thinking. Yeah I'm arrogant. The simple fact that I think about thinking give me the right and duty to be arrogant over those that don't as a way to not reduce the value of thinking. Yes, thinking is rigid. There's no thinking when you can change their mindset like someone change it's emotions. You know that I do not know what empathy is? Evidently so. You doubt that I am in a position to understand rationale principles? Evidently so. You are simply absu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:50 PM
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They're the fundation of a civilized society so no, they're not overrated. They're in fact underrated. But I just can't understand why so many people consider finding a permanent partner to be such an important part of life. Mating selection is a waste of time and efforts, utterly miserable human endeavor so removing it is a good thing. It just seems like a dreary, mundane existence to me, especially having sex with only one person for your entire life. Isn't there something better in store for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:38 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:27 PM
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You're allowed to do wathever you want, I don't care. Rationalization is just very subpar compared with direct logic and anyone using it to form arguments and worldview should rethink how they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:19 PM
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The statement you made shows an absolute lack of empathy and understanding of women. It's the opposite, I understand how women feel and thus the idea of women lacking empathy and confusing their sympathy with empathy while even this sympathy only exist due to social expectations. If I was you and applying your rationale I doubt that you're in position of understand rationale principles that shelter the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:16 PM
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Feminism is based on social Marxism that requires an oppressed oppressor dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:42 AM
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Contrary to women, I do not make arguments based on myself but on general ideas. So stop with the rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:36 AM
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There is enough arable land to grow the amount of food needed You have absolutely no idea what you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:21 AM
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Removing a womb is no different than removing an organ LUNGS and KIDNEYS are vital organs, the womb is not. Most women are on birth control so why don't you consider that them no longer having an advantage? They can stop taking it. Is still an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:16 AM
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Currency is not money. solve world hunger Oh yeah commie talk, they can't because farming that is the basis for everything requires good soil, water, fertilizers and equipment. Two of those are geographically locked while the other two are still susceptible to scarcity. Their money is also valued in assets that are worth less when solved. The reason why banks are given bail outs is because they pay the money back while having cred holders going down cascade in massive destruction of wealth. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:12 AM
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Yes, because your quality of life is reduced with the removal. There's no reduced quality of life while removing your womb. So, if it's so much if an issue remove it. You won't, women won't, because it's not a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:04 AM
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Economy is a zero sum game there's no such thing as "enough" money, commies should pick an economy book an learn something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:44 AM
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Of you think it's a disadvantage remove your womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:43 AM
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Pease commie, ESG and DEI are class agnostic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:52 AM
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Is not envy to point an advantage. Having children has derailed a lot of women's live So don't. My unpopular opinon is that more women should have abortions Remove your womb and problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:51 AM
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Just more propaganda to satiate female neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:35 PM
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"is already happening, just slowly." Independent-Mail-227, 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:53 PM
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Most women follow feminism one way or another, conservative women still act like feminists on what they want, desire or demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:07 PM
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Well first you’d have to fund the productive parts of society. Yeah, with private efforts not taxpayers. Too bad most of the money is in shitcoins, dubious startups and fraudulent tech companies. Currency =/= money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:55 PM
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A responsible, sensibly run government that utilizes tax dollars to their maximum effectiveness. Taxes from who? I know you’ve probably never experienced that before, but it exists and a better world is possible. A better world is one where the productive sector of society don't have it efforts extracted to fund societal decay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:19 PM
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Equity is “equality of outcomes” but insofar providing necessary resources to give all an equal shot. Who is going to provide the resources? But the homeless crackhead will be given an opportunity to rehab from drugs, be given appropriate housing, and a shot to get their life on track. Who is going to pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:24 PM
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It’s safe to assume Start by assuming the example was used to illustrate the point that women don't have sex only due to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:54 PM
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Perhaps society, feminism, the current state of affairs should do some reflecting never going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:34 PM
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Why are all men in competition with each other constantly Because otherwise you don't get to have a family and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:20 PM
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is already happening, just slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:19 PM
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Equity is reaching equality from the understanding that we are all different and have our strengths and weaknesses. Except when dealing with male issues, where the gender set backs are used to further female power, amazing isn't. If you want to say it’s unequal for a struggling single mother of 3 to get free baby formula It's unequal with all those people that made good choices in life to have to back someone bad choices, do you think that is equal that someone that put effort in his whole life …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:58 PM
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Oh yeah because women never has sex for any other reason like security. I heard all those gold diggers trully love the old guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:45 PM
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Men treat other bad because men are on competition with other men. If you had no reason to compete you would have no mistreatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:20 PM
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Nobody should want to be treated the way men treat other men. We live in a world with limited resources and scarcity not on disney fairyland. Are women goin to fuck the short meek guy? NO Are people going to hear the low social guy on his struggles? NO Is society going to respect the weird and uncommon? NO Therefore the competition and struggle will continue, you will do nothing to aleviate it so men can only ever keep competing until society rot and decay and then compete on the new thing that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:16 PM
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equity Equality of outcomes is inequality. This is what you want, female privileges in the excuse of any cute word you use. Feminism is the rot of modern society and everyone that follows it is a social parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:12 PM
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translates to absolutely zero tangible benefit to them in regards to rights and privileges. If men decide today that "rights and privileges" of women are done they will not exist tomorrow. They don't even need to put effort on it, they only need to do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:11 PM
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Early feminist thought explicitly attacked what would be thought of today as benevolent sexism. They acted like terrorists because they knew the police would't put them in their places with overwhelming violence just like they did with the luddites. Early feminism was a lot more about women’s right to an education and an argument that women can be every bit as competent as men And it was proven to be corrent or incorrect? It was in many ways the opposite of modern girl boss feminism It was the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:09 PM
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I think as this idea of “gender equality” becomes more widespread culturally and women are viewed as on equal standing with men, we’re going to see a decrease in men financially donating to female streamers like Pokimane. Not really, women will demand equality of outcomes cutting male finances and inflating hypergamy resulting in more lonely men and thus those men donating more. Your mistake is to think that parasocial relationship is based on something else that is not one state of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:05 PM
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If you're going to add nothing why don't you make a favor for both of us and ignore the comment? Less of a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:33 AM
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And if you learn nothing, you're incurious and bad at sex How someone will be good at something if they're not given a position to learn and the other side is not willing to allow you to learn? Your argument sounds like "you're bad at sex because you're not good". I didn't say they teach*, I said they communicate. Show an example of what you think it's "communication". YOUR sexual experience does carry over as an asset. Experience can only come from trial and error or teaching, women do not like…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:34 AM
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It's not about confirmation, it's about evidence. You need to have a reason to believe on something otherwise it's just faith. Do you have faith that is the red pill causing the political shift or do you have any evidence of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:58 AM
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The only thing obvious is your wishful thinking, you wouldn't say a prostitute likes sex just because she has lots of it right? Thinking a woman know what she wants just because she has a lot of sex when the reality of the sexual intercourse is the man taking the leading position in the utmost majority of the time is a stretch, in order to know something you need to take active part on it from start to finish. And experience has no effect in communication, the chances are that she will get disap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:49 AM
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What evidence do you have that is the manosphere making genz men more conservative as opposite of genz men being naturally more conservative and searching communities like the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:33 AM
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What political movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:28 AM
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Did it create political movement? YES OR NO??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:26 AM
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Feel free to remove your uterus, every woman is free to remove theirs. Of course you won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:25 AM
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Every single disadvantage men have is due to women getting advantages in a system that is zero sum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:23 AM
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Pregnancy is not a disadvantage. You can choose the pregnancy. Making it only a disadvantage if you choose it to be. It provide the advantage of making you able to get an offspring at basically any moment for half your life removing every reproductive pressure. It's an option with trade offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:16 AM
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Red pill don't create political movements neither wtf are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:11 AM
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Women do not have variable preferences, their likes and dislikes in men are men with the same core characteristics but different wardrobe, therefore mating value is objective. What you erroneous and innocently thinks that is variation is the same shape with different color. On the bias accusation I want to be straight with you. I described a different psychological burden for men and a different one for women. I didn't say one was worse. You don't need to say one is worse, is obvious that one is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:08 AM
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I speak on behalf of myself and even if I spoke on behalf of another you're in no position to demand nothing. I for one Do you ever think about thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:35 AM
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Just because a woman has a high body count don't means she likes sex, don't means she will like sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:33 PM
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Seems like men are lonelier than women Yes, they are. overall women seem to have much closer friendships. They seem to due to being conflict averse and performative in their social duties. When a woman remember another person birthday as example is not because she care about the person but because she have the social expectations of caring for birthdays and such dates. This is why at the single point of conflict female friendship falls apart, since the social expectations and gains are removed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:28 PM
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Women have no empathy, it's simply performative sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:57 PM
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not an advantage, it means you can't get offspring by your own free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:27 PM
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Not getting pregnant Is not an advantage since means you can get a family by your own will. not having periods 1 month issue vs a life of benefits. Stronger, faster, more athletic On average can't use any of this to get advantages in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:27 PM
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Average men do have advantages such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:11 PM
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However, I think most people would rather not have an incurable disease. Ask if most people would pick between being sexually desirable and having to deal with herpes or being undesirable and you'll get a very quick response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:57 PM
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To they receive sexual gratification? Looks of desire, sexual attention, advances? If yes, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:07 PM
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People that are receiving sexual gratification are not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:56 PM
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Part of being a healthy adult is communicating the ways you need support. You're comparing someone in a relationship with someone that is not in one your husband is irrelevant. STOP with the lack of empathy for fucks sake
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:50 PM
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Being with no access to any form of sexual validating from the opposite gender following your sexuality. I think Doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:49 PM
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How is it a lack of empathy to acknowledge that some men cope with rejection by being hateful Because empathy is the act of understand one position, you're not trying to understand one position but just applying the bullshit that makes it more palatable to your mind while keeping It took a while to see that they had dealt with some harsh rejection and were deeply hurting. They're not "hurting" they're acting in accordancy with the facts present Please explain to me what examples of empathy you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:44 PM
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It's not a struggle, it's inexistent. But yes a decent amount of men who struggle with dating say some hateful things online Lack of empathy strikes again with a bit of lack of self awareness in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:16 PM
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Most women have never been single their whole lives, not for a pico second, they don't know what being single, they think they do because their frame of reference is not having the kind of guy she wants. of giys on this subreddit that complain about how demanding the women they date are. LINKS, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:49 AM
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When you frame dating as a market, you're implicitly accepting a bunch of assumptions Yeah, the question is are those true? that people are commodities with objective value Do you think women value a fat short balding guy with a weak jawline and shy expression the same as a tall muscular man with a flowy hair with agressive behavior? No obviously so people have objective values in dating. attraction is transactional Due to previous being true yeah attraction is a transaction, you have to offer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:48 AM
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Defining it as "vitriol and anger" shows that you do not try to be more empathetic but is virtue signaling to be seen as more virtuous than you really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:40 AM
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I think a lot of women do empathize with men's dating struggles. Sympath is not empathy I genuinely feel sad for those men. This is sympathy NOT empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:38 AM
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women are fine with being single Women are never single, they're absolutely NOT fine being single. Ask a woman that can't jump on a dating app at any moment and get a man if she is fine being single. Men complain about their girlfriends Men are complaning about NOT having one WTF are you talking about???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:37 AM
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if that dog ugly, 400lbs balding woman can get a gross looking man Rationalization is a very por method of thinking since its more likely to start with fault premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:35 AM
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Women fundamentally has no empathy, they show sympathy but even those are questionable if it's genuinely or performative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:33 AM
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But to claim a whole genre is shit because you don’t like It's not "just because I don't like", it's a genre that is funded in unrealistic non human behavior and emotion over proper writing. The Time Traveler's Wife is a very well writen romance movie where all the character greviances and reason behind their actions are understood and makes sense (even if I disagree with some). But is one single piece of work in the middle of everything else. In every single other genre good genre writing and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:20 AM
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A classic is decided by historic value not quality. Pride and prejudice is considered a classic because it shows partially the lives of peoples at that historic time period. Is still garbage in plot and characters. You can consider a pile of shit a masterpiece coming from someone asshole, is still shit. Catcher in the Rye Does the characters on it follow basic incentives or do they just do shit for the sake of the plot? Does the characters on it ramble about nothing after nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:42 PM
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Jane Austen Pride and prejudice is garbage, there's aboslutely no reason for the MMC to stay with the annoying, bitchy and obnoxious FMC outside "he just should". It's the unrealistic female fantasy where she bitch her way trough a relationship with a badboy. William Shakespeare Wrote mostly comedies and tragedies, romeo and juliet is a tragedy not a romance. Charlotte Brontë Her MMC characters are know to be unrealistic persistent. EM Forster George Emerson is a joke. can all go fuck themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:57 PM
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Because I love them and like to stay with them. There's no plot stop using rationalization to think about bullshit where none exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:45 PM
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Because it's filled with contrived plot progression and human beings acting like sock puppets ignoring basic incentives or situations that are beyond ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:30 PM
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sorry, but what's the alternative strategy you'd like to actually propose? Move to Thailand or Philippines. bro you're not even doing that. i guarantee it. I'm planning to, as soon as my parents die. RedPill is a tiny niche sub-community on global scale Most people do not think about dating nor is dating. Them being small do not matter, only their rates between dating population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:15 PM
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What genre romance have you read that informs your critical opinion here? A bunch of works between books, movies, fanfics and mangas. Not a single one goes 10 pages in without being absolutely unpalatable. There are definitely sci-fi, fantasy, historical fiction, mystery, horror, thrillers, and graphic novels filling up the middle ranks with B-grade The issue is not the works but the genre itself, every genre has bad works romance just don't have masterpieces like any other genre because it's fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:07 PM
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Ok so you eat the slop and now think that it has anything of value? Really? Every other genre have objective good writing and good genre writing as one of the same EXCEPT romance gente. there is schlock in the genre, in the way that any popular novel genre contains schlock. Fantasy have the lord of the rings what do romance have? If we can't compare the worst lets compare the best of the best..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:08 PM
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SINGLE hot men are assholes, they can and are rewarded for this behavior while non asshole hot men are just removed from the dating pool as quick as they enter. Everything else you provided is unfalsifiable claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:49 PM
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Attraction is objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:47 PM
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The evolutionary reason is that any society that didn't curb this behavior ended up eating dirt. All time spent with mating selection is time you could be using advanced society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:47 PM
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it's a disservice to literature to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:10 PM
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start only taking advice from men in the same predicament as you they're of no statistical relevance neither midwit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:05 PM
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The counterpark of dark romance books is not male dark romance books is porn. The romance genre is basically latrine of literary world, producing works of no cultural relevance that have no skill behind them. The worst of the medium in full display.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:04 PM
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married middle aged Marriage is not a proxy for attraction, it's a transfer of wealth and security. small amount of partners Still > 0; I do also want to point out that men are of the assumption No, you're are in the assumption based ON NOTHING. Pick every trait I said and invert it and tell me women would not be attracted to this man. And yet my viewpoint as a woman you are of no statistical relevance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:35 PM
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What exactly would the “characteristics” be of a guy that are more likely to make him a virgin Short, balding, non neurotypical, narrow shoulders, weak jawline, curly hair, bad face thirds, introvert, bad muscle composition, bad kness, prey eyes, lack of success, lack of connections, small social circle, lack of agressivity, shyness. However I have slept with guys that had little to no partners, and didn’t know it until they told me. There was no difference between them little to no partners is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:41 PM
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pot kettle. I use logic and statistics, not emotion like you. How do you know I'm not? I do not care about you, you're of not statistical relevance. How do you assume most women are not? Because most behavior of them shows lack of consistent morals, the whole mindset being built around "what make me feel good now" and "what make other see me in a positive light". You can see with the ideology they adopt in the form of feminism that preach that women can do wathever men can, in fact even better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:18 PM
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Rich people do not date poor people in general even if they find them attractive. Didn't Jeremy meeks bagged a heiress and had a child with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:47 AM
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I've seen Anecdotes are nothing but unfalsifiable claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:46 AM
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Because why Becuse if the world is not how you see it and there's a massive difference between objective reality and how the world is in reality your minds would crumble to dust. Is a side effect of rationalization: the world has to be like I see it and any evidence of the opposite is emotionally ignored. WHY are women expected to have sex when the outcome is negative for us? You're expected to be consistent, like an human being with morals. The sex is not the problem, be a saint be a whore JUST…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:17 AM
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are you planning to date most men and women? Look genius, men has to be attractive to most women BECAUSE MEN ARE NOT THE CHOOSERS IN HUMAN MATING. What are you thinking? That men have the time of their lives to go house to house e like a fucking beggar looking for food so he can gamble for the 0.001% chance of a woman that do not care? Even your example is idiotic, there's absolute no guarantee that this 0.1% will be attracted to you. For this 0.1% to be meaningful you would need to met 1000 new…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:09 AM
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Major longitudinal studies & meta-analyses Oh yeah, meta analysis on a field neck deep in the replication crisis, marvelous. The wrong in numbers are still wrong. Self-actualization itself is empirically supported Then provide the evidence that you will have it without basic psychological need a being met first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:58 AM
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self-actualization is conceptualized You Cannot Jump Steps In The Hierarchy It shouldn't be hard for someone like you to understand that it's impossible to pursue love when you're starving and that is impossible to pursue a higher will when you have no person by your side. internal locus of control Do you know what we call when objective reality greatly differ from one perceived reality? Delusion, this is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:30 AM
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complains about lack of empirical evidence suggest even less empirical bullshit A M A Z I N G
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:07 AM
