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I loved your dedication to it yeah 😂 although nothing is beating that sext you responded to by talking about vomiting up chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:36 PM
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My husband would have this cat out of our house so fast I wouldn’t even get an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:29 PM
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You have seen enough porn to last a lifetime tbf. I see 99% less dicks than I used to cause of you 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:27 PM
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Based based based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:16 PM
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You can absolutely say you prefer men to women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:07 PM
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OH NO!!!! WHATEVER WILL THESE ANONYMOUS INTERNET STRANGERS THINK OF YOU IF YOU’RE POLITICALLY INCORRECT???? THE HORROOOOOR!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:52 PM
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You can just say woman bad. Don’t have to get all cryptic about it jeezo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:46 PM
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Oh you mean the one also responsible for 90% of the murders? I see, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:46 PM
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I am also noodle pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:45 PM
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Valid. But also. The fuck does noodle pilled mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:30 PM
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A man of science and reasoning I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:29 PM
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Divorced middle aged men and zoomers. What a beautiful combination. Well if we’ve got the whole gender wars stuff all done, maybe we can solve the Middle East next.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:29 PM
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Well what reason did you give
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:24 PM
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So did you guys figure out if men or women are worse yet? Not been here in a while. Assuming you got that stuff all ironed out by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:20 PM
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Are you guys not speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:09 PM
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I spoke to him yesterday and he said he’s over it all and not really bothered by discord now so even if he’s in it he’s not active.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:55 PM
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Both not in it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:52 PM
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Yuk not there either and the alt of Bob is banned too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:51 PM
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Also he’s not in the new server so accept the invite goddammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:50 PM
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Does Bob still comment in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:49 PM
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Come back to discord!!!! Also how can you be a catholic now when you’re so pro abortion 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:45 PM
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Are there any redpillers left? Make yourself known.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:01 PM
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I wouldn’t have an issue dating a bi man. That being said, I think the prejudice against them is likely due to perceptions of sexual unfaithfulness, STIs and the plain old ingrained biphobic ick a lot of folks have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:58 PM
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Shredded men are dull and neurotic. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:54 PM
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Could not agree with any of this more. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:00 PM
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She would be doing him a favour if she leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:21 PM
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Yeah it’s a new study, not the retracted one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:28 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:16 PM
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He mentioned he’s quite a sensitive guy so I’m putting it down to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:05 PM
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Erm. In this scenario I’m a divorced woman and I’d be fine with this tbh. Cause the thought of getting that intensely serious with another person again doesn’t appeal and so I don’t care if he’s fucking his ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:30 PM
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Depends how virile you are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:09 PM
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I work in a male dominated industry and while you may get the odd dickhead, 99% are professional and cool. None of what you’ve posted is universal to the female experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:03 PM
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They’re nice to old women and women like my mum too. She always gets doors opened for her or asked to cut in line or whatever. Maybe it’s just a British thing then? I do think men are generally pleasant to be around. You get absolute arseholes obviously though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:56 PM
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Is your mum a short British woman? 😂 cause same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:51 PM
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The absolute hatred for fat people online sickens me tbh. But I don’t know if it’s gendered. Seems to be shaming across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:46 PM
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Low self esteem and sense of self
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:39 PM
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I have the opposite of whatever resting bitchface is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:39 PM
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Got the DIY I needed done completed ✅ Now for a celebratory beer and White Lotus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:38 PM
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Just @ me next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:35 PM
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Yeah. Frequently told to “go out and don’t be a weirdo”, “stop reading and go to a nightclub (underaged), then you might get a boy to kiss you” and “what do you mean you only got 90% in your Chem test?”. My mum is a character
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:27 PM
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Those fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:22 PM
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Don’t vaguepost. Tell me who I need to be mad at!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:19 PM
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I had parents that encouraged me to underage drink and go to parties but also to get straight As under pain of death. Not sure if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:19 PM
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Yeah. I married the dude and he may be in his early 30s like me but he’s a pensioner at heart ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:17 PM
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Erm. I wouldn’t say I’m all that attractive physically. But I’m smiley/pleasant/chatty/friendly. And men respond well to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:16 PM
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It’s genuinely scary 😧
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:13 PM
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Least you can’t catch anything from an online affair, bright side and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:12 PM
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As a millenial woman I find men around me are still generally quite chivalrous. I guess this must be a gen z thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:09 PM
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There are scary points. But it’s not common if things are going right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:08 PM
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Caring about rings is dumb AF
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:04 PM
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That’s how I felt when I tried an opioid once. Most blissful experience of my life. Will never touch the stuff again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:49 PM
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Maybe she likes the humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:41 PM
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I’d think he was a wanker but if that’s how he wanted to behave then good fucking riddance tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:46 AM
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Oh just realised you weren’t OP. I think doing badly with the opposite sex is sadly something that happens to a lot of people. Without knowing you personally, it’s hard to pinpoint the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:48 AM
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Question. Are these the women who are soft bullying, dick measuring, malevolent, talking behind backs etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:46 AM
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I don’t mean to sounds like a bitch, but this may come across that way. If you come across a few assholes in day to day life, that’s a shame and I feel bad for you. But if the majority of places you are end up that toxic, then maybe it’s a you issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:38 AM
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Hard to argue with this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:33 AM
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Do you just sit in your home with the tv off in silence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 AM
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Same!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 AM
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Fuck me, you must be paying a fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 AM
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Q4A what subscriptions are worth paying for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:23 AM
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Maybe that would make me feel less bad about how behind I am in home repairs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:18 AM
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A maybe you should drink more 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:17 AM
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Oh neat. That sounds really cool. Enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:12 AM
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I wish I liked doing DIY half as much as I enjoyed watching reels of people doing DIY.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:11 AM
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What you got planned?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:06 AM
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Mood
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:45 AM
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At the time I was convinced I wanted someone “more mature”. And so wanted older. I ended up dating someone from real life rather than the apps shortly after that and he was a year younger. So my preference/age range was stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:16 AM
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I was on tinder years ago age 23 and my age range was 23-29 I thiiiink. Maybe 23-30. Now, 11 years later I’d be going 30-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:26 AM
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Are red pillers actually redpill these days? Seems like the old ways have died off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:51 PM
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Dating a guy you’re friends with first is nice. You get to a good level of trust early on which is sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:18 PM
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I was more meaning for fun tbh. Obv if your livelihood is at stake that makes for a less interesting question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:09 PM
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Sorta defeats the purpose of an either/or question
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:08 PM
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My theory that men would mostly answer non fic and women would answer fic is coming true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:05 PM
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What sort of fiction do you like to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:54 PM
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What sort of work do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:53 PM
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Q4A if you could only read fiction or non fiction for the rest of your life, what would you pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:51 PM
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What makes you think it’s rare. I know so many good dads, including my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:43 PM
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I’ll do what I do every year. Yo-yo diet and hate myself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:26 PM
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Paying for first dates - no, I’ve always paid half. Buying flowers weekly - no but flowers a couple times a year are nice. I buy him sweets. Sidewalk rule - nah Opening the door - he does it when I’m in a fancy outfit for a wedding or something as a joke but otherwise, no. Pulling out chair - no. But he always offers me the banquette seating which I prefer. That’s nice. Gifts every month or two - gifts make me feel obligated to buy him gifts so I prefer we stick to our £50 limit for Christmas an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:27 AM
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That sucks my dude. Big hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:18 AM
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……hahahahahahahahahaah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:54 PM
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Ok I’ll explain my point more. If your girlfriend hides messages and rejects intimacy with you, then you might feel insecure and worried she’s cheating. IMO you would be entirely in the right about feeling insecure in that moment. Cause she’s behaving in a sus way. Do you get what I mean? You can be insecure and entirely justified in that insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:34 PM
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Loads of people are insecure. I’m insecure about lots of things. If you’re worried your girl is gonna cheat, then you’re feeling insecure. Whether it’s justified or unjustified insecurity is another matter entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:17 PM
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Like you’re deaf, dumb and blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:26 PM
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Wish I could upvote this twice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:03 PM
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Don’t worry. Men here are not the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:45 PM
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What culture is that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:40 PM
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People don’t like to be corrected all the time even if it is better in the long term. It makes them feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:29 PM
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Q4A: thoughts on having kids out of wedlock?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:27 PM
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Yeah I’d say that’s a red flag. That type of thing is fine from time to time but gets grating long term
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:27 PM
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Why doesn’t it appeal though? I’m trying to understand why other than just “nah not for me”. What is it about marriage you like. I’m married fyi. I know my own reasons. Just intrigued to hear other peoples
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:14 PM
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What does marriage provide you that you desire? Full disclosure, I’m married. So I obv see it as worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:09 PM
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Fair 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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You can be with someone for life and have kids without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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Why do you need to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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I bought my house unmarried and it’s pretty simple if you sort out with a lawyer, but I agree about the kids thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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Fair. I wouldn’t have kids outside of marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:04 PM
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Why do you only date for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:02 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:02 PM
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Religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:01 PM
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This is lovely. Best of luck. Marriage is a joy when you’ve got the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:00 PM
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Fair. You’re young so that makes sense. I wasn’t keen on marriage at 22 either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:55 PM
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What’s ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:55 PM
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What would it take to change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:55 PM
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Do you want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:53 PM
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Q4W. Would you date a man long term if he was anti marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:52 PM
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Do you want kids without marriage though? My opinions on this are that outcomes for kids of married parents are much better. Is that something that bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:51 PM
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Fair. That’s my view on marriage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:48 PM
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Do you want to be a dad someday? How do you feel about marriage for kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:48 PM
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Don’t even know what that is but now I want to go to Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:47 PM
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So not even neutral between the sexes. You’d want the upper hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:45 PM
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So….thats a no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:44 PM
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What would make it a yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:44 PM
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Q4M would you ever get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:40 PM
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Yeah it’s not a zero number. But I think it’s less common than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:32 PM
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I get that. I can’t say I’m always pleased with it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:31 PM
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I initiate sex more than him but again I think this is likely unusual as most relationships will have a higher libido man and a lower libido woman. I tell him he’s hot pretty much all the time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:28 PM
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Variety is the spice of life. Mix it up. Always keep her guessing. She sounds like she’s into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:22 PM
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Yeah. I would say I make my husband feel desired and make an active effort to do so. But this is anecdotal. I don’t know what most relationships are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:21 PM
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He’s randomly paying for the holidays of women he’s not even dating? Sounds like a loon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:07 PM
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Both these heights are tall and men from 5’10-6’1 have similar numbers of lifetime sexual partners, similar marriage rates and similar numbers of offspring indicating the 3inch difference isn’t all that important in the grand scheme of things,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:57 PM
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Someone just saw mean girls for the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:11 AM
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Cider makes me almost shit myself so thank your lucky stars it went up rather than down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:53 PM
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Men are great. I don’t hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:41 PM
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Q4A what is the best sex position and why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:55 PM
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Wow 0/3 for my relationship, guess it’s doomed. RIP my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:33 PM
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I’ve even had men I had casual with go down on me unprompted so I don’t know where you’re getting the idea men do this out of a sense of obligation. My husband loves when I sit on his face. As for why I like blowjobs? As a straight woman, I like dicks. The reaction you get from a man when you have his dick in your mouth is wonderful and a huge turn on. You sound like an alien trying to understand humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:16 AM
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Anyone giving you grief about childhood friends should be kicked to the curb immediately. That’s step 1 in coercive control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:42 PM
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Best of luck with the rest of the creative writing course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:11 PM
