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I have met every ex on a dating app except for 2 out of.. 10? And to be honest i prefer it that way. I don't.like to shit where i eat (work/gym/friend group) and like to keep it relaxed.
/r/seduction23/06/26 10:55 AM
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Same thing here. Never learned it from my parents even though i asked. Now i'm mid 30's and don't like to dance. I'd rather fight an agressive hobo than dance because i feel i look like an idiot 🤣
/r/seduction08/05/26 10:40 AM
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I used to think i was bad at pair bonding, with a confirmed 194 bodycount (unofficial early 210's?) I'm 35M by the way. But until recently i met an awesome woman and we hit it off. Honestly? I don't regret having a high number as i had fun and learned a LOT about what i like and dislike in a woman. In my experience being with a woman who truly loves you and makes your awesome life even more awesome is worth more than 100+ different women for a short period of time. Do i miss the chase? Sure. Do …
/r/seduction20/04/26 11:43 AM
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Disagree with this take... Almost all my dates that i kissed either ended with closing the same day or in the upcoming days. I guess my take would be to do as YOU want and how your vibe is. I go for what i want and/or make her crazy to come get more.. while including good vibes (playful banter, serious conversation, getting to know her)
/r/seduction10/03/26 07:03 PM
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Also women take rejection VERY bad. I'm not mean in any way, shape or form. I'm honest in a kind way. Whenever i reject a woman due to not having the same values, life stance and/or not feeling that spark, the amount of insults/threats and/or hostility i have received is insane. And this is after i say something along the lines of: "Hey, i think you're cool, but don't think we're a match. Wish you the best of luck."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:10 PM
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I find women age 20 - 26 the hardest to game. They play a lot of games, tend to be manipulative and pretty harsh on their requirement lists. Also they care too much about the social aspect (imagine if you would date a man that is halve an inch shorter then you). Women ages 27 - 45 are legit. They're grounded, often don't play around, have reasonable requirements and don't expect the prinses treatment.
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:00 AM
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Well i can't have sex by myself now can i? Also companion ship to a certain extent for me personally is enough. The perks are those, whilst not having to deal with the downsides of a relationship. But i guess it depends on what you see as perks as that is probably subjective. I'm happy now as a single male. Have several women i'm fuckbuddy's with and/or friends with benefits. My finances are my own and companionship i get with the above named people. As soon as someone starts acting up, i dip. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:34 PM
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No need to get married and have kids to have a happy life you know.. more roads lead to Rome. So as you see, marriage is a risk for me i'm never willing to take and i don't like kids so i won't be having them (going to get snipped next year hopefully). Also i always make sure that there is some kind of protection so that i wont ruin three lives (her, mine en of that kid) Yes, i work a fulltime job, have my own savings and might buy my own property.. no need for a wife or woman for that. Would it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:12 PM
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To each their own right? In my opinion being husband material comes with too much downsides (having to put up with the negative parts of another person, having to provide, etc etc) As for me being the hook up guy, i get all the perks without having to provide or any of the downsides. Also yes i would be a bad father, i don't even want to be a father lol. So i wouldn't take the responsibility in any way, shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:41 PM
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Not true at all. I have been called both, but more so the hook up material.. yet i still find the husband material insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:36 PM
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That's why i advice men to create a safe place. Women tell on themselfs quite a lot if they trust you. But to each his own right? If another man wants to date a woman that has been ran through, more power to him.. it's not my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:04 PM
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Only desperate men do that. A man who has morals knows it's not wise to wife up a woman who has been on the cawk carrousel for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:02 PM
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Which are most of the time women who play that card. Marriage is a total scam for the majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:20 PM
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What is stopping you? I'm not. The more women that stop dating with your mindset, the better it is for men to meet normal women with healthy dating views.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:57 PM
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Then why do you date men if you think we're all evil beings? 😅 Might as well play for our team and date women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:54 PM
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Contribute in what way? Making sure she gets all her needs? Something that is pretty straight forward? It seems to me as if women like to see money for every thing they do. How can a woman contribute for the protection a man gvies her in dangerous situations? When does a man contribute enough according to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:25 PM
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Haha wauw. Then you're dating the wrong men. Why would i want to marry or pay money if i can cook, clean, and do the all the chores myself. I don't need to pay a woman to have sex and be my companion, i'd rather get a fuckbuddy is that is to be the case. Besides it being a biological thing, yes men can't get pregnant.. but it takes two to tango, so if you expect money to get pregnant out of doing him a favour, maybe you should reconsider having kids if that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:12 PM
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Exactly, that makes them feel more confortable to meet up at my or her place.
