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Well the not girlfriend material generally breaks down along two lines: Absence of positive traits To me this would be things like lack of ambition, physical looks, intellectual curiosity, intelligence, kindness, useful / helpful skills that make my life nicer like being organised, good with money, good with admin, good aesthetic sense, clean freak, good cook, health & fitness savvy, etc. Presence of negative treats Very high body count (20+), unaligned values on raising kids, relationship dynam…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:04 PM
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The ultra rich? Maybe. The average rich guy who works 100-120 hrs weeks as a hedge fund manager or investment banker or petrol trader? Nah dude. Sure they're rich, but everything else in their life usually sucks and they don't have the time to enjoy their wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:57 AM
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Online dating has two kinds of users: content and consumers If you're on the top 80% of women or in the top ~5% of men you are content, you're what attracts people new people to your platform. If you're in this category the OLD platform will make sure your experience is great, you'll get tons of matches, get shown attractive people, be shown a lot, and since you're so attractive your matches will usually be engaged and you'll also get tons of dates. There's a middle ground where you're in the to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:51 PM
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Yes and no. I got quite competent at dating through having a PUA phase. The really basic stuff is basically a placebo, it doesn't really work because of course canned lines don't work, but it does give you the confidence to talk to people and lessen your initial nerves. Which is what it's meant to do, get you talking to people and having experience. The more advanced stuff is geniuenly insightful though. It teaches you how to connect with people and learn about their values and relating them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:19 AM
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Eastern European pilled here. Live in the UK now. I went to a uni that is particularly known for being sexless and even then I never noticed a particular problem. Generally getting at least some casual sex was completely manageable except for the people that clearly had no interest in it and were 110% dedicated to their degree. Compared to back home, I think I notice a bit rift forming in men my age (mid 20s) which is certainly much worse in younger men. The guys who 100% embrace that their dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:09 AM
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Anything goes. You can have whatever standards you want, in many ways I like that there's places like FDS out there encouraging the deranged to take pride in their delusion of their own self worth. If I see a girl with what I consider ridiculous standards, which honestly has not been too often, then I know to steer clear and move on, at most you can be friends with her for the banter. People's standards should reflect what they value in life. Let them try to go for whatever life they want to liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:36 PM
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Yes. I'm a very stubborn, very abrasive, very determined type and while that has its pros it also has its cons. In a partner I need someone who can stand up to me when I'm being an idiot and ideally someone who's almost on the same page but not quite. I like that air of slight tension when you know you see the world just a bit differently and don't agree 100% on everything. It makes you think more about why you believe the things you believe and whether you're right in believing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 10:10 AM
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Consider that our perspective is limited by what we see and life is always greener on the other side. I bet a lot of women take for granted the things they get just for being women but we benefit a lot from things as well. I studied engineering in University and some of my female colleagues were ridiculously bright but the instant they spoke about anything technical with male friends from other degrees they'd basically get ignored or none of their advice would be taken seriously even when it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:00 PM
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Extroversion (95) Emotional stability (94) Agreeableness (21) Conscientiousness (92) Intellect/Imagination (70) Sounds like pseudo intellectual garbo to me but hey, it said I'm a 21 agreeableness and look me go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:44 PM
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Experience. I've been on hundreds of dates and am still to meet a girl that prefers feminine men. Not once have I heard a girl complain about men being too masculine but I have heard every variation of complaining about men being too feminine. Eboys are a subgroup of feminine men that can get away with it because a very particular niche of younger girls likes them. This has a lot of overlap with your Kpop example. I've also seen from my friends that went to arts universities studying things like…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:51 PM
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Kpop is about as big as metal here, take some other niche music genre that applies to the US. Either way Kpop is far from mass appeal unless I'm completely out of touch with American culture. Got anything that would convince me that what I've experienced is just a fluke and that the overwhelming majority of women doesn't prefer masculine men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:37 PM
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LOL GATEKEEPING! Now I see where this is going. You guys just want to be in denial that women love a large array of men. Wrong. I don't have a horse in this race. I just do what works. If being feminine worked better I'd be painting my nails and mastering my makeup right now. I'm as close as you can get to a person that's willing to be a blank slate and try anything. You can insist on your idea all you want, but the fact remains that a (overwhelming) majority of women prefer men who are assertiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:32 PM
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Niches don’t get you international success Wrong. They do. Just look at heavy metal bands. With some exceptions they are a tiny niche but make money based off dedicated fanbases. Just like Kpop. Clearly you don't have many friends who are into kpop because if you did you'd know how they talk about being a kpop fan almost like it's a commitment and a part of your lifestyle. Just like most media these days, most of your favourite content creators online are funded by a handful of dedicated fans th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:21 PM
