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But if you view limiting your partners freedom to have sex with other people as controlling, how is one gender more controlling than zero genders? The way you're talking about all this makes it sound like you're an immature boy who thinks that it's indirectly gay/gross/icky/etc to have sex with a woman that has had other penises in her. You're limiting her because of your immaturity. You're afraid she'll go elsewhere if she ever has sex with another man. You have so little self-confidence or sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:50 PM
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Your post certainly does match your name.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:36 PM
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Bless your heart. Was talking about men and you had to both sides women in the process. Please kindly fuck off into my block list.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:06 PM
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Rural women often vote Republican because they’re coerced into it. Also some of them are racist, misogynistic, homophobic, and so on. Those women agree with the Republican Party platform. Just because someone is a woman doesn’t mean they aren’t a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:27 PM
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If you want to be an LBH (loser back home) no one here is going to stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:33 PM
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The amount of time it would take to counter what you said is not worth my time unless you're willing to pay me $200/hr for my services.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:30 PM
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Just the other day my son broke down in tears in the car after I spelt out the reasons he won't ever be a gamer or YouTube personality for a living Please tell me you didn't punish him for crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:27 PM
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I'm childfree and I'm still disgusted how many adults just don't give a fuck about supporting kids. Mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:25 PM
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Like would a single mom who works in big law in dc or is a md physician really need a father around for her son as long as her son had 6+ height genetics, lean musculature, and resources to give him material comfort so he can express himself socially without worries? YES! Boys should have a good father in their lives like you had in yours. It's critical!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:19 PM
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If men actually cared about the mental health of boys then there would actually be more mental health services available. After all, men are the mass majority in governments and leadership positions. The absence of such measures tells me that men are abandoning boys like their fathers abandoned them, be it physically or emotionally. At some point men are going to have to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:16 PM
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What role do you think we can play that doesn't involve sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:14 PM
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Wow. I can't even here. Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:13 PM
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He just had zero idea about game, relationships (he had an arranged marriage), is 5’4 (maybe shorter), dark hue, personally conservative, never into socializing and very introspective. Holy shit he hates his dad. No wonder he hates himself and projects that onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:10 PM
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exposed to content telling them there is no hope You're right. We should shut down all of the toxic masculinity subs like PPD, TRP, FDS, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:05 PM
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No woman is under any obligation to "save" men. Save your own first and show that men as a whole can be trusted if you want to interact with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:03 PM
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Unfortunately the men in their lives are all too obsessed with looking as "not gay" as possible to actually teach anything meaningful. It's beyond depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:01 PM
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The “help” and “understanding” these men want from women is their romantic/sexual attention. That’s it. If we offer them comfort in the form of friendship and platonic love and support, they get pissed we aren’t fucking them and say we’re friendzoning whores. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. So we choose not to since the outcome is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:55 PM
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You can be a part of the solution or a part of the problem. Here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:51 PM
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I think boys need more hand holding and guidance. Or at least more than they have at present. And it's up to other men to do this. 100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:50 PM
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It's not payback. It's the consequences of y'alls actions. Men as a whole have treated women so badly for so long and now that we have the ability to choose a life without y'all we're more than happy to bail ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:47 PM
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Women do not owe you a goddamn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:45 PM
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They're accepting my orders because I have seniority over them, not because they want to. If their pay wasn't on the line they would happily ignore me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:41 AM
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Right on!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:40 AM
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That makes sense. You don't want to have that kind of relationship with someone you don't know very well. But it doesn't make sense to marry someone until you have that kind of relationship and have built that level of trust. And until you get to this point you will need to discuss things to figure out what to do. You'll have arguments/conflicts and learn what you and your partner is better at, this is normal. If you grow to trust them more, and them you, then you know you're right for each othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:36 AM
