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The issue is only volume when you're on a learning curve. I don't believe in "numbers game" . If your approach to conversion ratio is lower than 15- 20% something is wrong and you need to switch up your strategy . I live in Melbourne Australia but It usually takes me 3-4 approaches to get an instant date , and I convert 60% of those to sex .
/r/seduction30/11/25 04:36 PM
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Let go of the signals. If you want to talk to her talk to her . Never used signs and I have sex with one out of 3 women that I really want .
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:15 AM
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It's on a case by case basis . Personally I think it starts with your mindset. You need to go from " this seduction thing is fun I am curious" to " I will get laid or die trying" For daygame especially , if you are a guy with average massive value you will need to really work on your mindsets, body language and social skills to stand out . Good news is when you get good at this guys who are taller, better looking, richer than you can't touch you .
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:15 AM
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On one side I tried for two years and couldn't pull shit. Then I adjusted my strategy and it's been 17 lays since April from daygame ( I have been taking a break now to visit family ). What's your current strategy while approaching?
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:11 AM
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Some of them it's oar choice. But guess what? Here is a dirty little secret in the community: most coaches can't keep a woman around. They learn how to get laid but they don't learn retention. So they either get GFs by pure luck , settle for unattractive gfs, or pretend like they don't care about a relationship. To maintain a relationship with a hot girl without using money or status is a completely different ballgame that most of them can't handle.
/r/seduction25/11/25 03:04 AM
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Very very basic. I advise you to switch your mindset from "what do i say" to " how do I get her to emotionally commit?" Also replace some of these questions by monologues. Finally you need a plan a structure. No clue why guys think they can just freestyle their way into some pussy with a few lines. You need a system.
/r/seduction25/11/25 03:03 AM
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Definitely 1000%. A lot of these "gurus" really don't have skill. They're just hitting massive numbers. Especially in Daygame.
/r/seduction25/11/25 03:02 AM
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Personally I had to do a double whammy: Find my comfort zone and expand it through drills . Research the most tried and tested strategies that I can find. Look at proof . When you expand your comfort zone and you couple it with tried and tested strategies, you get positive feedback as a reaction of merely approaching. Approach Anxiety fades away . Self esteem and confidence rises through competence .
/r/seduction25/11/25 03:00 AM
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Great. What are you struggling with the most so far?
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:58 AM
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Wrong wrong wrong. Trust by itself will get you in the homoegirl zone.
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:56 AM
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In January I was flat broke and living in my parents house. It's actually game that allowed me to find a better job, make money, and get out.
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:55 AM
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When a guy struggles with dating there are several factors at play : 1. Exposure: it's the number of attractive women you talk to every week. Some of your friends might have natural exposure: Their job Their hobbies His sisters friends Looking good enough for dating apps And so on . Your passive value: if some of your friends look good enough they can just post on the apps and raise their exposure, hence have more options to date . This includes looks, height, status , money and so on. Your conv…
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:54 AM
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No clue where this "every coach is a scammer " belief came from. Are most coaches out there to scam? Pretty much yeah. Some of them know their methods suck but they're still promoting garbage for a few bucks . I was almost scammed once. Some sneaky snake oil salesman kind of dude told me verbatim " if you don't jump on this you will be a loser for life". Funny thing is my results are probably better than his own, one year later. I met a great coach who agreed to coach me for free for a couple of…
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:50 AM
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Situational openers are great...for advanced guys. For a beginner there are a few issues: 1. Anxiety: while you are struggling to find the courage to approach you also have to find some thing original to say, which makes it worse As a beginner you lack the experience and calibration to say things that will help your game on the fly. Most guys are trying to freestyle everything but they don't even have the proper templates. This will lead to cringe openers. Being situational exposes you to a wide…
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:48 AM
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I do exclusively daygame, and I have learned from people more experienced than me that there's o point collecting numbers. So I always go for the instant date first . It takes me 3 to 5 approaches to get an instant date. 60% of my dates lead to sex, and I'm being conservative. I don't game as much these days because I'm visiting family. I regularly take breaks to focus on work/making money, but since April I have had 17 lays from daugame. In six different countries. I think "numbers game" is som…
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:47 AM
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If you're talking about building any type of relationship, sex is not enough by itself. Sex is a logistical tool to a deeper connection. I advise you to focus on building emotional commitment over the span of several dates in order to solidify the connection you will create post sex. Vary the emotions and the locations, and increase her involvement in pleasing you .