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I know it’s not a q4w, but I’d assume he was joking so would laugh, pout, call him a name and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:34 PM
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If I was her I’d assume you don’t like me all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:20 PM
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You hadn’t kissed her by date 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:15 PM
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Well that’s up to him to do. If he wants to end the friendship I understand but if there’s something I can do to make things easier and to keep the friendship I’d try
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:45 PM
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Yeah I’d be fine with that. I’d be sad losing a friend so anything I could do to make it easier for him I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:29 PM
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I’ve dated multiple men I’ve been friends with first. I think it works really well and I’d be fine with a friend hitting on me as long as takes no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:24 PM
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Was it a breast reduction you’re getting? I kinda want to get an uplift after I have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:50 AM
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Ok did the math and it’s 0.0038 per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:07 PM
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I’d fold his laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:00 PM
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I mean that sounds about right but I much preferred shagging my husband on date 1 and buying a bdsm starter kit for date 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:16 PM
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I thought you said “every rapist” and started to think you had more than one rapist in your extended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:56 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:43 PM
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I’m assuming I’d have a full mental breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:15 PM
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This happened to a girl at my high school (minus the job part) when we I was 15. She basically lost all her friends because she was seen as some sort of slut but she was a literal child and her revenge porn was being bluetoothed from phone to phone. Fucking horrid. Thankfully she seems to be doing fine now from what I see on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:06 PM
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She wanted you to make the first move and telling you that would have been more forward than she wanted to be. Most men would have picked up these cues. I think your flair is likely why you struggled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:49 AM
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She wanted you to warm her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:15 AM
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Can you get someone to look after your baby for a little while on a regular basis and give you guys some alone time? A date night? Y’know. Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:38 AM
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I don’t think that would be classified as rape in court but IANAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:13 AM
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If a guy is black out drunk and a woman or man has sex with him, then yeah, that is rape. And doesn’t count as him cheating if he has partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:56 AM
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Hey he’s paying. I could fall asleep anywhere. I’m shorter and find plane travel relatively easy also. If he tried to give it to me I wouldn’t have accepted anyway. “No you paid honey, please go ahead” and if he insisted I’d try to swap mid way through so he could experience some of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:44 PM
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If he asked my opinion I’d be happy and have no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:35 PM
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I gave my conditions in my initial post. If his name was on that ticket and he didn’t have a choice that’s fine too. It’s the “without further explanations” I’m having an issue with. Him making decisions for the group like that with no input just makes him seem insensitive to me which is only gonna get worse throughout a relationship. Like he thinks cause he pays, he sets the rules. That’s not a relationship that’ll work for me and why if I’m honest I would not allow a man to pay for my full vac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:31 PM
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I’d dump him when we were home. The only reasonable response is to flip a coin or to swap half way through. You can’t offer to take someone out for a meal, give them a salad while you munch on steak. It’s not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:16 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:13 PM
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I’d do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:12 PM
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No. It wouldn’t be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:10 PM
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A man needs a baseline of attractiveness for me to be attracted to him. Although that baseline has dropped in the past when I’ve been drunk. I wouldn’t date a man I didn’t happily want to suck the dick of when sober though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:31 AM
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I’d say it’s hours worked. If I work 40 hours and he works 20, I’m gonna expect him to do more than half.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:56 PM
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I had casual once cause it made me feel validated and desired and I had intensely low self esteem. The second time I had casual, it was more “I’m on vacation and want to experience a ONS”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:53 PM
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Guy encourages wife to make out with other women. Feels hurt. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:48 PM
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Is this the same girl you dated the other day that you weren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:53 PM
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Booooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:57 PM
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For sure. It’s weird AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:33 AM
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It happens daily on this sub so I’m pretty immune to it by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:26 AM
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Trans masc talking about testosterone effects. “This is obviously subjective, but before going on T, I had a fairly high interest in sex, and I masturbated most days. But I didn’t have a high libido—a physical urge to have sex. For most of my life, having sex wasn’t so much about my physical pleasure as it was about seeking validation. I didn’t even let other people touch me that much whenever I had sex. Within two months of going on T, I suddenly had an insatiable sex drive. It got to the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:25 AM
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You’re not getting my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:29 PM
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Hahaha 🤣 or maybe I’m just overly forgiving of social faux pas. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:29 AM
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Sure. But the only way to find out is to ask. If a guy wants first date sex, the only way he’s gonna know if she’s up for it is to ask her back to his for coffee and make a move. Guys waiting for the girl to make the first move are not gonna get as far as guys willing to make the first move. No matter how unfair, or “risky” they perceive it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:28 AM
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Sure. I’m just saying if they wanna be timid, they can’t then expect “first date sex like Chad”. Sucks to have to make the first move and possibly be rejected but them’s the breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:21 AM
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I don’t know if it’s cause I talked a lot beforehand to the men I dated, I thankfully never got to experience a guy on the first date completely fuck up. Hell, my husband turned up late to our first date and we still ended up in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:19 AM
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I have. Just not on the first date. My ex, when it got to date 3 and he hadn’t kissed me yet for example (he was too nervous). What I’m saying is, he’d have gotten a kiss sooner if he’d have initiated. His own nervousness caused the delay. It wasn’t cause I was unattracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:17 AM
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The thread about making the first move on a date with a woman is reminding me of my own dating history. On the first date, 100% of guys who moved in for a kiss or even escalated to sex, I was more than happy to go along with. I wouldn’t be on a date with them if I didn’t find them physically attractive. The guys who didn’t go in for a kiss, I didn’t kiss. The guys who didn’t ask me round to theirs, I didn’t go to theirs. My thoughts are one of these men that I went on a date with and didn’t kiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:58 AM
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I personally liked it. It was very sociable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:34 AM
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Unkill? Is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:16 AM
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Maybe a little. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:09 AM
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Someone said I had a hero/saviour complex. I have feminised it and used it as flair for bants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:01 AM
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Sounds like that man is having a tough time. I’d try and console him and do what I can to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:53 AM
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It’s even worse than you realise. From OP “At the time I believed that he had come to his senses and realized he loved me. I was in love with him and still is. When we started talking it was after his wife given birth and one of the boys didn’t survive and he was suffering but she didn’t care about him. I guess she was busy with her own mourning I don’t know. Anyway we got closer and I was there for him so he started to come to the coffee shop every morning. Then we slept together but he didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:43 AM
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I haven’t met a man in my dating life who has an issue with toys thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:04 AM
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Definitely the best move, only way to get decent pay rises is to move job to job. Sucks but is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:59 AM
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Why would you want to track someone down who has made it clear they don’t wanna talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:56 AM
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I don’t know anyone who’s never been approached or asked home to a guys place but I know women who’s only approaches have been drunk guys 20 years older than them or guys who don’t speak English who just start groping them immediately or guys who only want a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:00 AM
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Without having see it I’m gonna assume it was a flair issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:53 AM
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1 year of dating, 2 years of living together. So 3 in total minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:43 PM
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But you just said you think single digits for a 30 year old is fine…so you must have some cut off for age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:59 PM
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Typically you fuck a guy normally before you peg him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:57 PM
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The reason I asked this is I saw an aitah post where an 18 year old said her n count was 8 and that seemed insanely high to me for someone so young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:43 PM
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What is a high n count for a 30 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:55 PM
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Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:49 PM
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Horny but staying at my in laws. Urgh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:09 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:38 PM
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There are references at the bottom. He’s interpreted them incorrectly but they are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:28 AM
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No it’s not. It’s a sample of men who are already testing for paternity fraud lol. Not the population generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:27 AM
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That’s not true man. That’s absolutely not an accurate source. It’s like 1% from a range of studies. https://www.nature.com/articles/hdy201536
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:17 AM
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30% paternity fraud rates isn’t accurate. The 30% refers to a self selected group of men who are needing to test because they know/suspect infidelity/non committed sex could have lead to someone else being the parent. It’s not 30% of all fathers. Paternity fraud rates are down at like 1%ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:12 AM
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In my opinion people aren’t obsessed enough with happiness. So many people with dead end lives tolerating shitty work and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:42 AM
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He’s looking at them and turning his head too mate. How can you not see that from the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:50 PM
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Yeah I’d look at a man who’s tits are bigger than the average woman’s too. Doesn’t mean I’m attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:43 PM
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Staring at women makes them look back at you? Wooooooow!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:36 PM
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Invest, retire early, travel the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:33 PM
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Idc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:46 PM
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Ooohh ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:44 PM
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What do you mean? What’s your own experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:26 PM
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Mind my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:49 PM
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Testosterone makes hard work feel good. To what extent to you agree/disagree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:33 AM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:18 PM
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Dick is good enough to mitigate the drawbacks of an iud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:14 PM
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I always have this though too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:20 PM
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Exactly! People with poor money management are a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:52 AM
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I’ll be physically attracted to my husband no matter what he weighs I think but I’d be genuinely he concerned for his health if he gained 100lb from when we first got together. He’s gained about 50 at this point and I think he’s hot AF though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:05 PM
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I’m married lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:43 PM
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Nothing could make me lower my standards for marriage. You’re legally tying yourself to someone for life. That’s something you absolutely should have high standards on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:09 PM
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Don’t care what he earns but he needs to be responsible with whatever money he does earn. I’d rather a poorer guy living in his means than a rich one spending money on bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:47 PM
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Although I’m married, say something awful happened and I had to get back on the dating scene again I’d be happy getting with a guy who’d never been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:53 AM
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I miss mine 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:05 PM
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This is How I feel too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:31 PM
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Most women on the sub aren’t even married e never mind twice and cheated on their ex husband. Too narrow a pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:43 AM
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My ex? He was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:54 AM
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It doesn’t appeal to me personally. I was in a relationship with a guy who I believed had lost his virginity to a sex worker (he told people that) but when him and I got together and got to the bedroom it was clear he had been lying about that and was still a virgin. Other guys I know who’ve been to sex workers did it on a stag weekend in Amsterdam. I don’t know any habitual users of them but I doubt I’d be told if any of the men I know were so maybe they’re out there every night. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:20 AM
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I wanna see an 8/10 gnome now. Sounds hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:15 AM
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Gambling addiction (which is basically what crypto is) is a bitch. Hope she can move on and the guy gets some mental help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:59 AM
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This is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:56 AM
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Is this a thing women think? Literally never heard of this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:55 AM
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It’s legal where I live and the vast majority of men still don’t use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:55 AM
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I wish I could do a poll of ppd members but I can’t - if it was entirely legal where you live (if it isn’t already) currently, regulated and monitored for scamming etc, would you pay for sex? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:05 PM
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Never thought this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:11 PM
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Abstinence and anti abortion only baby. Had at least 5 pregnant Mothers at 16 in my year so that worked a treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:11 PM
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What’s the typical refractory period?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:50 PM
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I know her cause of that rapist olympics doctor they did a documentary about. But I’m not from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:49 PM
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A philosopher of our times right here. This gave me a good chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:44 PM
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I have nothing to add to this other than to say your post perfectly encapsulates my own point of view. My parents were married and divorced, they had me and I’m loved greatly by both of them and they’re completely amicable. Both went on to fall in love and marry other people and live very happy lives that they wouldn’t have had if they’d stayed together. Serial monogamy for the purpose of raising kids is the reason humans were so evolutionary successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:45 AM
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Tbh I think the “I expect a man to pay cause I’m doing my makeup and hair” is post hoc rationalisation for explaining why it is somehow reasonable to expect a man to pay for you in this day and age. It’s not the reason they want you to pay. I’d say wanting a man to pay is more just wanting him to show investment up front. I’m not sure though that’s just me guessing. I always went 50/50 when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:27 AM
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Who’s saying that isn’t the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:20 PM
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<10%? Chadflation in the nation it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:16 AM
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Too well thought out and nuanced for ppd. This post is a waste on the ppd masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:37 PM
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Discord be dead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:32 PM
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My husband said he wouldn’t want to be a homemaker but he’d be happy to be the person to go part time out of the two of us when we have kids as I earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:04 PM
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I’m so glad we all agree Papa Johns isn’t even worth discussing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:55 PM
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The bar is on the ceiling for women fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:54 PM
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Luke Littler the 16 year old darts player I was talking about earlier came runner up in the tournament. £200,000 at aged 16 is impressive and there will be more to come in the future. Best of luck to the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:54 PM
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Line up gentlemen. We have a Stacy in town.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:48 PM
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I’m very much happy the generations before me fought for my right to have my own bank account, pay my way and take maternity leave if I decide to have kids. I’m very lucky to be born in this day and age. Any woman moaning about gaining these rights is being incredibly shortsighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:24 PM
