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| 1 | Girl stopped responding, not too upset by it, but where did I go wrong? | InfamousCthulu | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 11:13 AM | |
| 0 | I try to be non-needy and I think I'm succeeding at doing so, but the perception people have of me worries me that I'm not doing it for me. Do you think this is a problem others face? Details and my thought process provided. | InfamousCthulu | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 05:10 PM |
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| 1 | I'm good looking but inexperienced, what should I doI've been having some general anxiety recently, how did you start meditating? Did you start with a goal of helping your anxiety, how did you go about that? Also if you haven't read models definitely would recommend it, most of the people on this subreddit will comment with information from it. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How can you approach the non day game scene if you don't drink much?What are your thoughts on just handling a drink, have a friend or yourself drink half and you just hold on to? | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 06:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask her to be mine?What do you mean be mine? Do you mean you want to be exclusive, like you're only dating her and she's only dating you? | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 06:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm good looking but inexperienced, what should I doIt's more so how you present yourself than what you say. If you feel confident and know they're into you as long as you're not too creepy or off the wall then you'll do fine. Just go and talk. A big thing in the book models it talks about jumping off points - find the jumping off points in the conversation and relate and speak about something that helps you relate to what they're discussing. As well as, your stories should also provide jumping off points, but as the other guy said, you'll be abl… | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Tell me your personal experiance after reading Models by Mark MansonWait until the last 4 chapters or so I just finished 9 in the middle of 10. They seem to be the most fun and motivating. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl show interest, if she has a boyfriend?"Straight from the dumb dumb factory" | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Long time lurker that started changeGetting angry at yourself always feels like a good first step. I would suggest start planning other ways to improve yourself and WRITE. IT. DOWN. "I'm going to start going to the gym this day this day this day" and write goals down | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 10:22 AM |
| 1 | I just wanna give up!!!!This was helpful thanks. | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Neediness in a relationshipI think he means manipulating her into chasing you, and models is all about non neediness, truly non needy. If you are trying to manipulate her you may seem Non needy at first, but deep down you'll still be needy. That's what I mean by true non neediness where you are naturally like that because you are less invested in them than you are yourself, but it's more than that. I can't explain the book well enough just read it, there is no shortcuts or YouTube videos that'll teach you it as well as th… | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Is she into you?Watch more of his stuff, like "how to escape the friend zone" | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 09:46 PM |
| 3 | The loneliness is crushingRock bottom is called the bottom for a reason, the only direction is up. It's a slow and painful process. The over-night success is the cover of countless if not thousands of failures. You may/may not appreciate the little improvements you make day by day, but at the end of a measurable time period, that's when you look back and see the end. Every day gets a little easier, and every day gets a little better. I know it's easy for me to say it and harder for me to do it, but you gotta keep trying … | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 02:09 AM |
| 1 | College Pickup - Why classic "game" will hurt youYou said to get their Snapchat, while I don't disagree with you on the lower stress level of it. What are the rules for Snapchat? Don't snap then unless it's too plan a date? Get number? Half the guys here can't explain this because they're of an age where Snapchat is a less used medium, but at 20 every fucking person uses it. Basically what's some guidelines to Snapchatting? | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Friends Secretly Hope You Fail?You say he's never had a girlfriend, it looks to me that he has began blaming external factors for that rather than internal factors. If he doesn't get a girlfriend and happiness, then nobody should have a girlfriend and be happy. Yeah cut him out. | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 06:49 PM |
| 2 | How to game while with female friends?Well for starters I haven't really been known as a 'charismatic' person, and it would feel kind of uncomfortable getting hot and heavy in front of my friends. I wouldn't call flirting getting hot and heavy, flirting should be subtle but clear to the person that you're interested. I wouldn't want to making out with a girl in front of my friend unless it's cool, like read the situation ya know? However what's important is a mind set change, you can't be as bothered by the opinion of others. Especi… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 09:21 AM |
