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a lot of them have extreme black pilled views And what's wrong with that? Do you realize that black pill tries to base its worldview on research? So you basically dislike people who believe science and try to base their views on results that science provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 07:44 AM
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2-4 women reproducing per one man Doesn't this sound bad enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:11 AM
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I said be less assuming and be more open minded. Once again I have never seen this being a predictor of success with women. Don’t start calling women ‘ran through’ when you hear she’s got an ex Ok, I won't. I just won't marry a woman with a past that is unacceptable for me. don’t assume because she’s a single mum she must have 6 kids to 6 chads Ok, I don't. I just don't date single mums. Try to pretend women are people too and not walking flesh lights I've never considered women walking fleshlig…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:23 PM
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less assuming and more open minded You mean have zero standards? Well that might help but far as I know being less assuming and more open minded is not a predictor of dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:01 PM
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Nah, it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:42 AM
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It's up to people to love or hate something or someone. As long as no violence is involved but that should be regulated by law. when you start talking shit about Stacy being “ran through” Most of the time it's not talking shit, it's making silent decisions. Also do you think men or anyone should base their decisions on what others would think about them? Because this is what you suggest. I personally agree with OP and I am pretty open about my views and would share them if asked. That didn't sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:40 AM
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A lot of folks here don't have hope. They destroyed it when they joined the red/black pill. Should hold onto some more hopeful ideology even if realistically there is no hope or very little of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:38 PM
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Bars?
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:23 PM
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know my dad struggled SIGNIFICANTLY when my mom made more than him Is that because your mom chose a man who prefers to be a breadwinner? So if men want this to be a societal change Men want different things, probably this change is not among most wanted ones. That's not the point, all I am saying is that if women start selecting men for the amount of work they do around the house, very quickly men will begin to excel at it. I’m saying they have to want it AND feel fulfilled DOING IT. Do you thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:00 AM
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So a woman marries a guy who earns more than her and has better career than her and women like to do that. Why would she be entitled to the same quality of life after divorce as she was during the marriage? I am not talking kids here, they should get child support. Of course if women work less hours than men they marry and have worse careers they have it worse after divorce. One solution for women would be to focus more on work and select guys who are willing to do housework, take paternity leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:06 AM
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It should be up to that woman to decide. If they both consent to dating each other it's none of anyone's business why exactly are they doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:36 AM
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Should overweight men become more attracted to overweight women? I don't think they do. And non overweight men will still have more good looking options available overseas. Also you conveniently chose to ignore entitled and woke parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:31 AM
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Could that be because some women don't work while married? Even some of those without kids. So basically they start to suffer because no one gives them free food and shelter anymore and then they have to find another guy who would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:22 AM
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Just an example for you: my mother is in her sixties now and she's a little bit thinner than she used to be in her thirties. She raised me alone in Russia and she almost never used to the gym. She's just very disciplined with what she eats. Although her wedding dress would probably look ridiculous on her now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:16 AM
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Judges are bound by laws, male judge wouldn't be able to change much.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 06:55 AM
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But the past is the past...
/r/MensRights06/03/23 07:00 AM
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he younger girl, the more normal Finally someone else who noticed that.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:56 PM
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How could she even know that you go for younger women?
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:52 PM
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How did they count? If a man has had sex once in 30 years with an escort, is he having sex? In my experience that's the only way of counting to make this number true. women want sex with 88% of men This conclusion is incorrect anyway. Let's say a man has sex everyday with escorts. He's having lots of sex but women do not want sex with him. Extreme case but still shows how your conclusion is not accurate at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:59 AM
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As you can see in this comment section, some did. Meanwhile mainstream pushes another narrative because it is politically correct to push it, that's why a lot of men didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:14 AM
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So we should start telling men that women do not want sex with most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:04 AM
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It's women have low sex drives and also find most men to be below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:03 AM
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I would say that that's not that common. Plus a guy may end up in friendzone where he would spend time and resources for a girl that has zero romantic interest in him. It is better to devote those time and resources to something more useful. If a guy is young and inexperienced as in the case of OP, friendzone is a much more probable outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:59 AM
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Red pilled men make all kinds of posts here as well as non red pilled men(it is hard to distinguish sometimes). Some make posts about problems others post about other things. Those men that post about problems do not claim slaying at least I've never seen that. I've almost never seen people claiming slaying at all in this sub. I think that some red pilled men can slay because it depends on looks, money, status, education waaaay more than on being whatever-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:34 PM
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The guy literally created thread asking how to get women so he's probably not a huge catch as it is. Or at the very least he is viewed as not a huge catch. Now you make a jump from this guy to all red pilled men posting here while also saying that they all claim success with women. So we can presume nothing as your statement is pretty disconnected with the post, the comment thread and with logic itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:00 PM
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In that case you won't need to create a thread on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:34 AM
