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Question For MenIneedtogetthisout97/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:23 AM
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Older, incredibly smart in unique and dynamic ways. I’m direct and assertive, and I like it when men know how to push back at me. Richer than me. I don’t date often. I’m picky and I’m prude. I’m not concerned about probability. I am too busy, I’d love someone to help me chill out. Fitness is important to me, but not a dealbreaker as long as they are healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:44 AM
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I see men insulting and teasing short men all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:39 PM
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This actually is showing of men’s lack and inability to empathize with women imo. Men are being illogical and emotional here. Men are our predators. Human women are one of the few animals that mate with their top predators. Most women have bad experiences with men (usually the ones closest to us - it has a greater impact in that sense)- most have never encountered bear. You’re making it about men when it’s about women’s lived experiences. It was started by a man btw and only got popular because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:30 PM
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Right partner will make sure you have when you need it as long as you communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:55 PM
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we don’t think men like us at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:42 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:30 PM
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Attention
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:57 PM
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Can confirm he smells like weed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:35 PM
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Even if he can’t he will probably at least finally get a Grammy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:15 PM
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Being on the other side of the world for over month several times per year. Sleeping while he was awake and vice versa. Created tension/loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:12 PM
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Hard to tell with the angle of the camera
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:04 PM
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I think Selena is toxic 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:51 PM
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My experience is it takes men more time to open up about the things that make them interesting (to me) like their passions etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:49 PM
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Idk why but I don’t see this engagement lasting long
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:34 PM
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I think a lot of men struggle with the idea that they should be respected because of what they say they will do later - instead of earning respect for what they’ve already done. I think this is why they have a hard time maintaining their own standards when they date. They don’t make women earn it while at the same time prematurely demanding it. Women are always told to “get some self respect” whereas men believe others are disrespecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:15 AM
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She used it logically - whereas it appears your mom did not seeing as you’re here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:02 AM
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It was the side effects - I believe they were similar to female hormonal birth control - which is not fun either. Birth control causes that for women today and has been for years - so you’re just proving my point. They never finished the testing because they didn’t have too - we already carry all the risk and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:35 AM
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“It can’t be me! it has to be everyone else!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:26 AM
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It means you understand why insecure men manipulate to the effect of reducing another’s confidence so we choose not to let them. We already see the result that is fueled by what benefits your own fragile weak ego. Which is actually you being more emotional while we are being logical to counteract projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:41 PM
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Or foting = voting for a felon so we logically don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:32 PM
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This is called manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:23 PM
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Or that we don’t know the insecure self described “average nice guy” is actually waaaay more likely to be the abuser because his insecurity led him to manipulating others to believe they are less than they are so he can feel like he’s more. These are the most dangerous types of men - insecurity that leads to shame that leads to narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:14 PM
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Consider that the “nice average guy” you’re talking about is insecure and chooses to justify his insecurity by following a dating strategy that teaches him how to manipulate women by reducing her confidence so he feels better about himself as equally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:02 PM
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Imagine if men understood correlation 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:44 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:55 PM
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Birth control. Figuratively and literally. Even though men could equally do the same and often don’t want to cuz of “feels”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:18 PM
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Cool go find pics of my engagement ring from my ex-fiancé in my post history. If I wanted to I’d be married right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:31 PM
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“Want” Because I don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:50 PM
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lol @ your post history
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:47 PM
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OP please take this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:11 AM
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I tell everyone about it if they let me 😂 I hope you like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:02 AM
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Yessss - this is why I like it because I’m the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:57 AM
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Have you ever tried magnesium spray? You can buy it on Amazon and spray it on the bottom of your feet - works better for me than anything I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:48 AM
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I never understood either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:03 AM
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I don’t want to 🤷‍♀️ I’ve been celibate for 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:37 AM
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On all of his account(s)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:07 AM
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My therapist has talked to me about how many therapists shouldn’t be in the field. It’s not easy to find one that works for you. I saw 4 or 5 before finding one I liked. I prefer male therapists by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:42 PM
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My stepdad stayed home and my mom worked. Their divorce developed a deep fear of gold digging men in me. Too risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:14 PM
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It is very common for nonprofits to do this, I would assume you heard correctly. You can get really creative in classification of expenses to justify spending in an audit from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:41 PM
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It’s a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:29 PM
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What makes you assume any of this? Why do think I know how this works? Do you think men are the only kids who get beaten? They aren’t - I was too and often. But interesting how you went there. It doesn’t just apply to men - it also applies this woman. I went to therapy to understand why this happens - that’s why I figured it might help someone because it helped me. This is why it’s hard to engage with some of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:01 PM
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lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:56 PM
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Because I believe men have been forced to pay child support after being raped (which isn’t even correctly defined for male victims forced penetration by our legal system).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:38 PM
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The orgasm gap. Speaking personally - I have a hard time getting out of my own head during sex. I am reserved and shy. The partner who I had the best sex with connected to me emotionally significantly better and allowed me to be in the moment which led to orgasm because I felt safe. So I correlate emotional safety to sexual attraction because I know that it will lead to a better experience for me. Don’t get me wrong - this is a me problem but taking control of my own pleasure means I need this k…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:24 PM
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Seems like a lack of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:15 PM
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Dress code in schools were created specifically to police women not distracting their male peers and male teachers with their body… We couldn’t show a shoulder and face consequences for immoral distraction 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:59 PM
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Men tend to intellectualize “feeling” which is common in people who suppress their emotions their entire life (and logical thinkers). Which is understandable considering the relevance of toxic masculinity in society. (It is not healthy btw). The problem is “intellectualizing feelings” and “feeling emotions” are coming from different data points in the body & brain. This is why women and men have a disconnect in conflict. Men are technically not being empathetic by definition - they are prone to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:34 PM
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She’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:09 PM
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I thought there was protection that waived this if someone was on social security or disability?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:53 AM
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The other part of this that I keep thinking about is protection for the child and mother - perhaps mandatory restraining order until the child is 18. Relationships are complex and I there needs to be consideration that legally protects both parties in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:27 AM
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What you described about “fixing” is somewhat accurate but it means you’re not empathetic. Feeling your feelings is very different than intellectualizing them - it’s a short fix that leads to a longer problem - because you can’t think away emotions you have to feel emotions to heal. I am not saying you don’t mean well when you do this - it is common with the logical brain. The disconnect is this is not what the person trying to connect with you wants from you. We know you’ll help us fix it - we …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:57 AM
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Men seem to be completely delusional about this. Men lie other men A LOT. It’s usually not the guy you think either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:32 AM
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I wonder if the difference re: feeling safe with men has to do with the men we are closest too often being the abuser. I see what you’re saying in general otherwise it being male victims more commonly due to male on male violence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:20 AM
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It has medical diagnosis and has physical effects. You cannot control your nervous system if it’s triggered this way. You dissociate which also cannot control. Did you know this outwardly looks like being clumsy? Your brain disconnects from your body and that’s why you appear that way. It is in the DSM-5 because it is a serious illness diagnosed for medical treatment. It’s covered by insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:10 AM
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PTSD is common (ex: breaking a bone or car accident) CPTSD (ex: think veterans or years of abuse) is not Most people will experience ptsd People with cptsd have it the rest of their life usually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:46 AM
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I think this is true with the millennials and gen z - it is less common gen x and up imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:43 AM
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I I wonder if they used Chad instead of op when they try to empathize it would help considering how he usually comes into threads to make a point about their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:22 AM
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I know not everyone has this experience but therapy changed my life. Best thing I ever did for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:17 AM
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No that isn’t it - most people don’t feel their feelings - they intellectualize them as being prone to logical thinking - like men are often more than women for example like you are doing right now to prove your point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:05 AM
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Our nervous systems change with trauma An example is PTSD - it is a nervous system response in medical diagnosis - very hard to ever regulate after those things Stress does this too You do not understand what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:02 AM
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He literally creates more empaths in the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:57 AM
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Well men don’t feel emotions very well they stuff em
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:52 AM
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I think that it is more about trauma given there are many men who are also hyper vigilant too. I is most common from abusive childhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:51 AM
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I’m a woman I’m used to it thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:47 AM
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It’s not about the act - it’s the emotion it invokes and if you’ve had those emotions in a relatable context dufus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:46 AM
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Because I’m lying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:42 AM
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Why are you so invested
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:40 AM
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Because you’re bothering me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:38 AM
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Yeah that would be easy to find out with a number considering your efforts - I know you feel like you’re really doing something here but I am just assuming your intelligence is related to your salary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:36 AM
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You’re being too literal and you’re actually wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:33 AM
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I’m not telling you where I live - it’s creepy just assume I’m lying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:27 AM
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No - just assume I’m lying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:24 AM
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I bet there are a lot of men who have been in abusive homes who are good at this too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:23 AM
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You are going off county and I am going off area/town
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:20 AM
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Oh they weren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:18 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:15 AM
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Hyper-vigilance from experiences with men is what makes us better at predicting and reading them. It develops from trauma most often. It’s a survival technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:09 AM
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I don’t live in NYC - it’s cheaper there than where i live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:02 AM
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I relate to what you shared. I am very guarded emotionally for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:58 AM
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I feel the same about gen z as a millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:17 AM
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Feminism advocated for women to be drafted btw. Men voted it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:09 AM
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It’s more just different shades of red
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:03 AM
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You’re the dad bod of this sub. Not ideal but consistently providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:00 AM
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You and I both know that you’re also the light when this light dims
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:59 AM
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You are enlightened my friend. The male awakening is years ahead of females.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:53 AM
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It excites people more than I expect every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:00 AM
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For some perspective - I have a 39 year old brother who incel. He hates me and abused me as a kid because I was less than he was and he felt he had the right. Feminism from the male perspective tends to focus on sexual relations - rather than the impact of platonic which is a way bigger issue that men ignore. Men who believe these things and then go on to have families are doing the harm. That is what many of you refuse to see because all arguing is about sex. Sisters mothers aunts and friends m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:24 AM
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Yes and consideration for generational wealth that exists in these places where a lot of people don’t work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:20 AM
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I think another element to consider is that you cannot help or change everyone - focus on the less extremes because there are some things that will likely never change. The best solution is that it makes life better for those who choose to get help and grow but some will unfortunately will stay behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:03 AM
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I think the pills are stupid tbh with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:57 AM
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Keep fighting and challenge your own bias to see if there’s a way to bridge the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:53 AM
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That’s why I think it starts with men helping men too - because you compete with each other and make it a contest about women and think if you show any emotion everyone will treat you weak. This also pertains to how you speak about women who don’t give you what you want because you’re a man who believes he outranks her. I know men want different things but if your emotions and mental health wasn’t such an issue the male suicide rate wouldn’t be what it is. Imagine if it was considered masculine …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:49 AM
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That is the effect of men not having options for their mental health. That’s what I meant in my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:36 AM
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I do not think the men who post here are the most accurate representation - but that doesn’t mean they don’t matter. It shows you what the root issues are that you may not see elsewhere to find solutions less extreme. There is relevance to the intensity of pain. It shows you how the world affects the most unseen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:28 AM
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I will admit I am naturally biased to favor women - I like posting here to challenge that to try to understand equality between gender. I am part of the problem if I don’t value what men say about how things affect them. People need to acknowledge bias equally with equal effort. But I also don’t have to sacrifice my own wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:22 AM
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We have different ideas of injustice for our gender than you do based on our history as humans. Until we understand each other attacks will continue. The root of the issue is misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:16 AM
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I think men only listen to men and need men to do it for themselves and each other at this point in time. People aren’t listening
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:14 AM
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I believe it is meant to be equalize but is imbalanced by old ideals of what men are valued for by society. If men do not fight and prioritize for resources to help with their POV as humans who matter it will always be imbalanced because their perception is they are worth less than they used to be by society because women can do more as well. Their entire identity is in crisis. Edit: For some perspective - I have a 39 year old brother who is an incel. He hates me and abused me as a kid because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 AM
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My brother lactated and it scarred him I’m pretty sure. Just enough to stain a t-shirt or two lol. Apparently that’s a sign of high hormones common for men in puberty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:04 AM
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I am speaking to you because I am responding to what you said. Your first instinct in this thread was to invalidate a woman by making her empathize your pain as equal to hers instead of doing the opposite. You prioritize your own validation which is why majority of men are in desperate need of mental health support in comparison to women. You cannot validate yourself — you use others to do it for you. Understanding how to empathize with others helps you do it for yourself and nature takes its co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:00 AM
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The difference is you want to say women demand empathy when you are using women to get what you want instead of them freely sleeping with you. We do not owe men anything for being men and you do not owe us anything in return. The difference is we don’t want anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:49 AM
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I do not want to disclose my annual but for an idea I made 95K last week closing a deal that took me about 20 hours total over the span of 2 months but it varies on my clients. I consult for UHNW VC. I live in an area where you cannot buy a house under a million dollars it is so expensive to live you cannot live here and survive. I think you are considered below the poverty level until you hit $100K here as individual. I think that families are $250K
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:38 AM
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Not if he’s trying to get me to notice those things. I will notice regardless and I will be able to tell if he uses it which will indicate his intentions and insecurity. Flashing a car key is an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:34 AM
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I make more than that and I would be ok with $175k if he was ideal other ways but would prefer more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:29 AM
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It heavily relies on COL in your area. Where I live that is low end of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:25 AM
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I knew RP men loved BP women Kidding that is irrelevant nature of BP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:12 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:08 AM
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I think you understand our animal attraction better because you simplify it ontologically which is instinct but are not as great at how the emotional attraction intervenes even if instinct is the stronger of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:07 AM
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I will look people up online before I go out with them so I know beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:59 PM
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It’s easy to notice when you’ve been around it. For example I notice everyone’s watch if they wear one because I have an expensive one myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:56 PM
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That’s why I wonder why you guys think you know us so much better than we know ourselves. If we know our weaknesses it causes you to figure out how to use them to your advantage to get us to do what you want. Redpill is meant to target weakness of others so their perception of you is higher than reality. It’s manufactured alpha to a degree because real confidence doesn’t require that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:47 PM
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Women are better at manipulating men or this subreddit wouldn’t be predominately men arguing about the best way to manipulate women lol We are aware
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:41 PM
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I think the difference is women know that about themselves and men do not about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:38 PM
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Men are fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:37 PM
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Interesting - kind of makes you wonder why they revolved society around being men better than women if men are useless without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:34 PM
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Nah because men instead would use the head with ripples instead of the head that never sees the light of day unless it’s being tugged at
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:31 PM
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I often wonder what society would look like if men didn’t lol We’d definitely have universal income
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:26 PM
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I literally do this all the time on here even when I don’t agree because the point was to understand their POV. If you truly wanted to encourage that you would have written a very different response. I have interacted with you several times despite you saying incredibly insulting sexist opinions and literally validated you to let you know I heard what you said and I accepted your reality without arguing. That is empathy. Practice what you preach because I rarely see you do that without a dig or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:19 PM
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Usually people obsess over things they want the most but fail to obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:08 PM
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Personal and inaccurate statements would suggest otherwise as it seemed to make you feel strongly enough to attempt to insult me. Seems like I had some influence on you from over here - wonder how I did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:00 PM
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No that’s only a man’s opinion that is less valuable than my own therefore irrelevant. Your opinion holds as much weight as your insecurities. Which doesn’t weigh in the favor of weak men who need me to believe it to fool themselves as worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:49 PM
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Honestly because none of you listen ever. Whenever we talk about it you tell us why we are lucky and how much worse you have it rather than processing what we say when we speak as majority of these threads about male issues already. You make it a competition about freaking abortion & child birth. You don’t ever listen to us - you tell us your opinion of who we are. Reality is most of you don’t care because you only value us for what we don’t give you freely. Stop thinking you know us when you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:37 PM
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If you understand the psychology of sales you would understand the relevancy of her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:28 PM
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No I just am manipulating a manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:20 PM
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The freedom not to justify my choices because I can take care of myself and get whatever I want. Like teaching men humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:14 PM
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Accomplishing whatever goals I set my mind to without being easily persuaded by the fear of failure. Practicing resilience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:53 PM
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I have no reason to settle when I love being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:41 PM
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Yes but the more ambitious I am the better my options - only the best man with the best qualities gets that kind of women submit. Edit: this is the thing they don’t want you to know ladies based on the reaction they hate when they don’t define you for their benefit !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:38 PM
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I am a “May the 4th be with you” baby, so same - but in another kind of way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:34 PM
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Men have serious unaddressed generational trauma - I think this every time they bring up being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:29 PM
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Your edits are selling it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:25 PM
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This is only relevant under the assumption women aspire to be humble. Many are not these days as it tends to be to the benefit of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:24 PM
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I have two older brothers so I can empathize. I know enough to know that empathy is not mutually exchanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:13 PM
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Sounds like you speak from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:00 PM
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That’s a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:59 PM
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The equity part of it is that society pays to support these kids via taxes. Honestly I wish more of our taxes were used for children’s needs and development - but it is an argument against equity. Abortion isn’t free either - it should be in this case and birth control and more male options of contraception and STD testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:48 PM
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And thank you great grandma for the ability to climb with 2 arms and 2 legs ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:42 PM
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It’s a strategy for women to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:35 PM
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No my argument is that you’re prone to pick a fight with a stranger on the internet about it instead. Like you are doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:27 PM
1

