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Field ReportInfinite_Relation_86/r/seduction17/06/21 09:16 PM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too BroadInfinite_Relation_86/r/seduction10/06/21 09:24 PM
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Field ReportInfinite_Relation_86/r/seduction12/08/21 03:37 AM
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That makes sense as he has an actual lab and been at it for over like 20 years or something. I also saw someone with a relationship phd talking and they where framing some red pill things a bit more nuanced and in more detail then the red pill does. To some extent I do think the red pill operates based on certain knowledge and not others. The trick is to try to make all this eventually into actual theories of both attraction and dating and relationship formation. Like that’s what’s actually need…
/r/askMRP11/01/23 03:58 PM
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How is that there e incentive unless they are doing individual therapy too, which ussually they are not. It’s also not like they tend to have profit sharing agreements between different therapists. So that’s unlikley to be true. Also there is going to be a selection bias for who even goes to marriage therapy. I do wonder what sort of dx people in marriage therapy would typically have and what that kinda outcomes for pairs between them?
/r/askMRP11/01/23 03:47 PM
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Crazy can be interesting if you are well versed on what your dealing with. Just don’t commit too it.
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:54 AM
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Look up Todd v on youtube
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:54 AM
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I second this, any relative I know calling me should know they come 2nd in the list of priorities right after 1. Getting pussy. If the two conflict, which they shouldn’t tyipically, it’s an easy choice.
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:17 AM
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I don’t know, thanks to testosterone I typically assume I have more muscle than her and could overpower her if I ever litterally needed to. On top of it, typically it’s me that suggest we go to her place by asking how far she lives from here. And then being like, want to hang there. So I don’t typically feel like she is trying to drag me somewhere to jump me, I’m typically driving most of the experience.
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:21 AM
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Let’s here failures of cold approach, like how did it ever blow up in your face? I’ve seen a few before.
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:08 AM
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Yeah I used remnote to make flash cards out of those things he points out in there
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:22 AM
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Why, it at least established a preference and still finds a way to say they are attractive.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:49 AM
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Or just say “your not hot to me, but would be to my attractive freind” or vice VESA. Much simpler way of saying it
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:41 AM
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Body positivity movement works such that “your beautiful, until your more beautiful than me”
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:40 AM
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Pass those thinner girls my way please, lol
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:39 AM
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I would argue it’s possible to be too jacked for a women’s taste, but like 90% of men won’t ever get to that point. Women who say they like dad bods are either going after that thinking they themselves won’t get rejected. Girls do like muscles. They can say in hindsight that they aren’t much but in the moment they like them
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:50 AM
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That’s why we got 4 foot women out there
/r/seduction26/08/21 04:33 AM
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If a guy approached you, that physical check already occured. If a guy responds to a girl, that check has already occured.
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:53 AM
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You got to learn to manage your state and do the thing any way. Look up girls chase website
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:30 AM
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I mean who cares, as long as they aren’t all freinds and talking.
/r/seduction13/08/21 05:58 AM
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Getting laid right away is a good way to get her committed early. You don’t have to commit right away.
/r/seduction13/08/21 05:25 AM
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I actually joked with the girl who said she was a stripper. I gave her a deep dive into the psychology of the liberal and conservative temperment based on big 5 and other things about them. And we agreed that the liberal guy might just think it’s kinda cool, but the conservative one would critique it, but then be the one in the club spending dat money!
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:27 AM
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What judgment did I make exactly? That I was glad she didn’t only strip? I didn’t assume she was a prostitute. And I’m pretty sure I’m secure in myself enough to date one if this one goes anywhere.
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:57 AM
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Just realize at some point your going to die and given that, do any of these hesitancy and reasons not do to something matter?
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:31 AM
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Yeah but then they would have to deal with the fact that like half the kids aren’t attractive. There was evidence that historically 80% of women reproduced and only 40% of men. School just exists to support the economy, not so much us.