/r/seduction13/09/25 05:46 PM
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Awesome that you know what kind of convo's i have! Just cause you have different convo's than me, doesn't mean they are false and/or fake. I have no incentive or reason to lie about my methods and prove things to random internet people.
/r/seduction13/09/25 04:21 PM
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Most of the times i smash on the first date. Sometimes second. What i do is chat/call when i have time. Example when driving from work to home, which is about an 40 minute drive. That way they feel i'm investing time in them, we have a nice chat, establish connection and there is less necessity for an actual date. The majority of the times the first date is at their or my place and we all know what is going to happen.
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:52 PM
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Exactly. Even though i also have "casual dating" in my profile. I don't tell unless asked. When asked i also never lie. This can also turn into something positive. There have been occassion where a woman didn't immediately follow through. She was adamant on dating long term. I didn't want to. We did have a nice connection. I told her to save my number in case she didn't find someone to date long term and parted ways. After about 2 months i get a message: "Hey!" We started chatting and she asks m…
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:37 PM
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It can be both, but i don't start off strong sexually. Here some examples from some chats i recently had. 1 match I make a funny one liner on one of their pics Her: Thanks that is sweet! Me: No problem, what have you been up to? Bla bla, chat about random stuff make some jokes. It's not directly obvious i want to have sex with her. Her: What are you looking for? Me: As of now nothing too serious, i'm not in a place for a serious/long term relationship right now. I do however want to find someone…
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:34 PM
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Don't bring it up yourself unless they ask. Create a good vibe, fun conversation, don't be too sexual unless they start it sexual. Even if they initially want a long term relationship, some will agree to just be casual as long as they find you attractive, are honest and have the ability to have a fun convo. The majority of the women i found for casual sex have been through FB dating, Tinder, Bumble, Happn.
/r/seduction13/09/25 01:59 PM
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Some men are greedy for sex and will lie about everything to get laid. My methode is that i want a woman to fully choose to be with me and have fun memories and experiences while doing so. I can imagine that as a woman it must be rough to actually weed out the good from the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:38 AM
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Always. I dislike drama and lying, so i'm always upfront. Some women thank me for being honest and say they're only open for LTR. Some women after a good chat tell me they're also open to just have some fun while they find someone to settle down with. Everybody wins in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:03 AM
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I would love if women would to their part. As of now, i only date for sex. In my opinion it's not worth the energy, time and money to be invested in the women these days. If you expect me to carry all the burden because i'm a man, you're better off searching for another man. I would love to see the equal effort put in by women. If they consider themselfs the prize, i'm the prize too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:33 AM
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True, however a lot of men barely get with a woman! I know men who are in their 30's and are still virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:52 PM
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Women and men struggle differently. Men struggle to get laid. Women struggle to get a solid relationship. I have heard countless of jaded women, but more on the aspect that they can't trust men yadda yadda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:42 PM
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This.. so much this. I just don't comprehend why a lot of women play these mindgames. So senseless. At first i was hunting like crazy. Had a lot of great adventures, but honestly? Now being single i really a relieve. No more mindgames, no more chessplaying. Just relaxing, me doing me. It's now that i can comprehend why some people would rather be single than having to deal with that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:40 PM
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Because women and men have different struggles. I have met enough women that got insanely jaded due to the whole dating scene. Women struggle to get commitment, men struggle to get sex/intimacy (most of the time) I think the part you're referring to, might be due to the fact that feeling or being loved or being intimate is a core part of what makes us human. Now the great majority of women rarely experience being unwanted, because there is always a man that wants you (you might not want him, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:12 PM
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Women do the same stuff. You think women don't go the extra mile to be seen by the guy they're fawning over? Women do the same for validation, for love and even for sex. I have countless of examples of when i was younger and still behaved like an asshole towards women because i didn't care about them. Yet they still came back for seconds (i'm now older and don't behave like that) I really don't get the hatred towards men. It's not a race of who is better, we're in this together. I think it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:09 PM