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Except being friends with women part. That won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:39 AM
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It may be bad for society as a whole but I as a person can extract some benefit from that. In my opinion some participation in that culture made me more happy person overall and experienced with women. Of course I do understand that not every man has the ability to do so but little can be done here until western society decides to make a change. If it does so then I most likely will reconsider my views.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:34 AM
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It's a very weird feeling to kick a woman out of your place AFTER the deed. Where did I say that? Usually women stayed with me until morning. Or wanted to leave themselves. Or it all happened at her place because she has a cat that needs to be fed. women seem to not like the who hookup culture You can have a hook up only with a woman that wants a hook up too everything else is rape. Have you ever ghosted a woman after sex? Yes I had, usually it meant that either sex was bad or woman was very unp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:12 AM
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Revenge for what? Can you elaborate? You realize how rare it is to be the center of a harem What??? I am married now so no harem, only my wife. If I ever get single I am going do start dating. I know for sure that it is hard to find a woman that I would like to date long term so it will take time. And while that search will take place I am not going to restrict myself not having sex. Where's harem? That is what I have been doing most of my dating life. Then met my wife then got married this summ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:51 AM
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Bicurious is fine I guess. I am not a native speaker but I still think that you know what meant. The best thing in my plans is that women like I described do exist and are worse the search. One of them is my wife but I also have met couple of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:27 AM
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Nope. Just nope. If I ever become single again it's searching for modest woman who's willing to be not so modest with me. And having sex with other women in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:08 AM
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How mentioning decline in looks and SMV(which for women is directly tied to looks) is dehumanizing? Could you please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:52 PM
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Never seen anybody lording a degree over a person. he’ll have to accept one of us will be out of the workforce for a few years Could it be shared?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:54 AM
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Does he have to earn more? Does he have to be more educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:57 AM
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I've seen that story. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:54 AM
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If only small percentage of men is deemed attractive then of course men who are in that percentage can do whatever they want. There would be competition for them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:52 AM
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Some will still work and it might be just enough. Men have built pretty resilient society.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 10:19 AM
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Cool. You're different person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:16 AM
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It hasn't collapsed yet and I am not sure it will.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 07:15 AM
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But you still dated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:55 AM
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We may try but that usually doesn't work. It takes actions of a woman to make a man think and then search for answers. Well some men do that, others never learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:49 AM
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There're tons of free content. Plus it's women who make men go RP not gurus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:39 PM
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Completely normal reaction, I once even finished the date even after girl had started talking about feminism. She was okay with me paying for food though. I was okay with not seeing her again.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:05 AM
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Someone would have to procreate though
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:03 AM
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I would argue that a lot of them did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:17 PM
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Once again some men would get zero success from hundred tries. Or 1-2 successes which is not much better. And those are not like worst 1 percent of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:53 AM
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Have you tried to make a first move? Have you failed for like a hundred times?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:44 AM
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Some men would meet zero women putting in effort in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:44 AM
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I don't have low n-count as a man, but I found out only with experience that I prefer low n-count women after trying to have relationships with different ones. Am I not allowed to develop such preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:35 AM
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You're generalizing heavily. Not all women have thousands of followers on IG, I know couple of good women who have maybe 20 followers and they spend large amounts of time single as far as I know. There are even, believe it or not, women with none or almost none male friends.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 06:39 AM
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Maybe she will lie to him or maybe she's the only woman who has given him attention. Chances are low but she can try nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:27 AM
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Traditional doesn't equal reach. Century ago most couples were traditional and poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:17 AM
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But a porn star can try that. Maybe she will succeed even. Everybody can try to have their cake and eat it. It's not good to complain and demand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:15 AM
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Government implements way more complicated stuff than this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:35 AM
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If you have to explain all that, she's not a good match
/r/MensRights13/12/22 06:32 AM
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Maybe that's because men are being shamed for having such preference Yeah, some are just being emotional and aggressive about that. I am against this personally. I believe that that's an evolutionary response. Probably or probably not. I for example have had enough women and got married. My preferences were formed by my experience with women not by a lack of it. Men don't usually talk about that even with friends. Those who like me are willing to voice there opinion are a minority. And once agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:38 PM
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Men unfortunately can't give birth to people. For now women have to do that. And that used to be women's prime occupation for centuries. Until recently when progress allowed the possibility for women to get into the workforce. That's a fact, it's up to you to find it disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:17 PM