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You're both cheaters if you have consensual sex with each other while one of you is taken. That's what "cheating" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:31 AM
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You're implying that "treat her well" is sex. Bless your cheating heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:17 AM
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You think the men on TRP are there because of their fathers and grandfathers?? No, they're on TRP because of what their fathers and grandfathers taught them. Men find TRP because the SMP has shifted unilaterally to women having ALL the power. Apparently I missed the part where women took all the roles in government, all managerial positions and C-level positions in companies and became the heads of every household. Oh wait, you're talking about the sexual marketplace. Which means they're just up…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:16 AM
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It's adorable you think I'm on the left. It's also adorable that you don't understand words. Boys are absolutely inundated with messages that they are inferior to women and it's women's turn and all kinds of misandric bushit. [sic] They're also inundated from shit like MGTOW and TRP that tells them they are superior to women and should rule over them. Also most religious narratives teach this too. The "it's women's turn" is because women are finally gaining equality in the US over the course of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:13 AM
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You're delusional if you think any boys are being told they're better than women. Yes they are. By their fathers/grandfathers and the boys/men they interact with. You can see it all the time on TRP that women aren't people in their eyes. And yes, exactly, men go on shooting rampages because they have no power and this finally gives them some power in their lives. If they can't earn it, they'll take it. That's not power. That's weakness. Those boys are nothing more than failures forged by the men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:07 AM
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I know right, her boyfriend deserves some rest from time to time. Are you implying that "treat her well" is sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:06 AM
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It's more like: I trust myself to know when I don't know something, so I would defer to my partner when they know more than me, but I would have the final yes/no, if that makes sense. But if you know you don't know something then shouldn't your partner have the final say on that particular topic? It doesn't make sense to have the final yes/no in general on all things. Different people have different skills. My wife and I both have the final yes/no all the time on things we're better at than the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:04 AM
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Because "power" is a good way to describe the things that men were promised and then were denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:00 AM
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Idgaf what other dudes think of me. I've got my boys for that. Are you talking about your kids or your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:59 AM
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No, men today grew up being told they were better than women, became adults and found out they were equal to women and then promptly lost their shit. Boys today have been thoroughly beaten down by feminism and our gynocentric society. I'm pretty sure the father does most of the beating in broken homes, assuming the father bothered to stick around. None of these boys has any power to lose, and sure as fuck isn't afraid of losing what he never had to begin with. Ah yes, which is why they're going …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:58 AM
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Maybe most men dont want cucumbers up their asses I actually have a policy of not pegging men and will actively reject any man who requests such. There are plenty of ways to dominate a man that doesn't involve anal penetration. No, as a femdom you are full of shit and use the "submissive" word only in the context of your kinky sex stuff. Boy I am a managerial level tech worker and have to bark orders around to men a lot. Don't sass me. Maybe most men dont want cucumbers up their asses but they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:55 AM
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Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:52 AM
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Not because they are taken but simply because being taken is not an attractiveness disqualifier for men. Being taken is not an attractiveness disqualifer for women either. It's just that people with a sound moral code won't act on it. I didn't accuse you of being the kind of person who would act on it. You did. You felt the need to tell me I shouldn't act on it. Why? You brought it up. Next taken girl that comes my way I'll make it a point to treat her well and kindly and return her to her boyfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:52 AM
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He was talking about a president creeping on children and wasting money. The only one that comes to mind in the past decade and a half is Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:50 AM
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Yes. Yes you're wrong. You should be more clear then. Saying "some men do think this way" is a lot more clear than "they might more so than you think". I know there are men who think this way. I don't have sex with them. Also, the implication that only a mentally ill person would need to see a therapist is really disgusting. For one, I'm not mentally ill. I have seen a therapist though because I had stuff to work out and move on from. It sounds to me like you're afraid of being judged by other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:49 AM
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You're just judging mine. Because you exist and this is basic morals that a child can understand. If you're having to ask to have it explained then there's something wrong. Someone you know nothing about but still felt the need to tell me what is not ok for me to do completely unsolicited. You asked a stupid question. You're going to get a stupid answer. If you're taken and are hit on, reject them kindly. If they are taken and you hit on them, they should reject you kindly. They exist though. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:40 AM
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Never said all men. Never said I did this. Never justified anything. But you said..... "They might more so than you think" Am I wrong in reading that as roughly equivalent to "yes all men"? Obviously you're going to say "yes all men" because otherwise you'll be the odd man out and will have to re-examine your life up to now. It's not easy. A therapist can help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:37 AM