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Genuinely speaking, what is so hard for you to understand? You can't try and reach the top of the hierarchy without the basis. What part of It so you not understand? Do you at least understand that saying "you can't park there" when you can't get a car is an useless position or is a metaphor too hard as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:23 AM
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We really need to change this metric. The day women as a group is willing to sleep with a married man than a virgin this will hapens, until then good luck. I'd say this isn't remotely true based on responses here most women in ppd are in their 40s, they're not a representative of current societal trends. They're bored housewives and single mothers dunking on lonely young men with moralism and just world fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:10 AM
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Have you tried an internal locus of control or self-actualization? Maslow's hierarchy of needs, you can't have self actualization before having love and belonging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:08 AM
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No, a man shows his value by building his best life, having an internal locus of control and standards for himself, challenging himself, accomplishing his goals So the man value is providing for women? LMAO, because of it just provide for women due to government taxation. If you think that "being slaves to women’s collective desires" is wrong you cannot hold this position without hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:07 AM
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I value What most women value? What most men value? Choosing to value men based on N count is your choice. Social trends says otherwise, what you think DO NOT MATTER since you're not of statistical relevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:06 AM
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Modern medicine make stds a non issue and aids rates between hetereo coupling are very low. The risk vs reward is very skewed towards the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:05 AM
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Not once have I Of course you didn't, women are notorious for being unware of secondary effects of everything they think or do. To make it easier to digest, for you, it's not about a mythical status or raw numbers: Would you pursue a guy whose characteristics make him more likely to be a virgin? You would't. Would you have sex with a man that not know the motions of it after your first partners? No you would't. Only men base each other’s value off of how many women they have slept with. Yeah thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:03 AM
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I say that as a guy who’s slept around. You’re not missing that much. Oh yeah from "money will not bring you happiness" and "just be confident bro works for me" comes this diamond.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:56 AM
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who women are chasing but the men don’t give it up easily so... an unicorn? Because men will fuck women avaible easily outside religious reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:54 AM
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Women have a hive mind behavior in the form of higher societal cohesion. Their mindset is VERY homogeneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:51 AM
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Semantics is the death of discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:15 AM
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Saying that anecdotes are irrelevant is not "trowing a fit", if you see any position you deslike as "trowing a fit" leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:44 PM
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I shared an opinion. You shared an useless anecdote, try thinking outside your head for a second. but I personally Think outside your head ONCE. Men benefit more from marriage and there are statistics on that. statistics that do not separate cause from effect. in my experience No one cares about your experience, you're of no statistical significance. Your life is of not relevance to any debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:18 PM
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me What about averages? if you see human connection You don't need a contract to have "human connection". Pretty sure most societies and economic backgrounds like marriage Most women, societies loves marriage when it's a contract that benefit both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:43 PM
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but for a lot of people almost 50/50 hat contract means something Yeah, transfer of wealth. It's a symbol of genuine commitment It's a liability and a symbol of decadent society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:38 PM
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Yeah, and they still have lowest rates of marriage with lesbian couples having the highest rates of divorces. There's no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:37 PM
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The only "body count" that women actually have a problem with is zero they'll also have an issue if it's low and you're old. If you had 1 at 30yo and is not a ltr it will be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:35 PM
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Oh yeah I'm sure those complaints come from people that barely met each other and not people they already fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:39 AM
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wouldn't be a huge market What evidence do you have of it being a huge market? gaming room What type of gaming room?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:27 AM
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According to you that complained about the issue, if women did the complaint wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:48 AM
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they have to have both Clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:58 PM
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Most of those guys use the pickup for work, it has a practical use.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:55 PM
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Yeah let's sum 20 yo with 30 yo, very correct
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:09 PM
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Mostly older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:45 PM
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WTF? So most men 50 years ago had six packs???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:31 PM
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Yeah older men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:19 PM
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If more guys took care of their bodies and hygiene If this worked they would do, it's also proves that rationalization makes for a poor framework since it's convenient to apply moralism as opposite to realize it's not cause but effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:17 PM
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This is because men bone and muscles are heavier than women. Also, fat or skinny make no difference so long you're not on the deep end of each situation you'll be seen as equally unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:02 PM
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So it is guaranteed that the money is going to the child since the child costs more than that. It's not guaranteed, childcare costs as much as you make it costs. all of this is easily avoided by asking You DO NOT ASK for something legally, if the judge do not gave it to you have to contest it while paying for both lawyers. Only Kentucky have presumption of joint custody baked on its legal framework since 2018 (divorce rates got very funny there). Child support IS NOT REMOVED by split custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:47 PM
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No men will earn enough for a modern woman since their life styles scale with earnings, you can receive 500k a year and a woman will find a way to spend it all with bullshit and demands that you get a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:39 PM
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Where is the traditional wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:22 PM
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If men are so much smarter than women, why can’t they manage a household, or look after kids, or do chores without being told? Because helicopter parenting and doing everything for appearances is not something smart people do. If you go to a uni frat you'll se everything working, you'll also see dust everywhere but still a functional household. You don't need to clean everything everytime, you don't need to keep a look to your children like the Chinese government. Women have this tendency to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:19 PM
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Oh yeah we should believe the survey, nothing scream science and good information than hearsay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:10 PM
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12, unless you have any relevant information against it you're just implying that it's old therefore wrong, what is by itself an absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:07 PM
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Do you have any evidence that is not a survey?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:55 PM
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A- Women do have higher standards okCupid data evidence it by showing they only see less than 1% of men as 5 in looks, so saying other wise is idiotic. Saying that somehow the men don't qualify do not antagonize A making it disconnected from the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:47 PM
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Survey's are not worth to be used as toilet papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:42 PM
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Hookups to me are entirely about my state of mind and how I'm feeling and how I vibe with the guy The lack of self awareness is funny yet not unexpected. The "VIBE" comes from the checklist you think you don't have. Hookups are rare to you because women only see less than 1% of men as 5 in looks by okcupid data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:39 PM
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Why should I not be offended about something I am aware of? So either Both things you presented were idiotic and disconected
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:32 PM
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Her I thought we could have a nice discussion. There's no "nice discussion" with someone that cannot understand that subsidized economy making the market more free is an oxymoron. Competition is the basis of the free market, there's no competition with subsidized business since those get massive advantages over one that is not. Do you want women to pair with men more I want the government to stop covering other people risk taking behavior, nothing less, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:11 AM
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arguably creates the first true free market There's no free market in a subsidized economy. Can you at least accept that female reproductive risks is subsidized by the government as opposite of puke useless wall of text?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:56 AM
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No it didn't, women rated in the middle and at the top received the same amount of messages of roughly 40%, while girls that are at the bottom received 20%. So mathematically any percentage picking the bottom will have less messages than anything in the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:23 AM
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Go outside and look around, average people shacked up everywhere. Ok and? Ask a woman what is the average height, average salary, how much sexual success an average men has, how many parties an average man goes to. And watch then aswner top 1% men numbers. In fact the super hot woman with average man is super common. Women see 80% of men as bellow average + in group bias make you unreliable to tell me that "hot woman and average man is common" since to you hot women is a mid 4 and "average man" …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:33 PM
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It is a free market. It's not, female reproductive risks are heavily subsidized by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:11 PM
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Its more from personal stories from men who have done it. So anedoctes? having to use Having to or convenient to? and other methods to maintain an erection during shoots The actors should be having fluffers for it. I'm glad there is a study The study is garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:08 PM
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YOU HAVE A WAVE OF WOMEN THAT MADE THEIR WHOLE WORLD VIEW IGNORE THE EXISTENCE OF AVERAGE MEN AS AN AVERAGE MEN. Can you see it now? Do I need to make it bigger? More so than the prevalence of erectile dysfunction in men under 40? All piece of media that affirm such bullshit uses the National Survey of Sexual Wellbeing that by itself uses IIEF-5. Link for the questionaire https://www.centralcoasturology.com.au/pdf/international-index-of-erectile-function.pdf So how did they get the numbers? Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:06 PM
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Men suffer erectile dysfunction within the industry If you source is this garbage https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30505729/ Make a favor and learn about methodology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:07 PM
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The consumers of violent porn are women not men. It is also the fact that men are about 5x more likely to develop a porn addiction You have a wave of women that made their whole world view ignore the existence of average men as an average men. It don't matter if a small% of men is 5x more likely when the opposite is the majority of women. And thinking that porn cause more dinsfunction that this is absurd. Men who engage in porn often need to escalate the severity of the material they consume in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:59 PM
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Porn just seems more damaging to me. Of course it does, since it's male related will aways be seen in the worst light possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:53 PM
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It's never about only, it's about the most likely scenario. only to have him ask “does she like me?” Yeah and the awsners he reach itself is often a "No" because he starts from her being nice as opposite of why she is being nice. Very different from women that can't get commitment and as opposite of going from the premise of "I can't get commitment" they just jump to "the reason why I can't get commitment is because men don't want to commit for X reasons" and wrap their whole world view around i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:38 PM
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Yeah, I'll die alone knowing all the reasons behind it while you can't even understand why you think the way you do. Must be nice to hide behind ignorance as an affirmation of virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:06 AM
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P R E G N A N C Y I S N O T A R E P R O D U T I V E R I G H T.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:04 AM
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Women will aways defend their hypocrisy because double thinking is baked on their mind by default: it's a feature of a mindset based on rationalization. Men follow direct logic where thought process is guided based on experience and morals. B -> C. Women follows rationalization where the thought process is based on meaning behind such acts. B <- A. This is where cames that old example of "Nice shirt" and the men thinking that "the shirt is nice" while the woman think "this is shirt is nice on me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:11 AM
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What make you think that behavior that would make me unsure about the relationship is not a preference? Do you think that not dating previous cheaters is fear and not a preference? This ties in to our thinking of nonchalance, emotional unavailability, narcissists, plate spinning, or "dark triad" people having more women, sexual encounters, and relationships. These are all fancy terms pointing toward the same thing: dissociating from a relationship enough so that you don't get hurt by it. No, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:50 AM
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Numerous women OkCupid woman rate ~5% of men as 4 and 5 in looks, chances are those women are all complaining about a small subset of men and it's not a representative of men as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:12 PM
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Dating apps are flooded with men who say they want a relationship but disappear the second things get serious How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:38 PM
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Anything can kill anyone, if you're implying that pregnancy can result in a woman death makes it a "life and death" issue while also ignoring that circumcision as well can, you have A hypocrisy or B a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:54 PM
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Everytime you pick a job even if the job is a net negative you're giving taxes to the government. So no, doing nothing is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:13 PM
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Abortion is not life or death.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:08 PM
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The only adaptation is to do nothing and stop contributing to society, let it rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:56 PM
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Women can at any moment change states and use a coat hanger, men cannot. There's no both issues. What reproductive rights do men lack? The right to not have his penis cut? The right to not have to pay for a child he was raped Into conceiving? The right to have access to his child by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:44 PM
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Well woman raping men is really rare so I wouldn't lose sleep over it. Tell this to the lid that have to pay child support. Women get more rights in this department because women are the ones physically affected by it all. But somehow the party financially affected by it don't? At least be consistent. What's in the best interest of the child It's a lie, bullshit, you can see how what is the best for the child NEVER goes against the mother so long the judge can wiggle it. There's no child interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:32 PM
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So why did you replied to this post? https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1o415fu/guys_over_40_whove_got_their_lives_together_but/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:15 PM
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You're in your 40s, I can tell. Gramps the world changed and your moralism makes for poor points.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:03 PM
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The adage is not saying anything about the quality of the water. It's merely pointing out that women get too much attention while men have not enough. What is the quality of a water in a swamp? What is the quality of clean water? we men will never experience a world where creeps nearly double our size and strength blend in among the public and leer at us with predatory eyes for most of our lives Anyone with any basic notion would pick a life full of privilege with a small odd of something negati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:02 PM
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Ask ANY woman how they met their boyfriend or husband Or you could ask any women how they met their one night stands, you know, the guys they're really attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:56 PM
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Unless you were forced into having sex with the woman or she tricked you somehow, then no you don't lack bodily autonomy to reproduce. This is the point GENIUS, if you get tricked or raped YOU HAVE to pay for it. There are several countries that conscript both men and women. Define what's several is as a number. doesn't your red pill ideology preach that men should be providers? No, conservacucks preach that men should provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:53 PM
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No, men have the draft and total lack of reproductive rights while women have aborted more people than war deaths in mankind history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:50 PM
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I've seen plenty of videos of women having nervous brakedowns for not finding a husband and having children. Those women had plenty opportunities for their whole lives to do it, they could have done it at any moment, there's no decency in having pity for those whose evils are done by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:40 PM
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Anyone who isn't a complete loser can get in a relationship in their 20s. Argument made in bad faith since you'll just label anyone that don't fit it as a loser using circular logic. That's when people are usually the most physically fit with good hair and attractive face. Just because person A looks better than older person A don't means person A looks better than person B. These people who can't find people must be miserable, terribly boring and banal or very unattractive and socially awkward.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:35 PM
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What make you think the other person offers love and just try to predict the best response to get what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:57 AM
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The reason why there's people who are conveniently attractive is because beauty follow universal parameters. I’m sure there are some people you find attractive that I think are ugly and vice versa. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:55 AM
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So you just assume that a woman who calls herself beautiful isn’t actually beautiful. Yeah, beauty is self evident. Is it ok if she is beautiful according to your standards There's no such thing as "my standards", beauty follows a set standards, it's universal to humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:52 AM
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Ok, so why should we cover an issue that is only female while the issue that is only male is just held? Don't you find that your positions is kinda hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:54 PM
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You're not a representative of the average population how many times do I have to say it until you get a mediculum of decency and start to search FOR SECONDS what the average in your country is? is not hard, is not long. Why act so lazily? Why can't you put a little of effort in learning something by yourself before puking bullshit through your fingers? HOW much time did it cost to do the bare minimum? At what level of intellectual blackout does an human being is to not be able to ask itself if …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:58 PM
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It's not supply and demand when all the risk soft female reproduction is backed by the state using male taxes but the male reproductive risks are enforced by the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:50 PM
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No person should tolerate lies even those told to one self. She should be teared down to learn to be humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:48 PM
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Hr is not high value if you waited A YEAR.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 09:47 PM
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Ethical views are subjective In what context the killing of another person without reason given is morally right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:28 PM
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lmao as if women help financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:07 PM
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Do you really believe women are getting a train run on them It's a metaphorical train, they're just going out getting pumped and dumped. It's not a bullet train just a slow one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:29 PM
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No, they're not. If they're to you I can just feel pity, not in a emotional sense but on a philosophical one, imagine having a life so devoid of higher trough above one self that everything is decided by unstable state of mind. To say they are without reason in a conversation about ethics is just ridiculous. No, it's not, because emotions are volatile and subjective while ethics has to be universal concepts otherwise anyone can just says that something is ethical or not for their own self gain m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:28 PM
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You can easily exercise your rusty thinking skills and keep checking the overlaps of each sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:43 PM
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No we shouldn't do a pool because people lie, women lie even more. You can just use subredditstats get the user overlap and see that there's a massive overlap of users between ppd and dating over 30 and dating over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:12 PM
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young woman are too busy in the train so what is left is a bunch of bored housewives/single mothers tryin to say to young guys how they wanted dating to be. if you go to https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/purplepilldebate you can see 25.09 to datingoverthirty and 20.81 to datingoverforty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 05:07 PM
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If men were less desperate and had more camaraderie what difference would it make if women are only attracted sexually to a small number of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:45 PM
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Most women in ppd are in their 40s, so they'll say they do or would.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:44 PM
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It's not about talking, read again SLOWLY, please just read it, read it again until you understand the message not only the set of words in the screen. It's about interest BEFORE any relationship is formed, no break up. Please just read .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:51 PM
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Make a favor for both of us and search or use a LLM and ask what percentage of the population golf once a month and realize 5% of the population is not a representative of average population. A lot of guys spend money of a beach vacation. For their girls or to get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:33 PM
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Most guys snowboard?? Really? I feel like almost every guy I know at work plays golf. I see the issue, please don't bother replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:08 PM
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New games retail over £50 usually and keeping an updated console is of course costly. The type of opinion you hear from someone with no gaming experience and normies. You don't need to update your consoles everytime new shit drops the PS5 was released with basically no exclusives meaning that you could have brought a PS4 and keep it since it's inception. Let alone gaming computer that you only need to upgrade a few components each 5 years. Most new games are not worth buying and have been failin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:07 PM
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They would just to the bare minimum, games, movies and comics are extremely cheap and every expensive hobby is niche. It takes little to no money to keep a man entertained.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:20 AM
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There's no such thing as "refine your shot". befriending women you're not attracted to hihihiihihiihihihi So your idea is to waste time and efforts with ugly women in the hopes to get the attractive ones HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAAHAH
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:03 AM
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Because they know women who know other women, and so forth. Don't work, women want what other wome have, if another women do not want you her friends will also not want you. Women mindset works based rationalization, so if her friends pass you to her her mindset is not "how do I go from there" but "what happened to reach this point?". To accept someone others do not accepted is a hit to social status Not to mention that already having a girlfriend Yeah bro if you solve your issue your issue is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:01 AM
