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I loved your dedication to it yeah 😂 although nothing is beating that sext you responded to by talking about vomiting up chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:36 PM
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My husband would have this cat out of our house so fast I wouldn’t even get an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:29 PM
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You have seen enough porn to last a lifetime tbf. I see 99% less dicks than I used to cause of you 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:27 PM
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Based based based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:16 PM
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You can absolutely say you prefer men to women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:07 PM
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OH NO!!!! WHATEVER WILL THESE ANONYMOUS INTERNET STRANGERS THINK OF YOU IF YOU’RE POLITICALLY INCORRECT???? THE HORROOOOOR!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:52 PM
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You can just say woman bad. Don’t have to get all cryptic about it jeezo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:46 PM
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Oh you mean the one also responsible for 90% of the murders? I see, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:46 PM
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I am also noodle pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:45 PM
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Valid. But also. The fuck does noodle pilled mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:30 PM
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A man of science and reasoning I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:29 PM
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Divorced middle aged men and zoomers. What a beautiful combination. Well if we’ve got the whole gender wars stuff all done, maybe we can solve the Middle East next.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:29 PM
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I don’t understand you 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:27 PM
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I don’t understand you 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:26 PM
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Well what reason did you give
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:24 PM
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So did you guys figure out if men or women are worse yet? Not been here in a while. Assuming you got that stuff all ironed out by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:20 PM
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Are you guys not speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:09 PM
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I spoke to him yesterday and he said he’s over it all and not really bothered by discord now so even if he’s in it he’s not active.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:55 PM
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Both not in it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:52 PM
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Yuk not there either and the alt of Bob is banned too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:51 PM
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Also he’s not in the new server so accept the invite goddammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:50 PM
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Does Bob still comment in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:49 PM
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Come back to discord!!!! Also how can you be a catholic now when you’re so pro abortion 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:45 PM
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Are there any redpillers left? Make yourself known.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:01 PM
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I wouldn’t have an issue dating a bi man. That being said, I think the prejudice against them is likely due to perceptions of sexual unfaithfulness, STIs and the plain old ingrained biphobic ick a lot of folks have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:58 PM
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If I was dating again. I’m mid 30s. I’d go 30 youngest and 45ish oldest but tbh if I met someone outside that range I liked who knows? But they wouldn’t be in my tinder range.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:56 PM
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Shredded men are dull and neurotic. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:54 PM
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4 days alone with only my thoughts? No Netflix or anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:53 PM
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Yeah. I’d be fine with that on paper. Who knows if the reality of it would be something I could handle. Maybe I’d give it a go and then feel burdened.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:36 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:41 AM
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Likely. Humans need comfort when times are tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:40 AM
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This is just accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:38 AM
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Life being like this forever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:49 PM
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Not trying to be a dickhead here asking for sources, just genuinely want to read more into this and can’t find the 83% figure on Google. Where did you get this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:38 PM
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Is this a common phenomenon? I haven’t heard about it before?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:03 PM
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Fuck I love this outfit. Beautiful 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:44 PM
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Could not agree with any of this more. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:00 PM
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I have never done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:51 AM
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Cheese and celery
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:06 PM
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Whatever. I’m a feminist and I do more for men’s mental well-being than you do. I can guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:04 PM
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Feminist thought isn’t a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:59 PM
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This sounds like you don’t want to take accountability for your actions Holiday :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:41 PM
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She would be doing him a favour if she leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:21 PM
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Yeah it’s a new study, not the retracted one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:28 AM
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Misread your comment. Didn’t see “my hospital”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:30 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:09 AM
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Of course not, but maybe they’re not all assholes and he’s overreacting…?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:40 AM
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Oh no I have this dream frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:44 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:16 PM
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He mentioned he’s quite a sensitive guy so I’m putting it down to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:05 PM
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Erm. In this scenario I’m a divorced woman and I’d be fine with this tbh. Cause the thought of getting that intensely serious with another person again doesn’t appeal and so I don’t care if he’s fucking his ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:30 PM
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Depends how virile you are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:09 PM
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I work in a male dominated industry and while you may get the odd dickhead, 99% are professional and cool. None of what you’ve posted is universal to the female experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:03 PM
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They’re nice to old women and women like my mum too. She always gets doors opened for her or asked to cut in line or whatever. Maybe it’s just a British thing then? I do think men are generally pleasant to be around. You get absolute arseholes obviously though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:56 PM
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Is your mum a short British woman? 😂 cause same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:51 PM
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The absolute hatred for fat people online sickens me tbh. But I don’t know if it’s gendered. Seems to be shaming across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:46 PM
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Low self esteem and sense of self
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:39 PM
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I have the opposite of whatever resting bitchface is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:39 PM
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Got the DIY I needed done completed ✅ Now for a celebratory beer and White Lotus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:38 PM
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Just @ me next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:35 PM
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Yeah. Frequently told to “go out and don’t be a weirdo”, “stop reading and go to a nightclub (underaged), then you might get a boy to kiss you” and “what do you mean you only got 90% in your Chem test?”. My mum is a character
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:27 PM
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Those fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:22 PM
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Don’t vaguepost. Tell me who I need to be mad at!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:19 PM
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I had parents that encouraged me to underage drink and go to parties but also to get straight As under pain of death. Not sure if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:19 PM
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Yeah. I married the dude and he may be in his early 30s like me but he’s a pensioner at heart ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:17 PM
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Erm. I wouldn’t say I’m all that attractive physically. But I’m smiley/pleasant/chatty/friendly. And men respond well to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:16 PM
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It’s genuinely scary 😧
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:13 PM
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Least you can’t catch anything from an online affair, bright side and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:12 PM
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As a millenial woman I find men around me are still generally quite chivalrous. I guess this must be a gen z thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:09 PM
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There are scary points. But it’s not common if things are going right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:08 PM
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Caring about rings is dumb AF
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:04 PM
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That’s how I felt when I tried an opioid once. Most blissful experience of my life. Will never touch the stuff again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:49 PM
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Maybe she likes the humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:41 PM
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I’d think he was a wanker but if that’s how he wanted to behave then good fucking riddance tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:46 AM
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Oh just realised you weren’t OP. I think doing badly with the opposite sex is sadly something that happens to a lot of people. Without knowing you personally, it’s hard to pinpoint the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:48 AM
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Question. Are these the women who are soft bullying, dick measuring, malevolent, talking behind backs etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:46 AM
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I don’t mean to sounds like a bitch, but this may come across that way. If you come across a few assholes in day to day life, that’s a shame and I feel bad for you. But if the majority of places you are end up that toxic, then maybe it’s a you issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:38 AM
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Hard to argue with this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:33 AM
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Do you just sit in your home with the tv off in silence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 AM
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Same!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 AM
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Fuck me, you must be paying a fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:30 AM
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Q4A what subscriptions are worth paying for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:23 AM
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Maybe that would make me feel less bad about how behind I am in home repairs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:18 AM
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A maybe you should drink more 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:17 AM
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Oh neat. That sounds really cool. Enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:12 AM
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I wish I liked doing DIY half as much as I enjoyed watching reels of people doing DIY.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:11 AM
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What you got planned?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:06 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:51 AM
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Mood
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:45 AM
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At the time I was convinced I wanted someone “more mature”. And so wanted older. I ended up dating someone from real life rather than the apps shortly after that and he was a year younger. So my preference/age range was stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:16 AM
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I think you’re reading stuff that isn’t there tbh. She knows she could have stopped it and that’s why she’s feeling so much shame and guilt. There’s no buck passing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:13 AM
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In what way is she not taking accountability? To me, it looks like she blames herself throughout the post 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:08 AM
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Eeeesh this is depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:58 AM
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Ok I’m glad I came back to the daily if only to see this image. Howling 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:43 AM
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Yanks asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:31 AM
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What was your previous account?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:31 AM
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Is purplish still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:00 AM
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Missed that 😂😂 Christ. What a thing to nuke an account over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:59 AM
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Was that reg text or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:52 AM
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Wishing you all the best with your further treatment ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:48 AM
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Amazing!! Great stuff ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:48 AM
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Great. Cancer all gone too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:29 AM
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Oooh I recognise you. You were a religious virgin waiting for marriage iirc. You married yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:28 AM
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Ohhh congrats!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:24 AM
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Hi Eulen!! Never see you on discord these days! Hope all is well with you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:13 AM
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What’s your old name?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:13 AM
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Oh yeah, Eulen. Not spoken to her in an age!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:12 AM
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Other than Lift and Lurk, which daily thread users have been here the longest? I was active here several years ago but like to drop in and I have to say I recognise no one now 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:04 AM
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Most shortguys are super chill and are not complaining about their height on the internet. Don’t hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:40 AM
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There’s different biases towards men and women that have different drawbacks/advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:35 AM
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I was told men were terrible at housework too. I was told they’re useless at pretty much everything though tbf. Both my mum and my mother in law look at me like I’m crazy cause my husband irons his own shirts. He’ll mess it up apparently. Like I give a solitary shit about how well his shirt is ironed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:34 AM
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I was on tinder years ago age 23 and my age range was 23-29 I thiiiink. Maybe 23-30. Now, 11 years later I’d be going 30-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:26 AM
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Describe your dream partner in 3 words.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:44 PM
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Are red pillers actually redpill these days? Seems like the old ways have died off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:51 PM
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Dating a guy you’re friends with first is nice. You get to a good level of trust early on which is sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:18 PM
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I was more meaning for fun tbh. Obv if your livelihood is at stake that makes for a less interesting question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:09 PM
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Sorta defeats the purpose of an either/or question
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:08 PM
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My theory that men would mostly answer non fic and women would answer fic is coming true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:05 PM
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What sort of fiction do you like to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:54 PM
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What sort of work do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:53 PM
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Q4A if you could only read fiction or non fiction for the rest of your life, what would you pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:51 PM
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What makes you think it’s rare. I know so many good dads, including my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:43 PM
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I’ll do what I do every year. Yo-yo diet and hate myself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:26 PM
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Paying for first dates - no, I’ve always paid half. Buying flowers weekly - no but flowers a couple times a year are nice. I buy him sweets. Sidewalk rule - nah Opening the door - he does it when I’m in a fancy outfit for a wedding or something as a joke but otherwise, no. Pulling out chair - no. But he always offers me the banquette seating which I prefer. That’s nice. Gifts every month or two - gifts make me feel obligated to buy him gifts so I prefer we stick to our £50 limit for Christmas an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:27 AM
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I refuse to accept this is real. Men love when women cum. This has to be nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:23 AM
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That sucks my dude. Big hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:18 AM
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No it’s not. There’s frequent child marriage and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:23 PM
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But the Quran and bible have paedophilia and rape. So what you said originally makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:23 PM
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So you want to legalise rape of women and girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:16 PM
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What checks and regulations on male nature do they want and what restraints on female nature do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:08 PM
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Eat more. You’ll start to taste the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:51 PM
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Yeah. I’m lucky to have a large and close family
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:48 PM
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Don’t care about money or anxiety. Hot and late 20s sounds good though. I’m early 30s and married though 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:47 PM
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I don’t know you man. Give me your elevator pitch and I’ll see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:42 PM
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Yeah agree. Up to 22 I’d say. Past that, you’re beyond saving if you’re making bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:41 PM
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Ooft. Why am I hearing the Jerry springer theme tune?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:40 PM
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I get that tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:39 PM
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I don’t care about it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:37 PM
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Being young, your hormones are raging. Gets rid of any common sense. People don’t show their incompetence on day 1 typically. They ease into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:36 PM
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One thing these sorts of spaces taught me is how important it is for men to workout. I’ve never personally cared about it so thought it was unimportant but the facts speak for themselves. Being fit is hot and I encourage you all to get to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:31 PM
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If you get the feels for a guy you’ll put up with a lot tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:27 PM
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Thank you for your service 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:26 PM
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I am similar and being with my husband has been great tbh because he is the type to spend when it will actually make our lives measurably better. It’s good if you get someone who balances out the frugal but doesn’t go too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:25 PM
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You sound kinda obsessed with her tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:21 PM
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Attractive people less likely to be poor enough to be homeless generally. You don’t generally get chads on the street either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:21 PM
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Rugby men doing the haka is the hottest thing on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:20 PM
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Where do you live that this happens. Millenial here with no government money 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:19 PM
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Hot AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:16 PM
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I’m married. We have separate bank accounts our wages are paid into and then we transfer money to a shared account to pay bills proportionate to our wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:15 PM
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Not been here in 1.5 months. What have I missed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:13 PM
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Yeah you made the right choice for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:09 AM
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Yeah so is murder. Obviously what I said is hyperbole. But the point stands. If a relationship isn’t working then best to head out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:07 AM
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Worst thing you can do is stay with someone when they’re not for you. It doesn’t matter if others see it as petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:02 AM
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It can be. Lonely too. I think romantic love really helps people thrive and feel fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:13 PM
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Romantic love isn’t necessary for survival
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:11 PM
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As someone completely not versed in American politics and who knows nothing, my opinion is he’s already women the election.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:23 PM
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……hahahahahahahahahaah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:54 PM
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Exactly. No easy descriptions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:50 PM
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Yeah don’t disagree with you. I disagree with op that only women will fuck up happy relationships. Some Men will cheat even if they love their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:39 PM
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Absolutely. My best friend is a guy. If my husband read our texts or was a fly on the wall in our conversation I know there would be nothing for my husband to worry about. When I started dating my husband, I made it clear I had male friends and he was cool with that. But it’s possible he could have left me If he wasn’t happy with that even if I’m faithful. Different couples expect different behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:38 PM
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Hotttttttt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:31 PM
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Honestly? There’s no concrete answer here. Emotional cheating is vibes based and is almost a thought crime which makes it difficult to say it’s even happened. All I know is if my husband started seeming to prefer spending time with another woman rather than me I’d feel destroyed. The best description I’ve read was if you were worried the conversation you’re having with the opposite sex person was being viewed by your partner, that’s emotional cheating. But it’s not black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:31 PM
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I like males. And females. What’s the opposite of a misanthrope? That’s me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:21 PM
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100% agree with all of this. I’d be more upset if there was emotional rather than physical cheating as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:09 PM
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I wasn’t clear. Yes cheating is wrong. What I meant was that the woman is unhappy and cheats. Whether she has reason to be unhappy or not is what I meant by rightly or wrongly. The right thing to do if you’re unhappy is to leave obviously. Not cheat. But sometimes people wrongly don’t like their relationships for the wrong reasons and that’s what I was getting at. Does that make sense? Apologies for the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:59 PM
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Misogyny ain’t cool my dude. Don’t get radicalised into hating women at such a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:49 PM
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All hate is natural. All love is natural. Emotions are natural. Humans are emotional beings. Is it logical? Is it correct? That’s another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:42 PM
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I hope you find something that works for you too. Accepting it’s a thing is the first step and I wish you the best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:41 PM
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I ended up getting some amazing friends who built me up and told me to stop accepting shit. I could never have done it on my own. I owe them everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:39 PM
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Women typically cheat when they’re unhappy in a relationship (rightly or wrongly). Men will cheat even if they’re in love with their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:38 PM
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Oh man I get that. My mum shouted so much so I internalised it as being fine and I always backed down. Made me such a pushover as a teen and young adult. I was easily taken advantage of by toxic female friends and ended up in an emotionally abusive relationship in my late teens with a dude because I would back down whenever they raised their voice cause it grated on me so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:36 PM
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I loved it but it was super stressful and I’d prefer if I’d got to spend more time with my husband at it. We were socialising so much I barely saw him. The ceremony was so nice though. And I’m so glad my family all saw I which wouldn’t have happened with an elopement. So. It had its positives too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:31 PM
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Weddings are insanely expensive, I had a big wedding but thankfully my parents were super generous. That being said, if I’d to do it again I’d elope instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:26 PM
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Clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:21 PM
1

