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| 1 | child custody and asset protectionTalk to your lawyer about having supervised visitation for a month or two with required drug testing. Then, if things go well, unsupervised visits for several hours at a time. Put in behavioral goals along with the clean drug tests such as counseling, having a legal source of income. Put in penalties for misbehavior such as must go to rehab, back to supervised visitation, the series of behavioral goals. No overnight visits until sobriety is stable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/25 04:49 AM |
| 1 | child custody and asset protectionThere are drug and alcohol tests that go back 3 to 6 months. The alcohol one is newer and it provides an average blood alcohol. So if she only binged a few days a week. It might not demonstrate how impaired she actually gets. The drug tests detect drug use. They are described as "panels" with the number of panels increasing with the number of different drugs. If she has prescriptions for any of these or drugs that have similar chemicals, then there are additional tests to figure them out. The mo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | child custody and asset protectionIn my state, there is an automatic injection against squandering marital assets. I think it kicks in when the divorce is filed. Ask your lawyer about this. I have found that many lawyers are either not good with mkbey/tax advice or do not want the liability of providing this advice. There are financial professionals specializing in analyzing the financial dudevof divorce such as CFPs with that extra qualification. Start with your CPA for recommendations. If you don't have one, consigettingbone a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/25 04:34 AM |
| 3 | What do you pay for child support?Make sure you do pay at least the statutory amount. Dont fall into the trap of offsets that the kids will not understand, plus ex can weaponize the situation. Dealt with a divorce where ex gave up highly valuable house so he did not have to hassle with child support issues. His income varied a lot, plus wife kept dragging him back to court, which cost even more with legal fees. Well, ex could honestly state that "you dad does not pay any child support (or low cs) so.you can't do this activity or… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 09:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you pay for child support?Some lawyers are not competent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 09:19 AM |
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