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Your inability to grasp the definition of "ad hominem" is funnier than anything else you've said tonight. Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:35 AM
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I still expect to have final decision-power in a family dynamic. In most healthy family dynamics, the final decision-power goes to the person with the most experience with that particular topic. Are you saying that you would always want the final decision-power even on something your wife knows more about than you? That said, I definitely agree that the anger is validated and fed among the alt-right. My god is it bad over there. Hard agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:34 AM
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Most men are submissive. This is so not true. As a femdom I can confirm this. A lot of guys have tried to claim to me they were subby only to get mad when I actually treat them like a sub. Cheds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:32 AM
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I'm not judging the moral compass of someone who does not exist. Also I have to kindly reject her but the couple should tell me off if the roles were reversed? Yes. It goes the other way too if you had a partner and a woman hit on you. You and your partner would tell her off. This isn't a difficult concept to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:30 AM
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No, not all men think like this. Stop trying to justify your behavior by claiming all men are like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:29 AM
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Your ability to lie rivals Trump. I hope you take this as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:26 AM
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I don't think they're doing it consciously and I don't think women are solely the people they're angry at. But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:24 AM
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it's more that loads of men were raised to put women on a pedestal, and then when they grew up they realized most women don't actually like that shit in a partner and grew bitter and hateful about it And in their bitterness and hatred a significant number of them turn right-wing because their anger is validated and fed among that group. I never had the expectation that I would have power over women, except perhaps having final decision-power in a family dynamic. So what you're saying is that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:23 AM
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You kindly reject her and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:20 AM
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Women choose everything at every level. Just because you're a submissive man doesn't mean all men are. Nothing wrong with being a sub btw as there's lots of femdoms out there. Women choose the man Are you saying you'd marry any woman who proposes? Because I don't think you would.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:16 AM
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Are women not allowed to enjoy sex for the sake of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:15 AM
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Not all men think of sex like this. Thank the maker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:13 AM
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The sexual marketplace Is banned in the US because sex work is banned in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:12 AM
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What if they act on it? You asked this and pushed back against being poly. That implies that you don't understand that hitting on someone who is monogamous and taken is wrong. Thus a faulty moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:11 AM
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That's the neat part. It doesn't. It just gives them an outlet and amplifies their anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:09 AM
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I think they're picking it based off their emotions, which they claim not to have because emotions somehow make them "gay", and the rejection evokes said emotions which causes them to choose to align with Republicans out of spite. They're angry and they're choosing the party of hate and anger towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:05 AM
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In that case you shouldn't be hitting on such a woman. It's extremely rude and her and her partner will tell you off. Not that it seems like your moral code prevents you anyway. Sounds like you have a faulty moral code. Women aren't objects to fight over. They're people with the ability to choose their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:04 AM
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Are you saying that wasn't Trump on Howard Stern's show in 2005 bragging about peeping on underage girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:02 AM
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I was just asking because some men do want to legalize rape in the US and some of those same men want to ban abortion for those rape victims. Just trying to get an idea of where his opinion is on this? He flew off the handle so that tells me more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:01 AM
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Are you both polyamorous?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:00 AM
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Did you not click on the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:59 AM
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Not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:51 AM
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As long as you don't act on it unless she's polyamorous then it's all good. You can be attracted to someone without needing to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:49 AM
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As a follow up, how is this line of thinking going to get you a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:47 AM
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if a guy wants a shot at proving himself he often has to be relentless in his pursuits These are the kind of men women want the least. Relentlessness is just another word for manipulation, aka - abuse. You wear down a woman until she accepts you to make you shut up. It's not attractive. What is even stranger though is how they consistently key in on men who are spoken for, with zero regard for the moral implications. The men on this subreddit assume all women behave as badly as they would if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:47 AM