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Kpop appeals to a very particular and relatively niche subset of women. Not representative of women at large. Most attractive, fit, intelligent and emotionally aware women do not listen to KPop and find the idea of dating a man that looks like a 17 year old David Bowie ridiculous. Yes, some women like feminine men, but they are the overwhelming minority. In my experience in dating I have yet to meet a single woman that goes for feminine men and I promise you that my sample size is statistically …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:24 PM
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Yeah I don't want to buy a fucking tomato for €70 because who in their right mind would pay fucking €70 for a tomato, especially if you weren't upper class. Only the rich few will actually pay and feast, most will not buy at all or find shittier but cheaper alternatives (bell peppers), and another group will meagrely beg for wasted crumbs. Make sense? Didn't think so. Literally how a free market works. You live in one. Look around you A couple of ultra rich people born with private islands, jets…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:34 PM
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True, you can get those too apparently. I think the guys who think sex dolls will fix anything in places like the incel community are completely misguided though. More often than not what's hurting them at that visceral emotional level isn't the lack of sex, but what the lack of sex represents. It represents them not being desirable, accepted, or cared for by those around you. We are hardwired as animals to place tremendous value on the validation of the opposite sex, it's basically the reason w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:24 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:38 AM
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Who's taking your what dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:36 AM
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You could argue the illegality makes it cheaper too. No taxes being paid, no insurance, no need to rent out a dedicated building. Overall it's a wash. Also things like pay per meet sugar babies are basically legal prostitution. Yeah, I guess if women were starving in the streets if unemployed then they might be willing to fuck an ugly guy for a loaf of bread and a roof over their head. Sure. I'll give you that. Welfare is making dating harder. But if your problem is that you can't get the women …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:35 AM
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If you think people screaming rape culture or racism is affecting business in any negative way you're living in an internet bubble. World's not changing, nothings changing, nobody's taking away anybody's anything. I'll go out on a limb and guess you're American because you sound very politically polarised. Bare in mind the difference between your two major parties is that one wants to have a 28% top tax rate and the other wants a 33% top tax rate. On most policies there is ~95% agreement between…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:30 AM
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Yeah, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:20 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure being intellectual is valuable in a relationship. But even then I think emotional intelligence is far more important
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:00 AM
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Yeah bro, I know. I didn't do econ in college but my engi degree had enough modules that even I could tear this example apart if I dusted my notes. The basis of the point is hard granite tho. If you're not getting dates, you're not good enough. Get better or accept you won't get laid and find satisfaction elsewhere in life. FDS is a joke to society at large. I've even shown it to some girls I've seen and most of them said it sounds like their one bitter friend that had two bad relationships and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:12 AM
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Lilith deserves it. I'm just waiting for us to disagree on something enough that we get into an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:05 AM
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Well I never really overcorrected. I guess my life was always good enough, even when I struggled romantically that all the bitter shit in TRP ideas flew way over my head and I just too the stuff that motivated me to better myself and have more realistic expectations from relationships. Re-reading TRM is very jarring. Rollo sounds like the kinda guy who gives dating advice despite only ever having had 2 relationships. He also frames so many issues that are problems men bring on to themselves as p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:52 AM
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That's also annoying unless everyone involved is severely drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:49 AM
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But you see most farmers don't work for a company. And sure as hell all farmers don't work for the same company. I'm not confused, I get what you're trying to say, you're just wrong and I'm trying to find ways to explain it to you that you'll get. The farming industry is a textbook example of a perfectly competitive market and so it the dating market. Lots of individual small suppliers. What you're trying to say is "Hurr durr, if you take ALL the suppliers together then they have ALL the supply …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:47 AM
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Besides the point. Man wants a sex doll, sex doll maker is willing to sell it, anyone trying to stop this beautiful exchange is a fascist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:35 AM
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Spent a couple months in the former Yugoslavia countries at one point (did Serbia, Montenegro, Bosnia & Herzegovina, Croatia, Slovenia and then went north into Central Europe) . Funny how certain places just have a certain vibe to them that you can feel even through a comment on the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:51 PM
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I say intelligent, what I really meant was "cerebral" that faux intellectual bullshit you pull when you're smart enough to know shit but lack the emotional intelligence to talk about anything of real substance so you just hide behind obtuse conversations on all these abstract high level ideas that you are disconnected from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:40 PM
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I think people are free to take pride in whatever they want to take pride in. Many of us are hardwired to seek the approval of others for better or for worse and everyone needs to draw their own line of how much is too much. Do some girls take too much pride in their appearance? Yeah. Do I think that we, as a society, value people's worth too much based on looks? Yeah. But there's also a lot of people that could benefit by caring more about their looks so there's no real blanket statement that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:33 PM