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They don't pay hookers because they don't know where hookers are or are afraid to the fact those places are tied with other illegal shit like drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:27 AM
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Yes it does, if you didn't get get experience at 23~25 no woman will go with you. You're supposed to already get what to do and if you don't she will search other that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:25 AM
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it's an LLM that's designed to give you the answers that you want to hear. So what? It's a step removed from being in love with a fictional character or an object. The alternative being?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:22 AM
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Stop being emotional and start to reason, what are you going to do next? Trap every person in a silicon bubble? People will die, it's not in YOUR position to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:14 AM
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snowboarding in Jackson Hole If you like to waste your time with useless expensives shit, you do you. Most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:11 AM
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if you earn a bit more you can get a nice car or holiday or video game or something else men like. Imagine thinking you can't get a game with the bare minimum, thinking men that is not into cars give a fuck about it, thinking that holidays is not just another day. Women cannot be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:05 AM
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People die of every single cause every single day, unless you can shows It being something widespread your commentary is, by the surprise of no one, useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:00 AM
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It will be labeled as "unhealthy" since it removes a lot of incentives that society promise to men in order for them to produce excess of labour. It's just the natural outcomes from current societal trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:25 AM
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Most people don't get fluttery eyes at an online profile, is my guess. If you look at the okCupid data you'll see reply rates skyrocket when the dude is 5 stars in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:39 PM
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You understand that you can feel disgust and still do something right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:16 PM
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This is because you think anything that fits your argument is "emotionally charged" when in reality you cannot help yourself but imagine a situation that do not exist. And no, i'll not expand on something you are not interested enough to engage with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:07 AM
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having female friends is a waste, all the obligations of a boyfriend without the benefits. Imagine an open relationship but you don't even get to fuck the woman lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:06 AM
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for the majority of people around the average, relationship formation is largely random based the goal posts are moved again from dating to "relationship formation".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:03 AM
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Red and Blue pill treat dating like a linear game which can be 'won' by following a few rules. Dating is linear and will be won by following rules. Reality is it's random, messy and misaligned with any consistent logic. This is symptom of a narrow mind unable to see the greater picture Even the published social research that reviews relationship formation are subjective, suffer from samples biases, and often give mixed findings as opposed to objective reviews. Bad methods do not means impossibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:01 AM
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A lot of men like a challenge. They don't, the proof is that this archetype is dead and only used as placeholder for lack of better archetypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:02 AM
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It is a free market It's not, female reproduction is heavily subsidized by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:39 AM
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I am a human and generally share a lot of experiences with other humans Just because two beings share the common traits don't means they're even close to having the same experiences. It's as absurd as saying a chihuahua and a malinnois share the same experiences just because they're both "dogs". I don't need to live something to have an opinion on it Yeah, your opinion will just be wrong and you're allowed to be wrong so long you don't try to pass it as truth. You don't need to have a job taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:37 AM
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Most people still meet their spouse through people they know irl. Are people just marrying their first partners? Otherwsie "meeting spouses" is not a good metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:33 AM
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It feels like a lot of guys today think approaching women in public is automatically creepy or unwanted. Because it is more often than it's not. But when I’ve actually talked to women about it in real life, the responses seem pretty different. Women will say what make them seen as virtuous, for the truth do not matter unless it is in concordance with their feelings. So it made me wonder if the real issue isn’t approaching itself, but how people approach. Things like tone, confidence, and how the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:50 PM
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"disgust" seems somewhat reasonable if applied to both sexes who indiscriminantly and incautiously fuck around No it don't by the simple fact women are more likely to get and transmit STDs, the digust is applied to men that has indiscriminantly sex with other men because this situation is more prone to transmit illness. However, the disgust is definitely more on women then men and probably has more to do with fear of getting cucked or unfavorably compared. No for the reasons previous presented. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:47 PM
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Hero journey... In titanic? WTF??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:34 PM
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> I think that this kind of plays into the male ideal for relationships. No it don't, if you ask men if they like their partner to start the courtship process as an uncoperative bitch you'll get a big no no. >I don’t think that one can judge male psychology as well based upon more recent works such as video games where the character can choose a female character to romance, because video games also market to women now Games marketed to women flop hard, so you only need to pick the successful one…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:44 PM
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Ok, so cite 3 times of it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:33 PM
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Nah, thinking you're bound to X while the other person is not bound by nothing is pathetic, period. does nothing but take from your partner and gives nothing to them So... women? My toddlers at least would try to give me flowers or ugly pictures Yeah, because they're groomed into doing such gestures. They have absolute zero idea or notion of why they're doing what they do, they do what you want and what you want is to receive gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:36 PM
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You understand that there's a diference between: "I love what the other person provides" and "I love this person and it provides" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:17 PM
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They power scale really fast and only get chicks when they're in their powerful state. They're not losers at this point of the plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:56 PM
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This mindset is kinda pathetic ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:02 PM
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Just wait for the wave of "he provides material and effort" in different phrasings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:35 PM
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Disgust is a biological response to what is unsanitary. There's no cultural bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:18 PM
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it's not anxiety, it's disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:00 PM
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I can't say I noticed any patterns of behavior in ROs guys fawn over. Yeah because men are diverse in their tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:48 AM
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Are there any equivalent prominent male fantasies often expressed in culture (movies/books/videogames/porn) with the purpose of male self-gratification? No. Male fantasy in fiction basically exist to condition men into being working drones so there's no such thing as "self-gratification" as purpose. You get those in villains, with villain acting out in search of such things but not heros.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:47 AM
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it reminds them you had a life before The problem is not the a life before but the life before being whoredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:39 AM
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You have it backwards, harem is a parasite genre that will aways latch on what is currently popular. Also most of the time, those guys are not "losers" but basically demigods in their settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:37 AM
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Because most women fantasize about being in loving romantic relationships Yeah this is why 50 shades of grey is the best selling romance book ever, it shows a "loving romantic relationship". The top reasons people pursue relationships are emotional connection, companionship, love, and shared life goals If this was true okCupid data would not have as result profile and pictures having a 1 per 1 representation. That is researched Anything that is not a survey and that shows attraction as opposite …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:51 PM
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It hard to imagine that is super common Why do you think it's hard to imagine this being common?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:48 PM
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Why is that unlikely? Because all the information you gave on 2xc, askwoman, millenials, generationology make the timeframe to be VEEEERY unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:01 PM
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Because I know my husband So... wishful thinking? No we have been married over a decade. It's honestly very unlikely considering your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:33 PM
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No more wishful thinking than advising girls to marry young and have children earlier in hopes of building a good family. WTF are you talking about? Do you know the meaning of words and expressions? Do you know what wishful thinking is?? Do I have to explain to you the bare minimum???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:00 PM
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There's no guarantees in life aside from death The your comment is useless, all that you have commented now is useless and nothing but wishful thinking, not based in objective reality. are you willing to risk loneliness to find happiness? a question only a woman puke out, since they have no idea what true loneliness is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:52 PM
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What has that got to do with my comment. How dense can you be? If you can say that X happens based on what you say the expectation is that you will say it in conditions that favor you. My husband doesn’t expect sex just because we are away How do you know it? We fuck a lot because we both enjoy it So you married last year, weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:47 PM
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If your condition relies on what you say or feels without outside confirmation possible, the logical conclusion is that this condition will be used arbitrary in order to derive the result you want. As example, women wanting "nice" man but them changing what they define as "nice" in order to fit wathever make their arguements is sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:22 PM
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As opposed to normal relationship where the man takes care of his woman, and the woman takes care of her man. And how do you know this is a possibility and not wishful thinking, what make you think that the man will find a relationship where "the woman takes care of her man"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:18 PM
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But the more you give up in relationship without reciprocation the less you will have in the future. As opposite of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:51 PM
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They're happy with what the relationship provides not with the one providing it, the man is a faceless drone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:27 PM
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The issue with this affirmation is that you're never getting an honest review EVER about those things, because anything that paint women negatively is removed from academics in funding and discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:25 PM
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I would just assume a person saying those things about me didn’t want to have sex with me because they found me repulsive Yeah this is how a huge chunk of women act upon their partners, they find sex with those men repulsive and only put up with it due to material gain. Nothing would make them happier than if their partners never asked for sex ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:23 PM
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We decide together. How do you know it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:22 PM
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love that there is no pressure. Every metric set by the individual will be applied by the same in the way that benefit him the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:21 PM
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There are many articles and even books written about such hypergamy and it’s implications Most of it is based on extremely fault premises, you can't build a functional society without making hypergamy bite the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:17 PM
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If you see that your efforts aren't reciprocated, break up. Yeah must be nice having options. there are women who give gifts to their boyfriends/husbands and show care and love Yeah suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuure they're somewhere there under a rock, maybe behind some tree. Those women only do it for men they're really attracted to, most will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:07 PM
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Do you call being a mechanic fixing cars and wanting your car being fixed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:05 PM
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What makes someone attractive? In men: Wide shoulders, big frame, defined muscles, tall, good hairline with flowy silk hair, strong eyes with prominent brow ridge, sharp jawline, white teeth, symmetric face, good face thirds, good hip to shoulders rate(inverted triangle), lacks of deformities like caved chest, poor muscular composition that includes but not limited to short biceps, flat abs, protuberant pecs, narrow and short calves, rounded shoulders. Personality wise: confident, abrasive, agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:57 AM
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Many women would absolutely kill to have all their options focus on their character over their looks No, they wouldn't. They presume that the number of men would still be the same because they think they're far more interesting than they're. You just have no idea how dehumanising it is to be evaluated based on looks constantly OOOOOH NOOOOOO. The nightmare to be desired lease nooooo everything but. To the point where men are making posts complaining women can't hold an interesting conversation b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:33 AM
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There's no personality or character to care about y'all are pretty much carbon copy of each other's with small differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:27 AM
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I would argue that many men are also very alike GMVH disproves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:25 AM
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And since I'm a slacker who owns it, I never sweated being a "beta whatever." So you think that single mothers has no problem getting a good guy because you define yourself as a good guy and receive attentions from single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:02 AM
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I do date women too https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15491274/ If you want or need advice, you have to say what you're doing wrong If someone needs advice they want to know what they're doing wrong if they knew they would be needing advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:53 PM
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You're >40 yo, you have no idea about dating in current year as a young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:24 PM
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Personally I have agency on my dates Do you? Or do you think you have agency when in reality your output rarely changes anything? The bar for being unpleasant is not actually very high Yes, it is, for a woman atleast. You might find you have more success on dates if you stop acting like a doormat who will accept literally anything. And you know this because? Have you ever had to date another woman as a man? This is the kinda of opinion that only a woman can ever say because it comes from a point…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:43 PM
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But I'd say that the majority of men with little to no dating life probably are socially awkward or have poor communication skills, are mean/rude/assholes, are very shy, or have bad hygiene. This is why you should never ask for women anything about struggling with dating since this is their default assumptions, if you flip any of those you'll get the feel good responses that help no men: be "confident", be nice, take showers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:35 PM
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Hot people have more suitors. This is not what AF/BB your argument is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:49 PM
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will you know who she was having sex with before you two met Women are pretty open when you give the idea that they're not goin to be judged, they're infact, very earn to tell about their experiences because it's something they feels like being "right" and "empowering".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:27 PM
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A confident person may bullshit more successfully, No, it creates incentives to bullshit about being confident. Stop trying to see confidence as something that happens before and see it as something that happens afterwards. But where's his self respect if he has to do that? There's no such thing as self respect, it's floofloo words with no real meaning or application used so the person in question do or think things following what the sayer see as morally good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:29 PM
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Technophysio Evolution and the Measurement of Economic Growth and The Escape from Hunger and Premature Death It relies on height as proxy that is influenced by a multitude of factors including illness and environment. close to subsistence subsistence is not malnutrition. The Cambridge World History of Food anyone sprouting Amartya Sen bullshit is not worth arguing, feel free to go to r/communism or r/politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:23 PM
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is to drastically improve the sorting process with honest You presume everyone is honest ignoring that it creates heavy incentives into lying. he'll be trying with people with which he has more in common probably? It would only work of women had a wide range of men as interest, they're pretty uniform about this. So you don't get to find women that you have more in common, you find women or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:10 PM
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Divorce rates have gone down for the past 20 years. Yeah because the rates of marriage have been down for the past 20 years, if you pick the marriages/divorces will still trends 50/50. The times it goes far bellow this 50 is when there's economic uncertainty. And even then how would you know that divorce is because a woman wasn’t happy because the dude didn’t meet your criteria of a high value man? Because a high value man is rare and in demand, so women will put up with it in order to stay with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:09 PM
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Women are not attracted to confidence, period. Pick the most confident men you know, remove the reason for behind his confidence but keep the behavior and no woman will aproach this man. Women are attracted to the reason behind the confidence: Looks, status, power, influence, connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:56 PM
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I think you’re confusing self confidence with abusive arrogance Women don't know the difference between those so op point stands
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:52 PM
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They only date the same small number of men, all with the incentives to do the exaclty same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:06 PM
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by taking in consideration divorces rates and factors that increase divorce rates and realizing that such factors are material in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:59 PM
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I know dozens of them intimately enough to know if they are happy in a relationship And how do you know that they're happy in the relationship because of their partners vs because they're receiving something out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:47 PM
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For most of recorded history. Ok and what evidence do you have of it? Now less than 10% of ppl are poor to the point of malnutrition. Yeah because scientific advancements not direct economics or social factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:24 PM
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Maybe that's y they don't want to rely on men for money They still do, the whole economy is built with the government extracting male money and giving to women. The whole service economy is female welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:03 PM
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For 90+% of ppl were poor to the point of malnutrition historically. What do you define as "historically"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:43 PM
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social conditions are better. Are you fucking joking? Social trust is in the gutter, government toke over family roles atomizing relationships, high social divide and erosion of societal cohesion. Break up and divorce rates are up because women Oh yeah, I forgot, to women the "better" is aways "what the propaganda said it is better" even when the world around you is falling apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:51 PM
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when you know more then six women And let me guess you know six woman and thing they're "happy with the relationship" without factoring nothing else. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:48 PM
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well we can take the cost of engagement argument. Resource and protection costs us more than the woman How does this means those women would not wife a woman in the bell curve? But i think its more accurate that we simply dont get the subtle stuff they do Now you're making an excuse, if you have to fabricate a reason outside the ones at hand it's just keep shoving more uncertantly in the argument. if you had the leverage, you would. No, my time is worth more than anything else. Leverage would ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:41 PM
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Why dont you try?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:27 PM
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Ok and? Do you think their social condition and the world they lived is equal to the one today?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:24 PM
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I highly doubt that. With what evidence? if you ask a woman they might say porn is filled with the same type of woman. Yeah, because it's the only argument that could go against the position, even if it's a lie. So youre seriously saying, you wouldnt act like di caprio if you could? No, because finding women and dating is a huge time sink. What ist manking? Im unfammiliar with it. Typo for mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:24 PM
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A healthy happy relationship is a prize for both people. It's not, it's for women because they can only be trully happy about her relationship with a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:21 PM
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People aren’t prizes. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metaphor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:20 PM
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if you marry for love at a young age and manage to have a healthy, thriving relationship Big if, what are the odds?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:19 PM
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No, I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:45 PM
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Take the slut shaming double standard, and the paradoxical "you can't win" type of situation that women often feel coming from that. Don't be a prude, but don't be a slut, don't make guys wait, but don't sleep with guys too quick. Men whining about women not being into sex that much and yet scolding sexual women with the same breath, or hating on sex-workers who they themselves seek out. You don't need to be a whore, just have sex with your partner and not a bunch of random men. It's only a doub…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:45 PM
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There’s a reason there aren’t nearly as many subreddits posting horny pics aimed at women Yeah, because they can have access to those men in their dms and dating apps making paying and watching it redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:15 PM
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And you sounds extremely incompetent about rhetorics if you think that an small possibility makes for an argument, people can be deceiving they're just not. very real danger that's backed by statistics. So provide the numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:21 PM
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The trial was in 2022 and people were talking about it in 2020. People where not, a small tabloid talking about something IS NOT people talking about it. Did you ever bother looking at google trends? Of course you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:18 PM
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I do not think we are correct when we say we are attracted to most women OkCupid data, men rated women in a almost perfect bell curve. as do our porn tastes reveal There's multiples categories of porn with different body types, sizes and races. If we only could say the same for the YA romance books women read. yet, Leonardo Di Caprio switches to a better deal all the time himself even in his old age Ok n=1, what about the majority? If society were to pander to us like to women, im sure, most men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:17 PM
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Women don't want a househusband, therefore they cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:50 PM
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As if it was only romantic rejection lmao. Look around you, everything is done to extract male labour towards something they don't benefit of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:27 PM
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Then keep funding the world that hates you. Choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:10 PM
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You understand I and you for the matter can pull Google analytics and see there's basically no search about "amber heard poop" before the trial right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:08 PM
