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Question For MenIneedtogetthisout97/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:23 AM
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I see men insulting and teasing short men all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:39 PM
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This actually is showing of men’s lack and inability to empathize with women imo. Men are being illogical and emotional here. Men are our predators. Human women are one of the few animals that mate with their top predators. Most women have bad experiences with men (usually the ones closest to us - it has a greater impact in that sense)- most have never encountered bear. You’re making it about men when it’s about women’s lived experiences. It was started by a man btw and only got popular because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:30 PM
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Right partner will make sure you have when you need it as long as you communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:55 PM
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we don’t think men like us at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:42 PM
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She used it logically - whereas it appears your mom did not seeing as you’re here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:02 AM
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It was the side effects - I believe they were similar to female hormonal birth control - which is not fun either. Birth control causes that for women today and has been for years - so you’re just proving my point. They never finished the testing because they didn’t have too - we already carry all the risk and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:35 AM
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It means you understand why insecure men manipulate to the effect of reducing another’s confidence so we choose not to let them. We already see the result that is fueled by what benefits your own fragile weak ego. Which is actually you being more emotional while we are being logical to counteract projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:41 PM
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Or foting = voting for a felon so we logically don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:32 PM
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Imagine if men understood correlation 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:44 PM
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Birth control. Figuratively and literally. Even though men could equally do the same and often don’t want to cuz of “feels”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:18 PM
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“Want” Because I don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:50 PM
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OP please take this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:11 AM
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I tell everyone about it if they let me 😂 I hope you like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:02 AM
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Yessss - this is why I like it because I’m the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:57 AM
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Have you ever tried magnesium spray? You can buy it on Amazon and spray it on the bottom of your feet - works better for me than anything I’ve tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:48 AM
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I don’t want to 🤷‍♀️ I’ve been celibate for 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:37 AM
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The orgasm gap. Speaking personally - I have a hard time getting out of my own head during sex. I am reserved and shy. The partner who I had the best sex with connected to me emotionally significantly better and allowed me to be in the moment which led to orgasm because I felt safe. So I correlate emotional safety to sexual attraction because I know that it will lead to a better experience for me. Don’t get me wrong - this is a me problem but taking control of my own pleasure means I need this k…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:24 PM
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Men tend to intellectualize “feeling” which is common in people who suppress their emotions their entire life (and logical thinkers). Which is understandable considering the relevance of toxic masculinity in society. (It is not healthy btw). The problem is “intellectualizing feelings” and “feeling emotions” are coming from different data points in the body & brain. This is why women and men have a disconnect in conflict. Men are technically not being empathetic by definition - they are prone to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:34 PM
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She’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:09 PM
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I thought there was protection that waived this if someone was on social security or disability?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:53 AM
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It has medical diagnosis and has physical effects. You cannot control your nervous system if it’s triggered this way. You dissociate which also cannot control. Did you know this outwardly looks like being clumsy? Your brain disconnects from your body and that’s why you appear that way. It is in the DSM-5 because it is a serious illness diagnosed for medical treatment. It’s covered by insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:10 AM
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Our nervous systems change with trauma An example is PTSD - it is a nervous system response in medical diagnosis - very hard to ever regulate after those things Stress does this too You do not understand what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:02 AM
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You’re being too literal and you’re actually wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:33 AM
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You are going off county and I am going off area/town
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:20 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:15 AM
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Hyper-vigilance from experiences with men is what makes us better at predicting and reading them. It develops from trauma most often. It’s a survival technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:09 AM
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I don’t live in NYC - it’s cheaper there than where i live.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:02 AM
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I relate to what you shared. I am very guarded emotionally for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:58 AM
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I feel the same about gen z as a millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:17 AM
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It’s more just different shades of red
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:03 AM
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You’re the dad bod of this sub. Not ideal but consistently providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:00 AM
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You and I both know that you’re also the light when this light dims
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:59 AM
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You are enlightened my friend. The male awakening is years ahead of females.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:53 AM
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Yes and consideration for generational wealth that exists in these places where a lot of people don’t work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:20 AM
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I do not think the men who post here are the most accurate representation - but that doesn’t mean they don’t matter. It shows you what the root issues are that you may not see elsewhere to find solutions less extreme. There is relevance to the intensity of pain. It shows you how the world affects the most unseen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:28 AM
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I will admit I am naturally biased to favor women - I like posting here to challenge that to try to understand equality between gender. I am part of the problem if I don’t value what men say about how things affect them. People need to acknowledge bias equally with equal effort. But I also don’t have to sacrifice my own wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:22 AM
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We have different ideas of injustice for our gender than you do based on our history as humans. Until we understand each other attacks will continue. The root of the issue is misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:16 AM
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I think men only listen to men and need men to do it for themselves and each other at this point in time. People aren’t listening
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:14 AM
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I believe it is meant to be equalize but is imbalanced by old ideals of what men are valued for by society. If men do not fight and prioritize for resources to help with their POV as humans who matter it will always be imbalanced because their perception is they are worth less than they used to be by society because women can do more as well. Their entire identity is in crisis. Edit: For some perspective - I have a 39 year old brother who is an incel. He hates me and abused me as a kid because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 AM
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My brother lactated and it scarred him I’m pretty sure. Just enough to stain a t-shirt or two lol. Apparently that’s a sign of high hormones common for men in puberty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:04 AM
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I am speaking to you because I am responding to what you said. Your first instinct in this thread was to invalidate a woman by making her empathize your pain as equal to hers instead of doing the opposite. You prioritize your own validation which is why majority of men are in desperate need of mental health support in comparison to women. You cannot validate yourself — you use others to do it for you. Understanding how to empathize with others helps you do it for yourself and nature takes its co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:00 AM
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The difference is you want to say women demand empathy when you are using women to get what you want instead of them freely sleeping with you. We do not owe men anything for being men and you do not owe us anything in return. The difference is we don’t want anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:49 AM
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I do not want to disclose my annual but for an idea I made 95K last week closing a deal that took me about 20 hours total over the span of 2 months but it varies on my clients. I consult for UHNW VC. I live in an area where you cannot buy a house under a million dollars it is so expensive to live you cannot live here and survive. I think you are considered below the poverty level until you hit $100K here as individual. I think that families are $250K
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:38 AM
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Not if he’s trying to get me to notice those things. I will notice regardless and I will be able to tell if he uses it which will indicate his intentions and insecurity. Flashing a car key is an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:34 AM
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I make more than that and I would be ok with $175k if he was ideal other ways but would prefer more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:29 AM
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It heavily relies on COL in your area. Where I live that is low end of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:25 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:08 AM
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Nah because men instead would use the head with ripples instead of the head that never sees the light of day unless it’s being tugged at
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:31 PM
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I often wonder what society would look like if men didn’t lol We’d definitely have universal income
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:26 PM
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I literally do this all the time on here even when I don’t agree because the point was to understand their POV. If you truly wanted to encourage that you would have written a very different response. I have interacted with you several times despite you saying incredibly insulting sexist opinions and literally validated you to let you know I heard what you said and I accepted your reality without arguing. That is empathy. Practice what you preach because I rarely see you do that without a dig or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:19 PM
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No that’s only a man’s opinion that is less valuable than my own therefore irrelevant. Your opinion holds as much weight as your insecurities. Which doesn’t weigh in the favor of weak men who need me to believe it to fool themselves as worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:49 PM
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Honestly because none of you listen ever. Whenever we talk about it you tell us why we are lucky and how much worse you have it rather than processing what we say when we speak as majority of these threads about male issues already. You make it a competition about freaking abortion & child birth. You don’t ever listen to us - you tell us your opinion of who we are. Reality is most of you don’t care because you only value us for what we don’t give you freely. Stop thinking you know us when you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:37 PM
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If you understand the psychology of sales you would understand the relevancy of her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:28 PM
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No I just am manipulating a manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:20 PM
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The freedom not to justify my choices because I can take care of myself and get whatever I want. Like teaching men humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:14 PM
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Accomplishing whatever goals I set my mind to without being easily persuaded by the fear of failure. Practicing resilience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:53 PM
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I have no reason to settle when I love being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:41 PM
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Yes but the more ambitious I am the better my options - only the best man with the best qualities gets that kind of women submit. Edit: this is the thing they don’t want you to know ladies based on the reaction they hate when they don’t define you for their benefit !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:38 PM
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I am a “May the 4th be with you” baby, so same - but in another kind of way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:34 PM
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Men have serious unaddressed generational trauma - I think this every time they bring up being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:29 PM
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Your edits are selling it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:25 PM
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This is only relevant under the assumption women aspire to be humble. Many are not these days as it tends to be to the benefit of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:24 PM
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I have two older brothers so I can empathize. I know enough to know that empathy is not mutually exchanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:13 PM
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Sounds like you speak from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:00 PM
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That’s a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:59 PM
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The equity part of it is that society pays to support these kids via taxes. Honestly I wish more of our taxes were used for children’s needs and development - but it is an argument against equity. Abortion isn’t free either - it should be in this case and birth control and more male options of contraception and STD testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:48 PM
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It’s a strategy for women to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:35 PM
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No my argument is that you’re prone to pick a fight with a stranger on the internet about it instead. Like you are doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:27 PM
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It’s an alternative to fixing things in a sustainable manner…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:22 PM
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This is why a lot of men have a reputation to resort to violence. They see it as the path of least resistance which they constantly say is what they do to get what they want and not an ounce more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:19 PM
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It is a medical procedure. The argument is always about a woman who doesn’t want the kid - not the dead fetus inside her that needs the medical procedure known as abortion or she will die. Every argument is about getting even - makes it hard to see the act as equality it provides. Edit: also majority of abortions are married couples. What it reinforces can also be taken as men are ok with their partner dying if it prevents them from paying potential child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:56 PM
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Only when he uses this account lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:17 PM
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😂 this comment killed me it sums up PPD perfectly you have a way with words op
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:36 AM
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You’d have to ask them instead of asking me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:27 AM
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What does that have to do with anything I said or is it a women bad strawman? I have never dated a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:07 AM
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Men are men so they should be free to be the men that men decided is best for men which is the right of all men if they are men and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:33 AM
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I told you yesterday - I think your character development is good but it’s still not passing pattern recognition in text
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:05 AM
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We agree to disagree then - which is another reason I think parents should decide how to raise their kids whom may end up on here with a bunch of different accounts to troll which would be way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:56 AM
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I cannot take you seriously with your alter egos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:45 AM
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Which is another reason to not make them feel like they need to hide things from you when they start getting curious because they think it’s wrong or will get them in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:31 AM