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Women aren't a monolithic group. They're a bunch of individual people making individual choices. No woman monopolises anything and you can't talk about women as a whole monopolising something because they're not coordinated as one hive mind entity. It's not the same as one entity, say your local sanitation company that owns all the sewage systems in your city, monopolising that market because everyone in that city had to get sanitation from ONE entity. The monopolist. In dating everyone gets int…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:09 PM
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Being intelligent, dependable and hard working isn't sexy. Being confident, well built, cocky, funny, self assured and dominant is sexy. Loads of other things along similar lines. Will add more in an edit if I remember them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:06 PM
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Saying women as a whole si like saying farmers as a whole. As in all the farmers everywhere on planet earth. Just as it's ridiculous to claim farmers monopolise farmed produce because "I can only get my vegetables if a farmer is willing to farm them for me" it's ridiculous to claim the same about the dating market. If one farmer won't sell you go to one of the other 10 000 farmers. If no farmer wants to sell to you maybe you're not offering enough for what you want to buy. Blah blah prostitution…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:01 PM
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No idea why but for some reason this whole comment gave me mad former Yugoslavia country vibes. But yes brother, I agree, if shitty tasteless winter tomatoes cost $70 per kg I will join the red guard and overthrow capitalism. Now hold on, I need to go get my Goran Bregovic on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:16 PM
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Women don't monopolise shit. It's a bunch of individuals making individual choices. Saying women monopolise the sexual market is like saying farmers monopolise the farmed produce market. It's fucking retarded because no individual farmer has any ability to influence the market. They just farm potatoes and sell them at whatever the people are willing to pay. Same with women, they just get on Tinder and get with the most attractive guy they match, or get on onlyfans and send good morning texts and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:40 PM
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Good luck to those women trying to prevent the free market from supplying a bunch of horny men with sex dolls lmao. Not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:28 PM
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matoes that can be distributed to primarily those of an upper class and you literally cannot buy a tom No woman has a monopoly on sex. It's literally a textbook perfect free market. Lots of small suppliers and small consumers each unable to individually affect the market value of the commodity in question, in this case intimacy. No one woman can slut hard enough to devalue sex on her own and no one man can simp hard enough to make sex ultra valueable on his own. It's all the result of pure free …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:26 PM
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You can make it an activity by calling it "marketing yourself" you should know how to make yourself attractive. The objectification is what the other people do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:37 PM
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Whoops didn't realise you're a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:12 PM
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Ah you see, you phrased it putting the emphasis on women's actions. You're a man, put the emphasis on what you can control. Stop worrying so much about what girls are doing when you can't do shit about it. Focus on yourself king 🤴
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:03 PM
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I'd respect her more if nothing else. I dislike weakness if character in people, I couldn't seriously date a girl that would let me bulldoze over her with my personality. Generally girls that are more uninhibited in bed are also louder, more self-assured, confident and I like that. People with weak character have weak morals. They're the people who are willing to walk over bodies, screw people over or just keep quiet when fucked up shit is happening and in the long run that rots your career, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:01 PM
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100% I would. I'm a fairly careerist type so my ideal marriage is the power couple with another careerist type, ideally kinky in bed but as long as she's not pure vanilla I can handle it. Live that DINC life until my early-mid 30s then maybe have a kid or two
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:57 PM
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Men are worse at comodifying themselves* There I fixed it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:54 PM
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WRONG. The previous market was imperfect. Young women didn't realise there are hoardes of desperate men willing to shell out good money just for a good morning text and a couple of pics of her splashing about in a rubber bath tub. They didn't know that a random no name hot 20 year old could ghost Ben Affleck and have him go nuts over it. Tinder now lets you see many of the single people in your are so you know your options and you know the calibre of person interested in you with a colosal sampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:52 PM
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Ah Lilith back at it again, I swear you're half the reason this sub is fun. I consider myself a fairly redpilled ish guy, but more in the sense that I had my 1 year redpill phase when my dad rolled his eyes to the back of the skull thinking "how is this news to you?" and then got on with my life. No clue how TRP became such a shitshow in the meantime but you're pretty much 100% on point. Only thing I'd say is that it's maybe nobody's fault and maybe it's not even a problem. It's a free market. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:45 PM
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Strict vanilla, while not a dealbreaker for something casual, is a dealbreaker for any sort of relationship. Otherwise kinkier the better up to a point. Wears sexy lingerie - brownie points. Gives epic blowjobs - brownie points. Into rough sex - brownie points. Anal? Deep throats? Has an IUD or is on the pill and gets tested for STDs? ALL THE BROWNIE POINTS. Honestly how retarded do you have to be judge a girl for being into fun shit in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:27 PM