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making jokes about how she pooped on Johnny's bed The reveal was at day 8 of the trial, what before it. Before the trial even started.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:12 PM
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lack of struggles = speding money with unecessary things struggles = spending money with the necessary not saving money = increasing chances of conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:03 PM
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No, i'm saying that women will spend money with things that are not necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:53 PM
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Do it for your own ego. What ego? What you think will be left when all you do give no results? Ego is built in results or delusion with no inbetween. Because earning status in a community makes you feel damn good about yourself. This assumes you can do it, high status can only exist because lower status people exist what means that by default it have only a limited number of seats on it. This ensures you don't feel like your time's being wasted when there's no prospective dates around. The time …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:44 PM
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It usually doesn’t work that way for women. it happens when you only find 1% of men as handsome. For women, saying “He’s cute” often just means “I noticed he looks good”, No, saying he is cute means he is 5 in looks, he have baseline attraction factors like good hair but lack masculinity (strong jawline and foward eyes)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:38 PM
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in relative height & weight Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:34 PM
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Women are more prone to magical thinking than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:32 PM
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I think both genders here often get lost in semantics No, it's just the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:28 PM
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In both cases the person fucked Luke's mom. But one sentence is intended to point out a blood relationship. The other is aimed to be an insult. No, it's not. It's only an insult if the person is not your father. If your father appears out of nowhere and says "I fucked your mom" it will be just weird. Do you see why semantics and tone are important? Semantics and tone are useless, it's just nitpicks of someone that can't argue ideas, it's a trait for low iq people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:28 PM
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????? believed, as in the past, at the begin of the trial wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:24 PM
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But if you want an actual meaningful relationship Bluepill will also not help with it and between the two options red pill is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:22 PM
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what am I even supposed to do? Just stop supporting the world that hates you. Every penny of taxes that you waste is supporting people that despise you, every person you save will be grateful because you was of use for them but will won't ever look in your face otherwise. Just stop supporting it as much as you can, start buying second hand goods, cut high taxed items like alcohol and cigarettes. Never do anything unless you have short term gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:21 PM
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This is also it's own reward So basically the same shit that is aways said over and over when someone ask for help finding a partner, "do X for it own good", "how does this help me gettin a partner?", "it won't". I worked with a guy Yeah yada yada balding janitor yada yada
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:07 PM
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A lot of people believed Johnny Depp You understand that he got cut of job opportunities meaning that NO not a lot of people believed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:59 PM
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Do wathever you want I don't give a fuck about your rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:19 PM
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It indicates superfluous purchase.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:52 AM
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I hate to break it to you but your grandparents were also living paycheck to paycheck They're not, they had money for their religious festivities and usually saved for times of need. Their way of living would most likely be considered below poverty level by today's standards. Yeah, because of scientific advancements. With the same scientific advancements they would still be in a far better situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:01 AM
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Accept responsibility for your actions EFFECT on others Is this a joke? So if I go to someone and this person call security on me just because her higher rates of neuroticism I have to accept the responsibility for it? Lmao. Start by believing the words coming out of their mouth. HAHAHHAHAHAHAAHHAAHAHAHhahahahahahs LMAO even. You're not a child you should know better than believe something with zero proof. Will you believe when they say they saw santa? Maybe you can go camping in the woods after…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:39 AM
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The majority of people live paycheck to paycheck Yeah, because we doubled the workforce, ask your grandfather if he could spend carelessly half his paycheck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:35 AM
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But isn't a relationship where both choose to work better because then there is less struggling therefore? There's aways be struggle, there's a reason every story has a core conflict, if you pick most hobbies you'll see they're a form of struggle. So you can pick between outside struggle that is visible, easy to pinpoint and manage or have people invent or take their time in search of invisible struggles. Me and my girlfriend When was the last time she asked or decided to buy a new furniture?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:32 AM
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Women, at the time college and college adjacent girls from which I had at least 2 degrees of familiarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:27 AM
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Yeah it's sad, reality is sad, but there's no frustration in understanding how system works: Imagine that you have person A and person B. Person A struggle a lot, their whole lives have been like this, as a result, every single good that happens will be marked on person A with gratitude. Person B is well off, have a whole lifestyle around their current living standards but somethings things happens and now she has to live behind their means: the result frustration. You're never going to make B h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:25 AM
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If men are selecting primarily on physical attraction at the entry stage and women are selecting primarily on status and social proof at the entry stage Men are not the selectors in human mating, men do not select a woman; they can only select if they want or not to pursue the prospect of a relationship. In the end the result is solely on the person that accept or refuse the offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:12 AM
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It don't matter if is a struggle, women will demand more money than what you have. It's preferable that you as a family struggle since lack of unused money means that you can get accostumed to a lifestyle you can't keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:06 AM
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You don't need to be "social savvy" to understand that no one wants to hear about your problems... oh wait, I forgot. Women do have people wanting to hear about their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:22 PM
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You don't need to do a police check to spot the obvious criminals (most of them are obvious shady people). Jeffrey Dahmer was incredibly charming btw He was not, he was handsome and the halo effect did everything else. No one defined him as "charming" all of his interviews show him as dull and self centered. he evaded the police multiple times. He did not, the moment the police was made aware of him he was caught. The police never bothered to connect the disappearings Why don't you go blame the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:06 PM
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Being weird. Do you really think men care if you are a little weird? Trauma dumping Why would you do it? Bad jokes Do you really think men care if you make some bad jokes? Looking bad If he accepted the date what make you think that you can "look bad" outside malicious self sabotage? Arguing. Why would you argue with your date? Being unpleasant The bar for being unpleasant to a man is very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:52 PM
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I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:10 AM
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Young couples with the girls having the time of their lives? Or men in their 30s and girls scrolling through their phones?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:07 AM
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So you don't think it's uncommon because it's what you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:52 AM
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Empathy? Wake the fuck up you don't have it to offer. There's no we, you DO NOT struggle, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:13 AM
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I think that's why we all struggle in the dating world Whole is we all? You don't struggle in dating, there's no we. You have a fucked up life and still have it easier than the utmost majority of men and think you can came with a muuuh we all struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:29 AM
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So every issue of yours is self generated? is this? Men has to deal with your issues in the date while you have to deal with issues of your own, the problem is (your issues)².
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:09 AM
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At least quote a newer study There's no study based on behavior as complete, plus, it's the most optmistic scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:08 AM
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Most the places who sold ethnic food and I could afford around the city were considered "low status area" and you could see the sneering on the side of their noses lifting, outside japanese food since it was trendy at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:06 AM
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No men that is good looking enough to have women making it easy will EVER enjoy the process, outside of course delusionals, dating is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:49 AM
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Usually I'm also nervous and anxious. Don't means you'll worry about messing it up. But I still enjoy the date Of course you do, you have no worries about the date and is there to enjoy the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:47 AM
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what kinds of signs should we be looking for from a woman, to know whether she's having a good time pretty simple, she is not looking at her phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:46 AM
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We grabbed some Vietnamese food Just by this I would already be ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:45 AM
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I was trying to make sure I wasn't being an annoying person You don't "try" to not be not annoying. It's something you is or not. trying to enjoy myself WTF do you mean by "trying to enjoy myself", a date is not to enjoy yourself but to enjoy another person company. What basically shows the issue, you're not trying to not mess up. You just want everything to be the way you want for "reasons" and is stressing about how things may or not be equal this fantasy of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:44 AM
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usually on dates women try not to get killed or assaulted It helps if you don't pick agressive men and criminals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:37 AM
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it can be fun You also can survive rabies, don't means you will, is just a possibility and very unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:35 AM
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I was really really young I cared about messing up a date What can you even do to mess it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:34 AM
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Doesn't mean "Chad" Just their version of physical attraction. Ok, okcupid data what percentage of men were 4 and 5 in looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:57 PM
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The average guy can be pretty unimpressive The average has to be unimpressive he is the average. there are also many who are complete trainwrecks socially How so? other men often fail to notice these extremes because those guys don’t behave the same way around other men How so? But if you look at a woman’s Tinder inbox An user there already made the bet with another female user and the female user lost, the tinder inbox of a woman is normal. women aren’t wrong to expect men not to behave like co…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:08 PM
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It's not bait just because it kills your argument. It's bait because he is trying to make me say looks and report. He's not a loser by any meaningful standard Yes he is, if you don't get a partner you are a loser, plain and simple. He could be a productive worker with many friends who's maintains his family and volunteers on the side Being a servant is still being a loser. Only a slave value itself by how productive they're.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:36 PM
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60+% of the world's population is currently partnered I'm sure the stats of some backwater african village is surely relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:33 PM
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why people who have been cheated on? Because it signal the man is low value, anything else is rationalization to hide the ick feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:37 PM
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Because it signals the man is low value since he was replaced by a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:37 PM
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Women are not conspiring "You don't need a formal conspiracy when interests converge"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:06 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abstraction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:36 PM
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Oh yeah I forgot that tinder is a wormhole connecting people from different dimensions and not, you know, real world people's, silly me. Plenty of couples still get started offline. This is an useless affirmation, you don't know how many that started offline is due AA/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:34 PM
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"Oh yeah and in 1518 a bunch of people danced to their deaths. This means that dancing is very dangerous." This is your level of argument, do you even thing before typing? Make same space between the shitty YA romance novels so you can understand that anecdotes are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:22 PM
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Plenty of short dudes are getting laid What do you define as "plenty" and how do you know that "Plenty of short dudes are getting laid due to sexual attraction and not outside gain"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:39 PM
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the person is aware of that They're not, they never is. There's aways excuses being done about their own hopes of getting something different. Telling them they're a loser is a meaningless insult. It is reality, they need to first understand reality outside their own self delusions and them pick a suitable choice. Why does the person have a lack of success? Nice bait
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:36 PM
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Looks are merely a bar to clear Looks are merely a bar to clear, merely Yeah bro merely But other stuff is more important after the bar rather than going for top 0.01% physique. If a, b, c, d, e , f and g do not exist without z, cannot happens without z, you should be focusing in the Z because nothing happens without it. It's plain idiotic to go and say "oh yeah it start there but you should focus on the other things" Not realizing that if you do everything else but not what allows you to start …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:33 PM
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Showing someone reality is not kicking them down. I'm all for "I just say it like it is" but this doesn't say anything. It does says, reality. Could be phrased more kindly I should't, harsh reality demands harsh words. Why is the person a pathetic loser? You could infer that the lack of sexual success is the why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:30 PM
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There's nothing more helpful than the truth. There's no greater insight than reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:26 PM
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a lot of the characteristics and mindset of red pill show up in school shooters. What evidence do you have to back it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:23 PM
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Your old man got laid. If tinder existed when my father and yours were dating we both would never be born, he would not have built a life because he had no reason to do so. Build a life a woman would want to be apart of. And then what? Infinite nagging at best or at worst she takes half of this life. You cannot self improve out of female standards because the standards of women are relative to what they perceive, if every men were 6 packs jacked dudes with millions in bank today, tomorrow the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:19 PM
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Who the hell mentioned late 30s? I mentioned, is often where those come from. Okay? Yes? "do you see this? This is the single most important piece of our machinary, nothing works without it" "so should we focus on it when searching for problems?" "nonono"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:11 PM
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Oh yeah a 40yo dude is totally reflective of current dating 20yo issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:55 AM
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hit the gym for several years, get a good hair/beard combo and good fitting clothes This is most of the issue with this sort of comment, a lot of men that do this and reach lates 30s think they got now in dating because of self improvement as opposite of being the fact women options started to dismiss. Looks are merely a bar to clear This the primary bar to clear, nothing start before it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:41 AM
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The point would never be if the discussio is reduced to something but if the discussion find the truth. If the truth is that dating itself is reduced to looks them this should be the discussion. Trying to avoid a point just because he seems widespread is odd to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:38 AM
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It's not, the cause of their behavior is the fact that their whole existence has ben subsidized by the government. The issue is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:30 PM
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ok and what differ your common sense from wishful thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:18 AM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:14 PM
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What make you think that people that know you will understand your situation? Seems like a lot of wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:31 PM
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Everything being equal the strangers that know me have an incentive into appeasing me emotionally since they have to meet me regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:01 PM
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Advice you get offline is usually better It's not, anyone that is 40yo have absolutely zero idea of what a 20yo is going trough, they're clueless. Any of your friends will be in the same situaiton as you. Anyone that is not have factors that you cannot copy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:19 PM
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What do you mean extracting male taxes to fund female lifestyles? ESG and DEI give women huge advantages during hiring, companies focus on those metrics because it's what bring funding, funding comes from the government primarily to secondary sources. The service economy that is proped by those jobs (DEI) are heavily reliant on a few concentrade productive sector (mostly male). Social security have women being the biggest benefitiaries while men get to be the ones who pay the most, on average, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:25 PM
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Women see 80% of men as bellow average and the government would keep extracting male taxes to fund female lifestyle. So again what changes when men they're not attracted anyways just don't go for those women while they also keep the benefits government provides? NOTHING, nothing changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:03 PM
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Are women legally obliged to fuck men that will not stick around rather than work on her mating selection choices? Getting pregnant is choice as well. Just like women go into the rabbit hole of crazy diets Not comparable, you can lose weight at any point in your life, you cannot grow taller past a certain window. is irrelevant if you're strong enough to not give a fuck. Yeah, because you are a woman and will get a man for existing with little hardship. I'm very firmly against any kind of victim …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:02 PM
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There's a difference between kindness and infantilization Any metric decided by an person will be picked based on what benefits the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:36 PM
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Politicians are deciding everyone lives yours are not more important, do you think men can take steroids safely to look better? Do you think men can get free access to hormone grow therapy without a medical cause despite height being directly correlated with suicide rates? All that you think you have worse than men you do not, remember when the government allowed female genital mutilation? Well I do remember that circumcision is still going strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:23 PM
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they were pretty clearly not "taking truths" from a TV show yeah they where, wtf are you talking about. Why would this be the case? because if you pick division of traits and what make something attractive or not you'll realize that it will have a mathematical cutoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:19 PM
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No, i'm asking in your hypothetical: Men raised their standards now what? What do you think will be the result?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:49 PM
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How it's a male problem to be average?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:42 PM
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50%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:41 PM
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Why do people always guilt trip boys/men with love? They feel very offended that men that are not attractive are also sexual beings wanting of a partner. In their view those men should stick to their lanes as working drones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:39 PM
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Seinfeld's You're taking truths from a shitty tv work of fiction? Are you attracted to 95% of women 50% is attractive, 50% is unnatractive. With a smooth slide between those where ~70% between 4 and 6 in looks and ~15% 1 to 3 and 7 to 10. I bet you don't even notice women outside your own interest category. I do, i'm not a woman. I do not act like unnatractive peoples of the opposite sex are pseudo subhumans drones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:35 PM
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am only attracted to women around my age, of my race, and of a certain BMI. So what age, what race and what BMI, be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:31 PM
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the metric is - "is there something he has yet to do? if there is then he is not only responsible but also liable for his failure." Oh yeah, I too am hyper neurotic to the point of ignoring basic incentives and human behavior in order to say bullshit like "I choose the bear".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:29 PM
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Ok, men rised their standards magically, now what? What changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:27 PM
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It's not competitive, it's heavily subsidized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:26 PM
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Same rights without the same responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:41 AM
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Morla development is not about what you think it's moral but about complexity in decision making and reasoning behind those decisions. Let's say that I have to steal an apple to feed my starving son: Stage 1 make decisions based on avoiding punishment: I may not steal the apple because I don't want to be jailed or I may steal the apple because my wife will beat me if I let my son starve. Stage 2 is about self interest: I need to feed my child now so I will steal the apple or I will get busy if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:43 AM
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They're mostly stage 5, the motto "enjoy the decline" shows understanding of the social contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:17 AM
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If you had any basic drive on the works of Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Development and understand basic female solipsism you'll understand why: basic women rarely goes past stage 3 where morality is defined by what make someone be define as a "good person". This is why women are keen into manipulate words and their meaning while also instinctively disagreing with anything that makes them not see as a "good person", it goes against their base morals. The solipsism start being an issue because what…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:34 AM
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Compatibility is a buzzword for "have what I want".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:02 AM
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They lack knowledge about methodological manipulation in the social science fields. So a lot of terms and it's meanings get lost. As example: studies using female ltr results as mating preferences without never confirming sexual attraction against other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:59 PM
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What makes you assume the woman has bad intentions? 1/3 of women admit going in dates for the food. It’s toxic and destructive to believe all woman are evil and using poor men’s kindness. I believe only in incentives, evil or not are useless metrics. Can they do? Yes. Do they have to gain doing it? Yes. Do they suffer any drawback of doing it? No. Therefore is what they do. Friendship is still valuable. With men. Having to pay romance prices to get friends benefits with a woman is a drawback.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:47 PM
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It's useless because it serves no use. An advice that do not provide a solution for the issue is useless the same way a shovel that don't dig is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:45 PM
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And when you know those people. How many people are you talking about? How do you know there's no food call and friendzone involved? How do you know the women are not using the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:12 PM
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They're clueless. They say that a girl using their brothers is "him not struggling" because they see them using their beta bux as something good and that they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:06 PM
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Yes, I do. All the time. And how do you know it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:04 PM
