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| 1 | Am I asking for too much? Sweet guy but gives uncertainty.That’s my point! Her emotional response is way too much (frankly immature) and it is scaring her partner off. She would have avoided BV if she didn’t have sex that’s just a fact. She also would have avoided this emotional response. There is a lot of reasons why sex on the first date or too soon is not considered best practices when dating with intentions. The infection that OP is experiencing and the heartache she’s experiencing are a few reasons why she shouldn’t be doing this and this is her m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/26 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Am I asking for too much? Sweet guy but gives uncertainty.There are a lot more problems. I’m addressing this one because that’s the clearest issue to me here and the one I decided to comment on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/26 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Am I asking for too much? Sweet guy but gives uncertainty.Paying bills isn’t the only way they should show that btw! Just one of my examples of a man (my now husband) doing big tasks early on. We also have identical goals, values and ideals and showed me he was emotionally mature to handle the stresses of manhood. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/26 09:19 PM |
| -3 | Am I asking for too much? Sweet guy but gives uncertainty.Im glad that worked for you. I didn’t use sex to pay my bills. I did make sure this was a man that was serious about me before sleeping with him because 1. I become deeply attached to men after having sex with them, and 2. I did not want to become deeply attached and expect too much because like the OP I do expect a lot from a man that is getting sexual gratification from me. Edited to add that paying my bills was only one of the ways he showed me he was serious and committed. I was a “damsel in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/26 09:11 PM |
| -6 | Am I asking for too much? Sweet guy but gives uncertainty.Yup! That’s the part that sucks. With my husband I was a damsel in distress early on and had him paying all my bills week 1. He moved me and my son into our own condo by month 1. He did that because I would not sleep with him but instead showed him I was affectionate and could be intimate in other ways. I also showed him despite my financial shortcomings I was indeed an asset and it made him want to provide an environment where I can be a source of inspiration to him. Us woman our designed to wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Am I asking for too much? Sweet guy but gives uncertainty.You slept with him too fast. If you waited, he would have been more likely to take care of you during sickness… and honestly you wouldn’t have gotten sick at all. Since this is red pill I’m gonna be honest. You gave too much, for too little. Your asking for too much without enough time established | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/26 07:05 PM |
| 30 | Raising SMV as a Black woman?As a black woman im so confused…. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/25 03:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/25 08:42 PM |
| 5 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?What’s GOLF mode? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/25 04:32 PM |
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