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| 4 | 'Passport sisters' | Advice | Individual-Trash-452 | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/05/23 02:05 AM |
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| 1 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.How often do you see average-ugly or obese men rudely decline the advances of women more attractive than them? Every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areAnd what's the point of looking good online if you are unattractive in reality? Those women who use tons of makeup and edit their pictures to the point they look completely unrecognizable might get some ego boost from online attention, but they will still be unattractive to men irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:20 AM |
| 0 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areUnattractive women with all that shit are still unattractive. Makeup, hair weave and stuff like that won't elevate you more than 0.5-1 points. You can't cheat genetics. And men could enhance their appearance too, but most of them just don't give a fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:23 AM |
| 1 | How would you rate your looks?Most of my female friends are between 4 and 6 and based on how men treat them and how they treat me, I'm a 2 max (and I've been actually called a 2, but I've also been called an unfuckable zero). However, I'd rate myself higher and I think most women would also rate me higher. This doesn't mean I wouldn't date 1-2/10 guys, but they're not interested and they're usually meaner to me than average and above average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Are men and women's sexual standards too high because of over stimulation?Not necessarily, but men talk and act very differently with women they deem fuckable. Moderately uattractive women are still women to them, while they interact with ugly women like they interact with other men. For example my friends (more attractive and less attractive) usually get cheek kisses or hugs from guys while I get formal handshakes or high fives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Are men and women's sexual standards too high because of over stimulation?Is moderately unattractive different then ugly? I think it is. Are ugly women sexless? Not necessarily, but in my experience most men don't see them (us) as women. While moderately unattractive women do get sexualized in some situations and they can get sex pretty easily if they want to, truly ugly women usually can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Are men and women's sexual standards too high because of over stimulation?They ignore ugly women but they sleep with moderately unattractive women usually because they're available and they have at least 1-2 desirable traits like overweight but big tiddies or butterface but decent ass. Then they talk shit about these women like they're not even human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?In my expeerince men judge women more harshly. Women usually appreciate the effort other women put in and they compliment each other a lot. There are mean, catty women for sure, but being relatively young and fit I've only got negative feedbacks from older, overweight women for my appearance. Women probably also think I'm ugly like men do, but they usually try to lift me up, while most men I know try to put women down (including myself and my more attractive friends). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Why do we always hear about "unrealistic female beauty standards" when male beauty standards are far more unrealistic?But these things you listed won't make less attractive women wildly attractive. You have to be genetically blessed too. Good bone structure, fat distribution, waist to hip ratio, boob size, butt size (yeah you can work out but if you have a flat ass you will never get a juicy kardashian ass without bbl) are all essential to be considered good-looking (or at least average). If you're born not hot then you'll need excessive plastic surgery to be hot. Almost all celebrities, ifluencers, porn stars,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Never mind the attention-seeking OP. Check out the comment section.Nah, they do it for hot tattooed pierced men. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/08/23 06:53 AM |
| -1 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'Well, gen Z art hoes and social science student SJW-s do love scrawny feminist guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:51 AM |
| 9 | CMV : its much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HMV who matches themA genuine HMV who is ALSO sincere in his relationship with a woman and will genuinely love her, and is successful and mature I don't think you should be worried. These sexworker/influencer women with fake boobs, tons of fillers and veneers you described are having the time of their lives partying in Dubai with billionaires. They'll probably marry someone extremely rich later and live happily ever after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?I'm not from the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?Looks don't really matter, could be any kind of man who's into me and makes me feel desired. Of course there are things I find aesthetically more or less pleasing, but I'm ugly af so I can't afford to be picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 07:42 AM |
| 1 | If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you?Probably 0. Men think I'm ugly (or at least very unattractive/'not their type' if they don't want to offend me). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?I would, but they're all out of my leage lmao (average Joe example 3 is actually a cutie imo). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 11:39 AM |
| 0 | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?Nah, I don't think you're that ugly. If you were truly hideous, no healthy men would ever want to have sex with you. In reality most men have pretty high standards (even the conventionally unattractive neurodivergent virgin ones). It's just an internet myth that they'd fuck anything resembling a woman. For example, I have seen men telling objectively unattractive women that they were pretty, beautiful, and even stunning, and when these women were not within earshot, the same men would tell their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 01:05 PM |