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Do you think that when the news spread that the father did this that he will have no social consequences of doing it? Do you think no one will look at him negatively for doing it? I don't know what you're trying to get at "pick them up say the whole day at school embarrassing in front of friends" This is a meme. "Spankings" this is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:59 PM
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There is research indicating that women show greater variability in mate preferences across individuals compared to men. Ok, show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:55 PM
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I've seen Father's take doors off rooms to teach lessons. What social consenquences do you think this have to the father? Regimentally take away cell phones And what is the end result? Do you think this will solve the situation or just create more issues with the situation still the same? pick them up say the whole day at school embarrassing in front of friends How old are you? Spankings How old are you??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:54 PM
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No I'm asking you what is the father going to do supposedly. Think of the mother as just not existing on the act of enforcing it. What is the father going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:41 PM
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It is a lot easier to say something then to have to be the one to enforce it Ok, what would be the father doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:36 PM
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If following the advice doesn’t lead to results This is not what I said, read again, slowly: "Do you agree if the advice do not improve ones chance, but is given as if it improves that it is dishonest?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:33 PM
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No, most women won’t just give him a chance. So it's useless. Everyone has different taste. Women are very uniform in their tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:32 PM
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No, most women would not give very ugly guy a chance if he had worked on their personality. So it's useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:32 PM
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Ok so i'll change the question since you're this kind of person. Do you think MOST OF those women would give a very ugly guy a chance if he had worked in their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:13 PM
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When you go out you see average people dating average people. Do you? Or do you see two unrelated peoples of different genders together and assume they're dating? Do you know if the guy is being used as food call? Do you know if the guy is in the friendzone? Using people that to you are "dating" creates a survivorship bias by ignoring the average people that is not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:12 PM
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Women going out their way to aswners something no one asked. Pro tip: if you enjoy someone company and personality you stick with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:06 PM
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It does not and you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:03 PM
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All women? You understand that all = most, stop being pendantic, if you can waste your time being pedantic go waste the time of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:00 PM
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it is well known among us, women When was the last time you engaged into thinking about thinking? I have never met a woman who is attracted to all the same men So you never met a group of women that were attracted to: Physically - tall men, masculine facial traits, wide shoulders and big arms. Mentally - extrovert, high social standing, arrogant and ambitious. Yeah sure (women as a group all want this men in different clothings and styles). And i'm not talking about "heheehe he is cute" I'm talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:59 PM
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Option 3, starving so my family have something to eat is easier than finding a family worth starving for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:43 PM
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It improves your chances. Do you agree if the advice do not improve ones chance, but is given as if it improves that it is dishonest?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:29 PM
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Because for those women, personality is somewhat more important than “be hot.” Do you think all those women would give a very ugly guy a chance if he had worked in their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:27 PM
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It's not about fairness, it's about dishonesty and the excuses given for it. Classify the homogenous statement? How so? Because I can also make the claim that human beings when it comes to intimacy and bonding are also very homogenous. AS A GROUP they're interested in the same men, share the same values based on their current generation, share extremely similar likes and dislikes, want extremely similar things and experiences, their entertainment shows the same core principles. You may think, su…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:50 PM
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Not immune, just less affected. Very less affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:30 PM
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Also everyone knows you have to be hot to attract women. Really? So why the first advice women give is about personality and not "be hot"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:19 PM
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you cannot expect the woman to be honest, if you are not close to her. (Self-explanatory, because some advice can be misinterpreted or weaponized, it is common for them to not go full disclosure) Don't you find to be very convenient that those acts are exactly the one that benefit them the most? At what point, do you accept that dishonesty to be bad and not just self preservation? you cannot expect ALL women to be homogeneous Women are extremely homogeneous. Now flip the script for women asking …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:18 PM
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you just don't have the skills and ability What make you think there's skills and abilities as opposite of immutable traits and upbringings?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:09 PM
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Can’t imagine why women would feel broadly unsafe around men. I can, higher rates of neuroticism combined with media report bias. Women are very prone to propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:07 PM
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> I am rather sure there is an equal variation of flight or fight in both genders, but the reality is chances are very unlikely oooooooh yeah, do you see! this is unlikely therefore the point that firends will help you while your wife will just leave you to die don't makes sense, checkmate. >But if someone tried to hurt my loved ones, of course I would to help. Talking is cheap, look at most videos, most situations, and they do nothing, you would do nothing but watch just like most women let the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:57 PM
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"noooooo you can't point that my sources are a bunch of clueless hags talking bullshit you're just not smart to understand the point of people that barely think about thinking".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:45 PM
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>having someone like you enough to wait until you trust each other to have sex is an idealized version of romance Having a handsome man with his life already in place that have a flood of women wanting him to stop and see the "magic" of your presence IS IDEALIZATION. It's not real. >Also, building a relationship is nothing. Only sex is effort. Building what? What are you building with someone that you have barely met that you don't even know if the other person want?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:37 PM
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Oh yeah 2xc the bastion of truth, this sub is barely able to argue their own basic ideas. Make a favor to anyone else and use something more credible like scientology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:33 PM
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So if men can pay for each other in their friendships, then perhaps Wonder what impression you make when you want to date someone. In friendships we are also expected to have each other backs, but when danger comes women hide while their partners are stabbed and refuses to identify the guy that killed him. In friendships I can count that when it ends they will not demand half of everything I did with my own efforts. In friendships I can count on my friends to pull themselves trough their efforts…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:14 PM
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I think most normal men are just genuinely not wired to be interested They can't phisically pull those circustances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:05 PM
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You're going to have a bunch of vitriolic, hateful, broken people on either side taking delight in the suffering of others from the other side of the fence. The difference is that is a minority of men vs a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:03 PM
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Too many given their small population
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:07 AM
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Are you saying that no quality man with options is willing to wait for connection? That are still single? NO. Any quality man with options and willing to wait for connection or wathever bullshit you want to call it will never be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:00 AM
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If men are going to act a certain way, women are going to respond. How do you know the man are not in fact reaction to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:27 PM
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How do you change someone that suffer 0 consequences for their behavior? In fact, how are you going to change someone whose behavior are highly rewarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:14 PM
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Did you not realize that her post is an exact mirror of redpill men's experience with attractive women ? It's not, men don't see 80% of women as bellow average in looks. Men are not "promised ltr", they're not even given a chance. Women don't put the effort to average men so there's nothing to reciprocate. Men don't make excuses in order to engage in unsavory behavior they already wanted to engage anyways. The privilege women have in dating make anything you would define as "mirror" as utterly b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:15 AM
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There are hundreds and hundreds of activities for you to meet people Meeting friends is different than meeting romantic prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:40 AM
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Theature are all great ways to meet people Meeting friends is different than meeting romantic prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:38 AM
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Ever see a women rattle off her checklist, only to see her date someone missing a ton of stuff off that checklist? Yeah, when she don't have options. Outside the clock ticking? No, never saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:37 AM
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How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:55 PM
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was to give a quick and polite compliment, thank her for making me smile, and then walk away, leaving her alone and giving her the choice whether or not she's going to do anything about it. NGL this has to be the cringiest thing I've read so far and it's saying a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:55 PM
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but being bold gets her attention No, it get annoyance. It only get attention in the ausence of it but since social media exist women have all the attention they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:50 PM
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The actual study with everything showed that women sent a majority of messages to men that they had rated as below average It did not "0.2% of all messages were sent to a person rated 3 stars or less" while men sent a majority of their messages to women that they had rated as above average. Men sent the same amount of messages for women rated 2 and 3 as the ones sent to women rated 4 and 5. I did not find them attractive from their photos So why the fuck did you go the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:26 PM
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Dataclysm is the study, the actual data with everything. More than once I If you were going to a date anyways you find they attractive, it changed jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:40 PM
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the user base of OkCupid was heavily skewed toward neckbeard types. Dataclysm covered it, they used random images of non OkCupid users and the results were the same. Men also famously suck at taking selfies and selecting good photos to use on OLD platforms There's no such thing as bad photos just ugly people. We also had access to their entire profile for the rankings Dataclysm AGAIN covered it, even when rated separade profile and photos followed 1 per 1. was that women sent more messages to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:42 PM
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Older redpill simply could never survive modern dating, there's no old redpill and "neo redpill", there's only a dead mindset that guys in their 40s adopted during their 20s and the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:31 PM
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There are a lot of issues with that data set IMO Such as? men could accurately rate women relative to one another and still be less attracted to to a lot of them than they would have been without digital exposure to countless examples of top female bodies. Remove the could and think about "the most likely scenario". How likely is that the men would be more attracted to otherwsie if the original attraction rates followed a normal distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:53 PM
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Ive been married far 17 years You have absolutely no idea of how dating works in 2026, any experience you have has no bearing in today reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:34 PM
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I do think the digital world has increased standards for both genders. It did not, okCupid data women see 80% of men as bellow average while men rate women looks in a normal distribution. If it did impacted male standards the looks would not follow normal distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:32 PM
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Madonna / Whore paradox It's not real, Freud was a fraud and was wrong in everything he ever wrote, pure pseudo science based on his own sexual fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:18 PM
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It’s an incorrect assumption that average looking guys are all relationship minded Stop using all and think about averages and incentives. I know it sounds hard but try it once.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:17 PM
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I'll rewrite this post so you understand the problem: I’m a 21F. I’ve been celibate for almost 4 years because I wanted an idealized version of romance that I saw on my favorite YA romance book. I’ve never had a boyfriend, but I’ve pursued attractive men that said that they wanted something serious and I believed because I'm unaware of the concept "too good to be true". As a result I was ghosted, slow fades, no commitment. What I’ve consistently observed is that the same men who say they want “l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:15 PM
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There's no such thing as "pro-male" politician, women are majority of voters and they're more likely to act by emotion. Everything you said is "pro women" is in reality "pro older women".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:40 PM
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Do you think it would help loneliness? The government is too inneficient and has yet to solve any issue without creation two others. Just be a better experience than for profit dating apps? No, since people will act like people. Will be the same result since the same societal incentives are still present.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:38 PM
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No, her money will be her money while my money will be her money as well. So long she contribute with the house it means that her efforts goes towards the family while a lower wealth goes to the family as well. it's just financially impossible to live a stable life with just one income for 90% of the people. Only if you want a life of luxury, live a simple life and one salary is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:37 PM
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Those are useless, meta analyses only works if the bulk of the field is not based on very bad methodology and logic (it is).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:23 PM
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Women do have it better than men wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:23 PM
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Every anime with a social structure exercises pressure over others, don't your definition of hive mind means that every group of social animal is a hive mind? If you don't know what a hive mind is, is the lack of individuality when in position of the group. Bees and ants from which the term comes from act like a single individual. In a real hive mind, not your poor definition of one, the ones participating would present the same ideology, same likes and dislikes, would act the same way, would se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:00 PM
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have existed in their current form This is an ***** position, nothing would ever exist on it's current form. Any form of argument can be dismissed by it. The core of it remains, patriarchal societies thrive, feminist and gyno centric societies die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:41 PM
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This is still not what a hive mind is, again, what you think a hive mind is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:05 PM
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Your original claim was that evolutionary behaviour means it's inevitable No, it was not. The claim was "Pattern recogntion and intergroup bias are evolutionary traits that increase survival" and that "So long culture presents differences in behavior and incentives racism will survive". It's not about it being inevitable or not, is about cause and effect. Regarding what? If you remove male incentive to contribute to society they will not produce the excess of labour that develop society. But tec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:03 PM
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Cannibalism is evolutionary too, yet it happens so little it's nonexistent, but racism is much more large scale, why? Because cannibalism is subpar, the advantage of eating something that is outside your species is due to a reduction in the risk of parasite contamination since those rarely jump out of species. It's even more dangerous when you get to things like prions diseases. In group preference has massive advantages with little drawback, cannibalism has massive drawbacks with little advanta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:59 PM
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Explain how Pattern recogntion and intergroup bias are evolutionary traits that increase survival. So long culture presents differences in behavior and incentives racism will survive. Racism is not something you "preserve". I think that depends a lot on what metrics we use. Results are the only metric we should use, societal results because those remove what is archieved due to technological advancements as opposite of changes in societal trends. In many areas like health, education, and legal r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:05 PM
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but they do not automatically justify preserving them. Yes they do, since they've survived the test of time. Many social structures existed under very different economic and legal conditions. Yeah and they fail miserably. If those underlying conditions have changed, it makes sense to ask whether the same structures are still necessary rather than assuming historical persistence equals present necessity. Ok, so what was the result of the change? We changed it, what was the result? Ask yourself ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:25 PM
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Because?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:58 AM
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History shows that governments can misuse military power Your point being? why giving the state forced access to citizens’ lives should be treated cautiously The state already has forced access to citizens lives, just because it don't found a reason to use it don't means they do not have. many of those counties you are speaking about aren't protecting their resources, they are the ones actively declaring war WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:57 PM
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1 because not every country have resources worth fighting for. 2 Because they're not at momentarily need for one, the moment shit hit the fan the selective service will be used to filter draftees. The question is not why do 106 countries don't have mandatory draft but why every country worth something do have a list for draftees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:35 PM
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PEOPLE of any race, gender, sex, orientation, look, underwear preference, food allergy or favorite pass time should be able to vote. Well it have worked soooooo well so far, it was sarcasm if you don't have the basics and need a /s slapped to understand the obvious. People that have no skin in the game should not vote since their first instinct is to embrace momentary gains sacrificing long term goals. It would be like letting a child do the house finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:26 PM
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Removal will never be a thing, an army is necessary for a country existence. This is the kind of opinion that comes from women that do not understand how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:22 PM
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There would be an extremely obvious noticeable trend of men under 6 foot being virgins. No because you having sex once in your life would remove it, having sex once in your lifetime is not an positive, most people will be lucky once in their lives. Yes, some leftists are censor babies. Not some, the utmost majority, leftism cannot exist without censorship, it dies quickly when facing scrutiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:12 PM
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We do not have a leftist society. We do, not right wing society would ever allow DEI and ESG to exist. Nor would remove religion for it's core identity, let alone have laws to incentive the destruction of family union. Society is leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:10 PM
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We don't censor antivaxxers nor flatearthers, we mock them but do not make any effort to remove then out of society, there's no antagonism against those two groups. So, yeah if you're very unaware of what logic is and how it's applied, logic there is perfectly applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:07 PM
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There are male hive-minds and there are female hive-minds and there are also hive-minds that influence both men and women. There's not a male hive mind due to male low levels of social cohesion and higher male variety hypothesis. What do you think a hive mind is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 11:01 PM
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Then what are you complaining about body count vs picking? BE consistent at least Is not hard even for someone in your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:38 PM
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And why do you think that picking = sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:21 PM
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Do you have anything but "you are"? How do you explain all the comments here from men saying they love their gf, they like relationships better? Talk is cheap, have them not get sex ever in the relationship and see if they would stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:50 PM
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Yeah, I'm biased towards objective reality. Why don't you try? Start by thinking about thinking and the evaluate the information you have as opposite of using rationalization
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:37 PM
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Of you want to discuss semantics r/writing is down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:36 PM
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If women wanted a relationship with their best friend the friend zone wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:12 PM
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Only one friend in a happy relationship, since the woman worship him like a god. All the others are just there waiting to eventually be replaced. My brother got divorced and lost his house, I don't think he will go very far since his health declined. Two of my uncle's have wives that far outspend what they make so they work like slaves while still having to take time to spend with them, other got cheated on and was too heartbroken to ask for a test so we still don't know if the child is his. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:11 PM
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You sound like the neurotic one based on that description lol if spending time with most people evokes such extreme negative emotions in you This is not what neuroticism is. You did not provide anything outside of your personal anecdotes and feelings either. Generalizations are not anecdotes. Why did those men enter relationships if they can get casual sex easily? Quality of sex may vary, also for the last time stop using rationalization: the fact man enter in a relationship while having sex out…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:55 PM
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Without sex? Very rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:47 PM
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There's plenty of exceptional ones This is an oxymoron, exceptionality exist because the average is the common What evidence do you have that it is that? You're asking me to produce evidence about an unfalsifiable claim presented by the other person, do you understand the absurdity of it? Oh of course you don't. Occam's Razor Idiotic bullshit created by people incapable of "thinking about thinking". It's the favorite position of those that are mentally incapable to seek a secondary possibility s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:45 PM
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I am talking about being in a relationship. And you think that it don't have bullshit because? Most of the relationship as a man is you having to appease the neurotic behavior of another individual so this same individual can go and do the most useless, unnecessary, time wasting, pointless thing possible dragging you with them. So clearly men who want relationships exist. My irl experiences show the same. Even attractive men who can consistently get casual sex eventually get into relationships. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:37 PM
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This is the average women, you're not going to find such thing because women do not offer their partner company and they're not going to give much in a relationship because they inherently see men as replaceable. it's fun and rewarding. What evidence do you have of it as opposite of you deluding yourself into thinking that is "fun and rewarding" as a way to mask the fact that every fun is just her having fun and you going along and every reward just being a negative not happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:26 PM
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Consider that what you personally feel is not what everyone feels Not everyone, just the majority. If you think men would put up with women bullshit without a warm hole I have indeed a bridge to sell. Recently there was a post accusing men of seeing relationships as the cost of sex. So many were disagreeing Let me guess, you got to a post labeled as "debate" where only contrary positions to the op is allowed as top comment and made this argument. I also have many friends irl that love their part…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:18 PM
