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If that were true, I think other women would assume he already has a girlfriend (a very pretty, popular-looking one), so they’d give up in advance and not even approach him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:13 AM
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Every time I see people saying, “It’s harder for men to date than for women,” it just reminds me how many of the guys here are pathologically obsessed with Tinder hookups and pump-and-dump culture. Try signing up for a marriage agency instead. There, the women far outnumber the men — you’d actually be the one holding the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:33 PM
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You don’t need to have immense self-esteem to stop craving other people’s approval. After all, none of us struggle to earn the approval of the air, the stones, the butterflies, the swallows, the crocodiles, or the polar bears — yet we live just fine. If you simply focus on what you’re doing and stop even noticing those who don’t matter to you, it happens naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:25 PM
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It’s kind of like this: I know for a fact that somewhere out there, someone is winning the lottery right now. But I don’t know who they are, I don’t care, and honestly, the chances of me getting a Hogwarts acceptance letter feel higher than winning myself. I’ve got too much going on in my own life to waste energy thinking about that stranger — so I’m not sad about not winning. Same with OnlyFans — I’m doing just fine without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:15 PM
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Where on earth does OP think the 4B movement even originated? Since you know about the novel Kim Ji-young, Born 1982, you clearly know a bit about Korea, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:21 AM
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Why do people always remember only the things that put them at a disadvantage, while conveniently forgetting everything that disadvantages others? These days, if a woman shows even a hint of liking nice things or spending money on herself, both the manosphere and the feminist side rush to call her a “gold digger” or say she’s “not truly independent.” Meanwhile, men brag about sleeping with dozens of women like it’s a badge of honor — but the moment a woman does the same, she’s hit with endless s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:31 AM
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These days, even many decent men think, “It’s safer not to choose at all than to choose wrong and get screwed.” So when I see people who still don’t get that and keep repeating the same lines, I can’t help but wonder — do they not talk to their female friends, or to any friends at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:22 AM
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Why do people struggle to understand something this simple? Maybe a lottery analogy would help. A woman in her 20s buys lots of lottery tickets because she still believes she might win someday. But she doesn’t expect a stranger to just hand her a winning ticket for free — she believes she’ll have to go out, pay for it, and keep trying at the lottery booth herself. A woman in her 30s, on the other hand, stops buying tickets altogether — because she no longer believes she’ll ever win.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:33 AM
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Honestly, I can’t help but be appalled at the absurd idea that the greatest nation in history could collapse just because a bunch of pathetic, unattractive losers can’t get a one-night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:13 AM
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Manospherian autistic individuals usually only go through all that for sex, and just enough sex to be satisfied. So yeah they not gonna restrict themselves to one girl, and do not care about financial or monetary success, as to them, their hyperfocus is sex and money is only useful for it, and the moment she says no he will most likely just bounce. Sometimes not even that. That kind of phenomenon is truly the worst. It’s like watching someone go from a potential romance-novel hero to a completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:06 AM
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But the original post assumed “they educate women but don’t let them work,” right? If society limits highly educated women from earning more money, then how on earth do they expect to recover that investment?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:28 AM
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Honestly, if he had only the good traits above and none of the flaws, I don’t think I’d have been able to get him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:23 AM
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How many of those traits do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:19 AM
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If I don’t stay on alert, my boyfriend won’t shave, won’t change his clothes, and will even let his teeth rot 😭 But honestly, I kind of enjoy taking care of him — so I guess we’re actually a good match.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:16 AM
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Exactly. They’re the kind of men who can give women both money and freedom!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:08 AM
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Tuition in the U.S. is insanely expensive — not just for college, but even for kindergarten. So if there’s no way for society to recoup the cost of educating women, then, in the long run, that society will simply stop educating them. This question is basically the same as asking, “Can’t we just eat food but never poop?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:03 AM
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I’m from East Asia, and honestly, there’s almost no particular image of Eastern European men here. If you ask people around me to picture an Eastern European guy, most of them can’t imagine anything beyond “a blond white man.” They just assume all of Europe is basically the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:00 AM
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Haha, everything here looks great 😂 I’ll take it all!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:10 AM
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Exactly. I don’t believe I deserve to go to Harvard just because some other people did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:35 PM
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Most people on the autism spectrum struggle to adapt to workplace life because of communication difficulties. But every now and then, you meet a high-intelligence autistic person who either handles a job perfectly or knows alternative ways to earn money — and that’s honestly like hitting the jackpot. They’re never late, never skip work, and when they’re in a job that fits their skills, they learn ten things from one lesson. With their hyper-focus and “nerd power,” they can rise to a manager posi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:44 PM
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Speaking as a woman dating a man on the autism spectrum: If your communication styles match, you may actually find that conversations flow more smoothly than with a neurotypical man, and you’ll probably argue far less as a couple. Aside from the niche topics he’s deeply obsessed with, he’ll likely yield to you in almost every aspect of daily life. He’ll love you deeply, have little interest in anyone else, and — frankly — won’t have many other options anyway. That said, he can be clumsy, make sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:33 PM
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Isn’t it funny? These weird people keep ranting about how “civilization is collapsing,” yet it’s actually liberal countries that are thriving — they keep absorbing the brightest minds from those ultra-patriarchal hellhole nations and advancing their technology just fine. Every time a charity builds schools in one of those oppressive countries, the smart graduates either become migrant workers in liberal nations or marry into them through passport-broker marriages. And here’s the hilarious part —…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:18 PM
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In that kind of world, you’d be forced to have a child you don’t want, and if you don’t, no matter how well you do your job, your boss and your entire family will keep saying, “Why aren’t you having kids?” and will impose all kinds of unofficial punishments and disadvantages that can’t be enforced legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:44 PM
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Honestly, if I could go back to when I was 20, I’d attend the National Open University where tuition is only about $400.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:48 AM
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I’m from an East Asian culture. I’ve spent decades watching society rapidly shift from a conservative, hierarchical atmosphere to a more Western, individualistic one. And as someone who’s lived through that, the idea of going back to that old-fashioned, authoritarian culture honestly horrifies me. I hate it — I don’t even want to imagine it. Even after all this change, the lingering pressure from that traditional mindset is one of the main reasons my country still ranks among the highest in glob…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:44 AM
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Thin women aren’t skipping meals because they believe a perfect multi-course dinner or omakase will suddenly fall from the sky one day. They just don’t have much of an appetite, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:27 AM
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He’s talking behind my back right now, but English isn’t my first language. I wondered if I’d said something wrong, so I looked up synonyms for the word I wanted to use. sharp quick-witted perceptive savvy attentive on the ball tactful socially intelligent / emotionally intelligent considerate proactive And as you can see, “emotionally intelligent” was definitely on the list. So do Americans not use that phrase in that context? Then what kind of nuance does it actually have?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:03 AM
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He’s talking behind my back right now, but English isn’t my first language. I wondered if I’d said something wrong, so I looked up synonyms for the word I wanted to use. sharp quick-witted perceptive savvy attentive on the ball tactful socially intelligent / emotionally intelligent considerate proactive And as you can see, “emotionally intelligent” was definitely on the list. So do Americans not use that phrase in that context? Then what kind of nuance does it actually have?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:02 AM
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He’s talking behind my back right now, but English isn’t my first language. I wondered if I’d said something wrong, so I looked up synonyms for the word I wanted to use. sharp quick-witted perceptive savvy attentive on the ball tactful socially intelligent / emotionally intelligent considerate proactive And as you can see, “emotionally intelligent” was definitely on the list. So do Americans not use that phrase in that context? Then what kind of nuance does it actually have?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:01 AM
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Honestly, I don’t think I’ve ever seen an incel guy who’s terrified that marriage will “ruin his life” actually study real marriage laws instead of just believing random internet rumors.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:21 PM
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Of course, you can use an escort service if you want, but at 22, you seem way too young to think, “I’ll never lose my virginity unless I pay for it.” I just hope you don’t get too discouraged about that side of things so early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:15 AM
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Honestly, it just seems like a matter of taste. Men who are sensitive, jealous, and want to be dominant over their girlfriends would probably choose option 1. Guys who tend to marry the woman they’ve been with for a long time would probably go for option 2. But where’s option 3? The wild, fun, confident, skinny bad-girl type — the one who works retail, has tons of tattoos, wears miniskirts, and goes clubbing or traveling all the time. Those girls are secretly really popular too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:17 AM
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Here’s the difference: Low emotional intelligence but decent character: clueless and never takes initiative, but still listens and does it when told. Low emotional intelligence and bad character: clueless, never does things on their own, and when someone asks them to help, they start thinking stuff like, “Why do they always ask me when I’m tired?” (even though they’re tired 24/7) or “They’re just trying to annoy me on purpose.” — basically full of victim mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:47 PM
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There are people in this world who insist that all women should like the same kind of men, and right alongside them are people who get angry that women do like those kinds of men. If you like unattractive guys, they get mad. If you like attractive guys, they still get mad. Like seriously, what the hell do they even want? I hope they all just go eat shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:38 PM
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But seriously — even when women are this accepting of unattractive men, some guys still scream, “Women’s standards are too high! We need to turn society into Gilead!” I can’t even imagine what would happen if women really stopped compromising altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:28 PM
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Honestly, I sometimes wonder if it’s even meaningful to keep treating incels like a “donkey dilemma” — tying them up so they can’t choose anything and just yelling at them. Why not just let them buy it? It’s not like they could ever get it for free anyway. They’re not freeloaders; if they’re willing to pay with the money they’ve earned through honest work, why must we absolutely prevent them from having sex? And this might be because I don’t really know the U.S. that well, but — is the American …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:21 PM
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From her perspective: When she’s completely drained and can’t do anything but rest, When she’s asleep, or When she’s busy preparing for work or handling essential daily tasks — those are obviously bad times to ask for help. So the moment when you’re just playing games feels like the most appropriate time to ask. You’re not doing anything necessary, but you clearly have enough energy and time to spend on something nonessential. It’s basically the same as: “Why does my teammate always want to work…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 11:30 PM
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If I don’t tell him to clean up in that way, he’ll never do it on his own. But on the other hand, if I just sit back like a princess and order him around like a maid, that’d be even worse, right? If I want him to do something annoying, I have to be willing to take on some annoyance myself. A lot of men cluelessly say, “Why do women only tell me to clean when I’m gaming?” But of course, you ask someone to do chores when they’re free and chilling — not when they’re genuinely exhausted. That “Why d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 10:03 PM
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https://share.google/ncN0GyardIxvuZV7o If you're going to make kimchi bokkeum (stir-fried kimchi), eating it with tofu is just perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:53 PM
