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As someone who repels women because of my below average attractive self, I can vouch for this post spitting facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:53 AM
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I dont deny you wouldn't get rejected. I know many attractive people who have been rejected at some point in their lives. A couple of them being my female friends.. I remember one of my closest friends tell me that she everything but threw herself on a guy she liked. She did hook up with that guy but he rejected her when she asked him to be exclusive. And this girl is a solid 9/10. And personally I'd rate her 10/10. I've seen my 6'3" good looking friend be rejected by a girl he liked.. never min…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:42 PM
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I am in the women repellent category. I can vouch for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:49 AM
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Oh they like nice guys.. but they like nice guys only when those guys are physically attractive. It all comes down to physical attraction.
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:54 AM
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This.
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:50 AM
2

Men actually do slut shame in real life. A friend of mine was slut shamed by her boyfriend for having a past of casual sex. The girl has put up with so many similar red flags i can't even begin to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:03 AM
2

Fortunately I am ugly so I don't have any such problem. Infact women run away from me. However for you I would suggest start gaining a reputation as a fckboy. This should keep some women away.. they'll still want you but they would practice restraint. Most of them would aspire to be the "girl who changed him" for you... and to those girls you say you like the fckboy life and intend on keeping it. If they insist, you may have to fool around with them and jump to the next one..only to fool around …
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:21 PM
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Yes. Childfree women are very rare. In most indian cultures getting married and creating an offspring is like the biggest goal most women grow up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:39 AM
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actually, my country (india) could use people adopting a childfree lifestyle. We are way too overpopulated. There's just too damn much competition over jobs and the ones that you get are barely enough to feed yourself.. let alone taking on the responsibility of a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:52 PM
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I have noticed this too. Most women, if hooking up would hook up with the best looking guy they can get. Which usually they do because majority of men are up for casual sex. The relationship guys are usually less physically attractive than the guy they hook up with. But then it is what it is... there is a grater emphasis on looks when hook ups are concerned. Not that the relationship guys are unattractive in any way.. just less attractive than the casual sex guy.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:47 AM
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Wouldn't you feel alot more secure and comfortable if your lover says that he/she could have been with anyone in the world but she/he chooses you? Everyone has things they want in a partner like leading a certain kind of lifestyle or developing a certain habit but these may not always align with what you want... sometimes you may want a certain someone living a certain way but you might realise that you infact don't want that kind of life. Ive seen alot of relationships end.. ling term relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 07:30 AM
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I believe one should be with multiple partners before finally choosing someone they want to be with. This way one knows what one wants and what one can put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:50 AM
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How is one too many? Its like a battle cry for the inherently unworthy. Its fine... I dont blame her... I look like the result of Chewbacca and a crash test dummy ostrich having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:38 AM
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One. She's the only one who's ever let me climb on top of her. She admitted that when we did it she was repulsed by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:16 AM
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No. Its been years though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:07 AM
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Below average guy here, we don't have too many sex partners... or at all really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:57 AM
21

Never seen a below average or average guy "slay"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:18 PM
1