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I posted this in the right area. You don’t care what I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:29 AM
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You can take her to the doctor too which I would recommend because they will likely kick you out of the room and make sure she’s with you by her own free will
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:25 AM
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ah I forgot - he’s 6’2 it is his right to legacy regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:16 AM
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Women really need to stop projecting on men - it’s not at all attractive. It’s not like they are humans or anything and should be considered in who they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:12 AM
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Absolutely not - pay attention to what your kids consume. That is your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:59 AM
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You guys always say this crap to the guy who is literally living the dream you all complain about every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:43 AM
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You credit them to yourselves whenever women share their experiences with men by getting defensive. If you aren’t one of them - why does it bother you? Similarly, if you don’t like women you don’t have to be with them. If you would like to take credit for your gender you can take consequences and judgement too…like women have since the beginning of time. Just because you blame me doesn’t mean it’s my job to be accountable to your liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:54 AM
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I thank the woman that birthed you then just as much. Without her - you wouldn’t exist to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:59 AM
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Having the same gender doesn’t give you credit for other men’s accomplishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:34 AM
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I’m aware that most men are weak. After all, the propaganda that led to a patriarchal society was to protect your feelings of inadequacy because without it women would have nothing to do with 90% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:37 AM
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They act on it too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:28 AM
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That’s the misogyny that women are used to dealing with as we are black pilled at birth. We know how men are. The pills are just a battle of who can manipulate women that they don’t care about better because either way every man has a right to his own personal bang maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:13 AM
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Didn’t you cheat on your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:06 AM
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It’s predatory to both women and men. It only works for the top 15% of men who were already somewhat attractive and needed a few social and self care skills. There is validity in “fake it til you make it” when it comes to confidence which is why it’s good for those men. Where goes wrong is the other 85% of men desperately in need of mental health support. But it seems to only make those men sicker and more isolated. On top of it all - since it attracts men who are insecure you then police each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:13 AM
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Dating: Women as we hold the advantage over men and have higher standards. LTR/Marriage: Men take more effort as they are not emotionally mature. A lot of times men use women as pacifiers for their discomfort because they never learn to regulate emotion outside of anger. They want mothering. It is also very common of men to be jealous of newborns and compete for attention. Similar men often have a hard time if the wife makes more or is more successful. The opposite exists, but men admit openly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:08 AM
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Thank you - that def explains all the man on man policing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:33 AM
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Sure - but men also kill men more. There is duality but majority of violence committed by men is to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:00 PM
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Men dont like other men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:52 PM
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It’s interesting how the effect of hormonal birth control is never part of these conversations considering it’s part of why women have higher standards. Walking around in a body that is manipulated into thinking it’s 3 months pregnant has an effect on sexual selection. Birth control suppresses biological factors that signify genetic fitness in men. The pill reduces women’s sexual satisfaction which wasn’t a problem for majority of human existence. Men have reported feeling less attractive to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:49 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:58 PM
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I don’t think you are qualified to decipher what the average woman is impacted by. Red pill is not niche information within women’s networks because awareness is how we keep ourselves safe. Men don’t do that like same way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:48 PM
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Yes you are correct that physical will always be first but that doesn’t mean all. I wanted to give you an example of how personality is important in leverage and can be a deciding factor if a woman is on the fence (which happens). I see a lot of guys post on here about getting a match and then it going sour via messages before the date. I see girls change their minds on a guy because he makes her laugh. It helps even if it’s not the main character but I think you guys downplay it too often becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:03 PM
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Interesting I would have thought the opposite the way I see it spoken about here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:31 AM
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RP sees things as black and white. BP sees things in color. They generalize and we individualize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:15 AM
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I know but I don’t think men actually enjoy being treated as fuck boys at a certain point it gets vapid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:09 AM
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RP puts a bandaid on a deeper issue imo - I think there’s a balance of both that would be more ideal for a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:40 AM
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That makes sense thank you for the explanation. Not all of the explanations are in such good faith and that’s the part that’s hard to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:30 AM
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TBP is more likely to suggest something like therapy lol (not that it is always helpful or that it works for all). TRP has great points but it lacks duality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:17 AM
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I do not understand how this was so unknown
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:13 AM
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You guys don’t even know half of what women lie about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:08 AM
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Which has an impact that outweighs the cost for you but it doesn’t mean there isn’t still an impact in the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:05 AM
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Maybe that’s his account too …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:03 AM
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Which could also have an impact on women not wanting to use it honestly - the popularity of red pill isn’t appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:55 AM
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No - women are attracted to men who have good interpersonal skills, social awareness, and emotional regulation in combination with other things and it improves your chances. You guys refuse to listen to women like we don’t know what makes a man fuckable even if he isn’t visibly perfect in every way. It’s the combination dude Those women are the women who also need to do work on developing those skills - they both do - but men seem much more resistant from what I see. These are the women you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:59 AM
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Have you ever wondered why there are millions of women who read porn and majority of men watch it and what those differences mean? One of them adds emotional context For the love of goddess men cannot be this dense What is so funny is you are the fuck boy if you were attractive enough doing exactly what you project - pick better women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:38 AM
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Is that why you got so mad about it? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:35 AM
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I think that person has like 10 diff ones lol One is a cheater, one instigates for fun, and one is 6’5 and well endowed but thinks women don’t like sex He curates thoughtfully but uses identical sentence structure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:32 AM
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Men typically feel entitled to other peoples labor so - take doing the dishes - men will pretend they don’t know how to do something well so that their partner will do it for them and they do this for everything. They will act like deserve a submission from their partner for manipulating them and thinking she doesn’t know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:09 AM
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This is the guy who waiting for men to get their “ rightful power” back from women so they submit and he said they will do that because men should be respected for their honor When I asked him how he would earn that respect he told me he was 6’5
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:47 AM
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Your argument is actually very telling of the kind of partner and man you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:42 AM
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Men lie to each other A LOT
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:39 AM
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This was such a good perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:28 AM
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Yep the emotional load would be much more balanced if they would date each other and I don’t know why they don’t It’s the path of least resistance for fragile masculinity and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:18 AM
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You are wrong because no matter how hot a guy is if he doesn’t do that development he says really unattractive things before the date even happens and has zero idea he’s doing it or why she cancelled. Women immediately notice language and we notice more than men seem to notice about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:03 AM
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There’s a vetting process to get in - but you’re right that has happened — I edited thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:16 PM
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Edited to protect the sisterhood
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:04 PM
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Men believe weaponized incompetence is worthy of respect and submission. They will follow the path of least resistance every single time and demand honor. Nothing they do is for another person - it’s leverage. Men do not believe they need to manage their emotions if they can mask it as injustice and anger. Men lie just as much if not more than women - the only difference is we have known that forever. Women have been studying men’s behaviors for centuries and we share information and resources. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:36 PM
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I do this when it comes to men and women. It’s been relevant to female friendships. But I like to add in - reading what men & women say anonymously on the internet. Why wouldn’t anyone do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:32 PM
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You’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:29 PM
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But all this really says is people don’t understand how it works - this wasn’t exclusive to America - and the USA had less than other countries. There’s an education crisis that is getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:10 PM
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I know I posted in haste
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:03 PM
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He’s already rich this is different
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:21 PM
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This is a very telling comment lol - she literally described an employed and drug free man who won’t cheat in his 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:45 AM
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I love banter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:22 AM
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Get in really good shape - women I know who like them younger specifically want that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:08 AM
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I toured space x a few years ago and it was super cool but that’s all the positives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:49 AM
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Agree with all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:47 AM
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Whichever you deem more wonderful is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:32 AM
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we can because we are all wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:14 AM
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Yep you are, own it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:09 AM
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Use gel pens - trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:06 AM
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I love them. If they are long I take notes for my response
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:00 AM
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I would say if you listen to women it’s common sense we do not trust men. Most of our fathers told us this since the age of 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:07 AM
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It’s because you need to earn it. Being legally classified as property is the only reason men ever had blind manufactured respect from women. They had no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:29 AM
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That’s what none of them will acknowledge - they’d rather manipulate women than build trust with women for the sake of their egos — which is beta lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:18 AM
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But what did they do then that made them more worthy? We contribute more now than we did back then. Is manufactured submission preferable to you than authentic submission?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:13 AM
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You’re right - we def need to raise our standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:08 AM
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I love how the suggestion always requires taking something from someone else and enjoying the punishment coming for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 AM
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Why do you think it’s your right to have those things? I mean submission isn’t really a right. If someone wants to submit to you they will regardless of “rightful power”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:47 AM
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Reminds me of several exchanges here talking about how hideous and unfuckable Margot Robbie is. They talk a lot of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:28 AM
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They are far from unrealistic ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:07 AM
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What power specifically is rightfully yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:01 AM
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That makes sense - they often come off interchangeable to the outside perspective to be honest with you - but i do see varying stances with the red pill flair and I def notice a difference between the ones who actually do the self focused improvement vs the ones who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:52 AM
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Because your exposures are also confessions. It lifts the veil on the fact that females are the dominant gender when it comes to sex and reproduction. You like to call it privilege but it’s dominance - otherwise you wouldn’t need to manipulate women by trying to make them insecure. Your exposures always end the same way - women should accept less for your own gain. The reason women are sexually attracted to the top masculine men for sex and won’t lower their standards is because we already domin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:27 AM
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It also exposes fragile masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:38 AM
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Sex granted for accuracy 👑👸🪄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:08 PM
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Well that’s why I’m not arguing that your conclusions based on your experiences aren’t valid - I am willing to challenge my own bias and perception when men talk about it. That is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:37 PM
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That two things can be true at once. I can agree to the relevance of an RP generalization while simultaneously seeing that nuance is equally important. BP argues in philosophy using theory which is why it’s fluid. RP argues in data - but only deem the top line to be relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:20 PM
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It’s because RP doesn’t acknowledge duality in their ideology. It’s not that I don’t see the relevance to the generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:56 PM
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Yes there was a thread yesterday about this - and when women shared why they don’t offer to pay your original point is the exact reason. It’s a filtering system women use - but not perfect in effect of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:51 PM
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Agreed - and when men complain about getting or paying for dates - they should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:44 PM
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It’s interesting that you dismiss accountability for manipulating. That’s infantilizing to the men who manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:34 PM
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I find this whole thing so funny considering how many men here complain about paying for dates. I think a lot of women comprehend that men have no problem manipulating them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:43 PM
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It’s not an accusation - it’s your entire argument the second you weaponized empathy specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:03 PM