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Reading a normal amount of romance novels = normal Reading a bit fewer than most = still normal Reading too many romance novels = proceed with caution! Never reading romance novels = proceed with caution! Bragging about never reading romance novels = run away immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:40 PM
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Such a fierce and cheeky doggo ♥ but still absolutely adorable!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:32 PM
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Honestly, the moment I saw that comment, I did have a brief “Oh, that’s actually not a bad idea?” moment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:24 PM
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It’s sooo unbelievably cute ♥♥♥♥♥
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:20 PM
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Ramen and mochi — honestly, that’s the best combo ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:20 PM
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There really are quite a few good people out there whose emotional intelligence is completely wrecked. My boyfriend, for example, often keeps playing games while I’m cleaning. Whenever that happens, I just tell him, “You, help me too!” — and then he immediately stops playing and awkwardly joins in the cleaning. Condition: this only works on people who just have low emotional intelligence. It doesn’t work on people whose morals or character are completely broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:36 PM
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My boyfriend has ASD. So since I know he doesn’t really understand indirect hints anyway, I just tell him straight up when I want something. And the moment I say it, he immediately does it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:21 PM
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Every time I browse Reddit, I can’t help noticing how obsessed Americans seem to be with losing their virginity young. You’ll often see posts like, “I’m 18 and still a virgin!” “I’m 20 and I’ve never done it!” “I’m 26 and my life’s ruined because I’ve never had sex!” And every time I’m just like, “Guys… you’re way too young to be talking like that.” So now I’m realizing—was it all because of people like those posting that stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:16 PM
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Skill issue. Jokes aside. I know a relationship does not solve every other issue in life. But I did take the time and effort to solve every single issue so the only ones that were left were the ones related to nor having a relationship. That way my partner actually does solve all the problems I have in life. That part is brilliant. Honestly, once you solve all the other problems in life, the only one left is relationships. I’ve dated the same person twice, so I could clearly feel the difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:10 PM
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That sounds amazing! Where is he? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 09:00 AM
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Honestly, it really does look like such an easy way to live…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:50 AM
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Ah, so that’s why people pee after ejaculation? I never knew that was the reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:48 AM
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But when I actually experienced it, the mental burden didn’t seem to be the main issue… There was a time when my boyfriend and I did it three times a day, and I was dealing with severe depression back then — but I wasn’t working. It was purely physical exhaustion that killed my libido. So now, to get my lost sex drive back (lol), I’m applying for an office job again. Wish me luck~
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:16 AM
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Anyway, from a woman’s perspective, the amount of work and the drop in libido are almost directly proportional — like a 1:1 ratio. So yeah, when housework piles up, it definitely feels like sex drive hits rock bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:12 AM
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I really don’t get why people keep saying, “It’s hard for women to truly end up alone.” If you don’t approach people first, harbor a bit of malice, ignore unspoken social rules, and aren’t good-looking — it’s absolutely possible to end up alone in no time. Just because someone like that refrains from committing crimes and quietly minds their own business doesn’t mean others will automatically reach out to them. And even if they happen to be in the same space as others by chance, that doesn’t mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:05 AM
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When you make male friends, do you evaluate—one by one—what value he has within the group/social setting before befriending him? If you do (or don’t), why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:38 AM
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Tbh, it’s not most men—probably only about 10% who are truly incompatible. The problem is, around 15–20% of women seem to be boycotting relationships altogether for the sake of their quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:16 AM
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It really depends on stamina—seriously. When I was doing physically demanding work, even once a week felt exhausting, but when I wasn’t working, I could go at it three times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:08 AM
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They’re so humorous and gentle, yet somehow also adorable ♥ Every time I see them, I just want to give them a little nibble!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:46 AM
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I’m genuinely curious—how do guys even keep up their libido while doing stuff like that? It just feels like being forced into monk mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:33 AM
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I think it depends on what age I was when I got that question. If I had been a teenager or in my twenties, I’d definitely have chosen B. Not having friends during that time would’ve been really hard. But now that I’m in my thirties, my answer is A.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:22 PM
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But here’s something I’ve noticed: These days I have a physically demanding job — to the point that it’s giving me disc problems. When I get home, I just want to sleep; my body hurts, I have no libido, and my mind feels blank. But during the recent long holiday, I didn’t have to go to work, got plenty of rest, and my back pain mostly went away — and suddenly, I was back to being able to have sex every day again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:20 PM
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Pairing random men and women for multiple dating simulations and feedback sessions lol — the socially awkward folks would probably get so much better at dating from that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:20 AM
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Tbh, if dating apps could just manage to keep the male-to-female ratio balanced at 1:1, about two-thirds of all the problems they’ve had so far would probably disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:07 AM
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You know what I’ve been having the hardest time understanding lately? Americans have Silicon Valley right inside their country. They read the fastest, newest English news stories that don’t even need translation. Doesn’t that mean they should be seeing all kinds of weird, cutting-edge tech being developed in real time—stuff foreigners who don’t speak English can’t even access? Even more, Americans use chatbots in English, so their versions are far better than ones in other languages. So by the E…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:29 PM
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I ran a simulation in my head — what if, starting tomorrow, both contraception and abortion suddenly disappeared? Honestly, I think I’d just stop having sex altogether and stick to masturbation. My boyfriend says he’d be too scared to do it too, since every time we’d have sex, there’d be a risk of getting pregnant. We’d probably just stick to hands or oral stuff instead. So it wouldn’t really help single guys get more relationships; it would just lower the satisfaction of people who are already …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:44 PM
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Honestly, it really bothers me when people judge based only on East Asian women who grew up in the U.S. They often say that Korean-American women don’t date Asian men, but Korean women who actually grew up in Korea tend to feel intimidated by blond, quarterback-type white guys and prefer men who look more like this: https://share.google/AYodmLgEIzaIEzbnN It just feels so cowardly — like the whole U.S. culture collectively brainwashed women into thinking “Asian men are unattractive!” and then tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:10 AM
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Tbh, I’m that thick girl who’s always nagging my boyfriend and spanking his butt. But since he seems to love it, I guess it’s all good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:01 AM
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Honestly, I still don’t really understand what situationship culture is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:06 AM
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Mine’s filled with cats, dogs, penguins, seals, and iPad drawings!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:44 AM
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My boyfriend’s favorite type of female appearance is the super skinny, stick-like kind, but for various reasons, he ended up falling for me instead. And honestly, we seem pretty satisfied and doing well together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:31 AM
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I think replacements that come with full physical bodies will almost certainly exist within about 10 years. As for privately hosted versions, I’m not really sure. Among the major AIs like GPT, Grok, and Gemini, are there any that can actually run without an internet connection? And even if there are, they’d probably perform way worse than the ones connected to the web.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:26 AM
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If one woman dates several men, the problem gets solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:40 AM
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I think my relationship with my gay friend is kind of like that, but it didn’t really hurt me or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:40 AM
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It might actually be a good idea to make incels complete some kind of etiquette program first, and then only give vouchers to the ones who pass the practical test lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:48 PM
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If you click the link and then press the “Visit” button, you can view the images in higher quality!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:35 PM
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I wanted to test how differently Western men and women perceive attractiveness. https://share.google/tkpJCRJfdPJkILxLJ This link contains photos of 30 men. For women: Please write how many of them you find attractive enough that you’d consider dating them. For men: Please write how many of them you think are attractive enough that they could realistically get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:47 PM
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I’ve fallen in love with the revolutionary cat ♥
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:43 AM
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I don’t really want to use it myself, but it honestly looks so funny lol. If a friend bought it, I’d totally go check it out just for fun hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:39 AM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:16 AM
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Wow~!!!!! I don’t usually save comments, but I just had to save this one right away!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:36 AM
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Alright, fine — let’s say I’m 100% wrong. Then what’s your opinion on that whole “10,000 people know” thing? Are you saying that in a city of 80,000, everyone would remain completely unaware of it until the end of the world? That not a single fuckboy would ever get caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:13 PM
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I haven’t lived in a city of 80,000, but I have lived in one with about 50,000 people. That place, though, was completely different from this imagined city — nearly 50% of the population was elderly. It was a super-aged community. But in this 80,000-person scenario, about a quarter of the population (20,000) is of dating age, which makes it sound like a much younger city. If 20,000 are of dating age, let’s assume another 10,000 are minors or children. That would leave around 50,000 people in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:05 PM
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I don’t know—I actually think estimating only five friends per person is too low. Even I was on the less social side among people my age, and I still had about five friends. Ordinary girls usually have way more. If you think about the popular girls in school, everyone in the entire class (around 35–40 people) knew who they were dating or who they broke up with. Even students from other classes knew. It’s not like those popular girls personally told all 100 people one by one; somehow the rumors j…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:12 PM
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qmflwlemvpdjfl ☜I typed your nickname using Korean-English keyboard!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:01 PM
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I’m not great at math, but— Even if all those women were introverts like me and each had only five friends, a single man among 2,000 could still end up becoming a conversation topic for about 10,000 women after just one encounter. Especially since friends tend to hang out with people who share similar tastes, their preferences would probably overlap. And extroverted girls often go clubbing together, so there’s an even higher chance they’d all meet or see that same guy in the same space.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:55 PM
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It's not Korean-English keyboard, what is it? That's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:44 PM
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How often do you get approached by strangers? ☞ You mean like being hit on or asked for my number on the street? Not really—it basically never happens. How often do you get approached or shown sexual/romantic interest from someone you know? ☞ Hmm, maybe around three or four times? Usually when a group of about four or five people who got close online meets offline, someone like that shows up. Do you feel like you could find a sexual partner whenever you want? ☞ If I put in the effort, probably! …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:10 PM
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I’m dating what’s basically my male version right now and I’m super satisfied with it. Haven’t you ever hung out with your own female version?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:56 PM
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I saw that comment and thought, “Is that really all there is to it?” so I took a moment to think it over. If you break it down—sex once, holding hands and chatting while walking down the street once, sitting across a table and gazing at each other lovingly once—you could roughly price each as a single, standalone “event.” But when you add it all together, it’s like constantly buying $20–$50 combo meals every 10 minutes to 2 hours. If I actually paid for all that, I’d end up spending my entire sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:32 PM
