Inevitable-Run-5529 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	26 y/o male		Inevitable-Run-5529	/r/askRPC	12/04/22 05:30 AM

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1	26 y/o male Yeah, I own that mistake. We broke up though, sadly. I’m grieving for the most part due to pride and lust. So I’m honestly just trying to learn from this experience from most of my questions to y’all.	/r/askRPC	17/04/22 02:24 AM
1	26 y/o male Yeah, you’re probably right. She did cry and say that she was having a hard time grieving her dad’s passing after we fornicated once and said that she was having sex to deal with her grief. Although, she and I did have boundaries around sex before we both fell into the sin. But, I digress… maybe I’m justifying that she wouldn’t do that with me because I have a lack of data from her unloading the grief to me. From when we talked about her divorce, she seemed to have processed it well and could ta…	/r/askRPC	14/04/22 09:12 PM
1	26 y/o male Yeah, that was something I was contemplating the entire time when I was with her. I don’t think I wanted to be a dad yet ultimately, but her beauty and personality probably influenced me to overlook that lack of desire for co-parenting. Looking back I think she had some insecurities and anxiety from the trauma from the divorce due to being cheated on multiple times and a decrease in sense of self from this. She forgave her ex-husband from what she told me and has nothing against him. I meant to …	/r/askRPC	13/04/22 04:02 AM
1	26 y/o male Thanks for the encouragement. How do you defeat desperation? I just took over the Young Adult group at my Church and am leading that. So, sort of similar to the Navigators, just not exactly.	/r/askRPC	12/04/22 06:07 PM
2	26 y/o male Thanks for the thorough response. I’ll do just this and read both of the links shared. Just for clarity, you don’t think it’s too late for me as a 26 year old to find a hot/beautiful wife that loves the Lord? Sometimes I feel like I’ve missed the boat. I like to think I have abundance mentality, but it’s hard to keep it in times like these.	/r/askRPC	12/04/22 03:59 PM
1	26 y/o male Oh, okay. What are some more traits to work on to balance the good beta traits out? I know women respond to emotion more for alpha traits and confidence. Not terrible in that area, but have room for improvement. Yeah, we did. We aren’t anymore though currently.	/r/askRPC	12/04/22 03:28 PM
1	26 y/o male Well, she also had a really good personality too which is another aspect of things along with looks. I know beauty fades, but that’s hard to not take into account at 26 where I feel like I’m too late in finding someone… everyone tells me I’m so young and have a bunch of time and I’m only increasing in value, but I’m not sure I believe them.	/r/askRPC	12/04/22 03:00 PM
1	26 y/o male Maybe I do need to lift heavier. It’s a fasting period in the Church, so it’s hard. However, it’s doable. Yeah, it could have been the latter… but, since I messed up and fell into lust and fornication, it’s hard to me to believe that the latter was the problem. Maybe I’m naïve though. I’m Orthodox and she is non-denominational. Yeah, it’s difficult because I want to be attracted physically to my wife, but that’s hard because I know it isn’t the only aspect of things to look out for. She was real…	/r/askRPC	12/04/22 02:58 PM
1	How do I avoid the bad women out there? Look into attachment and differentiation and you’ll get all of your answers	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 09:40 PM