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Ya I gave my friend permission to have sex like 2 days ago but then rescinded it after some troubling behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:23 PM
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You’re completely valid in that - your inherent self is worthy of finding someone and I hope that she’s wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:45 PM
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Aren’t you married? Why would you think I’m talking to men who are fucking? And if you’re fucking tell the other men complaining how you did it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:19 PM
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That’s your perception - the world ended Tuesday last week for someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:10 PM
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I’m saying one can be learned. But also - your perception of charisma tells me you don’t understand it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:06 PM
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Yes because I’m unattainable to Chad’s and understand the point even when it doesn’t apply to me because I think critically. Tbh men are the ones who have a really hard time understanding context and take everything literal and project it. I understand things are subjective…which is why I poked back at you goofball. Language is also subjective, for example, my use of the word “you” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:52 AM
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If someone can’t read that and know there’s nuance to any blanket statement then they have bigger issues. When you’re talking about your generalizations of women who want attractive men but you’re ugly, rich men but you’re not rich, charisma is not the worst strategy. And based on the other generalizations you make you should be aware that you could just do the opposite of what I think. This is helpful and relevant either way based off shit you guys say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:32 AM
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They can go to other studios - they made the entire gym and studio women only which is why I drive further to go there than the one by my house. To be a fair it was warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:24 AM
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Actually what I don’t think a lot of men realize is how often women swipe with a couple of friends chiming in on her options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:18 AM
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My hot yoga studio banned men for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:12 AM
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Sales skills and charisma are almost identical to the audience and can be learned quite quickly - the foundations are based on the same techniques. You know girls like men with charisma right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:10 AM
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I know none of you think this is relevant but it is if you know how narcissism is developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:56 AM
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I do but it’s also found in a certain section of the DSM-5
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:29 AM
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Just so you know this is actually textbook narcissism. Textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:11 AM
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I am pretty sure that there are quite a few women in prison getting money - and a lot of it. They aren’t just getting letters they run a full on business in there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:35 AM
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Nope - any man asking me out would be aware that I’m high maintenance already anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:31 AM
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No I wouldn’t. You know how you all are afraid of gold diggers? Same - my stepdad made out with 7 figures of my mom’s money in the divorce and he didn’t work their entire marriage of 15 years. I know what that does to someone. I’m the anomaly to the Chad generalization because I’m unattainable to men like him. I can have what I want if and when I choose to have it. I could get it without the drive because I’m also good looking. That’s why I value drive - I am attracted to men I respect not men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:50 AM
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They can date and I don’t think anyone should tell them it’s wrong. People want connection it’s natural. I would not date them though - I am 33 and I’m very successful though the bulk of that didn’t start to pay off until I was 27 or so. I want someone established, I’m attracted to a certain kind of drive which is why I prioritized my own. I need someone who relates to that or it causes issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:54 AM
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It surprises me given your writing style you don’t see why certain takes are still relevant. You write with a lot of self expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:50 PM
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That’s intentional if you don’t make a woman feel secure enough to show enough vulnerability. Women don’t show their cards because men don’t either and we typically value the emotional connection before men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:46 PM
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Bold to assume women are capable of that smh Typical blue pill logic based on unreality philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:33 PM
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Yeah but that’s only relevant if you consider women humans
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:27 PM
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I saw a guy on here say that he volunteers at an animal shelter and he can’t figure out why the women keep hitting on him because he doesn’t think he’s attractive and he’s awkward. It worked for him and he wasn’t the one approaching. You never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:02 PM
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Easier to be a victim if you don’t acknowledge that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:15 PM
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Apparently I leave my hair everywhere so maybe that’s part of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:03 PM
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But I thought that not masturbating emitted pheromones too. I heard it a while ago so maybe not. And couldn’t you guys just say buy them online like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:30 PM
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Doesn’t this also work if you masturbate less?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:14 PM
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I love how your comments always try to remind them of the validity of nuance and are always ignored lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:10 PM
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The whores for Chad I think I read it in another thread and men know women but women def don’t know men and we gotta check our accountability here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:54 PM
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It’s a trap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:49 PM
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That’s what makes it obvious I’m kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:40 PM
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I don’t have sex outside of relationships - it means something to me and I don’t do it casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:38 PM
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As a clean freak myself in my past relationships I’ve always done more cleaning and I’ve also typically worked/made more - but it’s never been an issue because 1.) my partner would consistently reciprocate in other ways (I hated car maintenance and he did that, he took up cooking, would do the grocery shopping, did everything when I was traveling for work which could be for a month at a time, always drove, planned dates and trips, reminded me to relax lol 2.) cleaning is therapeutic to me - when…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:36 PM
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Support it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:24 AM
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Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:24 AM
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Why are amazing eyebrows always wasted on men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:23 AM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:20 AM
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I have a hard time relaxing if things aren’t immaculate tbh - that includes what’s inside of the draw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:09 AM
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Once I went to the steamer I never went back - so satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:57 AM
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I like folding laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:53 AM
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I’d agree they are also a nuisance and my chiropractor has said something similar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:50 AM
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It’s not I mean that as it’s not even in the same category imo. It took a lot more effort for relief than a porn search. Investing in something that might make life a bit better for you has my support and I don’t think it’s fair to shame someone about it Unless it ends in doom later or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:41 AM
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I just think it would be uncomfortable to walk around with personally. A nuisance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:38 AM
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No cuz it’s not like the sex bot was free. Way larger investment and bothers me less to read about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:30 AM
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He’s a Reddit troll lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:29 AM
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It’s a gift then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:28 AM
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He speaks a lot about Freuds theory of female penis envy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:25 AM
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You remind me of dr long dong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:23 AM
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Thinking straight all the time is overrated imo - we gotta be think curvy to enhance our perspective. Being excited about something is one of my fav feelings - I need to try to do that more often
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:23 AM
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Real person checking in with a sentence to read to help pass the time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:12 AM
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I could never do this without sending my dog into a deep deep depression
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:51 AM
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It’s your duty to remind them and I bet they appreciated that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:08 AM
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If someone wants a sex bot I think they should get one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:04 AM
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This is usually where they mention being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:13 AM
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I’ve had men tell me this and what they meant was anal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:58 AM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:55 AM
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What’s your take on the child support rhetoric I see a lot? Some men seem to really hate it when it’s their biological kid. Some men think they should be granted financial abortion. Just curious - genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:46 AM
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The harm is when you keep complaining about men while constantly trying to fix them. It doesn’t work out well in majority of cases and doesn’t help the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:23 AM
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You’re right there are definitely women who think they can fix men. Maybe that’s why some refuse to do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:21 AM
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All men are asking for is empathy for how hard it is to be a man. They just want to be heard ❤️Also you’re all overreacting about pregnancy, childbirth, and child care. Like why should they pay child support for something that’s not even a big deal? It’s oppressive as fuck you whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:13 AM
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Lol the friends I have who use dating apps all lie and say they love hiking to attract men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:09 AM
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Insecurity is at play in a lot of these scenarios. It’s pretty common for attractive women to be wildly insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:14 AM
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And they are unable to enhance and progress the connection with emotional vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:40 AM
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Then I’d question if those are the best people to consider for a long term relationship. People check outta those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:35 AM
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Oh I make them wait way longer than that lol. My standards are some men’s nightmare. I can read most men better than they can read themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:12 AM
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Based on what you said here only - I’d question your self awareness. Not saying that’s what’s happening - but from your own description of your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:49 PM
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Instant gratification has become sooo normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:48 PM
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I agree with this. That’s why I think people gotta look within at their own intentions and act on integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:46 PM
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Agreed. Heavy petting and impressive self restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:44 PM
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She takes things at face value and presents herself as such while looking for a life partner. That only works to get sex. The best way to understand the intentions of others is to be mindful of your own. She’s super cute - but she’s super naive. The men who’ve chased her aren’t Christian and that is very important to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:26 PM
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Well I have a friend who complains about this a lot but when I think about what she offers or our interactions I don’t see a lot of depth to her (not to be a total bitch). I think dating app culture lacks depth and self reflection when it takes 5 minutes to create an account which is great for seeking sex if you’re hot. But she’s looking to find depth while displaying or developing zero. If she would she’d probably look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:12 PM
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Dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:53 PM
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I’m celibate but not because of the election or because I hate men (I don’t) and I am more purple pill tbh Prob just being manipulative with my flair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:17 PM
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I’m glad you haven’t - but people pay me to do it in my line of work for non-romantic purposes. This is actually just as relevant to business strategy, development, and contract negotiations. My job is understanding what gets powerful people to act. I’m just saying - respect doesn’t absolve you from being taken advantage of - in-fact the more you self identify the easier it becomes to those with a high “EQ” I sound psycho but I find humans fascinating and hyper vigilance pays my bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:59 PM
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You assume any of this manipulation would be under the idea that the alpha trusted me fully -- that actually only gives me more tools to use to manipulate further. Not denying your manipulation tactics - just that it’s possible you haven’t met your match in terms of calculated tactics. Not that I actively go out of my way to do this - but I’m fucking good at it if I want to be. I can discern how you discern and use it to my advantage about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:18 PM
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There is weakness when it comes to imbalance. Manipulation isn’t as easy to identify when you have zero tolerance and see little value for nuance. If know what someone wants from me and what I need to do to please them - I know to make them benefit me under the guise of authenticity and blindside them easily. There is so much power in knowing what makes people tick. That’s why I agree with some of the red pill vantage points when I read discourse here. There is always a fragility to self respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:02 PM
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I think the alpha you described is way easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:50 PM
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I wouldn’t argue with that - there’s nuance to each situation of course. I’d assume there could also be an intent behind it to help a man see he may be in an abusive relationship - but from my perspective that is not nearly as common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:31 PM
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I interpret it as emasculation when used in the context I described and perpetuating toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:21 PM
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It really bothers me when either men or women shame men for this - especially here. For all the threads I read where men are crying out for empathy and understanding - they sure rage at the men who offer both. There’s a balance that is very desirable. I most often see this insult used by single men towards men already in relationships having consistent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:00 PM
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Both being slightly overweight with skinny arms made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:02 AM
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Interesting - thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:16 AM
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I didn’t know this was controversial. I got mine from an abusive childhood lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:10 AM
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I prob think of it differently than a lot of people because I’m paid for my opinion and these are the tools. Not to sound manipulate as fuck or anything…but the best sales people have the highest EQ. Liars don’t even know they told on themselves - very cool you have this skill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:15 AM
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Perhaps that was a virtue signal then apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:08 AM