| – | If you aren’t succeeding at dating apps, it’s your faultMaybe you should move. Where I live you'd be in the top 20%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Questions regarding the male gazeThey don't look at me because I'm unattractive. When they unintentionally do, I can see the pure disgust on their faces. Some of them even look terrified when we accidentally make eye contact lmao. Approaching doesn't work when you don't look good. Even ugly men get offended when a not so pretty woman approaches them. Idk, I've never been stared at. I'd be flattered rather than creeped out. If it's 100% sure that they're looking at me cause they think I'm attractive then it wouldn't matter. Vali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: an enthusiastic 3 or a starfish 10?Apparently dove real beauty campaign 3's look like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanYou're clearly not an ugly woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanMen don't go out of their way to be mean or humiliate unattractive women. Are you serious? You've never experinced men mocking and bullying unattractive women just for being unattractive? Not even in high school? Do you have any source that shows that men treat unattractive women any worse than they treat other men? Yes, I'm the fucking source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 08:05 AM |
| 4 | Men don't like "blank"You wish you could filter out crazy bitches based on their tattoos and colorful hair, but in reality the most plain looking average girls are usually the craziest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Ultimate truthLmao sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:34 AM |
| – | Thank you allwatches Supernatural Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Women who say Chad isn’t their type. Yes he is lol, you just over low very minor and superficial differences.Unattractive men are even more shittier cause they're always frustrated. Attractive men just don't give a fuck about unattractive women, but unattractive men hate us passionately lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 03:57 PM |
| – | Why do men think they have low standards?It's an internet myth. Most men who can fuck decent looking women would never fuck anyone below average. I know a lot of guys who are not really good-looking but still moderately successful in dating because they are extroverts and they go out a lot. They are picky af. These desperate guys on the internet who claim they'd fuck any woman they could get would run away screaming if an unattractive woman tried to hit on them. Source: I'm the unattractive woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Are the women here of any particular ideology?Is google not a thing in your country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:10 AM |
| -3 | Are the women here of any particular ideology?Ugly woman here sympathizing with pink pill ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:10 PM |
| 4 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.So a 3 is not unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | One of the worst pieces of advice in dating: have similar interestsBut aren't they connected? Hobbies and interests usually depend on how you've been socialized, your values, your intelligence etc. I don't know if hunting and action movies are your real interests or just examples, but they do tell a lot about your values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 08:57 PM |
| 0 | I’m so tired of posts complaining about womenNowadays all women do at 25 is partying, getting drunk, getting ran through by a bunch of dudes that don't respect them and so on. Not all women, but those who would be good housewifes are usually not hot enough for men. It's your problem that you want a cosmetically enhanced onlyfans model-looking woman wo acts like a housewife in the 50's. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/05/23 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Who do you think has it worse (ugly women vs ugly men)?Lena Dunham was perfectly average when se was younger and even though she is older and overweight now, she's still far from horribly ugly. You men are delusional. Averge woman is not your 18y old blonde cheerleader type with lip fillers and fake boobs from TikTok. It's closer to Lena Dunham. No wonder you think ALL women have it easy when Lena Dunham is your example of the ultimate ugly woman lmao. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/05/23 09:02 AM |
| 3 | CMV : Beauty is relative not subjective, and now we are all compared to the images on our phonesMost men I know can easily get girlfriends who are in their league or even 1-2 levels above them, and they also follow hot insta chicks and porn stars on social media. They compare their girlfriends to those filtered plastic chicks and they talk shit about 'average' girls, mocking them because of some minor flaws, calling barely chubby women fat, slim&fit women with average sized boobs and butt flat. I've witnessed men exchanging nude pictures of their exes and talking horrible things about norm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 05:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Beauty is relative not subjective, and now we are all compared to the images on our phonesI actually can't understand what YOU can't understand, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 01:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Beauty is relative not subjective, and now we are all compared to the images on our phoneshttps://youtu.be/gKr8Ucm5yWY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 01:34 PM |
| 16 | CMV : Beauty is relative not subjective, and now we are all compared to the images on our phonesWomen tend to be on social media moreso and are exposed much more to it and engage with it. They’re more likely to judge men by the standards they see on their phone, not the other men around. That's not true, both genders are equally affected. Where do you think men's unrealistic standards come from? Maybe women use more social media but they mostly follow other women, while most men follow porn stars and hot insta chicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 12:55 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWow. So that's what it's like to be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Women generally want men desired by other womenWhere are these men, seriously? I just love this sub, it's like some of us are living in parallel universes where things are polar opposites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:50 PM |
| – | Women hate to be treated as they treat average menYou missed the point of the video. Yeah, some of these girls are complaining because they don't get the hot girl treatment and I also think that's riduculous, but some of them were badly humiliated and made fun of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | 'Passport sisters'What standards? Nobody ever wanted to have sex with me. 2/10 men I know can easily have at least 4/10 girlfriends. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/05/23 07:51 AM |
| 9 | Who and where are these invisible women?It's true, if you are unattractive but you decide to do your makeup and dress well anyway then you won't be completely invisivble anymore. But the attention you'll get will be negative. Some men will try to humble you and put you in your place because how dare you try to look pretty if you are ugly?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 09:19 AM |