It’s an alternative to fixing things in a sustainable manner…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:22 PM
0

This is why a lot of men have a reputation to resort to violence. They see it as the path of least resistance which they constantly say is what they do to get what they want and not an ounce more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:19 PM
1

What I see on social media makes me appreciate all the great men in my life even more tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:17 PM
1

Equality would be that men also have a mandatory restraining order if they opt out to protect the woman and child if he changes his mind later that can expire when the child turns 18. And multiple mental health evals before men can sign their rights away so they know what they are doing and don’t have legal basis to reverse the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:08 PM
1

True you could say it’s appealing because if it’s a man thats beta and if it’s a women it’s finally some accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:04 PM
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It is a medical procedure. The argument is always about a woman who doesn’t want the kid - not the dead fetus inside her that needs the medical procedure known as abortion or she will die. Every argument is about getting even - makes it hard to see the act as equality it provides. Edit: also majority of abortions are married couples. What it reinforces can also be taken as men are ok with their partner dying if it prevents them from paying potential child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:56 PM
1

Only when he uses this account lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:17 PM
1

It’s easy when they ignore the numerous violent fantasies posted in this very subreddit yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:52 PM
1

Telling how none of the women want to comment because we know they lie about their hypogamy nature. Women hate when you hold them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:50 AM
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😂 this comment killed me it sums up PPD perfectly you have a way with words op
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:36 AM
1

You’d have to ask them instead of asking me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:27 AM
-1

What does that have to do with anything I said or is it a women bad strawman? I have never dated a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:07 AM
2

You are tall help from me is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:49 AM
3

you were there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:42 AM
5

Men are men so they should be free to be the men that men decided is best for men which is the right of all men if they are men and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:33 AM
2

I told you yesterday - I think your character development is good but it’s still not passing pattern recognition in text
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:05 AM
8

We agree to disagree then - which is another reason I think parents should decide how to raise their kids whom may end up on here with a bunch of different accounts to troll which would be way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:56 AM
7

I cannot take you seriously with your alter egos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:45 AM
16

Which is another reason to not make them feel like they need to hide things from you when they start getting curious because they think it’s wrong or will get them in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:31 AM
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I posted this in the right area. You don’t care what I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:29 AM
3

You can take her to the doctor too which I would recommend because they will likely kick you out of the room and make sure she’s with you by her own free will
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:25 AM
1

ah I forgot - he’s 6’2 it is his right to legacy regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:16 AM
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Women really need to stop projecting on men - it’s not at all attractive. It’s not like they are humans or anything and should be considered in who they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:12 AM
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Absolutely not - pay attention to what your kids consume. That is your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:59 AM
8

You guys always say this crap to the guy who is literally living the dream you all complain about every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:43 AM
2

What is the age of consent? Because porn online is also free and very accessible to minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:45 AM
1

Men don’t have babies so that explains that difference. There are also vasectomies or condoms to reduce your risk of pregnancy if you choose. I’d recommend you keeping your legs closed personally, after all, men need to start taking accountability for the women they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:39 AM
8

And thank grandma!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:35 AM
1

Everytime I’m halfway through my list more gets added I’m doing my best which I also take accountability for
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:31 AM
11

You credit them to yourselves whenever women share their experiences with men by getting defensive. If you aren’t one of them - why does it bother you? Similarly, if you don’t like women you don’t have to be with them. If you would like to take credit for your gender you can take consequences and judgement too…like women have since the beginning of time. Just because you blame me doesn’t mean it’s my job to be accountable to your liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:54 AM
14

I thank the woman that birthed you then just as much. Without her - you wouldn’t exist to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:59 AM
12

Having the same gender doesn’t give you credit for other men’s accomplishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:34 AM
6

I’m aware that most men are weak. After all, the propaganda that led to a patriarchal society was to protect your feelings of inadequacy because without it women would have nothing to do with 90% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:37 AM
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They act on it too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:28 AM
9

That’s the misogyny that women are used to dealing with as we are black pilled at birth. We know how men are. The pills are just a battle of who can manipulate women that they don’t care about better because either way every man has a right to his own personal bang maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:13 AM
4

Didn’t you cheat on your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:06 AM
1

I love how this is your account for the more extreme RPer as opposed to the chill one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:34 AM
15

It’s predatory to both women and men. It only works for the top 15% of men who were already somewhat attractive and needed a few social and self care skills. There is validity in “fake it til you make it” when it comes to confidence which is why it’s good for those men. Where goes wrong is the other 85% of men desperately in need of mental health support. But it seems to only make those men sicker and more isolated. On top of it all - since it attracts men who are insecure you then police each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:13 AM
5

Dating: Women as we hold the advantage over men and have higher standards. LTR/Marriage: Men take more effort as they are not emotionally mature. A lot of times men use women as pacifiers for their discomfort because they never learn to regulate emotion outside of anger. They want mothering. It is also very common of men to be jealous of newborns and compete for attention. Similar men often have a hard time if the wife makes more or is more successful. The opposite exists, but men admit openly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:08 AM
1

Thank you - that def explains all the man on man policing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:33 AM
1

I am prone to be outgoing and initiate small talk in public so the cold approach is ok as long as the answer is accepted. I do find myself being less friendly in many situations though where I feel like my nature could lead to men getting the wrong impression. My ex fiancé cold approached me and the way he did it in front of a group of my friends was pretty attractive in the sense of spoke to his confidence. He was really hot tho and also 6’4. I actually get most annoyed being stared at.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:34 PM
1

I agree with this position.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:31 PM
1

Sure - but men also kill men more. There is duality but majority of violence committed by men is to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:00 PM
1

Men dont like other men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:52 PM
1

They are projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:38 PM
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It’s interesting how the effect of hormonal birth control is never part of these conversations considering it’s part of why women have higher standards. Walking around in a body that is manipulated into thinking it’s 3 months pregnant has an effect on sexual selection. Birth control suppresses biological factors that signify genetic fitness in men. The pill reduces women’s sexual satisfaction which wasn’t a problem for majority of human existence. Men have reported feeling less attractive to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:49 PM
2

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:58 PM
1

I don’t think you are qualified to decipher what the average woman is impacted by. Red pill is not niche information within women’s networks because awareness is how we keep ourselves safe. Men don’t do that like same way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:48 PM
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Yes you are correct that physical will always be first but that doesn’t mean all. I wanted to give you an example of how personality is important in leverage and can be a deciding factor if a woman is on the fence (which happens). I see a lot of guys post on here about getting a match and then it going sour via messages before the date. I see girls change their minds on a guy because he makes her laugh. It helps even if it’s not the main character but I think you guys downplay it too often becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:03 PM
2

Yes I am glad you can decipher figurative and literal language and straw-man while doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:54 AM
2

Women are free to disagree and men are free to be dense and you’re free to continue being triggered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:50 AM
2

I have no idea what you’re talking about but men are looking for emotional attraction too and neither sex is to pick a partner who doesn’t posses it equally to some degree. Your comment was a projection because you had no reason to respond with meaningless rhetoric. Take it or leave it - it’s meant to be helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:43 AM
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It often sounds you project on women because you guys hold all your value into getting sex from women you hate. Then when you want a LTR you cannot get one because you cannot build the emotional connection women are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:35 AM
1

This was such a reach lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:14 AM
1

Interesting I would have thought the opposite the way I see it spoken about here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:31 AM
2

What did she say exactly ? I’m just wondering if she was seeing if you would
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:19 AM
1

I just don’t know why we should respect you more than ourselves. You don’t have to put up with it but I don’t have to give respect freely because you’re a man. I think this is why it’s good that women can take care of themselves financially so you have a better chance at a finding women who isn’t going to use you - but enhance you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:01 AM
1

I believe you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:31 AM
1

I am not really attracted to pills I think BP started to oppose TRP misogyny with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:29 AM
1

Ha if it makes them happy I think that is good then I just perceived many were not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:19 AM
1

RP sees things as black and white. BP sees things in color. They generalize and we individualize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:15 AM
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I know but I don’t think men actually enjoy being treated as fuck boys at a certain point it gets vapid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:09 AM
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RP puts a bandaid on a deeper issue imo - I think there’s a balance of both that would be more ideal for a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:40 AM
1

That makes sense thank you for the explanation. Not all of the explanations are in such good faith and that’s the part that’s hard to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:30 AM
1

TBP is more likely to suggest something like therapy lol (not that it is always helpful or that it works for all). TRP has great points but it lacks duality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:17 AM
2

I do not understand how this was so unknown
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:13 AM
2

You guys don’t even know half of what women lie about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:08 AM
1

Which has an impact that outweighs the cost for you but it doesn’t mean there isn’t still an impact in the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:05 AM
2

Maybe that’s his account too …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:03 AM
1

Red pill is good beginners advice but it almost always becomes a red flag the longer men stew in it. You’d to better to start with red pill then implement blue pill and be purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:02 AM
2

Which could also have an impact on women not wanting to use it honestly - the popularity of red pill isn’t appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:55 AM
1

Majority of the men on sites like seeking arrangements are married
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:50 AM
1

There would be way less sex happening if it was a reward
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:30 AM
1

Do the opposite of what you think you should do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:22 AM
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Not when she realizes that the venn diagram for toddlers and mens emotional regulation is almost a perfect circle if he says things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:21 AM
1

The man I’d be willing to marry is the man I’d the biggest freak of my life for. If dont meet him I am happy single. I am very specific about what turns me on and it’s more than just physical attraction even though some men find that hard to believe. But that’s why I have zero desire for casual sex so there is no comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:39 AM
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No - women are attracted to men who have good interpersonal skills, social awareness, and emotional regulation in combination with other things and it improves your chances. You guys refuse to listen to women like we don’t know what makes a man fuckable even if he isn’t visibly perfect in every way. It’s the combination dude Those women are the women who also need to do work on developing those skills - they both do - but men seem much more resistant from what I see. These are the women you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:59 AM
1

Meanwhile have you seen the gender gap in the mortician industry that started after a few reported instances ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:54 AM
1

Have you ever wondered why there are millions of women who read porn and majority of men watch it and what those differences mean? One of them adds emotional context For the love of goddess men cannot be this dense What is so funny is you are the fuck boy if you were attractive enough doing exactly what you project - pick better women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:38 AM
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Is that why you got so mad about it? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:35 AM
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I think that person has like 10 diff ones lol One is a cheater, one instigates for fun, and one is 6’5 and well endowed but thinks women don’t like sex He curates thoughtfully but uses identical sentence structure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:32 AM
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Men typically feel entitled to other peoples labor so - take doing the dishes - men will pretend they don’t know how to do something well so that their partner will do it for them and they do this for everything. They will act like deserve a submission from their partner for manipulating them and thinking she doesn’t know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:09 AM
2

So what? Men say that is the only thing that carries value which is also a lie because it’s a way to control women accepting less
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:00 AM
-5

Yes it is when men openly admit they will manipulate women to get sex above all else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:54 AM
1

I think you could also say women have a greater risk to show your point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:50 AM
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This is the guy who waiting for men to get their “ rightful power” back from women so they submit and he said they will do that because men should be respected for their honor When I asked him how he would earn that respect he told me he was 6’5
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:47 AM
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Your argument is actually very telling of the kind of partner and man you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:42 AM
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Men lie to each other A LOT
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:39 AM
1

Men and women have a very different interpretation “everything”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:37 AM
2

This was such a good perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:28 AM
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Yep the emotional load would be much more balanced if they would date each other and I don’t know why they don’t It’s the path of least resistance for fragile masculinity and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:18 AM
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Yes you can - a lot of things you guys say in these threads affects how masculine I think you are when interacting and I don’t know what you look like or if you’re even a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:05 AM
0