Why did you have to mention your sister man 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:15 PM
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I was with a guy who when I was crying about my dead sibling on the anniversary of their death said “are you not over that yet?” 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:14 PM
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How can you be looking for casual and dating with intention simultaneously?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:12 PM
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The best way to respond to this in fundamentally unserious answers. Preferred mattress size? I would prefer it to be the entire size of the house so I can bounce from room to room. Who’s my celeb crush? Angela Lansbury.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:10 PM
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None. They’re all in my husband’s head instead. But Zoloft helps thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:53 PM
1

I’d like to think if men are swiping right on this it’s for casual and not much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:51 PM
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It’s just sad that they probably still get matches even with this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:49 PM
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Yeah definitely. Again with my ex, he told me he was 5’10. I mentioned this to a girlfriend recently and she was like “I’m 5’8 and he was shorter than me”. It didn’t even occur to me he’d lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:48 PM
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My husband still hasn’t told me his celeb crush and we’re a decade on at this point. Rookie error here my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:46 PM
2

Jesus Christ it’s worse. There’s a reason these women are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:45 PM
1

My ex used to lie to me about his dick size. I was like “you are aware I can see it yeah?”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:41 PM
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People with lots of negative framing on their profiles are icky. I wouldn’t like a guy who posted “I don’t want any nonsense” or “I’m uncontrollable, so don’t try” in their bios would set off alarm bells. It just sounds assholish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:39 PM
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Ok I’ll explain my point more. If your girlfriend hides messages and rejects intimacy with you, then you might feel insecure and worried she’s cheating. IMO you would be entirely in the right about feeling insecure in that moment. Cause she’s behaving in a sus way. Do you get what I mean? You can be insecure and entirely justified in that insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:34 PM
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In my brief time on apps a decade ago, most of the men were just dull or overtly sexual, not demanding like this. There were 3 guys I vibed well with in the short time I was on them though so overall they seemed like a good thing back then. They sound awful now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:32 PM
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The number of larpers on here is off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:28 PM
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God. If my male friends started dating a woman like that I’d give them a slap round the head. Red flags a plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:21 PM
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Yeah. I think you’re right that it can be a thing people do when younger but as you mature you get better at avoiding this. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:21 PM
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Blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:18 PM
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It’s the number of people saying they’re 7 inches or women saying their bf is 7 inches that kills me tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:16 PM
2

Male thighs. Male backs. male calves. Male butts. Male genitals. It’s all good baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:12 PM
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Oh. That sucks man. I’m sorry you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:10 PM
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That’s communication for you. Yeah you might upset someone but if you think you’re not upsetting them giving them the silent treatment I got news for you buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:09 PM
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Ok. Well I couldn’t be with someone who does that personally. It’s annoying as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:08 PM
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Yeah I’d agree. I can 100% live with this arrangement and I know that cause I have done so for years. He more than makes up for it in other ways. Small price to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:06 PM
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Yeah. Sure, obviously being asked if you’re angry when you’re not is annoying. That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about thinly veiled seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:58 PM
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Saying you’re not mad when you clearly are is weird. Being in a mood and not just saying how you feel is childish to me. Thankfully my husband doesn’t do it but I have had experience of it in the past and I cba with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:57 PM
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I think you’ve misunderstood tbh. I’m talking about men pretending they’re fine when they’re clearly not lol. Not just keeping quiet in an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:54 PM
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Tbh the thing that annoys me about how some men deal with anger is often that they’ll say they’re fine when it’s clear they’re not. They think they’re being stoic or whatever, but you can see they’re seething inside. Cba with that at all. Tell me why you’re mad, I can then apologise and we can move on or I can say I’m not going to apologise and I think I’m in the right and leave them to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:40 PM
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Fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:27 PM
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Tbh I can’t say I’m 100% happy with the split of household chores in my home but I’ve made my peace with it. No point whining. I’m always gonna be pulling extra weight because I like the blouse cleaner than he does. It is what it is,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:20 PM
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Loads of people are insecure. I’m insecure about lots of things. If you’re worried your girl is gonna cheat, then you’re feeling insecure. Whether it’s justified or unjustified insecurity is another matter entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:17 PM
1

