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Yes. That is correct. And they sometimes do for that exact reason. There are no guarantees in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:55 PM
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You can enter a relationship and limit sex to relationships and the relationship can still fail and end up in singleness but guess what… He still hit at the end of the day. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I think the best thing you can do is be selective about the relationships you get into. Any red flags you start seeing a pattern of, it’s time to go so you don’t waste your youth on the wrong person. Especially if you want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:44 PM
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“Let them wine and dine you” - my dad who has champagne dreams on a soda pop budget. When I was dating from 22 to 32 no one wanted to “wine or dine” me (beyond McDonald’s) until I was in my mid-30s. As a result, I didn’t make it a requirement and at 23 - 32 and ended up in a long situationship where I foot the bill 90% of the time. (I made a lot of dating mistakes listening to boomers who had no idea what the dating market was like). I also nearly lost my sanity in that situationship but that’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:32 PM
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Okay. I understand now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:18 PM
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Oh, I’m happy for you then. All of the aforementioned things are ideal to want in a partner, however I would not judge a person so heavily for their family dynamics. They can only control themselves, they can’t control their family. At any moment your family’s dynamics can change. They can also be a temporary change. Or change for the better in a different way. But it’s your life, you’ve found the one for you and that’s all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:57 PM
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True, I have a friend who is married in Islam. No marital license in site.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:37 PM
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I just feel like watching “Cocaine Bear” unlocked a few in me for bears. I’ll be too petrified to even think about running for my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:35 PM
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Good luck on your search of perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:33 PM
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Thank you because I thought that was a typo. 🙃 You know when you respond too fast and suddenly there’s a “b” at the end of the sentence of the text message you just sent? lol that’s what I thought happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:30 PM
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All of this is deeper than I thought. Thanks for taking the time to teach me. Do you think I should change not flair to no pill? The more I learn the more I realize I don’t know anything. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:29 PM
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I've been called worse. Your response is very misguided, you didn't ask me questions at all, just assumed that I was male-identified when I'm not. It's okay, I forgive you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:55 PM
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What if her father died when she was young. What if her father is to blame for their bad relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:52 PM
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Wait, if you're unmarried why does your flair say you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:51 PM
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Wait, there are RP men who aren't conservative?? Do tell!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:47 PM
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I wonder how many times "street interviewers" have asked questions that never went viral once posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:31 PM
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Yes. Except, I'd hope that anyone would save me. Could be a man, could be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:28 PM
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I think I'm the only person who didn't pick the bear. There's a possibility of winning a fight with a man. Slim chance but still a chance. I have no chance of winning a fight with a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:26 PM
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😣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:31 AM
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Leaving an unhealthy relationship, where both parties don’t want to do the work, is the best and only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:29 AM
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“I'm curious, then, why it appears that more men believe their partner is cheating?” Because someone’s their partner is cheating or it’s Good ol’ projection. P.s. I can’t find the quotation feature on my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:25 AM
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We didn’t like it when Draya Michelle got a man, who is the same age as her 21 or 22 year old son, and got pregnant by him, before his basketball career could peak! There’s roughly a 20 year difference between them. 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:06 AM
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That first sentence 😮‍💨. They started grossing me out was I was fully developed at 10, with bad posture and a booty. 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️ puberty was the first most confusing times of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:02 AM
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I really was that girl when I was younger and was preyed on by a 27 year old who said he was 19. At that time I was only used to guys my age, or older by 2 years max. I was underaged. I’d honestly blame my parents for that happening because it was up to them to prepare me for the world, including all the evils of the world. I grew up in a fantasy world where it was assumed that I’d only date within the confines of church. I’m in an age gap relationship now (on purpose this time) but we’re older …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:59 AM
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You do have a point. I hear so much bad about Chicago that I didn't know they had nice places, or safe places. Meanwhile, I'm more likely to be harmed by my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:32 PM
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I'm distracting myself from a task, using Reddit as we speak. Or as another person from this space put it "poor compulsion control". I call it good ol' procrastination. Still a gnarly behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:17 PM
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IDK blissful/willful ignorance would be really appealing if I were single single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:16 PM
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I love it when people tell on themselves because we I can make better-informed positions sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:28 PM