You are wrong because no matter how hot a guy is if he doesn’t do that development he says really unattractive things before the date even happens and has zero idea he’s doing it or why she cancelled. Women immediately notice language and we notice more than men seem to notice about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:03 AM
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It’s a risk for us that men psychologically do not understand. I’m not saying it’s because you refuse but you do not get it and it’s clear whenever threads come up. I seriously don’t know if some men are even capable of the empathy it would require when you twist it like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:59 PM
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There’s a vetting process to get in - but you’re right that has happened — I edited thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:16 PM
2

Edited to protect the sisterhood
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:04 PM
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Men believe weaponized incompetence is worthy of respect and submission. They will follow the path of least resistance every single time and demand honor. Nothing they do is for another person - it’s leverage. Men do not believe they need to manage their emotions if they can mask it as injustice and anger. Men lie just as much if not more than women - the only difference is we have known that forever. Women have been studying men’s behaviors for centuries and we share information and resources. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:36 PM
1

I do this when it comes to men and women. It’s been relevant to female friendships. But I like to add in - reading what men & women say anonymously on the internet. Why wouldn’t anyone do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:32 PM
1

You’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:29 PM
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But all this really says is people don’t understand how it works - this wasn’t exclusive to America - and the USA had less than other countries. There’s an education crisis that is getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:10 PM
0

I know I posted in haste
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:03 PM
1

I look better with makeup but i noticed when I go out without it there are days when I seem to get more attention and it finally clicked that it’s because I look reaaaaaally young without
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:39 PM
1

Everyone should do this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:27 PM
1

He’s already rich this is different
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:21 PM
1

Commitment to 4B requires sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:05 PM
1

No it has to be most trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:57 AM
5

Nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:36 AM
1

We require the most dominate in understand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:26 AM
1

Once again…telling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:02 AM
-4

This is a very telling comment lol - she literally described an employed and drug free man who won’t cheat in his 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:45 AM
1

Where I live this would be nbd - it’s a beach town and people walk around and go out to eat this way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:33 AM
1

I live in a town where people wear bathing suits everywhere but that’s not that common
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:28 AM
1

I live in a beach town so no - pretty common for people to walk around in swimwear
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:25 AM
1

I love banter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:22 AM
1

Isn’t it wonderful 🥹🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:12 AM
2

Get in really good shape - women I know who like them younger specifically want that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:08 AM
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What is considered provocative?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:55 AM
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I toured space x a few years ago and it was super cool but that’s all the positives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:49 AM
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Agree with all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:47 AM
-2

Whichever you deem more wonderful is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:32 AM
1

I argued lower in the thread this point but yes and it felt good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:30 AM
1

If not for breeding tanks he wouldn’t even be on Reddit nor would men exist to reduce women for centuries. I’m starting to wonder if there is some power to this breeding tank.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:29 AM
1

Fair, you seem to fantasize about sex with Chad a lot so that checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:18 AM
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we can because we are all wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:14 AM
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Yep you are, own it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:09 AM
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Use gel pens - trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:06 AM
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I love them. If they are long I take notes for my response
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:00 AM
1

I am being specific to sex - we dominate it as a gender because we have the power - not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:56 AM
4

Yeah but that isn’t specific to you as a person because you share the same gender. You prob are working a normal job doing normal things similar to women except having less sex. You never had to compete with us and it’s clear that’s what makes you so fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:54 AM
1

Which might just be hell tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:42 AM
1

Either way he’s still paying for someone else’s dinner lol 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:38 AM
1

Oh good I’m glad to see this stance on the financial abortion topic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:23 AM
1

I knew this was your alt account
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:11 AM
3

I would say if you listen to women it’s common sense we do not trust men. Most of our fathers told us this since the age of 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:07 AM
6

You have to do those things though - you don’t get respect before you do the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:44 AM
7

It still doesn’t tell me how you earn respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:33 AM
7

Because you make comments about not being submitted to - you give a lot away with your language - you don’t really read like someone who respects women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:12 AM
1

Don’t listen to him he may be 5 inches taller but he’s drowning
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:04 AM
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If being 6’5 solves this why are you complaining? Surely you have more options than other men here. I still have no idea why you should be respected because your vagina turned into a penis when you were in your mother’s womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:59 AM
1

Hmm now do men earn respect? I mean the betas you describe sure seem to have more than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:49 AM
7

I think that we do understand the importance of masculinity which is why we appreciate those who have that trait. Insecurity isn’t solved by playing pretend nor is it respected with submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:43 AM
9

It’s because you need to earn it. Being legally classified as property is the only reason men ever had blind manufactured respect from women. They had no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:29 AM
5

That’s what none of them will acknowledge - they’d rather manipulate women than build trust with women for the sake of their egos — which is beta lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:18 AM
8

But what did they do then that made them more worthy? We contribute more now than we did back then. Is manufactured submission preferable to you than authentic submission?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:13 AM
6

You’re right - we def need to raise our standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:08 AM
10

I love how the suggestion always requires taking something from someone else and enjoying the punishment coming for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 AM
1

It’s a trust issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:55 AM
13

Why do you think it’s your right to have those things? I mean submission isn’t really a right. If someone wants to submit to you they will regardless of “rightful power”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:47 AM
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Reminds me of several exchanges here talking about how hideous and unfuckable Margot Robbie is. They talk a lot of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:28 AM
1

They do and it’s also fair to say the beauty standards are partially because you don’t seem to value our character and don’t invest in emotional connections so it’s also sometimes a way to get your attention in hopes that it’ll make you want something deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:14 AM
2

They are far from unrealistic ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:07 AM
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What power specifically is rightfully yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:01 AM
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That makes sense - they often come off interchangeable to the outside perspective to be honest with you - but i do see varying stances with the red pill flair and I def notice a difference between the ones who actually do the self focused improvement vs the ones who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:52 AM
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Because your exposures are also confessions. It lifts the veil on the fact that females are the dominant gender when it comes to sex and reproduction. You like to call it privilege but it’s dominance - otherwise you wouldn’t need to manipulate women by trying to make them insecure. Your exposures always end the same way - women should accept less for your own gain. The reason women are sexually attracted to the top masculine men for sex and won’t lower their standards is because we already domin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:27 AM
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No but thats a good thing. This is what therapy teaches you - boundaries are protection methods for manipulators. This question is based on narcissistic intimidation - but it’s specifically because you’re using empathy to someone who already possess it to the level of their boundaries - that is what narcissism abuse is (not what you’re doing now but that is the basis of narcissistic abuse - it’s manipulating someone’s empathy to suit your desires). This is relevant to how insecure men treat wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:11 AM
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It also exposes fragile masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:38 AM
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You’re doing it right now - again - by projecting and making assumptions to try to manipulate me into thinking I’m out of morality for not giving all men consent for sex. This is an attempt at coercion btw. Your response tells me this isn’t the first time you’ve heard this. My body is mine. No one owes you sex and using someone else’s body for your own gain making the accusations you are is raising some serious red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:55 AM
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Isn’t this just another way of saying women are the dominant gender when it comes to sexual relations? I feel like hypergamy is just to protect fragile masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:39 AM
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I feel this is why they stay angry and refuse to acknowledge when they are wrong because the women they actually want are the ones who see that they are not the “alphas” unless woman is insecure and naive. That’s the whole “accountability” tactic because they aren’t willing to take their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:01 AM
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This is why I only measure in mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:18 PM
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Sex granted for accuracy 👑👸🪄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:08 PM
1

