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I'd say that depends on where you live and your position in the social hierarchy. A metrosexual bisexual hipster from California will be applauded for his experimentation in life on Instagram but a man or woman stepping out of social norms in some Middle Eastern regions could be killed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:51 PM
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Keep in mind this is my experience with them... I found they are hate filled nasty pieces of work who want nothing more than to criticize and blame me for everything wrong in their lives because they consider "women" a single entity deserving of their misdirected hate and punishment. I wish they truly would just go their own way and leave everyone else alone but they don't, it's a disingenuous statement and an empty threat, as if they have some inherent value that will be lost by their departure…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 11:38 AM
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I don't get jealous at all. If my mistrust is warranted then so is splitting up. I am very observant and a good investigator. If something causes suspicion generally I can confirm or deny whether it is warranted or not. I guess I am not jealous as I an confident in my ability to judge the situation accurately. I dated someone who was insanely jealous and it I found the mistrust of me disgusting. There was nothing I could say to waylay her suspicions because she had been cheated on and she believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:59 PM
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Not a bro I have asked before because I was with a female who had never been with other females before. She was very hesitant, that's how I asked. It's a lot better than "Do you consent to sexual activity?" Think before you speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:12 PM
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You could ask "How are you feeling?" instead. I have never had an issue reading body language and I could verbally describe how I interpreted it to give me the impression of consent. A court of law looks at what a reasonable person would do in that situation. However that said, I think it's safest to confirm verbally in some way that your partner is into it. If they are tearing your clothes off I wouldn't bother asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 07:05 PM
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I could manipulate people into doing what I wanted, but I have morals and I wouldn't do that to people. I have heard so many "lines" and they think they are being funny and original but the fact is we've heard it all before. Their motives tend to come out pretty quickly if they think they are getting somewhere. They can't fake being nice forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:57 PM
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Yeah... that is a problem. It's uncommon for people to be honest nowadays and that is an issue. People are generally hedonistic, uncomfortable truths are often seen as an attack. The truth may hurt, but if you never hear it you can't fix the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:37 PM
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As I said motive plays a part and there's obviously discretion involved. It's nice to buy a person a drink, it's also something rather common, culturally acceptable and even encouraged. Whereas if you looked up their social media account while they were in the toilet so you could misrepresent yourself to appear more likeable and have the same interests as they do when you don't, so you can get laid... that's makes you a manipulative c*nt. It could even be seen as social engineering. It's the kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:33 PM
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Then there's probably something else wrong. If you have the same problem with a lot of people, you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:28 PM
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There's a big difference between genuinely nice people and scumbags pretending to be nice so they can get what they want. One is fraud, the other is not. If you don't understand that... well.. perhaps you are sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:08 PM
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Don't be a cu*t. Don't be manipulative. Don't lie to get what you want. I thought that was self explanatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:07 PM
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Well that's nice to hear. Heh heh heh, yeah it can be a nasty race to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 02:43 PM
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Yeah well I'll tell you this.. your "freedom fighter" is an a$$hole. If you are faking being nice to people "in the dating game" so you can get what you want, you're pretending to be something you are not and you are using people for your own means. If you are doing that, you're not a nice person. Yes, it's common, no that does not change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 02:03 PM
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Omfg.. do you have autism? That would explain why you're not understanding. "Nice person" = Generalisation based upon a number of factors. A category if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:45 PM
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I know someone who is autistic and you wouldn't know it because she is really, really good at "faking it". It guess it's habit for her now. It's not looks or intelligence, that's reductio ad absurdum, to reduce or simplify to the abusrd. If you are a horrible person doesn't matter how good you look, you're going to be kicked to the kerb repeatedly. I am sick of hearing that red pill BS ideology pushed as truth, it's just not. You're doing it again, overly simplifying to the point your statement …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:18 PM
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It all depends on the person. As I said, their motives are what to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 01:51 AM
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Children cannot give informed consent. They are victims. It is known that it can be harmful, it won't be harmful in all cases but it certainly will be in others. The "damage" will depend once again on how they feel. Perhaps later in life they feel used, or that they were robbed of an experience they should have had by a person in authority.. or they may not care at all. The causes vary, they are virtually limitless. Someone going through a marriage breakup, fetish, mental illness, drug abuse.. t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 06:52 PM
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What defines genuinely nice people from those faking it is largely motive. A conversation with a few well placed questions will reveal a person's motives and driving forces. As an example think of a telemarketer or chugger trying to sell you something. They appear nice at first to catch your attention then quickly run into their sales spiel. Fake people are exactly like that, they are emulating a behaviour so they get what they want. A person who is being nice and wants to get to know you is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 10:46 AM
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It's two choices. Both have to choose, both have to want it. If you don't believe it's a choice then you are denying how the brain works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 06:56 AM