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While that is true, some interactions haven’t returned to normal. Some people haven’t reverted back to pre pandemic behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:32 PM
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Thanks... I won't even bother reading this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:06 PM
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I agree, however people who have mastered manipulation can easily mask their real intentions on dating apps. Especially if you have never encountered such scams in the past. I'm close to an expert now. I've been scammed so many times and in so many ways and at different points of life (mostly scammed out of of my time, I usually catch it before money is exchanged) that I know when I'm talking to a sawaka boy or a romance scammer or other types of scammers... The only scammers I interact with now…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:58 PM
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Also, social distancing made in-person interactions scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:13 PM
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Yea, I learned from my current bf that there are all sorts of scammers on the dating apps and I learned from stats that there are waaaay more men on dating apps than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:12 PM
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I've been the on and off the internet since I was roughly 8 and we used to get those America Online (AOL) CD-Roms in the mail. Growing up on the internet and answering A/S/L made it easy to end up on the dating apps, but to be fair, I never needed them until the pandemic. I became available to date again in 2020, but with social distancing and literally being terrified of people in 2020, the normal way of just walking up to someone was gone. Dating apps was how we made introductions during that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:11 PM
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So, why don't American men fight to change that? They had 51 years to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:57 PM
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The internet changed. When the internet changed so did everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:56 PM
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And of course nobody...gold digger or not...wants to pay to go get a meal with a guy they met on the internet because usually he's pushing too hard too early. omGod!! You get it! This is in fact the main reason I had some guys pay for dates over others. You wanna go dutch? Not a problem, you don't like me and that's okay, it's early, you don't want to invest money in someone you don't know if you like yet. Makes sense. But least you're not pushing for sex in the first 1 days of us speaking... Ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:52 PM
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That's not the point of choosing the bear. The point is that women choosing the bear would rather the predictability of dealing with death by bear than deal with the unpredicatability of dealing with a random man that they do not know. It's the known vs. the unknown. It's no secret that women prefer security, even if it means knowing you will die with a bear over taking a chance at the type of man you could get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:47 PM
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That's not what it's about. Paternal Leave wouldn't exist without feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:43 PM
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If there hasn't been a draft in 51 years, why do we discuss it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:33 PM
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If there hasn't been a draft in 51 years, why do we discuss it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:33 PM
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Let me look that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:32 PM
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"Female Women" lmao... what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:28 PM
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That may be true for some, but it's not true for all. I know plenty of full-time working women (married or LTRs) who also took care of the home and children 70% or more of the time. As well of single mothers who do it 100% of the time in addition to their full time jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:26 PM
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Great observation. We do talk in absolutes too often on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:18 PM
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The girlbosses bossed too hard and burned themselves out. They started thinking "maybe being home with the kids and doing all the housework isn't such a bad thing" and also, we had a pandemic where some of use were able to get a taste of what it would be like if we could stay home. Social media is mostly to blame as everyone is suffering from FOMO because we just didn't have this much access to the lives (fake or real) of other people. You kept your head down and minded your own business before …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:13 PM
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I'll start by walking away from this conversation. You bore me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:21 PM
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Yea, that psychologist turned RedPiller said the same thing. It's not guaranteed though. Sometimes it just leads to a woman doing more for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:20 PM
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Welcome to Reddit, where we all give opinions no asked for... get with the program, buddy. Yes, I expect a woman who is romantically involved with me to have sex with me at some point. Is this not normal? Yes, but do you rush her to do it immediately or do you get to know her first? My problem is when people expect sex on the first, second or third dates, like Sir, I do not know you still, why are we rushing? You're not even offering exclusivity and you want sex already?? If I had sex with every…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:18 PM
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I did think that, if I'm wrong then I'm wrong. Enlighten me. I thought that if you die before you can receive social security, that money just goes to someone else. Excuse my ignorance... I never said I knew everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:11 PM
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While there would be women who only want to fuck, most women to do more than fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:28 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:25 PM
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Not every single person grows old... Hell, not every married person grows old either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:25 PM
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I'm trying to imagine the dating world in reverse and I can't. I don't see how it wouldn't just revert back to where it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:33 PM