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Many people view relationships as something fulfilling and fun. Many women view relationship this way. They actually enjoy their partners company. They enjoy company and other things, not the partner necessarily. Being in a relationship is not an annoying responsibility for them Because women get a lot from relationship while giving little. You clearly see relationships as the cost of sex, but not everyone sees it that way. Women don't see it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:08 PM
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A generalization is not anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:57 PM
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There's no problem with dating apps, every issue is top down from culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:10 PM
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There is a responsive vs. spontaneous sexuality There's not, if you only want sex when X, you're attracted to X not your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:40 AM
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Oh yeah let's use the exception to try and make a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:38 AM
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They don't desire 100kk, they desire free certain 100kk. They will not pursue the free 100kk because they know that it don't exist. People follow their desires and sometimes other desires like not having 100kk in debt or the comfort of not having to do unsavory things take precedent over the desire for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:19 AM
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So stop thinking and look at the evidence they're presenting and how weak and useless it is and learn how to think and start thinking better. It's not real, if was real they would not need to mangle definitions to get an half assed evidence. Desire is the will to pursue, sexual desire is the will to pursue sex. Women have sexual desire, they pursue sex with men they're attracted to. For the other men, they may touch her in a way that will trigger a biological response BUT otherwise she won't pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:02 AM
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How is dating not a time and money investment for women? Most women don't pay for their dates, if you have a car they're not paying for transportation, they're not planning it, they're not giving any present of any kind
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:47 AM
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What part of morality do you not understand? Pick a man and stick to it. I don't expect anyone that goes past 3 in morals to understand the principle of it but even packing such basic understand is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:46 AM
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The reason why responsive desire is bullshit is because every single study on that garbage uses arousal as metric, but arousal is not desire; it is a biological response to external stimulus. Desire is the will to pursue something, so, responsive desire is an oxymoron. It would be like have another man fondling your dick and since you have an erection you're gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:41 AM
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They want to string the guy along, since they already knows he is interested they can drip feed the chance of something in order to get boyfriend favors without paying girlfriends prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:36 AM
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Blue pill has no merits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:33 AM
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"the feminine urge to reply to a statistical generalization with an anecdotal counter example".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:32 AM
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There's no such thing as "attraction after the relationship", if wathever you're attracted only exist after a long time you're not attracted to your partner but to something he provides and is now tied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:31 AM
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All the hoops, uncertainty, time wasted, money expect just so I can share a moment with someone that won't leave their smartphone or that I have to entertain the whole experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 01:28 AM
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The word you're searching for is sympathy not empathy. I know how they feel, I priorize a functional society since with a functional society their struggles are still less than wathever suicidal female sympathy is creating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:19 PM
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what make you think that i will care enough to make what you want? LMAO. It's better to not care than ruining the country you live by opening your gates to a horde with the excuse of "care".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:55 PM
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No one deserves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:43 PM
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They should rely on their families as they aways did before the state learnt they can use idiots to farm votes. How do we keep them out of poverty? You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:36 PM
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"have been analysed by gender to observe the number and rate of pilot-error related accidents from **1972 to 1981**" >https://apps.dtic.mil/sti/citations/ADA589618 Study do not define lethality, do not define mission success rates, do not define effectivity, do not define target accuracy do not define performance, do not define missions engaged, do not define exposure rates, IT DO NOT EVEN DEFINE WHAT AN ACCIDENT IS. "All aviation crashes of these pilots between 1983 and 1997" >https://www.resea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:03 PM
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need to employs women's tricks of emotional manipulation, defamation, social exclusion to fight against feminism Those only work because women are the only gender that have social power. It won't work for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:50 PM
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The difference is that men rights have statistical relevance while feminist propaganda pick the small % and extrapolate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:46 PM
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I tend to think that living as a woman creates hopelessness and anger. Congratulations you've fall for the propaganda and is prime example of what op said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:41 PM
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make a favor to everyone and learn about per capita.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:31 PM
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The major issue is the welfare, it remove pressure into doing good decisions. What is one of the core tenets of feminism: to cover every possible bad decision women can make.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:40 AM
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No, because I'm going to have to pay for it, every single cent spent accomoding someone in the workplace is a cent that is not used producing a better product. If you're going to accomodate women every whims be prepared to have nothing because the demands will be endless, we already accomodate their demands to be in position of authority and we have a ship sink, an aerial accident with 67 victms and competency crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:38 AM
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It's immoral to demand the same positives as a man without the negatives. It's selfish to sacrifice the society everyone lives for momentary gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 10:42 PM
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People can barely articulate why they think what they think. Is not real, response to outside stimulus is not a drive nor it's desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:27 PM
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it's called bullshit, reactive sex drive do not exist something cannot be a drive and be reactive since the definition of it is "an urge". It's the kind of garbage invented by failed pseudo science with zero methodological consistency, is not real, never was real, never will be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:45 PM
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>Would still think there's wiggle room for teaching young-to-middle-aged dogs new tricks. The issue is that you're thinking that expectantions are the same trough a whole person life, they're not. Women don't want to teach "how to relationship" and have aversion to man that lack experience. If you're in your 20s you can only expect change to be seen trough yours 30s and at this point you're just screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:21 PM
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Because the pre-requisite for sex is the will of having it only then you go trough the motions of sexual arousal and then the sexual act. If you require the motions but do not pursue it just means that you're awaiting for a biological response, you don't want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 06:15 PM
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Not looking at a relationship as a power struggle just garantee that the party that is not is being take advantage without even realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:14 PM
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It's correct, otherwise women would pursue sex for sex, what they enver do. They aways want something using sex as a medium, be it social status or resources. Female sexuality is inherently transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:13 PM
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is women often have a lot of prerequisites to feel horny Being horny is not a pre-requisite for pursuing sex, wtf is even this bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:10 PM
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A way to overcome this is actually to pursue sex with a variety of women and have a 'player' phase The kind of men that is manipulated with sex IS PHYSICALLY INCAPABE of having a player phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:08 PM
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So when men say women we are to assume all of that but when women say men you need her to specify for you? What part do you not understand? What part you need to be explained to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:54 PM
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you’re assuming that if a man already has a rotation of women, he has exhausted all possible incentives. Not all, just the majority On the pregnancy statistic, saying “80% didn’t” is mathematically irrelevant to the claim being made. Yes, it's relevant because it says the majority don't. If 20% of abused pregnant women report first-time violence during pregnancy, that means 1 in 5 cases began at that milestone. In risk analysis, 20% is not trivial. This is because you have no idea of what risk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:28 PM
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So when women say men they need to designate that it’s men they are or were attracted to? Ideally or formulate they mindset and position using the majority of men. Do you demand men also specify that when they speak about “women”? Man rates women looks in a bell curve (normal distribution), when they speak about women they're speaking about the majority of women. Single women in the case of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:07 PM
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On the first point, you're assuming that a man’s only incentive is sex ''right now''. But some enjoy novelty, ego boosts, the buildup or the fantasy. Some are really not in a rush... He already have all of it with the rotation of women. People engage in impression management early in relationships. They present themselves in a socially desirable way and relax over time once they feel comfortable. They don't, what you're seeing is just the person with free time. approximately 20% of women who exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:15 PM
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She is supposed to talk about the average men, when you use a group you're supposed to talk about the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:08 PM
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"the feminine urge to reply to a statistical generalization with an anecdotal counter example"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:25 PM
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a man can have a rotation of women and still be perfectly patient about having sex later stop thinking about possibilities and think about likelihood and incentives, why would a man that looks good enough to have a rotation of women would ever "be patient"? He don't need to. Many people will say exactly what you want to hear in the beginning. Only later do you discover what they actually believe or how they really operate. No, not many, not enough numbers. What happens is that women operates on …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:24 PM
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They're absolutely out of your control since they start and cement on infancy. A person formative years will define their whole outlook in life due to a series of feedback loops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:18 PM
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Men absolutely ghost right after sex Replace every instance of men in your comments by "men I am or was attracted to".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:12 PM
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Shoulders width, jawline, hairline, hair composition, height, muscle mass, body fat%, eye shape, nose shape, state of their teeth, financial situation, status and social position, career, body composition. Anyone can say that all they want "men with long hair and sweet smiles that like rock" until this guy is balding, built like a stick, working with sewage and they realize that they want more than it. Edit::hell the number of mutually exclusive shit I had read is amazing and show the level of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:25 AM
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The physical aspect part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:15 AM
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Because it hides the important part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:01 AM
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it will be just they telling what they want in a guy that is already good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:41 PM
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>survey Already started wrong, if you want X information you don't use a survey; the only thing a survey give you is "surveyed people says Y about X". We need behavioral data of facts idependent from user interpretation such facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:36 PM
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Dating is not easy for anyone. Dating is very easy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:52 PM
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Most men find most women boring as well. The difference being men don't search women for entertainment where women does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:47 PM
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But the data seems muddy as to the exact state of affairs in the 2026 mating game. It's muddy because no one wants to confirm how much it's fucked. Imagine what would happen if they just released "Yeah dating is fucked, you won't get a partner but will keep working to keep the situation" and expect all young men to keep high spritis up working like dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:46 PM
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>where no one would know if you were single or not If you give no signals of being partnered this is the assumption made. >what are the real world ramifications of this shame and who is shaming you You're seem as a weirdo and any goodwill during any iteraction is removed, small things that would have multiples possibilities and likehood now are picked, having the worst intentions possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:35 PM
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think about it in an abstract way, do you think that is more likely that two long time friends to be compatible than two unknow person or two people that barely know each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:51 PM
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No it didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:49 PM
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No one choose to be alone, you have to, there's no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:29 PM
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Yeah, but when the alternative is to die in the cold all you can do is try and lit wet wood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:20 PM
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This is the bad, the good is having someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:32 PM
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Because you have to take the good with the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:00 PM
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Ideally, you’d go on a date with someone you already know a little Ideally is wishful thinking. It’s supposed to be exciting, not humiliating. The issue is that it's "exciting" to the person receiving it, if you're the one making things happen it's humiliating, you may delude yourself thinking it's not but in the end you're trying something to someone that will never see the effort behind it and only the results. It's demoralizing. It’s not fun feeling like you have to carry the whole conversati…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:00 PM
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Instead of seeing us as partners looking for someone compatible If this was true women would be trilled to enter in relationships with their male friends (they're not).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:49 PM
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More women chose to stay single themselves They're never single, they're still getting dick with their situationship on the side. the idea that being single is a valid choice is repeated ad nauseam. To women, not to men. It's the same with "body positivity".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:26 PM
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Just because something is statistically common don't means you're not going to get shamed for it. The biggest source of shammers are women and they do not care about statistical reality, if they think men SHOULD have success, they'll shame those that don't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:10 PM
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I got more dates after I stopped caring Let me guess it was when you coincidently hit 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:05 PM
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There's no such thing as "self worth", no one ties anything to anything else. If you're objectively treated like a failure if you're not romantically succesful no amount of "self worth" will make up for it. Between delusion and reality, reality aways win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:04 PM
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Any option that demands anti human behavior is not an option. they would also have the upper hand while dating because whoever cares the most in the world of dating has the least power. The men that struggle have no interest of women so they ignoring women change nothing, at the same time that the woman in question will still be getting male efforts due to government. Even your option change nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:02 PM
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Women IRL aren't as neurotic as women on reddit are, or brainrot "I pick the bear" women. They're. I have lived with roommates And? What year was this, how tall they're, what race they were, how much money they had? some of them say they pick the bear on their based feminist rants online, but then still go out and have fun And? Why is someone that hate me going out to have "fun" be a positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:18 AM
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It don't, just to start if the gender rates of a field are not 50/50 there will aways be a demand exceeding supply, to continue, DEI is notorious to pick unqualified individuals, like Kathleen Kennedy turning the most successful movie and toy franchise into rubbish, the female pilot that crashed on a commercial airplane or the amazing commander that sank a ship in New Zealand. When you're used to privilege, equality feels like repression. Oh yeah equality is when you get priority in hiring, noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:15 AM
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You have such a warped view of gender relations. Someone that believes in lies will se the truth as warped and horrendous since it target their whole world view as false and cascate in multiples changes. My male friends are authentic about the ways they are dissatisfied with the community and with dating all the tim This was not what I asked, my question is what would a woman think if they expressed it. Obviously if a woman is getting paid hundreds or thousands of dollars to have sex, she can ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:35 AM
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Of course I ask my male friends about their experiences of this community and they observe the same thing. What you think an average women would think of them if they expressed any opinion that they indeed struggle and don't like it? I just didn’t understand it and was asking you to elaborate. Simple, most women have instagram with multiples possible suitors the same way a dating app works, they're in fact basically the same experience. Women don’t have sex with people they don’t find attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:14 AM
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The difference is that I am a man and you're a woman, you see the situation trough the lens of an absurd in group bias. What point are you trying to make about instagram? I don’t use that app much. But as a group women do, you specifically may not the utmost majority still does. If most people weren’t considered attractive, most people wouldn’t be married. Attraction is not required for marriage nor relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:42 PM
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Most people are considered attractive everywhere but the apps. What evidence do you have of it? Everyone is friends of friends so safety isn’t really an issue. Safety was never an issue, if safety was ever an issue criminals would not be more successful than law abding citizens. Extroverts are a minority, and most women want a partner The world do not end on the house party, women still have a bunch of guys in their dms that they're already interested to begin with. Women are desperate to get of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:33 PM
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What group of girls are going to the house of unknow unnatractive group of men Our world is a world of warm approach opportunities abundance. There are house parties several times a week where single people mingle and welcome warm approaches the 90s called and they want their standards and notions back. In a group house that big there are typically a couple extroverts who love to throw parties, so the introverts are able to help out in low cost ways. Yeah and the woman will all go for those extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:52 PM
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Anyone can bet on things that are unfalsifiable, since they never can be proven true you never has to pay anything. they’re just as capable History has evidence of otherwise. SOME aspects of traditional old school masculinity is bad for society. Every single aspect of traditional masculinity BUILT society and you can see in real time how its lack have been resulting in decay of the same. It's also very fucking funny how you ignore 80% of the comment just to reply to the only part of the comment …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:58 PM
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Imagine thinking that slaving away for someone else is going to make someone fell valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:59 PM
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But attraction that’s mostly based on looks can disappear just as quickly as it appears. What make you think other attraction will not disappear as well? kyedae left tenz to "discover herself" even after he gave up on his career to take care of her during cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:58 PM
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It's a class war It's not, stop with the communist bullshit, you cannot claim that is a class war when EVERY SINGLE ideology and idea women follow benefit the top class of individuals. Women aren't trying to repress you or take away your opportunities. Explain DEI.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:54 PM
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I encourage men to join the workplace alongside women. Men don't have DEI to give then advantages, encouraging a person to engage in something they are natively disavantaged against is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:53 PM
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Which jobs are women stealing from us? Most white collar jobs, due to DEI and ESG giving massive incentives for companies to hire women. What beliefs and ideologies are we being shamed for? Every single belief men holds, you can see it on entertainment and how the belief of men being strong and leading disappeared on mainstream media, how male centric franchises with male centric themes are shifted to be female centric, shaming their male past. How male centric activities like gaming are cooped …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:50 PM
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because too many grown males have historically failed to leave children alone What evidence do you have of it? Yet somehow when it comes to recognizing the difference between a child and an adult woman Do you think that the picosecond before a girl is 18 she is a child but the picosecond after she is 18 she is an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:43 PM
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Geology is falsifiable and testable. The issue is not something being observation based but the metrics and fault logic being applied to the field as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:29 AM
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psychology is a real science employing scientific principles It's not, the basic principle of science is falsifiability and outside very specific fields (only 1) psychology fails, miserably. All they can do is to conduct scientific Shoving "science" on a word don't make it a science, formulate a theory don't make it a science, you need to prove it or evidency it, what psychology studies never do. For every single paper there's aways very obvious glaring methological and straight up logical error…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:13 AM
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Science apophenia psychology is as science as much as scientology
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:55 AM
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Again and for the last time: This preposition only makes sense if the number of bad men and good men are equal. Otherwise please go learn about per capita.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:53 AM
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The world is black and white, there's only truth and lies; any half truth is a full lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:45 AM
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How many men in relationships with gfs, wives, and finances are bad men? This preposition only makes sens if the number of bad men and good men are the same. Do you think the number of bad men and good men are equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:53 PM
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No, i'm asking exclusively. Why do you think that most women don't like bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:49 PM
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Why do you think like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:41 PM
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repressing women is actually bad for many countries economically it's not, it creates pressures for better wages and reduce the demand for housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:21 PM
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Have you considered that sane women like good men and the few women who go for bad men are either mentally ill or just as toxic? Then what is stopping us to label the utmost majority of women as "not sane" since most women priorize bad men? Why are you concerned with what the type of women you shouldn't want Because it's all that is left, thinking an unicorn exists is how women get disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:18 PM
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A lot of Reds have patterns of thinking which could be labeled as black and white It's because the world is black and white, the notion of "greys" is an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:15 PM
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Different women stil have the same opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 10:13 PM
