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It's not that women are so unhappy, it's that THEY WANT women to be unhappy. There's a difference.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 08:21 PM
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True. Red pill is about manipulating women to get the most pleasure out of them, while taking the least amount of risk possible. Love is seen as a liability almost...but then sometimes it seems like the whole world is headed that way..
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 08:18 PM
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I understand where you’re coming from. You’ve Made some good points, but again, how often do these events occur? False rape allegations? Most women refuse to even report rape, lying about it is not as easy as you think it is. Look at the Steubenville rape case for example. How often have you seen or heard of men taking such liberties with women? How often have you heard the reverse? Financial and emotional hits in divorce? TRP will have you believe that women often come out of divorces wealthy &…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 10:41 AM
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Im not sure what you're saying here. Kindly elaborate, I know you're not saying a person forced to do something has allowed themselves to be forced. Yes, and that was rude. But your feelings about the incident are your responsibility, not hers. You can get therapy to relieve yourself. Ive had similar experiences and I've used therapy successfully. Thats not true. Rejection doesn't have to be harsh. It can be kind and thoughtful. Regardless of how it comes, it still doesn't warrant punishment. Oh…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 11:21 PM
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Is this 20% not selective about the women they pursue also? Don't women have to compete for their attention as well? How many women succeed there? Yes they may not have to be as proactive as men in approaching people. But once the interaction begins, the risk shifts and multiplies on the woman's side. You're only considering the first few interactions leading to sex, what about afterwards?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 11:08 PM
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So women still make the majority of domestic violence victims? So clearly its not rampant with a median of 3.7%, is the n=17 the sample size? If so, this study may not paint the whole picture. How are men stuck with traditional responsibilities? Many men are staying at home watching kids now. The F&F guys aren't asking for support, their calling for subservience. They are calling for women to obey them, but who the fuck are they? Sure, some women contradict themselves with this thinking. because…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 10:59 PM
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True. Thanks!
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 10:40 PM
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And how many men ended up in a hospital or dead as a result? Show me the stats and prove me otherwise. Show me the stats of male domestic violence and paternity fraud and lets compare. Think about it, don’t ignore the evidence. Like I said, I disagreed with his comments about the role women need to play in relationships, not with leaving a woman that cheats on you. Look around you, women are looking after themselves. They don’t need men to survive in society, they need them for companionship and…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 09:13 PM
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So you’re argument is that the risk of rejection outweighs the risk of sexual coercion (for example)? Please keep in mind that every time you fix your eyes on a woman, you simultaneously reject all the other women present at that time. You may be doing a lot more rejecting than you think. Good talk.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 08:59 PM
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Some men take steroids to meet those unrealistic expectations. Just like some women go under the knife to enhance their appearances. The difference is women don’t make a big deal out of men’s appearance. They often get out off when men get too obsessed about their bodies too. Men on the other hand make a very big deal of how women look.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 08:53 PM
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Precisely. Besides, exercise is something we all should do. Make up, hair, nails, shaving legs and arms? That’s something women (generally) do almost exclusively. I’m willing to be that less than 1% of men in this earth have visible 6 pack abs.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 08:49 PM
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Really great quote, thanks.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 08:15 AM
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Simple. It's just easier.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 08:06 AM
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Yes, feminist ideology has many contradictions, us humans are just full of contradictions. The commenter above was just trying to point out that heterosexual women in general prefer to be pursued by the men they want. They may push for advancements in the workplace, or to be adequately represented in government - that doesn't mean they want to give up romance. Also keep in mind that the radical feminists that act hostile towards men, may just be feeling what you're feeling now - bitter. We can e…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 07:57 AM
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Wow...hats off to you, that's a different level of maturity.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 07:19 AM
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There is no principle. There is little scientific discovery on why we feel attracted to one person vs another, we just don't have that kind of control. That is why we can't judge people for their dating preferences. Think about it, how many girls did you look over (you weren't attracted to all of them)? Would they be right to be bitter at you right now? Were they entitled to your attention? I know exactly how you feel, I've been there, but I only felt that way because I thought sex and intimacy …
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 07:18 AM
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Congratulations brother, you've attained a whole new understanding of the world - one that is more precise. I felt that bitterness too, I thought affection & sex were rewards that women gave to men for good behavior, and that they purposefully denied me these things because I was a nuisance of sorts. In hindsight, I was just a socially awkward kid that needed time to blossom. I'm almost 30, have never been in a serious relationship and have only had sex a handful of times, but I'm far better sui…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 02:54 AM
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Because I thought that's what a "real" man did. In hindsight I've struggled with my sexual confidence for as long as I can remember, I actually turned down most of the opportunities I had to have sex with women because I thought they would discover my sexual incompetence. So on one hand I portrayed the image of this "player", but on the other hand I was deathly afraid of actually hooking up and being exposed. I pursued many women simply to show "society" that I could, I never intended for them t…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 02:08 AM
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Your faith in humanity is extremely durable to say the least, cheers!