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I have never ever used any form of OLD What is this OLD you speak of... You're not spelling the word "old"? I'm confused by that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:30 PM
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We would... same with the internet... but you know... successful capitalism... it is what it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:27 PM
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I would like our pay to reflect what is feasible to raise a child, without becoming impoverished. Maybe then I could be more concerned with raising one... instead... I'm here on Reddit and begging my boss for a pay increase and applying to new jobs (even though I kind of love my job), just to get closer to being able to afford offspring. -________________________- I don't want to leave my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:20 PM
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My boyfriend laughs at me for wanting to drop off my laundry at the local laundromat and wanting to hire someone to clean my apartment once a month... I'm definitely going to do it anyway but why does he want me to do it? You do it! I'm tired and need to keep my cup full.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:11 PM
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It's also about trapping women and making them undesirable to other men, so they can keep access to those women. Not all men do it for that reason of course. Just the Pookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:06 PM
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Welp, we both commented so I guess it matters enough for us to respond. Are you using the flair wrong, but on purpose? I figured I'd ask instead of assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:04 PM
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I've definitely been online too much this month. I need to go touch grass really soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:02 PM
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I'm jealous... My dad was there STRONG as a kid but passively during adolescence and the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:00 PM
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I already found the guy who agrees to 50/50 childrearing and house labor... so I can't answer this in good faith, because my answer would be to find the guy who is down with this. Pretending I didn't find him, I have always wanted at least 2 kids so I'd take on the 70% of the childrearing if I had no other choice, with the understanding that my kids may not turn out how I'd want them to (meaning they'd probably be just as bad as children born to fatherless homes or fathered home with inactive fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:48 PM
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Even a simple Gemini Search would have told you this: Beauty standards for women can be pretty complex, but here's a breakdown of some common ones: Body shape and size: There's often pressure to be slim or thin, but sometimes with curvier features like full bust and hips. It's a confusing mix that can be hard to achieve. Facial features: Certain features are often associated with beauty, like clear skin, symmetrical features, and big eyes. Skin tone and hair color: Light skin and hair are someti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:33 PM
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....okay. I see I am talking to a wall. I'm going to stop talking to walls now. You have a great Wednesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:26 PM
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So you sat there and counted the words instead of doing the research... Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:23 PM
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I would like to make a note for the record (The record being that anyone can view my comment history and hold me to it because this is a hill I am willing to die on). Nope, this changes based on her bodycount. If it's low, I can wait. If it's high, she better not make me wait or I'm out. This is why I tell women who have experienced sexual assault, not to count those bodies. They did not ask to be assaulted. I would have 2 fewer bodies if those bodies didn't seek to control mine. Well, 3 but I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:22 PM
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Whaaaaat? Personality is sooooooo important! Particularly for long-term relationships! If I don't like you, I can easily leave you or even betray you! I have to like you before I can love you. People underestimate the importance of like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:33 PM
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LMAO! Childfree people are not leeches. Well, some of us aren't. We are taxed enough! I can't save up for the first few years of a kids life if I keep being taxed so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:25 PM
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It's all relative. Is she loose or are you small? It depends on how you see it (or want to see it). Now of course, from your perspective, there are no small penises so she must be loose, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:22 PM
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Speaking of "throwaway accounts" I think I will make another Reddit account, to cosplay as an openly proud whore... It will be like bringing my whore sims to life. Might even use their Sim names and photos, lmao. I need to find the sims Reddit and play over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:18 PM
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I came to the same conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:05 PM
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Yea, the internet ESPECIALLY REDDIT and TIKTOK are quick to suggest a breakup before suggesting any real advice to solve a problem. I've posted a few of my relationship issues online only to be told to "LEAVE HIM" even after specifying that that was not my goal and that I didn't deem this issue a dealbreaker. I think the issue is those women are possibly traumatized and had negative interactions with men and feel that they should have acted differently in the past and are now projecting in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:48 PM
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Change vow to vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:40 PM
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Yes. And I'd suggest other ways of dating. Everyone knows there are more men on dating apps than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:39 PM
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Translation, I refuse to do mental labor for a man who: a. Is NOT MY man. I will intentionally be intellectually lazy for a man who is not mine. I have to save my energy for people who invest (time, money, energy or care) in me. What do I get out of doing all this work for you? NOTHING. NOTHING IN RETURN (not money, not a grade, not a discount on my rent, nothing, zilch, nada). I'd rather spend that time playing the Sims (which I did) and preparing the home for the return of MY MAN (and did). I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:36 PM