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No. I read out the more batshit stuff for his amusement though. He typically argues on different subs 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:20 PM
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I just want consenting adults to have the sex they want dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:14 PM
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I’m not a woman who believes in waiting for marriage and I don’t think many people here are, maybe another subreddit on celibacy before marriage could help you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:02 PM
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I can’t wait to be a sahm so I can not clean or look after kids and just go for brunches and manicures instead while I dead bedroom my husband even though he works 80 hours a week to pay for my lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:01 PM
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I thought waiting for boyfriend/girlfriend status was high school type stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:19 AM
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Why are you girlfriend/boyfriend with someone you’re not having sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:04 PM
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“The general conclusion drawn from this work is that women will be more socially-orientated (selfless), and men more individually-orientated (selfish). This paper reports the results of a double-anonymous dictator experiment designed to permit the emergence of basic gender differences in economic behaviour. Our results are intended to provide a baseline for further research. We find that women, on average, donate twice as much as men to their anonymous partners when any factors that might confou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:32 PM
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You just gotta pay a lot for the good stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:53 PM
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So did mrs drgree just abandon here or what? Absolutely gutted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:54 AM
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Think you’d forgotten the link or shared the wrong one. That’s just dudes saying they like women talking and smelling good 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:30 AM
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I was saying if I was the guy I’d walk away unbothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:27 AM
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What sounds too performative to be unbothered. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:17 AM
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It really won’t. If a guy asked me out, I said no and then he asked if I was trans I’d know he was just throwing a little hissy fit. Pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:12 AM
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It’ll just sound like sour grapes tbh and she’ll laugh at you and how pathetic you are with her friends. I’d just walk away totally unbothered. Abundance mindset is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:54 AM
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I’m trying to connect those dots but I’m ngl I’m struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:50 AM
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One of each please.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:11 AM
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I would never want to move there but I feel this In My bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:30 PM
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She said weird not creepy. It’s unusual behaviour to buy a girl you’re not romantically involved with flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:51 PM
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The comments seem to say he’s in the right but he’ll struggle with 8 in his late 30s/early 40s. Who’s calling it shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:55 AM
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It wouldn’t make any difference. If you’re sharing intimate details with a girl and I’m hearing her name pop up a lot in conversation, I’m not gonna act mad or jealous. I’ll be completely calm and chill. You’ll have no idea. But I can assure you, I’d be carefully following what’s happening. Watching out for changes in behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:49 AM
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If I was your gf I’d have clocked that girl’s name and I’d make a mental note of it any time you mention her. I’d keep an eye on any escalation. I’d act perfectly normal and fine like I was cool with her and not jealous at all but inside…that girl would be on my “to watch out for” list. I wonder if this is normal or if I’m a psycho. Just giving you my own insane insight to do with what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:42 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:42 PM
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Go get it if you want. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:55 PM
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That just seems so juvenile to me. Why are grown adults in accountancy asking high school questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:40 PM
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Nicely done dude. Very smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:39 PM
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What you’ve said is true. Whiners: “BuT cHaD dOeSn’T nEeD tO aPprRoAcH”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:21 PM
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Where do you work that that’s even appropriate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:14 PM
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Can’t say it ever crosses my mind tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:01 PM
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I wish. Sadly I fell in love with someone on the average wage. Wish I was jaded enough to be a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:03 PM
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I doubt they’d be doing this for every sexual encounter once they’ve got to a point where they understand each others boundaries. But who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:47 PM
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Bit much for me but glad she found a guy who makes her feel good. Best of luck to them both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:40 PM
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I’d swipe left solely for what looks to be a religious picture. Not keen on dating a guy who’s religious. I think he should delete that pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:36 PM
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My ex lied to me and said he wasn’t a virgin when we got together. I figured out he was a virgin and was just lying when he started stretching out the condom like he was blowing up a balloon animal and couldn’t get it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:21 PM
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I don’t know even if there is a looks difference. I just feel uglier because of the pure hatred of average looking women on this sub when they’re shared. I’m not affected in the same way by ratings of men on here, because I know what I think looks good on a man and other peoples opinions isn’t gonna change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:57 PM
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It’s fucked up my opinion of me tbh but not men or relationships. My partner is amazing and nothing like some of the walking red flags in here. I never used to care about looks but hanging out here makes me assess my own looks and feel pretty ugly. I look at my partner sometimes and think “why would he be with this? I’m a mess”. I try to focus on other stuff but the constant lookism on here has fucked me up a little. Why am I still here when it’s having a negative impact? Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:49 PM
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Popular extroverted guys got with popular extroverted girls at my school. Go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:55 PM
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It’s just you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:33 PM
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I’m reporting myself here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:19 PM
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Fucking hell, this is gross and you are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:19 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:07 PM
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I miss a certain Racoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:03 PM
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I love this place. I only hang out here a few times a year but the insanity is great
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:02 PM
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Why do men want approval to get a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:47 PM
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I’ve not been here in a while. Is Andrew Tate still popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:30 PM
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Can you link one. Most of the stories seem to me like the guy is toxic AF and the manosphere stuff is just the explanation, not the only issue in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:31 AM
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Talking so much shit it hurts. Block me mods. I’m done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:38 PM
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I think most of my female friend’s partners are good looking but I’m not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:59 PM
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I don’t really understand this distinction. Can you explain a little more?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:54 PM
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I would love if we had more shitty female characters in movies/tv. So many Mary Sues out there. It’s boring AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:47 PM
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Q4A If your partner never initiated sex, but was always up for it when you initiated, would you stay with them? Or do you need them to show active interest in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:40 PM
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How fat is that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:38 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:32 PM
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How much weight (as you all apparently care about weight so much here) would your other half have to gain for it to be a breakup issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:31 PM
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Q4A have you actually read any studies about sexual competition? Or are you basing all your animosity on feels from tik tok videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:57 PM
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I was bitten by radioactive Plan B and now have super contraceptive powers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:50 PM
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I do think a lot of men here are under the impression that every woman has guys approaching them in the street every waking second they’re outside of the house. But it’s just not the case. Saw a survey recently that says 74% of women under the age of 26 which they were approached more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:05 PM
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No. If I want him, then I’m pretty much ready to get in his pants there and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:22 PM
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Depends. Am I like their shifty ex? Do I need to fix something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:55 PM
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Not the actual number but how he got it. Has he cheated on every woman he’s dated? Has he had a host of STIs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:53 PM
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He was putting out though…that’s what hooking up means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:29 AM
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I think 80 year olds are cute AF. They’re like wrinkly babies and they bake cakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:02 PM
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Slavery is bad? This really a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:38 AM
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Do men think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:32 PM
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I was being jokey so you shouldn’t have given me the benefit of the doubt tbh. I’ll be more serious now in my response. Some meds can kill a person’s libido. Stone dead. I wouldn’t say the fact that the person experiencing that is not feeling it means they’ve “settled”. I do agree with you however, that constantly putting off sex could absolutely mean the person is unattracted to their partner and that it’s important to make sex a priority to ensure a happy loving relationship. That being said, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:23 PM
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What thread? I read OP’s statement and responded
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:18 PM
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Maybe he should have been more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:09 PM
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How often do you need to let them know you list after them before it’s considered settling? “Hey babe, I know I haven’t been lusty this week but my dog got put down, can I write you a lust iou?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:08 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:50 PM
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Sure. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:49 PM
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I do not believe that,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:44 PM
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There’s too many things to consider to say if this is true or not. Is anyone disabled. Is their work/life stress. Has someone’s looks changed in a way that the other doesn’t find attractive anymore. Is someone Asexual? Is someone on anti depressants. Has it been this way since day 1 or has it happened in later life? Did someone just give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:43 PM
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I’ve never met a 666 man and I’ve been attracted to many dudes in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:28 PM
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I have a feeling lots of white people use this excuse to kill black teenagers in their garden. “I thought he was dangerous”. Judging people on looks not actions just seems problematic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:01 PM
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Thinking someone is creepy just cause they look unattractive and no other reason is shitty and if you do that you should feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:12 PM
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Absolutely. I’d say neither of those reasons tbh. I don’t think unattractive people are inherently creepy tbh. But I do thing older women creeping on young boys is gross (Emmanuel macron and his wife for example). I don’t think someone needs to necessarily have bad intentions to be creepy. A stalker thinks they’re being loving in many scenarios and are doing the right thing. I’d say what makes someone creepy is overstepping boundaries. That can be both accidental and deliberate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:52 PM
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Oh yeah, even if you don’t want kids personally, that doesn’t mean anything about how we evolved as a species. As I said, it’s perfectly normal to have issues with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:15 PM
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Think this is relatively normal. Some women don’t care about it. Some women get the ick. Think there’s probably an evo psych reason for it. Your monkey brain is probably like “he will not be a good caregiver for my offspring”. And dries you up down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:10 PM
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Just follow the rules. They’re really clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:24 AM
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I haven’t seen this phenomenon of women equating friendships with romantic relationships so I don’t know what to tell you mate. I think most people agree that a romantic relationship is more important. Humans are sexual beings. Women want sex. So again, I’m not sure I understand where you’re coming from here either. As part of a loving relationship with my romantic partner, sex is very important to me. But sex outside of a loving relationship is fun for some people too. It doesn’t need to be eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:23 AM
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Absolutely not my experience. If you say to your partner, “if you’re going to be out later than planned can you text me to let you know you’re safe” or “I can’t do the dinner until you’ve emptied the dishwasher” and he ignores you…it’s not cause “men” don’t understand words. It’s because you’re in a relationship with a man who doesn’t care about your feelings. Cut your losses and get out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:47 AM
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Jesus Christ. This is fucking horrible advice. Just weird passive aggressive shit. If you can’t talk to your partner about behaviour that is upsetting and you have to communicate in a way that upsets both of you, you’re going to have a hard going relationship. Men understand words fine. If he’s not listening it’s cause he doesn’t want to and you clearly aren’t compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:36 AM
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Sometimes men are bad fathers? What point are you trying to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:48 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:23 AM
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So. I am talking from memory here and could be entirely wrong…but…if I remember correctly the way this calculator works is just incorrect. For example if 60% in that age range are below obese and 80% don’t have kids, it’s doesn’t know the level of overlap in each column (if that makes sense). So it would do, 60% X 80% and get 48%. You get me? Again, I never fact checked this claim. So take this with a massive pinch of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:26 PM
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Yeah. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve fucked up a few recipes but I’d still say I can cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:15 PM
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Get a small spoon under the rim and break the air lock. Works like a charm,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:14 PM
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I fail to accept there is people who can’t cook past 30. My brain refuses to acknowledge their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:50 PM
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Prostitution isn’t illegal where I live. Happy with that. I’d actually make the rules a little more relaxed as currently it’s illegal for two sex workers to live in the same house and operate from there together as it constitutes a brothel which is still illegal. But from what I’ve read from sex workers, this would make them safer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:43 PM
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It’s not all about you. I don’t believe marriage is a benefit for men or women generally. I’m not religious, I make my own money and the money my partner makes it’s unimportant to me if he knows how to live within his means. I do, however, believe that marriage benefits children. Which is why I see getting married to someone (regardless of their salary) as a worthwhile thing to do if you’re gonna pop out a few kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:52 AM
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I like skinny and fat guys as much as muscled guys. I don’t find a muscular physique to be a positive. I don’t see it as a negative either though. The type of physique a guy has no bearing on how attractive I find him. Another thing that I like is back hair. I’ve never heard another woman agree with this so I think it’s probably not common. I like hairy dudes so I don’t really care where they grow it. Funny thing is when I was a teen I wasn’t into hairy guys. Tastes change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:27 AM
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This is gonna get deleted. Post here instead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:14 AM
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I’m mid. I dated mids. I am sexually attractive to average looking folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:43 PM
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Below on a bad day. Average on a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:05 PM
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I wouldn’t personally move into a guy’s house and help him pay off his mortgage while building up no equity myself. I’d rather he sold and we bought a new place together if he’s still paying off a mortgage. If he no owns it outright and is still trying to charge me for something he doesn’t have to pay for I wouldn’t be happy with him basically using me as a money making opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:50 PM
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I don’t think it’s bad to approach women. As long as they go away when you say you’re not interested it’s cool. I don’t think just walking up to a woman and asking for her socials is a winning strategy though. But if you want to give it a shot. Knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:50 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:48 PM
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Answer under automod
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:37 AM
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This is a q4w dude. You’re gonna get your comment deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:27 AM
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I worry about the dude. He seems like he needs some help. And when people are as famous as him, they don’t ever have truly good friends to keep an eye out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:36 PM
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Do I get a prize?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:32 PM
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Sure. They don’t make them like you anymore purplish
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:07 PM
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Absolutely. My self esteem couldn’t take it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:56 PM
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It’s a biased sample. Only people who share there photo would be those who are more attractive typically. I’m ugly to mid and I wouldn’t be sharing my photo here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:48 PM
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About 20%hv, 20%lv and 60% medium value. Give or take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:39 PM
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I couldn’t date a man with slimmer thighs than me. Don’t get me wrong. Thin dudes are attractive. My self esteem just couldn’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:18 PM
