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Can confirm! Went on a date with a rich dude who thought I was broke. He treated me like shit. I told him after the date I'm worth more than him. He was humbled. That was almost a year ago and he still texts me and is left on read.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:38 PM
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Well yeah people who are happy and enjoying their life aren't bitching about it online hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:45 AM
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I also think it's worth noting that people are attracted to different looks and personalities. For me, I need physical attraction above all else, but what I find physically attractive isn't necessarily what is conventionally attractive. I don't need someone to be over 6' with a 6 pack, great hair, great teeth, etc to be attractive. I just need to find the person physically attractive FIRST in order to consider them for a sexual relationship (I also have a high libido so physical is important). H…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:07 AM
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For a second I had to ask myself which side i agree with more and I think LMS comes first, personality second. However, it doesn't matter how attractive, rich, or high status you are - if your personality is trash, you will just attract users who tolerate you to get what they want. And it doesn't matter how great your personality is, if you are unattractive, poor, and low status, it will be significantly harder for you to attract who you want. That is why I consider myself Purple Pill - Looks, M…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:18 AM
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It's more that I need him to signal he is investing in me in some way. And a man can do that by taking the initiative to ask me out and plan dates. It shows me he is serious. Especially if I have already communicated that I am invested. It's about building trust. And like I said, I don't mind planning dates as well, but I think it is harder in this particular situation given we live across the country. He has also told me he is dating multiple women, and he does plan those dates, so the fact he …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:01 AM
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"If the manosphere is so great, why are nearly are the men single" Misery loves company. And all the grifter content creators prefer it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:49 AM
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Oh I went on a date with a RP guy once.... big yikes. I am convinced TRP dating tactics are either keeping men single (because misery loves company) or it is only working on mentally and emotionally unstable women who eventually make their lives miserable. There is no winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:43 AM
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Haha I am a more old-fashioned woman. I like older, dominant men. Yes, I want a man who I can look up to like my father since I will someday lose my father, whom I am very close to. Those are my standards and I'm not compromising that. If a man expects me to lead it just makes me lose attraction. A lot of men would be turned off by a woman leading and planning dates too - especially if she was choosing all this shit he had zero interest in doing. 😅 I meant masculine in the dynamic between the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:36 AM
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For a bunch of self-proclaimed alphas, they sure are whiny babies. The projection is unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:24 AM
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It depends on how far along you are in the courtship. Initially, it's better for the man to lead. I am not saying he should pay for everything - they could split the bills. But he needs to invite her into his frame. He needs to show her he is serious, intentional, and has a plan. It's very attractive for a woman. It's masculine. Eventually, the woman can also plan dates too. But if a man expected me to do that early on, I'd lose attraction. I couldn't really respect him. Like he is a little boy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:22 AM
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Correct. If someone genuinely is into they don't string you along. That doesn't mean a woman's gotta sleep with you right away either!! But if she is accepting dates and wants to spend time with you doing whatever, that is all you need to keep pursuing. But from a woman's side, if the man isn't planning dates or asking you out, that is a sign to cut your losses and walk away. Also planning dates doesn't mean fancy dinners and rock climbing. It just means asking "Hey are you free next Friday I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:14 AM
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Hahahahah I've never seen more bitchy men in my life until i discovered TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:04 AM
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I was moving towards him for a while, and he was responding positively when I did, but at some point, I felt like he was just using me for ego validation and didn't actually want anything with me. We also live across the country, so logistics are a problem. I felt like he kept expecting me to do more and prove myself, but at some point, when the effort isn't reciprocated, when one person is basically carrying the connection, that person has to accept this isn't going anywhere and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:59 PM
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"after having their fun with the hot guys" Again, this is generalization. I hear this a lot in TRP. Why are men assuming a majority of women had a hoe phase? I lived with over 20 girls throughout college and I'd say a 1/3 of them slept around, 1/3 were in long-term relationships, and 1/3 were celibate. Maybe the only women men even consider viable options are the club-type Instagram baddies who hook up with Chads? Because that's truly not most women. The average woman doesn't have an extensive s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:41 PM
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Here's the truth I think a lot of men miss: it's not really about the man - it's more about the woman. Some women will sleep with any man on a first date because she is just horny and is looking for casual sex. Some women will not sleep with any man on a first date because she wants to ensure he is genuinely invested in her long-term before giving him her body. It really depends more on the woman than the man. Men assuming any woman will put out on a first date if the man is attractive enough ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:49 PM
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Men need to raise their standards beyond looks. Red Pill men complain about women because they just want hot women who tolerate them but that isn't good enough. You guys need to be more selective. Women are at least smart about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:36 PM
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Why is it a good thing when a man calls a woman wifey material but a bad thing when a woman calls a man hubby material? Unpack that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:26 PM
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As long as one is content being alone? Don't lower your standards. But if you are miserable alone and need companionship? Then it's worth at least adjusting your standards. It's not always about LOWERING, sometimes you just need to be open to other types of people. Like if your standard is blondes, consider brunettes. That isn't necessarily lower - it is just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:18 PM
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I like a man very much currently and he knows I like him but he is not moving towards me so I assume he does not like me and therefore I am letting it go. Chasing implies a lack of mutual interest. If a man knows a woman is interested (she has signaled it very clearly) he isn't chasing - he is pursuing. That is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:09 PM
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I think women prioritize safety and money can provide safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:55 PM
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How do you know she has or hasn't done it multiple times already?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:39 PM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:38 PM
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It's not hard to get a date if you're attractive enough but if you go on that date and ask no questions? Likely harder to get a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:58 PM
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The reality is also that men like to win and conquer. If a woman pursues them, they will lose interest. Women have historically been "trophy" wives because men objectify women and want to WIN them as a prize. However, I do think more men should have higher self esteem. Ideally, both people feel like they've won a prize in the relationship by being with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:06 PM
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If you were a young, attractive 22 year-old woman in college with dozens of frat guys aching to take you out - you wouldn't say no either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:11 PM
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I went to college in Los Angeles. I lived with girls ages 18-22 and yes, they were sleeping around a lot. That's why the whole "young women have low body counts" claim is funny to me. Young, attractive women absolutely do sleep around in college. I lived with a handful of girls who had a new frat guy in their dorm every other night. So yes, this checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:07 PM
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This is why I generally don't keep male friends, unless they're coupled up or gay. Straight males... I think they are attracted secretly and either waiting to shoot their shot or waiting for me to shoot mine. But I can usually tell if and when someone is attracted to me and if the feeling isn't mutual I will make it pretty clear nothing is ever going to happen so they don't have any false hope. A lot of people either aren't intuitive enough to tell the difference or they just enjoy orbiters and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:05 PM
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It depends on the woman and her family. The thing is, if her dad is a brain surgeon, she is not gonna wanna bring home a blue collar dude to introduce. It just feels off. If her dad also has a blue collar job, she might not be as biased. Status is important, sure, but I've seen plenty of women date blue collar dudes. Not all woman is some boss babe looking for a CEO. Plenty of normal girls wouldn't mind, especially if you are comfortably bringing in 240k. Plus - AI is about to take over a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:03 AM
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