Well yes, the population difference doesn't really help. Your average woman is bombarded with dozens of messages everyday to a point where sometimes they dont even bother opening their inbox. The dating culture is pretty much what the west has.. but there are restrictions.. usually enforced by parents... women here have to deal with alot of backward creeps who can't believe a woman would wear a certain kind of outfit or act a certain kind of way. I remember stopping for a smoke with a friend of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:40 PM
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I didnt get here without hardships towards myself either. There came a point in my life when I realised that no matter what I do I will never get what i want. I can try and pretend that things will change.. but infact nothing will change. I was born with it and trying to tell myself that things will be different will keep me in a constant state of delusion and disappointment. Which will only fuel anger. Most men are afraid of confronting their own short comings. They know they exist but they lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:04 AM
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I have very rarely seen a woman lowering her standards. And that relationship ends faster than catching the guy in the bed with a farm animal. I think its already established without physical attraction there is no relationship. I have been really good friends with women in my life... get along with a couple of them really well but I have never met someone who wants to sleep/to be in a relationship with me. I am below average. And from a below average guy's perspective, I think the real reason m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:00 AM
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If there was any truth to it i wouldn't be single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:39 AM
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A young Megan fox is attractive. I dont know why do people find Emma Watson attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:37 AM
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Yes because why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:34 AM
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She got working girl parts, is alive and breathing, disease free and well spoken.. I am a happy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:32 AM
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An attractive man is very rare. From what I have noticed in relationships where a man is really attractive, the girl is usually very insecure, even though she would be very attractive herself.. might actually be alot more attractive. I know a guy who is really attractive and his gf is very attractive as well.. but she's insecure about him. He's verbally abused her 3 times right in front of me but she keeps coming back to mend things... talk about toxic relationships... Ive also seen this guy mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:29 AM
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"Not a deal breaker" is the battle cry for an excuse to mask the inability to attract other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:13 AM
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Made up facts you say? Ask random men online how many matches do they get. You will know they aren't made up. Online dating only works for good looking guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:11 AM
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I have seen women put up with cheating because the guy is good looking. Like they would rather share him than not have him at all. Oh man. I am really jealous of those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:13 AM
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Maybe. But women want the guys who've been with alot of women. Their social value is higher. Also the high body count would be a testament to their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:12 AM
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Yes but there's a higher sense of pride involved when someone says they've been 20 people as opposed to just one. And 1 hot girl doesn't sleep with just anyone. We are talking top tier of the top tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:46 AM
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Not really. Its about how many women have men slept with. Not who have the men slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:05 AM
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Attractive women want casual sex too you know. Alot of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:06 AM
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Most do. Not all. But only a very few ever get to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:55 AM
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To not be associated with cheating maybe. But I have seen women compromising on their good looking boyfriends sleeping around with other women. Although most would probably find it to be a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:34 AM
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I am not blessed with good looks as opposed to the men who actually get to have sex with women. Dating/casual sex works for good looking guys only.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:08 AM
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Yes. That is the idea. Most top tier men wouldn't want to take themselves off the market very soon. If I was too tier I wouldn't too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:56 AM
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It's not declining. But as far as the male population is concerned, only a very small amount of men are getting successful at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:12 PM
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You would think, but no. Even ugly women are hit on by good looking guys all the time. For casual sex ofcourse. I've seen so many less than desirable women hook up with guys who were nothing short of model look alikes. After sometime they dont want to settle for an ugly guy either, would much rather stay alone than to settle for someone. But I guess that happens dont it? If you're having gourmet food everyday you wouldn't want to go back to a gas station puff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:18 AM
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I am not delusional about my attractiveness, I know I am ugly as f*ck and the only feeling women have for me is repulsion. So I was out here collecting rejections like Pokémon cards and now my vault is full so I stopped. I see how my good looking friends are treated by women and it just makes me depressed. I sometimes think women just fall out of the sky for them and would jump from a cliff just so they could avoid me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:37 AM
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I have seen junior girls from my school hitting up my friend (6"3' & good looking) and asking him to take their virginity on 2 different occasions and 2 different girls. My female friends who don't know him personally would tell me how hot he is and would ask me if he's single. He was in a party once, he had started seeing a girl, but a different girl who was his friend kept trying to jump on him and kiss him. When he told me about this I asked him why didn't he stop her, he told me she clutched…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:25 AM
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I dont think men do that. Its more of a woman thing. Women are attracted to older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:32 PM
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Women friends... just like male friends... just happen. You don't go out looking for them exclusively.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 04:38 AM
1

Male virginity is rising in comparison to women because women aren't willing to settle for sub standard men anymore. Their standards for casual sex are alot higher than their standards for LTRs. And there aren't alot of top tier men to go about. Women don't find most men attractive. Every country is becoming progressive these days, women are vocal about what they want and unapologetic. You'll notice that even in Eastern countries most men are virgins at the age of 25 whereas women have had 3-4 p…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 07:17 PM
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I have a decent social life, do group activities and stuff, have been doing them for a while. Have really good friends, both genders. And yet I collect rejections like Pokémon cards to a point ive just given up. The arguments you made may be valid, but they don't tell the entire story. Alot of times it is because of the looks. The 80-20 rule is real and its here to stay. You have to be the top tier guy to get laid. It has always been this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:37 AM
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No. Not even an average looking woman.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 10:04 AM
1