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Then monthlies should be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:11 PM
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Do you get drunk a lot? Don’t get monthlies. You will sleep with them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:07 PM
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Q4A: if you had to choose to split childcare with your spouse (both go part time), one of you went completely off work and one worked full time or both work full time and you pay for childcare, what would you pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:28 PM
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Decent enough list. I too want a spouse that would trust me to make the important decisions, would sacrifice his career to help raise our kids and who brings peace to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:11 PM
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Random sec at 4am when you just so happened to wake up at the same time is always welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:03 PM
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It’s likely but it’s not probable? Are those not synonyms?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:58 PM
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In sickness and in health til death do us part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:39 PM
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I’ve had a happy fulfilling sex life with my partner for years. If he lost the ability to have sex tomorrow, I’m not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:38 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:37 PM
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I think I “got what I wanted” when I’m in a loving, caring relationship with a great sex life and lots of fun/enjoyment with each other. I don’t care what my partner earns as long as he lives within his means and is responsible with his money. Otherwise it makes no difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:40 AM
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Yeah I do all those things too. I walk alone at night, sit in a bar alone waiting for friends etc, politely tell guys I have a boyfriend if they approach. I think the abundance of this sort of content about fearing men online must be incredibly scary for young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:45 AM
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I don’t live in constant fear of men. I am as baffled as you are about the vast amount of women online sharing that they are deeply scared of men in general. For example. Waking down a street at night. As far as I’m aware both men and women keep their wits about them when walking alone at night. Why everyone acts like this is a female only issue and that men are walking about unbothered about possibly being mugged I will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:35 AM
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I have a girlfriend in Canada who I totally lost my virginity to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:28 PM
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I see mostly looks matches with some hotter women and some hotter man relationships thrown in for variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:59 PM
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Push back isn’t hatred. It’s a debate sub. Although there are quite a number of angry people on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:58 PM
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Wow! A CMV where OP C’d T V
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:46 PM
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What about a 40 year old. Do they need protecting from a 60 year old? Really? Society babies younger adults in a way that I am incredibly uncomfortable with. I’m early 30s and would feel entirely comfortable dating a late 40s man and wouldn’t thank you for “saving me” from them. I think the law/government should stay out of peoples bedrooms as much as possible with obvious exceptions for child abuse etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:09 PM
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I’m baffled by the very concept of settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:29 AM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:47 PM
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You think women can sleep with any man they want? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:29 PM
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I’d I lived in an ideal world where I had no stress, my partner had no health issues and I didn’t need to work…everyday. But if you asked me to have sex everyday given all those things…I’d not thank you for it. I’d happily go down on him everyday if he wanted it. It’s probably once per week assuming he’s in good health though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:27 PM
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Me too. Always a good read
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:21 PM
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I’m a below average to mid woman in her early 30s. About twice a year I’d say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:09 PM
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I’m not beating myself up over it lol. I just find it amusing how off I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:05 PM
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Yeah I can’t guess heights at all tbh. I think it’s cause I’m so short. Everyone is tall to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:05 PM
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I have a friend who dumped her ex cause he wouldn’t argue back with her and she felt she was bullying him. This may have something to it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:59 PM
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18/19/20
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:53 PM
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I think the book “so you’ve been publicly shamed” should be mandatory reading for people with social media. People don’t realise how fucked this sort of thing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:52 PM
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When asked what height my ex was I’ve been saying 5’10 cause I genuinely thought that was his height and I’m sure he told me that. Spoke to a friend of mine last week who’s really tall and she has delightfully informed me he was actually 5’7. It’s hilarious to me that I dated that dude for years an had actually no idea what height he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:48 PM
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I don’t know dude. The people I talk to IRL don’t use that phrase. It never comes up. And I don’t go on subreddits which would discuss it and I don’t have insta or tiktok. But I’ll take your word for it that it is overused as you seem to know more than me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:46 PM
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Why is it in a woman’s incentive to break it? Women in marriages are better off financially than divorced women. There’s plenty of couples who can’t fucking stand each other but end up having to stay together cause they can’t afford to live alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:39 AM
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The phrase toxic masculinity doesn’t mean that all masculinity is toxic. It means a “set of attitudes and ways of behaving stereotypically associated with or expected of men, regarded as having a negative impact on men”. For example, judging a man who shows emotion has a negative impact on that man. Women enforce toxic masculinity too. Toxic masculinity doesn’t mean man bad. It means humans expect certain behaviour from men and men suffer from those expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:38 AM
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50%ish. But I agree with the men like 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:44 PM
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No. No one asks. But I wouldn’t lie if I was asked. It’s 5 and I’m in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:39 PM
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Depending on age and if they want kids, this is no big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:22 PM
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100% most important thing to consider before you call someone your boyfriend. The sad thing is you can’t tell someone’s morals until you know them a bit. So it’s impossible to pick a date based on this characteristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:05 PM
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Ok answer for above average men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:45 PM
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Q4M forget your own body count preference. What do you think the hard limit is for the average man when it comes to n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:10 PM
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Yeah I’m into this too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:15 PM
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What services?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:15 PM
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Not legal in my country bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:12 PM
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This is another reason I’m into it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:09 PM
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Wel I’m glad you’re rich enough to pay off a house before you turn marriageable age but that’s pretty rare for millennials and below
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:04 PM
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Yes!!! I love him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:03 PM
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So I am getting married and I’m non religious and I see the legal framework for me and my future offspring as the main benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:50 PM
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What seems cool? What’s giving you reservations?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:50 PM
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Yeah sure. But you can’t lose your house cause you celebrated Christmas with the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:49 PM
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But you don’t need marriage to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:38 PM
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To non religious people who want to be to married…why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:32 PM
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But not because you’ve made yourself turn it off. It’s because you experienced a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:16 PM
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But that’s not an example of you controlling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:12 PM
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Yeah I don’t think love is controllable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:57 PM
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I think they’re lying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:47 PM
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I love my dad and he’s great but I don’t think he’s had much of an effect if I’m honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:42 PM
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Question for men - what are your views on circumcision
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:16 PM
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Question for size queens, how many men did you have to sleep with to develop that preference? I’ve been with a few guys and I can’t say dick size has played any role in how much I enjoyed any of it. So I’m curious how other people found out about this preference. Is it porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:26 AM
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I can imagine some do. I had a friend get married to a guy she really liked within like 6 months which she’d have never done with any previous boyfriends. But she was more willing to take a chance the closer she got to 35
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:34 PM
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I don’t know if the person you’re talking to has said stuff like that Bandit. It’s wrong to be mean about friendzoned guys too. I’m not making excuses for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:23 PM
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Two wrongs don’t make a right friend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:16 PM
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I’m not physically attracted to Henry Cavill despite him being objectively pretty perfect. So I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:29 PM
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I know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:35 PM
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I don’t have much faith in Gen z given my only interaction with them is on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:19 PM
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1?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:12 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:09 PM
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They also ban testing for 23andme too. The French are really upset about dna testing in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:07 PM
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1 year or 15k fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:05 PM
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Agreed. But on the other hand, I also think countries where you can’t test without the woman’s permission either are fucked. Only think France falls into this category tbf though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:59 PM
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Nah it’s good. Otherwise this place would just be that word over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:57 PM
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We’ll see how long that lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:24 PM
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Honesty doesn’t get your dick sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:21 PM
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She presumably overheard. He sounds dim AF
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:14 PM
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Imagine saying in front of your gf that she isn’t model tier but isn’t ugly. Just tell her she’s pretty. These people have anti-game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:12 PM
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Anyone watching Eurovision this weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:09 PM
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It’s not so much number of partners but fuckboys give me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:45 PM
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He sounds smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:40 PM
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Well I’m attracted to them so Yeah. No idea if you’d like them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:03 PM
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I have dated men in my social circle numerous times. It can get messy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:54 PM
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Like makes fun of you for it or is genuinely telling you to stop it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:09 PM
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I did it a few times when single in clubs. But it never got past the texting stage cause the type of men you meet in clubs seemingly can’t spell correctly and it gave me the ick so I gave up. I’d feel weird cold approaching somewhere like a shop or public transport though cause I need a little Dutch courage. Either way, thankfully I just moved to warm approach after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:24 AM
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I’m against splitting chores based on income. If I earn $100k and my partner earns $60k and I work 35 hours and he works 40, then obviously I’m gonna do more chores in those extra 5 hours. Cause otherwise I’m just sitting on my ass while he cleans things around me. But that’s my personal preference. Each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:18 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:10 PM
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Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:32 PM
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I’m a nerd, I look like a nerd. Guys that date me are typically nerds. It’s all working out as far as I’m concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:04 PM
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Yeah. I wouldn’t be happy with some blowing just under a months wages on a sex doll for it to take up room and give creepy/uncanny valley vibes. He owes me just over two grand as well so I’d be expecting that back first at the very least 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:34 AM
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We own a fleshlight type thing already too. So no I wouldn’t mind. Do dolls not cost like $2000? I think if he was spending anything over like $150 on sex stuff I’d have an issue. We aren’t rich and we already have a whole suitcase full of other things to play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:01 AM
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It’s a hitachi. You just rub it on his dick and balls man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:57 AM
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He bought me it for our anniversary. He watches me use it sometimes and sometimes I use to to stimulate him. It’s fun. You’re overthinking it dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:14 PM
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The pure jealousy of some of the dudes in response to your post is fucking wild. You guys were both attractive. They’re just trying to desperately make this your fault cause women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:19 AM
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You’ve posted some variation on this like 3 times today dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:00 AM
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There’s a lot of women in the world so I can pretty much guarantee some of them would say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:11 PM
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Ask her out dude. Only way to know for sure! Best of luck. Sounds like you guys get on well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:46 PM
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I don’t believe unconditional love exists for anyone other than parents for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:26 PM
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Where do you live that a young man dating can afford to pay rent/bills/food for two people all on his own? Cause I wanna move there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:44 PM
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If I didn’t work, I’d obviously not be physically able to pay 50/50 rent so I’d expect him to pay. But I don’t know why In a dating scenario with no kids, a man would move in a woman and pay for 100% of her expenses. He’s free to do so obviously but seems like a shitty deal to me. Cleaning doesn’t take long. What the fuck is she doing all day while you work hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:53 AM
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Are you allowed to move in before marriage but the girl expects you to pay her rent? And she works presumably? Why any man would put up with that is insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:46 AM
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Literally 100% of couples I know do this. Do you live in a place where women don’t work?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:44 AM
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Why? Are we not fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:41 AM
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50/50 rent in a relationship is what every single person I know does. It’s so ubiquitous I am actually a little confused by the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:38 AM
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It’s free in my country but even if it wasn’t, I take responsibility for my own reproductive healthcare. I’d buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:46 PM
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Make intense eye contact with the sales clerk once. You’ll get over it,
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:33 PM
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Have you been on the sub and read this stuff? Not my understanding at all. Some men are just low T
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:26 PM
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Bullied as a kid I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:17 PM
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Thank you for posting what I could not be assed to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:06 PM
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Erm. From a business point of view I don’t know. If they’re making more money this way, then there’s no reason too. However, if men become disillusioned with the app and pay less towards it I could see things changing. Like how Facebook is dying out cause it’s just old people and bots. Same could happen to the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:51 PM
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Is that not what it’s always been?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah I’d agree. Apps need to get better at screening bots/sex workers so men can see actual possible matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:54 PM
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I never remember the difference in these stats. Like wisdom and intelligence in DND.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:28 PM
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And everyone clapped
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:23 PM
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Why did you break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:24 PM
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I’m fully willing to believe most church girls are not virgins but you have absolutely lost me in the second half.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:26 PM
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I dunno. I’ve seen a mix of ages not liking it. Younger and older. I’m firmly in the “IDGAF” camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:09 PM
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Yes. Woman gets fat - booo. Woman tries to lose weight - boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:49 AM
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Holy racism Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:49 AM
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Q4W what would you think of a woman with only male friends A to my own question. Literally nothing. I do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:48 AM
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No it was a guy saying I was shallow and my fiancé deserved someone who presumably doesn’t lose weight cause my fiancé likes me at this weight so why should I lose any? Like. Sure. He likes me at this weight. But he liked me at the weight I was ten years ago too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:08 AM
1

