InfiniteScrubland Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What have your experiences been like having serious discussions about sex with partners?		InfiniteScrubland	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 06:25 AM

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-4	Bearded Guy Regrets Nothing women need to take care of themselves as much as men do But... generally women are the ones wearing makeup, removing body hair, and afaik feel more shame about their bodies (or at least have a higher rate of eating disorders). So I don't really get this statement.	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/08/20 03:50 AM
7	FDS: If he deserves a mind reader, you do too True, but studies also show women do better when reminded that women are meant to be good at this sort of thing. Just like studies showing women performing worse at maths etc when reminded women aren't supposed to be good at maths. Our expectations of our own performance are very relevant. And our own expectations come from societies expectations.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 05:41 AM
15	FDS: If he deserves a mind reader, you do too https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0146167201276007 From the abstract: The first study demonstrated that women’s advantage held only when women were given a task assessing their feelings of sympathy toward the target prior to performing the empathic accuracy task. The second study demonstrated that payments in exchange for accuracy improved the performance of both men and women and wiped out any difference between men’s and women’s performances Yup.. they're fine at it, they just lack the …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 05:16 AM
5	The bar is SO LOW. Literally it’s national news that a guy was honest with a woman he was dating by telling her he wasn’t ready to be exclusive. Do you want a f@cking medal? Wtf is unforgiveness? Him not forgiving her? Upset over not forgiving him? Him needing to forgive himself for shitty behaviour? No idea what he's trying to say.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 06:36 AM
15	The trash took itself out Haha classic. "Hey, I'm not okay with your behaviour in this situation." "Oh no I am garbage plz comfort me".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 03:10 AM
13	This book I’m reading has an interesting part on classic pick me behaviour. Written by a clinical psychologist. Damn, past me feels personally attacked	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 03:08 AM
3	Have any of you gotten over your BDSM kink? Yes. I took a stint on an SSRI and read a number of books on sexuality, pornography, psychology and radical feminism. At first I just knew logically it was causing me harm but after that it just didn't have the same effect on me anymore. Sometimes I'm still a little tempted to go more "extreme" in the erotica I still read because I know it will get me there faster... But I choose not to. A slower build up feels healthier and more satisfying. And interestingly it's made me so much more aware of w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/20 03:10 PM
2	Has anyone visited /r/seduction? Urg, that sub is the worst. When it comes to sex they seem to always be like "a woman prefers it when you ignore her sexual pleasure and only focus on your own". What a convenient "truth" for men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/19 11:58 AM
7	The 'He's just not that into you' lie At least the "he's just not that into you" strategy leads to the right actions - if he's not treating you well, move on. But you're right. I had an ex who treated me like crap and I always had this nagging feeling like "when he meets the right girl he'll step up to the plate, why am I not worth it?". Then when I finally broke up with him he kept coming to me for emotional support, blaming me for the how depressed I left him, telling me how much he loved me. He wouldn't have stepped up for anyone…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 01:41 PM