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But it is directly connected to the independence you wrote about. Yes, you don't need a man for protection because you can call the police. You don't need man to build a house because you can hire those men. You don't need a man to provide for your kid because men paid taxes for social services(men pay more than they use, women vice versa). Plus if shit hits the fan like it did Ukraine it's still men who are going to be sent to die. It's useful to keep some men around for that purpose. Women con…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:07 PM
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Actually they do want to do that. I assume this would depend heavily on the country - in poorer country(where I used to live until recent time) it's still fine way to have a date. Also this would depend on how attracted a woman are. A lot of them don't mind doing hookups under right circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:06 AM
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Question is what percentage are married? How stable are their marriages? What were their options for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:55 AM
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Can you maybe state some reasoning behind such opinion? I personally cared about that to find a partner that I consider the best for me. Not for revenge(revenge to whom and for what?), not for circlejerking as I've never really even discussed it with my friends. So you are at least not completely right but I would like to see your reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:43 AM
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You can at least thank men for building civilization where such independence is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:32 AM
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Nah, we do it for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:42 PM
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Couldn't open link because of some security warning. I am sure some of them are married the question is percentage. Also it is not that common for people to be married strictly within occupation. Doctors don't usually marry only doctors. Regular actors and actresses don't usually marry only each other. So this would imply that being a porn actress very much changes choice of possible candidates for a woman. What other profession does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:51 AM
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Let's take an extreme case: how are pornstars doing? They look good usually and of course they have huge counts. I don't see them in happy traditional marriages. But I don't have good statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:48 AM
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When you feel the need to ask it's already bad. But you have most likely been silently judged multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:43 AM
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But what do we know really? Maybe Putin explicitly refused to let the guy go.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 07:29 AM
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Men also work more hours at more demanding jobs usually. Makes sense that they would do less housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:59 AM
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A lot of MGTOW guys would agree with that. Now the problem is actually finding a good partner.(Woman in this case) That might be close to impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:57 AM
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Never viewed it that way. Maybe because I am not racist or sexist so for me race of Morfeus and gender of Trinity did not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:36 AM
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Not really, it's just not an important topic to talk about. 15 years ago(I was a teenager) I used to go to my friends home to download something of that genre just because he had better internet connection at that time. And we used to exchange DVDs at school. Still no correlation with what you described. And vastly different outcomes when it comes to dating. You invented an image of a person in your head and now claim that people like that are widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:13 AM
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I have seen stuff like that, yes, but that's stating of facts.(I am myself not sure whether they are true) But how did you jump from that to "vilifying women for seeking treatment"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:17 PM
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Who's vilifying women for seeking treatment? I have seen literally zero people supporting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:38 PM
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All my friends do watch porn and none of them fits your description.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:37 PM
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Question is if it is even good with kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:38 AM
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Women haven't had careers for centuries. Why are they starting now lmao. Can we apply same logic here? Should we place women back in the kitchen? What you are doing is placing your gendered expectations on men in 2022. Don't do that please. Especially if you do consider yourself a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:51 PM
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Haven't seen any of those answers unfortunately. So if it doesn't work for you why should it work for men? Why should men even do it? They have no obligation for that and probably they have their reasons. Once again, it's 2022. Walk up to a man, talk to him, communicate your desires. Ask him out for a coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:25 PM
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What if he just has looks and enough money and is sociable and therefore able to attract women? What if he doesn't want to commit at this period of life? What if he is young and prefers casual dating? Man has to have something going on for him in order to be able to become a player. Such man might be a good source of information about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:21 PM
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As a feminist you have zero problems approaching a guy yourself. Why won't you do that? It will solve your problem instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:06 PM
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They should learn how to speak and stop communicating via ambiguous signals .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:05 PM
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It's 2022 and any woman can walk up to a cute guy and ask him out herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:03 PM
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It correlates heavily with a lot of bad things. The number itself is not really a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:43 AM
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Why would we change it? Those concerns are valid and it helps to filter out certain people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:42 AM
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Player is by definition the guy who can get both sex and/or relationships easily. So you could block him but he would find success with somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:33 AM
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Avoiding is one thing. There are women that just repel men with their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:53 AM
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Actually men who are players know best what women want because they actually date them and date multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:50 AM
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men view casual sex as more valuable than relationships They don't. For most men relationships and especially marriage are a big thing. I actually haven't yet heard that relationships are not very valuable from any man. You can hear that a man has given up on relationships, or that relationships are not worth it, or that he is not looking for them atm. But never that relationships are of little value. women view it the other way around This also doesn't seem like the truth. Both things are very …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:29 PM