Do you only have two pairs of shoes? Maybe pick up another pair at the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:15 PM
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Why do you need to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:05 PM
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I think most people here who struggle to get relationships (men and women) will likely look below average. I don’t think that’s a weird take
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:05 PM
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The loneliness in our society is tough to deal with man, I’m sorry you feel unloved. Big hugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:04 PM
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Like you’re deaf, dumb and blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:26 PM
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Wish I could upvote this twice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:03 PM
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Don’t worry. Men here are not the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:45 PM
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What culture is that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:40 PM
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People don’t like to be corrected all the time even if it is better in the long term. It makes them feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:29 PM
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Q4A: thoughts on having kids out of wedlock?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:27 PM
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Yeah I’d say that’s a red flag. That type of thing is fine from time to time but gets grating long term
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:27 PM
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Why doesn’t it appeal though? I’m trying to understand why other than just “nah not for me”. What is it about marriage you like. I’m married fyi. I know my own reasons. Just intrigued to hear other peoples
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:14 PM
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What does marriage provide you that you desire? Full disclosure, I’m married. So I obv see it as worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:09 PM
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Fair 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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You can be with someone for life and have kids without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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Why do you need to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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I bought my house unmarried and it’s pretty simple if you sort out with a lawyer, but I agree about the kids thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:07 PM
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Fair. I wouldn’t have kids outside of marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:04 PM
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Why do you only date for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:02 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:02 PM
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Religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:01 PM
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This is lovely. Best of luck. Marriage is a joy when you’ve got the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:00 PM
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Sure makes sense. But sometimes the need to carry on your genes makes people overlook stuff. But based on what you’ve said, you’re less bothered about that. Which is fair. Thanks for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:00 PM
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Fair. You’re young so that makes sense. I wasn’t keen on marriage at 22 either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:55 PM
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What’s ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:55 PM
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What would it take to change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:55 PM
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Do you want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:53 PM
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Q4W. Would you date a man long term if he was anti marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:52 PM
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Do you want kids without marriage though? My opinions on this are that outcomes for kids of married parents are much better. Is that something that bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:51 PM
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Fair. That’s my view on marriage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:48 PM
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Do you want to be a dad someday? How do you feel about marriage for kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:48 PM
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Don’t even know what that is but now I want to go to Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:47 PM
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So not even neutral between the sexes. You’d want the upper hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:45 PM
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So….thats a no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:44 PM
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What would make it a yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:44 PM
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Q4M would you ever get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:40 PM
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As I said, I think that’s wrong. So there’s no point us really talking about it further. Nice discussion though my man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:05 PM
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And that’s where we disagree. I would call myself a feminist, and I do not think men are the enemy. Women and men cause the system we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:57 PM
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Sure. I don’t think people should “go after” men. I’d agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:54 PM
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Again. Feminism isn’t all one belief. There’s a million different varieties of feminism. Like most ideologies. Capitalism, conservatism, liberalism, communism. There’s a million strains of each.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:46 PM
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Yeah sadly you’re always gonna be damned if you do, damned if you don’t. It’s the world we live in. Can’t please everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:42 PM
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I’m confused. Who’s hating on men here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:38 PM
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Yeah it’s not a zero number. But I think it’s less common than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:32 PM
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I get that. I can’t say I’m always pleased with it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:31 PM
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I initiate sex more than him but again I think this is likely unusual as most relationships will have a higher libido man and a lower libido woman. I tell him he’s hot pretty much all the time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:28 PM
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Variety is the spice of life. Mix it up. Always keep her guessing. She sounds like she’s into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:22 PM
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Yeah. I would say I make my husband feel desired and make an active effort to do so. But this is anecdotal. I don’t know what most relationships are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:21 PM
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I don’t know about political parties where you live. But they certainly don’t all agree in the ones in my country”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:58 PM
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Feminists don’t all believe the same thing my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:50 PM
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You talk about it on here. People on here comb through your history
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:53 PM
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Come back. The chances of it being someone on the discord is highly unlikely. Everyone is pretty well vetted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:39 PM
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Let her do it. I’d be worried I’d hurt him further. She’s a professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:10 AM
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I say nothing to her or my husband but I’d probably be laughing behind her back at some point with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:00 AM
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Unless he needs to do it for elite swimming or something I don’t see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:08 PM
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He’s randomly paying for the holidays of women he’s not even dating? Sounds like a loon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:07 PM
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Early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:39 PM
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I’d never heard of it. When I tell my friends about irl they look at me like in an alien
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:13 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:54 PM
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My husband didn’t approach me at all. Id be fine with him be 6 inches shorter. That would make him only 1 inch shorter than my ex. Who also didn’t approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:51 PM
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Finally someone who speaks the truth. Down with the Chad/stacy larpers!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:49 PM
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Can you add men has to “not put a space at each side of a comma” as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:34 AM
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When I do push up my vaginal muscles contract in a pleasurable way. I have to find something else to do when the instructor asks me to do any in an exercise class. The human body is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:55 PM
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I have nightmares every so often that he’s set my house on fire. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:54 PM
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Both these heights are tall and men from 5’10-6’1 have similar numbers of lifetime sexual partners, similar marriage rates and similar numbers of offspring indicating the 3inch difference isn’t all that important in the grand scheme of things,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:57 PM
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Someone just saw mean girls for the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:11 AM
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I am in love now and I believe I loved another person but I honestly can’t remember if it was love or infatuation it was so long ago. So twice if I’d to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:10 PM
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What rights and freedoms am I giving up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:07 PM
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Meant to reply to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:51 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:11 PM
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I gave him figures yesterday on this and just checked his post and he’s bastardising things I said (and changing the figures for some reason). Very poor faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:50 PM
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Cider makes me almost shit myself so thank your lucky stars it went up rather than down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:53 PM
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Can you ask the ideal woman where she got her dress? I’d like one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:29 PM
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As I just said, the orgasm gap exists I just don’t agree that the woman who posted that is representative of the reason for the majority of the orgasm gap. if we take the orgasm gap as 90%-60%=30%. That’s around 30% less women than men orgasming during hetero sex. So 1/3 less women than men are getting the big O. Substantial numbers, sure, but not a majority. If we then assume half (pure speculation as there are no figures on this) are due to men like OP’s partner who dgaf and half are due to ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:57 PM
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This relationship gonna end in divorce real soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:36 PM
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Well the problem this woman had was that her husband didn’t listen to her when she explained what she needed in bed. I guess it makes sense that the type of woman who appear in a men vs women debate sub would be very open with their partner about what they need in bed and I think most men get turned on by pleasuring their partners so would make the effort. If I’d to guess as there’s no data on this, the woman’s example of “men just ignore us when we tell them what we want in bed” is probably res…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:22 PM
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It’s been a while since I checked, but iirc the orgasm gap was like 60% of women orgasm while 90% of men do during Hetero sex for one survey. I think she was incorrect to assume her experience was the norm which is what she seemed to imply. The orgasm gap imo isn’t caused by men not caring, it’s caused by human evolution. Women don’t need to orgasm for a baby to pop out. Men do. Therefore, from an evolutionary standpoint it makes sense men’s orgasms are more common as they’re required for the sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:09 PM
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Maybe it falls under “don’t bring other posts into the daily thread”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:05 PM
1

What did you flair it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:01 PM
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Pasta, noodles, rice, potatoes, bread. There’s lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:43 PM
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I don’t wanna know your salt intake
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:43 PM
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If I remember correctly (I’m maybe getting mixed up with another post), the woman said she’d repeatedly told him and he’d basically ignored her. Other than communicate your needs with your SO, you can’t do much else. Leave? If it was simple the Dead Bedrooms sub wouldn’t exist. What advice would you give?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:42 PM
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What age are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:57 AM
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2 apples a day are not enough calories for a man. You are starving yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:43 AM
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Men are great. I don’t hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:41 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:09 PM
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Women saying they’d rather hang out with a bear than a man are certifiable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:02 PM
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Nos but I look for another job cause he seems like a lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:10 PM
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Paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:00 PM
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Go fight for the revolution Friedrich - best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:51 PM
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Why the fuck would I need to defend myself? I live in a metropolitan city centre with almost no violent crime. Not the hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:47 PM
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The only correct response
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:45 PM
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I’m middle class in a first world country. The state and capitalism are treating me fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:45 PM
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I am independent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:44 PM
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Seeing as I don’t feel unsafe without one, I’ll stick to not having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:43 PM
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Why the fuck would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:29 PM
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I really wouldn’t worry about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:26 PM
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It’s good that you recognise this cause that’s the first step to fixing it. Absolutely don’t let this happen when you do get a girlfriend. It’s self sabotage. I’d agree with Slipthe that you should consider therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:59 PM
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You can be a wholesome family monogamous unit with kids without religion. You can be religious and fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:27 PM
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No interest in being a sex worker. Doesn’t appeal in any way to me. I’d rather have sex with people I’m attracted to than with people I’m paid to. And I can make money doing other more fulfilling work that allows me to use my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:11 AM
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She seems to think that motherhood is the most important thing for a woman to have an accomplished life yet hasn’t sought out a man to provide her with kids. She’s not getting any younger. Whether it’s cause she hasn’t found men interested in her or she thinks the men interested in her are beneath her, she’ll need to figure it out quick if she wants a baby and a fulfilled life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:30 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:36 AM
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That’s enough internet for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:57 AM
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Q4A what is the best sex position and why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:55 PM
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Wow 0/3 for my relationship, guess it’s doomed. RIP my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:33 PM
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Don’t care, people should date whoever makes them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:46 AM
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Doesn’t do blowiobs? DIVORCE
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:46 AM
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I’ve got in with all my ex’s mums as well as my MIL. It’s great. It just makes life so much easier!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:18 AM
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How long does sex take for a sex worker? Like an hour max? This whole thing is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:02 AM
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But how does the government subsidising women to sleep with nice guys fix that? The mechanism doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:55 AM
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In what way would this improve male behaviour? The vast majority of incels and men who struggle just wank while watching porn and play video games, they don’t go out being violent. They’re already self soothing without government intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:44 AM
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Think you’re confused about what heroine means
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:39 PM
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Yeah. I wasn’t married by 27 but I had been with my husband a number of years at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:32 AM
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I wasn’t gonna takesies backsies. That’s the exact scenario I wanted to ask about:
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:32 AM
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Q4A would you rather be single for the next 5 years or be in a relationship with someone you aren’t attracted to for the next 5 years (and you can’t cheat)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:28 AM
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Worse things than being single imv.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:22 AM
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I think having the mentality of “if I’m not getting what I want from this relationship/arrangement, I should up and leave and get with someone that does match what I need” is a good boundary to have. People stick in shitty situations for far too long cause they’re scared of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:19 AM
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Sure but she hasn’t found a husband yet? I find it hard to believe she hasn’t found a dude after all these years that she doesn’t want to marry given what she says. Seems a little bit hypocritical but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:58 AM
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Abundance mentality is a good thing to have I’d say. I can’t imagine most incels here would feel they can have what you have though. What you’re saying is easier said than done,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:33 AM
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Does pearl not have a boyfriend? I’d assume someone preaching about women’s high standards would have more reasonable ones herself and not be single. How odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:30 AM
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I like this cause it means I can give him half my food too and not get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:27 AM
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If men can grow a beard they should imo. It looks great.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:25 AM
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Obese homosexual. Hopefully he knows some good food places for us to go on dates to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:24 AM
2

Is civil war worth going to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:26 AM
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I’ve even had men I had casual with go down on me unprompted so I don’t know where you’re getting the idea men do this out of a sense of obligation. My husband loves when I sit on his face. As for why I like blowjobs? As a straight woman, I like dicks. The reaction you get from a man when you have his dick in your mouth is wonderful and a huge turn on. You sound like an alien trying to understand humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:16 AM
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Anyone giving you grief about childhood friends should be kicked to the curb immediately. That’s step 1 in coercive control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:42 PM
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Flake. Dubai sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:26 PM
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Best of luck with the rest of the creative writing course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:11 PM
5

The irony of this sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:07 PM
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That’s a rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:05 AM
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I know it’s not a q4w, but I’d assume he was joking so would laugh, pout, call him a name and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:34 PM
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If I was her I’d assume you don’t like me all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:20 PM
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You hadn’t kissed her by date 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:15 PM
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Well that’s up to him to do. If he wants to end the friendship I understand but if there’s something I can do to make things easier and to keep the friendship I’d try
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:45 PM
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Yeah I’d be fine with that. I’d be sad losing a friend so anything I could do to make it easier for him I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:29 PM
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I’ve dated multiple men I’ve been friends with first. I think it works really well and I’d be fine with a friend hitting on me as long as takes no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:24 PM
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Was it a breast reduction you’re getting? I kinda want to get an uplift after I have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:50 AM
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As someone who ended up in an emotionally abusive and controlling relationship for years, what resources did I take that means I deserved that are you even fucking talking about lol. Phenomenal logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:40 AM
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Ok did the math and it’s 0.0038 per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:07 PM
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Put them up 🥊🥊
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:38 AM
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Totally normal. The first time I tried to have sex (we were both virgins) he had this issue. The condom just wouldn’t stay on cause he couldn’t keep hard. And he was like 18 at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:06 AM
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There’s a weekly feminism thread I think
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:36 AM
1