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No. Dated a girl like that once, she "tried" while we were together but it wasn't until we actually broke up that she had her insane glowup. Now she's lean, great face, amazing fashion, clear skin, don't know if she fixed her teeth but she will eventually. Personality was top which is why I dated her in the first place. Lesson learned, let another guy be the trigger for her glowup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:22 PM
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TRP isn't recommending you pay the minimum possible, it just says that how much you spend should be appropriate. Enough that the date is enjoyable but not so much that it draws attention. I don't put a price tag on it but usually drinks at a bar with a nice atmosphere is enjoyable and won't break the bank. Otherwise if I'm having someone straight over I will open a decent midrange bottle of wine which ends up around the same as 1-2 rounds of a drinks at a bar and I might also cook if I'm hungry …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:18 PM
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Honestly excellent analysis, very succinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:07 PM
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Smelling some poor no fappers confirmation bias here. The study found out that men who are unsatisfied sexually are more likely to watch porn. Wow, shocking, who would've thought that if you're not getting laid or are having shit sex you'd be more inclined to watch porn? Porn's great dude, don't overdo it, duh, and if it gets to the point where you're struggling to cum or stay hard during sex because you're used to strangling your dick with the force a speeding train to some batshit insane porno…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:00 PM
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If you're gonna imply causation it makes a lot more sense for the causation to go the other way around. Men unsatisfied with their sex life are likely to watch more porn. I think most men can confirm that when they're having satisfying sex 6+ times per week they almost never have the energy to watch porn on top that. When they're going through a dryspell, they're more likely to bust open some porn when horny and bord on a lonely night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:56 AM
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I didn't say anything about career and barely mentioned clothes. I said facial structure, body structure, skin quality, height and lean-ness. All these things are huge and most are substantially in your control even excluding surgery. If you wanna count surgery then they are massively in your control
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:37 AM
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Desired, yes, but not mandatory, tons of average and below average height guys get laid regularly. The point where it gets really tough is when you get around the average height of girls in your area, so 5'6 ish in western Europe and the States, 5'4 ish in Eastern Europe and 5'2/3 in Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:35 AM
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IMO until you try actual pharmaceutical intervention combined with diet and exercise for ome to two years you don't get to claim it's genetics. At the bare minimum PEDs and accutane will improve your facial structure (high androgen levels masculinise the face and enhance facial hair growth even post puberty and low bodyfat improves definition), give you a lean athletic build that most girls consider the ideal body type and give you almost entirely blemish free skin. If height is an insecurity bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:17 AM
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Your genes determine your genetic potential. I.e the absolute best you can achieve, but since 99.9% of men aren't really willing to do any of the hardcore shit that really blows up your looks score, for most people it's not a limiting factor. Unless you're under 5'5 AND have a deformed face your genes aren't limiting to a point where you're prevented from success simply because most guys are so complacent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:08 AM
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Yeah but nobody does that. And if you do that you're deliberately handicapping yourself because everyone is taking the best angles of themselves. It's not catfishing. It's just showing your best side. If you take what you'd call "honest" pics you'd get destroyed unless you're literally 9/10+
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:05 AM
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Attractiveness is not static. Everything from facial structure, body type, height, fashion, skin quality, hair can be improved. The only question is how far you're willing to go. Insoles, accutane, getting peeled, testosterone shots, boots with large heels, minoxidil and finasteride, walking up the shop attendant in H&M and asking her to pick out an outfit for you and then going to a barber and asking him to pick out a haircut for you will, over the course of a year or so bump you 2-3 points in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:03 AM
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It's really a test of how great your photography and photo editing skills are. An average looking bloke that knows how to nail perfect lighting, perfect "lifestyle" shots and who edits all his pictures to perfection painting this picture of awesome exciting life will smoke a 9/10 with a mirror selfie, a gym pic and a pic on the beach on most OLD apps. If not smoke he will at least will at least do much much better than he has any business doing. Lifestyle and "vibe" are huge when it comes to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:58 AM
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Well you see, it's not really a rule. It's something that you get only when they think you're hubby material. If they think you're just an average hot guy there's no 3 month rule. But if you're a rich hot guy now there's a three month rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:41 PM
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No, it's fine. I care about money too, I would only seriously date another careerist type like myself who earn at a similar level. But since it's so common for women to go into "make him wait 3 months so he thinks I'm special" mode if they think you're hubby material, you're much better off downplaying how much you earn as a guy, especially in the early stages of dating. I get that women will find you more attractive if they know you earn well, but I want to first know that they find me attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:44 PM
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I was younger and dumber, it was my first ever relationship after failing miserably with women for ages and back then I bought 100% into the "be totally honest and transparent" idea and "communication is the key to relationships". Lesson learned, since then I've been working on my mind-reading abilities instead. Mind you, I never made a point of it and I never told her she's not pretty or brought it up. She'd just ask how hot I thought she was physically (probably because her sex drive was alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:20 AM