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Yeah, this or less attraction. This would mean that either you are right in your analogy about contracts or I am and the woman is just less sexually attracted to the guy who she makes wait for sex. And in any case nobody cares about what the relationships guy wants or likes. No matter who is right interests of the guy who waits are not taken into consideration. In this case he might want to feel as wanted and desired as "less important" guy. His interest in this case might be to feel desired by …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:57 PM
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Nice to hear man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:06 AM
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At some point odds become too bad. Try very hard and believe that you're invincible then take a pistol and shoot yourself in the head. You will die no matter how much you believe in yourself. Lying attracts liars, cheating attracts cheaters. Just world, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:40 AM
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Yeah, admitting that it's just disgusting is not politically correct these days
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:36 AM
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When you get older even those options become worse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:33 AM
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Yeah, that's kind of big thing
/r/MensRights30/11/22 07:24 AM
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I just don't assume that I would happen to be some super athlete woman.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 07:00 AM
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Well I think the same about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:56 AM
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Example: I have had casual sex with some women in my life with nearly zero investment or with very little investment. 100 years ago it wouldn't be possible because everybody would have been married early or those women would have been waiting for marriage to have sex. So changes in society have brought new opportunities in my dating life and indeed in romantic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:51 PM
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Men and women are just shamed in different situations but amount of shaming is more or less the same. No, I am actually not taking it personally. I think that at this point I have almost zero reaction to shaming. But I think that reacting to shaming is one of the big problems that a man can have especially in dating. In the comment above I just mentioned shaming in response to your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:13 PM
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In practical sense if a man can leave for younger/better looking woman his looks are fine whatever his aging process is. many women marry men for reasons other than their looks So even if a man and a woman age at the same rate for a woman it would mean a bigger detriment. Although in my experience some men age extremely well because they become looking more masculine with age. Also maybe thicker skin and lesser percentage of fat on average would help men to resist aging longer. But that's just m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:52 PM
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Yeah, this or less attraction. And in any case nobody cares about what the relationships guy wants or likes. In this case he might want to feel as wanted and desired as "less important" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:22 PM
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Men are getting shamed for various different reasons. But you wanted same standards, right? Mine are same in this case. The better I consider the girl the less she waits for anything from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:17 PM
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I am applying same standard for myself: I don't make a woman wait if she is fit for being a girlfriend. This is also your personal preference. It seems like it is a preference of large enough group of men that those men are being shamed for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:00 PM
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Maybe she feels a lot of attraction particularly to me. Maybe I am her first. Or a second or something like that so she just doesn't sleep with a lot of people. What makes you so special that you're the exception? What if I want to be some kind of exception for a woman that I want to have long relationships or marriage with? And I am quite fine guy you know, so I have been that exception couple of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:23 AM
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I am fine if she needs time. I am not fine if I am the only one who she needs time with. I wrote basically the same thing in the previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:46 AM
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woman wants casual sex so will pay that price Exactly and if she doesn't want to pay same price for another then maybe she is less attracted to him. The woman is thinking about herself, and how she can benefit the most If a man also thinks about himself and how he can benefit the most should he avoid such woman? Should we maybe think about the other person when trying to build relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:39 AM
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First, what about "higher cost of sleeping around"? That's your words. She is fine with the cost for one man, she is not fine with it for another. Second, what about HIS benefits? From a man's point of view who of those men had benefited more? The one who have had sex quickly or the one who had to wait and invest in a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:23 AM
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You stop speaking for all men We don't have animalistic urges like y'all do. Speaking for all women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:15 AM
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We ideally want a girl who sleeps with us right away but hasn't done that for a bunch of other dudes. Or a girl who makes us wait but has done so for everybody else. What's so difficult about the concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:12 AM
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So if she gave it quick to some other guy then she valued that guy more. Because his value outweighed that "higher cost to sleeping around".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:10 AM
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I am quite happy in my skin even with all the downsides. I am taller and stronger and more aggressive than I would be as a woman and I am better with mechanics and driving and various other stuff. Of course I still think that mens rights issues must be fixed.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 08:06 AM
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Well if the guy left for a better looking and/or younger woman, then he probably looked good enough himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:40 AM
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Nah, not necessarily. A lot of women are not that horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:38 AM
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Short, not overweight women also want tall men. Because of this I would say that this assumption is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:15 AM
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One of the best things you can do as male in your teens is to learn how to not care about what people say. Respect yourself, develop, have boundaries and move forward.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:57 AM
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the ideology is exactly the same No it is not. rape is rarely if ever punished It is a crime everywhere, it is punished according to the criminal law. That “boys will boys” is true statement that has nothing to do with rape. women are attacked for being single mothers How exactly are they being attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:55 PM