That’s valid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:51 PM
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Well that’s why I’m not arguing that your conclusions based on your experiences aren’t valid - I am willing to challenge my own bias and perception when men talk about it. That is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:37 PM
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That two things can be true at once. I can agree to the relevance of an RP generalization while simultaneously seeing that nuance is equally important. BP argues in philosophy using theory which is why it’s fluid. RP argues in data - but only deem the top line to be relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:20 PM
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You’re accurate if you do not think philosophy matters and don’t understand the relevance to human behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:03 PM
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It’s because RP doesn’t acknowledge duality in their ideology. It’s not that I don’t see the relevance to the generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:56 PM
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Yes there was a thread yesterday about this - and when women shared why they don’t offer to pay your original point is the exact reason. It’s a filtering system women use - but not perfect in effect of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:51 PM
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Agreed - and when men complain about getting or paying for dates - they should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:44 PM
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It’s interesting that you dismiss accountability for manipulating. That’s infantilizing to the men who manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:34 PM
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This is a way bigger issue than gender policing - it’s a mental health crisis and I’m specifically worried about men. I see so many people who have tried therapy and had no success, who have tried medication only to suffer more - both of which are a luxury to even have access to because many cannot afford it and have zero support systems. We need to be advocating to solve these issues and targeting diversity in how we understand mental health care for people who live in a world that isn’t built …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:30 PM
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I agree with certain RP takes more often than you’d probably think. It’s just that two things can be true at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:50 PM
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I find this whole thing so funny considering how many men here complain about paying for dates. I think a lot of women comprehend that men have no problem manipulating them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:43 PM
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It’s not an accusation - it’s your entire argument the second you weaponized empathy specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:03 PM
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Ya I gave my friend permission to have sex like 2 days ago but then rescinded it after some troubling behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:23 PM
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You’re completely valid in that - your inherent self is worthy of finding someone and I hope that she’s wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:45 PM
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Spot on tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:25 PM
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Aren’t you married? Why would you think I’m talking to men who are fucking? And if you’re fucking tell the other men complaining how you did it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:19 PM
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Aren’t you married? Why would I be talking to married men who are fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:18 PM
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That’s your perception - the world ended Tuesday last week for someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:10 PM
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I’m saying one can be learned. But also - your perception of charisma tells me you don’t understand it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:06 PM
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Yes because I’m unattainable to Chad’s and understand the point even when it doesn’t apply to me because I think critically. Tbh men are the ones who have a really hard time understanding context and take everything literal and project it. I understand things are subjective…which is why I poked back at you goofball. Language is also subjective, for example, my use of the word “you” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:52 AM
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This isn’t true actually - women learned about wide camera lenses years ago lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:45 AM
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It’s just too many opinions imo. I wouldn’t do this if I was taking it seriously however you’d never find me on a dating app in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:40 AM
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If someone can’t read that and know there’s nuance to any blanket statement then they have bigger issues. When you’re talking about your generalizations of women who want attractive men but you’re ugly, rich men but you’re not rich, charisma is not the worst strategy. And based on the other generalizations you make you should be aware that you could just do the opposite of what I think. This is helpful and relevant either way based off shit you guys say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:32 AM
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They can go to other studios - they made the entire gym and studio women only which is why I drive further to go there than the one by my house. To be a fair it was warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:24 AM
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To be fair you did ask me - you know the risks of my answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:20 AM
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Actually what I don’t think a lot of men realize is how often women swipe with a couple of friends chiming in on her options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:18 AM
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My hot yoga studio banned men for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:12 AM
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Sales skills and charisma are almost identical to the audience and can be learned quite quickly - the foundations are based on the same techniques. You know girls like men with charisma right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:10 AM
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I think u should give her a compliment that isn’t about her boobs or butt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:56 AM
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I know none of you think this is relevant but it is if you know how narcissism is developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:56 AM
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I do but it’s also found in a certain section of the DSM-5
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:29 AM
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Just so you know this is actually textbook narcissism. Textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:11 AM
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They do ceremonies for prisoners but it’s exactly you’d imagine free prison ceremony to be like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:39 AM
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I am pretty sure that there are quite a few women in prison getting money - and a lot of it. They aren’t just getting letters they run a full on business in there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:35 AM
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Zumba
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:57 AM
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I’m not going to compliment a man’s hands unless I want them on me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:54 AM
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I’m not going to compliment a man’s hands unless I want them on me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:53 AM
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I’m pretty sure dating apps are so bad even people that get accepted to use raya don’t use it like they used to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:35 AM
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Nope - any man asking me out would be aware that I’m high maintenance already anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:31 AM
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No I wouldn’t. You know how you all are afraid of gold diggers? Same - my stepdad made out with 7 figures of my mom’s money in the divorce and he didn’t work their entire marriage of 15 years. I know what that does to someone. I’m the anomaly to the Chad generalization because I’m unattainable to men like him. I can have what I want if and when I choose to have it. I could get it without the drive because I’m also good looking. That’s why I value drive - I am attracted to men I respect not men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:50 AM
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That is why I like reading here - sometime I poke a bit and internet zoomies around but I genuinely enjoy challenging my perspective because I’ve been surprised at how I didn’t see certain things beyond my bias and didn’t realize I was doing it. I have too older brothers too - I like to be able to understand them better as people. And no, you literally answered exactly what I was questioning in a way that finally made it click for me because I think what you do well is mention how something can …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:36 AM
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They can date and I don’t think anyone should tell them it’s wrong. People want connection it’s natural. I would not date them though - I am 33 and I’m very successful though the bulk of that didn’t start to pay off until I was 27 or so. I want someone established, I’m attracted to a certain kind of drive which is why I prioritized my own. I need someone who relates to that or it causes issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:54 AM
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Thank you - I find you explain mens perspectives well and I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:11 AM
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I mean that - if a woman did have a lot of options - and she chooses you - do you not believe that could make her more attractive because she seems to value you more than more than you thought she would in comparison to other men who also want to date her? Because if you haven’t experienced that feeling - you may underestimate what it feels like and men are not often exposed to flattery or compliments like women are. I’m genuinely asking btw - I’m not y trying to tell you what should be impactfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:50 AM
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I only date older men and I agree it’s misandrist based on my actual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:34 AM
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There is a common theme that younger women who like older men are more attracted to them because they never had a paternal figure they trusted. So since they haven’t older — men are more sexually attractive because the whole dad thing isn’t relevant to their life experience. There is a power imbalance when someone is older and understands that women who have experienced this are seeking safety of what they imagine the father they never had may provide to them. It’s easy to admire these men if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:14 AM
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Why do you think the “daddy issues” insult started?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:04 AM
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It surprises me given your writing style you don’t see why certain takes are still relevant. You write with a lot of self expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:50 PM
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That’s intentional if you don’t make a woman feel secure enough to show enough vulnerability. Women don’t show their cards because men don’t either and we typically value the emotional connection before men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:46 PM
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OMFG thank you for saying this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:42 PM
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You don’t think flattery has any impact on a man’s idea of attractive? Or an experience you didn’t expect would make a type of woman suddenly more attractive to you? Since it puts you in more social situations that make you feel seen and validated? Men are impacted flattery too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:40 PM
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Bold to assume women are capable of that smh Typical blue pill logic based on unreality philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:33 PM
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Yeah but that’s only relevant if you consider women humans
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:27 PM
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Figured because it went against my instinct
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:12 PM
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Sex with multiple women who initiated and seemed to want more. He didn’t want a relationship though which might be relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:05 PM
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I saw a guy on here say that he volunteers at an animal shelter and he can’t figure out why the women keep hitting on him because he doesn’t think he’s attractive and he’s awkward. It worked for him and he wasn’t the one approaching. You never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:02 PM
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Women bad etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:00 PM
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Easier to be a victim if you don’t acknowledge that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:15 PM
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Apparently I leave my hair everywhere so maybe that’s part of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:03 PM
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But I thought that not masturbating emitted pheromones too. I heard it a while ago so maybe not. And couldn’t you guys just say buy them online like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:30 PM
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He’s saying it’s unethical for you to deny being a gold digger because you are a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:19 PM
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Doesn’t this also work if you masturbate less?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:14 PM
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I love how your comments always try to remind them of the validity of nuance and are always ignored lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:10 PM
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The whores for Chad I think I read it in another thread and men know women but women def don’t know men and we gotta check our accountability here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:54 PM
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It’s a trap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:49 PM
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I am into older men and always have been. Can’t help it - some stereotypes of why that is both ends have merit - the exception to the rule exists and is obtainable too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:47 PM
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Well you helped 1 at least lol 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:40 PM
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I’d give it to him so he could decide prob. I think that the best outcomes are typically going to be when someone decides for themselves (kind of like people who decide to get sober without intervention) - I think what would I would do is encourage them that they deserve to be happy and hopefully get them to let go of judging themselves for the things that might not be conventional to achieve that for men in todays society. When people stop judging themselves so hard they usually ease up on othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:27 PM
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Prob a better way to put it yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:41 PM
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That’s what makes it obvious I’m kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:40 PM
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I don’t have sex outside of relationships - it means something to me and I don’t do it casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:38 PM
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As a clean freak myself in my past relationships I’ve always done more cleaning and I’ve also typically worked/made more - but it’s never been an issue because 1.) my partner would consistently reciprocate in other ways (I hated car maintenance and he did that, he took up cooking, would do the grocery shopping, did everything when I was traveling for work which could be for a month at a time, always drove, planned dates and trips, reminded me to relax lol 2.) cleaning is therapeutic to me - when…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:36 PM
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I think it has to due with the affect of his comments. What he said felt like a violation - then a bunch of other men decided to do it too in various threatening ways. I saw it all over TikTok in the comments. I do think it is an act violation to shame virginity - and this was an avenue to do it back (not that I agree with it). I also see a lot of men who will tell women they are lying about her N count like that’s totally justifiable and then up in arms about the same women calling them virgins…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:08 AM
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Support it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:24 AM
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Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:24 AM
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Why are amazing eyebrows always wasted on men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:23 AM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:20 AM
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I can’t tolerate external chaos in with my daily internal chaos - it’s not healthy If my environment is a mess I can’t think straight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:14 AM
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I have a hard time relaxing if things aren’t immaculate tbh - that includes what’s inside of the draw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:09 AM
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Once I went to the steamer I never went back - so satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:57 AM
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I like folding laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:53 AM
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I’d agree they are also a nuisance and my chiropractor has said something similar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:50 AM
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It’s not I mean that as it’s not even in the same category imo. It took a lot more effort for relief than a porn search. Investing in something that might make life a bit better for you has my support and I don’t think it’s fair to shame someone about it Unless it ends in doom later or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:41 AM
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I just think it would be uncomfortable to walk around with personally. A nuisance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:38 AM
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No cuz it’s not like the sex bot was free. Way larger investment and bothers me less to read about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:30 AM
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He’s a Reddit troll lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:29 AM
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It’s a gift then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:28 AM
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He speaks a lot about Freuds theory of female penis envy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:25 AM
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You remind me of dr long dong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:23 AM
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Thinking straight all the time is overrated imo - we gotta be think curvy to enhance our perspective. Being excited about something is one of my fav feelings - I need to try to do that more often
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:23 AM
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Real person checking in with a sentence to read to help pass the time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:12 AM
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Well your response said a lot about your character in a good way. It happens to me too. That’s why I have to balance it with trolling for fun 🙂‍↔️ sometimes I just can’t help it with all the material men give us Life’s not easy especially lately - I feel like I’m in the twilight zone. But your response is the best thing you could ever hope someone would see by providing authentic evidence to the movement that clearly means a lot to you by doing it yourself. That means more than anything else imo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:02 AM
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I could never do this without sending my dog into a deep deep depression
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:51 AM
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Btw what you’re doing isn’t activism either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:49 AM
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I just got started tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:48 AM
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I don’t need you to ask - I engage often with good faith convos and questions even if I joke a bit too. I’ve seen you be quite harsh really quickly a few times when engaging with men - I haven’t seen her argue that way. You are invalidating someone as if that is some sort of trump card - no pun intended. You’re policing irrelevant points because you want it to come off as you’ve got this advanced argument based off of your theories that led to a superior political philosophy - but you’re the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:44 AM
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You argue a lot of your points using theory as if it can’t be argued back and just as valid using theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:21 AM
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It’s your duty to remind them and I bet they appreciated that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:08 AM
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If someone wants a sex bot I think they should get one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:04 AM
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Thank you for providing this, super helpful. I agree it needs reform and we should be talking about it. (That and rape laws for male victims and forced penetration). I’m not like super opposed to the whole financial abortion idea - I just haven’t wrapped my head around it yet - but I’m aware of my own bias from the female perspective. It’s hard to listen when you’re always waiting for your turn to speak - but we need to challenge that anyway if we truly care about equality. Thanks for your thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:51 AM
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This is usually where they mention being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:13 AM
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I’ve had men tell me this and what they meant was anal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:58 AM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:55 AM
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It’s not attractive at all either. No matter how good looking someone is, this makes them pretty unattractive to me in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:49 AM
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What’s your take on the child support rhetoric I see a lot? Some men seem to really hate it when it’s their biological kid. Some men think they should be granted financial abortion. Just curious - genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:46 AM
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Imagine trying to paint men as the bad guy for exercising their right to sex. Like not only do women need to choose better, these women also need to accept less because making men feel bad for things they did is nothing but lack of accountability. If only women would take accountability for men’s actions like they took men’s paychecks society may finally heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:32 AM
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The harm is when you keep complaining about men while constantly trying to fix them. It doesn’t work out well in majority of cases and doesn’t help the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:23 AM
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You’re right there are definitely women who think they can fix men. Maybe that’s why some refuse to do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:21 AM
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I saw a Reddit thread a bit ago where a guy asked if rubbing a woman’s clit mid contraction while in labor eased the pain. He thought pleasure would counteract it. He had this thought while his actual wife was about to start pushing. I’m just glad he was smart enough to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:16 AM
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All men are asking for is empathy for how hard it is to be a man. They just want to be heard ❤️Also you’re all overreacting about pregnancy, childbirth, and child care. Like why should they pay child support for something that’s not even a big deal? It’s oppressive as fuck you whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:13 AM
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Lol the friends I have who use dating apps all lie and say they love hiking to attract men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:09 AM
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I’ve seen it happen to men too tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:47 AM
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Insecurity is at play in a lot of these scenarios. It’s pretty common for attractive women to be wildly insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:14 AM
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Your mother is a saint lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:14 AM
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Usually you get paid for doing jobs. Real alphas provide a salary or pay well to outsource such tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:09 AM
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Well that’s why I think some men underestimate their value in exchange for sex - which then leads to making yourself below standards to the women suited for the relationship you actually wanted in the first place. If you’re going to lower your value you gotta lower your standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:49 AM
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And they are unable to enhance and progress the connection with emotional vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:40 AM
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Then I’d question if those are the best people to consider for a long term relationship. People check outta those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:35 AM
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Oh I make them wait way longer than that lol. My standards are some men’s nightmare. I can read most men better than they can read themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:12 AM
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Based on what you said here only - I’d question your self awareness. Not saying that’s what’s happening - but from your own description of your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:49 PM
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Instant gratification has become sooo normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:48 PM
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I agree with this. That’s why I think people gotta look within at their own intentions and act on integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:46 PM
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Agreed. Heavy petting and impressive self restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:44 PM
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Well - I hope they do someday
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:37 PM
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Oh I believe it 💁‍♀️ but I’ll be rooting for you to find love anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:31 PM
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She takes things at face value and presents herself as such while looking for a life partner. That only works to get sex. The best way to understand the intentions of others is to be mindful of your own. She’s super cute - but she’s super naive. The men who’ve chased her aren’t Christian and that is very important to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:26 PM
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In this case I’d recommend care credit and a surgeon. Women do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:18 PM
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How do you know it’s one sided? You remind me of my older brother when he first met his most recent crush and called me gushing - he spends holidays at her house now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:16 PM
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Well I have a friend who complains about this a lot but when I think about what she offers or our interactions I don’t see a lot of depth to her (not to be a total bitch). I think dating app culture lacks depth and self reflection when it takes 5 minutes to create an account which is great for seeking sex if you’re hot. But she’s looking to find depth while displaying or developing zero. If she would she’d probably look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:12 PM
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Therapy helps with self validation which leads to acceptance which helps with pivoting to but I don’t think it works for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:06 PM
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I may - it depends. If I’m deeply emotionally invested to the point of vulnerability it definitely decreases the chances of that - because at the ontological level I desire safety for my survival which requires that I’m authentic for ME. It has to be true - not just justifiable. If I am being manipulative that isn’t real connection, that’s a bandaid to get something I want. I genuinely want real authentic love and to use manipulation tactics to pay for a nice lifestyle we both enjoy. Maybe that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:01 PM
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Dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:53 PM
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I believe tbh because managing bangs isn’t easy either - she’s probably disciplined. I love when I surprise myself by sudden reversal of internal dread. Something to look forward too on dark days :) ya never know when it’s gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:47 PM
2

Keeps you really untied with your co-workers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:44 PM
1

Depends on why they hate it/them. Definitely impacts my perception though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:43 PM
2

Totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:41 PM
2

You can’t halo effect perfect nail beds imo Having a crush is so fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:36 PM
1

Wide lens cameras r gonna keep u up at night
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:31 PM
1

I’m celibate but not because of the election or because I hate men (I don’t) and I am more purple pill tbh Prob just being manipulative with my flair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:17 PM
1

It’s 72 and sunny here and I’m looking at the ocean right now but I’m still finding myself having a lot of feelings 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:15 PM
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I do this with my sunglasses a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:13 PM
1

We are a nightmare most of the time tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:12 PM
3

I also really liked your thread but I can only participate when my internet zoomies are in full effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:11 PM
1

It’s possible because it always seems to coincide with seasonal depression taking effect immediately after the time change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:07 PM
2

Same the Santa Ana winds recently tried to kill me via sneezes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:05 PM
1

😍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:02 PM
1

I’m glad you haven’t - but people pay me to do it in my line of work for non-romantic purposes. This is actually just as relevant to business strategy, development, and contract negotiations. My job is understanding what gets powerful people to act. I’m just saying - respect doesn’t absolve you from being taken advantage of - in-fact the more you self identify the easier it becomes to those with a high “EQ” I sound psycho but I find humans fascinating and hyper vigilance pays my bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:59 PM
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Companies and people in powerful positions also hire those who excel at this for large scale business negotiations, access to networks, and strategic insight. I am people - it is such a valuable skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:39 PM
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Companies also hire people who excel at this to for large scale business negotiations, access to networks, and strategic insights. I am people. It is an incredibly valuable skill in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:36 PM
1

Companies also hire people who excel at this to for large scale business negotiations, access to networks, and strategic insights. I am people. It is an incredibly valuable skill in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:36 PM
1

Companies also hire people who excel at this to for large scale business negotiations, access to networks, and strategic insights. I am people. It is an incredibly valuable skill in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:36 PM
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You assume any of this manipulation would be under the idea that the alpha trusted me fully -- that actually only gives me more tools to use to manipulate further. Not denying your manipulation tactics - just that it’s possible you haven’t met your match in terms of calculated tactics. Not that I actively go out of my way to do this - but I’m fucking good at it if I want to be. I can discern how you discern and use it to my advantage about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:18 PM
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There is weakness when it comes to imbalance. Manipulation isn’t as easy to identify when you have zero tolerance and see little value for nuance. If know what someone wants from me and what I need to do to please them - I know to make them benefit me under the guise of authenticity and blindside them easily. There is so much power in knowing what makes people tick. That’s why I agree with some of the red pill vantage points when I read discourse here. There is always a fragility to self respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:02 PM
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I think the alpha you described is way easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:50 PM
1

I dated an athlete who shaved his entire body often. Never again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:48 PM
2

More presents from me to me ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:30 PM
1

I am still celibate but I’d be open to changing that if I met someone. Not sure I identify with it totally - I’m probably more purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:28 PM
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It’s not all about not having sex/babies - the other B’s are ways to affect the economy by not purchasing sexist goods and supporting other single women. It’s interesting that the discussion in most online spaces is so heavily centered on the celibacy aspect. The real power in the movement would be an economical effect. I think the correct term is 6B4T.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:16 PM
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I have a similar experience to apres. Known about it for years - I was celibate before I knew about it. Not politically motivated. It’s also actually 6B/7B.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:07 PM
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You can’t afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:51 PM
1

My brother is a therapist who has helped a lot of people. This is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:42 PM
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There is a real risk to provoking a person to violence that lead to life and death situations. Fairness doesn’t outweigh the risk of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:35 PM
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I wouldn’t argue with that - there’s nuance to each situation of course. I’d assume there could also be an intent behind it to help a man see he may be in an abusive relationship - but from my perspective that is not nearly as common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:31 PM
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I interpret it as emasculation when used in the context I described and perpetuating toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:21 PM
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It really bothers me when either men or women shame men for this - especially here. For all the threads I read where men are crying out for empathy and understanding - they sure rage at the men who offer both. There’s a balance that is very desirable. I most often see this insult used by single men towards men already in relationships having consistent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:00 PM
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The signature on the replies killed me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:16 PM
1

Reminds me of Kanye’s wife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:32 AM
1