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Instead of thinking like this, maybe try and get better at stuff? Get into therapy for past trauma's, that will make you a better option Get a good job, promotion Have ambitioj Work on your social skills Work on your physique and wardrobe Now if that is natural selection like you say, life isn't fair. It never was, never will be. So get along with the program or sit at home with your arms crossed, being mad at why women don't choose you over another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:37 PM
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I'd say i'm above average i guess? Get quite some matches on the dating apps on the regular and always in touch with new women. Have several fwb/fuckbuddy's I'm 5"7, not tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:35 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:40 PM
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Yeah so? If you look far enough, you can probably see how i also talk on some subs about hooking up ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:04 PM
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So just because you don't feel this way, someone else can't feel this way? Cool story brother :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:58 PM
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Not true! I have hooked up with enough women. I still hate it when women call me husband material. In my eyes it's basically an insult. I'd rather be the guy she has sex with for fun without the downsides and hassle of a relationship, than the husband material guy who has to provide and perform to "earn" her unlike the fuckbuddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:48 PM
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I'd say there is no right or wrong. There are certain things men and women perceive different from each other. Hence the reason i see the discussion taking place. However, funny that this thread popped up. Recently had a fun discussion at work and really opened my eyes at how different women and men think about sex and relationships. Example of something that happened to me and how i, as a man felt about it. About 10 years ago i met this girl at a gym. Had fun conversation and exchanged numbers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:43 PM
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I'd have to disagree. I'm introverted but not shy. Sure, if i'd were to date an extrovertrd party girl, she would find me boring... because well, i'm not a party guy and not the type to just chat up strangers and stuff like that. However, have been in enough relationships where the dynamic is fun and playful. Having fun banter, inside jokes, sometines letting other people in on the joke/situation. I have strong opinions, can carry a conversation well and mingle with her friends. So this might be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:58 PM
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When i was early 20's (about 12 years ago), i had nice pictures, was buff and had women slide into my messenger on the regular. I also sent a lot of messages to random women. Hooked up with them. It definately can happen. Not like i'm some sort of god or anything extraordinary, but you sure as hell can seduce/conquer women through social media. Unfortunately for me, i never got into instagram/snapchat/tiktok, cause i think it's a goldmine if you really like to post a lot of stuff about yourself …
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:29 PM
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You're in too deep in the limiting beliefs. Believe it or not, women enjoy casual sex. The sooner you accept that and let go of the anger towards yourself, women and other men that live the life you want, you will see progress. I'd say a change of mindset (which is hardwork), will bring you tons of joy in your life.. but the longer you stay in this mindset, you'll keep seeing the patterns you want to see and live the life you resent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:32 PM
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Haha, whatever you say buddy. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:06 PM
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You don't even know the reason why i'm on this sub. Maybe i like to have conversations like this with people on these topics. Maybe i like to challenge people on how they think. I have no need to ask for dating advice because i have learned from when i was younger. So don't project your insecurities and view on me. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:03 PM
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Everyone drops stool, so it's not scarce. But i get where you're going at. Yeah, some women value power, money, status, looks, certain traits (be it weird ones like being a criminal) or all of the above. In the end men have to accept they will never be able to conquer all the women they see. Also would you really want to attract that kind of woman? A woman that is only for those attributes but not really who you are as a person?. I get it, they're often beautiful woman, eyecandy... but mark my w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:55 PM
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Life is unfair man. If wealth would be equally distributed, women would search for traits that the majority of men would not possess. Scarcity makes something valuable. I mean heck. I'm 5"7 (in a country where the average male height is 6'), earn a bit above average salary, a bit chubby now and i hate the provider mentality. I refuse to be a financial provider for anyone.. yet i'm still killing it. I would kill even more if i were to get fit again. You got to play with the cards faith has given …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:14 PM