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Uh… most people here are from Western developed countries, so if you say “India isn’t an ultra-patriarchal country,” I don’t think they’ll really relate. It’s kind of like when a Chinese person insists “China isn’t a ultra-dictatorship.” Honestly, just looking at what happens on a national level, India pretty much is the kind of country red-pill men idolize, isn’t it? So if not patriarchy—what exactly do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:11 PM
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If someone with no proof and no record of ever having worked with me starts raging and shouting, “You’re a liar, period!”, then it’s up to any third party watching to make their own judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:43 AM
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Honestly, I could somewhat understand it if he were American—but he’s Indian, and that part just doesn’t make sense to me. He’s already living in the kind of ultra-patriarchal country he seems to want, so what exactly is he complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:29 AM
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I made a Tinder profile once and had a similar experience — but there’s one thing you just wouldn’t understand unless you’ve been in my position. When I got over 200 likes in 30 minutes, my first thought wasn’t, “Hell yeah, I can live like a rock star or a porn star now!” It was, “WTF is this? Why is everyone so interested? Are they all bots? Scammers? This feels off. Something’s wrong. I need to get out of here.” When gold starts raining down from the sky, some people think, “Awesome, I’ll be r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:30 AM
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If you’re that curious, you should try working at a kimchi factory or a wafer factory yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 09:10 AM
1

Fr fr, I totally feel that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:15 AM
1

Just thinking about chicken broth makes my mouth water 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:11 AM
1

He’s not bald yet, but he’s definitely on his way there 😭😭 I met his dad, who’s about 20 years older—and he was completely bald 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:06 AM
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My boyfriend has both ASD and ASPD. He used to be a bit stiff and awkward because of his low empathy, but after giving him lots of love, hugs, good food, and getting him pouty every time I didn’t give him a kiss(?), he’s actually become pretty adorable now!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:39 AM
2

I think I know exactly what you mean! Like that editor from The Devil Wears Prada—older, but even cooler and more stylish! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:22 AM
4

This comment is seriously hilarious lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:16 AM
2

Because of my developmental disorder, I have to artificially re-learn what counts as “handsome” every time trends change. And once someone is over 170 cm tall, I don’t really register any difference no matter how much taller they are. So I don’t think I could ever choose a manosphere-type guy based on traits that don’t even make an impression on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:20 PM
2

Uh… could you explain what that has to do with number 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:04 PM
2

A handsome man is like a statue or a piece of art displayed on the street. He’s undeniably impressive, but it feels burdensome to bring him home—so you just glance at him and walk away. A man who wants a long-term relationship with me is like a chubby cat that follows me around. He’s easygoing and cute, he makes my heart race the moment I see him, and I immediately want to take him home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:56 PM
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Your Miku is cute too!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:28 PM
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Seriously, it’s the kind of nonsense/trolling you’d never see anywhere else—it feels unique to the English-speaking world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:43 AM
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No, look at the context, not just the keywords. If that guy had “politely” said, “Hehe, I love giving blowjobs more than anything in the world!” do you think I’d have gotten mad? I’d probably just laugh and go, “Haha, so that’s what you’re into! Then among lighter kinds of affection, what do you like most?” and leave it at that. But in this case, I wasn’t even doing anything, and he was the one who jumped in first with, “Since you don’t like blowjobs the most, you must not really be attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:35 AM
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If you’re going to be that “technical” about it, then you should have just talked about what kind of affection you like. Why jump in out of nowhere, pick a fight, and start trolling someone else’s preferences? Seriously, what nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:24 AM
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ChatGPT made this for me! Isn’t it adorable? ♥
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:14 AM
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Honestly, I really don’t get why I’m supposed to virtue-signal to people here who don’t know my name, my address, my workplace, and who live on the other side of the planet. On something like Instagram, sure—your face and name are attached, so your reputation’s on the line, and of course people tend to say only “good” things there. But why does even a casual post about personal preferences on an anonymous board have to be treated with suspicion from the start? It’s not like I wrote something bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:11 AM
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Okay, let’s give them the benefit of the doubt and assume comments like that are 100% correct. Maybe someone doesn’t actually like BTS but pretends they do just to hang out with fans. That can happen. But so what? Isn’t it great when people who like similar things can just say, “I like A,” “I like B,” and enjoy some lighthearted small talk together? Sounds like a win-win to me. Even if someone’s faking it, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone, why not just let it slide? I don’t get why these people…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:04 AM
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If that really is supposed to be a joke, then it’s a terribly unfunny one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:46 AM
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Honestly, I’ve seen way ruder things, but the issue here isn’t just that it’s disrespectful—it’s that the timing and context are so absurdly out of place. I like Harry Potter ☜ No you don’t! You hate Harry Potter! I like hamburgers ☜ No you don’t! You hate hamburgers! I like the color blue ☜ No you don’t! You hate blue! So what, is that line some kind of trend in these circles now? Do people actually think that’s funny? Good grief. At this rate, we’ve ended up in a world where you have to hide i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:44 AM
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I’ve met a few really bizarre, socially awkward types that seem to exist only on English-speaking sites. For example, imagine in my country a girl says: “I love BTS oppas! They’re so handsome!” Normally, the socially awkward people might say things like: “Really? I hate them! They’re all ugly!” “Instead of watching that, you should study.” But on English-speaking sites, I’ve run into nerds with no social skills who say things I’ve literally never heard anywhere else, like: “You don’t actually li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:49 AM
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I told you I like him. Who are you to say, “If you like him, then you have to do this,” and try to control my tastes and actions? Can’t you just think, “Oh, that’s what she likes,” and leave it at that? Honestly, it’s rude and ridiculous. Do you have no sense? You’re like the type of new hire who ruins the mood by suddenly bringing up anal masturbation when everyone else is casually talking about dating. If someone sets the stage to talk about physical affection at a back-hug level, any normal p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:40 AM
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Honestly, in today’s world, just having number 6 fulfilled would already be more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:22 AM
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Just hearing about a recliner chair makes me feel relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:16 AM
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Why are you starting trouble? Reported for sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:13 AM
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I was shocked when I heard that many Americans don’t know who actually pays tariffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:08 AM
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He’s the same guy who posted this before! https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1nn34w1/cmv_struggling_men_should_focus_on_making_life/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button A true master of starting topics that get him hated by both men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:56 AM
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What kind of physical affection do you enjoy the most with your boyfriend? For me, I love hugging him from behind and smelling the scent of his neck!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:54 AM
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“The one who pays more than they receive in taxes is a man (???) The one who pays more than they receive in taxes is an American (????) The one who pays more than they receive in taxes is a human (???????) No — the one who pays more than they receive in taxes is simply everyone who is not on welfare. (O)”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:08 AM
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In a food factory, there are about 50 women for every 1 man. In a semiconductor factory, it’s more like 100–200 women for every man. So every time you eat canned food or watch Shorts on your phone, remember to be grateful to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:00 AM
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Among average Korean girls If the girlfriend makes a face like she just saw someone really clueless and rude and goes, “Woooow~,” the mood immediately goes awkward, like, “Damn, don’t you have any social awareness?” Then, when that person goes to the bathroom, the girlfriend casually says, “That friend seems a bit… socially awkward, haha.” At that point, everyone’s been waiting for the cue, and the group jumps in, gossiping and mocking with full energy. By then, one of that person’s closer frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:49 AM
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Do you have any ideas for a dating app that works better than Tinder at matching people, but doesn’t destroy self-esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:43 PM
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Since I wasn’t exposed to that stuff growing up, I think I interpret the same photos differently. For example, when I see glamorous lifestyle shots of influencers, people who used social media a lot envy that kind of life right away. But for me, until they explicitly told me “this is real life and you’re supposed to envy it,” I honestly just thought it was some kind of photo shoot on a set—like stock images they sell on Getty or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:16 PM
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Looking at the men’s answers, the balance seems pretty good. Could you make a women’s version too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:59 PM
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The truth is, I grew up without ever using the kind of social media where you post selfies, interact, and admire the lifestyles of pretty influencers—at least until I turned 20. At the time I didn’t realize it, but looking back now, I think that’s actually made me happier today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:40 PM
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Well, getting rid of welfare programs that already exist is actually pretty difficult. At most, I think the creation of new, future-oriented welfare systems will slow down, and the current system will just be maintained as it is. And honestly, I don’t think women protesting is going to stop this development either. There’s just too much capital tied up in that market, so it’s bound to come out eventually. In the end, I think we’ll just have to choose the lesser evil and adapt to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:34 PM
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Honestly, I feel a headache coming on...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:24 PM
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But if you compare Option A: a “Dickpocalypse” Gilead-style civil war country Option B: a sexbot world …isn’t the latter clearly the better option? And honestly, once guys can just go home and mess around with their sexbots, they’ll probably be too busy or too lazy to go through all the hassle of trying to actively push real women out of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:00 PM
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Here’s the conclusion I’ve come to: They only recognize the preferences of sexy women as “women’s preferences,” and everything else is dismissed as irrelevant. That’s why they automatically end up saying, “All women have the same preferences!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:11 AM
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Here’s the conclusion I’ve come to: They only recognize the preferences of sexy women as “women’s preferences,” and everything else is dismissed as irrelevant. That’s why they automatically end up saying, “All women have the same preferences!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:11 AM
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Hmm… should I bring up fitness? Now that I think about it, I really don’t have a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:06 AM
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What??? Elon Musk is only rated a 3.5? I thought he’d be at least a 5 or 6. The Western standards are pretty strict…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:31 AM
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I didn’t know who Jack Black was, so I looked him up, and within one second of seeing his photo, I realized exactly what you meant LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:18 AM
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But I heard that in the U.S., there aren’t enough volunteers for the military, and the quality of public education is so broken that there are tons of recruits who can’t even graduate from boot camp. That’s why there are even pre–boot camp boot camps, where they teach multiplication tables and basic English grammar just so people can make it through, while also putting them on diets. If Stanford or Yale said, “We’ll only take students with perfect SAT scores!” then at least that would mean somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:52 AM
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What???? I was only thinking along the lines of, “If they recklessly discharge a large number of soldiers, what if those soldiers start a rebellion...” But now you’re telling me this is actually bait for introducing conscription???? What kind of bullshit is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:36 AM