I agree and I don’t. A lot of the guys here are getting zero casual and see relationships as the only way to get laid. Makes them settle for stuff they likely shouldn’t cause they aren’t happy. IMO being alone and paying for sex workers would be a much better solution than settling for a woman you do not like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:57 AM
1

I’d have been into him if I was his age. Alas, I’m a post wall hag now and he’s too young looking so it gives me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:46 AM
5

Mad that this might controversial on a sub like this. This is 100% the way to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:32 AM
2

No. Honestly. Nothing beats the take last year I got that I was being a bitch for trying to lose weight for my wedding day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:52 AM
2

I’m a nerd who stuck in at school, got straight As and left the shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:41 PM
3

I’m from a poor area. Not many jobs. Not much happening. Generally a shithole. Having a kid gets you government help and something to do everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:38 PM
3

I know people who deliberately became single mums. It’s just demonstrably untrue to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:33 PM
1

You do you my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:16 PM
2

Fully agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:18 PM
2

You can want equality AND people not be forced to carry babies. I don’t get what’s funny about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:03 PM
1

Never change!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:33 AM
1

Lillth! You’re still here!! Give me some of the hits. Tell me if sex is a need or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:26 AM
1

I honestly don’t know how women like that wear dresses or skirts or have bare legs. The chub rub is insane. And I know from personal experience of being slightly overweight. She must have no skin between her legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:49 AM
2

I dunno. I’ve had shitty experiences at the hands of both sexes. Maybe they’ve just had one sex fuck them over more than another. Whereas I’m equally fucked up which gives me more balance
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:13 AM
3

Men will literally spend a night in prison rather than just go to a chill party and talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:11 AM
1

No. I’ve had morning after regret but nothing so instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:38 PM
2

I met a Korean vet once and his ptsd seemed pretty legit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:55 PM
1

What’s the longest you’ve waited to have sex with someone you were dating? Are you male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:46 PM
2

Obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:35 PM
2

No 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:35 PM
9

One of my favourite things to talk about on ppd is that time my ex threatened me with a knife. Cause then I get “you deserved it” repeatedly and it reminds me to ignore all the shit said on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:22 PM
5

Is this not common knowledge? Who’s saying men only want casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:21 PM
1

In night clubs and pubs - absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:34 PM
2

I have one ex. If I ever regained attraction to him I’d assume I’d check into dignitas as I’d clearly have lost my fucking mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:55 PM
3

BF came in really drunk, attempted to seduce me, and then promptly passed out while I was brushing my teeth before we could get into bed. Decent effort from him given how drunk he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:21 AM
-1

Yes. I think porn can be fun. And I believe in paying sex workers for their work rather than just using porn hub bf then not getting a fair share. Also I use only fans. So I’d be a hypocrite otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:54 AM
1

They were the guys that asked me to a bar for our first date so I think it was more the setting that allowed things to escalate. Getting to move up close to each other. The other guys I went to the cinema, or out for coffee, for a walk etc. the guys that took me to the cinema didn’t even go in for a kiss on date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:40 AM
3

I asked all the men in relationships here months back to tell me if their girlfriend/wife had a baby 9 months from now, would they get a paternity test. They all said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:08 AM
1

Those that don’t ask don’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:03 AM
2

Every guy that escalated for sex on the first date got sex from me (all two of them). Every guy that didn’t…didn’t. If you wanna bed someone, you need to make moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:59 PM
2

Hahaha you’ve 100% promised to quit here Pinocchio 😂😂😂 come back to the discord
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:43 PM
0

Who’s not guilty of that last one here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:42 PM
2

No mention of flaming coochies?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:08 PM
5

If I say it I’ll get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:15 PM
1

They’re an acquired taste. I don’t think i enjoyed them til like 5 years ago. And I’m an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:05 PM
1

Nah just say something about macros and gains if questioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:04 PM
2

Really starting to feel festive. Presents under the tree. Watching Home Alone. Eating a mince pie a day (let’s forget I’m meant to be on a diet).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:02 PM
2

Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:57 PM
3

Meh. Normal dudes aren’t on here. I still spend lots of time with my male friends/family and that keeps me in the “men good” camp. Although it does seem like some folk on here won’t rest until I’m a pinkpiller going full WGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:03 PM
2

It’s cause Mrs Drgree is in bed and they all start acting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:52 PM
2

I grew up in a poor rural area and everyone apart from me was fucking pre 16. Don’t think it’s rural/urban.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:19 PM
2

100% agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:35 AM
3

I suppose the red pill content creators who are the most visible members of the community tend to be right leaning or centrist so it’s easy to assume the rest are the same. That’s my best guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:07 PM
3

“38.85% of the incel participants were right-leaning, 44.70% were left-leaning, and 17.47% were centrist”. To me it seems pretty balanced tbh. Given the error bars in these types of studies. ~6% isn’t such a massive difference in the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:02 PM
2

If you’re gonna spend the rest of your life with someone you’re gonna see them at their worst and at their best. Nothing can bond you more than when you both have norovirus simultaneously when you only have one toilet in your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:52 AM
1

Early days. Like 2013?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:10 AM
1

In the short time many years ago I had tinder I swiped right purely on number of Facebook likes in common. No idea what I’d do now if I had to use it again given I don’t have a Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:04 AM
13

9 years together. I think there’s a pretty real chance that my partner will lose work (he has a temporary contract and it’s in a competitive area). Also he has very poor mental health which has had him on long term sick multiple times in the past few years so it’s not beyond the realms of possibility he may one day never be able to work again. One of his parents had to retire early due to Ill health too. We are getting married next year. I can’t wait to proclaim to him and everyone that I’ll sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:31 AM
1

Please don’t. Your health is more important and there’s too many ways this could fuck you up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:11 PM
4

Nice little straw man you got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:30 PM
1