I swear I recently read a thread just like this but I think you mentioned your egg intake more in that one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:17 AM
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Both being slightly overweight with skinny arms made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:02 AM
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Interesting - thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:16 AM
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I didn’t know this was controversial. I got mine from an abusive childhood lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:10 AM
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Most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:45 AM
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It can be self taught - my high EQ is due to my childhood. For me this developed to anticipate a violently abusive parent. Those experiences make you incredibly perceptive to the emotions of others and in return how to observe and manage appropriate self responses in order to not get beaten or killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:37 AM
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Update I think her forgiveness requires public shaming because she seems better now. I also gave a 45 minute dog massage tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:17 AM
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I gave my dog a bath over 24 hours ago and she still hasn’t forgiven me and I gave her a bunch of turkey and love. I’m usually forgiven same day 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:02 AM
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I prob think of it differently than a lot of people because I’m paid for my opinion and these are the tools. Not to sound manipulate as fuck or anything…but the best sales people have the highest EQ. Liars don’t even know they told on themselves - very cool you have this skill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:15 AM
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Perhaps that was a virtue signal then apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:08 AM
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Reading the room, interpreting the unsaid, and anticipating what someone is going to do before anyone else by picking up on their emotions in combination with hyper vigilance, empathy, and self awareness. I’ve made a very successful career out of it in strategy and business development. I couldn’t date someone who didn’t have a high EQ - it’s often seen outwardly as charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:02 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:34 AM
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I’m not sure it’ll matter - but I really appreciated reading your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:34 AM
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Lol I won’t argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:37 PM
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Do you have a lot of dating experience? I am not saying it’s the #1 thing but it is important to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:32 PM
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Please add lack of empathy because that is noticeable and often ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:36 PM
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And I disagree with your viewpoint but I respect it. Perhaps you could do the same. If you don’t want to acknowledge the nuance that exists and that “lived experiences” to me are the most important thing to understand about people and history and matter more than anything else - that’s not something I care to convince you of. You earlier found denying personhood unimportant language so why are you even trying to bait me? lol. The term means more and is more dynamic to me than it is to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:59 PM
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You don’t win philosophical arguments using theory when convenient I already told you. I can argue theory back just as well. Try it on someone who doesn’t see what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:50 PM
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🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:47 PM
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Just little seal girls living in a seal world and it’s so hard to get by. I really hope someone gets that reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:38 PM
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When did I say it was? You don’t get to assume to fit your narrative. I would say your argument is pretty weird here. Slavery is a lived experience that diminished personhood in the worst possible way. Which you agreed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:37 PM
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Don’t fein ignorance when it suits your argument. You’re the one who mentioned it as something you’d consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:31 PM
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I don’t think men generally have strong support systems. I also think it can be hard to maintain support systems in a bad or failing marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:28 PM
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I wouldn’t blame the doctor I’d blame the law. Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:23 PM
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It’s not about him - it’s about his perception of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:21 PM
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Status matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:31 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:29 PM
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Ok, thanks for your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:24 PM
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Is it malpractice to not want to go to prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:09 PM
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I like making my own money. I like to work. You brought it up not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:37 PM
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I’m not sure I am following your logic but do you consider being drafted anything of substance here as many men haven’t made it back home? Or are treated as lepers by society for a choice they did not make?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:36 PM
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What about the legal definition of rape not being inclusive of forced penetration therefore not providing justice for men who are raped - it’s classified as sexual assault in the legal realm. Is that a denial of personhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:32 PM
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Can you share with me then - what denies men’s personhood in your opinion? Feminism movements that benefit women and ignore men? What doesn’t mean to you other than the googled definition that happens to leave out the philosophical aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:15 PM
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Women work. I am both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:06 PM
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Well you’re asking for a women’s perspective. I’d imagine many men feel similarly when they are treated as predators or dangerous for being men, no? I’m not treated that way but if you told me that was your experience I would not invalidate it. Just like your whole financial abortion argument - I would say I’m open to challenging my bias towards it as I’m choosing not to deny your personhood by making you a slave to child support. Are those invalid for you as a man to your personhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:56 PM
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Then why do women keep dying for refusal of care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:48 PM
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No! Nouns only - no verbs! So what if lived is the verb for said noun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:42 PM
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You are being so disingenuous it’s unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:40 PM
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Ah so a lived experience you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:30 PM
2

Like paying for child support via taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:14 PM
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lol I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:12 PM
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Pseudo-intellectuals love to use theory to argue philosophy like it’s a trump card as if you can’t use theory to justify the opposite of their claim but they’ll deem it invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:08 PM
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Because you’re a product as opposed to a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:05 PM
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He’s using theory whenever convenient and literal definition when not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:04 PM
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I see this a lot when certain men talk about abortion and single mothers. I feel that women with children experience this quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:02 PM
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Not because of politics but because people can’t afford them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:17 PM
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I stoped giving advice like a month ago don’t look at me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:48 PM
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I relate to not thinking about it. It sounds stupid but I never thought about it very much until I started reading through this sub and seeing certain things men say and realizing they are right because I seem to know what I find unattractive way better than what I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:44 PM
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It’s about the tilt like how dicks do the same externally goofball
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:32 PM
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Ugh I feel sorry for the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:29 PM
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Fml my mom is like this too nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:25 PM
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If this helps - vaginal canals are not all the same shape - so some girls will like it better than others due to the position of their g spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:21 PM
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Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:14 PM
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What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:14 PM
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Nvm I am oversharing tonight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:43 AM
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My kinda girl 😍 also obsessed with gemstones and I spend way too much time and money on Etsy looking for vintage gems. I did the same thing when I was engaged and then old habits came back with a vengeance lol. I also definitely spoke with my hands more often than usual the first few months 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:35 AM
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Aw that’s nice of you. Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:32 AM
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Daddy issues as well to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:30 AM
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My mom chose my stepdad over me and my brothers for 16 years and my dad was freshly buried. Just for perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:28 AM
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My brothers dragged me to every midnight premiere when the movies came out and I’m so glad they did. It inspired me to read the books and I love LOTR ❤️ this is very endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:25 AM
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I honestly have no idea, I’m not dating right now so it’s not even a possibility in the near future. I don’t know if I want to get married at all tbh :/ Round used to be my fav but lately I love radiant cuts. I also love 3 stone rings lately as opposed to the halo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:19 AM
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I know a lot of women who wear rings on both hands! Not as engagement rings but just because they love them. It could be just a present he gets you or you get yourself in the future. Especially if it’s a diff color stone. Jewelry is my personal weakness tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:16 AM
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This was mine - I gave it back when I broke up with him though. If I ever got engaged again I want something diff. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:08 AM
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No u need a ring for your right hand too imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:03 AM
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But having experiences with men overrides that logic in a knee jerk reaction. That’s what I feel you aren’t acknowledging. The only reason it got popular is because a man asked it to a group of women and was surprised by the answer - it’s not a man hunt to say all men are dangerous because many men are wonderful. It’s supposed to show you that women are afraid of men as they are our immediate predators we are exposed to daily. Most often because the ones who we think will keep us safe (fathers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:21 AM
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No - the point isn’t the bear. The point is why do women say bear. Most women have never interacted with a bear. All women interact with men, and most women have had a bad experience which overshadows the lack of bear experience. You take it too literally and missing the point. If you asked women the same question but instead asked man vs bear in a small locked room - you’d probably have different and more balanced answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:15 AM
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If you’re truly interested please research 6B or 7B - not just the 4B’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:19 PM
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It’s actually 6B that is the movement that could have power behind it. Your consensus is missing the key elements of what would actually have an impact and it’s not the celibacy part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:14 PM
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So therapy may lead to the same consensus as the movement. I support therapy here too honestly. But that doesn’t mean it would have a vastly different affect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:09 PM
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Just as I appreciate your example of men feeling entitled to women’s labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:04 PM
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I don’t have to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:50 PM
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Therapy teaches you to self validate. That’s its purpose - to not rely on others to do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:15 PM
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You can read.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:07 PM
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Do you need a not all men mention here or?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:00 PM
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Feel free to pull your head out of your ass so you can read the multiple threads here without your balls getting in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:59 PM
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I’ve upvoted you nonstop the past few days 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:58 PM
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I’ve seen a collective overreaction that made men look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:12 PM
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A lot of men misunderstand the point of man vs bear just like they misunderstand women who choose abstinence. Some men will find a way to make things about themselves so they can be victim rather than try to understand. Those men refuse to listen while demanding to be heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:42 PM
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Ahh goody another post about 4B to show how little men care about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:06 PM
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You’re being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:49 PM
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Your only tactic in this thread is to feign ignorance. No one is impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:46 PM
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Which is why you need a good lawyer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:10 AM
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lol @ u arguing with a fucking lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:58 AM
4

Same and child support lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:55 AM
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You need to have a good attorney and don’t wait until the last minute before marriage. A lot of them get thrown out for very legitimate but avoidable reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:55 PM
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No idea - that’s why I asked because I was curious about mens perspective and lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:36 PM
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What makes you think that was why? You are btw - but not for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:36 PM
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When did I do that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:30 PM
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Don’t be disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:24 PM
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Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:19 PM
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Who barred them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:15 PM
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Try 1965 for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:08 PM
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When I was a little girl a man in a car next to me started jerking off while staring. Was that feminisms fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:46 AM
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Everything to do with men’s dicks apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:35 AM
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Nah we just need to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:30 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:20 AM
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But from what I’ve seen it’s expensive lol. Which is why it’s in those circles. I’ve known a few girls who made a lot of money that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:12 AM
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Do you suggest anything outside of RP? I mean if you have no safe space to ask questions or learn I can understand the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:08 AM
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Extremely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:58 AM
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Do fathers talk to their sons about these kinds of things or no? (Genuine question)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:45 AM
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I dated a guy who shaved his entire body because he was an athlete and it bothered me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:37 AM
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Oh I stopped reading after Elon is RPer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:33 AM
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This is obvious and has been known for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:30 AM
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Hang around in circles with wealthy people you’ll find out how popular this is amongst the rich and powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:27 AM
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Even Trump has been quiet about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:01 AM
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I love Bernie. Ur right now new material.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:56 AM
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No shit. Democrats always pissing me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:54 AM
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I am ready for some new material
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:50 AM
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I love my medal this it is so sweet that you do this ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:17 PM
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I support you refraining
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:59 AM
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~ Mike Will made it ~
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:48 AM
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Ranch is gross so is mayo but the yellow Oreos are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:15 AM
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🤴🤴🤴
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:13 AM
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lol it’s also the size of goods. Ranch being sold by the liter etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:10 AM
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We have like 30 different kinds of Oreos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:08 AM
2

Why does this keep happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:01 AM
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So it sounds like you’ve never experienced falling in love. It’s a chemical reaction in your brain. People are loose with their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:35 AM
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I am being vague purposely but I will say 8 years later it still affects him emotionally/mentally. I think it’s a big part of why he became a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:31 AM
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My fav thing about men is when they decide what to eat tbh I can’t help it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:07 AM
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Emotionally/mentally - it’s affected him for years. I think it’s a big part of why he became a therapist. She went into full blown psychosis for the first time in her life. Literally just happened one day after they had been together years. That is an experience no one forgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:54 AM
1

It’s my comfort show lately ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:41 AM
1

South park reference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:37 AM
1

Only if it pleases and sparkles and the committee sunshines
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:33 AM
1

I have zero arguments tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:31 AM
3

I am so attracted to Newsom 😍💗especially when he talks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:16 AM
1

You’ve been quite the stinker today
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:59 AM
2

Does that sparkle with all the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:26 AM
5

Sweet potatoes are so fuckin good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:02 AM
8

I don’t speak for every woman. Go ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:51 AM
6

I don’t see it as punishment, it’s a decision I made for myself, it’s what I want for me and I didn’t just decide this on Tuesday. I’ve been celibate for 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:48 AM
9

Good I hope you find a nice conservative woman to make a life with. I hope she gets everything she voted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:10 AM
2

Not from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:48 AM
10

The lack of balls is what makes it more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:32 AM
13

For how sure some men are that it won’t matter I am definitely seeing a lot of complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:28 AM
14

I don’t feel comfortable posting all the deets but DV and SA (not rape).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:22 PM
28

My brother by his ex when she was having a manic episode. Not the scenario you described - but accusations that were untrue as I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:11 PM
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I’m not suggesting your feelings on it are wrong, I’m asking you to let proving it to her go as it’s not what she needs to hear from this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:31 AM
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I mean this kindly - please don’t argue with her about what she knows to be true about her abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:26 AM
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No I’m asking you why if men could easily take away rape laws if they wanted - since they gave them to women - why they didn’t extend those laws to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:07 AM
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Stop moving the goal post - why don’t men care about male rape victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:04 AM
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Yes - in USA. If you’re from somewhere else that would explain it. You showed nothing btw lol. Now tell me - if men are so wonderful - why do they not protect men from rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:00 AM
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We aren’t talking about medieval law that carries little to no relevance to your point. If law was based on sin - we would have a very different history. Kind of why church and government is separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:55 AM
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You are incorrect a sin doesn’t equal a law. We are talking about legal terms - not religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:52 AM
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When rape first was considered a crime it was a property crime against a father or husband - not the victim. Feminist movements changed the perception to a violent crime against actual rape victims. Rape laws need to be changed anyway because of the “penetration” topic that defines it - forced penetration by a female raping a male victim has caused countless male victims to suffer and receive a lack of justice. Forced penetration is rape and men deserve laws that protect them. If your argument i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:40 AM
1

Men love to take credit for the wonderful things other men did - but never accountability of the terrible things other men did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:02 AM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:27 PM
3

I hope you find someone to dress up for soon - dresses are my fav too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:26 PM
-2

Do you wear pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:17 PM
2

I wouldn’t argue that - I just found it very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:33 PM
2

You don’t believe depression, trust issues anxiety, or other psychological damage can happen when you’re physically abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:31 PM
2

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:07 AM
1

Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:15 AM
1

You can’t do this with FTC regulations as easily as you could a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:52 PM
3

Wow - to me this seems really rare (your comment about fathers).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:56 PM
1

I’d genuinely like to see a more recent study that proves your claim. If it exists why do you use that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:32 PM
1

Yeah I can understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:04 PM
2

She makes parodies of real videos. It’s for content. The real video was worse and really horrible and heartbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:58 AM
1

This study is 14 years old and only ranges 18-28
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:25 AM
1

Because women are the prize. Women will never want men the way men want women. Even the ones who hate women still want them. We don’t need or care about your money either btw - many of us make more than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:19 AM
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Men are more jealous of women than anything, and it’s been like this for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:43 AM
3

Of course your list is missing empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:41 AM
7

I think you two should fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:23 AM
1

Not sure you’re heading in the right direction with this argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:00 AM
3

lol good thing you are pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:37 AM
2

They can bleed out or die of sepsis in that time 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:34 AM
2

Not if they can’t afford it/not enough time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:32 AM
2

They are probably talking about the women who die because they need an abortion and can’t get one which may be someone u care about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:31 AM
1

I had this theory for a while since men like to talk to me about my hair just as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:42 AM
1