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I predict that if I just hold out for 10 more years, the brilliant men pulling all-nighters in Silicon Valley will create cutting-edge sexbots. That’s why I really can’t understand why the U.S. can’t wait and is instead self-destructing into Gilead right now. For reference, abortion has been legalized in South Korea, and we would gladly welcome English-speaking American talent fleeing from the “United States of Gilead.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:10 AM
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Honestly, even men themselves wouldn’t be happy if, back in school, the principal had forced them to date a girl who didn’t put any effort into her appearance, was overweight and unattractive, wore thick glasses, had a quirky personality, but happened to be at the top of the class. So why can’t they put themselves in the other person’s shoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:53 AM
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Still, since you do physical labor, isn’t the current American culture pretty decent? Imagine if, on top of the physical strain, people also acted rudely toward you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:30 AM
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What did you major in? I’m just curious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:28 AM
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That’s surprising. Up until now, I used to think, “The effort was in the past, and now only the results remain, so isn’t it just all easy mode from here?” But high-paying jobs and good bodies really do require insane maintenance costs. Somehow, realizing that makes me feel like I’ll be able to live more happily going forward. I wish you luck as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:20 PM
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Ugh, disgusting. You just made a sexually harassing remark to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:59 PM
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I’m curious — how much time have you spent fixing something about yourself, and for what purpose? (For example: 3 years to lose weight, 3 years preparing to land a good job, 2 years of therapy to turn a terrible personality into one that can communicate with women, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:53 AM
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Honestly, I imagined it myself while writing that, and I actually felt kind of happy too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:46 AM
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So, would sharing a cheap rented room with that girl, both of you working part-time at McDonald’s, playing pirated video games together every day, sometimes playing League of Legends online and raging “ah f*ck!” when a troll shows up on your team, then after the game downing beer and Doritos, having a round of sex, and stepping on the scale to see 98kg—would that be heaven for you? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:35 AM
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Wow, just hearing what you said made me think about what I could buy with $250,000 and $500,000, and my heart honestly started racing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:26 AM
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Honestly, the pill-obsessed guys who come here are like this: If you like a good-looking guy → “Women only like Chads, waaah!” If you like a rich guy → “Women are just gold diggers, waaah!” If you like a smart guy → “Every woman who claims to be sapiosexual is just ugly, waaah!” If by chance someone dates an unattractive guy → “Beta bucks, waaah! She settled, so she must be unhappy!” If they see unattractive people happily dating each other → “I’d never want to be in that kind of couple, waaah! …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:07 AM
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Now if I’ve ever had even one good-looking ex, they’ll all call me an “alpha widow.” Absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:06 AM
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I wrote “child,” so why did you randomly change it to “adult”? And don’t you know what the word “rape” means? The term itself refers to non-consensual sex. So why are you suddenly bringing consensual sex into this? In just 10 years from now, GPT-24 and advanced silicone sexbots with artificial wombs will exist, giving incels the chance to live out harem fantasies. So why do some people devote everything to coming up with ways to strip away other people’s human rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:36 AM
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If a woman showed up in a stretched-out T-shirt and slippers and said, “Let’s date casually, like me,” would you feel happy that from now on you can also live casually, or would you feel disappointed that you won’t get to see her looking pretty anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:47 AM
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A: Is it okay to rape kids? B: Well, it depends on what the kid wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:58 PM
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like this? https://share.google/images/el3jX4bZQWGBCaAAz
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:43 PM
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To clear up any misunderstanding, here’s the answer in one line: To solve men’s dating issues, is it essential to infringe on women’s rights, or not essential?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:37 PM
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Honestly, the vast majority of people the insurance guy meets also rarely introduce someone who’ll actually buy a policy. It’s pretty much the same everywhere. But put yourself in the other shoes: If your friend tried to sell you insurance, you said no, and then they blocked your number and completely cut ties—wouldn’t that feel pretty shitty? You’d wonder, “So were you only friends with me to sell insurance?” Of course, if the rejection hurt them, they’re free to walk away. That’s their right. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:30 PM
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But if you post a reply like that specifically under a comment saying “Do whatever you want, just don’t violate other people’s rights,” wouldn’t a third party naturally assume, “Ah, so this guy must believe that men can only form relationships if they violate women’s rights”—and misunderstand you that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:02 PM
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Honestly, I wish people who don’t want to have children would just be allowed to exit the gene pool at this point. That way, the next generation will be made up more of those who actually want to have kids, so they probably will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:35 AM
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But yeah, I can definitely imagine that if you go to a dance academy, there would be lots of lively and pretty girls there, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:45 AM
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Actually, I wish they would take an interest in my job. I’m confident I could make them crack up with all the crazy stories about absurd customers and the sitcom-like situations I’ve been through.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:36 AM
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Hmm, wouldn’t it be reasonable to at least build welfare centers and hire people to listen to their concerns? Honestly, if we don’t even do that much, I don’t think men will feel like paying taxes at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:33 AM
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I’ve always been waiting for the day when men storm into the producers of romance webtoons or chaebol dramas and cause such a commotion that Ma Dong-seok finally appears as the male lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:27 AM
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A good insurance salesperson builds light connections with lots of people. Then, they approach only some of them for business. If someone doesn’t buy, they don’t immediately cut them off or get upset. They just keep the relationship going like nothing happened. And sometimes, that same person later introduces them to a new contact who is interested. That seems like a mindset worth taking notes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:16 AM
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Oh? Where I live, it’s actually the opposite. If a boy is quirky, people say he’s a “future engineer.” But if a girl is quirky, she’s just seen as a “weird chick.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:08 PM
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That could very well be the case… I’m sorry to hear it, and I really hope you’re able to overcome that trauma. If I can offer a little comfort: one of my close friends used to be extremely timid and avoidant. He overthought everything, was almost too considerate of others, and couldn’t even place an order at a café without me speaking for him. Later, though, he started doing makeup, refined his fashion, and ended up becoming a glamorous, popular social butterfly. Meanwhile, I’ve been the same ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:05 PM
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But here’s the thing. A lot of decent guys are really boring to talk to—they give short, dry answers—but they often have good jobs (sometimes ones they actually enjoy and are suited for) and a fair amount of assets. In those cases, if I ask about their work or bring up their investments, they actually get excited and open up, and the conversation flows much better. So honestly, I think it just depends on the person and the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:05 PM
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I don’t have any plans to do anything to raise the birth rate, but I do plan to die once I run out of money. In the future, I’ll be asking the children who are yet to be born to vote for a party that will legalize euthanasia.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:54 PM
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That’s right. If you breathe in, you must eventually breathe out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:44 PM
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Oh! I had never thought of it that way!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:42 PM
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In just five years, kiosks have appeared in almost every restaurant. Now, some places even have small kiosks installed at each table, and larger restaurants are full of serving robots moving around. In the near future, I imagine we might see robots carrying elderly people or even human-washing machines. If the problems of such a future arise, perhaps technology will advance to the point where a single caregiver could look after 20 seniors at once. Or, AI could eliminate so many other jobs that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:37 PM
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Of course, society should help men live happy, healthy, safe, and fulfilling lives—but it has to be done in ways that don’t infringe on other people’s bodily autonomy. Good examples: covering Wegovy under health insurance for obese patients, providing men’s counseling centers, or giving access to dating coaches. Bad examples: stripping women of their basic rights, reviving outdated oppressive traditions that turn the country into a self-inflicted backwater, or implementing a “woman distribution …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:15 PM
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It's a status thing. Many years ago nerds were considered lower status socially to boo. But then the normies wanted the things that the nerds had, and those things started becoming more mainstream because there was a profit motive for that to be the case. So that stuff became normalized and the bar for what is considered being nerdy was raised, and those people were pushed further to the fringes of society. ☜That phenomenon is what we call in Korea “the lost nerd” (잃어버린 찐따) 😭.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:31 PM
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The king doesn’t have to do anything—what matters is how the farmer pitches himself to me. Farmer A: “I’m fairly intelligent, and I have this realistic plan. So if you follow my plan for at least 3 years, at most 10, after that we won’t have to work so hard. We’ll just raise 3 chickens, cultivate a small 20-pyeong vegetable garden, and live happily in a little hut, spending 24 hours together. I want to be with you as long as possible, and your happiness will always be my first priority.” Farmer …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:28 AM
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It seems to me that this whole thing actually has both pros and cons. A lot of Americans don’t realize this, but Korea is actually one of the most hardcore fangirl/fanboy countries when it comes to the U.S. So the ultimate cure for any particularly primitive or messed-up Korean custom is spreading the rumor: “Americans don’t do that barbaric stuff!” Korea has historically had an insanely strong white-collar preference. To give you an idea of the level: If a teenager tried to dress stylishly, adu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:02 AM
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Honestly, Tinder is really not great. The old-style dating apps that recommended just a few people per day at random were way better… In Korea, there’s even a stereotype that “Tinder user = sex-obsessed.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:20 AM
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Honestly, “your face and your personality have to match” — I 100% agree with that. It really feels true. Like having the right concept or branding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:06 AM
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Honestly, “your face and your personality have to match” — I 100% agree with that. It really feels true. Like having the right concept or branding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:06 AM
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Just my opinion, but I get the feeling that Americans in general really hate even slightly “nerdy/awkward” people way more than Koreans, Chinese, or Japanese do. When I was younger, I had a part-time job, and I ended up working alone with an American girl my age. In Korea/China/Japan, even if someone doesn’t like “nerds,” in that kind of situation people will usually still introduce themselves, ask about your age, make small talk, gossip a little about work, and just get along — as long as the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:54 AM
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I’m not sure if it’s better or worse. It’s just a different environment. It’s worth experiencing at least once in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:36 PM
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Looking around, it seems to go something like this: Men who could make good househusbands just end up going out to work instead. The men who say “I’ll be a househusband because I don’t want to work” usually turn out exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:34 PM
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Things I saw in an all-girls school: With no boys around, girls could be just as violent as guys — bullying there was on a whole other level compared to co-ed schools. Even without boys, there were still the “popular girls.” My friends once made a contest out of how long we could go without washing our PE uniforms. We were in 3rd year at the time. I thought I ranked pretty high… until one girl admitted she hadn’t washed hers even once since enrolling. My mind went blank, and I had to concede. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:58 AM
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If you had gone to an all-girls’ school instead of a co-ed one, you’d know that what’s written there would never actually happen. Especially the hygiene part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:27 PM
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The average height of American women is about 162 cm, and the average weight is about 77 kg, so what that woman said seems correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:01 AM