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Ok not to be the guy that answers a question for women (but that's exactly what this will be). But I have an anecdote exactly suited to this. My first girlfriends was not particularly attractive (not ugly mind you, but an honest to God 5, 5.5 on a good day) average and maybe above average on a good day. Her personality blew me away at the time though and she was one the smartest, sharpest person I ever met. I was very upfront about how I felt about her and she realised that I wasn't over the moo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:49 PM
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Let's be honest, guys juice for the hot dude in the locker room ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:09 PM
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I call bullshit. Most HVMs I know are careerist types and what makes them HVMs as opposed to an average loser is the fact that they were players in high school and uni so they "get" game, know to stay in shape and keep healthy social circles. Out of these guys, the overwhelming majority only date other careerist types since they want the lifestyle and security benefits that comes from a two HIGH income household. You can take more career risks and pursue opportunities better when either partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:59 PM
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Sorry for hitting a little to close to home with that. Best of luck dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:17 AM
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Are you 9% BF ripped?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:13 AM
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My point is, you claimed to be ripped 9%, fashionable when really you're skinny fat with a shit personality. You were larping and your response to me calling you out was to call me a larper. I called you on that too because I'm happy to prove that I'm not bullshitting you. You're now just getting mad because you can't do the same because you're making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:13 AM
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Wear boots then. They're fair game and add 2 inches to your height, plus 10 fashion points for being stylish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:10 AM
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Bro, I'll PM proof to back up everything I say here. Screenshots from convos, ass pics, mirror selfies, whatever your heart desires or you think would be convincing as long as you're cool with me blurring faces. Highly doubt you can do the same. Hilarious how you accuse others of LARPing when you are the only one here doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:09 AM
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Yes bro. Anything that proves you wrong is untrue. Must be nice to live in your own world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:06 AM
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Bullshit. It's because you know that if you wore insoles you still wouldn't get laid. Because if you did it's prove that height isn't what's holding you back
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:05 AM
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I wear lifts because it makes like easier, I suggest the same to anyone below 6'3. Not sure why you're so mad about height but don't do the one thing that will easily boost you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:58 AM
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Untrue lmao. I kept fucking them after that, they even caught feelings and I had to next them because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:57 AM
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Got proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:57 AM
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Yes I know tons of guys who sre 5'5 dating hotties. Usually cute petite 4'8 ish girls. The guys also happen to be incredibly fit, witty, supremely confident and fairly successful. You're right. If you're 6'3 dating is on easy mode. You just show up to a club and girls are running at you. But 5'5 isn't enough of a handicap to stop you from getting quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:54 AM
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It matters massively at first impression. Girls care about how they feel around guys taller than them, not about how tall you actually are. After you've had the chance to establish frame and dominance height doesn't matter. Before then it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:52 AM
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Are you hot enough body and face wise to expect a hotty? Do you lift? Are you ripped? You're short, with a shit personality and probably put zero effort into your body or fashion then blame it on the height. Work on your looks and personality for 2-3 years, get the most out of your genetics. Develop an exciting lifestyle that people want to be a part of, get a sick social media presence, if you still can't get above 5, then you get to say it's genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:50 AM
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Never got asked. I would, sometimes I point it out after a couple dates just to make a point of how little height matters if you fuck them well enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:45 AM
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So 5'5 guys with average faces are stuck dating shitty low quality women? That's just factually wrong but whatever makes you sleep at night dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:43 AM
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Makes you appear taller. Just how suit shoulders are padded to make your frame look wider
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:42 AM
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So you think there are not 5'5 guys with average faces that get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:37 AM
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Yep. Faking your character traits until you create the environment to geniuenly have said character traits. How else are you supposed to change? You're defining lying as basically synnonymous with changing and then saying it's impossible to change without lying. #Deep Every time you do something new it's uncomfortable, when you try a new activity, clothing style, etc. Literally the only way to change and evolve as a person is by being uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:37 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:31 AM
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Well that's okay, it's a fair call to make. You're not desperate enough. Just don't kid yourself into thinking it's impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:31 AM