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Because men were raised by men who did have such power and placed the expectation of gaining said power when they become adults. Those men grew up with those expectations and are now upset that they were lied to. Rather than be mad at the person who lied to them they instead project onto women for rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:43 AM
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So you're entirely discounting gay marriages because fewer straight men aren't proposing? Interesting flex. Gay marriage is on the rise. I married my wife not long after Obergefell. Marriage is doing just well. It sounds like it's a "you" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:41 AM
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Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:40 AM
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It’s so unfair that any male partner can never be as loyal to me as I can be to him. Are you literally saying that men have no self control whatsoever? That's really dehumanizing. Men are people too with their own thoughts and feelings. They don't all act like it but that's true of any group. Men in relationships never have to worry about their woman being aroused by other men. Are you also saying that straight women aren't attracted to men? I know erections are autonomic responses but so is jea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:38 AM
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and they’re tired of seeing president child-sniffer sending their tax dollars to other countries. You mean Trump? Yeah, he did waste a bunch of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:34 AM
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And we can choose not to have sex with you in order to prevent it unless you're arguing to legalize rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:30 AM
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Men are going to the right because they're mad that they no longer have power over women like their fathers/grandfathers did. And the right-wing entices these men with fantasies of going back to the times like their father's/grandfather's. The times are changing and men are having a difficult time adapting and so they fall into the crowd that aligns the most with them: Republicans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:29 AM
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The risk-to-reward ratio for us women is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:52 PM
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It is free after all. Bad pun I know. I'll see myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:46 PM
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You're right. I'm not going to date a man out of pity. That doesn't mean I can't see men harming each other and themselves for not being able to fit into an outdated system being pushed onto you by your fathers and grandfathers. Y'all have no positive male role models and this is being exploited by self-proclaimed 10/10 men who tell you the problem is women, or you aren't handsome enough, or not rich enough, or not tall enough, and so on all the while they drain your wallet on scam self-help boo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:00 PM
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That's exactly why I don't envy the "safety" of men: it's a false one. There are other men they have to watch out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:37 PM
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Let’s not be disingenuous about which sex poses a greater physical threat to the other sex. I'm not being disingenuous. Men get to enjoy a level of safety that I as a woman have never been able to. I don't envy it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:31 PM
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Envy? No. Pity? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:26 PM
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Average man is much stronger and muscular than the average woman That doesn't make the psychological harm any less. I've known men who were raped by women. It's mentally brutal. None of the strength/muscles in the world could help them. Only therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:22 PM
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So again you're going to completely dismiss masturbating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:07 PM
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Then perhaps your testosterone argument makes no sense to explain this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:54 PM
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Sleep and hunger do not require the consent of a partner. Sex does, unless you’re masturbating on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:41 PM
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Again with the testosterone levels thing. Women do not exist to take care of your inability to control your own hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:17 PM
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Is the testosterone also the reason you're being an aggressive misogynist to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:48 PM
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Only the sexual access part. That’s about it. Men can say "no" too. An average looking college chick can fuck 10 guys in one weekend easily. Because men are obsessed with sex as a means of validation. Sex is supposed to be fun, not temporary flex tape for men's insecurity. It's like a drug they keep chasing, hoping the next hit will magically fix everything. Men have to bring so much more to the table They could begin by showing some restraint and to stop treating women as flex tape dispensers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:35 PM
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Wanting sex to the detriment of literally everything else in your life is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:56 PM
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I told you I was assaulted and you tell me it’s not important but your precious statistics are? Then you assume that the fear of having ones car keyed is equal to literally being assaulted. We’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:10 AM
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You may worry about it but statistically speaking you really don't have to. Having been assaulted by an ex who thought I was rejecting him when in reality I was helping a friend who was having a crisis all I can say is: fuck you. But riddle me this: If a guy rejected a woman by coming up with a lie like "Actually, I'm gay..." rather than simply rejecting her properly, then wouldn't you think of the guy as... kind of a coward? I've been broken up with and given no reason why. I don't care what a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:04 AM