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Reading the room, interpreting the unsaid, and anticipating what someone is going to do before anyone else by picking up on their emotions in combination with hyper vigilance, empathy, and self awareness. I’ve made a very successful career out of it in strategy and business development. I couldn’t date someone who didn’t have a high EQ - it’s often seen outwardly as charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:02 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:34 AM
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I’m not sure it’ll matter - but I really appreciated reading your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:34 AM
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Lol I won’t argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:37 PM
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Do you have a lot of dating experience? I am not saying it’s the #1 thing but it is important to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:32 PM
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Please add lack of empathy because that is noticeable and often ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:36 PM
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🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:47 PM
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Just little seal girls living in a seal world and it’s so hard to get by. I really hope someone gets that reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:38 PM
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When did I say it was? You don’t get to assume to fit your narrative. I would say your argument is pretty weird here. Slavery is a lived experience that diminished personhood in the worst possible way. Which you agreed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:37 PM
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Don’t fein ignorance when it suits your argument. You’re the one who mentioned it as something you’d consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:31 PM
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I don’t think men generally have strong support systems. I also think it can be hard to maintain support systems in a bad or failing marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:28 PM
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I wouldn’t blame the doctor I’d blame the law. Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:23 PM
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It’s not about him - it’s about his perception of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:21 PM
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Status matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:31 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:29 PM
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Is it malpractice to not want to go to prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:09 PM
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I like making my own money. I like to work. You brought it up not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:37 PM
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I’m not sure I am following your logic but do you consider being drafted anything of substance here as many men haven’t made it back home? Or are treated as lepers by society for a choice they did not make?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:36 PM
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Can you share with me then - what denies men’s personhood in your opinion? Feminism movements that benefit women and ignore men? What doesn’t mean to you other than the googled definition that happens to leave out the philosophical aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:15 PM
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Women work. I am both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:06 PM
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Well you’re asking for a women’s perspective. I’d imagine many men feel similarly when they are treated as predators or dangerous for being men, no? I’m not treated that way but if you told me that was your experience I would not invalidate it. Just like your whole financial abortion argument - I would say I’m open to challenging my bias towards it as I’m choosing not to deny your personhood by making you a slave to child support. Are those invalid for you as a man to your personhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:56 PM
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Then why do women keep dying for refusal of care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:48 PM
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No! Nouns only - no verbs! So what if lived is the verb for said noun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:42 PM
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Ah so a lived experience you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:30 PM
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Like paying for child support via taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:14 PM
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lol I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:12 PM
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Pseudo-intellectuals love to use theory to argue philosophy like it’s a trump card as if you can’t use theory to justify the opposite of their claim but they’ll deem it invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:08 PM
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Because you’re a product as opposed to a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:05 PM
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But having experiences with men overrides that logic in a knee jerk reaction. That’s what I feel you aren’t acknowledging. The only reason it got popular is because a man asked it to a group of women and was surprised by the answer - it’s not a man hunt to say all men are dangerous because many men are wonderful. It’s supposed to show you that women are afraid of men as they are our immediate predators we are exposed to daily. Most often because the ones who we think will keep us safe (fathers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:21 AM
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No - the point isn’t the bear. The point is why do women say bear. Most women have never interacted with a bear. All women interact with men, and most women have had a bad experience which overshadows the lack of bear experience. You take it too literally and missing the point. If you asked women the same question but instead asked man vs bear in a small locked room - you’d probably have different and more balanced answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:15 AM
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If you’re truly interested please research 6B or 7B - not just the 4B’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:19 PM
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So therapy may lead to the same consensus as the movement. I support therapy here too honestly. But that doesn’t mean it would have a vastly different affect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:09 PM
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Just as I appreciate your example of men feeling entitled to women’s labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:04 PM
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I don’t have to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:50 PM
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Therapy teaches you to self validate. That’s its purpose - to not rely on others to do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:15 PM
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You can read.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:07 PM
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Do you need a not all men mention here or?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:00 PM
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I’ve upvoted you nonstop the past few days 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:58 PM
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I’ve seen a collective overreaction that made men look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:12 PM
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A lot of men misunderstand the point of man vs bear just like they misunderstand women who choose abstinence. Some men will find a way to make things about themselves so they can be victim rather than try to understand. Those men refuse to listen while demanding to be heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:42 PM
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Ahh goody another post about 4B to show how little men care about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:06 PM
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Which is why you need a good lawyer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:10 AM
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lol @ u arguing with a fucking lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:58 AM
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Same and child support lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:55 AM
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You need to have a good attorney and don’t wait until the last minute before marriage. A lot of them get thrown out for very legitimate but avoidable reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:55 PM
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No idea - that’s why I asked because I was curious about mens perspective and lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:36 PM
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Try 1965 for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:08 PM
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Everything to do with men’s dicks apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:35 AM
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Nah we just need to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:30 AM
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Extremely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:58 AM
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Do fathers talk to their sons about these kinds of things or no? (Genuine question)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:45 AM
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Hang around in circles with wealthy people you’ll find out how popular this is amongst the rich and powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:27 AM
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I am being vague purposely but I will say 8 years later it still affects him emotionally/mentally. I think it’s a big part of why he became a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:31 AM
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I don’t speak for every woman. Go ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:51 AM
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I don’t see it as punishment, it’s a decision I made for myself, it’s what I want for me and I didn’t just decide this on Tuesday. I’ve been celibate for 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:48 AM
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Good I hope you find a nice conservative woman to make a life with. I hope she gets everything she voted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:10 AM
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The lack of balls is what makes it more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:32 AM
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For how sure some men are that it won’t matter I am definitely seeing a lot of complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:28 AM
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I don’t feel comfortable posting all the deets but DV and SA (not rape).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:22 PM
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My brother by his ex when she was having a manic episode. Not the scenario you described - but accusations that were untrue as I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:11 PM
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I’m not suggesting your feelings on it are wrong, I’m asking you to let proving it to her go as it’s not what she needs to hear from this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:26 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:52 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:40 AM
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Do you wear pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:17 PM
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I wouldn’t argue that - I just found it very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:33 PM
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You don’t believe depression, trust issues anxiety, or other psychological damage can happen when you’re physically abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:31 PM
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You can’t do this with FTC regulations as easily as you could a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:52 PM
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Wow - to me this seems really rare (your comment about fathers).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:56 PM
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This study is 14 years old and only ranges 18-28
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:25 AM
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Men are more jealous of women than anything, and it’s been like this for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:43 AM
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Of course your list is missing empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:41 AM
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I think you two should fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:23 AM
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lol good thing you are pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:37 AM
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They can bleed out or die of sepsis in that time 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:34 AM
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Not if they can’t afford it/not enough time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:32 AM
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They are probably talking about the women who die because they need an abortion and can’t get one which may be someone u care about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:31 AM
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I had this theory for a while since men like to talk to me about my hair just as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:42 AM
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It’s obviously about his button nose
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:21 AM
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I think it’s kind of cute when guys get all into their games. Gives me time to watch dance moms in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:59 AM
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Trump winning would suck and give me feelings that I like to avoid feeling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:58 AM
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I’m a little nervous 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:52 AM
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This also explains why some of the men on here act like baby grinch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:18 AM
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I am rooting for you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:31 AM
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I saw a man on TikTok do some hockey stretches - this worked well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:26 PM
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I think it would be hard to get a 501c3 for that - but maybe not. I’m all for it either way OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:23 PM
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If it was a dating app that didn’t care about revenue or profits then sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:21 PM
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The writing was something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:43 PM
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It doesn’t appeal to me at all. It’s too intimate to ever be casual. I’d write off a man who said he wanted “casual” as a potential partner. I don’t care to change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:48 AM
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Nah I’d tell my girlfriend good riddance and to find someone who wants to be with her instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:59 AM
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It would have been a “no” and then you’d feel angry that you invested your time in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:41 AM
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You give away all your power here. Take some of it back by having standards for yourself such as - not being interested in people who don’t care who you are without knowing you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:40 AM
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Then perhaps social media isn’t the best place to get to know people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:27 AM
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Why do you want to get to know anyone who doesn’t want to get to know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:24 AM
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Because they don’t want to and that is enough reason. Not everyone wants to get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:22 AM
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It’s allowed to hurt your feelings and it’s allowed to be used however anyone sees fit without your approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:18 AM
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It’s because you deem their reasons not good enough for you. Just because you don’t like certain reasoning doesn’t make them invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:13 AM
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I advocate for men to leave situations when they are unhappy in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:00 AM
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Congratulations on your son.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:22 PM
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And don’t complain when women don’t want to get married or have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:10 PM
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Being unhappy typically causes you to treat others worse. Especially those closest to you. Staying together for the kids usually does more harm than good. Parents are people too. Repeating toxic behaviors and instilling them into your kids doesn’t do society any favors. If divorce causes you to abandon your children you weren’t a good parent anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:06 PM
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I have had a very similar experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:00 PM
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This kind of thinking is why I never tell men my ex was 6’10 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:57 PM
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Very tinkerbell coded
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:46 PM
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I see other men admiring smart men when they use it as an example of how women couldn’t survive without the inventions of men 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:13 PM
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I would never have sex on a first date, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:33 PM
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How old are you? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:22 PM
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You could have just agreed that you watch a lot of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:40 PM
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You said “being used” which isn’t the same as dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:18 PM
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This sounds like an opinion formed watching a lot of porn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:13 PM