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:45 AM
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True abundance. If you really have a phone full of leads you won't care . You usi care too much because that's your only option. So it's a skill matter.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:42 PM
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Had to get out of the cult mentality. No it's not a numbers game. Compliment openers suck . Learn subconscious attraction, then make it conscious.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:41 PM
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Two years. Two long years of using advice found on the Internet. No results. Not even a lay. Last year I had to be brutally honest and admit that what I was doing , what most people are doing isn't working. A more experienced guy broke down a new strategy to me and let's just say after about a year and half of practicing new concepts, I lost my virginity and became proficient at daugame. 17 lays since April of this year. So in short , it took me a few Weeks of learning the right approach to star…
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:40 PM
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No need to be philosophical. Any person who can get people to follow him without using brute force is a leader.
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:25 PM
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At first I had a little AA so I was only approaching in easy situations. After some experience I understand that as long as you know how to seem accidental you will grow balls and be able to approach pretty much anywhere. I filled myself approaching in an airport once, got an instant date just before the flight. I avoid talking to women that are working I think I'm interrupting their work. Why talk to workers when there are plenty of regular women walking around? Let's be practical: at the momen…
/r/seduction20/11/25 04:25 PM
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The best guys I know at this are in their thirties and fourties. You're only starting.
/r/seduction19/11/25 06:31 PM
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You seem to have determination, uou just need the right instructions and you will be fine. I went through this. Hit me up if you have questions I will help if I can .
/r/seduction19/11/25 06:31 PM
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Let's put it like this : 1. Direct game: almost 3 years with no results, still a virgin . 2. Indirect game: 17 lays since April of 2025. All from daygame. I am not counting girls I have kissed, fingered and so on. I used to listen to the myth that both are the same, or that direct is superior but for me the proof is in the pudding . Most people just don't know how o use indirect properly . When you do, you will see that there's no comparison. Proper indirect game starts before the opener.
/r/seduction19/11/25 06:30 PM
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The best attitude to have is to approach because you want to get the girl. If you KNOW you zn get her everything aligns. You don't need mental gymnastics. It's a clear straight line from point A to point B. Which is why you need a potent system.
/r/seduction19/11/25 06:28 PM
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The apps will make you miserable, steal your natural charisma and joy. Stay away from that shit . I can literally walk outside and get a date on the spot with a stranger in less than an hour. No clue why guys are still on the apps.
/r/seduction19/11/25 06:28 PM
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You don't need to pretend to be anything. You don't need to be mister adventurous extraordinaire. You just need to push the right buttons in the moment. Figure out her blueprint and drive it like a vehicle to sex. You don't need external reasons to lead. You lead because you are a leader. They follow you because you lead. It's all on your vibe. Vibe =mindsets + non verbal cues. Notice I didn't say beliefs. I said mindsets .
/r/seduction19/11/25 06:28 PM
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Used to struggle with that . I got over it by : 1. Replacing the compliment opener by the" accidental opener" Practicing subconscious attraction. Got 17 lays from daygame since April of this year. And a shit load of dates . In short, work on making your escalation more progressive and subconscious, before turning it conscious. Feel free to PM if you have questions
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:26 PM
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I struggled for this for years. I had anxiety from a very real traumatic event that included a girl I used to date . I got rid of in a few days by: Expanding my comfort zone through drills Doing things that actually work . When you approach the right way and you get mostly positive feedback , the anxiety goes away because you're doing the right thing . It's not normal to get massively rejected. That's why most guys have anxiety.
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:25 PM
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I'm only 23 but the guys I know that are good at game are in their thirties and fourties. We're all pretty good at daygame. Let's just say between April and now I got 17 lays. No apps, no bars or clubs. Strictly daygame. And some of those guys have the double or triple of that . From what I have seen with them as long as you use an "accidental" approach and escalate based on cues you will be fine if not more efficient than younger guys . It's a skill matter.
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:24 PM
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I recently learned through filming myself and having it reviewed by someone more experienced...that I was distorting reality when it came to the 8+. My vibe was different , a bit confrontational from resentment I had from years of rejection. My mentor had to reset myindset and show me that I had to be a cool , normal guy first. With a touch of dominance. You get those girls by not trying to impress them and leading like a mofo. After it clicked I started having lays with 8+ pretty quickly. That …
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:24 PM
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Hello. I recently started recording myself approaching and taking random girls on dates or taking them home . Kissing, touching and all the things in between. I have several instances of dates and pulls on video.Only daygame . I am always looking for a fresh eye to tell me things I might be missing. Maybe I can share some of the footage with you so you can see how I escalate? Then I can break it down for you a little bit. PM me if you want the footage and breakdowns , I love talking about this s…
/r/seduction16/10/25 03:30 PM
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You fucked up after the kiss , because you thought kissing= done deal. The kiss is just a symbol , it's just there to represent some sort of connection. So if you don't take the steps before the kiss to charge the connection, it's basically meaningless. Next time focus on connecting with the girl , not the kiss.