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Yes looks are huge, most of us spent as much of the past few years in the gym as we did working on game. But both can be improved
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:29 AM
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Is it harder to get laid if you are 5'5? Yes. Is it impossible? No, tons of short guys get laid on the regular. I'm not quite 5'5 but I'm not far off. Take the fact that it let's you have a muscular frame more easily, wear insoles to add 2-3 inches to your height when walking around and you're fine. Gotta make the most of what you got
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:27 AM
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Your problem isn't the fact that people can't change personality. I've done it and I've seen countless other virgin, nerdy, unattractive, beta, losers just like myself do it. It takes about 2 years, the first year of which is very painful, especially when you have to strictly fake it because you haven't "made it" yet and your abundance mentality is not backed up by any real world abundance. Your problem is ego investment. You are so invested in your identity that you can't let go. You think who …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:17 AM
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DHT causes development through puberty, Duetasteride nukes your DHT hence preventing developement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:53 AM
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Anabolic steroids can give you ED either by raising blood pressure or by nuking your testosterone into the ground after you stop taking them. Either way Ciallis is needed to give you a hard on. Even if you didn't struggle with ED, which most guys taking things do at least once, ED medication helps keep your bp in check which is good for your heart health, so might as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 09:27 PM
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Hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:39 PM
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Absolutely. The average dude, EVEN WITH DRUGS, will have a hard time looking like the guys that we consider "ideal standards". Sex symbols from previous generations would be laughed out of the room these days. James Dean shirtless would be called skinny fat and in serious need of diet and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:38 PM
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Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:32 PM
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Same, I'm 175 and I need 70kg to look athletic but in 5 years on natty training I couldn't break 67-68 lean, a year on gear fixed it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:40 PM
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I'm gonna hope you're taking the piss. You can't be so dumb so as to cut your puberty short at 17
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:18 PM
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Holy fuck dude, hope you didn't stunt your growth. I run 2 or so cycles a year, one to gain in the offseason and one to cut for the summer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:06 PM
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I tend to agree with you but most guys just run sarms, think they don't need a pct, take some enclomiphene if they're lucky and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:04 PM
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Porn plays a part, but don't underestimate how common steroids and, far more importantly, sarms are. I'd say a majority of guys that look like they lift, not even freaky looking guys, just guys that look decently athletic, are on something. It's so common it's basically a running joke in any circle of gym goers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:40 PM
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In between cycles you have ED while you restore normal hormones unless you're always on something which is ill advised. If you run any gear that raises BP like Nandrolone or Dbol you will also have problems during the cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:33 PM
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Most guys don't have the genetics to have the lean and muscular "athletic" look. Hopping on gear barely makes the average guy look like they lift, which is basically the body type they aim for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:31 PM
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Lmao ED in men you are fucking isn't due to porn. It's because we're hopping on gear to meet your movie star body standards and that messes up your hormones. Tons of guys I know don't even bother trying to have sex without 20mg of Ciallis minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:49 AM
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It diesn't solve problems but I've noticed that my life is generally better when I'm not in a dryspell. I'm at my most productive, fit, healthy, disciplined and organided when in a relationship. FWB is slightly worse and my productivity in particular takes a hit Being in a complete dryspell like when I first move to a city is a bit worse still, nothing too bad but I'll probably slip up on my diet more and won't be as tidy. It never gets really bad so I'm never depressed or anything but having wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:40 PM
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No. Getting into a relationship has the pre-requisite that the sex is great. That's a non-negociable, but if I make a girl my girlfriend that would mean that I also appreciate her character and personality to the point that I can see ourselves building a life together. For me, I'm a fairly careerist type and while I'm not old enough to stress about getting marrier just yet, I'd only date another ambitious careerist type with similar values. Assuming the sex is great and that we are very compatib…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:32 PM
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Does it matter? Who cares if it's cause they think "I like this attractive person so I will trust them" or "Oh this person's fitness represents discipline and hard work and therefore I ought to trust them" They trust you more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 11:17 PM
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Also what's with the dramatic language lmao, nobody is starved for human affection, we just want it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:03 PM
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No idea. It's hard to judge because I'm almost never horny, but that could be because I have girls over regularly. But my motivation for having them over is the fact that I want someone to cuddle, spend time with, and chat over dinner and/or a bottle of wine with. I geniuenly can't remember the last time I had someone over becsuse I was horny. I also don't really care about your sympathy, I'm a generally happy dude who lives a decent life and things are going well for me. You shouldn't feel bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:01 PM