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Why do you think a percentage of women fake their orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:02 PM
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Holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:16 PM
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Spoken like yet another victim of lazy entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:28 AM
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I’m just not sure what you want women to do? Failure can happen even with the best advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:59 AM
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The problem is a lot of you double down when you don’t like the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:06 AM
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Perhaps you could call it a Freudian slip even?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:54 AM
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Because some have experienced refusal of the word “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:51 AM
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I think you meant successful and smart which is even harder tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:29 AM
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Just smart - were you one of the ones who lost an argument with me today?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:14 AM
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This was a brilliant answer thank you. (Genuine)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:33 AM
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Weaponized incompetence tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:17 AM
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Great advice for people who don’t want to wait until it’s too late and don’t realize the impact - until you’ve experienced that people can be way too optimistic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:00 AM
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But I thought this was our responsibility that we needed to take accountability for?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:55 AM
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Well that is naive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:53 AM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:46 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with a prenup or postnup or choosing to not get married - all valid options
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:45 AM
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Spoken like a blue haired feminist ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:43 AM
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I knew you’d say that 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:42 AM
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So what you are saying is women give good advice about men 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:20 AM
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I think that’s understandable. I would feel the same about a man with multiple baby mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:59 AM
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You’d be surprised on how relevant this advice was from my personal experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:57 AM
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I’ve given bad advice and I’ve learned from a few men on here that I actually wasn’t clear on what I wanted until I was challenged by a man’s perspective of what I said. It’s not good to give advice when you’re not considering how men perceive it and interacting in good faith. I also think men need to listen to women’s perspectives and interact in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:39 AM
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Genuine question - would you feel similar if a woman had been single for awhile in order to focus on the traits that made her previous relationships unsuccessful instead of filling the void by continuing toxic behavior - thus the reason they are looking later in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:26 AM
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The loudest voice wins and therefore the ones whom don’t speak out contribute to their own oppression. Equality only exists if people put in equal contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:14 AM
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It’s easy to be oppressed when you throw insults instead of having conversations which ultimately correct imbalance by the voices that were louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:10 AM
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Because it’s often characterized as a witch hunt which it wasn’t. YOU are too busy being offended to listen. That’s a lot of words instead of just saying you refuse to acknowledge my point. Thank you for the compliment about my high intelligence. If you scroll down - I actually told you that I thought you made an important point. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:02 AM
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I hesitated before clicking that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:38 PM
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Because it got people to listen and challenge their beliefs - it was not a manhunt. It was what are women experiencing that causes them to give this answer? Most of us have had terrible experiences with men. Most of us haven’t had any with a bear. I’m sure there are men who would have the same answer if you changed it to women - if they had similar experiences at the hand of women such as being raped by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:10 PM
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Do you not think that the power belongs to the people and the leverage that the powerful get to continue seizing power to the point it causes harm - is because the everyday people think they are powerless? I would say listening to men’s experiences and challenging my bias would be an everyday action I could take - do you see any benefit in that? Would you see more benefit if I had these conversations amongst a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:07 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:00 PM
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Well what I wanted to know is what actions would you suggest an everyday person does to combat those. Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:56 PM
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Nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:50 PM
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The DSM-5 is really terrible with many things including eating disorders which is why several don’t use it to diagnose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:50 PM
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Hold rapist accountable seems most logical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:42 PM
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I do which is why I appreciate when I can learn from someone who engages without insults because I actually want to understand Challenging personal bias is important
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:39 PM
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That’s a really good point that you explained perfectly. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:32 PM
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No one should stop talking about this. The most recent rape allegations for diddy came from a 10 year old boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:28 PM
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Virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:26 PM
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I think many men have generational trauma when it comes to war and how often veterans are pushed aside and it’s something that should be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:25 PM
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I didn’t realize how much I did this until I started reading what men say here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:18 PM
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What actions have you taken for those issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:13 PM
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I agree with this completely to be honest with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:07 PM
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I like men who are direct
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:59 PM
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I think this is an important point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:51 PM
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A man defended his sister’s rapist in this thread. Said she deserved worse 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:46 PM
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Man vs bear question was started by a man - the reason it got popular is the answer surprised him Funny I saw men asked bear vs diddy - and they all suddenly got it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:43 PM
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Well equality will always feel like oppression to the oppressor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:41 PM
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She was and so was he. They abused each other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:36 PM
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No it’s not like saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:34 PM
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They need to be choosing better women imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:32 PM
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This is an interesting flex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:26 PM
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This testimony moved me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:21 PM
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Something a man insecure about his masculinity would say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:04 PM
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Yeah I was busy prioritizing my career and our fights most often were that I made double he did and it caused insecurity for him :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:00 PM
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What you think you want when you’re 25 isn’t always realistic. I thought I wanted marriage and I found myself terrified to plan a wedding. My ex and I weren’t putting effort in and it just didn’t feel like either of us were happy. My ex found a wonderful woman who was an acquaintance of mine and she is perfect for him and the better match and they are happily married :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:49 PM
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Unfortunately - I see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:24 PM
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I can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:18 PM
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To be fair I’m pretty sure it’s more emotionally devastating for both than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:15 PM
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I hope then next one does
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:12 PM
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Really I didn’t know this but I’m happy to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:45 AM
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I always thought the screeching was just post nut clarity after their fantasy Chad gets them all riled up having sex with imaginary women who need to lower their standards. I think we should go with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:14 AM
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That strategy seems to be thriving in these spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:02 AM
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Like it started as figurative advice and then we made it literal with rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:54 AM
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Interesting rarely see support from you all when we choose to keep our legs closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:49 AM
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Don’t forget accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:05 AM
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Charisma is similar to sales. If you can perceive what people want before they do usually you can get them to buy or believe it because it gives them an impression of being understood which is the basis of sales. That’s why people say “read the room” so you know how your audience is going to react before they do and can shift to their perceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:58 AM
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This is psycho behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:53 AM
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This is acceptable to me upon reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:31 AM
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I thought this but what I really wanted was a diamond ring which I gave back once I realized and broke off the engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:01 AM
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I think it means men should submit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:35 AM
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I’m waiting for women to be blamed for this in the near future and excited for the suggestions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:26 AM
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You should imo - relatability is relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:38 AM
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They are “selling” - why do you think companies and brands use a face to advertise instead of their employees?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:10 AM
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So do I and I’m not sure if you’ll believe me when I say this but it absolutely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:03 AM
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Some people also have bad senses of humor which says a lot about intellectual compatibility tbh - nothing worse than someone who doesn’t get your humor honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:56 AM
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I assume men who know they are hot and who say dumb stuff highly likely to not care much about how they treat others That’s me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:48 AM
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It’s like the men on here who can’t fathom the idea of a child being their responsibility or fault. Well …that would be hard when you’ve never had responsibility for yourself and believe everyone else should accept less so you don’t have to face yourself to be better. Men who are like this are always looking to replace mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:27 AM
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Men usually do this for 10 bucks at the local bank
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:11 AM
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Thank you this, very interesting. I don’t see any incentive for improvement for male contraception with financial abortion. It’s whats keeping me on the fence as it puts an even greater risk on women contracting STDs. So is it equality if it means placing more responsibly on women than already exists if men refuse to take birth control seriously? Which also leads me to consider that men should have mandatory mental evaluations so they understand what they are about to do - before signing away ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:47 PM
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And I’ve seen zero mention ITT of the need to increase birth control options for men so they aren’t oppressed by rubber or abstinence and can do their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:58 PM
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The whims? This is so mothers shortly after birth don’t leave their babies in dumpster to die due to lack of support like their partner leaving, finances, abusive situations, the baby getting too sick to care for, and mental illness like PPD and PP psychosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:29 AM
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I’m not talking to you specifically I’m just adding here for others to read - it’s not aimed just for you - you seem like you’re actually much nicer than most
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:58 AM
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The comparison is you all victimize yourselves for things that you can change more that people who victimize themselves for things they CANT Further more every single one of you who says dumb shit and is an able-bodied cis male is absolutely fucking WRONG for invalidating the men here who have disabilities outside of their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:47 AM
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Have any of you ever read a book about another person orrrr? Like do any of you all try to learn things from books or just Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:34 AM
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Just a heads up - they know all women better than all women know themselves and they have it harder than all women. They also feel women owe them anal because women will baby trap you because they want your child support which means they get a say in reproductive rights as well as did you know men are drafted and apparently that also justifies this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:33 AM
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Lmao like as if 90% of men are in positions to think they have enough money for it to make a woman revolve their entire life off of marrying them to divorce them. I make more money than most men myself lmao. Men think women only want money because they literally have nothing else to offer since hating women makes you have a terrible personality like these men can’t even afford a first class ticket. The money isn’t that enticing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:27 AM
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Try losing an arm when you’re 8 and kids making fun of you for something literally traumatic and actually not your fault. This is weak minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:19 AM
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This was good advice considering it’s simple enough for some of you to maybe listen to but you love victim hood <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:18 AM
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Yes - people overcome incredible trauma greater than no sex than a woman who says she’s an 8 but really without makeup a 5 who didn’t lower her standards. Like being socially stunted is hard but what about people fucking paralyzed from the neck down after a car accident who are literally less of a victim of their circumstances than these guys damn. When you refuse to realize life isn’t fair and even though things are not your fault, they are still your responsibly to change - you will never get …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:16 AM
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These men act like they know it’s valid because they read it and not consider I have read a book or two lmao - so when they read it they say they learned about me - but I am not capable of reading a book to learn about men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:44 PM
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I’m sure she wishes she did that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:01 PM
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People can have different timelines - some people are just late bloomers and sexual development begins later. I didn’t lose my virginity until my 20s - I’m a woman and I wouldn’t care if a guy was a virgin tbh. I actually find it a little violating to judge someone for this tbh. People have reasons and if this is the only reason to not date someone then you aren’t emotionally compatible anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:57 PM
8