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Ah i see, social media (instagram, facebook, snapchat, not Reddit) in my eyes is a waste of time. The thing is you see certain stuff as "a waste of time". "A lot of people see excessive screen time as a waste of time". Maybe you're the type to follow the herd, fit in, act like the rest. Which is totally okay, no shame in that. I literally don't care what "a lot of people" think about me when i'm doing stuff i like. Also, in the grand scheme of things, everything is a waste of time. What is a was…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:39 AM
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I'm nowhere complaining about women not being fair and such. I get enough attention and it's not about that part. You strike me as the (old) guy who never understood videogames. The two things can co-exist, believe it or not. Anything done in the extremes is wrong, but to state that men should stop playing videogames is just weird. If that is all you do, then there are other problems that someone needs to adress and it's not due to videogames being in their life. To answer your questions: No, i …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:43 AM
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Well to each his own i guess... no one "should" do anything they don't want to.. One can socialize and also play videogames and relax. Besides, you can also meet people online who become your friends in real life. Yes, i know women like ambition, but to me it seems like you're living your life just so you can get and/or stay with women. I live my life for me and don't care about meeting unknown people their expectations of me as a man. I make enough money to take care of myself, save money and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:15 AM
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So men are not allowed to do a hobby (gaming), watching tv because? I don't know, but having the need to always be productive, gaining money and seeing opportunities seems like a boring life to me personally. But hey, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:52 AM
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Sure thing, i can understand that. The majority of the women i have been, have just been normal women, who believe it or not, were just horny at the time. I have hooked up quite a lot if i say so myself. Only encountered mentally ill women a couple of time unfortunately. Also in my country we don't have that much crazy people as i'll assume you're in the US. Also my job, which you guys seem to hate in the US, does not have the same negative connotation over in my country. Which also might contri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:15 AM
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I like how you seem to know every woman i have met. Sure it's risky, but life is about taking risk. Besides i don't live in the US where there seem to be more.. crazy people ;). Never the less, i communicate and ensure i don't make anyone pregnant.. so no weird phonecalls here. Also, just because it's your son, doesn't make that he doesn't do stuff behind your back... unless he is a saint. Anyway maybe stop judging all the situations like you know everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:05 AM
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Why? We had a good time, treated each other well. We had fun... 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:16 PM
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Cool that you know my experience on dating apps. The majority of the women i meet are online... and yes i have had women literally text me 3 lines before coming over for casual sex. Not to e-brag, but just because you don't believe it happens doesn't mean it doens't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:42 AM
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No offence taken.. however you might be right. I don't really care to fit in to the public, never have, never will. I don't care to fit in to the masses. I'm who i am. Listen the music i like, dress what i like, do what i like as long as i don't limit or bother other people. For example, you say: "What music to listen?" So... you listen to a certain type of music to fit in? You wear certain clothes to fit in? Well then it's good for you. I didn't really care to experience those things at my age.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:16 PM
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So because women aren't interested in them, they don't desire dates? Doesn't make sense. Obviously i can't look into other people their minds.. I have had several occassion where girls were actively pursuing me and i was not interested. I just wanted to hang out with my friends and play Halo 2. I was just not interested in having romantic relationships believe it or not. Hell, even my mom would crack up. We were out and about and sometimes girls would start hitting on me. I didn't care for it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:25 PM
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If i think back (i'm 34M), the girls are miles ahead of us boys. For example, when i was about 13/14, obviously i would talk to girls. Anyway during those conversations they were often times more busy with the more serious things of life. Dating, planning their life, being more responsible (more than us boys). Heck, i was only thinking about playing videogames and hanging out. "Relationships and dating? Nah, i'm too young for that!" You could clearly see the difference in school. I didn't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:38 PM
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Agreed, it should be included whenever a woman gives birth!.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:17 AM