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It's a very simple concept that people say all kinds of things out of desperation. Much like when people have emotional tirades and essentially speak their insecurities out loud. A lot of human insecurities are lies, some are hard truths. I find that talking to purely logical beings is like talking to the Logic Rocks (there are 2 of them) from the Netflix Show "Human Resources". You Logic Rocks lack nuance and basic common sense. Look up "Van the Logic Rock from Human Resources". or r/HumanResou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:22 PM
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It's not even that deep. Y'all are making something out of nothing... Sometimes we just say things out loud (to ourselves) to see what it feels like. For people (notice, I said people, not just women) who are even slightly in tune with their body sometimes you get that pit in your stomach after saying something and it's like "naaah, that doesn't feel right" because it doesn't sit right with your body (something I don't expect "Logical beings" to understand). It's like computing... (Sidebar: thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:09 PM
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I still think y'all are reading so deeply into this for no reason. It's really not that deep. It's very much surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:46 PM
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I agree and some of the female ones are also out of our control. Many can be fixed with makeup or surgery (I'm never getting surgery to alter anything unless my health depends on it).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:45 PM
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Way more than what you’ve mentioned. Whether you get a longer answer or not is solely dependent on whether I can find an already-generated list within the next 2 minutes. This answer requires more energy and diligence than what I am willing to give, at this moment. Also, I'm on my phone... If I can't copy and paste it, sorry kiddo. I'm not going to be typing out the answer for the next 30 minutes, then spending another 15 correcting my typos and editing. Sorry bud, you'll have to research it you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:51 PM
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Whoever downvoted you, they downvoted me as well. Different places, cultures and times come with different dating expectations. For example, people in cities aren't rushing to marry like they do in small towns. In my 20s, none of us, not the men nor the women were rushing to get married or even commit to a relationship. For me and my circles, we grew up in the peak of hustle culture (Gary Vee and Tony Robbins were who the men were focused on being like and I wanted to be a Mogul like Kimora [if …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:33 PM
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How about me, taking on the challenge of becoming a clean and organized woman, when I have been messy for most of my life because he said "I can't marry a messy woman"... (basically stepping up to the challenge of changing instead of leaving because leaving would be easier, but then I'd also lose out on the great man that he is). If he were my son, I wouldn't want him to either...
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 10:17 PM
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I acknowledged that men are shamed into beauty standards... just not as many.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:03 PM
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Okay. Who takes everything literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:53 PM
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That can be true, but I'd add that I probably drew it out longer because I was more choosy in my 30s than when I was young and beautiful and I was vetting, something I didn't do enough in my 20s. [Most] Men weren't quick to offer me commitment in my 20s, but in my 30's they were actively looking for someone who wanted to be a wife, although the number was much fewer (something that doesn't hurt my feelings because I just need 1, I don't need 15 options. Just 2 or 3 options at the getting-to-know…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:52 PM
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No. I added that preface because not everything that's true for ppl overall applies to people of color who are from major cities. It was to offer more context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:43 PM
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Oh to be a man and not be shamed into as many standards of beauty. Must be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:35 PM
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You definitely just made that up. -____-
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:30 PM
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Really?? Do you all not know what sarcasm sounds like? Or frustration? I've said this to myself while being frustrated with dating. I wasn't lying, it was said in jest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:28 PM
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So I think it's important to preface this with my proximity is mostly with Black and Hispanic people. And I am in a major city. In short, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:24 PM
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I agree... besides... you only need one man to agree to the stipulations... Just 1. Also, that's something women have said in jest... out of frustration... they didn't mean it in a literal sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:50 PM
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She's just frustrated for the moment and her self-esteem is temporarily tanking... She just needs a good girl's night out with her less attractive friends, where she knows she'll shine brightly, or maybe she just needs to release that photo she's been sitting on for a year or two, to remind the timeline of who she is. (Said in jest, but based on real events). Being desperate doesn't play in anyone's favor. No one wants someone that no one wants. Idk how to answer that last one... I'm still think…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:44 PM
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You know what's funny about that? Instead of reading it as a typo, I looked up the word, just to make sure it didn't have other meanings (as words sometimes do). "Instructive: Useful or informative" came up and I was like: "Hmm, undesirable men have to settle for useful and informative women... well, that's a new perspective... I can see that... better than a useless woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:36 PM
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If you didn't care then why did you respond? Cared just enough for a response. Let me show you how not to care....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:30 PM
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Aww, man you missed it. ::face palm:: You: I do get women because I’ve molded myself into what they want Her: Then you're not what they want. You: Then why do I get them Do you see it now? Does your molded self see it? Do either of you see it? I hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:26 PM