/r/seduction16/10/25 03:29 PM
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If they want to give you their number...why are you complaining about Instagram? I don't get it . I don't even have an Instagram but I'm getting a lot of lays without it. It's irrelevant to seduction. It can even hurt you sometimes. If she is giving you the number and responding, focus on that.
/r/seduction16/10/25 03:28 PM
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If she's desperate for you, yes. If she's desperate for any man, absolutely not .
/r/seduction16/10/25 03:28 PM
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I can definitely not help with Instagram (I deleted mine) but I can help with the cold approach part . I have become quite proficient at approaching strangers and taking them on dates, sometimes taking them home. I have it all on video .I recently started to record it to review it and improve even more . Feel free to PM me I love talking about this stuff.
/r/seduction16/10/25 03:27 PM
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That's why I recorded it . You can look at the footage and figure out the answer to most of these questions. I am on vacation. I usually get dates on the spot, if not pull them on the spot . I get these dates on the second or third approach 80% of the time . For the behaviour I mostly focused on being a cool normal guy and leading hard. Just assuming they like me, no matter what they do or say . But you can get better answers by watching the footage, and maybe you tell me things I have been miss…
/r/seduction15/10/25 09:40 AM
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Progressive framing. Having "checkpoints" help. Mapping out tje whole escalation sequence in advance and goong through the steps. You should know where you stand at any moment and what to do next. But on general think: 1. Hands and arms + exaggerated romantic jokes 2. Face and neck + sexual compliments 3. Torso and legs + telling her what youre thinking of doing to her In that order generally .
/r/seduction14/10/25 07:29 AM
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I will have to disagree. Women lose themselves because they love you . They're not scared of hurting and sacrificing themselves for a man. You just have to be that guy .
/r/seduction13/10/25 07:44 AM
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I am using Rayban Metas...
/r/seduction13/10/25 02:27 AM
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I deal with that disease for years. It has to be progressive exposure. Find your comfort zone , then expand it through drills . 1. Start by dong what you're comfortable with. 2. Go one step further: for example if you're comfortable with eye contact, start saying hi or giving a quick compliment. 3. Once your comfortable with that keep adding elements until you're able to do a full approach. Now it helps if you have someone experienced guide you through the steps and the speed you need to use to …
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:30 AM
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Used to struggle with this . 1. Put together checkpoints: there is a specific escalation sequence but for no, just think about any possible physical escalation and put them on order . This allows you to see where you stand and what to do next . 2. Associate touching with verbal flirting . It just makes more sense to her if you're sexualising verbally while escalating. It also preps her mind . 3. Logistics help. If you're stuck on escalation, love her around a little to reset the vibe and try aga…
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:26 AM
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I was already getting a lot of dates, but this shift changed the quality. I didn't think I was deserving of more attractive girls so i was either avoiding or condemning them. Watching the footage I realised I was over teasing and just doing too much overall. Trying too hard . Someone told me I had to relax and just be normal, that hotter girls werelre receptive to a guy who was naturally dominant with them. Less teasing, more leading. Immediately was able to line up dates with more attractive wo…
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:24 AM
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So first you said I was being fake, but then when I share proof you say it's creepy behaviour? No mate , I didn't want to do it but since I have negative people roaming these forums who are always trying to put down any post that's productive, you forced me to. Now don't come here on your high horse pretending it's "creepy" when you first said it was fake. Which one is it?
/r/seduction28/09/25 06:17 PM
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The sexual role play is a technique I use but later in the interaction, when I was able to arouse her to the point where I'm at least able to kiss her. After the kiss I will start roleplaying sexual scenarios to ease into pulling. But things have to be done in order, like a sequence. When it's done properly it usually removes some resistance and lmr doesn't happen that often .
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:50 PM
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Im bored mate, what can i say?
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:43 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/YRXAFTM I love sharing on Reddit when I'm bored what can i say?
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:40 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/YRXAFTM
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:39 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/YRXAFTM
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:36 PM
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Don't really know what to respond to this. If you think THIS is crazy you really need to re-evaluate what you're doing with women. So it's so unbelievable that I'm laying next to a woman? 😂
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:27 PM
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Yup. Google translate + lots of facial expressions+ talking with my hands . Don't see why it seems so crazy . I have done it plenty of times before.