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"No", is also a choice. You can choose a woman all you want but if she says no, your "choice" will get you nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:46 PM
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If doosh wants to be taken seriously and believed he should hand himself in for the rapes he committed. I suspect this is all part of his pathetic little game to keep his name in the press.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 02:25 PM
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Observations are not generalisations. Ill tell you something else. "Chad's" are somewhat annoying, but they are like a fly, you swat at them a few times and they leave. "F*ck off dude" is usually all it takes, they move onto some other poor target who tells him the same thing. They are usually a pest, but generally harmless. There's people that are far, far worse. They are cancer. They spread hate and dissent. Everywhere women turn there's people like them, they are hyper critical of every woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 05:46 PM
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Nope. He can't tell me what I am sick of, he isn't there in my life, he has not been there for not for one single second. He is assuming what I am sick of, then blaming me for things I have never done. He even goes as far as to attack my character. He's acting like an angry little teenage boy throwing a temper tantrum. I can tell you I am sick of people like HIM. And you know what else, I don't even have a blog. I am not responsible for what other people blog, they are not linked to me whatsoeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 05:30 PM
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Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 03:43 PM
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Ditto. Or a one night stand (if I was into hookup culture).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 12:19 PM
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It's far from general monogamy. It's almost combining one night stands with monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:57 AM
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I had one declaring her love for me.. for a few days.. then she was onto my ex doing the same.. then onto others.. it's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:53 AM
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Nah, it's a thing. Typically a serial monogamist is always in a relationship. They do things like declare their undying love very quickly, they are incapable of dealing with conflict, struggle or rejection and will often end the relationship with zero feeling and rush off to another new partner if "the going gets tough". They can also be addicted to "new relationship energy" and when that passes, they do too. I have seen some that have a few partners a month. They blast social media about how th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 11:52 AM
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I would not want to date a serial monogamist. That "count" matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:21 AM
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Women get sick of taking their BS. Frankly I find it unlikely any woman with half a brain would date any red pill loser, perhaps we should call it "the red wall", because once they hit it, they are undateable (and often abusers). Wisdom brings contentment, maturity, reflection and contemplation. Life becomes much more pleasant and even enjoyable. There's a lot more value to lose if some life-wrecking turd comes onto the scene. Why would anyone upset their life for some self absorbed, entitled an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 04:42 AM
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I suspect they get so pissy because women get sick of their BS and realise life is better without them.. and they therefore don't stand a chance. So, they pre-reject the women that are more likely to say no to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 04:33 AM
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Men choose where they stick their dick. They are responsible for their actions as well. Your logic is deplorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 03:56 PM
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I don't, and I don't know any women that do. Perhaps you shouldn't generalise all women like that, lest you be treated the same. (ーー;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 01:11 PM
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I know this might be hard for you to believe but masturbation is not sex. Sex includes two or more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 09:00 AM
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Like does attract like and I am sure some are aware of this. However that said, that does not define motive. Some people are career oriented, that's just the way they are. There are potentially endless reasons for being career oriented. I know a lot of people work hard earlier on in life so they can relax later on or spend money on family/travel etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 02:14 PM
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I am a lesbian, I have had men ask but told them where to go. I have been asked and was honest about it. I was never part of the hook up culture and don't have anything to hide from a partner. I suspect this may be different with men, from what I see around here I'd imagine some could get quite jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 06:14 PM
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If you get better quality sleep your life is going to be better. Having someone rolling around and disrupting your sleep will inevitably have a negative effect. Also, have your own life. A marriage or partnership works best if you have your own lives and an intersection between, share your life, not become theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 11:44 AM
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You're twisting it. You angry little boys are the ones that want to have your cake and eat it too. You want all the sex and none of the responsibility, how manly is that. How common and ordinary, can't take responsibility for your own actions. It takes two to have a child, not one. (Unless it's IVF) Both people are responsible. That's common sense.. men are not tripping over into a woman and OOPSIE A BABY. Grow up!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 11:27 AM
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True, true. Not having vaginal sex is the best contraception there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 05:21 AM
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It's amazing that the talking heads of the manosphere support whatever the men want at the cost to women and children. If he wants to abandon the child, all's good. If the wants access to the child, she has to listen. You can't have it both ways, you lot are a pack of rabid hypocrites. Anything to get what you want, perhaps you need to grow up a bit. The adult thing to do is to accept responsibility for your actions. Perhaps people like you are why we have so many single mothers, deadbeats who c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 05:20 AM
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Yet you lot screech like banshees when he wants access and can't get it. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 05:18 AM
