Indexxak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	From Average to Above Average.... Just Why? I dont know. It might make sense on pragmatic level but I think its difficult to exclude women completely and still have a complete life. Its something I am thinking about recently as well and I also don't have an answer. I think in general for most of us it sounds good on paper but its not really viable.	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/23 05:10 PM
36	From Average to Above Average.... Just Why? I see this argument often and I find it a bit irrelevant cause everybody stating this argument assumess that to rise above the ranks is very costly while staying average or below is free. But it you really think about it being average or below average is costly as f*ck. I would argue much more than trying to succeed. Yes you might have to go to the gym 3 times a week, eath healthy and rest well. Yes you might have to dediceate couple years to study a relevant field to have higher salary than i…	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/23 04:42 PM
6	Looks, or money? I wouldn't take it so seriously. I am 193cm, very muscular, good paid job, social circles, etc and none of my gfs ever wanted kid either. Funny enough when I joke about it and kinda push them around to see how serious they are about it most of them eventually admitted they would probably be up for one. It's just the time is kinda shitty for creating families. The economy is fucked, so are gender roles, girls are told to be independent and strong, the divorce rate is soaring and they might see th…	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/22 08:37 AM
9	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off I honestly don't know how to feel about this. I think setting up of boundaries and leaving when they are crossed is OK. I lost two girls to guys. I did not mateguard in both cases. And in both cases these guys could be considered lower value. I am ok with it but still, the investment is lost. Note i am 193cm, good genetics, high paying job, can deadlift 250kg and run 8miles. First one 3yr ltr with prospects of getting married. Religious, virgin before me, good family, values, etc. I did not know…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/22 11:18 AM
1	Learning to run through Hell Most of us do this at some point. I know Rollo's work by memory and much more and I also ignored some red flags that I should have never let slipped by thinking that I 'know enough' to be able to lead it in non-toxic way. Even tho I never intended to marry that chick or move her in it still backfired on me. We live and learn. Don't beat yourself over it.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/22 09:52 AM
4	Thoughts/examples on Hypergamy this so much. Ex was regularly entertaining guys that wanted to fuck her via daily messages and shit. I was completely unphased for ages until one day I had enough and said I wont tolerate being constantly measured with others forever and asked her at the very least not to start entertaining another one of these orbiters. She laughed it off and said he will never be more than just a friend. At some point the guy was really crossing some boundaries. I communicated it is unpleasant to me. Another …	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/22 10:58 PM
3	Is it really better to be red pilled? oh yeah that makes sense, from my experience these things cannot be negotiated. Once the other person mentions this you pretty much have a knife on your throat and there is nothing you can do. That really sucks, its honestly probably one of my worst fears and reason why I try to absorb as much TRP as possible, hoping it would help me deal with or avoid these scenarios. Kudos that you managed to get through it. Thanks a lot for the answer :)	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/21 12:36 PM
1	Is it really better to be red pilled? can you elaborate on the signs if possible? I am curious. Lot of partners is definitely reason to worry but I dont know if that would be enough for me to disqualify a girl from marriage material, in a way everybody has (usually more than one) red flags.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/21 08:10 AM
45	Is it really better to be red pilled? We had the discussion with a friend recently. Whether it's better to know or not to know. He said something along the lines of "I wouldn't mind not knowing, the problem is that it almost never produces the results you're after." which is true. In fact the only guys that I feel like have the results you would like to have are the ones that had good masculine roles in their life and are doing subconsciously what you could call being red pilled without knowing. Those guys don't need to know because…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/21 09:10 PM
2	I just lost my virginity at 21 years old. Wanted to share my experience and thank you all Easy. her: 'you wear shoe lifts'? him: 'you wear makeup?' problem solved :). edit: ok nvm somebody already mentioned that in a comment. Either way, I dont think its something to be ashamed of, as any random girl will have plenty of these little improvements.	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/21 02:52 PM
3	Massive potential deal-breaker with prospective LTR This dynamic is a bit different with virgin church girls tho. You cannot reasonably expect every religious virgin to spread her legs for you within three dates because she perceives you as alpha or whatever. That being said this applies to a virgin. The fact that she fucked 4 randoms before and is reluctant to do the same with OP is a big yikes.	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/21 09:14 PM
10	Giving up From my personal experience the depression is lifestyle related - a.k.a the concept of keystone habits. Strength training three times a week, clean diet and healthy sleep schedule go a looooooong way when dealing with depression. Your mood, hormone and energy levels stemming from these 3 changes alone will dictate the rest. Add to it some reading 30-60 minutes a day, some meditation, and work a bit on some mini project / goal of yours and youre doing extremely well. Add to it one hobby that does…	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/21 05:14 PM
1	An issue I have with Joe from the podcast I'd say any strength training is good. Whether you're doing powerlifting, bodybuilding, calisthenics, etc... does not matter. I personally tried both iron and calisthenics and I prefer iron. Tho a good gym routine will have aspects of calisthenics like dips and pull ups and a good calisthenics routine will probably include deadlifts and weighted squats cause they are pretty hard to compensate. So ideally both ways should be pretty similar. But if you prefer calisthenics, go for it. It theoretica…	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/21 11:44 AM