Shorty looking like that old guy from UP. Rip ed Asner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:17 AM
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Being an unattractive guy myself, I know an attractive woman is out of reach for me, learned that the hard way but still. So I dont even bother with attractive women at all because they scare me. However, women who are unattractive are also being hit on by attractive guys all the time for an easy lay and when they decide they want to have something stable they dont even consider ugly guys as an option because their standards are at an all time high as they think just because they've had sex with…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 04:10 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:41 PM
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I think, most important thing in a woman is her physical attractiveness. But then it goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:52 AM
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Its about the ego that is associated with it. About how it would make you feel. The bragging rights you get with saying that you're with someone whosbx years younger than you. Not to mention most women do usually go for guys who are older than them. But tbh, men don't actively make the decision of going for someone younger. Sometimes men just take what they get because that is the only option. Infact most of the times men just take what they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:12 AM
0

I dont think its about the preference as much as its about the fact that someone younger can be attracted to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:00 PM
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On behalf of such men, below 6ft and an ugly face isn't something women desire sexually. So we remain unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:21 AM
1

More guys are turning to porn precisely because they can't get laid. Speaking on behalf of such men, we tried getting with women but the truth is that the vast majority of women go for a small minority of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:45 AM
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I am an ugly and short guy so I dont have any options what so ever. People like me will take whatever they get. We can't be choosers. But a friend of mine who's good looking and 6'3 literally has women lining up in his DMs and he's in a relationship with a model. Before his relationship however her had 4 women who wanted tk be with him, an ex who was trying to get back to him, 2 girls he had a FWB arrangement with and one of them wanted to make it exclusive. Even now he has girls who would hit h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:23 AM
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Lol no. With me women have made it very clear that there will be nothing more than friendship. Downsides of being physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:13 PM
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Ofcourse she will, as she should. Why would she waste her time with an ugly guy? We ugly guys need to start accepting our way of life. This is what life is for us, we can make all the pathetic attempts to cover ourselves with a shroud of delusion or temporary spike in spirits but it is what it is... truth has a way of gaining up on you. And it does that everytime. I know I am ugly, why would I bother with 7s or 6s or higher when I've already been rejected by 3s and 4s? Everyone has a right to se…
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:38 PM
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They forgot to mention "... but its alright you were going to miss them either way."
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:43 PM
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I come from a place where there is no way in hell that 60 percent of men are having sex. The men out number women with a ratio of 40:1. That one woman would choose the best 5-15 out those 40 men on an average in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:25 AM
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Only if you have an actual real- sexual life to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:02 AM
1

Who they are? Yes. What they are? Never. One can’t choose one’s face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:11 PM
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It’s not necessary that his beliefs are wrong. People never choose to be the way they are...it’s usually collective experience throughout the course of their lives. Of course the incel groups don’t help their case either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:54 AM
1

Well. Yes. It is. Princely leia liked Han Solo. She wasn’t getting her panties wet for chewbacca.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:41 AM
1

How would the ugly know the difference? He’s already having women run away from him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:38 AM
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How can one change awkward and ugly? Ugly doesn’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:51 PM
2

It’s not so much that we are interested in younger women much it’s about the idea that someone younger can be interested in us. It becomes more enticing. However, every guy has fallen for a girl of the same age atleast twice in his life before realising that girls his age just aren’t interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:32 PM
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For ugly guys like me, ain’t no such things as “easy girls” so no I don’t lose interest in girls who are more willing to have sex. Intact I look forward to them. And may god bless them. If it wasn’t for them, good looking guys would be laying dry most of the time.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 05:08 PM
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Worked for me. Video games and working towards my goals have given me an escape. Sure I haven’t found success yet but I’ll get somewhere. Someone very wise once told me “your career won’t just wake up one day and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore.” Words to live by.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:45 AM
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Man doesn’t have to be 8-10 to be attractive? Excuse me? Have you seen the kind of guys who are having casual sex/in a relationship vs the guys on incel groups ? Do you really think we chose to be this way? Do you really think we never tried to better ourselves? Sometimes there in fact is nothing, NOTHING anyone can do to bump their attractiveness. Face, height, skin colour, frame... they are all beyond our control. I agree some are really bitter and have hate infested misogynistic tendencies, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:30 AM
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Oh cmon now, let’s not sex/whore/slut shame anyone. But yes, more people must become aware of this. I see them hooking up with good looking guys and then settling for someone less... it’s unfair and it’s sad. They should all marry chads. Atleast be truthful to yourself. And be proud of what you’re attracted to. What grinds me gears is them lying and saying “looks don’t matter” in an attempt to sound socially acceptable. Humans are superficial animals. Both men and women are superficial. It’s fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:21 AM
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If I am exclusive with someone, then no. If I am having casual sex and there is a possibility of ltr then I’ll keep having casual sex. But I am not going to be exclusive with someone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 03:06 AM
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Great dad? Husband? Ain’t no self respecting guy wants to be associated with any of that. Knowing the woman you’re with is with you because you’re stable but she isn’t attracted to you? That is just sick, shameful and disrespectful to the guy. Majority men would much rather remain in the casual sex catagory. But unfortunately a good chunk of them don’t have the physical looks for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:37 AM
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Oh believe me. For men, any sex they get is fine. May it be with an unattractive women or an average one. Yes I’d have sex with someone who I wouldn’t find appealing. And believe me you, MOST GUYS WILL. when it comes to having sex, we don’t have an attractiveness requirement like women do. Whatever comes easy, whatever comes first... to choose the women to have casual sex with is a privilege only very good looking and popular guys have. Most guys would fuck any woman if she’s willing. Yes men as…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:22 AM
1