| 6 | How to game while with female friends?That doesn't sound like the fact that there's female friends with you, it sounds that you're uncomfortable flirting with a girl in front of other people. | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Noob tip for hectic/noisy places.I've never heard of never repeat yourself, what's that from? Not doubting, just curious | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Don't get hung up on approachingI liked the "most girls won't respond unless you look like a God" While saying he cleans up okay, so I can approach. I'm sorry if you have to "clean up" then you don't meet the "look like a God." Criteria | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 12:44 PM |
| 3 | How to you guys not get attach to a girl...You have to accept there will always be another, and that she won't be the last. Maybe one day you'll find one and say she's the last, but you've only listed 2 girls. Think of all the other girls you were "attached" to that you're not attached to anymore. | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 03:29 PM |
| 2 | What is your best way to stand out and make a strong impression?One thing you could do is have a memorable conversation. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Whiten your teethHow can I straighten them, I'm 20 next week and I would rather not have braces I've always been super self conscious about my teeth. Im told they're not that bad but I'm not sure if people are sparing my feelings. I'm willing to post a picture if needed. | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you separate confidence from arrogance?Thinking about it, the evolution thing is so true. | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I was trying to date this girl and we are now friends with benefits, I don't know how to feel about this..IMO, you need to think about what you want and what will benefit you the most. Really think about it, sit down and cut off distractions and think about it. | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 10:47 AM |
| 1 | What can I do here?Yeah, but you can't. I had this with another girl recently it seemed great, but I let her words lead me down a weird path. Something to learn, if they say they don't want a relationship and you do. If you think their words are different than their feelings then I would go for it. Either way you get reaffirmed they don't want one and you have no girlfriend still, or they were telling you something different than they felt and wanted one. Obviously if you already asked them out and they rejected y… | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Talk to everybodyThe comfort with silence is powerful in all aspects of relationships. Business, work, school, seduction, family. It truly does display confidence, and you'll often find people will try to fill that absence of sound. Especially in non social settings - there's not always something to talk about in the car so just turn the radio up and relax. When something comes up in your mind turn down the radio and say it. | /r/seduction | 26/06/16 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Today I dumped the girl of my dreams... because my emotional core said she was bad news. I now feel like a real man.Couldn't read OP's post because it's deleted, but if you hold up what you believe in even if you disagree with them I think it forces them to defend their beliefs. If they have to defend their beliefs they will probably have to think about it more and hopefully value their beliefs more. If you just agree with them then they'll value others agreeing not their own beliefs. Man that is wordy and hard to follow. Edit: not to say you should or shouldn't stay with them, incomparability comes with that… | /r/seduction | 25/06/16 03:00 PM |
| 1 | So today I got the number of a girl having a first date with a guyNo worries! I was like"what did I do?!" Haha glad we got that sorted! | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | So today I got the number of a girl having a first date with a guyWho are you talking about? I'm talking about jonnyrotten... I think OP is just fine... | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 05:54 PM |
| 3 | So today I got the number of a girl having a first date with a guyHe doesn't even bring up the fact that the girl could decide. It's all about OP being a cunt, and the guy wanting to beat the shit out of him. Sounds like he just lost his girl to a guy before, even though he's the reason he lost her. | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Talking to a set of girls, the one you re not interested to keeps talking to you, to get stuff going you ask her one question leading up to her talking nonstop... How to stop that?Correct that's how it's pronounced | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 03:07 PM |
| 9 | Talking to a set of girls, the one you re not interested to keeps talking to you, to get stuff going you ask her one question leading up to her talking nonstop... How to stop that?acts as a segue Holy shit I never knew it was spelt that way, I've only heard it spoken. | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 01:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm a skinny fat guy who just made out with my date while she dropped me at the train station. (date 2)That's not a Q for me, there's a chance you can catch something, but I'm not sure about the risk orally... | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 07:25 PM |
| 4 | What do you do when a girl starts to cry?I'm not trying to get him laid though, I wouldn't want to sleep with someone wanting advice and crying about something like that. That's just my opinion, and neither of us were in the situation of him so we may both be right or wrong. | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 12:24 PM |