Yeah he lives in my house
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:32 PM
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Don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:28 PM
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I’d fold his laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:00 PM
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I mean that sounds about right but I much preferred shagging my husband on date 1 and buying a bdsm starter kit for date 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:16 PM
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I thought you said “every rapist” and started to think you had more than one rapist in your extended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:56 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:43 PM
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I’m assuming I’d have a full mental breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:15 PM
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Yeah I have a PHD, a perfect handjob degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:07 PM
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This happened to a girl at my high school (minus the job part) when we I was 15. She basically lost all her friends because she was seen as some sort of slut but she was a literal child and her revenge porn was being bluetoothed from phone to phone. Fucking horrid. Thankfully she seems to be doing fine now from what I see on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:06 PM
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This is my experience from the other side. I think with my ex I had no idea what I was doing and he never corrected me. My husband taught me how to give a good one by showing me how it’s down himself. It’s a fun class and the teacher gave me an A+.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:52 PM
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It definitely takes a while to learn. I encourage any women interested in giving a good handjob to ask their partner to jerk off in front of them and watch how they do it and then copy that. Because he knows better than you what feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:34 PM
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That sounds so nice!! Have a lovely time!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:47 PM
3

Ooooh cool. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:43 PM
1

Do you not want a nice house, nice car and travel too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:32 PM
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I saw a 70 year old man with a sugar baby in her late 20s in a bar once and the absolute volume of selfies of the both of them that girl took baffled me. Who wants to see you kissing a pensioner on insta?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:24 PM
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As I said, I wouldn’t have unprotected with a man outside of a relationship. And I trust my relationship partners not to fuck someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:58 AM
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Sure I agree. I wouldn’t be having sex without a condom if I was a man. But I’m not a man. So I can have all the unprotected sex I desire if I find a man who trusts me to not baby trap him. Which I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:56 AM
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Have never seen a guy on here with this take. Interesting. Do you get much pushback?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:54 AM
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I am a woman and can go on birth control and I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:50 AM
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So I would never have unprotected sex outside of an LTR cause of STDs, but I have to say, sex without a condom is just better. Feeling the guy cum inside is amazing. It’s just hotter I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:32 AM
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I’m assuming their logic is women don’t allow them to be dominant? No Idea though. I’ll be eagerly awaiting other responses in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:09 AM
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I can want to be spanked and want to be cuddled after. The duality of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:37 AM
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No pussy is that good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:34 AM
2

Dude I’m literally married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:17 AM
1

What sort of things did you read about that you like the sound of?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:33 AM
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Sounds like it could be a cool new experience for you. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:31 AM
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Not frequently. I think I’ve had 3 ever? And it was always about my friends who I absolutely do not fancy one iota so I definitely don’t think it means anything gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:28 AM
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I’m into personality and being pleasant is bare minimum, not something that’s getting my knickers off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:49 PM
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She wanted you to make the first move and telling you that would have been more forward than she wanted to be. Most men would have picked up these cues. I think your flair is likely why you struggled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:49 AM
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She wanted you to warm her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:15 AM
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They belong in horny jail not prison. Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:50 AM
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Please post some to the Uk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:38 AM
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Yes. As long as he has a good head on his shoulders with regards to money management, spends within his means and wants to contribute to the household I don’t care what he earns.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:53 AM
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If I was attracted to him and he made a move, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:38 AM
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How would I know. I’d only see him around me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:56 PM
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If a guy did that I’d assume autism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:39 PM
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It’ll come. You’ll have a dry month one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:34 PM
1

Well I don’t have 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:33 PM
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Eh. Neither. It’s just a busy month.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:33 PM
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Nope. Not yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:32 PM
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No it’s not. You are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:32 PM
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Then I wouldn’t have had sex for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:31 PM
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No baby here. Just stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:31 PM
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Beautiful. No notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:31 PM
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No sex in over a month despite being married. Sometimes life is busy and it doesn’t happen. I genuinely think if it happened to most people here they’d assume cheating or betabuxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:52 PM
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No one gave a shit that my diamond was lab grown. Glad I don’t have family or friends like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:36 PM
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Am I misunderstanding here? Do you think blackout drunk people can consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:10 PM
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Meh. Bullying can be anything from name calling over a particularly intense 2 week period to years of physical and mental torment. It’s such a broad bracket I can imagine most people fall in this category.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:17 PM
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No they won’t. You’re absolutely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:11 PM
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I think this is veryyyyy true. I don’t like sex when I’m just home from work or I’ve just finished cleaning the house or working out cause I typically feel undesirable. I’m sweaty, my hair is a mess, my make up is all over the place. My breath maybe smells bad from the sandwich I had earlier. I just feel gross. I am not in the sexy headspace. But if I take some time to shower and brush my teeth, maybe put on some cute underwear I’m very much ready to go. Even though my husband will happily fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:19 AM
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As the primary earner in my household and the person who’ll need to pay alimony if the relationship turns south, I think the fears of it are pretty overblown. Like fair enough if you don’t wanna take the risk, makes complete sense, don’t do it, but people genuinely act on here like it’s some sort of death sentence. IDGI.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:39 AM
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So it sounds to me consensually very risky as you can’t know if the person wants it or not before you do it (unless you’ve previously agreed some sort of free use situation). But if they enjoy it, then obviously you’re not gonna catch a rape charge cause why would they take it to the police? Consent is incredibly complicated. There’s not an easy rape/not rape line in the sand. It’s case by case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:10 AM
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I don’t really get what you’re asking. Are you asking if you penetrate a half sleeping person and they tell you they enjoy it is a rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:02 AM
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If you plank the lips on or grope a half sleeping person as a means to initiate sex and they join in, you have not “raped” anyone but what you did was absolutely consensually very risky. But no court would try you for that because the person woke up and had consensual sex with you. If you touch and grope a half sleeping person and the person wakes up tells you to fuck off creep, then you haven’t committed rape. You have sexually assaulted them though. Given the nature of this type of crime, it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:55 AM
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Can you get someone to look after your baby for a little while on a regular basis and give you guys some alone time? A date night? Y’know. Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:38 AM
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I don’t think that would be classified as rape in court but IANAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:13 AM
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If a guy is black out drunk and a woman or man has sex with him, then yeah, that is rape. And doesn’t count as him cheating if he has partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:56 AM
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Hey he’s paying. I could fall asleep anywhere. I’m shorter and find plane travel relatively easy also. If he tried to give it to me I wouldn’t have accepted anyway. “No you paid honey, please go ahead” and if he insisted I’d try to swap mid way through so he could experience some of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:44 PM
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If he asked my opinion I’d be happy and have no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:35 PM
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I gave my conditions in my initial post. If his name was on that ticket and he didn’t have a choice that’s fine too. It’s the “without further explanations” I’m having an issue with. Him making decisions for the group like that with no input just makes him seem insensitive to me which is only gonna get worse throughout a relationship. Like he thinks cause he pays, he sets the rules. That’s not a relationship that’ll work for me and why if I’m honest I would not allow a man to pay for my full vac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:31 PM
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I’d dump him when we were home. The only reasonable response is to flip a coin or to swap half way through. You can’t offer to take someone out for a meal, give them a salad while you munch on steak. It’s not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:16 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:13 PM
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I’d do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:12 PM
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No. It wouldn’t be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:10 PM
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Is this a sex thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:34 PM
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Normally I’m a 1/2/ max 3 a week type person but when I’m ovulating it’s every day multiple times a day if I can get it (which I usually can’t cause I have a job and responsibilities). Haven’t noticed a change in preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:30 PM
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I’ve now been off birth control for 4 months and as much as I loved being on it and would still recommend it’s use, it’s really interesting to me how much more horny I am when not on it and going through ovulation. Genuinely feel like a woman possessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:18 PM
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How’s getting the sub shutdown going?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:36 AM
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“Hey girl, meet Ydults. He’s one of the manosphere guys I like to argue with on the internet. He doesn’t think women should have the votes and only cares about the fact you’re a virgin. You guys will hit it off I’m sure”. Surprisingly, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:08 AM
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Well if he’s waiting for marriage to have sex, then he’s likely gonna find a girl that doesn’t matter to, or they’ll be married before she knows anything about it. The reason he’s cumming in his pants is cause he clearly doesn’t have any other outlet so kissing is overstimulating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:04 AM
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So I can try and explain some of this. A guy who orgasms quickly the first time you get together isn’t an issue. It honestly makes you feel really desired and hot. Like he can’t control himself cause you’re so fucking hot. And typically, when you first get with a guy, he’s ready to go again relatively quickly so it’s not a problem. If a guy premature ejaculates and then has an overly long refractory period. Or seems to prematurely ejaculate every time, I can see that being an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:54 AM
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I often think in these situations, that although the guy is right to be upset by his girlfriend’s POV, starting the name calling sort of causes him to lose a teeny bit of the moral high ground. Saying something along the lines of “I’m very disappointed in you, you’re not the person I thought you were” is a much more devastating thing to say to someone than “gross” and avoids the negatives associated with name calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:46 AM
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Oh well. I’ve never been fashionable so I’ll just stick with the pasty white look. Fake tan is far too much effort and I only have to think about the sun before I start to burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:42 AM
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I have a friend that’s fucked around so much I couldn’t even guess her n count and a friend that’s a virgin in her 30s. What does that say about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:39 AM
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A job doing what? What deformity do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:36 AM
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A man needs a baseline of attractiveness for me to be attracted to him. Although that baseline has dropped in the past when I’ve been drunk. I wouldn’t date a man I didn’t happily want to suck the dick of when sober though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:31 AM
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We were talking about women and men’s suffrage and the draft and then you just randomly brought up free speech laws as if it was some sort of gotcha? I’m genuinely baffled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:22 AM
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Do you often change the subject when you’re losing arguments? Hilarious. Sure I know what free speech is and I’m pro free speech. What a fucking Segue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:15 AM
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I try to be like this and I manage for the most part. It absolutely makes my day to day life better. I wish I was one of those people who could do it naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:51 AM
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The United Kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:48 AM
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Well “successful” societies throughout history didn’t let men who grew up dirt poor vote either. So I don’t see how your argument makes sense. Both not letting dirt poor men and not letting women bigoted are wrong in my opinion but you seem oddly ok with it. I don’t agree with men needing to agree to the draft to vote and I’m glad it’s not the case in my country. The US is barbaric.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:37 AM
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Ok. Well you have provided no examples of what successful society you’re talking about that allowed suffrage for all men and no women and was “successful” by your standards. As I said initially, voting was for rich men. Like in the UK, all men didn’t get the vote til about 100 years ago. It’s really that recent. I’m not sure what other country’s histories are but I can imagine it’s been much the same across the board. Only rich men until relatively recently. I’m assuming you’re a man of working …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:55 AM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:36 AM
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Exactly what? All societies restrict women therefore restricting women is good? That’s not even circular logic. I don’t even know what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:34 AM
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I can’t name a civilisation that didn’t restrict women full stop my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:27 AM
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Not an answer to my question. This whole chat about “successful civilisations” sounds like a fallacious argument to me if you can’t give examples. Like you’re going off vibes rather than facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:54 AM
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There are plenty of reasons a guy can’t a girlfriend. It’s not 100% one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:44 AM
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It’s not a dealbreaker. I’d go on a few dates, hear him out. Might have a perfectly good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:42 AM
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What civilisations are you speaking about specifically? Cause most of those civilisations didn’t have suffrage for normie men either. And they don’t tend to be around now. So can’t have been that successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:39 AM
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(Sadly) Ooof. What rights do you want women to lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:36 AM
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Dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:35 AM
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Jesus Christ, this woman is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:34 AM
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What do you want them to wake up and do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:31 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:14 PM
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Ask her out and if she makes an excuse not to see you cut your losses
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:45 PM
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I’d say it’s hours worked. If I work 40 hours and he works 20, I’m gonna expect him to do more than half.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:56 PM
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I had casual once cause it made me feel validated and desired and I had intensely low self esteem. The second time I had casual, it was more “I’m on vacation and want to experience a ONS”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:53 PM
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Guy encourages wife to make out with other women. Feels hurt. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:48 PM
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Is this the same girl you dated the other day that you weren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:53 PM
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Booooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:57 PM
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For sure. It’s weird AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:33 AM
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It happens daily on this sub so I’m pretty immune to it by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:26 AM
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Trans masc talking about testosterone effects. “This is obviously subjective, but before going on T, I had a fairly high interest in sex, and I masturbated most days. But I didn’t have a high libido—a physical urge to have sex. For most of my life, having sex wasn’t so much about my physical pleasure as it was about seeking validation. I didn’t even let other people touch me that much whenever I had sex. Within two months of going on T, I suddenly had an insatiable sex drive. It got to the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:25 AM
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People who hate POC will rage no matter the situation. They’re far too easily triggered and no amount of model minority behaviour fixes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:05 PM
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In what world is this a problem for POC?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:58 PM
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It’s not bad. But you’re young and may feel differently once you experience romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:31 PM
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You’re not getting my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:29 PM
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I’d take that as an insult. Someone saying they’d assumed you’d have a small dick implies that there is something about you that makes them think of small penises and all the negative connotations humans associate with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:48 PM
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Women don’t want to put their weight into a dating app. The dating apps want to encourage women to be on dating apps. The dating apps don’t add weight filters. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:35 PM
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It can be many reasons but I’ll give an example: Sex is a two person job. Sometimes you’re tired and you know you could orgasm in less than a minute if you were left to do it yourself but it would go on much longer if you were both together and you had to focus on another persons pleasure as well as your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:33 PM
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The question is basically are you fine with your wife having sexy time on her own even when you’re around for sex. I’m trying to understand if people are fine with this or have an issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:11 PM
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Based on the other comments, people generally see this as realistic and entirely reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:08 PM
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Lovely news. Do you want a second date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:40 PM
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Q4A if you were married to someone and had an otherwise fulfilling sex life, would you be upset if you found out at least once a week they stay up later than you so they can watch porn and masturbate rather than have sex. Basically - would you be mad if your partner preferred to masturbate every so often rather than have sex with you assuming they still like having sex with you too it’s just they really like their alone time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:40 PM
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Feminists: we aren’t currently equal to men. Geselshaft: women can’t be equal to men cause they are upset about not being equal. Is this meant to be some sort of gotcha? Cause if so, it’s confusingly worded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:18 PM
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Hahaha 🤣 or maybe I’m just overly forgiving of social faux pas. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:29 AM
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Sure. But the only way to find out is to ask. If a guy wants first date sex, the only way he’s gonna know if she’s up for it is to ask her back to his for coffee and make a move. Guys waiting for the girl to make the first move are not gonna get as far as guys willing to make the first move. No matter how unfair, or “risky” they perceive it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:28 AM
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Sure. I’m just saying if they wanna be timid, they can’t then expect “first date sex like Chad”. Sucks to have to make the first move and possibly be rejected but them’s the breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:21 AM
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I don’t know if it’s cause I talked a lot beforehand to the men I dated, I thankfully never got to experience a guy on the first date completely fuck up. Hell, my husband turned up late to our first date and we still ended up in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:19 AM
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I have. Just not on the first date. My ex, when it got to date 3 and he hadn’t kissed me yet for example (he was too nervous). What I’m saying is, he’d have gotten a kiss sooner if he’d have initiated. His own nervousness caused the delay. It wasn’t cause I was unattracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:17 AM
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The thread about making the first move on a date with a woman is reminding me of my own dating history. On the first date, 100% of guys who moved in for a kiss or even escalated to sex, I was more than happy to go along with. I wouldn’t be on a date with them if I didn’t find them physically attractive. The guys who didn’t go in for a kiss, I didn’t kiss. The guys who didn’t ask me round to theirs, I didn’t go to theirs. My thoughts are one of these men that I went on a date with and didn’t kiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:58 AM
1