Yeah I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:22 PM
1

There’s a difference between considering something you hadn’t previously and “tempering your expectations” as you stated at the start. I never had to to temper my expectations. I had reasonable expectations and my bf more than met them. I don’t know. Maybe this all semantics. Asking people to temper expectations will just always be something I’m a bit wary of tbh. Asking them to consider an option they maybe hadn’t though of initially. That I have no issue with. Do you get my distinction?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:04 PM
1

I don’t really think that is analogous tbh. A bottle of wine is one and done. Settling for a person you will spend every day with…that’s going to give you plenty of time to develop hard feelings. I would never want to be settled for and I think most people feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:38 PM
1

I don’t think asking people to temper expectations is reasonable tbh. People want what they want. And if they don’t get what the feel they deserve they’ll just get bitter. Which isn’t the best basis for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:33 AM
0

It’s better he does whatever the fuck he wants to do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:19 AM
1

u/jackedsoon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:51 AM
3

Is that the men and the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:37 AM
1

Guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:52 PM
1

Had a weird moment today where my boyfriend’s friend text him asking for my number. What.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:47 PM
3

I find braiding his back hair soothing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:15 PM
1

Making life harder for those it’s already tough for is shitty behaviour. It’s not reaching. If you’re more bothered about coming across as “anti sex work” and not about improving actual living human beings conditions then you’re just virtue signaller. For example, making it so sex workers can’t work together (genuine law in my country championed by anti sex work people) puts sex workers at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:15 AM
1

Ok…so…making life harder for them at the minute without secondary stuff in place is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:50 AM
1

I’m not confused they’re against it. I’m confused that they don’t want to protect those who are already in it, seems silly and impractical to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:46 AM
2

Women against protecting sex workers confuse me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:57 AM
1

Imagine being so into any one candidate: not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:51 AM
2

Chuckie
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:24 AM
2

😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:22 AM
2

Are you a prod?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:21 AM
2

Can you ELI5?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:16 AM
2

We like food
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:15 AM
2

Oh..didn’t realise it was you :( covid sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:58 AM
1

What age so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:54 AM
1

What age was your first kiss? Mines was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:51 AM
4

I’m in Uk and a feminist. I want my partner to have awesome paternity pay. That’s my priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:08 AM
4

Are you actually catholic? Why are you asking for pussy pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:58 AM
5

Coming here again to say nothing said here mirrors my actual life or observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:53 AM
3

I feel like it isn’t. I’d just search pussy pics and they’d appear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:51 AM
3

Yeah you’re being an asshole but hopefully it’ll teach her some self respect and she’ll stop sleeping with you. Continue as you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:30 PM
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I knew my bf for years before anything ever happened between us. Hadn’t even looked at him as a romantic option til we had a drunken hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:37 AM
3

Blue pilled woman agreeing with you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:46 PM
0

Pro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:20 PM
1

I mean yeah they’re similar in that they both relate to sex. I honestly think this argument is just semantics at this point though so imma step out cause it bores me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:44 PM
1

You do understand the word “similar” doesn’t mean “exact same in every way”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:38 PM
1

I see a difference in your zoo animal analogy that having sex with an animal is abusive, whilst the other two scenarios (sleeping around/bi men) aren’t abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:32 PM
2

In both cases it’s about who you’ve slept with previously? Is it not? You don’t see ANY similarities? Like c’mon. I don’t see why you’re annoyed lol. Just say you disagree and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:14 PM
1

As I said it’s not exactly the same, but it’s an interesting parallel worthy of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:10 PM
5

It falls under the umbrella of “sexual past” so it’s close enough for me that I don’t see it as a false equivalency. Compare the following two statements. “Why do you care what my n is? It’s you I’m with now” “Why do you care that I had sex with a man? It’s you I’m with now” Obviously different but still broadly similar enough that OP’s point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:58 PM
1

Interesting. Does it bother you that you’d have to be the sole breadwinner in such a relationship? Or are you happy to accept that given your perceived benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:54 PM
3

What I mean is a woman who also contributes financially to that household can be caring, nurturing, respectable and raise kids. Even with these downsides you still perceive trad relationships to be preferable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:46 PM
1

“Need” is quite a nebulous word. She may not “need your income, but she could “need” you for other reasons. What is it specifically about her not working and using your income that is special to you? As you said, you don’t want her to feel trapped so it must be something else. Does it make you feel “masculine”? Is that it? Something to be proud of? Also, SAHMs can also have shitty days dealing with sick children etc. what happens if that coincides with your stressful work day?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:43 PM
1

What about them appeals to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:33 PM
2

Do you perceive any negative or downsides to this sort of relationship? Also does a woman have to be trad to provide all the things you’ve listed above?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:32 PM
1

Yeah fair play. I can see why you want him to pay in this case. Start as you mean to go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:30 PM
6

Why do only trad relationships provide these things in your opinion? None seem particularly specific to trad setups to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:29 PM
3

In my opinion, woman is sahm, breadwinner father, woman defers to man etc etc stereotypical 50s middle class stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:27 PM
1

Yeah it’s gross the biphobia we see in society. Sorry you have to deal with that mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:18 PM
5

Ok. That’s not really my question. Do you want a traditional relationship? And if so, what aspects appeal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:17 PM
3

Q4 For the men that want trad relationships. What aspects of it appeal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:12 PM
1

So you eventually plan to be sahm? What traditional aspects of a relationship do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:07 PM
3

Not answering your q cause I’m a straight woman, why do you like men to pay for you? Do you not have your own money? Do you think it’s “fair”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:52 PM
6

Hey mate. Sounds like you’re being far too hard on yourself. It’s great to be motivated and to push ourselves to do well but approaching stuff with a healthy mindset and reasonable expectations of yourself is also super important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:26 PM
6

No. I am against it. It’d just end up with 10000s unwanted babies not being looked after properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:01 PM
0

Yet the men on here also say they don’t care about what a woman earns. Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:53 PM
3

Yeah that also sounds much more preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:48 PM
3

I’ll always earn more. He earns a decent wage it’s just much less than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:47 PM
3

No. I’m in a partnership. Him working longer makes it much fairer that I do more housework. As I said, otherwise I’d be sitting watching Netflix whilst he scrubs the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:39 PM
1

Brain switched off clearly haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:32 PM
2

A bird in hand is worth two in the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:27 PM
-1

r/iamverysmart
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:25 PM
13

As someone who earns significantly more than my partner even though they work a few more hours and commute while I work at home, I cannot imagine finishing up and playing video games whilst he comes in later and tidies around me to make up his “value” because he earns less. Why not tidy when he’s commuting then have fun together? Some fucking weirdos on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:21 PM
3

Well I’m saying people who say that they deserve a man who doesn’t show emotion are perpetuating a system which hurts men. Don’t know what you want from me here mate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:03 PM
-1

You do you pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:59 PM
-1

It’s not about deserving. It’s about providing support to men. Obviously, men don’t need to open up if they don’t want to. But the ones that do shouldn’t be discouraged because “men aren’t allowed to be sad”. It’s hurtful to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:55 PM
10

If you are a woman and you expect a man to hide his emotions, you are 100% perpetuating toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:43 PM
1

I am not making it personal. The viewpoints that she’s espousing are toxic masculinity. That’s the very definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:33 PM
8

Yeah agree with this. I likely did it when I was young along with other issues such as racism etc. I was definitely pretty misogynistic too as a child. Very cringe “not like the other girls” energy. I’d like to think I’m a bit more mindful now and I hope that I don’t fall into these traps anymore but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:45 AM
1

You 100% perpetuate toxic masculinity with these views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:42 AM
1

I don’t perceive there to be any negatives of living with my romantic partner. So LAT wouldn’t be something I’d seek to do. But if others find it better than living together, then I’m happy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:40 AM
6

https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/np7spj/m30_rate_me_110/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:00 PM
1

Why don’t you trust him?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:41 PM
3

Yeah don’t go to red pill women. It’s a shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:37 PM
3

God. It’s that one time a year when I agree with you on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:29 PM
0

I wouldn’t personally care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:22 PM
2

The Daily Megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:40 PM
2

Men can’t ask a question for men. It’s against sub rules. Take this Q to the daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:35 PM
3

Q4A: do you think your romantic partner should be your best friend too?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:33 PM
1

Jesus Christ. Bullet dodged there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:33 PM
2

Like the majority of the populace, I prefer to have committed, monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:39 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:29 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:23 PM
1

Early 30. Been with the guy I want from early twenties. He tells me he’s attracted to me and I’m happy to accept that on face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:17 PM
23

People don’t need to justify shit to anyone but their own partner. If you’re unhappy with how little your partner is approaching, ask them to fix it or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:34 PM
13

Depends what is causing the issue. Why are we arguing constantly? Fixing the root cause is the best way to fix. If we are arguing constantly about nothing…perhaps the relationship has run its course.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:19 PM
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I have multiple Reddit accounts. The one for this is basically a throwaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:37 PM
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No. I’m personally against FWB relationships in general. Not for everyone else, happy for everyone to choose whatever works for them. But I don’t like the thought of them personally. Additionally I wouldn’t get with a married man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:29 PM
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No. But I’m an incredibly average looking person so don’t tend to draw attention to myself if I can help it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:04 PM
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As someone with a degree in STEM, I think the way people who study STEM shit on people who study philosophy for example is wrong headed. The amount of STEM grads who don’t understand logical fallacies is worrying. Having people trained in reason and understanding is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:57 PM
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How do you know that’s what they’re earning?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:10 PM
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Everyone on here has an 8 inch dick and a 165 IQ apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:02 PM
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There’s nothing more cringe than someone boasting about IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:57 PM
3

Female. I don’t like saying “favourite” cause I don’t like either war or murderers but “most interesting”? Then yes to both. Any battle in Sherman’s March to the Sea and Dennis Niesen. Close runner ups are Dien Bien Phu and the Golden State Killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:32 AM
1

Binge drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:55 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:23 PM
1

I’ve deleted and blocked my ex bf. Guys I’ve dated I don’t have the numbers of anymore but I maybe have one or two on social media. I don’t have any contact information of men I’ve had sex with other than my current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:45 PM
1

If you had no friends and no romantic partner, what would you focus on getting first?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:37 PM
3

Agree Ainsley. When a guy cries to you (had this happen from men I don’t even know well too), you do feel honoured and trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:29 PM
3

Anyone watch Welcome to Wrexham? I come from old mining stock in a very similar place to Wrexham (ie a place devastated by Thatcher in the 80s). A lot of the people on the show look very similar to the people I spend most of my time around. People who get married, have kids, date around, get drunk and have casual hookups after a night out at the pub. Just normal, average folk. It just makes me feel entirely confused by half the shit spouted on this page.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:16 AM
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People on here think being friends with a woman is simp behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:11 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:14 PM
2

I don’t even understand people who get matching tattoos never mind fucking surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:32 PM
8

I need to date this guy 3 months before we can go out for a meal together? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:03 PM
1

I have an alt but no one has linked them yet who I hadn’t already told.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:43 PM
1