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If this was about STDs then men would be subjugated and punished for sex just as much as women. it's that and trying to make families stronger and society more stable. What you don’t understand is that the extreme oppression faced by women in the Middle East is incredibly recent Okay, I can agree that situation there is pretty fucked up. Situation in the west is very different though. Also situation in the middle east has little to do with the specific question of treating promiscuous women with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:43 PM
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What if the concept of “sexual purity” has been used to be more safe from STIs? Or to make sure that your kids are actually yours? There have been no paternity tests you know. Also at those times sex was kind of big deal - no contraception and bad medicine, sex life of people had to be controlled somehow. Now when we have contraception and medicine you can be free all you want. What if all that uncivilized shit in the middle east developed as an attempt to organize a society during pretty tough …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:52 PM
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You're not in the bottom as long as you're not fat, don't have kids and are young enough. Those are things that would place you at the bottom. But being tall would prevent you from being at the top. Is it this fact that you are unhappy about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:23 PM
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There are different men, some are aggressive and very excessively loud about their preferences, others keep quiet about them. I would say that most of those jokes appeared because men have been trying to justify their instinctual dislike of promiscuous women while being not too smart and aggressive. That’s not how men generally behave though, they usually act coercive and sexually aggressive. Yeah, men are pretty aggressive by default. Civilization has done a lot to keep men's aggression in chec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:16 PM
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It is not cool to shame men into not taking into account certain pretty important characteristics of women when looking for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:27 PM
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pressuring What if it's not pressuring? What if it's politely asking? What if that woman looks for sex herself? It makes sense to for a man to want to have sex with different women. It also makes sense to filter only some of those women for commitment. It costs nothing to not be a hypocrite You can call me whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:22 PM
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Depends on various things. It is subjective measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:18 PM
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I have found what I wanted to find, thanks. I've had good dating life for the last 10 years and got married recently. slutty yet celibate wife Yes, women who are good in bed yet didn't went through a football team do exist. Of course it is harder to find them as you age and it's not even because they keep fucking different men, it's because they are getting married or stay in long relationships and rarely are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:15 PM
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Aaaand shaming continues. Okay, I am the most insecure person in the world. You guessed it, you won! Now what? My preferences stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:10 PM
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I have been just making fun of popular narrative. The dating market overall is not too good, but I am doing quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:55 PM
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I repeat that that word had been first used by another commenter. I would say "promiscuous woman" or "a woman that has had a lot of casual sex". Not just "had sex in the past". I don't really use that word just thought that it is better to use the same terminology when replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:32 PM
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Yeah, that's what a lot of men do. It's up to you to do it or not. It's then up to men to judge you or not. Yeah, it's fun to have quick sex with a girl from tinder. It's not fun to commit to a girl if you know that she had done a lot of that stuff before. These two things are true for a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:30 PM
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Boys will be boys and can pressure women to have sex all they want Never said that. A rape is a rape. moralizing around female sexual experience Females may have any experiences they want. From being celibate to doing porn. I am just defending men's right to dislike certain of those experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:15 PM
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No, a woman who has had sex before is definitely not automatically a slut. Slut is not even a word that I would use, but a commenter to whom I replied did that. Edit: how did you even made that implication out of my comment?!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:05 PM
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But that's what we're trying to do in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:55 AM
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So what? It feels icky for a lot of men whatever the reasons were. Can women understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:54 AM
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Let me rephrase: we don't fancy dating or marring sluts, even those who claim that they have changed. Even if they did change it just doesn't feel right. And if they didn't change...well we don't want to dealt with that either. There are reasons for such behavior such as rational reasons(there are studies and various statistics), irrational ones(feeling of disgust or ego) or developed during evolution(fear that you will raise a child that is not yours). All of those reason are valid so stop your…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:48 AM
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Needing a man for protection kind of lessens degree of strength and independence in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:02 AM
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It means that in the age of strong and independent women commenter above says that a woman would not initiate a date because she needs protection. At the point when no kids are in a perspective. Which sounds ridiculous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:58 AM
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You may become too cynical. You also may draw wrong conclusions out of consumed information which may lead to anger and frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:46 AM
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Well, either may be possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:31 AM
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being able to support themselves and survive without a man in the household Which happened only because of advances in medicine and technology. commonplace for most grown men for much of history This is what strength and independence mean. And assigning different meanings to it based on gender is not the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:30 AM
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women don't desire men as much as men desire them This is the truth and that's what I was referring to in my original comment when I mentioned that sex is of less importance for women.(Doesn't mean that it's not important or doesn't matter) We can discuss reasons behind that but that's different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:28 AM
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But they're supposed to be as strong and capable in dealing with it as men are...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:23 AM
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Maybe stop expecting women to treat you like your mommy and doing everything you want. I don't actually. They can do whatever they want. How independent can you be with 50% of another man's DNA on your gut ? So maybe this myth of strength and independence has to go? Or it has to come with this kind of clarification. Be accountable, you wanted to fuck so now be a dad too. She wanted to fuck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:08 PM