Cool I’m glad your mother birthed you so that you could justify your mental illness with woman hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:54 PM
10

Yeah that’s a symptom of “low value” men who make hating women because they can’t get laid their entire personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:48 PM
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No dumb people just love to use black and white thinking to justify arguing with me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:43 PM
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The assumption I did is an example and I don’t know you. You’re trying to make me feel insecure as if I could only come to this conclusion if I was in bad relationships and I need to take accountability for a piece of shit man which is exactly my point. How about this - I’m smarter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:42 PM
-2

Then learn how to read information and use it to develop opinions using critical thought Whenever yall do this you just say “I literally cannot think critically”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:37 PM
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I’m aware lmao - I’m talking about white women who are behind Kamala and then don’t go vote or change their vote cuz their husband hates women I am not as simple minded as someone who thinks I need this advice thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:33 PM
9

And that is a typical weaponed incompetence comment Men love to pretend communication is only verbal because they lack empathy unless yall start whipping out numerical data like that is not a form of communication you’ll use to justify anything Aka context only matters when you wanna play victim
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:13 PM
1

Wow -this is super interesting - thank you for the link!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:55 PM
1

Lmao no it’s not. And lmao at eat pray love - she is literally the bad guy no one thinks he was because man - she says it’s her fault an SHE WAS THE RICH ONE You are such a lil brat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:54 PM
2

To be fair you aren’t really the best judge of insanity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:45 PM
21

Men will straight up know they aren’t treating you well but feel like they’ve done enough to deteriorate your confidence to get you to stay. More often than not men choose to break you down via manipulate and negs about your looks vs actually improve. It’s easier to be a dick to make a woman insecure so she stays because once again - men are ok with benefiting at your detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:43 PM
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Men always say this about being blindsided but not only do you often just not pay attention you also don’t listen. You usually are more concerned with you and your wants than others. This is simply weaponized incompetence 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:41 PM
-1

Men don’t see women as humans - they see them as their labor and sex servants and a man’s right they shouldn’t have to earn They are happy for a woman to suffer if it’s to their benefit, and most think women deserve bad things that happen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:36 PM
5

Wow you dont seem insecure at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:33 PM
1

Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:31 PM
4

No they don’t - women need to be comfortable with being single so they can keep their standards wherever they want them and avoid shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:08 PM
2

Not to mention - there is zero reason to do more research because abortion laws are simply about control and nothing more. Pro life people typically immediately stop caring for kids once they can’t afford school lunches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:06 PM
3

Aka confident and secure women are less likely to put up with my shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:54 PM
2

Yeah this guy isn’t even close to someone I’d date in the first place lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:49 PM
1

Nah my lack of female attention isn’t my entire personality so I’m good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:36 PM
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Wow how brave
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:35 PM
7

You don’t deserve the benefit of the doubt yourself then if you think this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:34 PM
8

May any woman who crosses your path leave it immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:32 PM
15

You aren’t more efficient you just master your weaponized incompetence. I would bet more than half of you need to go fold your laundry right now. You are entitled simple enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:31 PM
6

Dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:29 PM
3

I agree even though I usually prefer to disagree around here. As long as whatever response is respected - you shouldn’t make someone feel bad about this imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:58 AM
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It has a way higher chance to work on me as I like meeting people organically, I don’t do dating apps, and I don’t go to bars, and the effort is attractive and flattering. Putting yourself out there takes courage and that’s a trait that I appreciate. And I agree - no harm in it if you don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:15 AM
2

It is hypocritical and frankly a bit uneducated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:09 AM
2

The porn industry is very much not safe tbh For neither men or women talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:02 AM
3

Being against sex work is a weird moral high ground who cares if a woman is a SW as long as it’s her own free will and who cares if a guy wants to pay for it. It’s going to happen anyway but acceptance makes it safer for those who partake
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:59 AM
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Especially when you don’t know if they are single in sense of success rate it would have an impact
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:55 AM
2

That’s a good question because I never think about what would work on me because I’m prude as fuck and generally uninterested in men and I also got schooled a bit earlier and it made me less confident in that statement tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:29 AM
0

Lmao at this take
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:23 AM
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And then men make it their entire personality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:14 AM
3

Whoa I had no idea they already did this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:08 AM
3

This made me smile <3 amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:07 AM
2

Jokes on you denying reality is a speciality around here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:42 AM
3

No men are just proof sexuality isn’t a choice because if it were majority of women would never be with one because they are selfish and throw child like tantrums whenever you tell them no. Which is why when y’all get mad about women standards being high it’s hilarious because women have always felt this way about men, you just didn’t know the extent of our dislike until we didn’t need to put up with you anymore. Since we now have all the rights you had in society to work and provide for ourselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:41 AM
1

Oh I didn’t realize that it had decreased thank you for telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:12 AM
6

I agree it’s honest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:33 AM
5

Women are more committed to de-centering men, marriage, having children, and talk of sex strikes than ever before and it’s gaining traction. I am not sure this attempt is to keep you doing the “hard labor” because many don’t think you do it like you think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:23 AM
3

I can’t it’s late
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:15 AM
1

Well you described the synopsis of the show perfectly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:11 AM
1

Omg are you a 90 day fiancé fan too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:03 AM
14

I knew one of you would say this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:56 AM
12

Do you think the increase of hookup culture is related to how addicted people have become to instant gratification in general in the past few years with social media etc? Or just a lack of value for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:49 AM
2

Resourceful guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:45 AM
1

I’m not trolling I literally don’t care and I think it’s funny when you guys have terrible arguments that you think really did something to get an rise out of me because I already got one out of you lol Your argument is literally this hurts my feelings and I dont like it so I’m going to say you’re wrong because I’m entitled enough to think that’s all I gotta do here and a comment about as doctor said something but trust me bro an doctor refuted it with nothing else of substance actually said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:43 AM
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you have not said one intelligent thing lol you guys always get mean when your argument doesn’t get the reaction you crave - a sign of weakness btw Anyway time to stop flirting Kisses my dear xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:30 AM
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Where was it refuted Not everything you don’t like is misandrist Your second point is literally a non argument and mansplaining what I said in simple terms if you understood psychology Your bias also excludes you if that is an argument Just because I am busy with my next argument doesn’t mean you win If you knew what a being a leader entailed you be one by now <3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:22 AM
1

That makes sense The Chad character you all reference grosses me out personally and seems like a werido lol but what do I know thank you (genuinely) I do appreciate your response and convo about this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:13 AM
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I understand. There has been a demeaning discourse about them for men which is ironic considering how popular they’ve become for women (white women specifically) in the past few years
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:03 AM
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Hair transplants are so cool tbh Would you ever wear a wig of any kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:53 AM
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Some look so bad and some look so good and there is no in between lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:52 AM
2

I love that you referenced love island lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:51 AM
2

Yeah that that makes sense. The advice that you guys say works seems to be super superficial though and if it works the women it worked on are the ones that don’t treat you the way a lot of you describe you wanna be treated when ur having your man to man therapy threads sharing ur feels and then your opinion of women gets lower because you were burned by someone who invalidated your feelings as mattering and your hatred for women is noticeable and sometimes disturbing even tho you still wanna fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:10 AM
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The entire point i made - was about hypocrisy I know you feel I don’t get it - pro tip - try thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:44 AM
2

Sometimes it almost reads to me as submissive = being kind, respectful and nurturing to your partner. Don’t pick the person you love apart and appreciate their efforts. It’s not really what I expected tbh but it’s interesting to me as a woman and gives insight to why some men say certain things. That should be happening regardless in every relationship it’s the bare minimums
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:32 AM
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I bet you posts about women needing to lower their standards are more frequent before payday hits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:24 AM
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The same guy who paid for said tits definitely calls all women gold diggers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:15 AM
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The fact that I know it’s the same guy went right over your head. Friend avoid your stupid mansplaining with childlike entitlement about what responsibility means to you until your frontal lobe fully develops - and when it does - please avoid posting the epiphanies you have that you think make you brilliant that most women figured out at age 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:13 AM
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I don’t know if I would have ever survived without you explaining pms to me thanks. Do you have any stats on the world ? Becuz these are white people and Europe isn’t the world and your defense is easy when you’re exclude Africa and the Middle East and all history not what works best during female reigns
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:00 AM
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Right back at ya 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:15 AM
4

Tbh I never expected this but it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:12 AM
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I think it’s more accurate to say people are complex. It’s not always a negative intention or action.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:08 AM
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These are for all the men <3 not just you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:55 PM
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Because I’m not a coach - those that can’t do teach my friend Also - I’m a woman so - I would say that proves you don’t know women so well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:50 PM
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Friendly reminder - women are humans - just like men. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:48 PM
2

Well telling him to get his passport is better than 90% of what I see on here as a woman 😭 and I support sex worker industry so all clear here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:47 PM
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Show me stats of child abuse from women. It’s hard to argue with someone who is literal in their argument and can’t use critical thought tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:37 PM
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Yes, you are in no way qualified as you think men know women better than women know women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:35 PM
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Men don’t care about men either - I’ve seen the advice around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:33 PM
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I can help here - it would help you if you understood that women are humans - much like men are humans. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:32 PM
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No you’re a predator to vulnerable men selling them coaching so you say shit like this to get clients who think you understand their situation instead of actually helping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:30 PM
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There is a difference between wanting to be right and wanting to have a discussion. In all of human history - men have been the ones leading movements for the sake of power because they want what they want. That doesn’t mean men haven’t been victims of those men. Think of monarchies - king Henry the 8th literally created the Church of England because he wasn’t granted a divorce from the pope and Anne Boleyn wouldnt have casual sex with him. This decision literally led to the suffering of hundred…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:25 PM
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A lot of people here pick and choose when they want to take something figuratively vs literal based on what benefits their perception more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:11 PM
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And they think that they aren’t finding partners because of a weak chin and not their lack of perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:09 PM
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And men who post things like this cause droughts. Sometimes I wonder if men give men horrible advice purely to sabotage the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:06 PM
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Hah no I was triggered by your usage of Chad. I misread what you said I agree w/ u completely. You gave me a flashback with the COD reference 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:53 PM
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The other then they all will do is clarify “not all men” whenever the topic of negative male experiences come up. Like they def need that to be clarified because they themselves aren’t smart enough to know that people are capable understanding nuance because they themselves decided they knew everything at age 12 when they saw their first porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:35 PM
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My favorite is when they tell women it’s their fault for choosing the man they chose if he abandons their child and then literally suggesting sodomy because they don’t want to take responsibility for a child but think they deserve to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:28 PM
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Men literally want responsibility for nothing including the harm they cause and not being smart and the right to everything from a woman’s labor to her asshole followed by a kiss on the forehead and a thank you for turning your vagina into a penis when you were in your mothers womb and daily affirmations of how much harder your life is than women’s. The problem is you lack critical thought - your argument literally describes that you literally cannot think critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:20 PM
4