I didn’t even notice with the dominant eyebrows
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:37 AM
2

It’s obviously about his button nose
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:21 AM
1

It’s obvious. Especially seeing her on snl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:01 AM
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I think it’s kind of cute when guys get all into their games. Gives me time to watch dance moms in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:59 AM
3

Trump winning would suck and give me feelings that I like to avoid feeling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:58 AM
4

I’m a little nervous 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:52 AM
3

This also explains why some of the men on here act like baby grinch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:18 AM
1

That’s the problem I’m seeing with it - most digital companies rely on MRR - you could not cover your operating expenses without a way to maintain revenue which is why most companies offer “premiums” in their apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:40 AM
1

I am rooting for you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:31 AM
1

You can just set it up as an accelerator and then have a for profit branch for investors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:19 AM
4

I saw a man on TikTok do some hockey stretches - this worked well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:26 PM
5

I think it would be hard to get a 501c3 for that - but maybe not. I’m all for it either way OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:23 PM
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If it was a dating app that didn’t care about revenue or profits then sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:21 PM
9

The writing was something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:43 PM
1

How are you at making and/or maintaining eye contact when you speak to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:57 PM
1

This reminded me of my dad’s funeral when a man came up to me and told me I was lucky because I got to sit in a chair. This was at his gravesite so chairs were reserved for family at the front lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:38 AM
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It doesn’t appeal to me at all. It’s too intimate to ever be casual. I’d write off a man who said he wanted “casual” as a potential partner. I don’t care to change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:48 AM
1

They can still ignore you if you aren’t blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:14 AM
1

Nah I’d tell my girlfriend good riddance and to find someone who wants to be with her instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:59 AM
12

Because they wanted attention but not from everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:58 AM
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They weren’t talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:55 AM
15

It would have been a “no” and then you’d feel angry that you invested your time in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:41 AM
8

You give away all your power here. Take some of it back by having standards for yourself such as - not being interested in people who don’t care who you are without knowing you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:40 AM
8

Then perhaps social media isn’t the best place to get to know people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:27 AM
10

Why do you want to get to know anyone who doesn’t want to get to know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:24 AM
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Because they don’t want to and that is enough reason. Not everyone wants to get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:22 AM
12

It’s allowed to hurt your feelings and it’s allowed to be used however anyone sees fit without your approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:18 AM
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It’s because you deem their reasons not good enough for you. Just because you don’t like certain reasoning doesn’t make them invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:13 AM
2

I advocate for men to leave situations when they are unhappy in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:00 AM
2

Congratulations on your son.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:22 PM
2

And don’t complain when women don’t want to get married or have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:10 PM
2

Being unhappy typically causes you to treat others worse. Especially those closest to you. Staying together for the kids usually does more harm than good. Parents are people too. Repeating toxic behaviors and instilling them into your kids doesn’t do society any favors. If divorce causes you to abandon your children you weren’t a good parent anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:06 PM
1

Not a green cut crease in sight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:54 AM
2

I have had a very similar experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:00 PM
-1

This kind of thinking is why I never tell men my ex was 6’10 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:57 PM
1

Can u be more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:38 AM
1

This is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:31 AM
1

Agreed always looks terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:28 AM
1

Very tinkerbell coded
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:46 PM
2

I think it’s the neurodivergence 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:14 PM
5

I see other men admiring smart men when they use it as an example of how women couldn’t survive without the inventions of men 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:13 PM
1

Awww
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:08 AM
2

I’m so excited for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:17 AM
3

Where are people saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:42 AM
2

Omg LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:19 AM
1

Business development is a lucrative career for hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:54 PM
3

I think Adam ate it and told eve she needed to take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:49 PM
2

I would never have sex on a first date, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:33 PM
3

I like the things you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:16 PM
7

You should stop talking about forceful sex immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:39 PM
7

Seriously, stop watching so much porn it’s concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:31 PM
7

How old are you? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:22 PM
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You could have just agreed that you watch a lot of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:40 PM
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I knew it would bother you and your little friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:27 PM
11

You said “being used” which isn’t the same as dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:18 PM
16

This sounds like an opinion formed watching a lot of porn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:13 PM
5

Why do you think a percentage of women fake their orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:02 PM
4

Holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:16 PM
1

You see this when male authors write female characters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:57 AM
1

Same way George Constanza did
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:51 AM
1

Spoken like yet another victim of lazy entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:28 AM
3

Managing expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:51 AM
1

Women would agree w/ this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:00 AM
2

Savage behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:59 AM
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I’m just not sure what you want women to do? Failure can happen even with the best advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:59 AM
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I’m glad you blame God - it’s refreshing to see a guy who finally doesn’t blame women for his issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:49 AM
3

Then why don’t you respond there to my last two points instead of bringing it here? Seems like something a loser might do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:39 AM
1

Monsters ball was real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:31 AM
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The problem is a lot of you double down when you don’t like the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:06 AM
1

Perhaps you could call it a Freudian slip even?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:54 AM
9

Because some have experienced refusal of the word “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:51 AM
1

I think you meant successful and smart which is even harder tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:29 AM
2

Just smart - were you one of the ones who lost an argument with me today?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:14 AM
4

This was a brilliant answer thank you. (Genuine)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:33 AM
4

Weaponized incompetence tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:17 AM
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Great advice for people who don’t want to wait until it’s too late and don’t realize the impact - until you’ve experienced that people can be way too optimistic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:00 AM
8

But I thought this was our responsibility that we needed to take accountability for?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:55 AM
14

Well that is naive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:53 AM
7

Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:46 AM
5

There’s nothing wrong with a prenup or postnup or choosing to not get married - all valid options
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:45 AM
5

Spoken like a blue haired feminist ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:43 AM
2

I knew you’d say that 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:42 AM
8

So what you are saying is women give good advice about men 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:20 AM
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I think that’s understandable. I would feel the same about a man with multiple baby mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:59 AM
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You’d be surprised on how relevant this advice was from my personal experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:57 AM
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I’ve given bad advice and I’ve learned from a few men on here that I actually wasn’t clear on what I wanted until I was challenged by a man’s perspective of what I said. It’s not good to give advice when you’re not considering how men perceive it and interacting in good faith. I also think men need to listen to women’s perspectives and interact in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:39 AM
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Genuine question - would you feel similar if a woman had been single for awhile in order to focus on the traits that made her previous relationships unsuccessful instead of filling the void by continuing toxic behavior - thus the reason they are looking later in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:26 AM
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The loudest voice wins and therefore the ones whom don’t speak out contribute to their own oppression. Equality only exists if people put in equal contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:14 AM
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It’s easy to be oppressed when you throw insults instead of having conversations which ultimately correct imbalance by the voices that were louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:10 AM
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Because it’s often characterized as a witch hunt which it wasn’t. YOU are too busy being offended to listen. That’s a lot of words instead of just saying you refuse to acknowledge my point. Thank you for the compliment about my high intelligence. If you scroll down - I actually told you that I thought you made an important point. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:02 AM
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I hesitated before clicking that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:38 PM
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You’re actually the one who tried to make it your point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:37 PM
2

Because it got people to listen and challenge their beliefs - it was not a manhunt. It was what are women experiencing that causes them to give this answer? Most of us have had terrible experiences with men. Most of us haven’t had any with a bear. I’m sure there are men who would have the same answer if you changed it to women - if they had similar experiences at the hand of women such as being raped by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:10 PM
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Do you not think that the power belongs to the people and the leverage that the powerful get to continue seizing power to the point it causes harm - is because the everyday people think they are powerless? I would say listening to men’s experiences and challenging my bias would be an everyday action I could take - do you see any benefit in that? Would you see more benefit if I had these conversations amongst a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:07 PM
2

Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:00 PM
1

I’ve only had 3 long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:00 PM
1

Well what I wanted to know is what actions would you suggest an everyday person does to combat those. Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:56 PM
1

Nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:50 PM
1

The DSM-5 is really terrible with many things including eating disorders which is why several don’t use it to diagnose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:50 PM
1

Hold rapist accountable seems most logical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:42 PM
3

I do which is why I appreciate when I can learn from someone who engages without insults because I actually want to understand Challenging personal bias is important
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:39 PM
3

That’s a really good point that you explained perfectly. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:32 PM
4

No one should stop talking about this. The most recent rape allegations for diddy came from a 10 year old boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:28 PM
3

Virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:26 PM
1

I think many men have generational trauma when it comes to war and how often veterans are pushed aside and it’s something that should be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:25 PM
3

I didn’t realize how much I did this until I started reading what men say here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:18 PM
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What actions have you taken for those issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:13 PM
1

I agree with this completely to be honest with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:07 PM
1

I like men who are direct
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:59 PM
1

I think this is an important point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:51 PM
4

A man defended his sister’s rapist in this thread. Said she deserved worse 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:46 PM
3

Man vs bear question was started by a man - the reason it got popular is the answer surprised him Funny I saw men asked bear vs diddy - and they all suddenly got it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:43 PM
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Well equality will always feel like oppression to the oppressor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:41 PM
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She was and so was he. They abused each other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:36 PM
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No it’s not like saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:34 PM
0

They need to be choosing better women imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:32 PM
1

Whatever happened to make you this miserable, you deserved it jsyk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:30 PM
1

I bet you wouldn’t say to her face in front of your dad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:29 PM
-1

This is an interesting flex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:26 PM
1

This testimony moved me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:21 PM
2

Something a man insecure about his masculinity would say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:04 PM
3

Yeah I was busy prioritizing my career and our fights most often were that I made double he did and it caused insecurity for him :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:00 PM
1

Well it’s good enough for women to keep their legs closed I’ll tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:54 PM
7

What you think you want when you’re 25 isn’t always realistic. I thought I wanted marriage and I found myself terrified to plan a wedding. My ex and I weren’t putting effort in and it just didn’t feel like either of us were happy. My ex found a wonderful woman who was an acquaintance of mine and she is perfect for him and the better match and they are happily married :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:49 PM
5

Unfortunately - I see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:24 PM
4

I can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:18 PM
5

To be fair I’m pretty sure it’s more emotionally devastating for both than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:15 PM
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I hope then next one does
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:12 PM
5

Really I didn’t know this but I’m happy to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:45 AM
1

I think living longer is our punishment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:58 AM
1

Or a better comeback apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:48 AM
1

Twins I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:46 AM
1

This is something I say often
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:38 AM
1

Why should I be worried about the orgasm gap rate and how is this being measured more concerningly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:32 AM
2

I agree because isn’t the saying something like - the person who cares about it least is the one who should have the most. I have a theory the drive for power is severe mental illness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:24 AM
2

Democrats do ignore climate change but that’s because they won’t fund it. People don’t seem to understand oxygen comes from our ocean and ocean pollution is what makes a difference but it’s not deemed relevant as the science to measure co2 offset doesn’t even exist. Many nonprofits have solutions just not enough funding. That and deep sea bed mining. All other climate initiatives place blame on individuals and an example of this is recycling - which does nothing and was created by lobbyist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:23 AM
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Takes a weird personality profile to be a successful politician imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:18 AM
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I asked some men about this yesterday and it was very interesting to hear why they will vote trump
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:16 AM
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I always thought the screeching was just post nut clarity after their fantasy Chad gets them all riled up having sex with imaginary women who need to lower their standards. I think we should go with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:14 AM
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What does that look like if you don’t mind sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:05 AM
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It’s been interesting to see how none of them realize how bad STDs could get with no incentive to wear a condom. Nor the abortion be paid for by the same concept - and the woman whom does abort still gets to pay for child support for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:32 AM
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That strategy seems to be thriving in these spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:02 AM
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Like it started as figurative advice and then we made it literal with rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:54 AM
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No I agree about women’s anger being dismissed in the dynamic you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:52 AM
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Interesting rarely see support from you all when we choose to keep our legs closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:49 AM
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Don’t forget accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:05 AM
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Charisma is similar to sales. If you can perceive what people want before they do usually you can get them to buy or believe it because it gives them an impression of being understood which is the basis of sales. That’s why people say “read the room” so you know how your audience is going to react before they do and can shift to their perceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:58 AM
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This is psycho behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:53 AM
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This is acceptable to me upon reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:31 AM
1