I personally liked it. It was very sociable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:34 AM
4

You have a very active imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:42 PM
2

Yes it does
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:16 PM
2

Change your location to Uk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:04 PM
1

I like to be able to handle myself, provide for myself and look after myself. I don’t want my husband to think I just keep him around cause I can’t do anything without him and need him to run after me and pay my bills. I want him to know I have him around me cause I love him with all my heart, I am deeply attracted to him and respect him immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:11 PM
6

I love that my husband doesn’t “need me” but wants me instead. Needing someone just sounds a little to codependent for me. But each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:05 PM
2

Based on the various conversations I’ve had with suicidal, anxious and depressed people and the scientific background of mental health issues and healthcare, I have to say I think your “think yourself better” model is overly simplistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:04 PM
3

There are plenty of people who need extra help to function and no amount of “just grind maxx” is gonna improve their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:51 PM
1

Other women wear heels at events/night clubs/parties and I don’t like to stand out so I wear them too. I don’t wear them when I don’t have to. Sometimes I wear them out for a date etc. because I know my husband finds me really sexy in heels and I aim to please. To summarise, I wear them for all sorts of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:48 PM
1

I think you look great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:32 PM
2

The internet was a mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:55 PM
1

Best of luck 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:41 PM
1

Can you show me an example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:32 PM
3

I just can’t get excited about clothes tbh. They don’t interest me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:29 PM
5

I would continue to dress in whatever clothes my mom buys for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:24 PM
1

This sounds like the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:20 PM
2

I don’t assume men looking at me in the gym are checking me out. Typically if you catch someone’s eye they look away which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:15 PM
4

I don’t want a guy who makes 100k, pays for dates or provides for me (well I need him to provide during the 3 months of maternity leave I won’t get paid but otherwise I’m fine). I also don’t care about passport bros as long as they aren’t going to these countries to manipulate women (offering green cards for sex for example even when they have no intention of following through on that). If they’re just dating women or having transactional sex with women I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:59 AM
1

90% of the relationship effort is done by the man? It sounds like you’ve only dated girls not invested in you if that’s the case. I omen bend over backwards to meet the requirements of a man she is attracted to and wants a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:54 AM
1

Goddamit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:21 AM
1

Unkill? Is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:16 AM
1

Maybe a little. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:09 AM
1

Someone said I had a hero/saviour complex. I have feminised it and used it as flair for bants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 11:01 AM
1

Sounds like that man is having a tough time. I’d try and console him and do what I can to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:53 AM
1

It’s even worse than you realise. From OP “At the time I believed that he had come to his senses and realized he loved me. I was in love with him and still is. When we started talking it was after his wife given birth and one of the boys didn’t survive and he was suffering but she didn’t care about him. I guess she was busy with her own mourning I don’t know. Anyway we got closer and I was there for him so he started to come to the coffee shop every morning. Then we slept together but he didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:43 AM
0

I haven’t met a man in my dating life who has an issue with toys thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:04 AM
0

Definitely the best move, only way to get decent pay rises is to move job to job. Sucks but is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:59 AM
1

Why would you want to track someone down who has made it clear they don’t wanna talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:56 AM
1

You just made it sound hotter somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:52 PM
1

It’s meant to be a debate sub. I think banning any insults is entirely reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:23 PM
1

Why. Did you not try this months ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:14 PM
7

What percentage of people moaning about the censorship of ppd are actually just people who have used the wrong flair on their posts cause they haven’t read the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:07 AM
2

I don’t know anyone who’s never been approached or asked home to a guys place but I know women who’s only approaches have been drunk guys 20 years older than them or guys who don’t speak English who just start groping them immediately or guys who only want a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:00 AM
0

Without having see it I’m gonna assume it was a flair issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:53 AM
0

1 year of dating, 2 years of living together. So 3 in total minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:43 PM
4

Musicians fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:29 PM
1

Barney the dinosaur.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:01 PM
1

Sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:43 PM
2

Been there done that. The don’t change. She needs to leave immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:59 PM
4

WHY ARE WE SHOUTING?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:39 PM
4

A marriage license doesn’t cost much. The wedding gets ridiculous though if you let it. Signed, a woman who spent far too much on a wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:43 PM
5

They said they’d never date a guy then marry him less than a year later? Given most people date for years before marriage this story seems made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:42 AM
4

Literally none of these things are important enough to make me decide between one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:54 AM
5

First
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 09:06 AM
2

But you just said you think single digits for a 30 year old is fine…so you must have some cut off for age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:59 PM
0

Typically you fuck a guy normally before you peg him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:57 PM
6

The reason I asked this is I saw an aitah post where an 18 year old said her n count was 8 and that seemed insanely high to me for someone so young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:43 PM
2

What is a high n count for a 30 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:55 PM
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Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:49 PM
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Horny but staying at my in laws. Urgh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:09 PM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:24 PM
1

“If you had to pick” - play the game man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:17 PM
1

That wasn’t the option. I said parent. You need to have kids in this scenario,
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:15 PM
1

Q4A if you had to pick, would you rather be the breadwinner or the stay-at-home-parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:12 PM
1

I love that I can take breaks from this place, come back and nothing changes. I think I’ve been here 2.5 years now on and off. How long have y’all been here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:34 PM
1

I assume people with a roster must not have a job, family or friends. How have people got the time to maintain more than one sexual relationship? Sounds like another full time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:15 PM
6

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:38 PM
1

For myself obv haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:28 PM
1

I personally like to buy lingerie or other sexy things for anniversaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:25 PM
2

You know it’s a good day on ppd for nutters when someone is arguing with you that DNA isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:24 PM
2

Yes. Fat people can have pain in the back, knees, hips etc from carrying their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:00 PM
1

I don’t hate male spaces lol. You and your friends aren’t a representative sample of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:09 AM
4

If you think this is anyway representative of the majority of men you need to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:06 AM
8

There are references at the bottom. He’s interpreted them incorrectly but they are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:28 AM
23

No it’s not. It’s a sample of men who are already testing for paternity fraud lol. Not the population generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:27 AM
27

That’s not true man. That’s absolutely not an accurate source. It’s like 1% from a range of studies. https://www.nature.com/articles/hdy201536
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:17 AM
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30% paternity fraud rates isn’t accurate. The 30% refers to a self selected group of men who are needing to test because they know/suspect infidelity/non committed sex could have lead to someone else being the parent. It’s not 30% of all fathers. Paternity fraud rates are down at like 1%ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:12 AM
1

Practice. And try to match their level of tongue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:07 AM
30

In my opinion people aren’t obsessed enough with happiness. So many people with dead end lives tolerating shitty work and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:42 AM
1

You put the peeps in the chilli….
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:37 AM
3

I upvoted cause genuinely, it does look better that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:01 PM
1

Standing up to bullies is the best advice I ever got.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:37 PM
1

Half the time I think I’m a good person and half the time I think I’m a selfish bitch. Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:24 PM
2

I have a great personality. And large breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:30 PM
1

It’s random you generated. I’m about a 4-5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:11 PM
2

I think it’s likely some men see “baddies”, assume they’re fucking around and get the ick. But purely from a physical attraction perspective I’d agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:55 PM
1