| 14 | Who and where are these invisible women?Do you put yourself in situations where men approach (dating apps, parties, clubs, bars, etc). Are you in social circles with single men? Have you ever approached a guy? Yes. But the thing is, you can exist as an unattractive woman in the dark corner of your room or you can have friends and you can try to go out, but the result is pretty much the same, except nobody will harass you for being ugly in the dark corner of your room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 09:11 AM |
| 17 | Who and where are these invisible women?what factors do you think contributed to them being invisible? Ummm, being unattractive probably? I'm not 100% invisible because I'm a bit too ugly for that but I'd say maybe 99%. I tend to make some men angry solely because I dare to exist and they are triggered that I have the courage to go out to public and they have to look at me or even talk to me in certain situations. However, most men just avoid me which is honestly ok. I used to go out with my friends a lot and I still do sometimes but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 09:06 AM |
| 19 | Who and where are these invisible women?But you keep thinking that the girls on Instagram with 1k+ follower are “average”. This is so true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +Yeah, because every 'ugly woman' is a frumpy feminist crazy cat lady, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:05 PM |
| 13 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +Not even that. Nobody wants to fuck truly ugly women except some creeps who'd also fuck corpses or animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:54 PM |
| -6 | Women pick men*attractive (or at least average but cute) women pick men | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/05/23 12:10 PM |
| 2 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.I've been rated, obviously. But I could figure out on my own that I'm very unattractive. I'd think you'd have to be a literal mutant or horribly disfigured at birth or in a horrible accident to be a "2/10". I don't think so. I see very pretty women getting 4s on truerateme. I also read somwhere that an eastern 5 is a western 7 and I've been hit on twice in my life (idk if they were serious or they were just mocking me, but it doesn't really matter), once by a middle eastern guy and the other tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 04:36 PM |
| 2 | 'Passport sisters'There are worse things than being overweight. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/05/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.I can't afford surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 03:53 PM |
| 4 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Women might have shallow standards too, but they can't be as picky here as men if they want a husband and kids preferably before 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 02:17 PM |
| 31 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Idk, being a western man must suck. Where I live 2/10 guys say things like that all the time and nobody calls them out. Some of them have girlfriends in the 4-5 range who they constantly degrade and talk shit about while they're drooling over instagram models and pornstars. I've never heard women degrade men's looks like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:46 PM |
| 12 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.I had no idea being called mediocre and overweight is actually a compliment. Sorry, english is not my first language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:35 PM |
| 11 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Maybe where you live, but most average and below averege men (older gen Z/younger millenials) I know think they deserve an instagram model and they constantly degrade women who are in their league. Most women I know have serious self-esteem issues because of these men. It's interesting to read about cultural differences though and I am aware that my experince is not universal. I recently saw an overweight, frumpy looking girl from the US who claimed she's a 5-6 and she's regularly hit on by men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 5 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.What does mediocre/overweight mean then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:17 PM |
| 15 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.I won't deny that oblivious people exist, but if you are a truly unattractive woman, men (and some other women) will treat you like a piece of shit and you'll learn at a very young age that you are basically a worthless subhuman. If you have at least a few men simp for you and you've been actually acknowledged as a women and you've been desired at least by a few men, then you're not even unattractive. Maybe those women are unattractive by your standards, but not by other men's standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 01:09 PM |
| 73 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.I constantly see objectively mediocre looking women, often significantly overweight calling themselves beautiful or griping about how they deserve a prince. You don't think they actually mean it, do you? I'm aware I'm a 2/10 max but I also say things like I love myself/I'm beautiful/I deserve someone who treats me well. Why do you hate unattractive women so much who try to love themselves despite their looks? Would it be more acceptable if we'd just constantly weep over how repulsive we are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | 'Passport sisters'What are the right apps? | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/05/23 11:25 AM |
| 2 | 'Passport sisters'Which part exactly? You men have a lot of misconceptions about how online dating works for truly ugly women. Maybe if I'd swipe right all men I could find someone who'd prefer to fuck me instead of a goat, but it's really not the main goal of most unattractive women. We have no intentions hooking up with random men, revealing our disgusting bodies for strangers who would use us and humiliate us. We want genuine connections, we want to feel comfortable, we want to be accepted and respected despit… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/05/23 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Question 4 Women: Do you value the men in your life?Of course. For example I love my dad and I have a few very kind, caring male relatives. Some of my university professors are also supportive and inspiring men and I look up to them. I know a lot of toxic guys and most men are extremely rude to me because I'm ugly, but the ones who treat every women with respect, especially women they're not attracted to deserve to be valued the most imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 10:09 AM |
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