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I wonder how many men have philosophized or Logicized their way out of p*ssy. I just wonder...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:18 PM
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That being said, when I have decided I wanted a boyfriend, it’s never taken me more than 3 months to find one. In my 20s, this was true, but also I had no standards or expectations. Once I started dating again at 33, it took me 2 years to find my current boyfriend, but I also was dating with standards and intention, in a way that I didn't know about in my 20s because I lacked dating experience (I still don't have a lot of dating experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:11 PM
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I've never seen "instructive" used in this way before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:57 PM
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I'd like to see that as well, as someone who plans on marrying post-wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:50 PM
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That is Polygyny, which is under polygamy. Polyamory is the practice of, or desire for, romantic relationships with more than one partner at the same time, with the informed consent of all partners involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:17 AM
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That's not how lesbianism works... Because if it were that easy, I'd want a wife too and I'd be a lesbian right now, but I'm not attracted to women sexually.... I see why you have fox in your name...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:57 PM
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most women are only interested in a tiny number of men. As many times as I hear this, I never believe it because interest isn't enough to garner commitment from someone... I'm interested in Space, I can guarantee that I'm never going there (unless someone fulfills my dream of spreading my ashes in space). Interest doesn't = action. I'm interested in Michael B. Jordan... not only is that man so far out of my league, I'm not even in his circles, and I'm never getting access unless it's through my …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:52 PM
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Since it seems our family structure, led by feminism and women's preferences, is rapidly moving toward polygamy Wait, since when was "Polygamy" added to the Feminist Agenda? :: blank stare :: Polygamy is the practice of marrying multiple spouses. When a man is married to more than one wife at the same time, it is called polygyny. When a woman is married to more than one husband at the same time, it is called polyandry. I can assure you, most people do not want to share their lover/partner/husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:31 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 a study of the number of studies. I’d also like to add, some of those studies are dated but still available. There’s a popular one regurgitated in Black Red Pill community, when I went back to the original study it was from like 40-50 years ago and it was misquoted. 🙃 I don’t remember the details. Once, I deem a “fact” to be useless or debunked, I mentally discard it. I have too many things to remember as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:32 PM
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I'll be stealing that last line and adding it to my arsenal. Thankies!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:48 PM
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I've never been a beneficiary, but I've been the average at best sidekick of the pretty girls who collect gifts like pokemon. Earth. They're doing it here on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:42 PM
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What is your opinion on Annie ? On Bernie ? Simple, hurt people hurt people. Would you say they are the two sides of the same coin ? Yes What's worse, exploiting someone's feelings for money or for sex ? Exploiting Someone. Full stop. Is there an amount of money at which it becomes understandable/justified ? No. Is there an amount of time without sex that makes it understandable/justifiable ? I don't understand the context of this question. Or just the whole question. Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:39 PM
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Understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:35 PM
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2 things: It's because people assume that any opposing views are just "feelings" and can't be real unless backed by a study. They equate "proof that it exists elsewhere" with "logical and scientific" processes, when in fact THERE'S A STUDY FOR DAMN NEAR EVERYTHING these days. There is a statistic for every argument and opposing every argument. You can't also quote or misquote (spin) a statistic to work for your agenda. I don't know why "feelings" are demonized. Not all feelings are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:00 PM
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Being alone being better than marriage and kids is a concerning symptom of a view that women are just childcare and housework and sex robots. Is there a typo at the beginning of this sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:56 PM
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Being alone being better than marriage and kids is a concerning symptom of a view that women are just childcare and housework and sex robots. Is there a typo at the beginning of this sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:56 PM
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I think instead of encouraging two extremes like pushing women to sleep around or pushing them to marry the first dude who looks at them out of a neurotic fear of dying alone, we should encourage vetting in young women. I completely agree. Do you know when I learned about vetting? In my mid 30's! By then it was too late! Already gave my best years to the wrong man. -___-
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:53 PM
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Everything you said sounds reasonable to me. There's a certain African American Red Pill Guy (who is no longer with us) who actually made fun of African American Women because they have PhD's -__- I think IRL, he experienced 1 or 2 women who happen to have PhD's who had bad attitudes (or even perceived bad attitudes) and he made it unpopular amongst men (young and old) to date women who have advanced degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:15 PM
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The internet. Where all the lonely souls go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:48 PM
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I don't see how a tattoo sleeve implies poor impulse control... I'm not saying you're wrong, just saying I can see it. Most people I have come across with sleeves (millennial here) weren't impulsive about them (so maybe it's an assumption made by the ruling class?), but built them over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:43 PM