It feels like you have a bubble around you and the person you’re in love with. Keeping you light and happy and protecting you from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:50 PM
1

He’s looking at them and turning his head too mate. How can you not see that from the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:50 PM
-1

Yeah I’d look at a man who’s tits are bigger than the average woman’s too. Doesn’t mean I’m attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:43 PM
1

Staring at women makes them look back at you? Wooooooow!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:36 PM
2

Weird yes. Unacceptable? Depends on what the individual guy is willing to accept. I’d tell you to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:21 PM
3

No. There’s plenty of women more attractive than me, not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:19 PM
3

Never met a republican in my life. The joy of not being American.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:13 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:32 PM
1

Yeah I definitely fall into b, my plan is to have kids with my husband but if he tragically died then I’d get another man eventually in all probability, at that point, a guy who is cool with kids who aren’t his own is a requirement,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:24 PM
1

100000%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:06 PM
3

I mean, I could leave my man and get ten more but when it comes to live it’s quality over quantity imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:50 PM
1

Are there any pro Russian/anti Ukrainian ppders. I’m intrigued if you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:45 PM
2

Probably diminishes your chances on average but it increase your chances with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:20 PM
4

I don’t care if my husband goes to a strip club and he doesn’t care if I go to a nightclub. People need to calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:17 PM
3

Romance doesn’t mean horniness. But horniness leads to romance for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:35 AM
3

Men are hornier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:09 AM
6

I don’t think either should have to register for the draft to vote tbh. That would also be equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:07 AM
3

Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:19 PM
5

I rarely hear Balkans/Slavs mentioned in the media tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:19 PM
3

There’s been a few cases in the UK of literal paedos still getting access to their kids. Grim shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:36 AM
1

I’m so happy I’ve missed this. Fuck you for bringing to my attention haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:34 AM
1

Yes. To a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:34 AM
3

Where are you reading this? Andrea Dworkin’s diary?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:33 AM
1

Now that you mention it, the only time I’ve ever experienced the “the man at the bar sent this drink over” thing I had been locked out of my house accidentally and was soaked with rain so was feeling like shit. Guy then came over and said “you looked so sad I thought I’d cheer you up”. Tbh it did. Even if he was my dad’s age, it was just nice getting a free drink when I was sad. Spoke to him for 5 minutes but dropped in I was waiting for my boyfriend to come give me his spare keys to my place an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:54 AM
2

I’m not into them or against them. They’re just there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:04 PM
1

Eesh. Not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:37 AM
2

If you drink again the next day there’s no hangover.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:34 AM
1

UTI?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:14 AM
2

“Hello 911?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:19 PM
1

Is this controversial?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:14 PM
1

Intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:08 PM
3

My guy friend has broken up with his girlfriend and got back together twice in two weeks. Man is nearly 40. Needs to cut this shit out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:40 PM
1

Booooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:27 PM
4

Only if you live stream all the gay orgies to earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:19 PM
1

Have you considered going to the university mental health services. They should have something along the lines of student counselling. Would be good to chat about some of these things in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:15 PM
2

I like the larpers. They’re less depressing than the deadly serious ones in the midst of a crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:54 PM
1

Do it dude. Everyone here loves pontificating on how people look. It’s pure entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:52 PM
1

Really? What stuff in particular seems too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:42 PM
1

I have no idea how to even exploit the patriarchy. If you want to give me hints and tips though I’ll give it a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:11 PM
2

Oooh say more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:06 PM
3

If I asked a guy “why do you want to have sex with me?” It would 100% be me fishing for compliments. I don’t think it’s all that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:39 PM
1

When I showed my husband a photo of my high school crush he was actually weirdly offended by how odd the guy looked. “How low are your standards woman??”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:36 PM
11

Those people who say that to your husband sound like cucks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:00 PM
3

Are we sure these are the same women or are you perhaps strawmanning?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:56 PM
1

Fortune favours the bold
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:52 PM
3

My first bf made me do this. The abuse got worse. I’d never let another person do it to me ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:52 PM
2

100% I’ve done this. I think I’ve turned down my husband for sex like twice in ten years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:51 PM
2

Ok. So a very unbiased sample then /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:54 PM
1

What’s this based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:43 PM
1

No I’m not a romantic. I get on with my father really well. He treated me great as a kid and I was close back then. I enjoy catching up with him but we don’t live close so I barely see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:26 PM
4

Which feminist philosopher of our time said this now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:25 PM
4

Always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:13 AM
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Invest, retire early, travel the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:33 PM
4

As someone who’s been in Many hostels throughout Europe, all you’re describing here is a fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:27 PM
2

Idc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:46 PM
1

Ooohh ditto
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:44 PM
1

What do you mean? What’s your own experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:26 PM
-1

Mind my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:49 PM
3

Testosterone makes hard work feel good. To what extent to you agree/disagree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:33 AM
1

How many women have you asked out? Cold/hot approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:37 PM
0

I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:18 PM
0

Dick is good enough to mitigate the drawbacks of an iud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:14 PM
1

A year
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:09 PM
1

I waited 2 - 2.5 years with one boyfriend but we fooled around for that time. Just no PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:09 PM
1

YES
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:30 PM
6

Anyone reacting to this in any way other than gratefulness needs to give their head a wobble.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:49 AM
3

My husband and I were only meant to be a fling for a few months too. Then the thought of breaking up was ludicrous to us. So we’re still together a decade later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:36 AM
3

Ask him to go with her instead and do some other type of house labour. He’s much better with interiors than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:34 AM
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I always have this though too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:20 PM
3

I can’t imagine getting this worked up about a casual convo with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:36 PM
1

What if he watches it while he lives with you, not daily or anything but every so often
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:36 AM
2

My opinions on marriage are as follows. Women having kids without being married are making a mistake. If men want kids, they need to put a ring on it. I wouldn’t be getting pregnant without legal safety nets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:33 AM
1

The religious people I know either got married at 21/22 or never got married tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:31 AM
1

Women. Do you care if your partner watched porn? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:16 AM
2

Exactly! People with poor money management are a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:52 AM
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I’ll be physically attracted to my husband no matter what he weighs I think but I’d be genuinely he concerned for his health if he gained 100lb from when we first got together. He’s gained about 50 at this point and I think he’s hot AF though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:05 PM
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I’m married lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:43 PM
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Nothing could make me lower my standards for marriage. You’re legally tying yourself to someone for life. That’s something you absolutely should have high standards on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:09 PM
7

Don’t care what he earns but he needs to be responsible with whatever money he does earn. I’d rather a poorer guy living in his means than a rich one spending money on bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:47 PM
8

Although I’m married, say something awful happened and I had to get back on the dating scene again I’d be happy getting with a guy who’d never been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:53 AM
2

I don’t know anyone who thinks about passport bros tbh apart from the permanently online. I have a step-cousin doing it and my family is more worried for him being scammed than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:47 AM
1

I’d just want a happy child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:43 AM
3

How’s that any different to calling them “your girlfriend”, “your wife”, “your acquaintance” and your “dog walker’s sister’s friend’s cousin from Ohio”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:36 AM
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I miss mine 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:05 PM
2

I wouldn’t be angry. It’d be weird for him not to tell me something like that prior to doing it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:52 AM
2

Never kiss a Tory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:15 AM
1

If your brother gets excited when your relationship ends it’s cause he hates your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:25 PM
2

This the feet guy? I literally never heard of him before this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:40 AM
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This is How I feel too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:31 PM
1

Ok. Well I last watched it months ago so I think assuming everyone who watches it is brain fucked somehow is naive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:27 PM
1

I’m in my 30s. I’m fine. My brain is unfucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:16 PM
2

Nope but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:05 PM
2

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:58 PM
1

I did not know you were religious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:57 PM
2

What is a man tells me he has a work wife
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:37 PM
2

Doesn’t own a passport
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:25 PM
2

I don’t need to know that much. They can keep quiet if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:09 PM
2

Tight ponytails are cool cause it makes it easier for the guys to use as a means to control the speed of a blowjob
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:53 PM
2

Maybe. Or maybe they’re not here. Or maybe they’re paranoid. I’m not asking for a bad reason lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:53 PM
3

True hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:28 PM
2

I’m not going to. But assume what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:25 PM
1

Her ponytail is kinda hot and makes me want extensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:24 PM
1

You don’t know the half of it man. I get much more embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:12 PM
3

Bi I believe. He was definitely in love with a woman. Whether that was romantic love, only he can answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:02 PM
1

I’m fine with different tastes. It’s the judgementalness I don’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:49 PM
1

No. He’d just put it on our big screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:36 PM
4

The anti porn stuff always confuses me cause a fun activity is my husband asking me to pick out a vid (or he picks one out) then we watch it together and then copy whatever happens. It’s fun. It’s not affecting our libido or sex life in a negative way. It enhances it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:34 PM
2

It’s not a gotcha. I just don’t see any in here so I don’t think there is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:32 PM
1

Not in my house
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:31 PM
1

If you identify as a red pill man can you please respond to this asking for science
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:16 PM
2

Yes apparently, you whore 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:01 PM
2

Yeah. Definitely better if staying single if this is a requirement. Humans beings are hormonal meat sacks. They’re gonna find other people attractive unless they’re on the asexual spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:57 PM
1

Are you not the guy that said a woman even finding another guy attractive is not good enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:53 PM
2

The number of lifetime sexual partners is much the same for men 5’8 and above. I think it’s 5’7 and below you see a drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:53 PM
7

Virgins are too slutty now for ppd men now. Oh my days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:45 PM
5

As a woman I enjoy using teeth in blowjobs to keep them in mind who’s in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:02 PM
1

I don’t need a man but I want one (my husband specifically). I picked him not out of need but out of love/desire/friendship. I’d not have kids if I didn’t find a husband. If my husband didn’t want kids I wouldn’t have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:08 PM
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All this would you care if a man went to a sex worker, what would you do if your partner used porn, what would you do if your partner turned out to be high n comments are sort of ridiculous cause humans aren’t going around broadcasting the unsavoury things about themselves and then by the time it’s out you caught feelings. I have a friend who to this day is still dating a man who lied about his age on the first two dates. I have a friend who has paid off her husbands gambling debts twice. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:52 AM
2

More of a brown flag tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:49 AM
1

Well it’s a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:52 AM
4

Most women on the sub aren’t even married e never mind twice and cheated on their ex husband. Too narrow a pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:43 AM
1

I mean presumably by that point I’m emotionally attached so I’d probably be annoyed but I’m not gonna dump then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:20 AM
1

Yeah same here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:39 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:25 AM
1

Each to their own. I wouldn’t want to date a devout religious person. But I’d be friends with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:13 AM
4

With the right guy? Immediately. IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:07 AM
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My ex? He was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:54 AM
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It doesn’t appeal to me personally. I was in a relationship with a guy who I believed had lost his virginity to a sex worker (he told people that) but when him and I got together and got to the bedroom it was clear he had been lying about that and was still a virgin. Other guys I know who’ve been to sex workers did it on a stag weekend in Amsterdam. I don’t know any habitual users of them but I doubt I’d be told if any of the men I know were so maybe they’re out there every night. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:20 AM
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I wanna see an 8/10 gnome now. Sounds hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:15 AM
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Gambling addiction (which is basically what crypto is) is a bitch. Hope she can move on and the guy gets some mental help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:59 AM
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This is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:56 AM
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Is this a thing women think? Literally never heard of this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:55 AM
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It’s legal where I live and the vast majority of men still don’t use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:55 AM
2