All social relationships have an expiration date - I’m not sure why romantic relationships would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:03 AM
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I thought this but what I really wanted was a diamond ring which I gave back once I realized and broke off the engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:01 AM
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I think it means men should submit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:35 AM
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I’m waiting for women to be blamed for this in the near future and excited for the suggestions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:26 AM
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You should imo - relatability is relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:38 AM
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They are “selling” - why do you think companies and brands use a face to advertise instead of their employees?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:10 AM
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So do I and I’m not sure if you’ll believe me when I say this but it absolutely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:03 AM
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Some people also have bad senses of humor which says a lot about intellectual compatibility tbh - nothing worse than someone who doesn’t get your humor honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:56 AM
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I assume men who know they are hot and who say dumb stuff highly likely to not care much about how they treat others That’s me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:48 AM
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A lot of men are babies. I’d say it could be majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:29 AM
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It’s like the men on here who can’t fathom the idea of a child being their responsibility or fault. Well …that would be hard when you’ve never had responsibility for yourself and believe everyone else should accept less so you don’t have to face yourself to be better. Men who are like this are always looking to replace mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:27 AM
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Men usually do this for 10 bucks at the local bank
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:11 AM
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Thank you this, very interesting. I don’t see any incentive for improvement for male contraception with financial abortion. It’s whats keeping me on the fence as it puts an even greater risk on women contracting STDs. So is it equality if it means placing more responsibly on women than already exists if men refuse to take birth control seriously? Which also leads me to consider that men should have mandatory mental evaluations so they understand what they are about to do - before signing away ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:47 PM
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Because women are dying because hospitals are refusing life saving care and the baby dies anyway…and the mother. Not so it can be used like you’re suggesting - it just shows the common misconception that it’s something women want to do, instead of the best option for all involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:10 PM
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The creation of the fictional Chad seems to be a pretty common example of this. I’m not sure what you’re angry about here honestly. Men can also be responsible about birth control too and I don’t see many of you advocating for more options that are easily manageable on your end and aren’t as drastic as vasectomies. Plus, I already said I’m open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:51 PM
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And I’ve seen zero mention ITT of the need to increase birth control options for men so they aren’t oppressed by rubber or abstinence and can do their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:58 PM
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Yeah this did nothing sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:52 PM
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They do, that’s why most of you post threads about hating women who don’t open their legs for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:51 PM
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Is this supposed to mean something to me? Or are you deflecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:41 PM
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So is acting like you can get an abortion on your lunch break and don’t have a risk of complications. I’m open to the idea - but our right comes with a bigger risk than yours does in this sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:35 PM
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Oh thank you for explaining, I can see this point, I’m unsure of how I feel about financial abortion at this time but I’m open to hear more - so I won’t waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:44 AM
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The whims? This is so mothers shortly after birth don’t leave their babies in dumpster to die due to lack of support like their partner leaving, finances, abusive situations, the baby getting too sick to care for, and mental illness like PPD and PP psychosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:29 AM
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Yes. Men have never received the support or attention in regard to mental health that they needed. Especially after ww1 or ww2. I wouldn’t like to feel hopeless when all I wanted was to be loved either. I know men are hurting. I feel the brunt of the blame is placed on women but I understand why that occurs. We uphold some of what harms you and then minimize the impact. I’ll admit I have knee-jerk reactions reading some things but I was thinking the other night that something one of you said cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:27 AM
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It's not a "pass" it's what I have perceived and it's perfectly valid. You can still do "women need to change because I think so" I am most concerned with how men's behavior is influenced by porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:04 AM
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First of all I like old men but good looking ones. Second of all - if a girl is going to lower her standards I think it takes her a lot longer to get to that headspace than men with all the media about love and relationships we consume from a young age. I don't know that for fact but it's what perceive. People also see themselves differently than others so encouraging self awareness still doesn't mean they agree with your evaluation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:53 AM
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Yes I won’t be changing because I’d rather be single than compromise what I want in a parter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:28 AM
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Is this intentional to keep people using it longer? This thread has made me very curious about the algorithm dating apps use.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:39 AM
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I actually am surprised that dating apps allow this kind of advertising masked as finding someone to actually date but I guess it isn’t something you could regulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:17 AM
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genuine question - sometimes guys don’t take the best photos of themselves - not saying this would help but have you considered it could be an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:12 AM
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It’s interesting that this is the advice you went to first because I’ve given the same advice here and the men all say that it’s irrelevant. The reason I give this advice is because I know success in most things requires great interpersonal kills, discipline, and healing from our issues to prevent self sabotage. It is ironic that you would deduce that I’m unhappy being single instead of that I am single because I do not want to be taken advantage of by a man who will just financially ruin me in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:48 AM
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It is not easy to own mistakes and apologize for them and it says a lot about your character that you did. If you learn to forgive yourself it becomes easier to forgive others which can eventually reduce your negative reactions to the things you read that may trigger you. You don’t need to punish yourself endlessly for mistakes when you own them like you have. You can still be accountable and treat yourself kindly.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/24 08:00 PM
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I’m not talking to you specifically I’m just adding here for others to read - it’s not aimed just for you - you seem like you’re actually much nicer than most
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:58 AM
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Oh and another thing - complaint about this when most of you have blamed women on here for sexual assault - you are the epitome of trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:55 AM
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The comparison is you all victimize yourselves for things that you can change more that people who victimize themselves for things they CANT Further more every single one of you who says dumb shit and is an able-bodied cis male is absolutely fucking WRONG for invalidating the men here who have disabilities outside of their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:47 AM
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Have any of you ever read a book about another person orrrr? Like do any of you all try to learn things from books or just Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:34 AM
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Most of you don’t even know how to wipe your own ass properly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:33 AM
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Just a heads up - they know all women better than all women know themselves and they have it harder than all women. They also feel women owe them anal because women will baby trap you because they want your child support which means they get a say in reproductive rights as well as did you know men are drafted and apparently that also justifies this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:33 AM
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Lmao like as if 90% of men are in positions to think they have enough money for it to make a woman revolve their entire life off of marrying them to divorce them. I make more money than most men myself lmao. Men think women only want money because they literally have nothing else to offer since hating women makes you have a terrible personality like these men can’t even afford a first class ticket. The money isn’t that enticing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:27 AM
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Try losing an arm when you’re 8 and kids making fun of you for something literally traumatic and actually not your fault. This is weak minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:19 AM
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This was good advice considering it’s simple enough for some of you to maybe listen to but you love victim hood <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:18 AM
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Yes - people overcome incredible trauma greater than no sex than a woman who says she’s an 8 but really without makeup a 5 who didn’t lower her standards. Like being socially stunted is hard but what about people fucking paralyzed from the neck down after a car accident who are literally less of a victim of their circumstances than these guys damn. When you refuse to realize life isn’t fair and even though things are not your fault, they are still your responsibly to change - you will never get …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:16 AM
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These men act like they know it’s valid because they read it and not consider I have read a book or two lmao - so when they read it they say they learned about me - but I am not capable of reading a book to learn about men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:44 PM
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I’m sure she wishes she did that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:01 PM
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People can have different timelines - some people are just late bloomers and sexual development begins later. I didn’t lose my virginity until my 20s - I’m a woman and I wouldn’t care if a guy was a virgin tbh. I actually find it a little violating to judge someone for this tbh. People have reasons and if this is the only reason to not date someone then you aren’t emotionally compatible anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:57 PM
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Cool I’m glad your mother birthed you so that you could justify your mental illness with woman hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:54 PM
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I see how you’d be a nightmare to communicate with tbh Yes, she’s justified - women don’t withhold without reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:53 PM
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Yeah that’s a symptom of “low value” men who make hating women because they can’t get laid their entire personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:48 PM
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No dumb people just love to use black and white thinking to justify arguing with me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:43 PM
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The assumption I did is an example and I don’t know you. You’re trying to make me feel insecure as if I could only come to this conclusion if I was in bad relationships and I need to take accountability for a piece of shit man which is exactly my point. How about this - I’m smarter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:42 PM
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Then learn how to read information and use it to develop opinions using critical thought Whenever yall do this you just say “I literally cannot think critically”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:37 PM
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I’m aware lmao - I’m talking about white women who are behind Kamala and then don’t go vote or change their vote cuz their husband hates women I am not as simple minded as someone who thinks I need this advice thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:33 PM
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And that is a typical weaponed incompetence comment Men love to pretend communication is only verbal because they lack empathy unless yall start whipping out numerical data like that is not a form of communication you’ll use to justify anything Aka context only matters when you wanna play victim
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:13 PM
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Wow -this is super interesting - thank you for the link!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:55 PM
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Lmao no it’s not. And lmao at eat pray love - she is literally the bad guy no one thinks he was because man - she says it’s her fault an SHE WAS THE RICH ONE You are such a lil brat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:54 PM
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To be fair you aren’t really the best judge of insanity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:45 PM
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Men will straight up know they aren’t treating you well but feel like they’ve done enough to deteriorate your confidence to get you to stay. More often than not men choose to break you down via manipulate and negs about your looks vs actually improve. It’s easier to be a dick to make a woman insecure so she stays because once again - men are ok with benefiting at your detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:43 PM
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Men always say this about being blindsided but not only do you often just not pay attention you also don’t listen. You usually are more concerned with you and your wants than others. This is simply weaponized incompetence 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:41 PM
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Men don’t see women as humans - they see them as their labor and sex servants and a man’s right they shouldn’t have to earn They are happy for a woman to suffer if it’s to their benefit, and most think women deserve bad things that happen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:36 PM
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Wow you dont seem insecure at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:33 PM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:31 PM
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No they don’t - women need to be comfortable with being single so they can keep their standards wherever they want them and avoid shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:08 PM
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Not to mention - there is zero reason to do more research because abortion laws are simply about control and nothing more. Pro life people typically immediately stop caring for kids once they can’t afford school lunches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:06 PM
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Growing up my personal experience was the exception. My mom was wealthy and neither my dad or stepdad did shit and were just horrible losers. My stepdad never has to work again after they got divorced. I never realized how much differently i prob see things than other people because of this tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:59 PM
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Aka confident and secure women are less likely to put up with my shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:54 PM
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Yeah this guy isn’t even close to someone I’d date in the first place lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:49 PM
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Nah my lack of female attention isn’t my entire personality so I’m good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:36 PM
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Wow how brave
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:35 PM
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You don’t deserve the benefit of the doubt yourself then if you think this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:34 PM
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May any woman who crosses your path leave it immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:32 PM
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You aren’t more efficient you just master your weaponized incompetence. I would bet more than half of you need to go fold your laundry right now. You are entitled simple enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:31 PM
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Dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:29 PM
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I live in state where it is legal and i happen to care about all women not just myself and it needs to be federal law because it belonging to the states is literally killing women and whenever people say he gave it back to the states its clear to me they don’t know that is the actual problem and also just something you say because he did Trump inherited Obamas economy he didn’t create anything and when people say this it means don’t know how economies work and the time it takes to create economi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:08 AM
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I agree even though I usually prefer to disagree around here. As long as whatever response is respected - you shouldn’t make someone feel bad about this imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:58 AM
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Yeah and realistically he won’t go to prison - he’d prob get house arrest if anything. I don’t argue with Trump supporters you hate anyone who isn’t Trump and pretend he’s qualified when he’s a reality tv star nepo baby rapist who tried to overthrow a legal election and was found guilty of 34 counts of fraud yet Kamala isn’t qualified lol the border argument is also dumb because trump is literally the one who killed the bill so his supporters will say what you just said to me and think I’m dumb …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:30 AM
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It has a way higher chance to work on me as I like meeting people organically, I don’t do dating apps, and I don’t go to bars, and the effort is attractive and flattering. Putting yourself out there takes courage and that’s a trait that I appreciate. And I agree - no harm in it if you don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:15 AM
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It is hypocritical and frankly a bit uneducated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:09 AM
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The porn industry is very much not safe tbh For neither men or women talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:02 AM
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Being against sex work is a weird moral high ground who cares if a woman is a SW as long as it’s her own free will and who cares if a guy wants to pay for it. It’s going to happen anyway but acceptance makes it safer for those who partake
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:59 AM
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Especially when you don’t know if they are single in sense of success rate it would have an impact
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:55 AM
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Actually none - to get me to have sex means we are in a relationship that leads to it being my forever partner (I don’t want to get married) and it would revolve around emotional safety, humor, intelligence, compassion, and mutual understanding …so there would be a risks of those traits not being genuine if I told the person beforehand vs organically getting to know them and they could if try to change those things for me and changing certain qualities for your partner is not always the best for…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:44 AM
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That’s a good question because I never think about what would work on me because I’m prude as fuck and generally uninterested in men and I also got schooled a bit earlier and it made me less confident in that statement tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:29 AM
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Lmao at this take
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:23 AM
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And then men make it their entire personality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:14 AM
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Whoa I had no idea they already did this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:08 AM
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This made me smile <3 amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:07 AM
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Jokes on you denying reality is a speciality around here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:42 AM
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No men are just proof sexuality isn’t a choice because if it were majority of women would never be with one because they are selfish and throw child like tantrums whenever you tell them no. Which is why when y’all get mad about women standards being high it’s hilarious because women have always felt this way about men, you just didn’t know the extent of our dislike until we didn’t need to put up with you anymore. Since we now have all the rights you had in society to work and provide for ourselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:41 AM
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Oh I didn’t realize that it had decreased thank you for telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:12 AM
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Magnesium spray would help with this you can find it on Amazon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:58 AM
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Baths are unsanitary ew lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:58 AM
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You don’t need to do this we women know everything about you before you even get there. We investigate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:49 AM
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Impossible scenario - I’d never get married so a man could make me his mother and bankrupt me later - risk is to great to trust a man tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:45 AM
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He has concepts that are consistently concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:44 AM
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He literally has zero projects other than resurgence of white supremacy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:43 AM
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Yes - staying out of prison lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:42 AM
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Leftie here and you summed up this up pretty perfectly tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:40 AM
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I hate Donald Trump but I have to admit sometimes he cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:38 AM
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This is really embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:37 AM
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This doesn’t surprise me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:36 AM
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I agree it’s honest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:33 AM
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You are so jealous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:30 AM
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Women are more committed to de-centering men, marriage, having children, and talk of sex strikes than ever before and it’s gaining traction. I am not sure this attempt is to keep you doing the “hard labor” because many don’t think you do it like you think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:23 AM
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I can’t it’s late
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:15 AM
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Well you described the synopsis of the show perfectly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:11 AM
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Omg are you a 90 day fiancé fan too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:03 AM
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I knew one of you would say this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:56 AM
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This is super cool. I’m horrible at math - I read a book where a character spoke about the language and beauty of equations and I never thought about math creating that kind of profound emotion — to bring a man to tears and the idea was fascinating to me. Anyway I think it’s really interesting and unique passion not that you asked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:55 AM
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Do you think the increase of hookup culture is related to how addicted people have become to instant gratification in general in the past few years with social media etc? Or just a lack of value for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:49 AM
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Resourceful guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:45 AM
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I’m not trolling I literally don’t care and I think it’s funny when you guys have terrible arguments that you think really did something to get an rise out of me because I already got one out of you lol Your argument is literally this hurts my feelings and I dont like it so I’m going to say you’re wrong because I’m entitled enough to think that’s all I gotta do here and a comment about as doctor said something but trust me bro an doctor refuted it with nothing else of substance actually said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:43 AM
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you have not said one intelligent thing lol you guys always get mean when your argument doesn’t get the reaction you crave - a sign of weakness btw Anyway time to stop flirting Kisses my dear xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:30 AM
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Where was it refuted Not everything you don’t like is misandrist Your second point is literally a non argument and mansplaining what I said in simple terms if you understood psychology Your bias also excludes you if that is an argument Just because I am busy with my next argument doesn’t mean you win If you knew what a being a leader entailed you be one by now <3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:22 AM
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That makes sense The Chad character you all reference grosses me out personally and seems like a werido lol but what do I know thank you (genuinely) I do appreciate your response and convo about this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:13 AM
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I understand. There has been a demeaning discourse about them for men which is ironic considering how popular they’ve become for women (white women specifically) in the past few years
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:03 AM
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Hair transplants are so cool tbh Would you ever wear a wig of any kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:53 AM
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Some look so bad and some look so good and there is no in between lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:52 AM
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I love that you referenced love island lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:51 AM
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Yeah that that makes sense. The advice that you guys say works seems to be super superficial though and if it works the women it worked on are the ones that don’t treat you the way a lot of you describe you wanna be treated when ur having your man to man therapy threads sharing ur feels and then your opinion of women gets lower because you were burned by someone who invalidated your feelings as mattering and your hatred for women is noticeable and sometimes disturbing even tho you still wanna fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:10 AM
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The entire point i made - was about hypocrisy I know you feel I don’t get it - pro tip - try thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:44 AM
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Sometimes it almost reads to me as submissive = being kind, respectful and nurturing to your partner. Don’t pick the person you love apart and appreciate their efforts. It’s not really what I expected tbh but it’s interesting to me as a woman and gives insight to why some men say certain things. That should be happening regardless in every relationship it’s the bare minimums
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:32 AM
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I bet you posts about women needing to lower their standards are more frequent before payday hits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:24 AM
1