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:20 AM
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And if it dosent work sometimes you can turn that plan into day game or something else
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:45 AM
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Start lifting, you can have a bigger physique and watch Jeff nippards fundamental series on his YouTube channel.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:44 AM
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Yeah, it’s like thank religion and well everyone else’s collective insecurities for never teaching either of us any of this shit
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:37 AM
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Just saying, I had a girl practically bring me up to their bed and somehow I was so not sexually activated and knowledgeable about women at the time that I did nothing. So I have kinda been In your shoes man. Hang in there it gets better. But do your self a favor and approach 50 women while reading a girls chase article now and then.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:21 AM
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That could just be a natural rise and fall of marketing hustle culture. It is a hustle to produce content and stuff. I have had zero problem finding plenty of resources. The ones your talking about, either they whet my good enough to begin with or they just moved on to something else. And if it’s disappearing it could be because a lot of guys have gone the black pill route.
/r/seduction20/07/21 07:06 AM
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Don’t get what exactly?
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:16 AM
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I think a lot of what they do too, is just get guys over approach anxiety. along with some other tactics or information.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:15 AM
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I don’t know about you, but I eventually just translated misogynistic into “something women apparently don’t like” and to be honest, that’s not always a bad thing.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:14 AM
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Why in the world would it disappear. The whole point of evolution is that nature wants us to have sex with many females (as men). It is a niche that many guys need to fix their problems with women. So how in the world would that ever disappear?
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:11 AM
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If adderall is affecting your sex then it’s likley the dosage not the adderal it self.
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:43 AM
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Guys need 3 things to get girls, Looks , game , affluence. 2 of 3 work.
/r/seduction18/07/21 07:59 PM
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Check out Jeff nippards fundamental series of videos on his channel that goes through fundamental science behind lifting. Beginners can build muscle on a deficit, intermediates at maintenance calories, and advanced people need a surplus. Regardless of what level you are, a slight surplus helps. I assume my lifting for a couple hours burns like 208 ish calories that I eat further. Don’t trust map my run to tell you how many calories your burning lifting currently it’s good for running and trackin…
/r/seduction18/07/21 07:57 PM
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Got any adivice on how you learned to talk with them?
/r/seduction17/07/21 08:52 AM
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Girls chase is a great website to read articles on
/r/seduction17/07/21 08:51 AM
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Tell him about asymmetric returns. You go through a lot of rejections , but when you strike gold, you strike gold. Got a girl worshiping my cock now and doing what ever I want because I kept going. But I had to go through a lot of rejections.
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:38 AM
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What are these tactics oh obiwan?
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:57 PM
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I was oblivious during high school. I was just happy to have some good freinds. And stumbled into a couple relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:31 AM
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Either that or it’s just “hi”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:27 AM
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People who stay in shape and work at it nutrition and fitness. Ages don’t matter as much. Your age fixture is not a big deal, even if some women think it is, your looking for the women that dosent mind it. Sides go for the young ones and know all men deal with lots of rejections and learn game from girls chase site and get moving. Join a gym, watch Jeff nippards fundamental series of videos on YouTube . Also check out bro science life on youtube. If you ever pick up a weight, hilarious.
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:00 AM
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You def learn this working out in the gym. Everyone just be different start at different times eat different etc.
/r/seduction11/07/21 10:04 PM
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I did def learn that. I got a cougar now that is just thrilled to be dating a guy with muscles and in shape and that had had a chance to learn a lot and been teaching her stuff I’ve learned.
/r/seduction11/07/21 04:48 AM
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It can be because they don’t grasp the need for doing it and the freedom it brings, but also because they think it’s a bit predatory or makes it a numbers game which are both BS excuses. You do you man! Power to you!
/r/seduction11/07/21 04:46 AM
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I see also that your a chick, this is a part of manhood that girls just either don’t have to deal with or opt out of learning entirely.
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:57 PM
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It’s how it works. Successful people have a system. Sides we are just pieces of meat to each other any way. Just different types of meat. Women are beauty objects and men are success objects.