Q4A what age are you, are you single and how many mixed sex social activities do you attend a month on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:46 PM
2

But why would I need to do that experiment? I know my cousins and siblings date fine. I’ve seen it with my eyes. All it would tell me is they probably wouldn’t do good on tinder. Which I already know. Cause none of them met their other halves on tinder. So the “experiment” is a waste of time. You understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:37 PM
3

I already know men find it more difficult on tinder. Don’t need to do an experiment my friend. Explain your posts better in future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:55 PM
2

Is English your first language mate? Your OP did not mention tinder. If I was a guy trying to date, I wouldn’t use tinder. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:36 PM
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Downvoting is against the rules. And I never said it was. I’m just saying my male family members have all had dating success. All of them. So even if it is harder for men, men with my upbringing and genetics do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:17 PM
2

Why? None of them needed tinder to get laid? So why should I use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:12 PM
3

Why would my experience be any different to my siblings and cousins?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:06 PM
2

Well I can see they’ve all basically never been single. So I can’t imagine they found it too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:47 PM
2

Same place they did. Most of them found someone through their friendship groups or work. A few online. Like I said, I have no single male family members. So for men with similar genetics to my own it must be manageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:16 PM
2

Works well in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:48 PM
1

Anyone see that trans man who’s balding on T at 21? Is 21 young for that to happen to cis men or is that fairly common?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:32 AM
2

Yes. Every single one of my male family members found a girlfriend. Presumably I’d look similar to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:26 AM
1

Rugby seems chadder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:28 PM
1

I thought it was all about 666? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:12 AM
5

It’s funny talking about how picky women are when as a below average to average looking teenager (about a decade ago) all a guy had to do was show an interest in me to have me crushing like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:35 PM
1

Bore off
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:11 AM
1

I agree with my partner on loads of shit every day. Think you’re projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:19 AM
1

No. I’m not entirely fussed about having a family but always wanted to make my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:45 AM
2

I truly doubt this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:55 PM
2

Yeah. Making fun of the guys your friends are seeing just makes you look jealous tbh. I’d have cut you off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:47 PM
6

Ok so have your cake and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:46 PM
1

Do you want a woman who earns the same as you then? Or would you want a trad wife? Seems like dismissing women who make their own money and dismissing alimony for housewives makes you a “want to have your cake and eat it too” sort of a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:38 PM
2

No idea what happens in it. I’m a stem kinda girl who reads mostly non fiction or sci fi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:57 PM
3

I think people should discuss issues like childcare and working prior to marriage. Agreed. But if a guy agrees to support his wife to not work and for her to stay at home, caring for kids, cooking and cleaning he can’t act all surprised when she can’t find a job following the divorce due to her zero experience and she needs money. Also not all women in the workplace can really be categorised as career women. Plenty just churning away at a shitty job to keep them and their families afloat with no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:52 PM
4

I don’t like ascribing high and low value to people but sure, I’ve known women I would steer my brothers and friends away from if I saw them showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:45 PM
1

You’re back!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:43 PM
3

Thankfully only for a very short period. But my grandmother was able to take on primary care duties for free so that helped my mum get back to the workforce. Although my grandmother forced my mum to marry my dad so…least she could do really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:35 PM
4

This is my understanding too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:33 PM
6

Depends. If he wants a stay at home wife he has to accept that this risk goes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:33 PM
2

Who called him an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:23 PM
7

Oh yeah. Make me reliant on a man for everything so I can never leave even when he punches me in the head. What a time to be alive!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:06 PM
4

As a woman who loves to pay her own way…I am also glad I live in a country where it’s normal to go Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:54 AM
0

Hahaha. Thank fuck I wasn’t born in the 50s. Can’t wait to get married next year though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:24 AM
2

No way I’d ever rely on a man for money. Imagine devoting your entire life to doing a man’s housework and raising his kids and then he ups and leaves you with barely enough money to get by and you haven’t spent any time developing work skills. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:43 AM
3

Peaches I can’t handle this today 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:23 AM
2

The first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:27 PM
7

She’s an actress. I think when he became pretty publicised for sympathising with that incel murderer and started saying the cure for incels was “enforced monogamy”. A lot of people heard this sound bite and I can see why from this they now think he’s some sort of incel lord or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:19 AM
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I’ve read through and over 124 days ago he was just saying men and women are happier not in relationships and now he’s saying just women. I’m sus as fuck. Because only the extremists would suggest men and women shouldn’t date. There’s a reason he’s getting downvoted to fuck on ask feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:35 AM
6

This guy hasn’t thought about…..the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:15 AM
3

Incels talk about how they learned romance from Disney movies etc. They seem like they’ve taken the bluest of pills. And then got mad when they’ve realised that the real world isn’t a Disney movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:31 AM
4

People don’t like liars. Pretending you’re virtuous and then turning out not to be gets people annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:04 PM
3

Polygraphs don’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:00 PM
4

Anyone who says it’s cause it makes her feel safer is just post-hoc rationalising in my opinion. Sexual dimorphism means heterosexual people tend to find the differences in the sexes attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:13 AM
4

If you think someone paying for their own bills is “contractural” then you’re too naive to be in a relationship. Adults care about the financial stability of their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:15 PM
1

I enjoy torturing them consensually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:03 PM
1

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:56 PM
6

Did you get the puberty talk at school?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:23 PM
2

Noooooo. I want him like a Sasquatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:39 PM
2

Tell that to 18 year old me. She was a sucker for a rendition of womderwall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:58 AM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:57 AM
4

In this essay I will examine the Chad/inc….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:58 AM
8

Chad is any guy who can get sex easier than the person talking about Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:56 AM
3

It’s simple. It’s effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:02 PM
7

I love seeing my man happy. It’s why I suck his cock so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:53 PM
3

I don’t care if he watches porn. I watch it with him sometimes. I’d only be concerned if he’s preferring the porn over actually fucking me. Which isn’t the case thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:22 PM
2

Please tell me none of you paid for Tate’s Hustler University. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:40 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:25 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:52 PM
3

Be as ruthless as you like. If you’re lying about intentions to manipulate or trick someone, you’re a shithead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:34 PM
6

I see it often enough on this sub and others. People love to act like shitheads then justify it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:42 PM
15

Just so you know. If you are deliberately lying about your intentions to someone to get what you want from them, then you’re a bad person. People aren’t a means to an end. And if you treat them as such you don’t get to pretend you’re morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:28 PM
1

Think you’ve hit the nail on the head here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:15 PM
1

Can’t believe I’ve been downvoted for saying men should make their bed in case a woman comes over as she’d be more keen to get into a bed that looks clean and tidy. This place is bloody hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:12 PM
2

No. I want my bf to send me dick pics. I don’t want a random to send me dick pics. I have no difficulty negotiating consent for the dick pics I want to receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:28 AM
1

Well for my current one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:25 AM
2

My parents got divorced and it absolutely improved my life. I can’t imagine how toxic and horrible the house would have been if they’d remained together. Now I have two loving, happy and caring parents, some great step parents and siblings I’d never have had if my parents had remained together. I believe in approaching marriage in a pragmatic way. Making sure you’re a match before making that commitment. But if even after all of that I needed to get a divorce down the line, I’d be really upset b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:24 AM
2

It takes like a minute. And makes a bed much more welcoming if you’re bringing a lady over. How is this such a hardship?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:01 AM
1

What do you earn?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:36 AM
2

Yeah those are both wrong my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:35 AM
2

The literal first response to your question from me was the word “no.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:09 PM
4

No. I earn that much more than my partner and I see us as equal so I don’t see how I’d view it any different switched around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:25 PM
1

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:13 PM
0

Did you get downvoted? It wasn’t me FYI. Someone is downvoting me too. Thanks for your response nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:04 PM
2

Yeah I agree with this. I’d say fuck all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:00 PM
2

I’m not sure what my dads issue with the guy was straight from the off tbh. He was a little overweight and a bit hyperactive. He did turn out to be pretty terrible though and maybe my dad could just see through him better than naive teenage me. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:00 PM
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Why would you not ask your daughter the same? Tbh I think I’d say nothing personally to my future hypothetical kid. Just keep my thoughts to myself. Obviously my parents didn’t feel the same though!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:58 PM
1

My parents mostly kept quiet about it other than a snide comment or a raised eyebrow once or twice but when I broke up with him a few years later they let me know how they’d felt about him. They were not fans
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:56 PM
0

What would you do if you thought your kid was settling for someone not good enough for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:42 PM
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What would you say if your son/daughter brought a person home to meet you who was way below their league? Just asking cause I had a flashback to my dad meeting my ex and him taking me aside to ask if I was sure I was actually attracted to this man? He seemed confused AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:34 PM
1

Ok thank you. I’m trying to figure out how the OK Cupid data set was collated because it says in it women were dating 80% men below average but if there wasn’t a rating system built into the site, I don’t see where this data came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:56 PM
1

How did you indicate interest? Did you ever have to give other profiles ratings out of 5 for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:48 PM
2

Was there a similar mechanism to tinder today where you can give someone a yes/no based on their profile? Or was it more complicated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:24 PM
2

Are there any older folks on here who used OK Cupid back in the day? Want to ask some questions about how it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:17 PM
2

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:43 PM
1

Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:25 PM
6

Why should I care? I don’t live in Italy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:25 PM
6

Nice guy is a joke. It’s sarcasm. It’s not an actual issue with nice guys. I know lots of actually nice men. They’re not the targets here. It’s the ones who say they’re nice then act like little bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:18 AM
5

😂😂😂😂😂 these questions are getting out of hand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:21 PM
1

Yeah me either. Dunno. Would be concerned about side effects tbh. But I’m not a physician so not really my area of expertise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:11 PM
6

Many reasons. Don’t think it’s all one hormone. Human bodies are complicated. But would giving boys in puberty more test help this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:09 PM
1

Genuine question, does taking test at a younger age make you taller? Does science actually back this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:06 PM
7

Can’t believe blue pillers want us to believe Stacey’s mom has got it going on when that bitch is clearly post wall. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:57 PM
2

Are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:31 PM
2

What? You don’t like guys you’re friends with showing interest in you cause of rape? This seems a little over the top. And by a little. I mean a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:39 AM
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No. I’d be happy remaining friends. If he kept pushing it even when I’d said no I would most likely want to avoid but if they’re cool just being friends then I’d be fine with that. That being said, this has never happened. Any male friends who’ve asked me out I’ve dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:30 AM
5

I’m sure there are women out there who like this look but personally this is too much for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:27 AM
2

I would never have casual sex again. Tried it. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:26 AM
1

Some since High school, some since uni, some since I started working with them in my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:25 AM
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If I’m single I have no issues with a male friend asking me out. I’ve dated two guys who were friends with me before we got together. I would mind if they told me they wanted me if I’m in a relationship. That’s disrespectful to my partner and I would have to cut them out of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:24 AM
1

What sort of responses would you get in that case? She’s being corrected in the comments from what I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:07 PM
1

Q4W: has a man ever asked you your n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:05 PM
1

Did you have a moustache before?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:02 PM
1