Can you be a betabux if you earn less than the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:56 PM
1

Mines was a lecturer apologising for being boring mid way through a class cause half of us were asleep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:53 PM
2

Snorted here 😂😂 gonna start calling it that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:51 PM
3

Hope she gets some medical screening. Could be a sign of something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:29 PM
3

Incomprehensible and amazing. Again. I love this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:29 PM
7

I can’t imagine what it must be like going around hating the other gender. They’re 50% of the population. You see them all the time. Sounds tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:23 PM
2

k
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:50 PM
6

I always find it funny in here cause one day I’m being told my husband is a Chad cause he’s never asked out a woman in his life but got laid anyway and next I’m being told he’s a beta provider because I post on PPD. Beautiful subreddit. Never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:49 PM
1

This women had literal billions. An investment banker is small fry compared to wealth like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:39 PM
1

He married her well before he was PM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:34 PM
2

What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:34 PM
1

Well he doesn’t meet the definition posted by OP so sadly I can’t help OP answer his original question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:09 PM
2

Well sadly my husband doesn’t meet the beta provider requirements so I can’t answer your original question I’m afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:08 PM
2

How do I tell if my husband is a beta provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:50 PM
1

A woman ok tiktok said she was married and found a celebrity hot means all women cheat apparently hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:46 PM
1

See as a child I also got everything I ever wanted and was spoiled but I also had pretty high expectations put on me. So I expect a lot but I give a lot too. It’s a good balance I find
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:47 PM
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I wouldn’t describe you as a bastion of the right wing Slip haha. What could you have said to her that would get her mad? You seem super reasonable. Not like a mad racist or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:12 PM
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The UK prime minister is 5’6 and he’s married to a literal billionaire’s heiress. I’m 5’3 and 5’6 is plenty tall imo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:55 PM
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Is she even still here these days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:05 PM
2

I read realising as read cause I was half asleep. I’ll reword my question. How did you realise this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:13 AM
1

Where did you read this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:59 AM
3

My husband can’t even drive. Cars mean less than zero to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:36 PM
1

Exactly!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:32 PM
3

Don’t bring other threads into the daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:29 PM
1

As long as he’s not lying Idc. You don’t owe anyone your internal thoughts and feelings. You don’t owe anyone your life story. Although I find it hard to believe I’d be at the marriage stage with someone too scared to tell me anything. He sounds a bit too closed off for my liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:29 PM
2

Trash excuse. Tell them you have the shits instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:25 PM
1

Did he lie to me? Lying is different from not mentioning anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:24 PM
5

Yeah it does. The rule is stupid as fuck. We all saw this coming when it was put in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:23 PM
3

If you’re banging someone when you know you have an sti and don’t tell them that’s garbage. But you don’t need to tell anyone anything about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:08 PM
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I wish I could do a poll of ppd members but I can’t - if it was entirely legal where you live (if it isn’t already) currently, regulated and monitored for scamming etc, would you pay for sex? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:05 PM
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Never thought this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:11 PM
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Abstinence and anti abortion only baby. Had at least 5 pregnant Mothers at 16 in my year so that worked a treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:11 PM
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What’s the typical refractory period?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:50 PM
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I know her cause of that rapist olympics doctor they did a documentary about. But I’m not from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:49 PM
5

They’ve posted a cute dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:51 PM
2

What if his bmi explodes? Is it not an easy way to hold onto a thinner woman while being big?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:43 AM
1

Ok so: imagine. The sub is dead. What’s the best subreddit name for the new version of ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:56 AM
4

Automatic meaning man. Can I ask a question? If you had a 18-21 BMI wife and she went to 25 cause pregnancy and it took her 2 years to get to 19? Would you divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:49 AM
1

Do you have the porn cause I’m keen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:47 AM
1

Amazing response tbh. 10/10. No notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:03 PM
3

Yeah exactly. Kinda sad that people find issue with this sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:58 PM
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Not gonna listen to another guy in here say women are more emotional when we have a guy in here (not naming any names so not a witch-hunt) throwing such a massive bitch fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:05 PM
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There’s a reason we evolved to be 50/50ish - seems like a good balance to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:01 PM
3

Dude I see your name here all the fucking time 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:56 PM
4

Where will you spend all your time if this place is gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:48 PM
1

Seems likely 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:50 PM
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If you’re taking my post to mean being a below average attractive women is a nightmare that wasn’t the point lol. My life is great. I just think the guys on here have a warped view of what it’s like from a male attention POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:47 PM
1

Funny weird not funny haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:45 PM
1

32
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:40 PM
3

TIL men are psychic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:40 PM
2

A married 3/10 alone at a bar waiting on her husband to join lol. I can big talk all I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:40 PM
1

Fair. This is actually a good strategy imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:29 PM
2

They sound like losers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:28 PM
4

No I’m a big fat 22.5
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:28 PM
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To add to my previous comment, I’m married and not interested in anyone. I just find it funny that apparently mid and below women can’t leave the house without male attention according to this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:27 PM
2

This is now in my meme folder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:21 PM
8

Been sitting in a bar on my own for 30 minutes and not one approach (as is the usual case). Where are all these 3/10 women who get bombarded with male attention going?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:20 PM
2

Haha. I had a somewhat similar experience after playing snake on my nokia. When I closed my eyes to go to sleep at night I was playing it in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:16 PM
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Being in love is the best. Settling is gonna end you up in a world of pain. Best holding out for the man of your dreams, settling down and banging the brains out of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:11 PM
4

Such a stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:07 PM
1

When you look like me every man you date is mentally ill so you embrace the crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:06 PM
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Anyone who thinks the celebrity lifestyle is worth it is brain dead in my opinion. I’ll remain in my burrow thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:46 PM
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I do makeup cause every other woman is doing it and I don’t wanna look like the uggo 😂 in my 99% male office I’m walking around with my hair scraped back and not an ounce of the stuff on my face. Maybe if I was more artistic and creative I’d enjoy it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:42 PM
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“The Tetris effect (also known as Tetris syndrome) occurs when people devote so much time and attention to an activity that it begins to pattern their thoughts, mental images, and dreams.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:40 PM
1

I guess that makes sense. It seems like a place where men can go and just hang around men for a bit. Shoot the shit? I gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:39 PM
2

TIL you need a doctorate to cut StrikingAd8555’s hair 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:38 PM
1

Do you feel inadequate and his compliments feel false?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:19 PM
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Sorry to get off topic but why does it matter who cuts your hair? I don’t even care if my ob/gyn is a man for example. What about it makes you not feel like a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:05 PM
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A philosopher of our times right here. This gave me a good chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:44 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean by “what made me think that?”. If you mean what made me think there are less consequences for women being vulnerable in a relationship then I’d say that was everything you posted to me tbh. What you said was the consequences for men disclosing information is that they could be broken up with. You didn’t give me any consequences for women disclosing vulnerable information? Like, they might be dismissed and feel sad but it’s unlikely it would result in a breakup. So do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:15 PM
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Ok just realised this is from Obama’s memoir hahahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:48 PM
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Which is why I said you have and haven’t answered my consequences. What I’m trying to nail down here is. Perhaps men dismiss women more, however, as there may be less consequences for women when their feelings are dismissed than there are for men it may mean we notice it less. Whereas there could be a smaller number of men having their feelings dismissed by women cause the men are so aware of possible consequences that they just don’t bother sharing at all? Does this seem likely/unlikely?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:44 PM
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This does and doesn’t answer my question. I think this more answers “why do men not share their feelings more” which is not what I wanted to know. What I wanted to know is why you believe women being dismissive is more common than men being dismissive. I’m not sure what you’ve shared covers that. What you shared more likely covers consequences for men who do. Do you get the distinction I’m trying to make? I’m talking about overall prevalence, not overall negative outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:34 PM
1

What’s this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:25 PM
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Ok. Now we are getting to where I wanted to get to From my original comment. Why do you think the female dismissing males dynamic is more common than the male dismissing females dynamic? What makes you believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:13 PM
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Not really answering any of my questions here. I already understand this POV. I’ve read about it extensively. That’s why I’m asking the questions above which I haven’t heard much about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:04 PM
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Getting downvotes for advising a guy his post is against sub rules and is gonna get deleted so he should post in the daily instead. Apparently giving solids advice is worth a downvote these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:50 AM
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There’s been a lot of comments from men talking about experiences they’ve had with women where their feelings and vulnerabilities were not taken seriously and it backfired on them. And I don’t doubt that tbh. People suck. But I don’t think this is an exclusively female on male phenomenon and I believe male on female as well as same sex relationships, friendships and familial relationships also have these issues. What’s everyone’s thoughts? Do we think one of these examples above is more prevalen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:17 AM
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I thought this was a rule
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:06 AM
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I have nothing to add to this other than to say your post perfectly encapsulates my own point of view. My parents were married and divorced, they had me and I’m loved greatly by both of them and they’re completely amicable. Both went on to fall in love and marry other people and live very happy lives that they wouldn’t have had if they’d stayed together. Serial monogamy for the purpose of raising kids is the reason humans were so evolutionary successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:45 AM
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Tbh I think the “I expect a man to pay cause I’m doing my makeup and hair” is post hoc rationalisation for explaining why it is somehow reasonable to expect a man to pay for you in this day and age. It’s not the reason they want you to pay. I’d say wanting a man to pay is more just wanting him to show investment up front. I’m not sure though that’s just me guessing. I always went 50/50 when I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:27 AM
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I do but I’m basically hairless anyway so it doesn’t take long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:21 PM
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Sounds like a man child. Looking after your space is the bare minimum for adulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:13 PM
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Who’s saying that isn’t the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:20 PM
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I think she’s referring to the reproductive draft post that was posted on the sub yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:41 PM
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For richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. People that take the vows and then act all surprised when those things happen and it sucks confuse me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:12 PM
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<10%? Chadflation in the nation it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:16 AM
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Too well thought out and nuanced for ppd. This post is a waste on the ppd masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:37 PM
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Discord be dead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:32 PM
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My husband said he wouldn’t want to be a homemaker but he’d be happy to be the person to go part time out of the two of us when we have kids as I earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:04 PM
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I’m so glad we all agree Papa Johns isn’t even worth discussing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:55 PM
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The bar is on the ceiling for women fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:54 PM
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Luke Littler the 16 year old darts player I was talking about earlier came runner up in the tournament. £200,000 at aged 16 is impressive and there will be more to come in the future. Best of luck to the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:54 PM
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Line up gentlemen. We have a Stacy in town.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:48 PM
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I’m very much happy the generations before me fought for my right to have my own bank account, pay my way and take maternity leave if I decide to have kids. I’m very lucky to be born in this day and age. Any woman moaning about gaining these rights is being incredibly shortsighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:24 PM
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Yeah. Also wanting to makeup after an argument is fairly normal too. Idgi.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:21 PM
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No. I read out the more batshit stuff for his amusement though. He typically argues on different subs 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:20 PM
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I just want consenting adults to have the sex they want dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:14 PM
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I’m not a woman who believes in waiting for marriage and I don’t think many people here are, maybe another subreddit on celibacy before marriage could help you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:02 PM
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I can’t wait to be a sahm so I can not clean or look after kids and just go for brunches and manicures instead while I dead bedroom my husband even though he works 80 hours a week to pay for my lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:01 PM
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My husband lived with a straight female roommate and I lived with a straight male one with no issues so you’re likely worrying over nothing. But if it’s something that’s gonna eat you up inside best letting her know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:59 PM
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I don’t think either of those are attractive qualities tbh. A woman isn’t dating a guy based on either of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:47 PM
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Doesn’t matter. I know plenty of women that have gotten into all sorts of things cause the guy they like is into it. Anime, video games, football. You name it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:37 PM
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If a girl likes you she’ll show interest in anything you’re interested in. I watched the entirety of Seinfeld in a week cause the guy I liked said it was one of his favourite shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:31 PM
1