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Oooooh. Sorry I have just done too much work to read properly. Then that's bad. But you know there are some guys who date even porn stars so maybe he's ok with it. Edit: I know a guy who forgave actual cheating so this case is nothing special for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:41 PM
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It's either women are strong and independent in 2022 or women need protection. You can pick one. Since mainstream pushes hard the first option it must be true, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:30 PM
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I think I am average, definitely not huge, I actually don't remember exact dimensions since I measure it last time when I was a teen. But now as I am 31 years old I became 101% confident in my own attractiveness because this has been positively reinforced by various women. At this point I think that it is woman's problem if she doesn't like my dick - I will find another who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:10 PM
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She told it was because of infection - so it's kind of understandable. Even for RP guy like me. But I usually don't like mere fact of my woman doing ons before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:05 PM
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they just dont express it so much. So maybe they need it less
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:00 PM
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I do believe most men have higher sex drives due to biology That is what I was referring to. So you have basically just agreed with me and then proceeded to explain why women don't desire men as much as men desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:47 PM
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One of my exes used to watch videos of one of those. I found the channel on youtube out of interest and looked through some of the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:45 PM
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You have just accepted that women do indeed lose their looks, and in order to keep them they need to take care of themselves. And to take good care about herself a woman would need time and money, which not everyone has. Now to my experience even women who do care about themselves will age by 30 - facial skin, wrinkles around eyes and by 30 even small chest will become just a little bit saggy. So while being still attractive a woman will lose at least something. Maybe you know any attractive 30 …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:44 PM
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Feeling save is resource? I am not native speaker too so I may be bad at explaining things in english. I felt like some girls liked the fact that I am around them when they go out or are in public. Maybe calling it a resource is not a right word but that was one the things that they wanted. Regarding orgasms on one side you a man who's orgasm is a pretty easy thing to achieve. On the other side you have a woman who's orgasm is not only harder to achieve but also very different with different wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:08 PM
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In your original coment you say women get resources, so i had need to say it. Oh, forgot about that. Among women that I've dealt with most could support themselves. Even in that case my help with certain things, feeling safe and financial security that I could provide definitely had been valued by them. So when I say that women are after resources I do not mean that they would starve without a man. orgasm gap Also consequences of sex gap(people's behavior have not yet adopted to the fact that co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:29 PM
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femininity ”coaches”. Those teach how to better be a queen which is not really a self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:54 PM
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I haven't done any assumptions about you specifically. It's just that on average a guy would want to fuck anything that moves and is available while for woman it's way more complicated as in the case that you described. all women i know can provide for themself Sounds good but has little to do with with the what we've been discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:45 PM
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I know many women that say sex is one of the most important things I think this is true for women as well. I would just argue that it is higher on the list of important things for men than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:46 AM
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Well you sure have just added something more real with that comment. Next...I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:15 AM
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Based on my life experience and based on sources that claim that women are way less horny on average than men. Make female profile on tinder and say that you after sex then make male profile and state the same. Then compare amount of interest expressed by the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:32 AM
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Attention, validation, chance to get one of those "some" men. Getting some resources in the process. Getting sex.(it is less important for women but still) And of course in the process of all that getting pumped and dumped, acquiring trauma, sometimes acquiring kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:12 AM
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If this was the truth then short guys wouldn't have had problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:03 AM
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Well I have different experience. On the other hand, do you know any unattractive 30 y.o. women who looked significantly better at 25 or maybe at 20? Maybe you know any attractive 30 y.o. women who looked significantly worse at 25 or at 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:57 AM
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It has A LOT to do with looks. If a woman is beautiful at 30 she most likely(except probably for cases when she lost a lot of weight or fixed some health problems) used to be even more beautiful at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:12 PM
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Funny thing is that actually dangerous men are still going to get involved with them.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 07:44 AM
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What if I say you that you don't have to justify what you want by any politically-correct means? If you want relationships where you and your partner can sleep only with other women - go for it. If you want relationships that are open only for you - try to get those. I am not saying that you would be able to but you can certainly try. No need trying to convince other people on reddit that you are a good or nice guy or anything really. It's 2022 you are entitled to try and find exactly the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:16 AM
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They're just following political mainstream, it's profitable for company as a whole. Most men are not even going to notice that. Like I didn't even know about the date of men's day until I read this post.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 06:55 AM
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Men do it all the time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:57 AM
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Usually painting herself in too good light should be taken with a grain of suspicion, but there's little reason for a woman to come up with stories about parties, exes, hook ups etc, so it is seems sensible to trust those. You're heavily generalizing with the intent of portraying men negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:40 AM
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On the other hand maybe she doesn't know yet if this particular guy is going to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:51 AM
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Yeah, I am used to be surprised by that too when a girl who had a huge dildo in her room still invited me regularly. Well I guess that dildo couldn't choke her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:49 AM