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Not today, aways has been about dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:59 PM
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Feminism is selfish and immoral, the whole ideology demands personal care and a sense of self importance at the cost of everything else. It goes against the basic principles of morality where the group direct and indrectly is put above the individual. RP is selfish but amoral, what is a positive in relation to feminism. Feminism on the other hand, has a track record of being quite egalitarian. Feminist is and aways will be a female supremacist movement. It aways demand women to get benefits with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:55 PM
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Women do more volunteering at everything from animal shelters, school days, elderly care, crisis helplines, church fundraisers, charity, socials, homeless shelters, you name it women do a lot more volunteering than men do. Volunteering does jack shit, is know to be extremely inefficient and solve nothing, just another way for people to feel good about themselves. Women are more of the nurses and teachers, social workers, government workers, elderly care workers. Payment are based on how replaceb…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:44 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:40 AM
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The paper said there's no significant difference between male and female CPB.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:40 AM
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Diagnosis are done based on a baseline, if population X has naturally narcissistic behaviors only individuals that go past the curve would be diagnosed since passing the label towards the whole population would be problematic. If a man started acting like the average women he would be diagnosed with narcissistic tendencies in the blink of an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:39 AM
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There's no methodology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:00 AM
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Generalizations and an idea being presented, you should know that nothing on op was anedoctal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:58 PM
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I'm struggling to see the causation. Indicating someone need therapy shows that you're not willing to engage with another person problem and is hellbent into introducing something that do not work, is also a way to point a person as "defective" that need to be "fixed" into a female mindset. There's many, many different types of therapy; There's not, all of them boil down to the same principle and the same inneficient result. I had cognitive behavioural therapy to help deal with my crippling soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:55 PM
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It's crazy how your brain goes to rape women It's because she is blue pill(there's no red pill women) and everything for women aways focus on it because it's an easy way to get sympathy points.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:51 PM
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"the feminine urge to reply to a statistical generalization with an anecdotal counter example"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:49 PM
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No, it's very gendered. Women preach therapy as the cure of any ills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:37 PM
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Please, learn about per capita.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:03 PM
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> I’m the primary breadwinner providing is more than money, attention, physical labour, protection >Usually when we are working on our community something they do because another person wished to waste their time, they work while others looks and the one who work the less are the one getting satisfied with the results. stop saying they should do it and that you can do it and watch how none of them will ever go to the "garden project" because most of the effort come from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:38 PM
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Not all women are attracted to the same men Yes, they're. The majority of women are attracted to a minority of men as okCupid data shows. are you saying no unattractive men are pieces of shit? You're presenting a fallacious position, just because attractive single men have higher likelihood to be bad individuals don't means that ugly men are automatically good. Is the false equivalence women use to excuse then going to the same batch of bad men over and over lying to themselves that the ugly men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:46 AM
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Average social "science" experiment where you want a result and build a methodology to get it as opposite to pick the obvious of comparing two poor states with different demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:37 AM
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the only thing they've "provided" was company and affection And security and entertainment and free rides and a place to crash out and a bunch of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:46 AM
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Able and willing are different. Are woman willing to help you do manual labour? They're not. Are women willing to drive you around? They're not. Are woman willing to fight along side you if the situation demands? They're not. Are women going to act like wingman making the approach easier? They're not. Are women willing to lend money? They're not. What women "provide" are feel good things, oh your father died? Look how I'll say how everything will be alright. Just don't expect me to help you with…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:44 AM
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The last one Is still the same character from 2016. A lot of women go through sexual harassment as young teens or even younger. EVERYONE goes through EVERYTHING in their lives, it's 709560 hours on average from the day you were alive until you're dead. If this is all that is necessary for you to get a low opinion in 50% of the population you never had a neutral, let alone a good opinion to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:37 AM
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Women do loads of unpaid and underpaid labor that benefits men as well Such as? when women are doing so much unpaid and underpaid labor the higher taxes seems less like a burden No, it is a burden FULL STOP. A man could receive more than what he received if he was allowed to use his taxes in investments. Unless women are working in a field non stop is simply not worth it. while the benefits that women provide reap neither the same recognition or the same kind of financial rewards Because they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:23 AM
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Yes, any issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:26 AM
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I can only value something for what it provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:21 AM
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Oh yeah, sure you do provide (something of far less value than raw tangible effort). Is not a huge assumption, I know what women "provide" and believe, if we're not for what they have between their legs it would not be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:19 AM
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Do you know how we call those whose appreciation is gated by how usefully they see another? Opportunistic, Transactional, Self-serving, Exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:15 AM
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LMAO, you have the leftist touch happy, the weak minded that never leaved the hole after his loss, the spineless dude whose opinions follow the "Current thing ™" and the one singing pornography to a family event. There's no masculinity. A woman could use their pee as birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:12 AM
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Nah romance are literal garbage, the worst genre even created. Even worse than some obscure subgenres like biopunk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:06 AM
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They should read Schopenhauer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:05 AM
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I love my male friends. I have a boyfriend. Very convenient that you love those men who provide you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:03 AM
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How to train your dragon was 16 years ago, all the other examples you said were culturally sterile. Joel died like a dog, this was the payment he got for being a good father. Women are suspicious of men because of their own experience Not really, they're suspicious because media goes 24/7 exposing them about it and they're VERY susceptible to propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:00 AM
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The most culturally relevant animated movie from last year What is survivorship bias? Never heard about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:55 AM
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Across the racial board it's men who are the bigger risk to women. Yeah, they're also the bigger producers of benefits to women. They in fact produce far more benefits than risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:54 AM
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A lot of violence is mostly correlated with social economic class It's not. But also as the epstein files show us Learn about per capita On the other hand male violence and male oppression Is the only reason you have an easy life today as you can see by all those successful feminists nations across the human history (there's none)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:53 AM
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been made to physically fear There's no such thing as "made to fear", if you eat the media coolaid to excuse your own paranoid behavior born trough anything but raw neuroticism I have nothing ot say but learn about pet capita
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:49 AM
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You don't need to read minds to know the white van painted "free mortgage" is a trap, if it seems too good to be true is because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:20 AM
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If women can only fall in love with dishonest men, maybe they should start to learn to pick better or just accept they the perhaps don't deserve what they think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:14 AM
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>It’s incredibly weird and insidious and manipulative to lie to people about what you want and expect from them. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 12:32 AM
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Why should the men you're attracted to be honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:05 PM
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>Expecting honesty and basic decency is not too high of an expectation in my opinion. Expecting honesty and decency from someone that have incentives against showing honesty and decency IS a high expectation. >And the vetting process is too weed out those who do that. No, it's not. The vetting process is to find men the vetting woman is attracted to, men have an issue because honesty and decency DO NOT make part of the vetting process. >And you are basically saying in this comment that men canno…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:36 PM
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> If an adult offers free candiez and then kidnaps a child thanks to equating the woman with a child and showing the issue at hand, I didn't even had to lift a finger. >And couples of (conventionally) hot man and (conventionally) unattractive woman exist. So do lottery winners, everyone would still agree that putting all your money trying the lottery to be a very bad investment. If women think they're all going to be the "lottery winners" in dating is an issue with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:02 PM
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You don't need to read minds to know that the sign saying "free candies" outside an open van is not to be trusted, adults should know that if somethings seems too good to be true is because it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:35 PM
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not having men lie about their intentions You're an adult responsible for your own choices, if you can't understand that an attractive men would be interested in a mid woman just for casual and not LTR the problem is on you. men have no incentive to do it. We had, generally speaking in the form of a father with a shotgun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:39 PM
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Ada Lovelace NOT THIS GARBAGE AGAIN every single time this bullshit appears it makes me want to crawl my eyes out the sockets, she TRANSLATED Babbage notes, just like the idiotic idea about the wifi invention when Tesla itself had patents for frequency hopping and it's original discovery being German in origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:08 PM
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as well as with the underlying assumption that "attractive" means the same thing for every single woman. It's for the majority, attraction is more objective than subjective Premise 1: Red pill men tend to be unsuccessful in dating. Premise 2: People tend to be friends with people who are similar to them. Conclusion 1 : Red pill men tend to be friends with other men who are also unsuccessful in dating. Premise 3: Men tend to look mostly at women they find attractive. Premise 4: Red pill men do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:45 PM
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So basically: there's so many to say that you can't find anything, amazing, as expected from someone that "passed formal logic with flying colours".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:54 PM
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Stop with the vagueness, there's more men interested in fat women than there's women interested in fat men, do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:44 PM
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I literally did an Oxford philosophy degree Cool, try using it to something outside opening beer bottles. Factually speaking, there are missing premises So show it as opposite of jumping to the emotional ranting, we would expect someone that "passed formal logic with flying colours" to understand that saying what the missing premise is a far better argument than just saying "there's missing premises". But heeeeey, i would expect someone that "passed formal logic with flying colours" to not try a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:37 PM
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Women are attracted to the same things men are attracted to. This is false, you won't be seeing the same number of women wanting a fat man BECAUSE he is fat the same way men does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:17 PM
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Yall claim women go gor the worst men and the best men simultaneously. Bad man for societal health, best men in "sexual value". Which is why I don't take stock in that part of red pill, You don't because you're a woman, there's no women redpill. All of them are trad bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:15 PM
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regularly make claims that are easily disproven empirically. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:13 PM
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This is an example of inductive reasoning, not deductive. So thanks for proving op right. Inductive reasoning draws a probable or practical conclusion based on experience, patterns, or risk assessment rather than on strict logical necessity while deductive reasoning would require that if the premises are true, what they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:12 PM
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Do you understand that you racting emotionally to op title do not shows you to be likely able of deductive reasoning right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:03 PM
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ignore all those that don't. What studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:03 PM
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which is demonstrably false. How so, what evidence do you have that demonstrate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:02 PM
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I observe and perceive the women around me performing deductive reasoning all the time. "the feminine urge to reply to a statistical generalization with an anecdotal counter example". I do not observe and perceive redpillers citing sources and statistics almost ever. What do you need sources for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:02 PM
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Thanks for providing evidence of op point that women struggle heavily with deductive reasoning: you go and talk about biases and then apply it retroactive to explain a situation, you use rationalization to adress your point and not deduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:01 PM
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I am a computer engineer and am up to date with current development, specially AI, and is still the bulk majority men, even with women getting free jobs and free promotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:51 AM
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you're acting like your pleasure is some monumental task that couldn't simultaneously be fulfilled while focusing on the woman's pleasure Of course it can, but why should you? You're putting effort while not receiving effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:01 PM
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It sounds like even from your example you're saying that men cum easier than women. Yeah men cums easier, since it's the men doing the effort for him to cum. You don't have to see it as slavery if you actually like the person you're fucking. So cute how this point falls under the ground once is the women having to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:54 PM
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Do men underestimate how often women are optimizing for risk reduction rather than attraction? No, women do not optmize for risk reduction because they priorize partners with dark triad traits or individuals with higher chances of creating risk as partner. What risks do men most commonly overlook? There's no risk to overlook, stats prove it, the chance of anything happening at all is merely statistical noise. In what situations does attraction clearly dominate anyway? Aways. Where do men think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:11 PM
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Because seeing what I was able to do to her was incredible. Yeah, the slave gets happiness for how well he serves his master. It's such a joke. there’s nothing wrong with focusing more on the woman’s pleasure than your own. So you give her pleasure and what you get is that you now have to make your own pleasure, is basically 2x the effort. If you want to understand how idiotic this position is to be: image a girl riding someone dick and then having to finish herself off by grinding against his h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:15 PM
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This is what we call circular logic, where the evidence of something is within the argument itself as opposite of coming from an outside factor, it's what we call a logic fallacy and the signal of someone that can't argue his own point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:48 AM
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Confidence got me my wife and every single girlfriend before her How do you know it? How did you quantify and separated it from outside factors like your looks, family situation or status?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:21 AM
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Men don't choose to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:19 AM
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Seems like an excuse to do absolutely nothing and cheat at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:51 PM
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Nordic countries Any evidence of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:46 PM
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The problem is that they don't apply the same standard to men. Men are not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:44 PM
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The worst part is that they just infiltrated fantasy genre trying to pass their poor written romance as "fantasyTM".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:21 PM
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No-one should be shamed for having a sex drive This is how you wished to happens, now, what happens in objective reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:19 PM
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Have you seen fashion these days? High fashion is artsy expression for rich snobs, average clothings have still emphasis on female curves with tight clothing (despite most not havign the body for it)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:18 PM
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the idea of male sexualization being viewed as dirty is something that I think of as being a relatively “new” idea. You're confusing sexualization with sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:17 PM
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>Because on Reddit what can ppl help anyone with besides what I listed. Give basic guidance >then you'll find there are alot of women wanting to help There's no such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:07 AM
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None of that applies to me "the feminine urge to reply to a statistical generalization with an anecdotal counter example"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:04 AM
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Exception, once you dig deep enough to see the cracks you'll realize there's simply a bunch of bored housewives that are never satisfied and complain about everything and the husband playing the dancing puppet in order to have some peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:04 AM
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Strangers online don’t put tons of effort into other strangers So why make things worse? Just do nothing if you're not willing to provide help do not make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:00 AM
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Doesn't redpill What make you think he is talking about redpill forum? He said women of reddit not women on redpill reddit sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:00 AM
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Why do you want strangers to rescue you? Do you think is too much to ask for the stranger to simply not make things worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:59 PM
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Why when the situation is "helping men" the first thing you go is about mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:58 PM
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The only person in my household getting “free stuff” from the government is my male roommate. DEI, preference in college and preference in hiring give women advantages they have not to pay in any way shape or form, their lack of contribution to social security is another free gib, the government enforcing useless positions that are filled mostly by women giving more advantages. Just because you don't see the check in your account don't means you're not getting the money indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:56 PM
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They're still getting men efforts trough the government and male attention trough social media and dating apps. It's virtue signaling born from the inability to see how the world works at a mechanical level. They're never without a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:01 AM
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I’ve seen no such study that indicates that. "Furthermore, Individuals with high levels of neuroticism are inclined to post negative comments and feedback on social media" https://www.researchgate.net/publication/373034122_Mapping_Personality_Traits_to_Customer_Complaints_Framework_for_Personalized_Customer_Service Higher levels of neuroticism positive correlated with complaints about ones own cognitive aging. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34882062/ "Analysis revealed significant positive corr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:44 AM
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"Approximately 61% of U.S. women identify as feminists" so yeah most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:26 AM
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>They would have had more money if they spent their time working and staying with their family. It's an unfalsifiable claim. >She would have had more money to buy a house if she lived with her parents expense free and worked. Unfalsifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:59 PM
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They can do math they know they'd have more money if they stayed with their husband than if they divorced him. But it would take time vs instant half of his possessions. Most women know they'll be much poorer after divorce than if they stayed married. The point is not them getting poreer, is then getting richier than they were before married. Many women stayed in unhappy unsatisfying marriages simply bc they couldn't afford to be alone or divorce him. Most has a family they can go back. No fault…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:11 PM
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>right so these marriages were still unhappy and unsatisfactory even before You're conflating 2 things "unhappy and unsatisfactory" also ignoring the fact that no fault creates a huge incentive in order to pull a quick paycheck from their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:38 PM
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Divorce rate was highest in 1980 Yeah because no fault, things don't change instantly there's a buffering time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:39 PM
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it was men who tossed it out. it wasn't. This is what happened after WW2 when men came home to a sex imbalance in the numbers of young men to young women. There's no evidence of it That was rapidly followed by the Playboy era which tried to convince men that the single young girl next door absolutely loved sex Men are not influenced by propaganda, we don't get conviced to smoke because someone put another man smoking in a poster, we do not change our diet to bacon and eggs because there's a tv c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:37 PM
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I just want to know what the logical end is to the increasing social chasm that is growing between many men and all women. As women demands more and more from government we will sink further into competency crisis and have men adopting a low effort mindset what will stagnate advancements. The culture that preach those things will naturally be reduced while fertility rates from traditional cultures overtake it. If the government adopt mass immigration to try and cover for it the result is the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:27 PM
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They simply hate men, no one gets mad at caring about someone they love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:15 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/puedgg/this_man_nailed_it/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:30 PM
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i've been reading over twenty years how our cost would be underwater, still there, still kicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:12 PM
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>Prostitutes have generally exhausted other options suure, do you think that if a man offer a hooker money to go and clean his home she would pick it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:02 PM
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>nonmonogamy was the norm Do you have any evidence of it **that is not extremely speculative?**
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:00 PM
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Ok, a rival village appears in the horizon what the group of women will do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:42 PM
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you also need recoil control and good grip, something that men having bigger hands get's easier
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:37 PM
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If it's money she needs there's aways house for cleaning and a market needing a cashier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:34 PM
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women do not respect the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:34 PM
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What you define as "respectable" and what it is "scum on earth" are 1:1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:26 PM
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Do I need to point the effects of single motherhood or how women cannot keep infraestructure? How are you going to maintain the mudhuts against an enemy army?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:17 PM
