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| 5 | FDS Newbie, date was sneaky about being soberHonestly, I don't see the way he disclosed his sobriety as a red or even yellow flag. I think it's somewhat normal to give mild hints about subjects that are somewhat personal on a first date, until it needs to be addressed directly. But I see three other yellow flags: He disclosed his alcoholic family history on a first date. That is 5-6ish date material IMO. Illustrates poor boundaries. He was probing for skeletons in your closet on a first date. Illustrates poor boundaries again. This one mig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Poly/Open Relationships: A RantI used to be like this. I craved novelty. I would develop serious crushes on people while I was still in love with my partner. I'm bisexual and that was a factor also. I wanted to get a chance to experience dating women, while I was in an LTR with a man. That was all in my 20s. I finally did try polyamory about 9 years into a relationship (at my partner's behest). That relationship promptly crashed and burned because of it. I continued a poly relationship with the woman who I had started seeing,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 4 | I need help sticking to my boundaries and feeling like I deserve to have standardsI am genuinely concerned for you, sis. All this comes from a place of love. I want to second the recommendation that you not date until you do some serious inner work. I'm glad that in the end, you did set boundaries, but the fact that you felt bad about it -- and still feel bad about it -- means that you will be vulnerable to fuckboys, manipulators, abusers and/or rapists. Men who are bad people, at their core, are able to smell the vulnerability in women like you, and work you to get what they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:05 AM |
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