| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How to proceed | Fundamentals | Independent_Ad8822 | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 12:44 AM |
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| 1 | i think she flirts with me even though she has a boyfriendSo basically yeah number one she would probably fuck you if you played your cards right. And number two stay the fuck away from her if she has a boyfriend lol. If this is how she is acting with a boyfriend chances are she is trying to monkey branch and also is not a good women in the first place. She will most likely end things with her boyfriend but don’t be the pos that messed with a girl in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches?Me personally I just had to drill into my head that if I was gonna talk to a girl I was there to actually see if I liked them. Not just there looks. That made it so I was much more likely to naturally and confidently approach women. And I would guess I’ve only probably approached around 100 women in my life. 23 yo btw | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?Either they are men that are just chasing validation and aren’t worth spending your time on anyways, or in some cases if you come on too strong then that can be seen as neediness and a red flag by a guy. Ultimately tho assuming you are decently attractive and not a brat I don’t understand other guys that do this. The whole point is to find a girl that is interested in you back! | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How To Raise Attraction Levels?You are not doing enough things before hand to demonstrate you are a strong masculine man that can make her feel safe. Also you may be doing some things to signal to them that you really want to have sex with them. You almost literally need her to think you could not care less about if she sleeps with you or not. 3rd thing is women hesitate sleeping with a man right away because they don’t want you to see them as a hoe that is easy to get with. If you can convey to them somehow that you don’t th… | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | I got rejected by a girl, but her friends still reach out.Did you ever sleep with this girl? If you did there’s a good chance she told her friends about how good of a job you did and now they are looking to get a taste of it. Crazy to think women would operate like that but they most definitely do | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 01:30 AM |
| 4 | I realized something about more attractive women recently. Huge mindset shift after reviewing my own approaches.This is something where you kinda have to get a really hot girl or two to learn this. But when start hanging out with them during times other than the club/bars you realize how much we as men are being lied to. All that makeup, all that time they spend to present a completely different face at nighttime, vs what it actually is during the day. Once you get there you realize most of the “10s” are not out of your league at all. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Who else has worked long and hard for something thinking it would increase their chances at getting girls only to have fallen short?This will resonate really well with what you are saying. I got a job. Moved out into my own house. I lived in that house for a year and got no women. I was 21 living on my own and having my own house didn’t impress women one bit. For financial reasons moved back into my parents house. While living at my parents I started getting attention from women like crazy. Materialistic things aren’t what impress women. What you present to women on that first impression is what matters. (And to be clear yes… | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Pt.3 tinder-Hanging out with girl tomorrow and she has a boyfriend what to do?Honest advice. Don’t sleep with her for sure. If you really wanna be a bro go through the date/hangout and contact the guy to let him know what’s going and ask him if he wants to catch her in the act. But morally speaking don’t knowingly sleep with another man’s girl. It’s not gonna make you feel good | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Numb to getting girls numbersI myself had to learn to not just go in and try to get their number. You need to build an actual connection with them first and if you really do things right you get them to ask for your number. If/when I ask for hers tho, I always wait until we have either done some smooching, dancing, or even talked about future events that would be fun to do together. Have ofc had a much better success rate this way | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 06:54 AM |
| 27 | What are some signs that you are an attractive man?If you notice yourself being approached by the 5-7s whenever you are out you are plenty attractive enough. The 8-10s girls won’t approach you because they literally do not need to. They constantly have guys coming and talking to them and they basically just wait until they find one they like. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Tips for breaking the touch barrier?I never cold approach a women without shaking their hand. So simple to just ask their name and shake their hand while giving them yours. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired?Being genuinely interested and not needing to play any games | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl called me babeSounds to me like she wants to date you homie 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys start conversations at the gym with pretty women?Seen some good comments in here. Just give her a causal hello or start a light convo, asking about her workouts and what not. This is actually a good situation because #1 you know you can see her again after the first interaction. #2 you can keep building up the rapport with her over several days/weeks. See how interested she is and if she is then obviously move things in the direction you want them to go. And if not then no big deal! | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | What's the fastest you've hooked up with someone ?Probably about 3 hours ish after meeting them at the bar. Based off what I know now I’m willing to bet that women who do this are ovulating and are horny asf 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When Being Charismatic?Seems to me like you already know what actions to take to be that guy. You’re just needing the courage to actually start doing it. Also worth noting that within friend groups whenever there is two guys trying to be the leader, there will be some conflicts. That’s ok as long as you can resolve them the proper way. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkNone of my friends approach. Like literally none of them. They’ll see a pretty girl when we are out and tell me to go talk to her. When I’ve gotten rejected and it’s the end of the night they give me crap about it and I just respond back with “was way closer to getting laid tonight then you ever were” 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 03:51 AM |
| 2 | When do you usually initiate physical touch on a first date?Right when picking them up with a sensual handshake. Also little psychology tip on this, if you can touch someone within the first 30 seconds of meeting them, you significantly increase your chances of them liking you and listening to you. This goes for everyone. Not just women. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How to proceedNo actually the few times I’ve been out with her she maybe had a couple drinks the whole night | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How to proceedAbsolutely. I think you are right on this one sir. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How to proceedI guess I should have been more clear in my message. I’ve dealt with enough women being sweet on me for one night and then moving on. It’s not so much that I’m emotionally devastated that she doesn’t want me. More so that It’s kinda like a fun challenge to see if I can get her to respond in some way, and just looking for advice on that! | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 01:46 AM |
| 11 | How is it that I got most of my best girls while unemployed?Dude similar thing with me. I had my own house for a year. Legit barley got any action. Moved back in with my parents for financial reasons and started getting play like no other. I was confused asf 😂 | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Trying the "come here" routine with women I liked and falling flat.Try “hey could you step over here for a minute please” not in an authoritative tone but a confident one. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 03:28 PM |
| 4 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?One that I learned was just give women strong emotions. Women don’t base emotions off of whether they are good or bad. They base them off of if they are strong or weak. That’s why you see girls with dudes that are dicks. Because they are atleast able to make them feel strong feelings. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 05:27 PM |
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