Infidelchick Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	For the women and non binary people on this sub I’m 100% biased. I said I’m a feminist - it’s a political position. Don’t mind what else you accuse me of, but failing to acknowledge my bias is a bit rich. I wasn’t aware from reading the rules that this was supposed to be a safe space - sorry if so. Hopefully my other comments have added some context, even if we’re unlikely to agree much.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/26 08:42 AM
0	For the women and non binary people on this sub Sorry - I didn’t mean to not reply to your thoughtful comment. Run of night shifts. I was going to reply in substance, but I’m legit knackered. Just wanted to say I’ve read it and am listening. While I don’t think we agree, your way of putting your perspective is helpful.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/26 08:38 AM
-5	For the women and non binary people on this sub Tbh I think I agree with you. I was thinking of spaces that I hang out in - dedicated women-only feminist groups - where discussion of men is actually very limited and mostly pretty analytical. I’ve had my attention drawn to places that I don’t tend to hang out, and I accept that there are a lot of sweeping statements that I would find offensive if I were a man. Because we don’t share a fundamental understanding of the power dynamics between men and women (I assume), I can see that there’s no wa…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/26 08:26 AM
-7	For the women and non binary people on this sub Sorry, I crashed after an unpaid night shift. Tbh I’ve engaged in good faith and I’m not going to respond to someone who repeatedly accuses me of lying, esp because I wasn’t on reddit for a bit.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/03/26 05:34 AM
1	For the women and non binary people on this sub I’m quite new to this particular sub, so if I’m just pulling out more general points, apologies - I’ll get more across it, I’m sure. Some initial thoughts: I think it’s fair to say that as women demand expanded social roles and status, there should be commensurate expansion of what is acceptable from men. What that looks like beneficially for men is somewhat in your guys’ hands, but I’ll do my best to ally in support. I understand from conversations with my son among other young men that there’s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 10:14 PM
0	For the women and non binary people on this sub True it is that you are welcome to talk how you want. It was an answer to a specific question about the current perception of the movement.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 09:40 PM
-8	For the women and non binary people on this sub I wasn’t talking about sex crimes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 09:35 PM
2	For the women and non binary people on this sub Mostly in person, yeah: some dedicated activist spaces such as radfem action groups, some professional and academic associations. Also social media. Also mixed sex social groups with a strong left wing bias. Curious as to what spaces you’re lurking in? Maybe I should expand my exposure and come back to the conversation.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 09:13 PM
-3	For the women and non binary people on this sub It’s a legit question. I guess I’d wonder how we were exposed to such very different subsets, as I do here. The idea of anyone saying that men should be presumed criminal until proven otherwise is not one that I’ve encountered in a variety of feminist contexts, nor would it get much if any play. I get that our experiences are different, but maybe it’s worth listening to me saying that many feminists don’t say or think such things, and agree that they are out of line?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 08:58 PM
1	For the women and non binary people on this sub Yeah, your first point is probably right, and I do try to give the benefit of the doubt to what seem like reflexively hateful comments. One of the problems for all of us is that a lot of loud idiots say things that are attributed to the group as a whole. Some things that I read and hear don’t have apparent alternative readings. It’s also likely that we’re all pretty siloed - the genuine, committed feminist spaces I have access to are not likely the same that you are exposed to, and quite probabl…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 08:40 PM
-6	For the women and non binary people on this sub Ok. Sounds like bad friends. I’m sorry that happened to you. Since I live with three men while I care about greatly, I spend a bit of time thinking about how things affect them emotionally and otherwise actually. Leaving aside the more general application of empathy. To be honest, I was interested in someone asking what appeared to be a good faith question about how to further the men’s rights movement in less polarizing ways, but downvotes for disagreement and accusations of dishonesty kind of …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 08:14 PM
-5	For the women and non binary people on this sub I answered the question that was asked, not a question about good things in men and their activism or the converse.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 06:21 PM
-18	For the women and non binary people on this sub I haven’t really seen that in feminist spaces, and I’m not sure what feminist spaces men are commonly hanging out in where they are seeing it. Of course venting is fine. Absolutes are unhelpful, and I was responding to the question directly regarding what would lead to more empathy for men. Not my circus, not my monkeys, but the question was posed to women and non-binary folk, so I gave it a shot.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 06:13 PM
-16	For the women and non binary people on this sub No, actually. I haven’t had that experience. The reason for using both terms is because it’s common in MRA spaces to use feminist when referring to non-feminist women.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 06:09 PM
-8	For the women and non binary people on this sub Fair enough. Pretty sure he doesn’t - we have some really mutually supportive conversations about men’s and women’s rights issues.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 06:07 PM
-45	For the women and non binary people on this sub As the feminist mother of a young adult son, I’m interested in freedom from gender strictures for everyone. I’m here, among other places, to listen to the issues that concern men. I have always subscribed to the kind of radical feminism that considers the dismantling of conventional gender roles and power structures to be beneficial for both sexes. As to building empathy, tbh stopping the incessant bitching about women/“feminists” would be a great step. Before people come for me, sure there’s pr…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 02:39 PM
4	Feel really scared after reading what women wrote online. Is this satire?	/r/MensRights	18/02/26 12:16 PM
-8	Chores, we need to talk about chores. Is this satire?	/r/MensRights	20/01/26 07:19 AM
-9	According to a 2024 OnePoll Survey, 82% of Men Say Physical Affection from a Partner Is What Makes Them the Happiest Alienation of affection is a legal wrong committed by a third party against a spouse. Not an intra-marriage concept. Very archaic.	/r/MensRights	20/01/26 01:29 AM
5	The strange relationship between feminism and men's rights. Written by chatgpt. Thoughts? This is a weird myth I see perpetuated on Reddit. Feminism has always been for women: it’s in the name. We just argue that it can have benefits for men too as the strictures of gender controls are forced to relax. In my view any worthwhile feminism requires a rethinking of power structures from the bottom up rather than equality within the existing hierarchies and. I assume that equality is most feminists’ end goal, but that isn’t the same thing as saying feminism was made other than for women, …	/r/MensRights	14/01/26 03:47 PM