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Honestly, it’s not really a problem for a man to protect his own feelings. But even from a man’s perspective— imagine you had a close friend who suddenly tried to sell you insurance, and you simply didn’t want it so you said no, and then that friend cut off contact and ended the friendship! That would feel pretty unpleasant, right? Of course, from the insurance-selling friend’s perspective, being rejected hurts, and also, spending time with someone who won’t buy is a waste—so from that angle, cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:20 PM
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That word “spec”— at first it was only used by nerds building computers, then it spread to game characters, and before anyone noticed, it started being used for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:26 AM
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Honestly, I wish those guys would understand their desires better and act more intelligently. Technology is advancing so fast that GPT already provides comfort better than most people, and in 10 years there will be sexbots more attractive than real women. You’ll probably be able to swap out their faces or breast sizes every season. You could even buy 10 sexbots and play out a harem fantasy. With such a future ahead, do their needs really have to be fulfilled by a single woman? Psychological need…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:28 AM
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When I was a kid, I saw plenty of kids whose parents promised them, “If you get first place, I’ll buy you a Nintendo,” but even so, they still couldn’t study well. It wasn’t because they had no expectation of getting the Nintendo that they failed to be first. They simply didn’t have the ability to come in first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:15 AM
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Honestly, when I see a big wedding ceremony, the first thought that comes to my mind is, “How much money did that cost?” I can’t help but calculate: how much could they have earned if they’d invested it, what else could they have bought with that money? My boyfriend thinks similarly, so we ignored all the opposition from my parents and just chose to live together. Meanwhile, the couples who spent tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands of dollars on weddings somehow went ahead, had kids, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:05 AM
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Korean parents pressure their children to marry and have kids in ways Westerners couldn’t even imagine as polite — yet Korea’s fertility rate is 0.7. Parents forced women into miserable marriages, but most of those mothers suffered horribly under sijipsari (in-law servitude). And when the younger generation of women saw that tiny handful of feminists were the only ones clawing their way out, they all bailed. And notice this: Muslim migrant workers who surely inherited their faith from birth — on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:46 AM
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Every man and woman of my generation was born to parents who practiced Confucian ancestral rites. And now, not a single one of them plans to hold those rites once their parents pass away. Why? Because while Christians and feminists spend the holidays casually eating brunch, we’re stuck all day frying jeon and preparing ancestral food in exhausting labor — and that’s infuriating. The people who believed in Confucianism reproduced diligently, but the ancestral rites will vanish completely in the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:30 AM
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First of all, if you look at romance comics, the male leads all look the same except for their hair color. There is absolutely never a case where my type — a big “bear dad” — is the main character. I’m always waiting for the day a Korean makjang drama comes out with Ma Dong-seok as the male lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:25 AM
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The vast majority of men and women are in couples. Of the 5% of men and women who completely fail in the dating market, women usually just give up on sex and instead focus on building other relationships and making money. So in reality, it’s only about 2.5% of men who say things like, “We’ll stop working, we’ll ‘tangping,’ and we’ll collapse civilization!” Honestly, if all 2.5% of them went on strike, it might cause some issues for the country, but it seems a bit insufficient to actually collaps…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:11 AM
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Professor! If the hopeless male students you’ve seen in your life suddenly lived in a world where they could have sex with a woman who has an S-line body and a fully surgically enhanced face without any effort, do you think they would suddenly become model students the moment the sex ends? Please answer from an educator’s perspective!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:04 AM
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Honestly, they want a man with a vagina, but since that hardly exists in the world, I can understand the people who just tell them to go find a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:49 PM
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When someone who always slept through the lessons on figurative language in school suddenly gets angry—because comparing people to junk cars or pizza toppings is fine, but comparing them to mosquitoes is somehow unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 11:46 PM
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That’s a rare and wonderful friend. I think I’d want to keep that relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:19 AM
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Isn’t it funny how so many men insist that their own sexual preferences can never change, yet at the same time argue that women’s preferences — their standards for the men they like — should change?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:12 AM
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Many men say, “Even a crappy car is better than having no car at all.” But from those women’s perspective, it probably sounds more like this: “Better to get attention from a mosquito than to get no attention from anyone.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:07 AM
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I started wondering—which is more important: the physical act of sex itself, or a woman’s acknowledgment? Looking at it this way, it seems like the physical act might actually be more important than the acknowledgment. So in that case, why not just spend the money you earn from work and buy it? There’s plenty of sex out there without acknowledgment—it’s already a big part of the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:01 PM
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Why are they wiling to destroy civilization but not take a prostitution vacation? And I also pointed out that, if men say they are willing to tear down civilization, but aren’t willing to risk getting arrested for visiting an illegal sex worker… then why are you worried about their threats? ☜I hadn’t thought about that part until now! I suddenly pictured this pathetic guy making all these scary threats about “destroying civilization,” but then bawling his eyes out the moment the cops fine him, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 10:31 AM
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I’m really curious, What do you think about a woman who truly loves you, acknowledges you, sees you as a real man—but just doesn’t have sex with you? And on the other hand, what about a woman who looks down on you, despises you, calls you trash—but still has sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:51 AM
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These days, when I see theories like this trending, I feel really weird. I dated the same person (my seal) twice, but the results were completely different the first time and the second time. The first time we dated, I was 22. I was young, energetic, and had a high sex drive. From the moment we first met, the conversation just clicked, and we ended up drinking like crazy at a pojangmacha until almost 3 a.m., then went straight to having sex. Roughly 10 hours from meeting to sex, I think. After t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:58 AM
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That’s a matter of personal preference. I value “the greatest good for the greatest number” more than strict consistency. I think this comes down to national character. To me, a government is basically just the operations team for our country’s infrastructure—building subways, putting up bus stops, healing sick people quickly so they can get back to work, catching criminals, listening to citizens’ complaints, that kind of thing. If a clueless, power-abusing leader like Yoon Suk-yeol shows up, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:52 AM
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Honestly, I don’t think legalizing sex work would make incels just poof! disappear. But I do think sex needs to be something that can be traded legally in the marketplace if we’re going to redistribute it, regulate it fairly, or use it in welfare policy. That’s why I see legalization not as the end goal itself, but more as a foundation for other possible policies. And honestly, there are already plenty of providers—so I don’t think every woman should have to become a sex slave to a man she doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:15 AM
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Honestly, when I was younger, I’d never even heard of half the different kinds of LGBTQ identities that are now respected. So I figure autism’s turn will probably come soon, too. In Korea, the drama Extraordinary Attorney Woo was a massive hit, and it really improved autism’s public image. I think the U.S. could see a similar effect if autistic characters started showing up more often in mainstream media. Even whining to get an autistic character added into League of Legends or Overwatch might n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:00 AM
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From what I see, even the so-called Western leftists are just pissed off. If incels had approached it the way disabled people do — like “Give us subsidies so we can buy a wheelchair!” — people probably would’ve let it slide more easily. But the way incels act these days, it’s like a deranged disabled person saying: “Give me one of your legs!” “Assign me a 24/7 able-bodied slave who has to carry me whenever I want to move!” That’s what it looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:21 AM
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So you mean we should push this through public opinion and change it. claim that in 2016 WHO said “not having sexual partners is a disability,” so make it covered by health insurance! It’s not some fucked-up dictator country — big advanced nations with sizable populations pay their presidents and MPs huge salaries and hire hundreds of thousands of civil servants for a reason: they exist to listen to citizens’ petitions. If you pay taxes, use those people. Stop just calling them salary-stealers a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:07 AM
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Instead of blindly voting for the right-wing party and going “Hehe, someday they’ll magically create a perfect girlfriend-distribution program for me” while holding a rain ritual for a hundred years, it seems much more effective to push specific desired policies through citizen movements. (Especially since prostitution is already legal in places like Germany, the Netherlands, and even Nevada in the U.S.) Seeing how Trump got elected twice and even managed to change the constitution to restrict a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:51 AM
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I’ve heard that the percentage of men who actually fail in the dating market is smaller than people think (around 3%–6%), while about 99% of women on OnlyFans don’t even make minimum wage. Prostitution is said to be a red ocean as well. So, if policy experts who are much smarter than me could design and fine-tune a resource allocation system, I feel like there might be a workable solution. I don’t know if you’re really an accountant or if it’s just your username, but if you are an actual account…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:24 PM
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Life isn’t fair, so we should build modern welfare systems that take care of people who are disadvantaged, together as a society. But does it make any sense for someone to lash out at others who are doing well, just because they themselves are at a disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:07 PM
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Why is it that so many men who can’t get “free sex” would rather try to ruin everyone’s lives instead of just paying for it? Why don’t they propose things like legalizing sex work, creating an “incel disability classification,” or a basic state-sponsored brothel system instead of destroying everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:36 PM
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It’s pretty rare to find a topic that both men and women criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:30 PM
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That’s just right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:29 PM
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I asked my boyfriend, “What would you do if a spaceship carrying two billion men as handsome as BTS tried to land on Earth?” He said he’d immediately fire missiles and shoot it down, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:14 AM
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Everything above I’m fine with, but personally I don’t like passport bros. That’s because I used to work in a related government office. Like—if you’re 60 years old and you marry some innocent 22-year-old Vietnamese girl, at least treat her like a princess and cherish her. But instead, I saw cases where the guy forced her to farm like a plantation slave, beat her for not knowing Korean, beat her for not making kimchi or doenjang stew, and even beat the child she gave birth to (it’s your own kid,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:10 AM
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What’s the hardest part about living as a bisexual? I always just thought, “Must be nice, since your partner pool is twice as big~.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:50 AM
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Hmm, it doesn’t really resonate with me… I just thought, if I don’t want my man to be the one “getting topped,” then I could just choose a top gay(?) and that’s it. If the explanation had been something like “guys on gay apps are more accessible so it’s easier to cheat,” or “higher risk of STDs,” I think I could’ve understood it a bit more. Anyway, since most women apparently feel that way, I guess I’ll just memorize it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 03:25 AM
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What problems might arise if a woman dates a bisexual man? I thought there wouldn’t be much difference compared to dating a heterosexual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:37 PM
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Honestly, a guy confessing isn’t really the problem. What really feels terrible is when a woman refuses sex and suddenly all the friendship built up until then just vanishes, with the guy cutting off the friendship completely. As long as you manage things well so that doesn’t happen, it doesn’t seem that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:19 PM
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The phrase “doesn’t have obsession” really feels spot-on!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:05 PM
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What’s the hardest part about being a hiring manager? Please also tell me the things that weren’t visible when you were a job seeker. I’m curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:13 PM