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Not really. Any person should replace another person that doesn't meet their needs. This post however has been framed as if men should feel lucky she gives you the time of her day to see her. I'm just stating it goes both ways. If a man has the capacity to attract multiple women, he too can play that game. And as how this post is framed, i'll rather die than conform to the demands of a woman because she might otherwise replace me. Guess what, i'll replade her as well 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:13 PM
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Not at all. Im all for everyone having self respect. But to state all men are replacable.. women are just as replacable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:54 PM
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Just as women can be replaced. Maybe i'm in a luxury position and i'm nowhere near perfect.. But the same applies to women. So you have a bad deal for me? Sure go ahead and download tinder. I have other women lined up, either for sex or to date.. so i'm in no way, shape or form desperate for the attention of a woman that brings up bad deals. I know my worth as well as a man and i prefer to stay single than conform to a bad deal just to be with a woman. More men should know their worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:22 PM
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Because i don't want to deal with her kids. I don't want to invest my time, money and resources in kids that aren't mine. Heck even if we were to cohabitate, we would need to get a bigger house because of her kids (so i'm indirectly paying for then). If we would still cohabitate, i don't want to have the resonsibility of another person her kids. You made them, so you arrange all the stuff.. So let's say she is running late from work, i'm enjoying my day off, doing my thing or hanging out with my…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:13 AM
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Just assume she is talking, do the same! Never bet on one horse. Just see how it goes and if it works, it works! If not? Then just move on and focus on the others.
/r/seduction02/05/25 10:58 AM
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I treat everyone with respect regardless of job, title, status, ethnicity and sexual orientation. Also it's not like i'm rich by any means.. like i said, a bit above average salary. It's just as for a partner (girlfriend), i like her to be a bit ambitious, not only because it means she earns a bit more money, but because it means we both get to do cool/fun stuff while we both chip in, instead of me paying the majority/all of the expenses because she has a low paying job and doesn't see her self …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:12 PM
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Well then speak up to her as what you expect of her and want in a relationship. I too was in a relationship like that. I earn a bit above average european wage. My ex was still looking what to do. She was costing me a lot of money so i told her she needed to step up and contribute. She didn't want to, so i broke up. I also refuse to date a woman that has 0 ambitions and works fulltime at a gas station or Mcdonalds/bar whatever. Not because they are less/inferior than me, but because i want a cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:41 PM
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That is not entirely true tho lol. But if that is your view, that is fine. You never pay for anything in a relationship? In LTR i expect 50/50 or equal share according to income. No way i'm turning into a walking ATM.
/r/seduction20/04/25 04:56 PM
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Hhahah i love your honesty. You never did 50/50? Would you ever do 50/50? Yeah, don't you feel sorry for them?
/r/seduction19/04/25 07:54 PM
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I hate to admit but you're right. I was a loser... then i got fit and had more options.. i'm loyal once i have a gf.. but i'm also quick to break it off if it's not working for me.. that's cause i have options.
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:38 PM
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Hhaha how often does that succeed for you? I'm curious. That's the reason i don't do dinner dates unless she puts out lol.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:41 PM
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You're welcome 😘
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:27 PM
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Hahaha well you're welcome. It's nothing different than a man would do if he would act serious tho... Joke is, i'm transparent about my intentions. Besides women have been doing this stuff for ages ;) don't hate the player, hate the game. 😘
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:23 PM
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It can be BS. There are a multitude of reasons a woman will flake. Anyway you're always going to get such flakes as it's a trait women can show and some are not honest or unsure about their intentions. My method is: Match -> Fun convo -> Get number -> Voicemessage/Call (for her to get to hear my voice and tone of it) -> Set up a date -> Fun -> Keep her in rotation or dip. My flake rate has gone down quite a bit, but there are still some women that will pull this shit off. The trick is to have mo…
/r/seduction19/04/25 08:06 AM
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There are a lot of women.. see it as if you're both applying for a job. Be clear about your intentions. Spread your odds. See yourself as the price. Choose the best candidate if you want a LTR If they don't ask, don't tell. Assume they're doing the same. I have been there as well, it's a matter of getting used to knowing and having options. Don't put women on a pedestal and say stuff you don't mean.