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 01:38 AM
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I agree with you. "The guys that make these complaints love to bitch but will not exercise what autonomy they do have" hits the nail right on the head. The woman carries most of the risk during pregnancy, it's only right that she decides whether she wants to go forward with it or not.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/20 01:05 AM
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You're gonna need some therapy. Don't skimp out, it'll save your life. As for women and their preferences; it's their choice. Think about the girls that you admired when you were younger, and remember that you admired them to the exclusion of all the other girls around..you were pretty picky too man. Forget about the women for now, create a life that you enjoy so much that you wouldn't need one.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 10:41 AM
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I know exactly what you're talking about. Ever heard the saying "the rich get richer, and the poor get poorer"? it's sort of the same thing...people invest more into you when they think you don't need them. When we decide inwardly that we're going to "ignore" women, it appears outwardly as if we don't need them; hence the sudden interest on their part. The problem is that it's only a temporary fix. Once the girl comes into your life, you're going to be overwhelmed with emotion, and you're going …
/r/ExRedPill11/05/19 06:22 PM
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It's gonna take some adjustment, but realize that just as you feel unique in the world...each and every woman and girl is unique. I understand how you feel, it almost feels good to believe that an inherent flaw in the female biology is responsible for the failures in your love life. People are inherently flawed, there are some flaws you can manage, and others that you can't...which is why you not only need to work on yourself so you don't have as many flaws; you also need to choose your partners…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/19 12:53 PM
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To me a conservative woman is one that lives a moderate life and doesn't do extreme things (like binge drinking, drug abuse, reckless promiscuity etc). I consider myself a conservative guy myself, so it's only natural that I'd want to be with a woman that lives about the same way. ​
/r/ExRedPill03/03/19 01:03 AM
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Cause many of them don't think women are capable of being honest.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 01:36 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about what you went through in your past relationship. I've been in therapy for the past three years and it's been a tremendous help in managing my emotional issues. In the past, I would immerse myself in red pill philosophy whenever I felt cheated by women...I would read post after post about how these guys were using women for sex, and not surprisingly; It'd make me feel better! That was when I started to get the sense that maybe I was headed down the wrong path. What were so…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/19 02:17 AM
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Oh yeah, lots of mildly attractive women get attention..even more than those considered more attractive. Guys will see a 5/10 and say "I've got a shot", the same guys will say a 9/10 and say "wow, she looks amazing..bet she has a boyfriend though" and totally move on.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/19 05:57 AM
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I have a sister that is going through a similar experience, most of the men she's dated; she's actually had to look after. This however, is not a "woman" thing; it's a "life" thing. We all have to make decisions when we're young, they won't all be right. Some people have relationship regrets, others have career regrets and so on... It's true that men value beauty, fertility and loyalty...But think about it, beauty is subjective, infertility is common in men, and a lot of us are far from loyal to…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/19 04:31 AM
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It definitely makes a lot of sense that a person who felt truly powerless to overcome their circumstances, would simply claim someone else fall from grace as a victory...misery does love company. On the other thing, I think you're right. As far as relationships go, I think men get more breaks if they stay focused and put in the work. This might be because men do most of the asking, so they can score just by playing the numbers game. Women on the other hand, have to dress up, look pretty and wait…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/19 03:57 AM
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This way of thinking definitely seems like a haven for such personalities.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 01:15 PM
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Makes perfect sense. I myself indulged a bit in the times that I felt pain from rejection. In hindsight, for every girl that I approached, I rejected many. BTW, do we feel rejected because we feel entitled?
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 01:14 PM
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I agree. I'm 28 and my taste in women has evolved, and it's all because of my increased understanding of life and how to live well. For a time I entertained the TRP idea of girls returning to use me as a provider after rejecting me years ago, and it actually kept me up for a few nights lol. But in reality, some women may settle for a different type of character in their later years vs their younger years; not because their inherently evil, but simply because they've grown wiser with time and exp…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 01:08 PM
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I agree. Seems like it's always about beauty and fertility, I've never heard any of them factor in wisdom, experience, sense of humor, effective life skills etc...(you know, things that get better with age?) I saw one video that even said not to date women over the age of 25, I'm starting to get worried that these ideas might gain traction.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 04:11 AM
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This makes a lot of sense. I've read all of Rollo Tomassi's books, many articles and posts; I can't help but feel like almost every statement is made to inflict some kind of punishment upon women. They rarely give women the benefit of the doubt. The overwhelming focus of the group is sex. I used to think the "alpha male" as they would put it; was the guy that was always having sex with women. Now it's becoming more and more apparent to me that the weaker man is the one that changes his core valu…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/18 02:53 AM
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Thats not a good sign. What did you bring up?
/r/ExRedPill23/03/18 10:41 PM
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Perhaps you need more dating experience before committing to a long term relationship. It's very possible that you're just infatuated with this girl because she's the only girl besides your ex to give you attention. You obviously don't think very highly of her, so stop wasting your time.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/18 02:45 AM
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There is definitely such a thing as a "ladies man", meaning a guy who attracts women rather easily. Just like you have people with naturally high intelligence and memory retention, that end up acing every class in school. Just because someone doesn't have to try hard to ace classes, doesn't mean they'll do well in the workforce. There is a lot of effort and discipline required to ensure a persons long term success.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/18 02:34 AM
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Ah...I see your point. I agree, but isn't it the nice guys and Incels that eventually stumble upon red pill philosophy? I doubt that a truly fulfilled man would be on the internet looking for confirmation that women love assholes and such things. I know that for a guy with little success in relationships, red pill philosophy feel so right; because it justifies the anger that you have towards women for not being attracted to you. Am I wrong here? I'd love to be corrected if I am.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/18 02:54 PM
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Okay..perhaps I need more understanding here. The hypocrisy to me comes in when I see red pill guys taunt women for hitting the "wall". I can't help but feel like they celebrate this concept, and take comfort in the fact that at some point in time a woman will lose her ability to attract the kind of men she once did. Meanwhile we do the exact same thing, by trying to pursue the most attractive females that we can..
/r/ExRedPill04/03/18 02:48 PM
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