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A lot of women would tell it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:44 AM
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That's the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:45 AM
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Not directly I believe
/r/MensRights11/11/22 09:43 AM
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If for example there are 10000 men and 10000 women on an app then every man likes every woman, that would mean every woman would receive 10000 likes. But that wouldn't mean that every woman has 10000 men to choose from. I know that there are more women than men but that's just to show the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:46 AM
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Do you realize that each of those 10000 likes also liked 10000 other profiles?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:26 AM
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That masculine response is useless against state.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 12:56 PM
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Hey, man! I'm russian, it's pretty bad there too. Also zero sense arguing with women about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:12 PM
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they try to get you to chase them Women sometimes willingly chase men irrespective of how RP or not they are. how much they invest in you up front Once again, not all men investing a lot of resources into every girl they date. And for instance even if a girl can tell that I am RP I still have some looks, well paying job, some ambition, decent height etc. And I actually invest in women that pass my RP criteria, that's why I got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:44 AM
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Actually at no point I was talking about myself or my behavior with women. I had several relationships, several dozens of hookups from tinder or from bars in Russia, been to strip bars, paid for sex multiple times. This summer I got married to a woman that I chose to marry. After all that I am very much RP and I have more empathy towards men being suspicious and angry than towards women complaining about those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:32 PM
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I mean that dating world is not too kind for men, men are often told invalid information about women, relationships and marriage, women's intentions often not good too. Men's interests are almost never taken into account by non RP society. That's lot of reasons to become suspicious, paranoid and angry and it's pretty understandable. Although I guess that being frustrated by men being like that is fine also.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:50 PM
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She doesn't complain about men at large, only Redpilled Men. Who it looks like constitute a good amount of her dating experience. She's not expecting any individual man to change himself To be fair I think that it was mentioned in one of the replies to my first comment. That does not make her a slut, or a golddigger, or any other such thing that she's been called in this process. Maybe she has shown some behavior pointing to that we don't know. All she said was that this fact is tiring. What we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:26 PM
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She complains about men's behavior that may in fact be pretty rational. And I just commented then about said rationality behind men's attitude. She may complain but that doesn't mean that men would benefit from changing their behavior. At least that's what I believe. Yes, RP does mean that women with good motives are going to have harder times convincing men in those motives and that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:16 AM
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His refusal is definitely not her problem. Her problem is expecting him to change his attitude for her. It is her problem because she is complaining here about it. Now, maybe that man is also complaining about women somewhere on reddit then he has a problem too and needs to change his attitude. But if he accepts the fact that he is going to have very few women being able to break through his defences and he is fine with being alone for at least some time then this situation is not his problem in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:03 AM
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The men are way too suspicious, paranoid, angry. That's her problem, not problem of those said men. She is not forced to deal with them if it is in purely in context of romantic relashionships. you're trying to argue that a person has control over how others treat them No I am absolutely not. Maybe I am bad at formulating my position though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:39 AM
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That commenter above thinks that her problem with how men treat her should be those men's problem for some strange reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:22 AM
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What exactly am I supposed to know if a woman does that? I don't understand you. P.S. Слово "ром" и слово "смерть" для вас означают одно и тоже =D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:20 AM
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Well maybe all women with whom someone is planning to be romantically involved but nobody forces women to get involved with RP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:17 AM
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Are you calling people assholes because they behave in certain way for their own protection and well-being? They are not obligated to treat that woman above in a way she likes. Maybe she herself needs to woman up and be a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:57 AM
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Isn’t that something that you see, even when not experienced. No it definitely is not. I’d get it if you’ve been sheltered your whole life More like if women haven't had interest in you your whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:52 AM
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And why would you even marry someone who is not attracted to you? Sometimes if don't have enough experience you can't tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:42 AM
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The men are way too suspicious, paranoid, angry. What if there is a reason for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:41 AM
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I am personally just not a fun of women with significant pasts. Chose to marry a virgin(we didn't wait until marriage and dated for several years though), and am pretty happy with my marriage. Looks like she is quite happy as well. Your logic looks fine but there are men with different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:40 PM
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Red Pill is not about women(Imagine, not everything in this world has to be about women!). It is about helping men. It is then up to a woman to decide if she wants to have relationships with a Red Pill man, although I doubt that men are just going around announcing that they're RP. Maybe RP man looks good or maybe he is tall or earns a lot of money. Pretty much all the regular reasons. Edit: I am a very RP leaning guy had little problems with women. Had quite a lot of girlfriends, recently marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:44 AM
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He is a guy so kids probably won't affect him that much. If he already has height and looks(at least he believes so) it is very possible to preserve them until 30 while learning how to interact with women. I am not suggesting him to go monk either just saying that things will get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:56 AM
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She realized that she had been used And he realized that her photos were photoshopped plus she was horrible in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:30 AM
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Revenge for what exactly???