/r/seduction19/04/25 06:45 AM
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Don't play. If she doesn't take action to meet, you take action and leave.
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:38 AM
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In the past 12 months.. wow i don't really remember.. I do have to say my game is mostly through online apps (OLD). I could say things are more clear and i can "read" women better online than in real life. After talking online it goes pretty flawless to real life. (180 bodycount). In real life, i'd think maybe 3 in the last 12 months? 1 straight out rejected me. 2 gave me their numbers only to reject me after a couple of days of chatting prior to setting up a date. I'm okay with rejection though…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:39 PM
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I don't know, but i have had ex-girlfriends that gamed.. AND were hot. I even cohabitated with one, she bought an additional tv and an Xbox, so we both had days were we played co-op games together on the couch, discover new games to play together.. and obviously do other stuff than playing videogames. Pretty negative outlook you have. Those were the best relationships i had. It unfortunately ended because i strive for a childfree life and they wanted kids. 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:20 PM
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I read that less than 1% of men aren't the father.. it's just one percent, but still more than none. It should be mandatory or standard procedure, because the only person that knows for sure is the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:02 AM
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A big majority of women would seriously date a famous/superstar type guy above you if she had the chance. So you're just a placeholder or 2nd best thing because she couldn't get the first best thing. It's up to you what you do with that information. For me, even if i have to compete against a regular guy and she chose to be with him first, it fails and she comes back to me... i'll say no. I'm either the first pick or no pick.
/r/seduction03/04/25 11:01 AM
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I'd suggest a Star Wars midget gangbang for starters. That will warm her up fo sho!
/r/seduction01/04/25 05:24 PM
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Nice cherry picking tho. I'm not saying that, but you're taking things out of context to fit your narrative. Both man and woman should have to work and contribute equally to raise their kids. Why should a man be the only one to work, while she sits at home and gets money? I'd bet that some fathers would like to stay at home more, earn your own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:10 AM
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Yeah, but you portray giving birth as the fault of the man. 🤷🏾‍♂️ The pay is often more than it should be. Women here can sit on their asses, claim child support and barely work.. while the man has to work to pay said child support and barely gets to see their kid(s). Also by marrying, if you divorce, the man has to pay partner-alimony for the x amount of years they were married. Complete BS, because she can just get her ass to work instead of receiving compensation for existing. Marriage is a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:02 AM
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This post reaks of "women sad and helpless, man bad!" I have no wish to become a father, yet seriously 99 procent of the women i have met, and i have met quite a few, want kids, often resulting in the relationship or dating phase to end due to me being childfree. Yet you seem the put arguments that women draw the short stick and are victims. I mean, sure there are enough men that are assholes and don't carry their weight, but don't portrat like it's the woman doing the man a favour by having a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:45 AM
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Needle in a haystack my friend. Still searching for one.
/r/seduction22/03/25 06:58 PM
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Being introverted or extraverted has nothing to do with how your family raised you. It has to do with how your brain is wired... Besides i know rist takers that take stupid risks and life fucks them over, as to where i play it safe and never really got into serious trouble. Some of the traits your describing have nothing to do with having a good upbring but are personality traits
/r/seduction22/03/25 11:30 AM
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Yes. Dual Income No Children or DINK (Kids)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:55 PM
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That is why i prefer dating apps. The interest is already there. So having a good profile and good chat makes it pretty easy. As to in real life some women might even feel pressured to give their number, only to flake afterwards so you basically lost time in my opinion. Although i would say women that you meet out and about will be most likely of higher quality and also not all the women will be on dating apps. So if you only do OLD, you will most out on quite some women.
/r/seduction10/03/25 03:20 PM
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And what for you made it different from doing online/dating apps? I actually prefer dating apps (as they work really well for me). I can filter by looks, hobby, political, religious, educational level. Have more conversations with more women at the same time and make genuine connections with women whilst not spend so much time going out and about to "find" someone. Then again, now that i think of it meeting in real life has it's charms i guess. Never the less online is way more relaxed and strai…
/r/seduction09/03/25 12:31 PM
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Yeah well, you don't want a woman to settle for you right? You want a woman that WANTS you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:11 PM
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What makes them nasty?