Prove it? Google the white skin obsession in india. You’ll know what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:26 AM
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White “skin” keyword “skin” Do you Americans think that only you have white skin? White doesn’t always mean Caucasian where I come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:24 AM
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Most men aspire to casual sex catagory. Being ranked for casual sex>>being ranked for relationship>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>friendzone. If given the chance I’d happily take the casual sex catagory any day. ANY DAY. But I am not good looking so I never made it past the friendzone. Women pretty high standards for casual sex in terms of physical attractiveness. The guys they usually end up with aren’t as good looking. So yes women do lower their standards for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:05 AM
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Relationship qualities + ugly = instant friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:33 AM
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As a guy I’d love to be put under the casual sex catagory. And I am sure majority of the men would. It would be something like being given knighthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:29 AM
0

I just go there to drink and eat. Too ugly to be receiving any sort of response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:34 PM
1

You know, I myself am maybe a 3/10 on a good day. I have Chad friends. And I also have friends who aren’t good looking. On a whole I have noticed that most men don’t whine about not being able to find someone attractive. Their choices have actually been rather humble and appropriate. Yes they like to look at pretty women but they’ve always found themselves crushing on appropriate women. Me included. Even then we get rejected. We don’t whine about not having the attractive women...we whine about …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:15 AM
1

But even for Chad attractive women can be a task. Sometimes Chad might just be looking for an easy lay. Unattractive women can become an easy lay for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:10 AM
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The only reason they’re complaining is that they don’t get good looking guys for LTR. So they’ll have to settle for someone who’s of a similar attractiveness quotient or lower.. I.e, not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:08 AM
1

The other one still gets her choice of man to sleep with. This is a big difference. Commitments though are a whole different ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:06 AM
1

Nope. We don’t have white people. We have fair skinned people, we have brown skinned people, we have dark brown skin people, some oriental people as well (india I.e dot on the forehead) and everyone loves fair skinned people. Tall and fair guys are desired. We have an obsession so unhealthy with the fair skin that it’s not even funny. If someone is fair skinned... it is an instant 4 points bump on their attractiveness scale out of 10. I have been rejected by a girl who said I have dark skin. Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:13 PM
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Don’t worry.... there’s a lot of truth to it. Tall and white makes attractive. Where I come from we have a variety of skin colours...and guess which one is the most desirable among both man and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:14 PM
1

Women saying “I like his confidence.” Is like that fake plastic bow on a gift wrap. Saying this is appropriate. But saying “He looked like Chris hemsworth and I wanted him to lick me right there and then.” Isn’t socially appropriate. Not only is it inappropriate but people may label a woman as shallow. So they play this confidence card whenever someone asks them about what do they like about their guys the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:01 PM
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Okay. We get it now, unattractive men aren’t allowed to have standards but unattractive women are. We get it... you like Chad. Chad is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:44 PM
1