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IF, "A Tattoo sleeve = poor impulse control" And, "And kids by multiple men = poor impulse control" Then we can conclude, A Tattoo sleeve = poor impulse control = And kids by multiple men Simple math.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:28 PM
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I like when I see doctors/nurses with sleeves. I like my professionals with real lived-in experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:26 PM
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My bad... that should have been obvious...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:23 PM
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Women who are fat/obese will often will that they are in the same league as men who are fit/muscular. I think this can be blamed on the few, few, Muscular dudes that are open to and/or on rare occassions prefer overweight girls... I know you don't think they exist but I've seen them. Sometimes the woman even gets in shape just by proximity and changing her lifestyle to match his. Other women see that think it's possible for them too... Not me though... I went to the gym (off and on... right now …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:20 PM
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What's an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:56 PM
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IDK what blackpill is. I see I'll be going down that rabbit hole soon enough. So there's Red, Blue, Pink and now Black.... any other colors I should look into?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:55 PM
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volcels Does that stand for Voluntaritly Celibate? I don't know any of the new lingo.... or the old. I'm old, my memory is shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:52 PM
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Lmaoooooooooooooooo A Tattoo sleeve is = to kids by multiple men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:46 PM
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That last line is the part that people tend to leave out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:41 PM
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Yea, forehead kisses are meant to suck the common sense out of our brains, temporarily. If I experience too many forehead kisses over a 6 month period, I'll wake up in month 7 and realize it was all a dream. Forehead kisses are reserved for boyfriends, and even then, should be used sparingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:28 PM
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It's a commom misconception... when all else fails, throw sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:03 PM
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Yea, just pairing based on Lookmatch is an insane concept because so many other factors also matter, if not, matter more. What makes it insane is looks are subjective. As someone who could never meet the standard of beauty (first off, I'm not white), how the hell would I gauge that? I wouldn't even consider...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:58 PM
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I can attest to this... I didn't know I was a low effort girlfriend until I got with a medium effort man. Now, it's me who needs to step up or face the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:52 PM
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They might not need to lie... but they still lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:49 PM
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As they should be... the gym is some people's therapy or place to escape to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:36 PM
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Why would they do that? 🤨 Women already want rights to their bodies, they can’t have it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:40 PM
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You’re welcome. I might be mixing up price points. I think the new kid on the block was planet fitness and they were charging $20 at first and then it would turn into $40. Gym pricing is weird and the members pay different prices) but the point was women felt more comfortable working out with other women when everyone was paying more for their gym experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:38 PM
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Short answer (Report): They lost popularity amongst millennials. They simply couldn’t keep up with the times. Long answer (Rapport): My generation didn’t keep Bally’s or Lucille Robert’s (LR) alive. I remember there was an LR in my current area before I moved here. The women that frequented LR were mainly Gen Xers and up. It was a bold move at the time but it didn’t have longevity as newer gyms with better monthly price points were popping up. Would you rather pay $60+ a month at LR with their o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:29 PM
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Yea Lucille Roberts was a gym for women only. Men at the gym are usually but aren't always respectful of women at the gym. Not in the way that they respect other men at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:22 PM
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I hurt my own feelings by reading it. Becoming a mom seems like a daunting task.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:55 PM
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Because it's easier to gaslight women about their "feelings" about doing it. Did you know housewives in the 1950's were so miserable that Advertising was created to romanticize housework? While they gave women drugs to cope with their miserable lives? Do you know how I learned that? Studying the history of Advertising! The thing I majored in... but i learned this THIS MONTH! WAAAAY AFTER GRADUATION.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:39 PM
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I still haven't written the shopping list for the shopping trip that was supposed to happen this past sunday. Which led to eating out and spending waaaaay more money than planned on Monday and Tuesday. Yesterday, I decided to just go with what's in the fridge but needed to still buy meat. I skipped dinner last night because work was stressful yesterday. You can't skip meals when you have a family. I can do that because it's just me and even that wasn't a healthy idea because I skipped breakfast …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:45 PM
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OMG! Same, I didn't get it until it was me doing to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:40 PM
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Funny thing, this is one of the reasons why: A. The divorce rate is high. B. Why women initiate divorces at 80%. A. People get tired of raising their husbands, among other reasons. B. Women will put forth the effort to legally end a relationship where as men believe "it's cheaper to keeper" legally, but will still start new relationships and families while still married to their now estranged wife... Usually, women who have been separated for some time and then start a new relationship will push…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:39 PM
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Same. Except it was my dad's foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:34 PM
