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| 0 | Three years after divorce - alternative pointThat’s fucked up. It never ceases to amaze me at how low women will go. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | If somebody's wife hit on you, would you hook up with them?I used to be with you on this. Actually walked away from a handful of women over the years. Now after learning my wife does the same shit and seeing the bigger picture, that literally all of them are doing it, I’ve decided fuck it, might as well have some fun. These women are hopping on the dick every chance they get. You’re not saving their husbands from being cheated on. You’re just the one right now. Tomorrow it will be some other dude. The sooner all men learn the truth about how their women… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 12:56 AM |
| 22 | Strategies for slovenly wife.That’s your problem, you’re doing those things for her. It’s a covert contract. Of course she’s going to try to shoot you down, that’s how they’re programmed. It’s a shit test. When I started improving and lost some weight, all the sudden my wife started bringing home candy and cookies, ice cream, all kinds of sweets. I fell for it for a bit too lol. They don’t like to see us improving because it causes dread. They realize they might have to step up their game. So they try to sabotage. I think y… | /r/askMRP | 09/05/26 09:59 PM |
| 12 | Wife planning "girls holiday"Hey man. I’m glad you’re not gullible and you are paying attention. It seems like so many guys are just trying to convince themselves that their woman isn’t like that and would never do that. I used to be that guy and after learning the hard way that my perfect innocent virgin wife IS like that, it rubs me wrong when guys are so clueless. The point of my comment was to get you to really think about how shady it all sounds. You are already paying attention and not clueless, that makes me happy. T… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/26 01:13 AM |
| 8 | Wife planning "girls holiday"If she goes make sure she gets tested when she gets back. You convincing yourself that she didn’t fuck several randoms while away won’t stop you from getting the diseases she picks up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/26 11:30 PM |
| 8 | RantIt’s a manipulation tactic. She is a piece of shit, but of course she is going to try to get out of paying. This is her way of getting you to not ask again. You care way too much if anything she says can send you spiraling into a panic attack. If some drunken hobo on a street corner said those things to you, would you spiral? Nah, you’d just laugh it off. They’re crazy so the words mean nothing. That is the mental model you need to have of your ex. She is now that drunken hobo. You said she was … | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | FR : Bratty wife?When mine is actually being a bitch, she has this coldness to her. Like she hates my guts and is looking for reasons to blow up at me, or leave me. It’s actually really obvious now. It’s prob 98% of the time bratty and 2% cold hearted bitch that wants me dead. Which is kind of terrifying because she once told me it would be easier to kill me than to divorce me. I agree with Direct_Charity_2575. Always assume bratty and act accordingly. If it’s actually being a bitch you’ll find out soon enough. | /r/askMRP | 08/02/26 06:22 AM |
| 9 | FR : Bratty wife?I have had similar experiences with my wife. Where in the past I would get fed up with her bitchy attitude and we would fight, then she would be silent for a week. Now I can tell the difference between really being a bitch and just being bratty, and most of the time it is just bratty. I tease her a little and just don’t take her seriously, and after a few hours she’s the sweetest most perfect wife ever. Sometimes she even thanks me for putting up with her lol. She’s also usually exceptionally ho… | /r/askMRP | 06/02/26 09:07 AM |
| 1 | What kind of bitchy behavior should I actually try to stop or should I just stop caring about itThank you. | /r/askMRP | 22/06/25 06:56 PM |
| 2 | What kind of bitchy behavior should I actually try to stop or should I just stop caring about itIf she has a point and what she’s saying is right, then I swallow my ego and pretend she didn’t deliver it with attitude and just say “that’s fair” or “I’ll take care of it”, or something along those lines. And then I take care of it. It was hard to turn the ego off when she comes at me with attitude, but when I do, it immediately defuses her attitude. Maybe that makes her feel heard or something. I don’t know. So basically no matter what she is saying, you need to be able to listen without emot… | /r/askMRP | 22/06/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What kind of bitchy behavior should I actually try to stop or should I just stop caring about itGotcha lol. What’s your YouTube channel? | /r/askMRP | 21/06/25 08:18 PM |
| 7 | What kind of bitchy behavior should I actually try to stop or should I just stop caring about itIt’s from rian stone. That shit works. It’s crazy. Before we would argue until we were both pissed and she would be a bitch for a few days. Now I just ignore her fits and don’t let it get to me, kind of sarcastically brush it off. And sure enough an hour later she’s being sweet as can be, apologizing for being cranky and thanking me for putting up with her. It’s like magic. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/25 06:27 PM |
| 28 | What kind of bitchy behavior should I actually try to stop or should I just stop caring about itHere’s a new mental model for you. Your wife is a 4 year old. When she gives you a hard time, just imagine that 4 year old calling you a poopy head. Would you get butthurt over a tiny little kid calling you a poopy head? No, you would just laugh. Seriously. Every single time she gives you shit, I want you to imagine the 4 year old. Nothing she says really matters. Just laugh it off and go about your day. It will take time to internalize but this will get you there. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/25 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Expressing dissatisfaction before / when it's not a boundary?Maybe tease her about it. But it has to be done in a way that doesn’t come off passive aggressively though. I remember a story from one of Rian Stone’s videos about a guy that noticed his wife’s crush on their kids coach. I don’t remember all the details but basically he teased her about it. Something like “Oh imagine being in the locker room with him and smelling all the sweaty balls” and then laughing. It pointed out to the wife that she was being silly and she got the point. If I could rememb… | /r/askMRP | 15/04/25 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Wife had an affairDo not confront her! Keep playing dumb until you get everything figured out. She will likely never confess. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - Road RageBeen there. It’s part of the process. Next time you’ll catch yourself before the words come out of your mouth. Every time you’ll get a little bit better or catch yourself a little bit earlier. | /r/askMRP | 19/10/24 07:32 AM |
| 3 | iPad RevelationsDude. Same exact thing. It’s depressing how much one person, her miserable bitch of a sister, has fucked up my life! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Half FR Half victim pukeIt happens. “Like watching a blue pill train wreck” I had that same feeling just the other day lol. I’m getting better, but damn it’s hard to break those blue pill habits when shits going down sometimes. | /r/askMRP | 31/05/24 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Snapchat and marriageDo not confront! Use this as your fire to get awesome. | /r/askMRP | 14/03/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | First LTR in a while.. lying.She sounds kinda bpd to me. Don’t get too attached. Forget about her past and just enjoy her now while things are good. But don’t be surprised when she switches to someone else and just disappears. | /r/askMRP | 08/02/24 10:50 AM |
| 17 | First LTR in a while.. lying.You should just shut the fuck up and never bring any of this up to her ever again. It’s cringy man! I’m surprised she hasn’t ditched you over it already. | /r/askMRP | 08/02/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Frame questionI’ll check it out. Thank you | /r/askMRP | 27/01/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Frame questionC) Practice identifying how and why people say the stuff they say. A number of guys I coach are braindead when it comes to the subtext of a conversation. I am also brain dead regarding subtext. Can you suggest any resources that might help an aurtist learn? Thanks. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/24 01:10 AM |
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