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So that’s why I thought it would be fine if it were done the “proper way.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:58 PM
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If someone followed the Red Pill “by the book” and just focused on steadily building their attractiveness, I think they could probably find a partner one way or another. But when they go dark and twisted, it turns into: “Heh… all women just want to leech money off men!” “I’ll never spend even a cent on a woman—real victory is taking everything from her while giving nothing in return!” If that’s their mindset, they’ll either get dumped by everyone or end up in a relationship where their household…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:52 AM
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So these guys just think it’s terrible because they don’t normally eat raw onions? Fine, I’ll change it to radish or cabbage to avoid misunderstandings. What a load of nonsense… You still don’t get it? The fact that “he wants to look attractive to me” isn’t the problem in itself. The issue is when someone, like you, becomes obsessed with it—raging and whining, “You’re not attractive either, so why won’t you do this for me? It’s unfair!” and writing bizarre angry posts about it. That’s when it tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:49 AM
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I already treat my boyfriend well. So you’re saying that if my normally kind, easygoing, and content boyfriend suddenly started obsessing over things way out of his league—getting angry and raging whenever others didn’t acknowledge him—I shouldn’t feel that anything is wrong? That if I notice he’s suddenly turned into some kind of horrible, American-style incel monster overnight, then recognizing that as strange somehow means I’m just rationalizing being mean to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:01 PM
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I’m one of those “taste-testers,” and after trying, I found it was good—so I’ve been in this relationship for three years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:51 AM
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Really? In the U.S., the sense of achievement in buying a house actually differs between men and women? That’s so surprising! In Korea, everyone—men, women, young, old—is obsessed with real estate, so as long as they have the money, both men and women want to buy a home. Why do you think that is? Is there some kind of social marketing that makes homeownership look more appealing to women? Or is it that men simply prefer other kinds of investments?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:46 AM
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So in that community, it seems like both men and women believe they deserve treatment that’s above their actual level. I don’t know why—it must just be the social atmosphere there. Honestly, I don’t understand it. Why are they all like that? Isn’t it better to just live receiving the treatment that fits you? If starting tomorrow everyone around me began praising me as an ultra-super-mega-beauty and fussing over me, sure, I wouldn’t hate it—but honestly, it would feel ridiculously cringe and emba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:40 AM
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My boyfriend isn’t some super handsome guy—he’s just an ordinary, slightly goofy guy. I see him as cute, like a seal. But if one day he asked me to treat him like a super handsome man, at first I’d think he was joking and just laugh it off. If his attitude turned very serious, though—if he became obsessed with receiving that treatment, and then blew up in anger when I didn’t give him what he wanted—at that point I’d realize something was wrong. From then on, my focus would shift entirely to thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:32 AM
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I’m not sure if being around someone who has great empathy, compassion, or a strong sense of morality really makes me feel better. But being around someone who’s positive about everything and interprets things in a good light definitely does lift my mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:06 AM
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That’s exactly it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:59 AM
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If it’s a situation like, “We’ve spent a lot of time together, gotten close, and then I found out he’s conservative,” that’s fine. But if he shows his conservatism right at the first meeting, I’d probably just laugh it off on the surface and banter along in the moment, but later on I’d avoid him or choose not to meet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:06 AM
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If the guy lays all his cards on the table, it can work out in just one try. But if he hides himself and just tests the waters, it’ll probably take several more meetings. It depends on the person. I don’t really feel it myself, but since research has shown that this phenomenon exists, I guess it applies to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:02 AM
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When I first read “making women uncomfortable,” I thought, “Oh no, did he do something bad?” But after reading the post, it turns out it was just flirting? Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:56 AM
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At first, I just joined because I was curious about English-language sites, and then I subscribed to a bunch of different subreddits. I’m satisfied with my relationship right now, but work is exhausting, so I do this to relieve stress. I’m sure there are plenty of people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:54 PM
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I heard that in the U.S., young women have a higher homeownership rate and a lower rate of homelessness. Did I hear that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:46 AM
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If one day it turned out that abstaining from sex was the only way to have children, I’d be very curious to see just how much responsibility men would suddenly feel for the survival of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:42 PM
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The fact that women say only 20% of men are attractive but still send messages to 60% of men really just means this: about 40% of women are “taste-testers” who’ll give someone a try even if they don’t initially find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:36 PM
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At the workplace I used to work at, my boss actually said to me, “Why aren’t you married yet? You’re selfish. You should have kids for the sake of the nation.” Does that kind of thing happen often in the U.S. too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:58 PM
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It seems like most people don’t really know because they haven’t experienced it firsthand. Honestly, I think men would be more proactive and more patient about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:55 PM
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When you first meet a guy, what do you usually ask him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:42 PM
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because this gives them even lower social status and leverage, even in the workplace, which manifests in ways such as social exclusion and bullying. ☜ I’d like to know how this part actually manifests.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:12 PM
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I used to think that popular people were just born NT and gained popularity effortlessly. But once I got closer to them, I realized they were constantly showing kinds of consideration I’d never even thought of, agonizing over tiny cues in relationships, and suffering a lot from even small conflicts. They also had to keep up with countless exhausting meetups and messages. Seeing all that made me realize how easy and comfortable it actually is to live without popularity, and I’ve become more satis…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:01 PM
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so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:50 PM
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What do bisexuals usually ask when they’re dating a guy? I’m genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:49 PM
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Sometimes I’m honestly shocked when I see things like this here: So many men want to be treated like handsome guys, even though they’re not handsome. Now there are even opinions saying that just because they paid their bills for the day and didn’t beat anyone up, other people should honor those achievements with deep respect. And of course, all of this recognition is supposed to come specifically from young women. Why are they so obsessed with this? At this point, it actually feels kind of scary…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:09 PM
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You seem kind of strange. I’m going to block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:31 AM
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Let me say it again: here, almost every guy plays games. The ones who don’t are actually the minority. In Korea, at college festivals, it’s the most popular students from each department who enter the League of Legends tournaments. Faker and Dopa didn’t come out of nowhere. So when I met gamers, they turned out to be all sorts of people—well-paid programmers, small business owners, individual investors, and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:23 AM
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I live in South Korea, and ever since school days, because of night self-study sessions and cram schools, gaming has basically been the only hobby most guys had. So girls inevitably ended up absorbing some gaming knowledge too. Personally, I don’t really enjoy playing games myself, but I picked up a bit here and there just to keep up with the gamers around me. Usually, I just enjoy watching and remembering a few broad story points so I can chat about it. One time I told a hardcore StarCraft Tass…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:46 AM
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On Reddit, whenever people parrot that catchphrase, it always feels strange to me. People treat a dog like a dog and a tiger like a tiger—because that’s natural and comfortable. By the same logic, they treat a very handsome man as very handsome, and an average man as average. So why is it that some Americans, when they’re not Chads, go into agony and rage because they aren’t treated like Chads? To me, this feels like a uniquely American cultural quirk. If a Korean guy ever screamed, “Why don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:01 AM
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I’ve met a lot of gamer guys, and honestly, just showing a bit of interest in the games they play was enough to get close with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:39 AM
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Well, if my boyfriend suddenly handed me a raw onion one day and ordered, “From now on, eat raw onions in front of me like you’d eat an apple,” I think I’d just pause for a moment and go, “…No, I don’t want to.” Not for any profound reason—just because it’s weird and unnatural. Honestly, I can’t even imagine how you’re supposed to eat a raw onion like an apple. And if he then blew up, saying things like, “I’m the boyfriend who’s building your future and investing my time in you, and you can’t ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:35 AM
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south korea
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:47 PM
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Is Arby’s burger not that good? In Korea, I thought it was considered kind of a high-end burger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:45 PM
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If a man is super rich, both other wealthy people and ordinary workers will treat him as super rich. On the other hand, if a man is just an ordinary worker, neither the rich nor the working class will treat him like a super rich person. Now imagine an average worker named Brad saying to another average worker, Becky: “You don’t have as much money as I do, so you should treat me like I’m super rich.” And then he gets annoyed when Becky doesn’t. Isn’t Brad being way too greedy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:02 PM
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“Strong will”? I think GPT interpreted it a bit too positively. The original wording I gave was just “stubborn as hell.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:42 PM
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Exactly. A lot of people understand that it’s hard to catch a huge buffalo out in the field, but they don’t realize it can be just as hard to catch a squirrel deep in the mountains.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:36 AM
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I’m a woman who ended up financially supporting my boyfriend after his business collapsed because of a scammer. Take it from me: don’t go down that road. A guy who, like you, wanted a woman to provide for him eventually wound up with someone extremely stubborn, socially awkward, and the type who, back in school, would settle conflicts with girls by punching them in the face or throwing chairs. Now his life is miserable—every time he smokes he gets nagged, if he skips the dentist he gets smacked …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:04 AM
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Why it’s funny when Americans say, “All I want is for a woman to be slim”: The average weight for Korean women is about 52 kg, while for American women it’s about 77 kg. So in the U.S., saying you want a “slim woman” basically means you’re already aiming for the top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:43 PM
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You can just throw together a basic profile with made-up details, and then present this fictional woman as someone who is looking for a romantic, long-term relationship—one that’s not only about love but also about being devoted to her future children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:23 PM
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Honestly, even Park Geun-hye had stand-ins, but until she went missing for 8 hours during the Sewol disaster, nobody realized it—she only got impeached after that. 😂 As long as you show your face properly during big events, no one would really notice. Yoon Suk-yeol, on the other hand, got impeached for randomly declaring martial law. I wouldn’t pull off weird stunts like that, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:33 PM
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From dating a lot of “nice guys,” here are the common patterns I noticed: They’re hard to even find in the first place, and since they almost never approach me first, I had to go out of my way to reel them in. At the start, I even had to carry the conversation myself. They tend to be passive “whatever you say, I agree” types, so no matter what the event or situation is, I end up having to take the lead. And compared to all that effort, their looks usually aren’t anything to write home about. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:27 PM
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I feel like maintaining an overly centralized dictatorship would just be way too stressful and a hassle. I’d rather it be a modern state with a solid system in place—so that even if someone else stepped in as a proxy, nobody would really notice, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:58 PM
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Basically, since I live in South Korea, I imagined keeping the whole system the same (like the National Assembly and government ministries), but just replacing the president with a female emperor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:53 PM