3	A talk with my mom last night. I will go ahead and assume you're a girl. Which means we will have a bit of a different POV cause we both see a world and these interactions from a bit of a different angle, but ill try to show you mine. Recently I got into a conversation with a very smart friend of mine and another girl I met that night - aspiring psychologist. I basically always keep ideas from this subredit for myself, so in this case I just proposed that women are better at taking care of young children than men, and therefo…	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/21 07:20 PM
2	A talk with my mom last night. I can tell you what how it went with me me since I believe I was in a very similar spot. Classic story - raised by single mom. Girls were always pretty cruel to me for some reason, despite not being bad looking, and I did not exactly fit in most guys groups either. First noticed something is wrong in high school. I reacted differently to a lot of things than most guys in my class. They were generally more stoic and idgaf while I was super melancholic and overanalyzing and offended all the time, …	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/21 06:39 PM
3	Y'all were right. The red pill was right Super kudos to you for dumping her on the spot tho. This is the best way out.	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/21 02:52 PM
16	A talk with my mom last night. It's a choice to a large degree imo. You might have been raised this way but you still have it in you. It's your nature. It's like if you raise a cat between dogs. It might move slightly differently or even learned how to bark but throw it between cats and the behavior will quickly correct itself. It will be just much more natural and easier for you to be manly despite being conditioned otherwise. Fake it until you make it.	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/21 10:46 AM
9	A talk with my mom last night. It's amazing how many current issues the red pill addresses can be easily solved with just sticking to the traditional gender roles. I'd even say all of them. It's also amazing how even mentioning gender roles in public these days basically gets you burned at stake. Even proposing that women are better at something than man is considered sexist and even relatively intelligent women will fight you tooth and nail despite not being able to come up with a coherent counterargument. Guess that's how A…	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/21 10:41 AM
2	5 year old snow flake LTR - If you've a snowflake, this can help you in the future Its important to keep in mind that every girl with double digit n-count that has history of cheating / lying / trading up was at some point a virgin with 0 notches.	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/21 08:42 PM
4	The result of my 20's with just escorts/prostitutes Honestly the older I get and the more I see the more I consider this to be a perfectly viable option. LTR / dating is relatively expensive even if youre splitting the bill, not to mention time / emotional investment and thats just a fraction of a cost of a marriage. A friend of mine is a senior sw engineer and he singlehandedly built a house and supported his wife carreer as an artist for 12 years and has 3 kids with her. He used to get huge salary and his family swallowed all of it. Recently he…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/21 04:02 PM
2	How to get ripped 101 Regular sex definitely makes you more comfortable, oxytocin-filled, lazier, and releases some of that competition anxiety. But I would say its more often a by-product of complacency, cause in the LTR you will be forced more often to eat shit, drink wine when watching a movie, go to movies during date-night and grab a popcorn, skip gym cause of xyz, have a night out and drink, get invited by her family and overeat, or my favorite - finish her portion cause shes full already, etc etc. I know sever…	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/21 09:21 PM
1	How to get ripped 101 probably not as a decent workout will burn something like 200-400 calories. Maybe a bit more in form of an afterburn effect. Depends what you want. If your goal is to lose weight then your maintanance level (according to any EET online table) - 300 is good starting point. If to add weight maintanance + 300. If you stall for a week increase / decrease cardio or add / substract 100 calores. As OP pointed out try drinking more water and sleeping properly as personally I have no problem eating healt…	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/21 06:09 PM
5	“How Many Girls Have You Slept With?” Be careful with this. I think he has a great point about being vulnerable in terms of approaching and basically risking rejection. Because most guys are not comfortable doing this and it's exactly what you need to get girls. TO put yourself up there and risk rejection. But I don't think it necessarily applies to being brutally honest and upfront about your sexual past or life story and I would be reserved about it and reveal those things slowly if ever. Generally the consensus is to not reveal t…	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/21 08:56 AM
48	Truth Hurts I generally agree but the truth is somewhere in the middle. You usually want to maximize your potential when it comes to reproductive strategy and that includes sexual options. Spinning plates might take a lot of time and energy but I believe it can be a valuable tool to gain experience and learn what you want and how to get it. Having a six pack increases your pool and theoretically makes it easier. Same with money. I see as the ultimate goal of RP is to learn what you want, how to get it and h…	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/21 10:11 PM
3	Just Started, Failing Shit Tests And Not Closing Personally I'd never go for a dinner date. I'd take her to a coffee for 15mins and once I see she meets the criteria I'd switch to activities. You can be super creative here and have a lot of fun. Stuff like pool, darts, bowling, walk in a park or some hike on a later dates. Don't talk about things but do things. Be creative. Women usually fall with how you make them feel rather than what you talk about. Building mutual attraction over a soaghetti or a beer is very difficult. I am sure there's a…	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/21 10:59 AM
1	Physical Appearance Alterations: Cheating to win - Lets discuss If you have the chin tucked back like the guy in the 'hey, leave her alone' meme definitely consider getting a surgery. I don't have and I don't know much about it but I saw the difference it made in a woman who went from 5 to 9 just because of it. I also know couple people who have it and don't do anything about it and it really messes up their sex appeal.	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/21 11:04 AM