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:53 PM
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I think it was amoungst a community of people that identified or participated in the bdsm community they had access too. The stark difference just made me think even if they did this more broadly, the trend would stay the same. The only issue is outside of that Committeee, people might not necessarily identify and it might be a matter of degree. At same time we know women fantasize about submission often and typically want to be manhandled to some extent. So this kinda checks out. Even “strong i…
/r/seduction09/07/21 07:40 PM
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No.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:02 PM
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Yes, learn the skills. It takes effort and growth
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:01 PM
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Actually had a fat chick once pretty much promise to support me and pay for my lifestyle just for being her boyfriend. You can get some interesting treatment if you do.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:56 AM
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But be careful with what you accept, some obese people just assume they can’t loose enough weight or that it’s impossible
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:38 AM
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They aren’t professional but if they have a good reason and story behind them I don’t quite mind. The neck does seem like an odd place to get one.
/r/seduction08/07/21 01:45 AM
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does a 400 hundred body count really matter if you find all these women repulsive. it wasnt till my freind explained how to have sex with fat chicks that i even considered it. ( you apparently just stop caring and make it their responsibility to make and keep you hard, so when they are like "is this happening?" you just tell them they got to get you going) if you understand that "pretty privledge" does actually exists ( just watch a vide of a previous fat chick that suddenly got in really good s…
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:59 PM
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im 34 and i have had 17 partners. i had a 7 year relationship in there during my 20's and relationships before that that werent that long clearly. i didnt really learn the reality behind how women operate till I was like 33 and still learning stuff now, so despite being adhd and a bit quirky at times, i think i did pretty well out of just sheer dumb luck. girls chase website is good for articles. but operate by researching each phase and questions you have about moving forward. learn to approach…
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:47 PM
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And right after “which way does she prefer her toilet paper, over or under?”
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:59 PM
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I’d ask “are you or have you ever been an agent of darkness?”
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:58 PM
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I told my dad who kept saying a girl was either too young or not in his league. I told him, it’s not that she’s not in your league, it’s that currently your not putting in the work to be roughly the same league. If you put in the work - looks(gym,dress,nutria toon,hygien) develop game , and develop some affluence, you got the trifecta.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:57 PM
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I think you kinda somewhat created your own issue tbh. At same time I had an issue having sex when I didn’t want it. So no shade being thrown here. At same time we just need to be open to playing around how we feel comfortable (like you could have kissed her a bit more if wanted and been ok). To some extent you just need to not give a F. Like really, if you want it you want it, if you don’t you don’t. But don’t be closed off from the things that might trigger and evoke your desire. That can chan…
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:53 PM
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I would never stay with a girl that didn’t give me all of her. If she ain’t at the very least sexually submissive to me, why am I even there.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:16 AM
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Epiphany phase! Lol,
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:15 AM
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look up girls chase website. def worth it. google resources to learn to talk to women. men need looks (gym, diet, nutrition, dress, grooming, hygiene etc) Game (social skills, approach and open and get talking to women and men and people alike, and talk to everybody just to get moving, and read articles on how to do this stuff. manage your state , deep breaths, there is no perfect moment and windows close fast often, so get to it while managing your state, and working on opening and getting them…
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:32 AM
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look at the research on tinder for instance. Women reject 80% of the guys on their. Men sacrifice looks on online dating for commitment. Whereas women sacrifice commitment for better looking men. The meth head part kinda confuses me. Are you just looking for easy pussy or what?
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:37 AM
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I don’t agree with this. I saw on a bdsm survey once. 94% of women where submissive. And something like 25% of the guys where submissive. So no wonder you get these girls acting like dominant queens. The market share supports it.
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:57 AM
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You need to learn to manage your state. Deep breaths , but not waste the moment as their is no perfect one and windows close fast at times.