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because he doesn't seem to be able to do it on his own. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:27 PM
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I guess thats what people mean by beating the mental load. The work mothers do is inherently devalued in a sense, even if they work their asses off day by day, much harder than their husbands. They don’t get to rest. I’m still grateful, very much so, for what my father did for me.. but it wasnt nearly as hard as what my mother had to go through Your mom is a saint!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:24 PM
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Oh you're just trolling. Not everyones grandma it 90 years old... some grannies are in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:20 PM
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That's the bane of my existence: taking the meat out of the freezer so it can thaw just in time for dinner that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:14 PM
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I'm happy you're a great parent and you've found ways to make your children self-sufficient, unfortunately there are a lot of helicopter parents who have raised children that don't take care of themselves for whatever reasons. (I'm not a parent by the way). There are a lot of enablers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:10 PM
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As someone who in child-free but in a relationship, after being single for a long time. I've had to re-think how I do things that only benefited me, in my singlehood. I didn't have to do so much before. Now, I have to think about: When am I going grocery shopping? If I go early on saturday morning, I'll beat the crowd, but then I'll be tired from hanging out with the boyfriend who prefers to hang into the wee hours of the night on friday nights. It's cheaper to cook than to buy fast food or outs…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:05 PM
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No, but what do you think toddler's turn into? Kids... Then preteens, Then teens, Then young adults Don't dont just dissapear after turning 5. Then you hope to be a grandma one day and teach your kids and your grandkids how to be cared for properly, instead of their parents just winging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:58 PM
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And that's assuming the baby is well and doesn't have other problems like being pre-mature. My friend has been to the doctor with her children waaaay more with her twins than her 1 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:54 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:04 PM
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Yea... but I kind of knew that might happen, I have 2 other reddit accounts where I can move around freely... Just not on this account. Womp, womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:03 PM
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Hmm. Interesting. I find that just because you can get a man of higher status to sleep with you, it doesn't matter if he's not willing to commit. So many NYC girls get confused because they see Plain Jane with the super good looking, frat guy, on the trajectory to make a good living and he's just effing her. And that's all it is to him, but other women try to emulate that whatever she has or looks like, hoping to attract him away from her. Or in my 'hood where the "hood rich" guy with the nice c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:01 PM
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Sidebar, what does "based" mean? Does fatphobia pilled mean you don't like fat people? You said expectations, do you equate expectations with standards? Hmm. I think I understand why you say expectations, I think it's more flexible than a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:54 PM
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I don't date men solely for their face. Attractiveness yes, but even that's not #1 like it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:52 PM
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Ooh, that last line! I really did come into dating kind of hating it. I stayed in my last relationship too long, because dating has never been fun for me. It's anxiety-inducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:47 PM
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Can you elaborate? Can you offer an example or two?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:44 PM
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This is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:43 PM
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They're a little bit more revere actually, the dad bod is kind of endearing... nevermind that the mom bod actually is a sypmtom of giving birth... who cares that you can bring life into the world. YOU NEED TO LOOK GOOD DOING IT!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:02 PM
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The moment I see "simp", I stop reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:00 PM
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I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:00 PM
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Yea, the american standard honors men with dad bods but shames mom bods. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:59 PM
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okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:56 PM
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Average women is such a large group of women, that there is no way that they think the same. I know because I'm average, we don't all think the same. However, it is astonishing that I've never seen a single 600lber.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:55 PM
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I have posted here so much, that this got deleted in other dating discourse reddits. I think they can see my history of posting here and delete my comments before anyone can answer them. So, I'm back. I just want to know, what does "standards too high" look like in the real world? What is too high of a standard? What makes one's standard too high? I've had low standards before and let me tell ya...0/10, DO NOT RECOMMEND! I was watching something and the guy kept emphasizing that women's standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:51 PM
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Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:34 PM
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Can we go back to when things were said in jest? When talk of the opposite sex didn't have as much weight? When it wasn't hateful at all? Can we go back to not generalizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:29 PM
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I criticized one black man. Correction, a small group of Trump-loving black men. You must be upset because you're one of them...? Idk what your deal is, but direct your vitriol at someone else. I don't deserve it. Your response really has nothing to do with me and shows a lack of comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:27 PM