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Here we go again, another delusional guy blaming everyone else. I literally wrote that it wasn’t those “nice guys’” fault for not advertising themselves. I clearly explained that the only reason I even noticed the Chads was because they were basically like door-to-door salesmen, shoving their presence in my face—I never sought them out on my own. And yet you’re still stuck in your fantasy: “Waaah, women only ever pay attention to Chads!” You can’t take a single step outside that delusion. You re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:51 PM
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I just hope it won’t feel much different from now—like looking at a cute puppy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:40 PM
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I wasn’t aware of that since I don’t know much about the law. But what about this? Since it’s an AI-generated virtual image, there shouldn’t be any legal issues. https://np.reddit.com/r/imagesave288/comments/1ncj4rh/%E3%85%8B%E3%85%8B%E3%85%8B%E3%85%8B/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:38 PM
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First off, I’d just focus on finding someone like my current boyfriend—and if I happened to meet another guy I liked, I’d probably just bring him in too, lol. If I were an absolute ruler, I wouldn’t really care about men’s wealth or social status. I’d mainly look at whether we click and whether I feel happy being with him. Honestly, I don’t have any big complaints about the current Korean system, so I wouldn’t change much. Maybe just make it mandatory for everyone’s phone to have the Government …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:14 PM
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I got close to an elderly cleaning lady and found out she had to start working because, after a fight, her husband refused to give her living expenses out of spite. But if her boss decided not to pay her salary just because he was “in a bad mood,” he’d be in serious legal trouble. These days, relying on formal employment systems feels much safer and more reliable than depending on someone’s personal goodwill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:24 AM
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I really want to try that, so could you please just do it once with this person’s photo? I don’t know their name or nationality, but the situation fits the picture so perfectly—it’s honestly one of my absolute favorites. https://np.reddit.com/r/imagesave288/comments/1nc8xt4/%EB%82%B4%EA%B0%80_%EC%A7%84%EC%A7%9C_%EC%A2%8B%EC%95%84%ED%95%98%EB%8A%94_%EC%82%AC%EC%A7%84/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:59 AM
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I first learned the word sapiosexual from an English site. I kind of relate to it, so here’s what I’ve noticed: Encyclopedia-style knowledge wasn’t as attractive as I thought it would be. What really impressed me was how someone could interpret what they knew in a creative and unique way. The truly intelligent men I’ve met didn’t just flex their knowledge like nerds; they knew how to make it useful in real life. Just a gut feeling, but smart men tended to be mentally calm and not swayed too much…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:57 PM
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It’s just that I like him… I enjoy being with him, and it makes me happy to show him affection. I’d love to say something more helpful, but honestly, when I think about it, I don’t really know what else to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:36 PM
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I’m not single, but I feel the same way. I agree with you. You really seem like you’ll be a great boyfriend to your future girlfriend~
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:30 PM
1

If you give me a few examples of the kinds of criticisms men make about women, then I can tell you which ones seem reasonable and which ones are just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:25 PM
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Same here. Back then I didn’t realize that if I wanted to talk to someone, I could’ve just started some small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:53 AM
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Take a breath… maybe even take your meds, you sound way too worked up. Think about it like this: If someone orders delivery every day with no restrictions, and the stats show 80% of their meals are pizza, then yeah—they like pizza. Same with me. Left to my own devices, 100% of the boyfriends I’ve had turned out to be “nice guys.” Even the people I just got close to without dating were all that type. So obviously, my preference is nice guys. So why are you trying to interfere with my taste? That’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:43 AM
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I don’t know what kind of delusional rambling that is supposed to be, but here’s the obvious breakdown: Why I remember the Chads: even when I was a friendless nerd hiding in the corner, they still went out of their way to talk to me, give me snacks, and do flashy things that made them stand out. Why I don’t remember the “nice guys”: they never talked to me, never shared snacks, never made any connection, never did anything noticeable—so I literally had no reason to register their existence. Is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:19 AM
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I think I get exactly what OP means. Back in school, I was one of those girls who never had much to do with boys—but the Chad types stuck in my memory. Why? One guy scored five goals by himself during a soccer game. Watching that, I literally thought, “Is he even human?” Most of them were taller than their peers, so even when other boys’ faces were blocked in a crowd, theirs were still visible. That made it easier for me to spot them and call them to the office. They were always so loud that whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:01 AM
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Honestly, I’ve seen a lot of incels call the high school Chads “bad boys,” but from the perspective of a nerdy girl like me, they were all genuinely good guys. Sure, they wore their uniforms sloppy, broke school rules, skipped night study sessions, and mouthed off to teachers—but to harmless classmates like me, they were always polite and kind. Incels really ought to step outside their own narrow perspective and consider how those so-called “bad boys” might actually look from other people’s poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:58 AM
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“I am not special. She met men like me before. She was not with them, so it is the same as rejecting me.” ☜ But here’s the thing: I am the kind of woman who likes that type of guy, yet in my younger years those boys didn’t even register in my awareness—I didn’t know their names, their personalities, nothing. Meanwhile, the popular Chads would go out of their way to talk to me even though I was a nerd, and they’d hand out treats to the whole class on special occasions. Out of simple gratitude, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:44 AM
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PPD men: “Women are only attracted to the top 20% of men!” Meanwhile, the actual fun couples you see around you: https://np.reddit.com/r/imagesave288/comments/1najulq/an_ordinary_couple/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:25 AM
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I’m a woman, and I’ve seen plenty of guys I liked, but still—developing those kinds of feelings and actions is really something. That woman seems pretty special.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:36 AM
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As long as the personalities click, I don’t think there’d be much of a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:25 AM
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Stop obsessing over NT women—just date an autistic woman instead. When two autistic people are together, there’s no need to “mask,” communication feels so much smoother, and in my case, we’ve been together for over three years without a single fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:44 PM
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Men’s preferences aren’t actually that broad. When guys say “I like thicc women” or “I like skinny blondes,” those are just sub-flavors of the same template: young, healthy-looking, clear skin, waist smaller than hips. It’s not like most men are out here chasing women with receding hairlines or dad bods—the actual range is way narrower than they think. You can see this perfectly in the design of male vs. female characters in League of Legends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:14 AM
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Why learning sales is way better than swallowing Red Pill: Normal salesperson: “First, approach the customer kindly. Then make your pitch.” Red Pill salesperson: “Customers won’t buy even if you’re nice! So treat them like crap and force a sale as payback!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:03 AM
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So basically, when a man has money, a woman can put up with his crap the way she puts up with a tough job—out of necessity, not attraction. Flip it around: how much money would it take for men to feel genuine attraction toward working all day loading parcels at a warehouse, or doing endless overtime on a plastic injection line, or being bullied by a humiliating boss and awful coworkers? That’s the gap—it’s endurance, not desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:43 PM
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Your mindset is truly admirable!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:47 PM
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From what I see too, the loudest voices mocking or belittling unmarried minimalist men mostly come from other men. Women are usually more like: “Sure, I wouldn’t date him myself… but hey, it’s his life, who cares?” So it’s ironic—when women themselves don’t mind, why are men in the same situation the ones so desperate to tear them down? If anything, shouldn’t guys like you be treating those men with respect and support, instead of trying to eat them alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:34 AM
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Yeah, that lineup—Total War (Empire, Medieval, Attila, etc.), StarCraft 1 & 2, Supreme Commander / Total Annihilation / BAR, Heroes of the Storm, LoL, GTA, Red Dead Redemption—that’s classic gamer taste. Playing almost all day on weekends but only about an hour on weekdays because of work fatigue? That sounds exactly like an ordinary working adult gamer routine, nothing extreme at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:30 AM
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I read OP’s post again after seeing your comment, and no matter how I look at it, the topic is casual sex. That’s what I was talking about too. Do you actually think casual sex with a total stranger is comparable to “a donut lovingly handmade by someone who wants to make you happy”? If so, then clearly we’re working with totally different definitions of casual sex, and there’s no point continuing this debate. But if that’s not what you meant, then why did you suddenly drift off into long-term re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:15 PM
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So cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:32 AM
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My younger brother is overweight, single, and spends most of his time gaming and working a warehouse loading job. But—he has lots of friends, a funny personality, and no resentment toward women. So I never think of him as an incel at all. He lives close to me and my boyfriend, we often eat together and have fun, so he doesn’t seem lonely either. Sometimes he even dresses up female game characters in bikinis, or chats about niche games with a Polish girl on Discord. Personally, I think that alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:17 AM
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Exactly. For that math to work, those 10 highly libidinous women would each need the sex drive of 100 men—and clearly, that’s not the case. Even if I were one of those 10 women, I’d just rotate through my personal top 10 guys. There’s no way I’d think, “I should martyr myself and have sex with all 100 men, sacrifice my life, be insulted as a slut, but hey, at least I relieved the masses!” That thought would never occur to me. Because honestly, I eat the Baskin Robbins flavors I like. I’ve never …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:56 AM
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So basically, the situation right now is like: there are 100 hungry homeless people, but the charity brought only 10 free donuts. If we assume all the homeless are extreme “freebie hunters,” then of course nobody’s going to be satisfied in any meaningful way. But if that’s all the resources the planet has, what are you supposed to do? Do you really have to eat only the free donuts? Why not just pay for Dunkin’? Some guys act like they absolutely must trick or rob others to get their donut. Hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:25 AM
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Honestly, if 100 out of 100 men want casual sex, but only 10 out of 100 women want it, I don’t even know if it’s mathematically possible for those 10 women to satisfy the demand of all 100 men. That’s why I just want to tell guys: stop obsessing over casual sex and just pay for it openly and fairly. What’s really the difference between casual sex without feelings and paying for it? Can someone explain that to me? Because the only actual difference is: casual sex is “free,” while escorts cost mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:25 AM
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It's a possible idea
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:36 AM
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😆😆😆😆😆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:42 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/imagesave288/comments/1mzesz5/everyone_lets_laugh_together/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Here’s his posting history: he’s a man who really wants to get plenty of sex and home-cooked meals from women, but when it comes to a wedding ring, he only wants to spend $20. Just let him do whatever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:37 AM
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One in five women are raped, and yet people casually say, “It’s just a minority of women, so ordinary people don’t need to worry.” What kind of apocalypse is Western society living in? Is the land Fist of the North Star and the sea One Piece?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:16 AM
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In my twenties, I didn’t know how to date men, how to keep a relationship fun, how to express affection, or even how to love. But as I grew and matured into my thirties, I found I could figure it all out on my own without anyone having to teach me. Maybe women who develop quickly don’t experience this, but for those of us who develop more slowly, it’s probably better to wait a bit before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:32 AM
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If you’re nice, that’s worth 1 point. If you’re attractive, that’s worth 10 points. At the very least, it’s not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:56 PM
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As a woman, I’ve been asked rudely countless times by bosses or acquaintances: “Why aren’t you married yet? Why don’t you have kids? Having children is your patriotic duty. If you don’t, you’re selfish. How long are you going to keep living like that (unmarried)?” But my younger brother has never experienced that kind of interrogation. At least in our country, it seems men face less social pressure about it. So I’m curious— in the countries where PPD folks live, what kinds of nagging or intrusiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:21 PM