Yes. I see this too. Women base a lot of their value on men wanting to be in an exclusive relationship with them and men base their value on women wanting to sleep with them. But here’s the deal,a woman if screwing around can and does eventually find a few guys who would like to be exclusive... and so do the men who screw around. Men more so because the social value of a good looking guy is slightly higher than your average woman as good looking men are very rare. And women usually DO have guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:19 AM
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There is no strategy in place. It is what it is. There are chads who are faithful and all around good men. I have Chad friends who have women throwing themselves on the said Chad friends. Some of them are faithful to their girlfriends and a few have cheated on their lovers. One girl-friend of mine was hooking up with a guy knowing full well he has a long term girlfriend. This is the power of chads. The reason rest of us are furious is that the things we see that could never happen to us because …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:06 AM
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Yes we want more women to engage in casual sex. But the problem is that women only want a select few men when casual sex is concerned. Which is fine. We understand. But when they want to look for something long term then they find the best average guy they can. We get it, Chad is attractive, you want him, you’ve always wanted him. So please by all means, Marry him. Sure he may or may not stray at some point but life is unfair sweety. Tee hee. And for my below average-average brothers, we must le…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:12 AM
1

I get your point about the emotional damage. I know women who slept with the guys they liked but those guys didn’t want a relationship. You ask them about this “phase” of them sleeping around they say they it wasn’t them and they don’t know what they were going through... I would always confuse myself thinking why are they so ashamed about it? Being a man, what I can tell you is that men aren’t angry that women aren’t as easy to sleep with, they’re angry because they aren’t worthy of having a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:48 AM
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Yes it feels bad. But atleast women have the option of hooking up with the object of their affection. It’s not the same for men. And before you say fuckzone is worse than friendzone...just know.... a guy would gladly accept fuckzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:28 PM
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There are women out there who give ugly guys a chance? How do I find them? Where do I find them? I don’t care if they’re being charitable. We ugly guys can’t be nit picking over this stuff. lol. On a serious note though, I wouldn’t want someone who isn’t attracted to me, I wouldn’t want to waste her life away and remain chained to the fear that she could stray anytime she wants to. Would much rather stay alone. However if there’s someone out there who likes hooking up with ugly guys...please sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:33 AM
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Preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:00 AM
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None taken. I speak out of my own experience and I stand by it. They may not last, they seek excitement just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:37 AM
2

I have honestly only seen the opposite....good looking guys having their emotional/personality flaws being overlooked... that’s why I’ve always seen how women find fuckboys/bad boy types irresistible. I can’t even begin to tell you the things I’ve seen good looking people get away with. But then I am sure you just have seen it too. I am sure you can agree with this. Our looks can make it brake us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:41 PM
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I am 24.I see women going for Chad all the time. Which I understand, they’re physically attractive. Their biology and body chemistry speaks to them. And they listen to it. We are humans. We do things that make us feel good. Maybe with age things change and mind begins to reason more than react. But I still do think I would really much rather have someone be attracted to me. Otherwise it’s unfair. Being with someone because they’re the “safe” option. It’s not only unfair but it’s pathetic. I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:15 PM
1