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And they’ll have to undo that hate they have for themselves in order to appreciate self love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:23 AM
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Then you’re getting exactly what you put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:22 AM
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You literally started this line of dialogue by suggesting OP stop dating women. 🤷 Yes. So that he can work on himself and become a man that woman actually want to date. Apparently telling someone to "stop dating" is telling them to "become gay" in this day and age? What a fucked up world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:51 AM
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Then you probably hate yourself and should work out your self-esteem issues with a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:49 AM
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Then work on yourself and become someone who can attract potential partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:48 AM
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Nothing wrong with hetero relationships. I'm bi. I just tire of heteros who think "becoming gay" is lowering themselves or would make things better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:47 AM
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He can work on himself and become someone women want to date or he can simply not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:46 AM
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Now maybe the girl in this scenario truly wasn't ready for a relationship that day/week. But isn't it just as likely, if not more likely, that she just coughed up an excuse to turn down the first guy? In reality it was because she didn't like the guy and didn't feel like she needed to tear him down. This wasn't a judgment on him. This was a "this isn't going to work out" thing. And then she found someone else with whom things did work out. Y'all worry about being rejected as if it's the worst th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:39 AM
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What about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:29 AM
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He said "become gay" as if he is lowering himself. There's nothing wrong with being gay and he just made it out to be the worst thing in the world. I'm tired of straight people thinking that "becoming gay" is the answer to the failures of their heterosexual lives. I'm bisexual and being gay doesn't magically make everything better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:29 AM
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I'm not asking you to feel pity/sorry for them, but cut 'em a break every now and then if they say weird/outlandish things You continued to ask for her to cut maladjusted men slack when she said "No". Like I said, nothing changed. You continued to ignore her. Probably because the men of PPD aren't nearly as socially-capable as you and your friends are. Therapy can help here. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:26 AM
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It's not my fault y'all are so obsessed with your penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:19 AM
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You should stop aiming for women that are clearly out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:17 AM
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Jesus dude what the fuck is it with you PPD men and being homophobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:15 AM
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Observations that have no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:13 AM
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I love being mansplained that I can't reply to someone who is obviously complaining that women have sex with men that aren't him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:12 AM
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You can say that as much as you want but the men in this sub completely refute that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:04 AM
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More and more young people in general (but men especially) are living sexless lives. Because y'all don't want to play the game that is Life and are constantly looking for shortcuts. There is no "one easy trick" to getting a partner. Learn and play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:59 PM
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Then stop trying to date women. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:57 PM
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You took my "learn to live for yourself" and twisted it into "being unloved and unwanted". You hate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:54 PM
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Why do you hate yourself so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:53 PM
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Nothing us women could ever say will ever make such men hate themselves any less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:51 PM
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It's incredible how you can be so misogynistic and misandrist in a single post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:49 PM
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Learn to live life for yourself. You are not entitled to a woman, just as a woman is not entitled to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:39 PM
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She's being brutally honest with you and you're proving to us that it changes nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:37 PM
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That's a lot of words to say "TRP doesn't exploit women, it exploits women."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:25 PM
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Because TRP teaches men to exploit women who have less dating/relationship/sexual experience and are less likely to realize that they're being manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:51 PM
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Fetishized means that us neurodivergent women are seen as nothing more than a sex object. It is not a positive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:09 AM
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How tall and attractive is he? Dude, he’s already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:07 AM
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Wow you're incredibly misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:50 PM
2