Someone who doesn’t understand wanting someone who is complex and values that because it creates so many opportunities for connection and attraction definitely doesn’t understand what emotional fulfillment means. Nor are they nearly curious or ambitious enough about our human nature to be making enough money for us gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:20 AM
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The same guy who paid for said tits definitely calls all women gold diggers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:15 AM
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The fact that I know it’s the same guy went right over your head. Friend avoid your stupid mansplaining with childlike entitlement about what responsibility means to you until your frontal lobe fully develops - and when it does - please avoid posting the epiphanies you have that you think make you brilliant that most women figured out at age 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:13 AM
1

I don’t know if I would have ever survived without you explaining pms to me thanks. Do you have any stats on the world ? Becuz these are white people and Europe isn’t the world and your defense is easy when you’re exclude Africa and the Middle East and all history not what works best during female reigns
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:00 AM
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Dude at least wait until ai becomes sentient before you bring the government into it damn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:35 AM
2

It’s not her fault if it is - remember - women are incapable of not fucking bad boys when they make them wet. There’s always badder boys coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:30 AM
2

Check in with me when she gives you her review next quarter - I see areas you could improve. In your coach now - trust me, you need it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:27 AM
2

I am sure she has never met a more masculine man as she supports u financially for your online coaching for incels
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:19 AM
4

Right back at ya 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:15 AM
4

Tbh I never expected this but it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:12 AM
4

I think it’s more accurate to say people are complex. It’s not always a negative intention or action.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:08 AM
3

I, for one, believe it! I believe every word you said as a man who thinks adding random numbers with his sexual stats makes it more believable. I also believe a woman with her doctorate finds your analysis of the female brain and pussy 💯 accurate and sexy! I am sure she is thrilled you are doing your part to make sure men continue to think women and their experiences aren’t just as valid as a man’s and therefore continue to treat them like garbage. She’s a doctor but she’s only a woman and you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:03 AM
3

Sir I know what I find sexually arousing better than you do. I will pray for your wife 🙏 may she one day also be a human with complex thoughts and a lived experience in your eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:57 PM
8

These are for all the men <3 not just you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:55 PM
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Because I’m not a coach - those that can’t do teach my friend Also - I’m a woman so - I would say that proves you don’t know women so well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:50 PM
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Friendly reminder - women are humans - just like men. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:48 PM
2

Well telling him to get his passport is better than 90% of what I see on here as a woman 😭 and I support sex worker industry so all clear here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:47 PM
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It has everything to do with the fact I’m smarter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:38 PM
0

Show me stats of child abuse from women. It’s hard to argue with someone who is literal in their argument and can’t use critical thought tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:37 PM
4

Yes, you are in no way qualified as you think men know women better than women know women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:35 PM
15

Men don’t care about men either - I’ve seen the advice around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:33 PM
0

I can help here - it would help you if you understood that women are humans - much like men are humans. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:32 PM
4

No you’re a predator to vulnerable men selling them coaching so you say shit like this to get clients who think you understand their situation instead of actually helping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:30 PM
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There is a difference between wanting to be right and wanting to have a discussion. In all of human history - men have been the ones leading movements for the sake of power because they want what they want. That doesn’t mean men haven’t been victims of those men. Think of monarchies - king Henry the 8th literally created the Church of England because he wasn’t granted a divorce from the pope and Anne Boleyn wouldnt have casual sex with him. This decision literally led to the suffering of hundred…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:25 PM
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A lot of people here pick and choose when they want to take something figuratively vs literal based on what benefits their perception more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:11 PM
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And they think that they aren’t finding partners because of a weak chin and not their lack of perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:09 PM
8

And men who post things like this cause droughts. Sometimes I wonder if men give men horrible advice purely to sabotage the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:06 PM
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To clarify for op - whenever you see a man say this it means he needs gps to find the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:59 PM
1

Hah no I was triggered by your usage of Chad. I misread what you said I agree w/ u completely. You gave me a flashback with the COD reference 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:53 PM
1

To me this is just proof all men benefit from the patriarchy and don’t even realize it half the time. Only a man would feel justified to share these thoughts publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:43 PM
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The other then they all will do is clarify “not all men” whenever the topic of negative male experiences come up. Like they def need that to be clarified because they themselves aren’t smart enough to know that people are capable understanding nuance because they themselves decided they knew everything at age 12 when they saw their first porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:35 PM
1

A lot of guys do this when they do the whole “not all men” …I mean who thinks anyone doesn’t know that not all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:31 PM
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My favorite is when they tell women it’s their fault for choosing the man they chose if he abandons their child and then literally suggesting sodomy because they don’t want to take responsibility for a child but think they deserve to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:28 PM
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Men literally want responsibility for nothing including the harm they cause and not being smart and the right to everything from a woman’s labor to her asshole followed by a kiss on the forehead and a thank you for turning your vagina into a penis when you were in your mothers womb and daily affirmations of how much harder your life is than women’s. The problem is you lack critical thought - your argument literally describes that you literally cannot think critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:20 PM
4

Tbh people underestimate the damage office gossip can cause. Extra precaution makes sense. People will say stuff out of no where and others will run with it really fast in the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:53 PM
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This protects women too imo. Nothing like ruining your professional career because people think you sleep with your boss. Office gossip can ruin multiple lives. Regardless if it’s sexist or fair - sometimes it’s just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:46 PM
2

I think because most haven’t actually experienced it like you have with today’s cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:44 PM
2

The copper iud called Paraguard is also a good option for women who can’t do hormonal. Semen is allergic to copper so it doesn’t affect a woman’s hormones at all. Not everyone knows that there is an option like this if their partner has a hard time with hormonal bc. Some doctors won’t give you an iud if you haven’t had children because it’s painful but planned parenthood will for free. It lasts 12 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:34 PM
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Are you seriously complaining about having the responsibly of condoms? If you don’t want the risk then you don’t get the reward. Both people share the risk and majority of women sacrifice their health to be on hormonal birth control. Or get a non hormonal iud with no pain management (while men get pain management for way less) to be responsible and mitigate risk. You probably need to go fold your laundry. It’s so degrading you think women should just give you anal sex because you’re so oppressed…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:30 PM
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Dude you can let someone fuck you in the ass - you won’t get pregnant don’t worry. Lmao forced labor - you take on the risk and the responsibility just as much - wear a condom, it’s not hard. It’s so funny how men will blame women on choosing the wrong guys to have sex with while complaining women’s standards are too high and post shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:22 PM
2

Honestly I’ve seen this happen a lot, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:11 PM
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OP has a right to be pegged if that’s what he craves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:08 PM
2

I’m sorry that this makes you so emotional - I hope you can process those in a safe space
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:56 PM
0

Your skewed opinion on what women want is so old and tired. And incase you didn’t know - it’s why most of you are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:52 PM
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I’m not, I can assume anyone who says this is probably online telling girls they deserve to get raped while the other dude is getting laid because he’s not a total asshole. You complain about how hard it is to be a man and so mistreat while mistreating other men. You also cried about having to wear a mask. I’m sure your dad sees it similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:31 PM
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It’s easier to make a profit off of insecure men - being relatable equates to their success.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/24 08:17 PM
3

I never know what I want to eat - I love when someone decides that for me and men usually excel at it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:16 PM
4

Don’t point out weaponed incompetence for certain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:13 PM
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And there is a difference between a leader and a smart leader. It would be hard to just be cool with a dude who makes dumbass decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:08 PM
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Is this what your father calls you every time he sees you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:02 PM
14

Speaking of cult victim hood, men were taught that doing the bare minimum was deserving of praise and admiration and a right to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:59 PM
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Especially if I had gotten into Juliard for ballet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:52 PM
3

There is also usually a bigger emotional dependency as you become her only social outlet in many cases. Going to work and interacting with people has a big impact on satisfaction of socialization. I’d imagine it can become a strain in a relationship if a dude comes home with fulfilled socialization and interactions vs someone who is at 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:52 PM
1

How many women have started wars? Show me stats where women commit more crimes than men. Not everything is misandrist because it hurts your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:38 PM
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That’s why I believe this family dynamic is what creates men who treat women poorly and think they are more mistreated than women because growing up their mother did everything and then they become adults and they don’t get served by women everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:32 PM
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Not to mention I think this family dynamic is why so many men feel entitled to women’s labor simply because they work a 40 hour work week. When you grow up as mommy’s little angel and are never taught to pull your weight in the running of a household you think it’s just something owed to you. I believe this is why so many men think they are so mistreated - because the are raised to respect the dude who works 40 hours more than the woman who wipes their ass and stay up with them when they are sic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:26 PM
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Sometimes that happens but sometimes the mansplaining is just ridiculous and you guys need to get over your desire to make women listen to you when you’re just being stupid. You don’t know better than us you just want us to make you feel like we do and on this one - you don’t. You guys can’t even afford it for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:38 PM
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Women who don’t get married to young are linked to a higher IQ which studies show raises as they get older - men who don’t get married are linked to a lower IQ I have a high IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:36 PM
1

The audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:58 PM
1

You can sign away your rights and not pay, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:41 PM
3

Growing up my mom was always the breadwinner and a very successful one at that. Being a breadwinner or making more than my partner and spoiling them finically because I can is normal to me. The idea of financial dependence on my partner seems foreign and unappealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:37 PM
1

Feelings of disgust sums it up for me too. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:19 AM
1

I don’t rush things. Even if I want it doesn’t need I have to have it. There are other things I could do to provide my partner with sexual satisfaction. I know I can never be completely sure but I’m not trying to go into something like this with the assumption men are trying to hurt me. If that were the case I’d just never have sex again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:10 AM
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Love takes time — if someone invests time in you and is comfortable with waiting on sex because you don’t want to have it unless the relationship is the real thing i think it’s less likely - though not impossible. It would be very upsetting to me in that instance as one quality I look for in a partner is emotional safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:04 AM
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No honestly I can’t. I cannot separate sex and love and there would be an emotional impact of something very intimate being so casual. Plus I wouldn’t enjoy it regardless because it’s hard for me not to be in my head and impossible in that scenario. Breaking this rule is simply not possible for me. It’s just not who I am at all and it’s not like men don’t try. Honestly I would ideally like a partner who had a similar perspective on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:56 AM
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I have absolutely no interest in casual sex because I value it. There are a lot of women who feel that way, even if it’s easier for women to have it than men - it just isn’t appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:51 AM
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No I remember reading about several cases online and then recently a study showed that male morticians were having a harder time finding work due to the frequency of sex with corpses and it was becoming female dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:18 AM
13

Which is why a lot of women don’t want kids or marriage. No one wants to parent their husband. There isn’t really a benefit to marriage for women if a man refuses to be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:18 AM
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I am sorry I am not sure what this means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:55 AM
11

They never met each other but both were actually like that themselves but tried to hide it. They were both absolutely obsessed with looking a certain way but behind closed doors they were themselves the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:54 AM
6

Women want men to do their fair share of the household since they are working too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:44 AM
4

It’s not like I walk around assuming these things of every man I see because I really don’t care that much it’s just I’ve heard men say these things or what men say to each other or heard about a group who did something rather shocking and then more men come out and have done the same thing and it’s like whoa…didn’t expect that one. I mean I have brothers and I know that they aren’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:41 AM
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My dad and stepdad both told me this about men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:34 AM
2

I know which isn’t at all a trad wife so looking at social media that portrays it is very unrealistic to what it’s actually like if women choose to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:25 AM
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What makes you think that we don’t though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:24 AM
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Well sure a working woman can be a trad wife it just means she has multiple jobs and needs to work cook, clean, and raise children after she gets home from her paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:21 AM
6

There is a significant impact on mental health I’d imagine too. Being lonely and a lot of people minimize how much work raising children takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:17 AM
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Yes women are leaving and there has been in increase in young men joining. Last year Mormon women left the church in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:13 AM
4

The popular ones on TikTok are making enough for their husband not to work and to hire staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:12 AM
7

Oh absolutely agree with you there - I know women who do want to be a SAHM but they can’t afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:09 AM
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That’s because a lot of women have watched their mothers and grandmothers suffer and the reality is not that great for them. It’s another reason women are leaving organized religion - we are not cattle to be raised to benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:08 AM
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I think the other thing about this is that if for any reason your marriage doesn’t workout financial dependency and no work history is a huge risk. Not saying it happens all the time but I do know women who had no resources if something happened and that’s scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:01 AM
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Only people who lack brain cells and hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:56 AM
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The reason it’s not more popular is women have already decided and don’t need more explaining thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:47 AM
5

To a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:46 AM
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Your candidate is literally a nepo baby reality tv star who bankrupted most of his companies and has 34 felonies for fraud. This comedy skit is more realistic. Unfortunately you’re too deep in the Fox News maga jfk is alive an anon nonsense. I hope you find your way back to reality someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:45 AM
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The mortician industry comes to mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:34 AM
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To me it makes her look good tbh lol I notice you don’t seem to mention trump had had kids with 3 women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:28 AM
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Go ahead - but I do actually see where I was wrong with this statement geared towards men jsyk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:26 AM
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Because having children isn’t what every woman wants. As Kamala said - what makes you think her ambition is to be humble?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:23 AM
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Omg you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:21 AM
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This right here is why women feel men don’t care about them. A competent rapist ladies and gentlemen - that is just fucking sad. Trump is a bigger slut btw and it’s still not even true and if women could sleep there way to the top (they can’t) you really think we wouldn’t have been in charge awhile ago? She’s more competent than Trump by a long shot and most previous presidents and presidential candidates btw and dei crap is literal maga garbage She has not only democratic support but more repub…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:19 AM
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You invalidated my experience and told me I need to validate yours. You don’t get to decide what’s invalidating to me as a woman - that’s where you’re wrong. You can’t tell me that you know my experience then say but you know men care more about women than I do i when fucking live it. I don’t exist to tell men they are right because or lower my standards. This is exactly what I am saying men do nonstop - you’re being inherently selfishness and entitled. You assume I don’t care about men - like e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:14 AM
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I hate agreeing with this but I’ve had people tell me men with children are likely more responsible than men without when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:53 AM
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White women are the reason Hillary Clinton lost to Donald Trump - yes - white women need to do their part and vote for Kamala. White women have a tendency to champion movements and then fall flat due to privilege white women receive from white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:50 AM
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