| 2 | I'm a skinny fat guy who just made out with my date while she dropped me at the train station. (date 2)Not to mention, there could be STDs she isn't fully aware she has. She might have a feeling down there and pass it off as something else, or show no symptoms of other things. IMO it really isn't worth the risk. | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 11:40 AM |
| 5 | What do you do when a girl starts to cry?A large part of this is she was crying trying to resolve an issue with her life, and not just crying and not telling you. It seems to me like she felt defeated and wanted to talk to somebody anybody and console in someone. Sounds like she wanted advice. | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Witnessed another dude spit game, have questionsYeah, I still feel awkward just reading that. Like I felt so uncomfortable knowing that was a reply i received to a question. It still... just... bleh... | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 11:11 AM |
| 0 | Witnessed another dude spit game, have questionswell boy, i have one question for you. Do you gave her love and did you desire her so mutch that you want to fuck her? Because thats the secret. Instead of saying Are you still coming over after work around 10?" I would say: Come over around 10, i want you . if she came GOOD, if she not, she felt desired! and its a good thing cause that means you have BALLS | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Happening as I type this, but it also happens every single day. How would you approach this coffee shop situation?How do you work on social proof? | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Witnessed another dude spit game, have questionsI wish more people would give input on /r/askseddit I've had some straight stupid incoherent responses there. | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl stopped responding, not too upset by it, but where did I go wrong?So she is friends with some of my girl friends, but they don't know about what we had. Which is fine, but if I happen to be around her and them should I flirt with her again, or act like nothing happened? I mean shit happens I'm not too bothered by it and I'm not going to be an ass about it. Thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl stopped responding, not too upset by it, but where did I go wrong?I tried I hate that I had to post here, but I got one guy that literally posted gibberish and one guy that asked a question about my story which I answered and he never got back. | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 12:06 PM |
| 0 | Girl stopped responding, not too upset by it, but where did I go wrong?Thanks for the reply, I meant I'm over her in the sense of there'll be another girl. I've just been pondering where I went wrong, thanks for the input. All these girls in my area use Snapchat as an ice breaker and I fucking hate it. Should I embrace that I hate it. Most of the girls I've asked say things like "it's like texting but the pictures make it more interesting." If I'm not good at Snapchatting should I just not and call and stuff instead. I appreciate the reply, askseddit got me no resp… | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Texting helpSo if they text a shit ton you should text a shit ton? | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you need a big bed for dating?Yeah, just broke up with a girlfriend if 11 months. First time I brought her home, it was a twin and we had sex. Good sex too, but about 5 months ago I got a queen. So much nicer for actually sleeping and moving around when going at it, but having a twin never stopped me from going at it. The bed is a minor itty bitty part of it all OP, you could end up on the floor for all you know. It's not going to kill the mood, and if she comments on it just say something witty in response. | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 05:06 PM |
| 8 | Am I the only one who can't move if the girl is not attractive enough?Fuck that, if you don't close with an attractive girls in your eyes that's fine, she was still practice to increase the quality of your game. Go for the hotter girls practice is still practice. If you think about "I can't go for that girl my skills don't feel sharp enough." You lost a chance to practice. It's gone and then you're still on the same skill level with the next attractive girl as you were the last. | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 05:01 PM |
| 1 | SCARED TO EXPRESS SEXUALITY AND FORMER RED PILLER NEED HELP PLEASE READThis will probably help, you'll likely not judge them or at least not enough to care because they're your friends. You need to realize that the way they're dressing doesn't affect everything. You can also try posting for advice on other subreddits that are strictly advice subreddits | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Girls with lots of guy friends5 different guys per week is for her, being in bad shape woah. Anyway, Thanks for the clarification there. | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Girls with lots of guy friendsI can assume orbiter's meaning, but I'm not positive. Is this guys that orbit around a girl and have sexual interest in her, but the girl has no interest in them? What scenario defines an orbiter vs a friend vs a fuckbuddy? | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence?I don't know where it came from (breakup/college/work/future?). However recently I've felt anxious (constant feeling of wanting to puke.) I've been thinking I'll just work through it, I didn't have it prior and suddenly I do, it has to be temporary right? I'm glad I've been thinking of it that way, and your post makes me feel like I can overcome it with time. Thanks for that. | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 01:15 PM |
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