I'm not your bud, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:29 PM
1

If the only food you've ever eaten is bread then you might scoff at cake as nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:03 PM
2

But I have never played tabletop games. Then go to a local board game shop, they'll have lots of games to try. Ask the staff if you have questions. Maybe observe others playing, after asking for permission of course, and see if you can join them. He must've been pretty confident to do that Confidence is just being comfortable with being yourself. I'm sure when you're in your nerdy element you're comfy. Just don't be afraid to show this side of yourself off to others and BAM that's confidence. bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:52 PM
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Where do you think it's best for aspies to meet up? What nerdy things do you like doing? Go to meetups for that. You will find us there. Just don't go right out of the gate with trying to date us, you'll come off as desperate. If you truly enjoy doing nerdy things, then do them with us and show us who you are. Show us how much you enjoy doing said nerdy stuff. Your goal should not be to get a date because that's a neurotypical thing and literally all us aspies can read that. Instead your goal sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:46 PM
1

Absolutely. So much less to have to explain and the sex is so much better than with neurotypicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:25 PM
4

To me, being romantic means a nice walk through the park talking endlessly about aliens, space, history, world wars, video games, anime etc. Or going out and doing something fun like paddle boarding along a river. Or maybe even just watching anime or a movie together cuddling. This is quite romantic and as an aspie woman I really enjoy stuff like this. Even had a date where I met an autistic guy at a tabletop games shop and played a couple games, then we had sushi, then walked to a park, then we…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:21 PM
1

You NTs are missing out on the positive sensory and emotional overload that us aspies experience from sex. It’s honestly one of the best parts of being an aspie for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:49 PM
1

Polyamory is not the same as polygamy. I have multiple partners but I'm only married to one of them. Polygamy is a path that leads to gross abuses and I refuse to have anything to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:41 PM
1

As long as you're not trying to make your judgments into laws you can complain about us as much as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:37 PM
1

You don't have to accept anything us polyamorous people do. That's your prerogative. But you don't get to control what us consenting adults do amongst each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:32 PM
1

There's a difference between a guy crying over a breakup, which is normal grieving, and crying each time he perceives a breakup, which is emotional manipulation. The guy I dumped went into the latter even when there was no intention of a breakup. He was being manipulative and trying to get me to never leave him. It was really gross of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:26 PM
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As an aspie myself I completely agree with all of this. Even us aspie women will struggle as we're expected to be like any other neurotypical woman when we aren't in reality. Our quirks will come out and some neurotypical partners will not be able to handle it. I chalk it up as life, not as a weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:20 PM
2

They really do. Had to dump a guy for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:13 PM
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Just that they have a disadvantage All aspies have disadvantages. That doesn't mean we can't overcome them. We're autistic. Not stupid. due to certain societal expectations Do you think us women with female-presenting autism aren't expected to behave any differently than neurotypical women? We're punished heavily, especially as children, for not even having the thinnest of veneers of being just like neurotypical women. Dude, take the L already.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:07 PM
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She said she hates seeing her boyfriends cry because it's always when she drops signs that she's going to leave them that they start crying. She says when the tears come out, that her boyfriends will resort to groveling, self-abasement, and guilt-tripping to make her stay. Yup. This is emotional manipulation and when I see it I dump the guy. I do not exist to maintain the fragile emotional state this man has put himself into and I don't appreciate him handing me the reins to it. He's an adult. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:58 PM
4

I'm literally telling you that those of us with female-presenting autism are suited for those with male-presenting autism. There's tons of successful relationships between those with male and female-presenting autism. The problem is the test, not the presentation. It is the same condition with many of the same quirks. The only difference is how easily you can fool a neurotypical. When I'm around another autistic person, regardless of how their autism presents, we can see it in each other and und…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:45 PM
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You have missed the point entirely. Women/girls score lower on the test because there is an assumption that one of autism's main features is the inability to be social. This assumption is based purely on the more typical presentations in men/boys. Yet there are autistic men and women who have learned to mask (or mimic or whatever you want to call it) and appear social on the surface while maintaining many of the same features of autism underneath. I really don't get why you're trying to doom you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:25 PM
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Maybe that has some effect, but do you really think it could explain that massive of a gap? Yes. Autistic women are chronically under-diagnosed. And if autism is manifested so differently in women that an autism test can't detect it, then they may as well have two completely different conditions with two different names. It's called the autistic spectrum for a reason. Not everyone presents the exact same way. Does that mean that autism needs to be further broken down with different names even am…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:54 PM
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Your stats are off. Maybe those are true for diagnosed aspies but that’s because the diagnostic test was calibrated on mostly men/boys. So the test is really testing for autism that has a male presentation and women like myself who learned to mask because we’re expected to be social do not get considered autistic according to the test. I tested on the cutoff of the ADOS-2 and was still formally diagnosed with autism because the psychologist understood that women’s autism presents differently fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:42 PM
1