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How am I being dishonest? I'm not lying to anyone about anything. I'm inviting someone over to split a bottle of wine, have kinky sex and cuddle. Those are the exact words I use. I then proceed to open a bottle of wine, have kinky sex and cuddle. How could I be any more honest? Should I tell her that I'm actually not looking for sex when she starts stroking my dick 10 minutes into cuddling? Do you think I'd ever see her again if I did that? I really don't understand how any of this is going over…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:48 PM
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Respectfully disagree. The easiest way to get cuddles and company BY FAR is to provide good sex. It's not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:09 PM
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I'd love to. It's just that the easiest way to find a woman to cuddle and talk to is by offering good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:08 PM
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I already told you, male friendships and female friendships are not the same. Male friendships don't provide physical affection, or really any kind of emotional closeness for that matter. Saying "just make friends" only makes sense if you refuse to understand that your idea of friendship is nothing like what we can experience in our friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:55 PM
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Yes, I crave bad sex where I do all the work and fake 80% of my orgasms, and then suffer through the cuddles and chat. You got me. Thank you for opening my eyes to my complete lack of introspection, I wish someone helped me realise this sooner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:49 PM
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You really don't get it. There's more girls out there that want good sex than girls that want to just cuddle and chat. Therefore, if I want my cuddles I have to give the girls want they want. I.e good sex. Do you think I'm lying about faking 7/8 orgasms? Do you think I bought a magic wand for my own personal viewing pleasure? I'm giving them what they want and I get what I want in return. Maybe when you go for something casual you just want to fuck and gtfo, luckily for me most girls don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:47 PM
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Oh I think OP is 100% right about that. What I think OP is wrong about is that none of the men who say they have casual sex, not for the sex, but for the physical human affection are dishonest. For any moderately attractive guy that's decent in bed, it's FAR easier to get some human affection by going on Tinder and finding girls looking for hookups than it is to actually try to get a relationship going, especially if you're in a position like mine where I change countries every couple of months …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:34 PM
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When did I say I'm lonely? I said I'm craving physical affection, it's that simple. Nothing dishonest there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:24 PM
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My friends are great, but you can't spend an evening cuddling and chating with your male friends, you've gotta realise that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:55 PM
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When did I say it's anyone fault? I was just pointing out that the friendships between men are different in nature to the friendships between women, which makes male friendships unable to satisfy certain emotional needs. It's not women's fault, we did to ourselves, my gripe is with the idea that every guy who says he's having casual sex because he's looking for some physical affection is lying. I know that to not be true for myself and many other guys. There's a ton of girls out there dying for …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:53 PM
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They want good dick. If I'd just ask for the cuddles I'd get rejected, they'd see me as some lonely loser NiceGuy(tm) that's not worth their time. It's win win
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:47 PM
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Wrong. I almost exclusively use my looks to hook up not because I care about the sex but because I want the physical affection, the cuddling and someone to talk to. I literally fake orgasms 7/8 times so if you think I'm doing it for the sex you're delusional. You can make friends but male friendships are nothing like female friendships. You're not getting affection from your bros. You're getting someone to shoot the shit with in between sets at the gym and someone to talk career paths with. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:22 PM
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That's where you're wrong. Even hot guys find themselves lonely and out of options often enough to go for the low hanging fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:27 PM
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True, but if anything FDS makes things far worse for people. There's this book recommended on their reading list written by a woman who's single into her 50s and if you read the amazon reviews it's just sad. Tons of girls saying they tried to apply it and ended up blowing it with really great guys. Then saying that once they started acting like normal kind people they found great partners. FDS has it's place just like TRP in waking up really naive people to the risks of being taken advantage of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:36 PM
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Spent about 5 years going from overweight with a receeding hairline and bad acne at 18-ish to lean, muscular, good hair and good skin using a combination of diet, exercise and a shitton of drugs. Here's what I noticed: People trust you more and think you're more capable for no reason. I remember when I was doing my engineering degree, I'd come in with my far less attractive partner and even though I was far worse prepared than he was, I'd always get positive feedback while he got shat on. This w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:14 PM
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Point is, every guy who will cheat on a 9/10 will also cheat on a 5/10, not every guy who will cheat on a 5/10 will cheat on a 9/10. And maybe don't take TRP too seriously, they're looked down on in the larger manosphere as bitter, resentful and manipulative idiots that are stuck in some stone age mindset of needing to trick girls into sex. The rest of the "game" focused manosphere is moving toward just being unapologetically honest and bold and screening for girls with similar values as opposed…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:56 AM
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The ammount of times I've heard "if she wasn't as hot as she is, I'd cheat on her" single handedly disproves that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:16 PM