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:54 AM
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Bam! Now you got a taste, Read an article or two for every time you go out approaching and learn to polish your approach, talk to women, vocal tone, and even how you get talking to them.
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:53 AM
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Women can see you as a creep just because you haven’t learned certain skills yet or haven’t gotten their yet, they can see you as creep because in their head “your following them” but yet you never actually where or even noticed them. It can be they find you less attractive than their standard. It can be as simple as that. It’s not sociopathic. I’m just telling guys if it happens to never identify with that. Improve your skills, become more polished. Let girls be girls. You can’t control how the…
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:32 AM
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Why do youn even care if a girl thinks your a creep. Your projecting a possible social ostracism thing and identifying with it and using it as an excuse not to. At some point your going to die, so just say “f**k it!”
/r/seduction06/07/21 05:35 AM
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Learn to send out approach invitations. In pickup they teach guys to recognize them.
/r/seduction29/06/21 01:11 AM
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Everything is a game , if it has rules and predictable things we can rely on. And trends we see a lot in people. It’s game . And also game is also defined by anything where your dependent on what the other person does. Keeps it interesting, part art and science. I’m def not an incel.
/r/seduction19/06/21 07:59 AM
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Yeah I’ve been meaning to better study female game. Certain things I get totally are playing us. Whether intentionally or not.
/r/seduction19/06/21 02:46 AM
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If you take them, you need to stay on them forever. Could give you low t in the end.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:03 AM
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Yeah, it felt like me just trying to create a certain answer out of her. And was a stab at trying to tilt her in that direction, but it felt like it cut things off at that point.
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:45 AM
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Look up , girls chase and get your self a coach Also, read books on becoming more social to start. Popularity is basically making people feel like you understand them a thousand times over. It’s the same process. Learn to do it with one person then repeat
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:21 PM
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Thanks. Yeah. Def figure it out.
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:28 PM
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We all get nervous, state control, take some deep slow breaths going in , no more than 3 or 4 before you start.
/r/seduction14/06/21 06:45 AM
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Gotten dates by just stopping women walking alone before. I was on my bike but just stopped and was like “would you be interested in getting together?”
/r/seduction14/06/21 06:36 AM
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Power to you man. Make sure you to take some breaths to manage your state before heading in if you ever notice your voice become higher than it needs to Be. Anxiety, and approach anxiety can cause that to happen and I realized it was just a matter of controlling my state as I went in. Still need like 3 sec rule to do it or not, but this occurs as you walk up.
/r/seduction13/06/21 12:46 AM
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Good for you then! Just couldn’t tell from everything if that was a factor or not from what was written. just keep at it. I’m 4 months in and have added some muscle for sure.
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:32 AM
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I’m with him on “WTF DOES TOXIc masculinity mean here?
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:31 AM
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Also, think of it this way, You need to have a strong enough ego to handle any sort of rejection and not take it personally to heart but also use it constructivley.
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:30 AM
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Not sure what you look like, but if not consider hitting the gym. Jeff nippard on youtube his fundamental series of videos after watching really demystified lifting to me a lot.
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:29 AM
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Don’t expect to be a porn star. After the first time you can learn techniques and stuff. Def use manual stimulation on her first before entering. Get her wet.
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:27 AM
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There is also the factor of attain ability and feeling secure in a relationship, women who prefer the dad bod are really just feel they have less to keep up with then.
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:28 AM
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Unless you plan on impregnating her, why commit to her.
/r/seduction06/06/21 05:55 AM
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One needs to manage their state , take some long slow breaths.
/r/seduction06/06/21 12:34 AM
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That 9 can easily turn into lower number of one considers other aspects of a woman. I doubt she is perfect in every way
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:29 AM
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Women don’t look at just looks as much as guys do. And looks only get you in the door. They don’t get one to stay.
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:27 AM
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Follow the 3 second rule, deep breath to control your state going in to slow heart rate. And just go in understanding that it’s a volume game and even the best guys get shot down all the time.
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:21 PM
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