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I’m 32 years old, and both my younger brother and my boyfriend are 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:41 PM
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But my younger brother hasn’t faced any special pressure about dating that I myself don’t get. So he’s still single, just playing games and hanging out with us (me and my boyfriend), living his life just fine. From our perspective, people in PPD country almost look bizarrely obsessed with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:39 PM
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Honestly, my mindset has always been more like, “If I meet a good guy, great—if not, whatever.” I don’t think I’ve ever lived with thoughts like, “I absolutely can’t go without dating,” or “I must be in a relationship,” or “I’m worthless if I’m not dating.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:22 AM
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Why is Korea always lumped in with so-called “passport bro” countries when we’re doing perfectly fine? Our military power ranks top 5 in the world, and our GDP is in the global top 30. It’s so annoying to be seen that way. Do people seriously imagine men are importing wives from North Korea or something? The whole “comfort women/hostess” stereotype already ended back in the Saemaul Movement era!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:25 AM
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See? Right there! Even in their own sentence—“Women lose their youthful perfection around 25 (aka the wall) but they’re still hot if they’re not fat”—there’s an if clause. That’s literally a condition. How do they not realize that what they’ve written is a condition? Oh, right—because in their world, only other people’s standards count as “conditions.” The ones they set magically don’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:54 AM
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That’s right. They say: – Getting food poisoning at a buffet? Your fault as the consumer. – Being bullied at school? Your fault for being the target. – Having a terrible boss? Should’ve picked a better job. – Getting mugged in a “safe” neighborhood? Still your fault. And then, with stunning irony, they demand that everyone else stay silent and never complain— just because they can’t afford the buffet, didn’t go to school, are unemployed, or live in a dangerous area. They weaponize hardship into …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:39 AM
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Squirrels don’t find other squirrels particularly cute, and spiders don’t find other spiders especially creepy. Aesthetic standards are inherently relative. For most of human history, people have lived with partners who looked just like this. https://m.blog.naver.com/PostView.naver?blogId=akcsns&logNo=130175115918&proxyReferer=https:%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F&trackingCode=external
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:09 AM
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How can people who have fat cats still find them adorable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:37 AM
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My boyfriend’s a total homebody and hates traveling. But one day, I suggested we go see the cherry blossoms. He told me to wait a second, then pulled up cherry blossom photos on Google Images, showed them to me, and stared at me with sparkling eyes. I burst out laughing. 😂 Then on a hot summer day, I said, “Let’s go somewhere cool.” He said, “Let’s go somewhere really cool,” turned on the air conditioner, patted the bed, and looked at me with those same sparkling eyes. I cracked up again and sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:06 AM
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Why do some boring men, who are self-absorbed and have neither the ability nor the intention to make others happy, keep deluding themselves into thinking they’re “diligent and responsible” guys? Why do those men automatically assume that all other married men with stable jobs are just as dull and lousy to their spouses as they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:22 PM
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Honestly, I think Asian cultures are somewhat inherently gender-neutral. (Examples: U.S.: '남자' = man, '여자' = woman, '인간' = man In English-speaking countries, '남자' and '인간' are the same word, but in Korea, all three are completely different terms. U.S.: '여자 승무원' = stewardess, '남자 승무원' = steward. In English-speaking countries, the word itself changes, whereas in Korea, it's just '승무원' with a gender descriptor. American: ship is female, time is male, car and country are female, but oak tree is male…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:37 AM
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👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:28 PM
5

I get the feeling I’ll just play around with it a few times at first, but end up getting laser hair removal because shaving is such a hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:47 AM
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A person who transitioned from female to male is commonly referred to as a: Trans man (short for transgender man). GPT translation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:42 AM
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Actions men think TS women would take: – Engage in constant casual sex without fear of pregnancy – Use their strength to threaten or exert violence for personal gain What TS women actually do: – Take off their underwear and go “Wow!” in amazement – Try out male masturbation techniques – Marvel at how easily they can open an olive jar – Reach for stuff on high shelves – Buy men’s clothes and go work part-time at a construction site
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:43 AM
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That part was the funniest line, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:37 AM
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I believe that a man having slight incel-like tendencies can, in the long run, actually become a better partner. But there’s a condition: He must have the self-awareness that these tendencies cause problems in his relationships, and he must actively work on improving his social skills. Without both of these, he is a hopeless case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:20 AM
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“Women love bears,” “Male suicide doesn’t matter,” “Men are the cause of all our and women’s problems”—those kinds of messages. ← I can’t speak confidently about that part since I haven’t lived in the U.S. and don’t know the atmosphere there. But personally, I really don’t get the whole “Bears are better than men” thing. In Korea, there are barely any large wild animals left that are dangerous to humans, so most people grow up thinking that big wild animals like tigers, bears, and wolves are jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:05 AM
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In summary, you're saying it's wise to use threats (toxic words) instead of kind (non-toxic) words because kind words don't work, and that doing so helps well-intentioned people, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:05 AM
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As science and technology progress, I believe humanity will inevitably move toward egalitarianism. In a future where robot lovers exist and minds are customizable, it's hard to imagine we’ll still be tormented by the same old social hierarchies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:41 AM
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If we agree that we can’t solve racial issues by threatening to bring back Nazism or Black slavery, then we also won’t solve gender issues by threatening to take away women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:36 AM
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Personally, I do understand male loneliness from a biological perspective. As a woman on the autism spectrum who, as a child, never quite grasped why cheerleaders were attractive or why popular boys were considered handsome, I also deeply understand that lowering one's standards can actually boost self-esteem and life satisfaction. But what bothers me is how so many discussions inevitably escalate into threats— like "Most technology was invented by men, and women are just riding along," "We shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:42 PM
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Common patterns in posts about male loneliness these days: Men’s loneliness has reached a critical point! At this rate, the uprising/strike of lower-tier men will collapse civilization! Please empathize with how lonely men are! Women: Okay, we’ll empathize. But... is that really all you want? Nope. Don’t do feminism. Actually, do manosphere and men’s rights activism, and you women should do it for us. Also, from now on, lower your standards and give it up to any man. But of course, if you do, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:19 PM
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Seeing it written out like this… it feels kind of scary ㅜ.ㅜ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:02 PM
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There are guys around me who work just to buy games too, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:00 AM
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If I didn’t want a partner, I’d probably just live in a tiny one-room goshiwon for 200,000 won a month, eat the free rice and kimchi they provide, and work a minimum wage job at a convenience store or doing comment moderation online. I’d use the money to buy some chicken breast and canned tuna, and spend my free time watching YouTube or browsing the internet. Occasionally, I’d grab a meal or a drink with other people from the goshiwon!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:58 AM
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I’ve been thinking a lot about the male loneliness epidemic. Given today’s social and economic conditions, I genuinely believe it’s become harder for men to date and form close relationships than in the past. And I do believe that people without a partner—especially men—can feel deeply lonely and hurt. That’s why I’m doing my best with my own partner: I date my seal-like boyfriend, cuddle him tightly, squish his belly, kiss his cheeks, feed him delicious food, and take good care of him. But I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:03 AM
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Yes, absolutely. If Anton were someone close to me, I’d feel compassion for him and do what I could to support him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:40 PM
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“I don’t care what mentally unwell, overweight, or morbidly obese people think. That’s what most Americans are today.” “Why is that my problem? I’m a full-time working parent and still manage to stay in shape.” If the majority of your population fits that description, is bragging about how you alone manage to stay fit really a persuasive argument? Maybe most people in your country didn’t have the same luck you did. Have you ever considered that environment might play a role here? Are you really …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:30 AM
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If men really think that way, then the women who’ve never hurt or looked down on a weaker man in their entire lives… must feel truly heartbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:49 AM
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So by that logic— a person who gets their wallet stolen must have either deliberately sought out a pickpocket, or somehow turned a normal person into a thief? That’s… surprising. Is that really something someone living under a functioning justice system would say? Honestly, is it really so shocking that someone gains a bit of weight? We live in a society where the pursuit of happiness is considered a basic right. Being slim may help in some ways, but it’s not a moral obligation. And realisticall…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:34 AM
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Exhibit C: "Anton" is an 18-year-old virgin who has never had a romantic relationship. In middle school, he was bullied by other boys and developed social anxiety. False rumors about him spread among the girls, even though he never did anything wrong. He has acne and struggles with self-confidence, which makes him extremely awkward and nervous around women. He uses Tinder, but his pictures are terrible and he gets no matches. Living off instant food and playing video games all day has only worse…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:50 AM
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south korea! here, you get the most wedding invites when you're around 30 to 32 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:20 AM
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When so many people confuse the two, maybe that means there's some overlap. I think it depends on this— If you can’t bring yourself to like them, it’s the first case. But if affection starts to grow, it naturally becomes the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:36 AM
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But her ex-husband was the one who cheated. Dorothy did try to date again, but she got rejected by men. She earns enough to support both herself and her kids. And if she did anything “wrong,” it’s just that she gained weight— and even that happened during the COVID-19 period. So gaining weight = doing nothing productive, playing games all day, trashing people online, being toxic nonstop? Do you really think those two things are the same? One is just an unfortunate neighbor. The other is… borderl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:32 AM
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Wow~ To be like that at 28? People over there really move fast!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:21 AM
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Honestly, I still don’t get what Dorothy did wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:41 AM
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I actually tried it once when I was young and clueless— and I watched the other person get nervous and run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:19 AM
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The inefficiency of open recruitment and spec-based hiring… sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:13 AM
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Honestly, I think that’s a valid point. In Korea, men’s foundation (makeup) is actually trending right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:06 AM
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Speed dating doesn’t feel like an event where 21 people are all chasing 2 popular ones… It feels more like everyone’s just trying to find 4 people they can tolerate, sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:48 AM
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Settling # settling down. To me, ""settling"" is when you opt for someone who does not meet your standards. I would never ever do that. ""Settling down"", on the other hand, just means that I'm not partying like I used to. I would have done that even if I were still single. =안주 ≠ 정착. 제게 ""안주""란 자신의 기준에 맞지 않는 사람을 선택하는 것을 의미합니다. 저는 절대 그렇게 하지 않을 겁니다. 반대로 ""안주""한다는 건 예전처럼 파티를 즐기지 않는다는 뜻입니다. 제가 아직 싱글이었더라도 그랬을 겁니다. Oops, I got confused because the translator gave me the same word! English is tough som…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:35 AM
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Oh right, just so you know—I'm from an East Asian country and I read most English posts using Google Translate on Chrome. So if anything sounds off, that might be why!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:27 AM
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안좋은 건 꼭 1위 하네 ㅠ.ㅠ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:47 PM
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In my experience, regardless of other personality traits, people with high agreeableness have always been popular in some way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:41 AM
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