I wouldn’t know. I’ve never had anyone be attracted to me. Admiration can come from anything and for anyone. But just because you admire someone doesn’t mean you be with them. You need to be attracted to them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:57 PM
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Guys would much rather have someone be attracted to them. I would want someone to be attracted to me. Unfortunately I don’t have the physical assets for it. If admiration and respect worked, the guys you term as “fuckboys” wouldn’t be very successful with women. You can admire and respect anyone, it could just be a platonic friend or even a stranger. But you wouldn’t sleep with someone you just admire now would you? You’d sleep with someone you’re attracted to. And that’s why guys would much rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:56 PM
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Admiration doesn’t mean attraction. But hey, if it works for you.. you do you. Personally I can’t have someone not be attracted to me and be with me. It’s just not fair to them, nor is it to me. Yes, I am on the uglier side of the attractiveness scale so I don’t have anyone be interested in me anyway. Should someone chose to be with me but aren’t attracted...I’ll always feel like I am holding them back when they can deserve better. I’d rather stay single as I have all this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:22 AM
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Yes. But they are setting for the best they think they can get. Be me, 24 years old, 5’9, brown, face like. Chewbaca and never been in a relationship. The only time I had any sort of experience was with a girl I was seeing for 6 months at the age of 22. Beat that... first kiss at 22 (fml). Was I attracted to her? Not really. Did I have good moments while it lasted? Yes. Why was I seeing her? Because she was the ONLY one who has ever been interested in me. Ugly guy finally had a girl who was inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:56 AM
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Do you think this is fair to the one you settled for? How would they feel if they knew you’re with them only because they’re the safe option and not because you are attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:35 AM
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It is gross. However had he slept with two different girls if he wasn’t in a relationship only then he would get an ‘attaboy from his peers. Praises are usually only received in a manner of jealousy from other guys depends upon the number of women who are interested in him as compared to the number he’s been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:40 AM
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Okay, now I ain’t experienced and I don’t know a thing about dating or even marriage. Hell I most of the times I long for a woman to look twice at me, but I have studied this from top to bottom and I have realised there is no proven way of identifying people with high body count. I don’t believe that women with a high body count have a problem developing bonds. Some of the best women I’ve met are with a high body count and there was no way I could’ve known about it had they not told me. Although…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:27 AM
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I have befriended a few chads. Chads now get even more attention when we are in a crowd as women get to draw comparisons and select the best one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:51 PM
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It do be like that with some people bruv. No one chooses the reject life. The reject life chooses us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:48 PM
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Not all men. Only the good looking ones get casual sex no matter where
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:37 PM
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I got one match in 2 years I used the app just because she liked my dog. Never got back to using apps again. Yes I am that undesirable 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:34 PM
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Not just dating apps. Even irl. Women have become more selective of who they choose. Which is a good thing. I think women should select only the top 20 percent of men. This way the gene pool will get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:13 PM
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Genetics. I fell out from the sky and hit every branch of the ugly tree as I fell down to the ground. I wouldn’t want anyone else going through what I did and still do in my life. Not only is this cruel but it’s also selfish if someone what do it. World has enough suffering as it is. My country is over populated as it is. Anyway as the time progresses I realise I won’t have anyone interested in my anyway so trying not to have a kid won’t be very hard. I also firmly believe that committed relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:27 PM
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Nothing, don’t have standards (ugly men aren’t supposed to) and hell nah. From a very early age I’ve noticed how my lack of physical attractiveness has hampered my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:04 PM
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I have seen that the guys who have women throwing themselves at them are the best looking. But then I come from a different country than you do. And here finding moderately attractive guys is rare. I don’t know why would a man want to give off the “hubby” fantasy and not the “I want him to do me in the elevator” fantasy instead? if you ask me I want the latter. But then I am not blessed with the prerequisite characteristics physically. Mentally I consider myself a fuckboy in an ugly guy’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 11:51 PM
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I’d kill to have a face like you. I have noticed you need to clear a bar of attractiveness a particular woman may have set in her mind. If you’re a mere cm over it, sure you may see her naked. Below that? Take a walk. Unfortunately with my face I have never ever cleared anyone’s bar of attractiveness. More than 13 rejections under my belt. Stopped trying years ago. Sort of came as a blessing in disguise because I am 24 and stil do not have my life in order professionally. But boy do I wish I had…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:53 PM
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Bro. That face is mega Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:23 AM
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None of them get laid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:35 AM
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Yes....just like a guy’s abdominal muscles. Nothing sexual about them.. but good lord a pair of nice boobs can make me stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:33 AM
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I don’t think it would be a deal breaker for me, but I have a feeling that I would feel like I missed out... I have never dated nor have had anyone be interested in me. I would feel insecure about not having been with as many women as the woman i am with has been the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:06 AM
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Sure they are more likely to cheat. But tell me, do you think it’s fair towards the unattractive husband to know that the reason his wife is with him is because he was “the safe option” ? How do you think will it feel? And believe me you it will be bad. We guys Aren’t some fucking government funded savings bank. Iam 23.. iam ugly and unattractive... never had anyone interested in me...if someone decides to give me a shot because iam the safe option...I don’t fucking want it. Go to your attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 03:12 PM
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Someone once told me “the only thing worse for a woman than being objectified is NOT being objectified. It becomes a self worth issue.” I think about it a lot. But then.. it goes for both genders. Maybe the line between wrong and right is defined by how subtle and apparent the objectification is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 03:36 AM
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Trust me. She can get ANY guy. A friend of my ex wasn’t very physically appealing at all. I kid you not... the girl looked like a Komodo dragon and shrek had a love child (Apologies for sounding shallow). But boy has she laid good looking guys. One of them married with a 3 year old. She doesn’t need tinder... This once we were all chilling together.. she started texting a guy who slid into her DMs at 1 o clock in the night.. 10 minutes later she asks for a ride to his place. Guy looked like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:22 AM
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Not with any woman. Casual sex is a woman’s market. No matter what she looks like.. she can get any guy. Why would she choose an ugly one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 02:16 PM
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It’s not. Being a guy...unless you’re really good looking... if you try to find casual sex.. you won’t get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:04 AM
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