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:27 PM
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Reddit doesn't allow me to post a picture here, but anyone who wants to see if I'm legitimate can contact me in private I will share pics . Once again, your reply shows exactly why you're struggling with women.
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:11 PM
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I can think of a few : 1. " Focus on yourself it will come when the time is right". Waited all my life. Nothing happened until I start moving my ass. And even then it took me 2 years to lose my v-card . " Women decide they will have sex with you from the first five minutes.She either likes you or she doesn't." Nothing could be further away from the truth since I have "converted" women who were resistant to me, including married women or women in couples . If you're not on the top 10% on terms of…
/r/seduction25/09/25 05:33 AM
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I agree 1000%. I spent two years struggling with rejection, getting no results when I was showing sexual interest upfront . No clue why that concept is so widespread . Here Is what worked for me: 1. An accidental spontaneous approach: a narrative that explains why I talk to her, other than " I like you " 2. Progressive framing: escalation inside of the interaction rather than at the beginning. Making sure you have" social reciprocity" first before anything else. She has to respect you and consid…
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:49 PM
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Sounds like social anxiety. I used to struggle with this badly following a traumatic experiences with my ex girlfriend. Had panic attacks. Thankfully I have been able to overcome those. A few things off the top of my head : 1. Locate your comfort zone; what are you comfortable doing in public? Doing with a stranger? Use mini drills daily : eye contact, a compliment, and so on. Let a more experienced guy raise the stakes and calibrate the challenges in real time based on your ongoing reactions. B…
/r/seduction15/09/25 01:22 AM
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Oh man. The dreaded dry pull . You think you did everything well. Maybe not perfectly but the game was right enough. Only to end up at your place talking all night , two feet apart lol . Or even worse, you're grinding, kissing, dry humping, but she won't give up the goods. Blue balls of doom . Alright this is how I deal with this : 1. Progressive touching . 2. Allocating specific physical locations to specific levels of intimacy 3. Verbal leading. Using vivid descriptions to excite her senses . …
/r/seduction15/09/25 01:21 AM
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How do I say this bluntly? I used to doubt cold approach. I spent two years trying it , and I was still a virgin just running around giving compliments . There is NOTHING more powerful and efficient than cold approach, especially in public places. I am touring Asia at the moment: I hooked up with 3 women in Thailand, 4 on Bali, and 2 in Japan, where I have been for 5 days. In Melbourne I hooked up with 8 new women in a month . I am not tall, I have crooked front teeth, not the best looking guy e…
/r/seduction15/09/25 01:20 AM
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I will DM you.
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:48 PM
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This is pure social anxiety. Put the philosophical considerations aside, put even the mindsets aside, and focus on progressively getting comfortable talking to strangers. - Start with your comfort zone: are you ok maintaining eye contact? Asking for directions, giving a compliment? - define your end goal clearly: is it being able to approach anyone? Maintaining conversation? Showing intent? Cut the phases in between in small manageable steps and go through them progressively. I went through a si…
/r/seduction30/07/25 05:08 AM
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Aww you're welcome mate . You gave me an idea , let me DM you ...
/r/seduction28/07/25 03:25 AM
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I personally meet Women while going about my daily life: malls, streets, metro station, coffee shops and so on. When you get the skill of creating organic connections out of thin air, it's not so much about where you meet these women, but about how you connect with them . Once you're able to go from strangers to friendly to flirty in under 25 minutes w it's usually a wrap . After a while it becomes an habit , like riding a bike. There is a caveat though: you will need to practice these skills fo…
/r/seduction28/07/25 12:10 AM
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Get her to like you . You can generate deep attraction in women and get them to really like you . I went from trying to lose my virginity for two years to having women trying to be monogamous immediately, proposing me trips free of charge w or asking me to move in with them (I'm about to end my lease). So it's all learnable. Granted I had to find the right guidance and work hard to implement it, but if you look at my life today and someone told you I was a virgin last years you wouldn't believe …
/r/seduction28/07/25 12:09 AM
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The right dating coach changed my life . I remember talking to a few who were scammers , so I was bitter about it . One of them even told me that if I didn't jump on his program i would be a loser for life. Its safe to say he was wrong: could get a date anyday of the week now,and I get sex with two new women any given week on average. just pulled a new one yesterday Matter of fact. I also have women trying to get me monogamous and offering me things like dates , trips, moving in and the like . T…
/r/seduction28/07/25 12:09 AM
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Good coincidence,My mentor is currently doing free calls for his market research. He could give you a call and then you could both figure out something. I can vouch for him he literally changed my life . I only get dates and lays from daygame. I literally just pulled a new girl home and had sex with her today. I'm from a small town in France and thanks to him I was able to find a better job, make money and move to another city. I will DM you .