/r/MensRights02/11/22 06:38 AM
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You will get better with age. By 30 you are going to be drowning in pussy because SA can go away while your height, appearance and shape are going to stay with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:26 AM
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SHE will not be the one getting dumped in this situation If she still would want to continue relationships and I would not, then she will indeed be the one getting dumped. And if she would not then it will be a mutual break up. if you explained ahead of time that it's totally okay to intentionally mislead her with your actions Who explains that ahead of time?! The whole point of misleading is to not do that. she's the one dodging the bullet here Maybe she is but what's the difference for me? I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:36 AM
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You are a big exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:04 PM
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they just roll on into their 30s looking hot as ever Most women peak around 20, they sure can be hot at 30 but less hot that they used to be. It's not like you dipping into the over 30 pool is lowering the difficulty setting. It is EXACTLY like it. Been there done that, can compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:02 PM
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I can be an adult and dislike girls banging other dudes. Also as an adult I can arrange my personal life according to my own rules. And as an adult I have no obligation to continue relationships upon finding out something I dislike be it bad cooking, bad taste in music, or banging other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:59 AM
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At which point you can break up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:52 AM
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I haven't even heard about Tom Brady
/r/MensRights26/10/22 10:25 AM
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Does she do it out of her own free will? Is she forced in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:19 PM
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Reality does not care about your soul.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:50 AM
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I would say that it ruins women's mental health even more. Narcissism, solipsism, getting addicted to attention etc. Can you even find woman on tinder without mental issues?!
/r/MensRights24/10/22 07:48 AM
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If you were good at sex, you'd be having it. That may be true although I doubt it. But women on the other hand are having sex EVEN if they are bad at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:26 AM
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All virgin women are looking for virgin men. Not true. Source - my own experience with couple of virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:11 AM
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A lot of times - yes. All internet articles tell them to not tell a man they want relationships/marriage because then they would appear desperate and that would also give a man some bargaining power. I have personally experienced that couple of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:09 AM
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Reported this gay-hating POS
/r/MensRights18/10/22 02:05 PM
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Just leave us be then. We're doing quite alright.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 01:48 PM
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Even if that chad is Henry himself
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:57 AM
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Okay, I agree with you that at some point man might have to accept a woman with a past or be alone. But what if he is actually young enough and attractive enough to find one? In this case having this standard is perfectly reasonable. I am not sure that some insecurities are even possible to get rid completely of so instead of fighting with them it might be better to not provoke them by being with the right person. Or maybe even consider being alone as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:23 PM
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Is that because a man who acts secure will help you to better live with your own insecurities?=)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:03 PM
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But you didn't answer my question. What is better right here and now? Or should we forbid dating for insecure men?(what about insecure women then?) Maybe in future when I "get over my insecurities" I will consider other women, but until then I won't. P.S. I am actually married so I definitely don't consider any other women but I just wanted to speak on behalf of men seeking a life partner who may have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:58 PM
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Let's say I want a virgin gf/wife because I am insecure. Is better for me to actually find one that will make me feel secure or make my insecurities worth by being with a woman with rich past?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:18 PM
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But they will sleep with CERTAIN men with ego boost. Every man wants to be exactly that kind of man sleeping with whom can boost at least some woman's ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:14 AM
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hey aren't necessarily because of High N. But there IS correlation. What about the women who won't do certain sexual things because of unsavory and nonconsensual things that happened to them while they were minors? First it's more understandable and safer for a mans ego(and it's perfectly fine to have one). Second man can still refuse dating them for this reason(not because they were assaulted but because man may want certain stuff in bed). I personally didn't have to deal with many problems rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:05 PM
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I am a man and from my experience of dealing with women the biggest consequence are mental problems and trauma. Sometimes putting responsibility on current partner for what past partners did. I personally wouldn't have cared about this if hadn't seen strong correlation between past and being able to be a good partner for relationships/marriage(with me at least, I can't speak for all men).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:29 PM
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You can hide it either if you are really good actress or if a man is really inexperienced/dumb or if he doesn't care of course. Plus lying is not a good foundation to build relationships on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:23 PM
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I don't know about all guys, but I have had success with various women high "count" included then married a woman who was virgin prior to our relationships. So I am living example that contradicts you. Also these are my best and by far happiest relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:21 PM
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Oh, no. There IS reason. They are dying so that Putin, his friends and relatives would have more money and power for longer time and so that they would never have to face consequences for their crimes.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 08:11 AM
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