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No you didn't give me a perfectly good reason. You keep saying the same old BS and it's not true. Both partners are responsible regardless of their personal qualities or lack thereof. If they both consented they are both responsible. But you can't take that, you have to stroke your bias and make shit up, you're like a flat earther. That's what it comes down to, you are biased and will say anything to attack women and indemnify men. Maybe HE needs to control his dick if he can't be responsible. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:48 PM
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I hereby rename the "manosphere" the "sewersphere".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:41 PM
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You are legally, morally and ethically wrong and repeating yourself like a broken record won't change anything. If you are an adult and of sound mind you are responsible for your own actions, simple as that. Don't come at me with stupidity again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:39 PM
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You're making excuses and blaming the woman. Deadbeat dad or father of the year his responsibilities are the exactly same. If you don't want the responsibility for contraception or what occurs when it fails, keep it in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:29 PM
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It also could have been avoided by him putting a condom on as well. BOTH sexual partners bear responsibility for contraception and what occurs if it fails. If you don't want that responsibility keep it in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:21 PM
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You just reduced around half the world to little more than mindless sex driven automatons that have no responsibility for their own actions. Perhaps you should only speak for yourself, I have met some good men, they don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:15 PM
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Because that's not the way confirmation bias works. From Wikipedia: Confirmation bias, also called confirmatory bias or myside bias, is the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms one's preexisting beliefs or hypotheses. They are going to see what they want to see, the mind is remarkable in it's ability to manipulate perception to suit belief. You will see exactly that in other replies. They will make every excuse to justify the fathers behaviour a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:14 PM
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I was generalising and assuming careers get better, I am in IT so I get less work now unfortunately, but that's due to the sector right now. It's always worth staying in shape. I don't know why they give up, it's not too hard, especially with all the calorie counting apps and information out there. Sharp body, sharp mind. ☺
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 10:39 AM
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Maybe they don't spend any time around anyone over 30, they don't realise what they are missing out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 04:04 AM
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It does get a little harder though, I am about the same age and noticed that those heavy meals sat for just a little longer than they used to, but that won't stop us! I suspect that in the 30s and so on we may just have less time to ourselves, that means less self care and whatnot. For some that means they "blow out", but that's laziness and not age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 04:00 AM
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Well you can be objectified as much as you want. What does it mean, are you f'ing kidding me? It means experiencing an attraction or appreciation of someone not based on how their body looks but instead their personality or other attributes. Perhaps you think everything is all about looks, not everybody thinks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 03:47 AM
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Point being? Generally the perks vanish pretty quickly after the guy realises he won't get anything he wants from me. I wear a rainbow silicone band around my wrist, that tends to knock out most of the benefits straight away. It also goes the other way too, especially when dealing with other women or some cultures that believe women are second class citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:32 PM
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She was toxic that's for sure. All of her negative behaviours seemed to be oriented around her lack of a partner. So it certainly desperation and related issues are certainly not the sole property of men. I suspect it may be more common in men though due to the external pressure for them to achieve a relationship and sexual conquest. But this is just my suspicion. I can't imagine that measuring stick inspires healthy beliefs about ones self.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:03 PM
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Yep, it certainly can. I have had a few lesbians act in that way towards me too. One was really bad and was extremely lecherous towards any female, she tried to cause breakups and said extremely vile things to people. She's easily the most desperate person I have ever seen. Most people seemed to notice it and were very standoffish towards her. Then again, she was abusive and rude so that cost her a lot of friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 05:52 PM
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I consider your persistence without point to be trolling. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 05:28 PM
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So, no males harass lesbians because you don't? I guess there's no famine anywhere either because I have food. You can't offend me nor get me to believe in your deformed version of reality so don't even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 05:21 PM
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What, you think creepy lecherous desperate males don't harass lesbians? I didn't ask for your opinion either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 05:10 PM
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Forget it. Do what, or who, you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 05:07 PM
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If she was lying to me I'd care. Not only that but the prevalence of lying impacts everyone else. I have suffered at the hands of other people because they were lied to and they suspect I am lying to them because of their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 05:02 PM
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I don't want any benefits or perks, I reject them where possible. Not only do I not want anything but accepting it is a hotbed of trouble. All too often when people give something they feel entitled to something in return, even when it was unwanted in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:55 PM
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The question was what do I think.. I am not telling you what to think or care. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:53 PM
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You obviously don't get it. If you don't care about honesty and openness in a relationship then it doesn't matter, you'll lie, they will lie. If you care about honesty and openness and your partner is lying to you then they are being a selfish jerk and betraying someone so they get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:47 PM