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Most people are a lot more true to their character after you sleep with them, they feel as though they can "relax". All the FDS strategy leads to is realising it after wasting 3 months instead of 3 weeks on the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:04 PM
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Disagree, after a few years of dating you can te the type of person you're dealing with in 5 minutes. Can't remember the last time someone proved a first impression wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:35 PM
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Yes, sex is not the end all be all, but without it everything else that could make the relationship great will be rendered worthless. You can of course go for a man that "shows restrain" but let's get real, most sucessful, attractive, fun and exciting men aren't the types to not go for what they want, or be eager to compromise and split the difference or accommodate. Just like successful attractive women. If you're going for a restrained, shy, meek guy that's happy to forgo the things that he ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:26 PM
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True, but don't be surprised when men vet too. For many men, great sex is a non-negociable box to vet before committing to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:55 PM
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You say it favours men, it favours the handful of men that actualy have options. Women can't have their cake and eat too. Want to have high standards? I think that is perfectly normal and okay, but that will mean that you're going for guys with tons of options who will treat you as such unless you prove yourself to be an absolute worldie. Want a man that will treat you like you are his world and will do anything for you? Then you'll have to go for lower quality guy that lacks options. Aren't hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:52 PM
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I have no problem with girls with high body counts. And yeah girls who think the quality of sex doesn't matter for a relationship probably have different values to me and aren't who I'm going for. I've dated seriously in the past and continue to do so, I just won't commit unless I feel like a girl meets my standards I can see us building a life together, but I make that very clear from the get go. If a girl chooses to date me she does so strictly because her spending time with me is the best thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:37 PM
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I know FDS doesn't promite sugaring which is why I see their approach as so self-contradictory FDS doesn't say they have to invest a little. I've seen posts about 3+ months of restaurant dates. That's ridiculous and also a waste of time for both you and him. Great sex is, in my opinion, critical to a sucessful relationship. Great sex doesn't guarantee is great relationship, but bad sex will rot a relationship regardless of how compatible the two of you are on other fronts. In that case, why woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:20 PM
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Ofc you shouldn't go on ask men to know how to attract a man. I don't ask women for advice on how to attract women either. Most people lack the self awareness to understand what makes them tick and fall for someone and most of us don't realise how much we crave the emotional ups and downs and the anxiety that comes from being unsure about whether the other person feels the same way. I guess the only part I'd say is questionable is the trying to make men wait for X ammount of time before sleeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:04 PM
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Honestly, if it taught you to have boundaries if without them you'd have been a doormat that's great. Nobody should have others take advantage of them. I guess it would be similar to how TRP pushed me to bettering myself and becoming someone I'm proud of. But I think we can both see how people who end up stuck on those forums wallowing in the cynicism would just end up jaded and bitter. If you're some idealistic girl that thinks if she casually sleeps with this guy and does favours for him event…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:24 PM
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You see, you say that, but I browse FDS regularly enough to see the posts of girls making YT videos to the effect of "makeup guide to attract a ___ man" or whatever being flaired under "Pickmeisha hall of shame". Realistically any girl that feels like she ought to better herself in order to attract a high quality partner is labelled a pickmeisha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:14 PM
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Did you read what I said? I said being attractive doesn't insulte you from bad experience, but it does make them less common. Are you going to dispute that? Do you really think ugly people have it just as easy as attractive people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:09 PM
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I think OP was trying to make a tangential point that is still valid. A lot of the girls on FDS have have been treated like shit by men, usually however, when you are attractive, either physically or personality wise (or ideally both), you'll get treated rather well for the most part. So these women are bitter and have poor experiences because they are unattractive and the sub instead of promoting a mindset of becoming more attractive like TRP, actively shames it as being a pickmeisha which only…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:55 PM
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You see, I'm not sure that's accurate. Having been through a glowup personally, people treat you differently when you are attractive and while that doesn't completely insulate you from bad experiences it makes them less common and easier to recover from. If you're constantly bitter and feel like all the men you've dated have been awful, chances are that you're not very attractive either physically or personality wise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:51 PM
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Ok, any FDS arguments you think are valid for us to refute?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:48 PM
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Nothing. I used to dislike BDSM but then had to get into it because it feels like the overwhelming majority of girls are into it, or at the very least are into rough sex. I can quite literally only think of maybe 1 or 2 girls that I've ever slept with that liked "wholesome" "romantic" sex. I'd ventrue to say most men aren't into dominant rough sex, but if you want to get laid consistently as a guy that's what you have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:05 PM
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