https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2014_Isla_Vista_killings See statistics and see who dies more, you can take a case all you want, it doesn't change reality. Have a nice day.
No, a man rejecting a woman is the exact same, it's their right, they don't owe sex to anyone, male or female. And by the logic of social expectations check who's getting actual violence directed at them for rejecting advances...