Never heard anyone say that lying is fine. And I wholeheartedly disagree with those who think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:01 PM
3

Or we could just say lying is bad…like most of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:54 PM
3

Wtf jackedsoon. No need to be so mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:29 PM
6

I’m dying reading this 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:38 PM
2

Crying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:36 PM
3

I live in Scotland mate. You’re not telling me anything I don’t know. Just saying if you wanted internet it wouldn’t be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:49 AM
1

Where in the highlands? You get Wi-Fi in most hotels and campsites FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:44 AM
3

Here’s hoping you don’t operate heavy machinery
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:00 AM
5

Did women come up with this phrase? I hear men using it too tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:45 PM
1

What body shape are you just now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:36 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:32 PM
1

Yeah but by working for the armed forces I’d be enabling some pretty heinous shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:16 PM
1

Would only join in an invasion scenario. I have no interest in dropping bombs on civilians.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:47 PM
4

I’d be best suited to a role in engineering/design as I’m weak as fuck and I’ve never fired a gun but I’d give it a shot if asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:28 PM
1

Most men don’t ask out their high school crush IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:59 PM
2

Luxury apartment. I’m a city girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:38 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:37 PM
2

I’m the obese woman larping as a man larping as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:15 PM
1

He talks about sucking dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:57 PM
2

Yes. But why should they care?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:52 PM
1

It’s a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:52 PM
2

DM me who. I’m nosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:47 PM
4

I don’t think it’s most people’s fault that they aren’t millionaires but go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:30 PM
3

Depends. If someone is just saying inane shit and not backing it up I’m fine ignoring them cause I’d have better fun smashing my face against a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:18 PM
1

Or they’ve actually been gaslighted….
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:38 PM
8

The hypocritical standards discussion drives me insane. You can’t please everyone. Go do as you please and stop worrying about what strangers on the internet say about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:12 PM
1

Yeah. We passed each other every day for 3 weeks ( I think we may have been on the same bus). I wasn’t sure who he was but he must have figured out who I was. He then messaged me “number? x”. I stopped getting that bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:10 AM
1

How did you come to this realisation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:57 AM
2

I’m more cynical than you then 😂 I think it’s all about the dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:20 AM
3

They’ve clearly done some research that’s indicated otherwise. Whether it pans out correctly or not is not something I care about. I don’t have shares in the company. Their success or failure does not affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:02 AM
1

I hope it is or he’s a fucking idiot. Like it’s clear the implication is she’s sucked the strippers dick. It’s glaringly obvious. How you can’t see that after typing this out is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:34 AM
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Men are already buying the games, maybe they’re hoping that more women will buy the game if there’s a female protagonist. These companies live to make money. Nothing else. They aren’t our friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:32 AM
1

I always find relationship advice statements like that odd. Like, how come he couldn’t figure it out himself when he was typing that whole thing out. It’s literally so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:50 AM
3

This post is getting deleted by mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:36 AM
2

You are actually Gaston aren’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:17 AM
1

Fully agree with you here!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:28 AM
3

Think children do better with more active adults in their lives. Good grandparents can be a great influence in the absence of a father however.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:21 AM
5

Do it. There’s usually 1 or 2 men at most exercise classes I go to. Ifs really normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:20 AM
5

My bf is stable and reliable but also interesting and fun. The terms boring and stable are not synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:19 AM
6

Best thing to do is hammer the wall and say “shut the fuck up”. They’ll be embarrassed enough that they’ll stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:51 PM
3

House of the Dragons chat again - does anyone else feel like they can’t relax enough to watch it. Like going back to a terrible ex. I’m just waiting for the penny to drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:26 PM
1

I guess prey cause they’re bigger and I like big eyes. But tbh either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:38 PM
2

Show me some examples cause I have no idea what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:29 PM
3

No need to fight. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:01 PM
2

I don’t get it personally. The GOT character I wanted to fuck the most was Samwell Tarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:01 PM
2

I met mine at 22 and feel pretty fucking lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:35 PM
3

He’s funny and cute. Would smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:33 PM
2

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:19 PM
2

Yours sounds sincere tbh. Don’t get the joke. Do you think men shouldn’t approach women? That’s not very redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:06 PM
3

Mate I was joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:59 PM
5

We are the monolith!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:53 PM
2

Think he means depraved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:50 PM
1

That’s not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:45 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:37 PM
1

Zero
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:37 PM
1

The Doctor from Doctor Who.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:23 PM
3

How would I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:29 PM
3

Everyone disagrees
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:09 PM
2

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7704697/Ohio-mom-sentenced-37-years-killing-three-infant-sons.html full story here for those scrolling by. Fucking tragic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:05 PM
1

I prefer him as The Doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:00 PM
3

Nintendo Streetpass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:39 PM
4

This just looks petty and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:06 PM
1

Yes. I take as little to do with them as possible though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:03 PM
0

Matter in what sense? Does anything matter? Feeling a bit nihilistic today.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:30 PM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:53 PM
1

I disagree with her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:19 PM
3

No it’s not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:58 PM
2

Yeah I ask “is everything ok” too. Thankfully my bf is great at telling me what’s bothering him so there’s no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:53 PM
3

When I’ve said it I just mean if a guy is in a bad mood or sitting in a huff or clearly very upset, that he tells me why so I can help if possible. I cannot handle silent treatment or people who sit in moods all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:39 PM
2

Hey why stop there. Maybe it’s 1%. Maybe zero percent. Maybe women are a figment of our imagination! Let’s all speculate nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:19 PM
4

Pretty horrendous. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slave_contract
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:18 PM
2

This obv isn’t aimed at you then Smarmy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:16 PM
6

Cause K-POP contracts and expectations are abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:14 PM
5

Why do you care if some people don’t agree with your preferences? What actual difference does it make?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:05 PM
3

No it isn’t. Friend zone is when she doesn’t feel anything sexual to you but keeps you around to only be a friend. She’s made it clear she wants to fuck. If anything she’s in your friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:50 AM
3

Not important if you’ve had sex 100s times before in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:49 AM
1

I as he a pimp or something or just using prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:30 AM
3

Wouldn’t say I prefer it but it can be fun. I like variety more than anything else. It’s the spice of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:29 AM
5

Awww this is lovely to see 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:05 AM
1

Wow. Lock him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:04 AM
1

In what works is that hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:03 AM
4

But she’s made it clear she’d fuck you. That’s a very loose definition of friendzone IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:00 AM
2

I heard Tate was being investigated for human trafficking. Is that true or did I pick it up wrong? I’m too lazy to fact check it myself so hoping someone here can let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:59 AM
2

In what way is this friend zoning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:54 AM
2

Would you describe her as a friend? I’ve have male friends confide to me about their issues when they had a girlfriend. I was more than happy to let them have a vent/shoulder to cry in without anything in return. That’s just something friends do for one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:34 AM
0

Do you not already have a girlfriend…? Are you looking to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:27 AM
2

Yer maw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:28 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:41 AM
1

When the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:41 AM
3

The Queen started sending letters to her husband when he was early twenties and she was 13.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:40 AM
1

When I go for a smear test the doctor usually offers and I say “why not?”. But if she didn’t insist I wouldn’t bother. And that’s like once every 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:18 AM
9

….what? 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:13 PM
3

Good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:53 PM
5

It isn’t. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:10 PM
4

Last
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:31 PM
1

Ok this is a great response. So much to work though here. Love Vandemeer and Vonnegut but there’s a few I’ve not heard of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:41 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:40 PM
1

Yeah Frankenstein is great, will give Timequake a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:40 PM
1

I’ve never heard of the second one but Ubik is on my shelf already so might be worth picking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:39 PM
2

A podcast I listen to recommended this recently so this is a good contender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:39 PM
3

That’s more fantasy than sci fi no?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:01 PM
1

Yeah the guy was a dick haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:01 PM
1

Best sci fi book you’ve ever read? Looking for some recs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:57 PM
2

Nah. Having been love bombed myself, there are no boundaries. They go over and above what you could expect from another human. That’s why is so intoxicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:06 PM
3

The way I see it is there is a reason love bombing works. Love bombers come across as simps to the untrained eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:53 PM
5

I’ve never had an orbiter. It’s not fair 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:39 PM
1

Yeah but some of the Behaviour is so insidious. I’m assuming he maybe learned it from his dad. But he was a very effective abuser. So perhaps some of it was picked up in online spaces. I’m just wondering out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:53 AM
5

As a natural escalation in mutual sexting, they’re great. Out of the blue from a stranger? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:16 AM
2

Well I did leave and he did immediately start begging for me to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:07 AM
1

Do you think some men just naturally do it or do you think it’s something he maybe heard in passing or witnessed himself? Obviously you don’t know him and can’t be in his head but in 2009, what was the likelihood he read this stuff online?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:53 AM
1

How many years have things like dread game been in common discussion in men’s conversations online. Looking back my first bf was definitely guilty of using it and I’m wondering if it came naturally to him. Or if he’d read it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:50 AM
2

No. I’ve been on birth control from age 18
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:10 AM
1

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:26 PM
3

I’m all feminism. I can answer on behalf of all women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:24 PM
2

It’s why I love you the most Smarmy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:05 PM
3

I love simps so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:02 PM
1

Vit D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:02 PM
1

Fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:02 PM
1

Anything I say. I’m such a little bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:02 PM
1

Ask me? I’ll answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:01 PM
3

Teaspoons and rubber bands can replace men? Good to know E2.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:18 PM
2

How many cups is coffee a day is too much? On no.4 and I can barely keep my eyes open.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:09 PM
2

I’m not projecting anything. I’ve just noticed you post stuff about this a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:52 AM
3

You’d need to ask his wife. I don’t know her. But he talks about his wife being more experienced a lot. He feels he should be able to go get some casual to bring him up to her level of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:18 AM
3

He’s talking specifically about his more experienced wife hooking up with his less experienced self.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:47 AM
3

I don’t pay him anything. We have a household income and we have equal access. To give him financial security I go through the existing divorce system and let his and my lawyers work out how much he is due and for how long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:43 AM
2

He’s alive. No need to worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:09 AM
4

Leverage is the wrong way to look at things. I suggest calling a suicide hotline if that’s the concern. Let them provide you resources for your area if there are any.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:35 PM
2

I’ve started to feel this way recently too. It’s frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:30 AM
1

I don’t get men that want this lifestyle. Sounds stressful AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:57 PM
1

Let me guess….it’s racial
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:26 PM
3

I’m terrible with names. Is that Matt Smith’s character. I love Matt Smith and have done for a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:01 PM
1

Waaaait. Is that what people are saying on here today? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:34 PM
2

Yeah it’s always like this. The posts are repetitive and unless you reply in first hour you’re not getting a response
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:18 PM
2

Most men care. But there are a sizeable enough contingent out their wiling to overlook it from what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:32 PM
2

They’d pay to see if they weren’t living there too. I pay to go into palaces not lived in by monarchs all the time as a tourist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:25 PM
1

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:17 PM
1

What do you want me to do? An assassination? It’s like I voted them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:17 PM
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