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Honesty is important to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:42 PM
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Not lonely men, desperate men. Desperation is repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:32 PM
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Maybe the lying is why so many people won't take no for an answer and mistrust others when turned down. It's as essential to lie as it is to get laid, that is to say.. it is not essential in the slightest. If you have to lie you are doing it wrong. I have lost count of how many times I have told a guy no and that I am a lesbian and he says I am lying. Of course this is also because men like him tell each other online that women say that to "let them down" instead of just saying no. I say no, I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:29 PM
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I see it more like a dog chasing it's tail or barking at the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:07 PM
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Lies are lies, the motive was to deceive. Functionally there's no difference. Your post indicates you may believe that physical aesthetic may make up for such things in the eyes of women, they don't. Nobody likes to be lied to and it's a strong indication of character and integrity (or lack thereof) when someone deceives in an attempt to gain, it's emotional fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 08:04 PM
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It did state that it's being requested, it's not a requirement or a demand. I imagine if the police believe a false allegation was made they will demand the phone be handed over if they believe there is evidence on it pertinent to the investigation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 12:36 PM
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I don't see it as victim blaming as data doesn't have bias. I am sure the data of both phones is requested or perhaps demanded. The data could indicate guilt or innocence. Refusal however imho should not be the sole grounds for cancelling an investigation or be treated as an indication of guilt. Our phones contain a lot of data and a lot of people will refuse purely on those grounds. It's been proven that sentencing is less of a deterrent than the certainly of being caught. Our phones record so …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 10:58 AM
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I don't see a sexist motive behind it. I guess some guys might find it offensive that hugging another male "is gay", I think you should be able to hug or be hugged by whomever, as long as they want to hug you too. I generally don't define something as racist/sexist/discriminatory unless the motive is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 04:05 PM
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Baiting = troll. You're still doing it. You also come across as a bit of a scumbag and I can't be bothered wasting time on the likes of you. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:49 PM
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Now I suspect you are just a troll and out to waste peoples time, perhaps a know it all teenager. I know myself better than you do and you don't know everybody on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 12:15 PM
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I have never really done such things, that's more a male kind of behaviour. I see where you are going with this but as I said, I don't view that as objectification because I know many people look. Objectification is an action or behaviour which reduces a person to something. Eg: If I said that a hot woman was nothing but a hot woman and that she has no other qualities except her physical attributes. One reason advertising comes under fire for this is their use of people as objects. They are util…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 09:26 AM
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I guess one could say that many things are not "bad" until someone acts on it. All women are not sex objects, that is to reduce women to only that. Just the same as all men are not success objects. Perhaps that's just the way you see things. If you start reducing people to attributes like that you are objectifying them and most people don't do that. Just because you're biased that does not mean everybody else is. Most of us try to give people a chance before passing some kind of judgment. You're…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 03:40 PM
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I couldn't agree more. It pre-judges people and removes the ability for a person to prove themselves or even be given a fair go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 11:21 AM
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Not everybody objectifies others, it's a product of bias. If you were bit by a dog you might believe "all dogs bite", but it's just not true. You should check your biases because it's clearly impacting your judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 11:20 AM
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They are reducing the value of a woman to her beauty and youth and telling women to give it up to a man before they lose it. They feel that women have nothing else to offer once we have "expired". It's likely also indicative that they believe women are chattel and that the priorities of males should dominate women's choices in life. It's bs straight out of the 50's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:15 AM
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It's objectification, it's the desire of a person for a particular factor or element. It reduces them to an object. I am not going to even touch on reasons because they are virtually limitless and I fear certain people will get offended if I do. When the objectification is popularised, accepted and common those without those factors may feel "left out" and it is certainly unfortunate. The media could be blamed for popularising such a toxic behaviour and the individual could be blamed for being s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 09:59 AM
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When I say no, I mean it. Never once in my life have I said no and meant yes, nor have I said yes and meant no. It doesn't mean try harder, it doesn't mean ask again, it means NO. But more often than not when I have said no, very clearly, men have challenged it. Demanded I change my mind, demanded I explain.. no means no boys. I am a lesbian but they still don't accept that. She only speaks for herself, she doesn't speak for me or anyone else. NO MEANS NO. Don't assume anything else. If someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:45 PM
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Roleplay comes after consent, it's a crafted fantasy. Consent is not roleplay, it's either given or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 12:42 PM
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I'd like to vote you down for that in a way... but I can't fault you for your experiences. As the saying goes, shit happens, and it seems you had a lot of it. I am a lesbian, as my flair says. We're not all like that, not at all. I think as that type stands out, as do the butch lesbians, we are all tarred with that brush. Also... it is common for men to attempt to convert lesbians. That quickly becomes old. I have had men try to get me into bed since before puberty, even thought I have always be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 06:02 AM
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