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if you know the other person doesn't want to be there having sex with you The hooker want it, she wants the money and will fuck for it. and isn't enjoying it. The cashier don't enjoy doing cashier things nor tax driver enjoy driving their tax, it's a job, a service, you don't have to like nor enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:13 PM
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Women will not respect the man anyways so what changes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:11 PM
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If monogamy didn't existed we would't be having society. Society is mad and kept by the bottom 99% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:51 PM
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They'd just bang the hot dudes and raise their children, village style, I guess. How they're going to raise it without the rest of the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:50 PM
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Why can’t red pill men get their heads around the fact that people want to date the best person they can find if this was real criminals would't have higher fertility rates Why should people be with someone average if they have the opportunity to be with someone amazing? The leverage is artifically taken from men using government as middle men, and is ruining society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:44 PM
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Convenient to everyone why don't you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:26 PM
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It's not over thinking, just thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:26 PM
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>Wouldn't the same count for men as well? Men have lower rates of neuroticism, they don't overthing and pull ghosts from past iteractions nor are going to hyperanalyze past affairs to protect their own image.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:22 PM
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Do you understand the meaning of the word compulsion? Because I don't think you know it. >No physical strength is needed to shoot a gun and yet Why would women ever need to shot a gun when she can fuck the guy with the gun and have him take all risk? Also women as a group are averse to free gun ownership.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:07 PM
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Yeah women suck at violence and are weak, once they surprass such barrier they act. Hence gendered rates of infanticide and neonaticide, the fact you can't overpower a man is not a moral virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:55 PM
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Because no one cares, no one will care, you won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:49 PM
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>women (45.1%) in the United States experienced some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetimes Well suuuuuuuuuuuuuure there's wont be a lot of bullshit being defined as "contact sexual violence" right? They will absolutely never counts drunk hook ups as rape right? They'll absolutely never count a wife seeing her husband sad for a deadbedroom as rape... right? Oh wait it does LMAO. Bonus point, if the woman regret the hookup or put in her vain mind that the man would be in a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:43 PM
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because reality and actual preferences come out in practice. You presume that they understand deep down their own sexuality as opposite of just following "current propaganda thing". They're still woke af in relation to everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:06 PM
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Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:10 PM
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There's no but, those have no relation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:52 PM
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No, you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:51 PM
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No one expects you to rescue us Yes women as a group do. We just expect the men to stop attacking their dates or women who reject them It's not something that happens as a trend, you're expecting a perfect world where nothing bad happens ever to women, you're asking for an impossibility. the men who abuse to stop abusing. Stop picking abusers that by virtue of natural selection they're going to be removed from the gene pool, supressed due to incentives and finally reduced. I would assume yall wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:51 PM
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No, why would I? Put your own effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:53 PM
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Okay so are you saying that a person that is hygenic is not a standard? If men that don't clean their ass are still getting ass yes, it's not a standard. What are standards then I may be confused. Pick the man that get the most sex, see what all of them have in common and realizes what is the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:46 PM
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Just wait for Valentine’s day and you will see plenty of women saying their man did nothing for the holiday for them and never do. Does this sound like high standards to you? So, your conclusion is that women have not high standards as opposite that remembering a holiday not being a standard at all? Women date men who cheat on them and forgive the man. And the dudes be ugly too. Ok so the guy is ugly and get another women to cheat? You don't see an issue with this affirmation? They date men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:40 PM
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We work jobs that are contribute to the wellbeing of society Outside nursing most jobs provide negatives or are responsible for keep running extremely inneficient systems from which mostly women benefits from. We pay taxes. Women as a group pay less in taxes than they receive, social security in the US alone shows it. We often do free babysitting for family and friends. It's not the 90s. We often provide free care to elderly or disabled family members. It's not the 90s. We help our loved ones wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:26 PM
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What is the cost of having the mindset knowing someone out there is attracted to you? Opportunity cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:35 AM
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The vast majority of women like normal healthy relationships Sure, this is why 50 shades of grey bombed in the box office
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:11 AM
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Enheduanna All current evidence of it are copies that present signature with the name, none of those are representation of authority (creation), It's purely speculative, even less likely since poetic verses are know to use "I (name)" in order to create dramatic emphasis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:17 AM
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the first author was a woman Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:43 AM
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Oh what? If you can point successful societies that didn't and have their remnants still kicking go ahead and do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:15 AM
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Do you really think every woman on the planet is interested in being with a serial killer? Not every, the majority, with the only setback being the fear of social repercursion and lack of access to the criminal in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:10 PM
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Women aways had more social power than men, female emotional power are low since it's exemplified by their voting patterns that they cannot separate their decisions from their emotions and their "intellectual" power is laughable when you realize that despite having 10 years being favored in academy they have yet to produce results. Several women have shown that when given the opportunity, they can equally rise to the occasion This is why you analyze groups and not small subset of people, in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:00 PM
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the well ran dry And women still want to sell the stones and sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:41 PM
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>abusive men have their tactics to manipulate women into relationships Yeah sure the serial killers surely manipulated all those women to be in his court hearing, so does the child beater manipulating all those women he never saw in paying his bail. There's no such thing, women are not manipulated they enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:39 PM
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How do you think your pill's philosophy could be adjusted for people who are strictly monogamous? Once decline process ends those people will rise as the relevant culture due to the success rates of their offsprings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:18 PM
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Men still run every facet of power in society a small% of men, politics are all selected by women since they control the majority of votes. Infraestructure is not something men control, politicians selected by women control it, men just build. Does that change the actual landscape of power? No The landscape is a small% of men, you cannot be in good faith saying that "for 99% of men it changed but for the top 1% it did therefore power is still the same".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:07 PM
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The world doesn't despise us There's have been increasing movement to remove men and their culture from every single facet of modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:44 PM
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A- women looks decaying exponentially due to age. B- women being unable to pull the same kind of men she did on her youth due to decaying looks due to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:27 PM
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When you break you lose any motivation. Why should you be motivated? There is no point to live life when nobody will ever be attracted to you. There's no difference between "nobody will ever be attracted to you" and "you will never met the person that is attracted to you"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:11 PM
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a positive mindset is why you don't break under pressure You should break under pressure so you can shift towards worth objectives
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:02 PM
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I replied to your comment not op
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:01 PM
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It would make a little more sense at the time of our grandparents with high social trust society and all but saying it today is so weird. Those people want to see us dead, slaved, castrated and the first reaction is let's build a temple for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:59 PM
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There is a big difference between the idea Ideas do not matter, the only thing that matters are results. At the very least, you are optimistic How are you going to be optimistic knowing that STILL no on around you will love you? It would be a bigger let down, imagine thinkin how he need to go far away where no one knows him so he can find something that everyone around him found.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:56 PM
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Go ahead and explain your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:54 PM
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I’m very confused Of course you are, not a surprise tbh. Imagine someone started having sex on his 18 and then take the last straw of sexiness ended in his 60, the would have enjoyed 42 years of sexiness and since he would die on average in his 76 he would get 16 years waiting for dead. So 42 years enjoying the perks of sexiness vs 16 years waiting for death. It don't matter if you get old, what matter is what you enjoyed in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:54 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:44 PM
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And? How does the wall means that men don't accept women aging?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:43 PM
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That is complete bullshit based on what is written in this very sub. So point examples of it. A bunch of “red pilled” men don’t even accept women aging. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:27 PM
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just what I practice from reading stoicism and Buddhism books for my personal benefit You're benefiting others, while they collect your labour and efforts, nice. The cattle is better silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:25 PM
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Why are you going to progress to favor a world that despise you? Imagine someone kick you in the nuts piss over your head and your first reaction is to go and clean his car
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:24 PM
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It leaves hope for us it's delusion, not hope. I think in chasing our best selves we find things we need or want And when you don't will you accept the failure or will keep moving the goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:14 PM
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Do you have any argument that is not wishful thinking or personal attack? Well, pain is inevitable but people choose to suffer. people don't choose to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:06 PM
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Don't you find this argument to very disingeneous since you can basically rule out any failure as "but you're not the best version of yourself"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:05 PM
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If there is a will there is a way. Is the kind of garbage people running their minds on nothing but wishfull thinking like to think so they don't need to face the reality that their will are constrained by objective reality. Just look at what passport bros are doing. A fringe small percentage of population is surely something that represents a viable trend. It was sarcasm if you didn detected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:59 PM
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We are 8 billion people on this rock. if you have no access to those peoples the result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:43 PM
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The hottest guy on the planet wont find a nice lady for a relationship if his personality is shit. Yeah all those criminals surely have amazing personalities, the guy that beat a child also had a very clean personality right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:38 PM
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It’s all bullshit tbh It's not, men accept women for what they are, women accept men for what they can extract of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:32 PM
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>The average life expectancy for white people specifically is almost 80 years old Male average is 76yo, if you enjoy a good life for 40 years 10 years waiting for death is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:52 PM
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It matters because you aren’t going to be a hot 50 or 60 year And why would this matter? it's end of life if you get to enjoy a good life for 40 years another 10 years being just there is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:50 PM
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Blue pill women with redpill tag, tale old as time. What happens when you hit 50 or 60? Why would this matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:06 PM
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the human condition makes it so that without drama No, it's not, it's exclusively something coming from women humans get bored Yeah and we (mostly men) invented a whole array of things to entertain us that don't involve personal drama BECAUSE we understand that peace and tranquility trump mindless excitement. With no drama, there basically is no ego. How boring a person need to be to be unable to devolves a sense of self without the pursue of vain, mindless, useless acts? This is true for both m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:02 PM
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Those are not drama. The pursue of something above one self is part of human behavior, annoying other people with bullshit because you can't entertain yourself for half a hour is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:57 AM
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And what make the users of OkCupid not a representative of the general population?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:16 PM
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Based on what evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:01 PM
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That sounds likely to have serious sampling and measurement issues Because?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:48 PM
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The moral failing is about selecting for criminals together with the lying, gaslight and hypocrisy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:48 PM
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Stop imagining an attractive dude when you think it. Women don’t assume most men are virgins generally. If you're in the position of asking it's a likelihood you're assuming. Women also ignore the existence of unattractive men (as sexual beings) so of course they're not going to assume the men (that register on their fov) are virgins. Women mistakenly think it’s super easy for men to get sex They don't is just that what they define as a man is likely to fill such position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:27 PM
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Getting dates don't means you have options, one or two girls accepting a foodie all don't means she see you as a potential partner. Getting a partner also don't means you have options, one woman accepting a relationship don't means you had options besides this woman. it is just loud minority OkCupid data, women seen 80% of men as bellow average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:23 AM
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It's impossible when women keep demanding state level action to favor them in life. The reason why women think men bring women quality of life down is because the state is siphoning men resources directly to women as a middlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:19 AM
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Most men and women Most men lack options to have something to focus on something, your issue is gendered female in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:24 AM
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Yes these are indirect ways to answer but they are not deflections. Don't matter, the result is the same, not saying no only means the awsner is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:12 PM
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as a woman who speaks to other women "the feminine urge to reply to a statistical generalization with an anecdotal counter example".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:11 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/1kbrldw/cmv_informed_consent_is_underrated_and_undervalued/ "For instance, the fact of the matter is that many people wish to lose their virginity to other virgins. If you have sex with a person while they are not aware to the fact that you aren't, that is ethically and morally wrong as, if they were fully informed, they would not have consented to have sex with you."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:08 PM
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Do you really think women do not rationalize character flaws on a lack of sexual success? some woman may not want to be with you because of this, some won't care. It's not some, the majority will not want and a minority will not care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:04 PM
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It's the point where you don't have enough experience so you'll be seen as weird and thus being unable to get experience. Is when how you are supposed to act towards the situation and the leeway the other person are willing to give you reach critical mass. Lack of experience at 25~28 end game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:02 PM
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You understand that every single of those aswners are an indirect yes right? Imagine you asking for a man if he ever stole his mother panties and his responses are: “You’ll have to find out” “That’s personal I don’t share with people if I had or not stolen panties in the past” “I’ve had experiences, learned things, and I’m good with all of it” “Between zero and infinity”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:59 PM
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Seems like more women says they disagree Ask them how many virgins outside their possible first fuck were virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:56 PM
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who clearly view relationships as just transactions and infinite courting dances Every women do it like this when you're not top%men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:35 PM
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Everything is just like the apps because the apps users are humans the same people you would see in another place, so long you have the same culture, same incentives you'll have same behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:29 AM
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>But if she makes it clear that she only is into ltr and he lies, she’s not at fault for being manipulated imo Those women are not children and should be aware of situations that are "too good to be true". Do you know how we call the people that fall of things like jake paul scams, crypto rugpulls or labubu speculation? Suckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:31 PM
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>There are no guarantees Use averages and mostly likely scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:21 PM
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Because to someone, that midget cave troll is hot af How do you know that he will ever be able to meet such person?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:40 AM
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Stop reward them with sex then, you create the situation by incentives presented; you don't get to complain the results are not what you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:38 AM
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Use averages, you don't need to know everyone just use averages, bell curve and all. So you’re saying men only ‘empathize’ to get something from it? Not a great look Yeah, men want better lives with women and to make the courting process smooth, women should try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:01 AM
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Delusion, you need to be delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:37 AM
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Guy struggles with girls growing up in his teenage years Guy meets conventionally attractive girl I categorize him as non existent in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:35 AM
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Literally all a woman wants is for some healthy guy to get her off until she’s looks dizzy & exhausted. Ok, this man exists but he looks like a midget cave troll, do you think he still have chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:33 AM
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men just keep rejecting women’s empathy You cannot reject empathy because empathy is not something you offer is something you feel, learn the difference between empathy and sympathy so you can try and help your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:19 AM
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Empathy=/=Sympathy, I understand how you feel, don't means I agree or feel anything outside disdain for the position presented. despite knowing next to nothing about me and my life You're a woman, I can make assumptions based on average and objective reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:12 AM
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I didn’t Remove I and use the average women, do you think this is the average women experience? would you also be receptive to women telling men to ‘try better’? Men have fully possible amount of empathy towards women, because men need to attract women. In order to try better they need to start reading minds, what is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:57 AM
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I have experienced being alone and isolated and it wasn’t through choice. For how many years? But we can try Try better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:49 AM
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Can you? Or aren't you trying to two different situations under the same umbrella terms? Because for you being body shammed is being called fat (something you can change) and still getting the same amount of attention from the other sex, while for men it's you being ruled out of early romantic experiences for something you can't change. For you a hard time making social connections is just you not having the people you want giving you attention while for men is being seen as an weirdo and an imm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:48 AM
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Stop mistaking empathy for sympathy. understand how lonely it can be. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:36 AM
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This is not empathy, it's sympathy. Thanks for the demonstration of how women lacks empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:35 AM
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Congratulations, not a single hit. Men do not care about social status, they care about sex and social status is what make getting sex easier. They couldn't care less what society thinks. Men are the ones who more often than not have to pursue women and face general initial rejection more often This is an observation don't means you understand what it implies on a deep level. Men also have more emotions about what sex means in a relationship. Thus are often less unfulfilled without sex. Even out…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:34 AM
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An here we are ladies and gentlemen, you have never deal with social isolation stop saying bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:14 AM
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I can understand the core of why they are in pain or feel like things are unfair, Can you? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:10 AM
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How do you try to be empathetic? What do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:06 AM
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actually wonder if people on this sub actually have experience dealing with different genders at varying intimacy levels I have and they don't, no /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:01 AM
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No they don't, they have sympathy so long it's socially expected (hence feminists having none) they have absolute no empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:01 AM
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The hallmark of morals are how we treat those beneath us, you can see by how women treat their children (born and unborn) where their morals rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:59 AM
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How? Women offer little companionship, you can't open up or they lose attraction, they will abandon you at the first chance if it's convenient, will dip out at the first signal of danger, will criticize hobbies that do not benefit her. Men cannot milk rocks, they don't necessarily already get it elsewhere but they're not going to get it from a relationship so putting it as something they need is a recipe to be disappointed, many end up disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:56 AM
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are well acquainted with social isolation They're not, you and them never had to suffer real social isolation so they pick what they think it is and then try to pass it as "something they understand". They think social isolation is not getting the attention they want when in reality social isolation is you having nothing, prospects of nothing and nothing even if you wanted it. Imagine having the last non filial social interaction from which someone is not trying to extract tangible effort from y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:50 AM
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>Okcupid and what. Their five customers? it had 12m at the time of dataclysm release. >Dating apps are still much more shallow than irl dating. They're not, both are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:34 PM
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