Tbh people underestimate the damage office gossip can cause. Extra precaution makes sense. People will say stuff out of no where and others will run with it really fast in the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:53 PM
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This protects women too imo. Nothing like ruining your professional career because people think you sleep with your boss. Office gossip can ruin multiple lives. Regardless if it’s sexist or fair - sometimes it’s just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:46 PM
2

I think because most haven’t actually experienced it like you have with today’s cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:44 PM
2

The copper iud called Paraguard is also a good option for women who can’t do hormonal. Semen is allergic to copper so it doesn’t affect a woman’s hormones at all. Not everyone knows that there is an option like this if their partner has a hard time with hormonal bc. Some doctors won’t give you an iud if you haven’t had children because it’s painful but planned parenthood will for free. It lasts 12 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:34 PM
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Are you seriously complaining about having the responsibly of condoms? If you don’t want the risk then you don’t get the reward. Both people share the risk and majority of women sacrifice their health to be on hormonal birth control. Or get a non hormonal iud with no pain management (while men get pain management for way less) to be responsible and mitigate risk. You probably need to go fold your laundry. It’s so degrading you think women should just give you anal sex because you’re so oppressed…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:30 PM
2

Honestly I’ve seen this happen a lot, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:11 PM
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OP has a right to be pegged if that’s what he craves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:08 PM
2

I’m sorry that this makes you so emotional - I hope you can process those in a safe space
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:56 PM
0

Your skewed opinion on what women want is so old and tired. And incase you didn’t know - it’s why most of you are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:52 PM
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It’s easier to make a profit off of insecure men - being relatable equates to their success.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/24 08:17 PM
3

I never know what I want to eat - I love when someone decides that for me and men usually excel at it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:16 PM
4

Don’t point out weaponed incompetence for certain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:13 PM
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And there is a difference between a leader and a smart leader. It would be hard to just be cool with a dude who makes dumbass decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:08 PM
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Speaking of cult victim hood, men were taught that doing the bare minimum was deserving of praise and admiration and a right to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:59 PM
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Especially if I had gotten into Juliard for ballet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:52 PM
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There is also usually a bigger emotional dependency as you become her only social outlet in many cases. Going to work and interacting with people has a big impact on satisfaction of socialization. I’d imagine it can become a strain in a relationship if a dude comes home with fulfilled socialization and interactions vs someone who is at 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:52 PM
1

How many women have started wars? Show me stats where women commit more crimes than men. Not everything is misandrist because it hurts your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:38 PM
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That’s why I believe this family dynamic is what creates men who treat women poorly and think they are more mistreated than women because growing up their mother did everything and then they become adults and they don’t get served by women everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:32 PM
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Not to mention I think this family dynamic is why so many men feel entitled to women’s labor simply because they work a 40 hour work week. When you grow up as mommy’s little angel and are never taught to pull your weight in the running of a household you think it’s just something owed to you. I believe this is why so many men think they are so mistreated - because the are raised to respect the dude who works 40 hours more than the woman who wipes their ass and stay up with them when they are sic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:26 PM
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Sometimes that happens but sometimes the mansplaining is just ridiculous and you guys need to get over your desire to make women listen to you when you’re just being stupid. You don’t know better than us you just want us to make you feel like we do and on this one - you don’t. You guys can’t even afford it for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:38 PM
1

The audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:58 PM
1

You can sign away your rights and not pay, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:41 PM
3

Growing up my mom was always the breadwinner and a very successful one at that. Being a breadwinner or making more than my partner and spoiling them finically because I can is normal to me. The idea of financial dependence on my partner seems foreign and unappealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:37 PM
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I don’t rush things. Even if I want it doesn’t need I have to have it. There are other things I could do to provide my partner with sexual satisfaction. I know I can never be completely sure but I’m not trying to go into something like this with the assumption men are trying to hurt me. If that were the case I’d just never have sex again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:10 AM
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Love takes time — if someone invests time in you and is comfortable with waiting on sex because you don’t want to have it unless the relationship is the real thing i think it’s less likely - though not impossible. It would be very upsetting to me in that instance as one quality I look for in a partner is emotional safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:04 AM
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No honestly I can’t. I cannot separate sex and love and there would be an emotional impact of something very intimate being so casual. Plus I wouldn’t enjoy it regardless because it’s hard for me not to be in my head and impossible in that scenario. Breaking this rule is simply not possible for me. It’s just not who I am at all and it’s not like men don’t try. Honestly I would ideally like a partner who had a similar perspective on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:56 AM
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I have absolutely no interest in casual sex because I value it. There are a lot of women who feel that way, even if it’s easier for women to have it than men - it just isn’t appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:51 AM
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No I remember reading about several cases online and then recently a study showed that male morticians were having a harder time finding work due to the frequency of sex with corpses and it was becoming female dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:18 AM
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Which is why a lot of women don’t want kids or marriage. No one wants to parent their husband. There isn’t really a benefit to marriage for women if a man refuses to be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:18 AM
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I am sorry I am not sure what this means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:55 AM
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They never met each other but both were actually like that themselves but tried to hide it. They were both absolutely obsessed with looking a certain way but behind closed doors they were themselves the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:54 AM
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Women want men to do their fair share of the household since they are working too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:44 AM
4

It’s not like I walk around assuming these things of every man I see because I really don’t care that much it’s just I’ve heard men say these things or what men say to each other or heard about a group who did something rather shocking and then more men come out and have done the same thing and it’s like whoa…didn’t expect that one. I mean I have brothers and I know that they aren’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:41 AM
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My dad and stepdad both told me this about men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:34 AM
2

I know which isn’t at all a trad wife so looking at social media that portrays it is very unrealistic to what it’s actually like if women choose to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:25 AM
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What makes you think that we don’t though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:24 AM
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Well sure a working woman can be a trad wife it just means she has multiple jobs and needs to work cook, clean, and raise children after she gets home from her paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:21 AM
6

There is a significant impact on mental health I’d imagine too. Being lonely and a lot of people minimize how much work raising children takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:17 AM
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Yes women are leaving and there has been in increase in young men joining. Last year Mormon women left the church in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:13 AM
4

The popular ones on TikTok are making enough for their husband not to work and to hire staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:12 AM
7

Oh absolutely agree with you there - I know women who do want to be a SAHM but they can’t afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:09 AM
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That’s because a lot of women have watched their mothers and grandmothers suffer and the reality is not that great for them. It’s another reason women are leaving organized religion - we are not cattle to be raised to benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:08 AM
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I think the other thing about this is that if for any reason your marriage doesn’t workout financial dependency and no work history is a huge risk. Not saying it happens all the time but I do know women who had no resources if something happened and that’s scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:01 AM
12

Only people who lack brain cells and hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:56 AM
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The reason it’s not more popular is women have already decided and don’t need more explaining thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:47 AM
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Your candidate is literally a nepo baby reality tv star who bankrupted most of his companies and has 34 felonies for fraud. This comedy skit is more realistic. Unfortunately you’re too deep in the Fox News maga jfk is alive an anon nonsense. I hope you find your way back to reality someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:45 AM
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The mortician industry comes to mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:34 AM
6

To me it makes her look good tbh lol I notice you don’t seem to mention trump had had kids with 3 women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:28 AM
1

Go ahead - but I do actually see where I was wrong with this statement geared towards men jsyk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:26 AM
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Because having children isn’t what every woman wants. As Kamala said - what makes you think her ambition is to be humble?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:23 AM
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Omg you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:21 AM
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This right here is why women feel men don’t care about them. A competent rapist ladies and gentlemen - that is just fucking sad. Trump is a bigger slut btw and it’s still not even true and if women could sleep there way to the top (they can’t) you really think we wouldn’t have been in charge awhile ago? She’s more competent than Trump by a long shot and most previous presidents and presidential candidates btw and dei crap is literal maga garbage She has not only democratic support but more repub…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:19 AM
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I hate agreeing with this but I’ve had people tell me men with children are likely more responsible than men without when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:53 AM
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White women are the reason Hillary Clinton lost to Donald Trump - yes - white women need to do their part and vote for Kamala. White women have a tendency to champion movements and then fall flat due to privilege white women receive from white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:50 AM
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Even if she slept her way to the top which I don’t believe why does that matter when you compare it to trump being a literal rapist. She’s more qualified than majority of the presidents we’ve had.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:49 AM
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I wouldn’t be surprise if more men vote for her than we anticipate - I’ve seen a lot of men being incredibly vocal. When Kamala became the candidate men were organizing zoom calls just like women did. That could be wishful thinking tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:46 AM
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We do this for sure as you just reminded me how many of us used to argue about candidates in chat rooms at age 10 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:41 AM
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She’s sooooo goofy sometimes it surprises me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:38 AM
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I hope white women don’t ruin it for all of us this time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:37 AM
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It’s because men don’t talk or treat us like we are humans too. You generalize and tell us who we are and don’t listen to us at all. But you want us to expend understanding for you after we’re told that we deserve bad things and rape is partially our fault. I don’t have an experience of outrage from men for the wrongs women face that aren’t any less valid than yours. I see your point - I think there’s reflecting for me to do here - but I honestly dont see an equal exchange of emotional support b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:11 AM
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This is just part of the argument I see that men think women should lower their standards when they have no obligation to do so, especially if it harms them. Women have their own problems - but I do feel like men neglect their mental health far more then women do and it has an affect And I do not mean literally every single man. But I have to tell you - people are mean to women - men minimize how mean people are to us all the time. I have a lot to offer and it’s not wrong for me to want an equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:56 AM
4