/r/seduction27/07/25 11:54 PM
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Not a master but getting dates is very easy( had 6 in the last 5 days) , getting sex is easy as well ( 8 new women in a month last month ), and after sex those girls regularly blow up my phone and ask for relationships. There is a lot to say about daygame but the main thing for me was the approach. The direct compliment approach doesn't work for everyone, it certainly didn't work for me. Its better to create a narrative: " hey quick question, my friend harper loves Starbucks, is there really one…
/r/seduction28/06/25 11:34 PM
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Create a narrative that explains why you're talking to her . This includes the context, your body language and tonality . It can definitely be scripted in the beginning.I want to keep some of that info private i don't want it to be all over Reddit, so feel free to reach out if you have more questions.
/r/seduction27/06/25 04:22 AM
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Most guys are just stubborn.they all use the same techniques and systems but the expect different results. I average one lay out of 3 to 6 approaches max . And I'm far from an expert or a master , I lost my virginity last year . But it's like 80% of the community has been so brainwashed Into using the same advice they they never think outside of the box. This is what worked for me: Fashion matters. Opening with a compliment sucks. Escalation needs to be carefully planned out and progressive. Bod…
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:15 PM
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I exclusively get women from talking to them in public . A few things : Work on your fashion: it's not about looking good, but moreso about projecting the image of someone who has his life together. Classy but on trend is preferred. Build a story : instead of giving a compliment ( that stuff wasted me years of my life without results), build a narrative that explains why you're talking to her . Being subtle here is more socially intelligent and gives you the space to display your value and raise…
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:05 PM
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Qualification will only work if she wants to qualify to you . Meaning there has to be not only social reciprocity, there should be emotional investment from her part . It's far from being a magic solution to open. The closest thing I have found to the magic opener that always opens is to create a story on why you're talking to her . Giving compliments isn't really efficient either .
/r/seduction26/06/25 10:01 PM
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Approach anxiety is a comfort zone issue . You have to find where your comfort zone is and stretch it . I see guys complaining about this all the time because they are looking at it the wrong way. They think there is a one size fits all solution, when what usually happens is you need to look at the situation as everyone being different and having different challenges. First question I would ask you is : what scares you more? Is it the people around looking at you or is it the reaction of the wom…
/r/seduction15/06/25 09:19 PM
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This is all sound advice . But I still feel like it's trying to teach. A broke guy how to manage crypto . The guy can't even afford some dogecoin Also, the amount of work it takes. The time and effort and fakery you have to put in, vs the results you get , not worth it in my opinion. Which is why in my opinion cold approach reigns supreme. The ease with which you can get laid and build an abundant dating life using cold approach makes me think most guys have to do it the wrong way . I can't thin…
/r/seduction02/06/25 05:28 AM
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I think I am pretty solid at daygame nowadays. This is what I went through: 1. Dealt with my social anxiety: this was a combination of monitored drills and getting help reviewing my mindsets 2. Learned how to approach the "accidental" way 3. Learned how to build trust with a stranger in a few minutes 4. Learned how to take the interaction from a stranger to friendly to a sexual tone in under 25 minutes 5. Dealing with logistics to take her on a date /take her home 6. Pressure on/pressure off onc…
/r/seduction02/06/25 05:28 AM
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Nice video and he really tried his best . But I can show you 10 videos like that one and countless articles that I tried by myself during the years I was struggling with it . Truth is most guys struggle with approach anxiety because to fix it necessitates an interactive process. Every guy needs a specific step by step process adapted to his own situation. Not only that , you need to deal with your own feelings and state of mind in real time . What helped me was having someone outside of myself g…
/r/seduction02/06/25 05:27 AM
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1000% What could beat getting off work or walking around doing errands, meet an attractive women while out and about and taking her on a date on the spot ? I can't imagine anything better in terms of efficiency or lifestyle. Cold approaching is worth it. Its just that in between the bad advice that is pushed to the front , and guys who think they understand it but really have no clue ,most guys think it's a "numbers game" or that it's "hard" If it's done the right way it's very easy. I regularly…
/r/seduction02/06/25 05:26 AM
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Get off those dawn apps
/r/seduction02/06/25 05:24 AM
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