It’s almost as if we live in a society. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:28 PM
1

A guy I was talking to on OkCupid kept diverting all sex talk into him submitting and me pegging him despite me telling him I wanted to take things easy. And we hadn't even had a first date. Lost all interest in him after that and politely told him things weren't going to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:26 AM
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I think you should stop taking Twitter seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:15 AM
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https://www.chabad.org/library/bible_cdo/aid/8167#v16 To the woman He said, "I shall surely increase your sorrow and your pregnancy; in pain you shall bear children. She didn't bear children beforehand. In fact there was nothing said before this about being able to do so. Adam and Eve were immortal before eating the fruit. There was no need to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:27 PM
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Remember Eve made Adam eat the apple which led to humans being expelled from the garden of Eden. It also led to the ability of the human race to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:11 PM
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You're right. This sub isn't for any real critical thinking about dating or relationships. It's just a place for people to justify their shitty behavior. All of the negativity you're getting is from people who don't want to actually change, they want the world to change to meet their demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:08 PM
1

I'm pretty sure the countless hours spent on Tinder or whatever dating app(s), combined with paying for however many dates and gifts makes that endeavor far more expensive. It's cheaper if you go the escort route.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:21 AM
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Then he should just hire an escort so in the very least the woman gets his money out of the transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:10 AM
1

No. I want you to explain them because I'm here to have an actual conversation like adults. I'm not going to google something only to have you say "No, try again" over and over. It's no wonder you have such problem with women when you expect us to read your goddamn minds all the time. I wish society would stop treating me so nicely just because I look pretty. It's really fucking annoying at best and scary at worst. I don't even like going out on my own anymore because I'm very aware of the treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:55 AM
1

Like I asked: What privileges do you think we have? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:48 AM
1

A couple others replying to you have entirely missed the sarcasm in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:45 AM
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Thank you for reaffirming my statement "Because I said so" is such a worthless statement. Explain the supposed privilege or shut up. I am not here to play guessing games with a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:41 AM
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What I said is that women have privileges that they are blind to. And what are they? Stop beating around the bush and just say what you mean by "privileges".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:34 AM
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The reality is that you have privileges. What privileges do you think we have?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:33 AM
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If these pilled guys think being a woman is somehow better because they want someone to treat them the way they treat women then they should transition and see what all that male attention really brings, trans or cis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:31 PM
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If you value women so low then why bother dating them or even having casual sex with them in the first place? They're obviously a waste of your time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:23 PM
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Go date a man if you want to see the realities of dating men. I get it that you view women's larger dating pool as some sort of privilege but the reality is that there are a lot of difficulties of dating men that you do not see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:20 PM
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Other people decide what your value is. Just like how other women value you as being undatable. Why not try and learn what they're looking for in a man, by asking them and not other men, instead of trying to force them to settle for what little you bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:13 PM
0

How does this prove that being a woman is somehow better?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:05 PM
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So transition and come back and tell us women what privileges we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:29 PM
3

Have some value to women that isn't monetary. It can even be a shared interest/hobby or something. You're not going to get a woman in this day and age hoping that you can make her absolutely dependent on you. That ship sailed long ago. But you can still make her want to be around you by being someone she can get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:11 PM
1

What age is "the wall" according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:57 PM
3

I think I can hear my fellow cougars laughing really hard at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:48 PM
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And what are you ready to offer her that isn't money?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:42 PM
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Your list is all points about who you want the woman to be for you and you alone and not anything actually about her herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:33 PM
2

less and less with a Woman who is worth dating beyond casual fun though And what are your metrics for determining such?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:18 PM
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