Because receiving those things isn’t dependent on a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:42 AM
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There are unhealthy women too - the universe I’m speaking of is one where both partners have worked through their shit. Otherwise I’m sure your experience feels more valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:29 AM
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Men also used to hunt and gather and have been in wars - I’d be surprised if there wasn’t a link to generational trauma to relatives who fought in wars - making them more prone because it has familiarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:27 AM
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This isn’t why men are violent this is your justification because you don’t like being called out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:26 AM
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One common theme I see with a lot of men is they think they deserve things for being men. If you care about others you would work on your mental health alone if your goal was a relationship. People don’t just get things, life isn’t fair and it’s not any less fair just because you’re a man - you’re conditioned to think you’re owed things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:24 AM
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Men abandon women who get sick or struggle emotionally far more often than women abandon men. Women are more likely to leave men who abuse them. I don’t have to be abused by someone who doesn’t take steps to work on their mental health and expects me to just take it from them. Being mentally ill doesn’t excuse abuse. Mental illness is not your fault but your responsibility. But if someone takes steps to work on it then it’s different - that deserves support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:13 AM
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Because it requires your participation. You’re just used to benefiting from patriarchy where you only had to be born a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:06 AM
2

Yes men kill men a lot. Emotional men kill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:05 AM
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You don’t get to cherry pick what would benefit you most and then say feminism doesn’t support men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:02 AM
0

He’s actually right about this but people of color commit more crime as a direct result of slavery and white supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:58 AM
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Why don’t you denounce them if you care? Men expect everyone else to do the work for them and then cry victim. Women empowerment is because women worked and sacrificed for their own benefit. You can do the sam.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:55 AM
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Probably to women who are aware of their contribution to toxic masculinity and care about actions to reduce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:48 AM
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You can Google - the entire feminism movement is equality which includes men who are harmed by toxic masculinity. If you are soooo oppressed - then do something. It’s not my job to do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:47 AM
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It is used to keep men and power and women submissive and it’s the reasoning for it more often than not. Men even used it in the Bible and several religions and removed anything that gave power to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:45 AM
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Yeah if men would do anything for sex a lot of you would start listening to the advice women give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:42 AM
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lol at men letting things slide as it they are so so so wronged. Men show anger because they want power and fear is what usually gives it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:40 AM
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All of these are reactions to not processing your big emotions. You are quite literally attempting to use logic to defend your emotions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:38 AM
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Men start wars because they crave power more than women do. That’s why the patriarchy exists dude. The idea of power consumes men and anyone who wants power that bad is the last person who should have it. Courts aren’t biased - men abuse their power more often than women. Hence why women are natural leaders. W
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:35 AM
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Just because women seek mental health care more doesn’t meant they need it more. Getting a man to get therapy is not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:32 AM
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Men who are in touch with their emotions and have worked through their issues so they feel them and work through them in healthy ways are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:32 AM
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Men are so emotional that they kill women because they hurt their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:29 AM
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If you feel this way then you’d understand why feminisms is important. You can’t complain about the patriarchy and toxic masculinity while participating in it because at the end of the day it still benefits you more than not. This is what I mean when I see men complain and not realize they participate in their own oppression more than they correct it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:27 AM
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Being emotional is only seen as a negative because men used it to reduce women. Men weaponized emotions not women. And not only was it used against women but men use it against men they deem as weaker. Men are sooo quick to take the credit of any great man that ever existed but then when your bring up men’s tendency to violence it’s not all men suddenly. You don’t get to take credit for success without responsibility of the negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:22 AM
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Or a man whose only power was to convince women they were weak when they weren’t because that was the only way he could get someone to sleep with him. He had to manipulate her and degrade her because if she knew how much better she was than him he’d never find someone. Men are stronger physically - not anywhere else. I mean you even find ways to complain about a society that was built to your benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:13 AM
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Doctors aren’t Gods they don’t get to choose morality of others
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:10 AM
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It’s because they women they refused have died because a doctor was allowed to refuse a dying patient an abortion that would have saved their life because in their logic two people could die instead of one I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:09 AM
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Consent isn’t a privilege is a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:07 AM
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Dude these aren’t comparable - your 15 seconds of pleasure doesn’t compare to 9 months of pregnancy and 18 years of parenthood. Men are not oppressed because sex isn’t a right given to them. Women are oppressed when these topics come up like women are subhuman because they don’t want to fuck you - you think they should be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:06 AM
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If men had periods you’d all literally never stop reminding us. You couldn’t even handle the pain of a bad period.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:00 AM
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Agreed. I mean the reason women get emotional on their period is due to an increase of testosterone. Men are so emotional in fact they go right to anger which is a secondary emotion meaning they are too emotional to fade the real emotion so they get angry. I would also argue to say women are more the natural born leaders more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:55 AM
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And Radia Pearlman, Elizabeth Fienler, Stacy Horn, Grace Hopper, and Roberta Williams.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:23 AM
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No im implying anyone who takes care of their child when the other parent didn’t is worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:36 PM
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None of this really matters. A lot of what you’re describing is because women could not work because men said so. It’s easy to win a race when you’re the only one running. Now women doing better in school and out earning men. You wouldn’t be on Reddit if it weren’t for women because you wouldn’t have the internet .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:35 PM
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It’s actually a book that is used in a lot of schools to educate men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:29 PM
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No women are becoming more and more educated which is why the shift began in the first place. It’s only failure to you - not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:01 PM
4

Especially considering neither will the potential below standards males
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:55 PM
3

It’s already started happening
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:43 PM
0

You don’t know women better than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:23 PM
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Women don’t need to lower their standards because they are now financially independent. Most women would rather be alone than settle and that’s not going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:10 PM
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Your self hatred is actually really obvious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:57 PM
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Men aren’t owed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:52 PM
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Men also love to say how women are too emotional when they are by far the more emotional sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:50 PM
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Especially when a lot of older married women have been speaking out to young women about how marriage isn’t worth it and not to make the same mistakes. Women are more likely to form women only communities than be forced back into marriage by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:41 PM
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I can reason with someone who hates women and sees them as subhuman because they dont center everything around the men that society was literally built to benefit. It’s not my problem if youre mad that women fought for rights so they didn’t have to marry men like you to get a bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:10 PM
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Men get them shut down not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:52 PM
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I realize your emotions are making you irrational given you’re post stalking me like a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:50 PM
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Then men should really step up and do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:51 PM
0

No that’s not true at all actually which is why there are more single childless women who are the happiest demographic of people. Men aren’t leaders and shouldn’t be in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:44 PM
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This is why women are not getting married. We don’t want you to have a say in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:40 PM
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But how can they make this about them then?! Poor men, they are so oppressed because they can’t force women to carry babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:40 PM
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Cool nice edit Because men can’t just speak about their experiences they always have to minimize womens in incredibly harmful ways then cry about male victims after blaming women for their own rape.You seriously are the most selfish people and completely blind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:43 AM
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Why don’t you find out since it’s currently important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:41 AM
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Yes you do you just haven’t deconstructed patriarchy far enough to realize why.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:15 AM
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Oh you expect it and throw tantrums when we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:09 AM
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Which is why you won’t be chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:07 AM
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Just because men are weak and like to take advantage of women doesn’t mean what you think it means. Men are to blame - not a woman drinking and to suggest otherwise is why women have de-centered men. You don’t give a fuck about women but expect us to feel so sorry that you’re sad. But if we are raped - we deserved it because men are men!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:21 AM
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“Only” lol - your opinion is irrelevant because you sympathize with a man who commits assault - or you wouldn’t bring it up. Protect your own I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:16 AM
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Your opinion isn’t truth and your bias is obvious. You’d rather be a victim and blame women than exercise critical thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:07 AM
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Men minimize men and then choose to blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:06 AM
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A noose isn’t instant you suffocate to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:02 AM
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It doesn’t matter if a victim isn’t sober. No one is going to feel sorry for you when you say shit like this and you definitely want people to feel sorry for you. Men are so emotional lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:53 AM
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I see so many men complaining about women’s standards being high and they don’t see how this relates to why that might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:37 AM
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It seems these men will do anything except work on their mental health and self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:31 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:26 AM
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Women have absolutely contribute to toxic masculinity when it comes to men and validation or vulnerability. But it’s not a competition and whenever these discussions come up - it’s the first thing I see a lot of you do. There is very little understanding or consideration of the counterpoint you just say how much worse it is for you. You can receive compassion without saying how horrible women are. That is where you lose connection. You have already decided and have no desire to understand women …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:09 AM
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I think it comes to both parties having spent time on self development and their own mental health so that it creates an environment where both parties receive validation when expressing their feelings. Creating a space where vulnerability isn’t thrown in your face later if an argument occurs. The trust builds for deeper connection the more vulnerability is met with compassion and validation of lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:46 AM
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This is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:33 AM
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It means you care about your partner and are safe for them emotionally. I can’t separate love/sex and I can’t have sex unless I feel safe to be vulnerable. Aka I can’t have sex with men who hate women/devalue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 AM
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I see this missing in almost every single one of these threads where men complain about lack of fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:37 AM
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Men judge single mothers instead of the father who abandoned their kid. Seems normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:20 AM
0

She wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:59 AM
0

Very stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:09 PM
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I agree with this, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:00 AM
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I was thinking that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:34 AM
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If I have to tell you then you really aren’t smart enough to be spouting off these opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:58 AM
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I mean you’re not helping your sister you’re harming her. You seem like a really horrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:41 AM
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This is actually really harmful and not at all helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:29 AM
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Yeah I’m sure your brilliant advice is just what they’d need.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:16 AM
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