/r/seduction11/02/25 08:18 PM
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I mean, i can cook, clean, wash, do all the chores.. i'm just not willing to pay the share of a woman so i can have consistent sex with her, while she keeps all her money. i can get that without paying so.. So yeah, i'd love an equal relationship and companionship. We both contribute, we both work, we both do our share and enjoy and grow together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:20 PM
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Because women more often than not, marry up. Men are consired providers unfortuntely and women most of the times marry a man who can provide, which often means money. So them signing away money feels bad. In my opinion both partners should provide to each other and complement each other. No way i'm paying money to a woman that isn't currently doing anything for me. Then again, i'm more of a 50/50 or equal effort to money you both gain. I don't need a woman to cook or clean, i can do that myself.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:19 PM
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It depends on the type of woman i would say. I live in Europe, a country where cars are very expensive. I drive a regular car. It's nice but nothing special. Whenever i drive in it, i get no looks or anything. Every year i have to drop the car of for an annual check at the garage. Every year i rent a car for the duration that mine is at the garage. They give me the newest version of the car that i have, and everytime when i'm in that rental car, i get quite some looks from women. Either smiling …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:54 PM
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I see where you're going at. I have created my own method of dealing with this issue. 1# I NEVER take a woman out for dinner on the first couple of dates. If a woman suggest i take her out for food and drinks on the first date, i'm out. Here in Europe regular eating out is an easy 100+ euro's, depending on the restaurant. I'm not spending 100+ euro's on someone i don't know. 2# I only do cheap dates as first dates. Couple of drinks and rounds of pool/snooker. Cheap, fun activity and you can have…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:02 AM
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Interest can turn into desire ;)
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:12 AM
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Tinder is easy, since you already have a match, so there is a slight bit of interest. Have a fun chat, enjoy, be interested. After you established a good vibe. Exchange numbers. Chat through whatsapp/text. Make an appointment to call. If that goes well suggest a date. Insta cold approach is harder as it's cold approach in between all the DM's. I have had some succes there, but far in between. Catchy opener and apply stuff from above. My text game is pretty good if i say so myself.
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:49 AM
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Could you tell me what bars those are? Asking for a friend 😜
/r/seduction04/11/24 08:41 PM
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Exactly! It's not black or white! But to give up at the slightest, nah. Definately don't pursue if it's obvious she is not feeling it.
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:49 PM
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Jist shoot your shot. I have laid some women from facebook and insta. Even though i'm not flashy and live the luxury life. Have to say the succes rate is way lower than on tinder and apps similae to that.
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:40 PM
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Or be persuasive.. i often succeeded by saying: "Whats the worst that can happen? Worst case scenario we have a drink and a chat, best case scenario you ask me to marry you by the 2nd month." Throw in a bit of humor.
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:56 PM
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Yeah! But it won't be very direct because of the nature of the contact. There was this cute asian girl that made poké bowls. I used to frequent the location due to work. First smiling and some small talk, then proceeded to some longer in depth convo's. Eventually i just asked her number when i felt the vibe was good. Chatted for a bit, called, flirted. I fumbled because i was talking to a lot of women at the same time and didn't give her enough attention. And she also wanted to be taken on prope…
/r/seduction28/09/24 09:46 AM
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The majority of women i meet i do this with. My way of doing things: Chat for a bit Establish good vibe when (video)calling Have fun conversation. She now knows it's safe to meet. Set up date at my or her place. Buy a bottle of wine and remind her there are no expectations. Have fun.. Maximum profit, minimal loss. It doesn't alwayd work, but does work quite often.
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:44 PM
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How i do it is.. i just text/call when i'm engaged in the conversations. Otherwise i'm working/doing my own things. If they're really cool i will talk consitantly, meet with them and have sex with them. They'll stick around as long as it's fun and good vibes. If multiple women want to meet on the same day, i'll pick the one i want to see the most at the moment and tell the others i already had plans and reschedule dates. Easy.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:27 PM
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