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Is the guy doing the voice-over the same guy from "Ask an Older Man"? They sound like the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:23 PM
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Still learning the lingo: What is a Chad? I don't want to assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:20 PM
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TLDR
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:56 PM
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Who is this according to? lol. Must be white women preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:54 PM
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What’s wrong with birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:50 PM
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Out of curiosity, why do men not like no fault divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:49 PM
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I’m glad you asked, those were his words not mine. He was a conman. He conned me and others to believe a lot of false things about him. He managed to fool actual Marines into believing he was a marine and started the Brooklyn Marine Cadets, until someone realized he got kicked out of boot camp and stole all the paraphernalia and memorized all the things enough to fool a lot of people. He had a website and everything (I only remember the website because the design of it was 🤢). He loved Trump bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:13 PM
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As a faithful... well clearly, not that faithful... but then again, I always voted democrat... Let's try this again, as a semi-faitful democrat, the left isn't saying anything to sway me to be democrat. It's the right that makes me want to be democrat. I was a registerd Republican (voting democrat) for about 3-4 years (a lot was going on in those years, then I finally ended that relationship). I tried out being an Independent but then I learned the hard way that Independents can't vote in primar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:41 PM
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I wonder why...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:38 PM
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I have a sad example to share: I once lost who I was in a decade long relationship that turned in a situationship and became a Republican to please my then boyfriend. Even though I kept voting democrat. The dumb things we do for obsession, that was NOT LOVE. Other than that time, I could never date a conservative. He was not conservative by the way, he's opportunistic and the election was for Trump and he wanted to capitalize on being the token black man by voting for a racist. It's weird how so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:35 PM
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Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:24 PM
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I'm totally done with hate. All together. I'm done with the online gender war. We need each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:22 PM
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I agree with this. Also, historically speaking as an African American woman, my ancestors always worked, both men and woman. Division of labor was generally equal. It was when we tried to assimilate to the american family standard that men began doing less housework or their housework became less frequent. Also, the addition of Christianity which made men more revered than woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:16 PM
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I'd say I'm centrist and desire centrist men, but that can mean anything as centrist don't agree on all things. I don't have much dating experience but based on online forums and a few dates with conservatives, I can't date conservative men. I just won't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:14 PM
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I find it strange that you believe straight men don’t have male friend circles. In my experience men do a better job of holding onto their friends than women do. In high school women have a million friends by 40 they have 5-6 strong friends they’ve had since high school. My bf has had the same 10 friends since elementary. My friend’s boyfriend is in a men’s club. I have at least 5 other examples. Different generations too. Maybe it’s a cultural difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:46 PM
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So, you just want to complain that women will not bend to your will…? Because that’s what it seems like. Do you want explanations or solutions? Or did you just want to rant/vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:35 PM
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That was funny. I actually made noises laughing at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:54 PM
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That was sweet of you to say “a bit ridiculous” when it’s really ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:52 PM
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I’m trying to be nice and respectful because if I decide to be myself, you’ll likely miss the message and this whole interaction will have been pointless. You sound like you need a big brother to show you the way. I hear your frustration but don’t blame your inability to approach the woman you want, while in the work place, on the me too movement. Also everyone in their right mind knows 1 girl per friend group. I’m tempted to ask you your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:49 PM
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It's not a myth.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:02 PM
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It was created by black people to be able to tell other black or woke (you do not have to be black to be woke) people who were "cool enough to hang in black spaces/company" or "invited to the [proverbial] cookout" because they have empathy for black issues and act accordingly. Once un-woke people started using the word "woke" it stopped making sense because the word has taken on meanings it was never meant for. I hope this has been educational. Quoting myself.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:00 PM
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So far, this is the only usage of "woke" that makes sense. It was created by black people to be able to tell other black or woke (you do not have to be black to be woke) people who were "cool enough to hang in black spaces/company" or "invited to the [proverbial] cookout" because they have empathy for black issues and act accordingly. Once un-woke people started using the word "woke" it stopped making sense because the word has taken on meanings it was never meant for. I hope this has been educa…
/r/MensRights20/03/24 03:57 PM
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I did that a lot with an ex. But he was a bad person to do that for because he'd later financially abuse me. I take accountability though. He was my first boyfriend, I had poor vetting skills and I was inexperienced at dating. You live and you learn. Edit: It wasn't for my ego, he just wanted to look like he was paying.
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