Leave it to someone on ppd to read something wrong from a statement about loving someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:37 PM
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I don’t agree it’s a contradiction dude. Nothing about feminism means you can’t be madly in love with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:16 PM
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Feminism doesn’t mean you can’t love men and want to best for them 😂 what?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:11 PM
2

What’s making you scratch your chin?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:06 PM
1

Yeah it’s 16 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:24 PM
1

I always find the “you can’t date a feminist” stuff funny. As someone who would call herself a feminist, I don’t think I could be more obsessed with my husband and his happiness if I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:22 PM
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Yeah it’s perfectly legal where they’re from. No laws broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:21 PM
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Well that’s why I posted it here, lots of people calling her a nonce on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:17 PM
2

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:17 PM
1

It’s not illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:12 PM
3

lots of age gap discourse happening on twitter about this link. Thoughts PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:08 PM
1

He was cute and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:19 AM
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I thought waiting for boyfriend/girlfriend status was high school type stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:19 AM
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Why? Swallowing is exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. Not random stranger stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:18 AM
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First time I ever did it we were playing truth or dare based on who won some card games and it got steadily more sexual from thete
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:10 PM
2

I wouldn’t swallow for casual but would for husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:09 PM
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If they asked me out. But guys I like are shy so I accept that’s not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:08 PM
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Why are you girlfriend/boyfriend with someone you’re not having sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:04 PM
1

Aww that sucks. Hope they choke on their festive drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:20 PM
5

Death knell for the daily thread tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:20 PM
1

Went back to his house and saw his brother naked and then his mum called me by another girls name. We dated for years after.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:03 PM
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“Not to brag” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:02 PM
1

Fellas, is it gay to kiss a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:00 PM
1

There’s nothing nicer than cuddling in bed when the weather outside is horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:49 PM
1

I’m in love with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:41 PM
1

Not true for me. Wouldn’t have kids if my husband didn’t want them. Would have kids if he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:31 PM
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“The general conclusion drawn from this work is that women will be more socially-orientated (selfless), and men more individually-orientated (selfish). This paper reports the results of a double-anonymous dictator experiment designed to permit the emergence of basic gender differences in economic behaviour. Our results are intended to provide a baseline for further research. We find that women, on average, donate twice as much as men to their anonymous partners when any factors that might confou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:32 PM
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I mean. I wasn’t doubting it was a phrase. Just no Catholics I know follow this convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:35 PM
2

Seconding this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:23 PM
6

If you loved me you’d do anal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:17 PM
2

Godbrother? I’m catholic and never have I heard of calling the son of your godparent your godbrother. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:17 PM
3

Much less physical effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:10 PM
3

I’d just want to spend more time with him. Any time with other people isn’t with him. That’s not appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:47 PM
2

Barely have enough time in the day to spend with my husband tbh. One shall do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:35 PM
1

I asked my husband about mandatory tests and he was like “what the fuck do I want the government to collect my dna for???”. He found out his sibling got a 23 and me kit for his parents for a “fun” present and he was absolutely furious about it. There are a number of reasons men aren’t keen on it despite the fact it’s pushed in here a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:20 PM
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People do it for the most innocuous stuff. Don’t worry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:09 PM
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You just gotta pay a lot for the good stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:53 PM
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Dunno, it just seemed like you might be mad and I was confused. If a guy asked for my Snapchat at the gym I’d do the same. So I just wondered if people thought that was rude and that she was assuming too much. I don’t think my husband would be happy with me adding random gym dudes on social media so I assumed most guys would be fine with it going this way. But it seems you aren’t annoyed at her so I misread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:40 PM
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It’s just a way of saying you’re attracted. Talking about this sort of stuff isn’t really all that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:04 PM
1

What do you think she should have done in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:59 AM
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So did mrs drgree just abandon here or what? Absolutely gutted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:54 AM
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Think you’d forgotten the link or shared the wrong one. That’s just dudes saying they like women talking and smelling good 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:30 AM
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I was saying if I was the guy I’d walk away unbothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:27 AM
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What sounds too performative to be unbothered. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:17 AM
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It really won’t. If a guy asked me out, I said no and then he asked if I was trans I’d know he was just throwing a little hissy fit. Pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:12 AM
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It’ll just sound like sour grapes tbh and she’ll laugh at you and how pathetic you are with her friends. I’d just walk away totally unbothered. Abundance mindset is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:54 AM
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I’m trying to connect those dots but I’m ngl I’m struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:50 AM
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One of each please.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:11 AM
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I feel bad for those missing out on opposite sex friendships. My best friend is a guy. My husband picked him as an usher at our wedding. We’ve been on holiday with him multiple times. Wild that people think this is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:54 PM
1

When it’s clear they’ve spent an insane amount of money on mediocre clothes. Like £50 on a plain white shirt or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:51 PM
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No. I might just be ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:49 PM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:48 PM
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I would never want to move there but I feel this In My bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:30 PM
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She said weird not creepy. It’s unusual behaviour to buy a girl you’re not romantically involved with flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:51 PM
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The comments seem to say he’s in the right but he’ll struggle with 8 in his late 30s/early 40s. Who’s calling it shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:55 AM
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It wouldn’t make any difference. If you’re sharing intimate details with a girl and I’m hearing her name pop up a lot in conversation, I’m not gonna act mad or jealous. I’ll be completely calm and chill. You’ll have no idea. But I can assure you, I’d be carefully following what’s happening. Watching out for changes in behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:49 AM
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If I was your gf I’d have clocked that girl’s name and I’d make a mental note of it any time you mention her. I’d keep an eye on any escalation. I’d act perfectly normal and fine like I was cool with her and not jealous at all but inside…that girl would be on my “to watch out for” list. I wonder if this is normal or if I’m a psycho. Just giving you my own insane insight to do with what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:42 AM
2

Reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:56 AM
2

It should but let’s play this game on extreme mode. Drink anytime Purplish Possum mentions banging fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:37 AM
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PPD Daily Megathread Drinking Games Rules: Drink anytime Ainsleygz hornyposts. What other rules so we need to give us liver failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:28 AM
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I have different views on cheating than most people here mate. Including women. I’d forgive my partner for having a one night stand with someone else and owning up. I wouldn’t forgive an affair. One could feasibly be a mistake. The other is too deliberate to be ignored. It’s my personal opinion though. People can set whatever boundaries they want. This is mine. Although it’s all hypothetical as I can’t imagine my husband cheating ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:06 PM
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Loads of successful men get escorts when they could easily get a sexually interested woman for free. It’s just less effort to pay for something if all you’re interested in is sex. If that’s all you want, no strings sex, and you have spare cash why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:25 PM
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Sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:02 PM
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I’d look after the baby. Not the baby’s fault and I’d want my kids to know any siblings they have. My husband would have a lot of grovelling to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:34 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:42 PM
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Go get it if you want. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:55 PM
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That just seems so juvenile to me. Why are grown adults in accountancy asking high school questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:40 PM
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Nicely done dude. Very smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:39 PM
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What you’ve said is true. Whiners: “BuT cHaD dOeSn’T nEeD tO aPprRoAcH”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:21 PM
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Where do you work that that’s even appropriate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:14 PM
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Can’t say it ever crosses my mind tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:01 PM
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I’d worry I’m not stylish enough for this dude. But as long as he could put up with my terrible fashion sense I’d give it a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:31 PM
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I don’t agree with your assessment. I see plenty of women laughing at other women’s cellulite or wrinkles. I’ve heard plenty of men laugh at each other for being bald. Humans can be mean about appearance sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:37 PM
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Today I learned calling a guy cute means I’m thirsting over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:35 PM
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It’s not divorce I’m worried about. It’s going from being really happy to being miserable. There’s plenty of couple together who can’t fucking stand one another and I certainly don’t want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:33 PM
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For sure. I’d be trying all the meds I could to keep it. Don’t blame them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:31 PM
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Anyone acting that way about someone’s appearance is a dick. That being said, I think advising a friend to give shaving a go if their hairline is receding is decent advice. We live in a shallow world and it pays to conform to people’s expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:26 PM
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Cute. I’d have been into him if I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:13 PM
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Yeah this is the concern. As much as he’s all for being totally on board, I know in my heart it’s not gonna be 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:59 PM
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I’ve seen couples slowly begin to hate each other with arguments over this sort of thing. It’s scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:58 PM
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Yeah. This is why I’m scared haha. Hopefully I’m Uk the challenge though. And hopefully he is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:25 PM
2

Thanks man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:24 PM
3

This isn’t comforting 😂 but thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:24 PM
2

I’m thinking not even fatal flaw territory. What happens if he or I get sick and can’t work anymore, what if the baby is born with complex needs. All this sort of shit would knock even the strongest and mos compatible people. Life can be a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:23 PM
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As someone about to start trying for a baby this sort of thing really does concern me. I’ve had a long happy relationship with my husband. Is a baby gonna change that? You can’t really know until it’s here and it’s too late. Hoping I’m one of the lucky ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:04 PM
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Calling yourself a feminist is a political statement in my opinion. The majority of those who are drug addicted, abused etc., aren’t overly political. The vast majority don’t vote. Hell, half couldn’t name the Prime Minister. Doesn’t surprise me that they aren’t online arguing about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:02 AM
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As someone who ended up in an abusive relationship, I don’t get how you fall for it again. The red flag spotting and boundary setting was a breeze. I hope this person gets the help she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:30 AM
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I’m only in my 30s I’d say I’m less horny than when I was in my early 20s. But it may just be that when I first got with my partner we had New Relationship energy and we’re spending all day in bed, and now we are settled into more of a routine of 1-2 times a week. Think this is normal thoufh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:21 AM
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If he isn’t in Al Qaeda I don’t want him /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:10 AM
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Get a white noise app on your phone. Works a treat for blocking out lighter snoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:08 AM
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It’s more than dumb men give me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:07 AM
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I wish. Sadly I fell in love with someone on the average wage. Wish I was jaded enough to be a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:03 PM
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I doubt they’d be doing this for every sexual encounter once they’ve got to a point where they understand each others boundaries. But who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:47 PM
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Bit much for me but glad she found a guy who makes her feel good. Best of luck to them both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:40 PM
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I’d swipe left solely for what looks to be a religious picture. Not keen on dating a guy who’s religious. I think he should delete that pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:36 PM
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My ex lied to me and said he wasn’t a virgin when we got together. I figured out he was a virgin and was just lying when he started stretching out the condom like he was blowing up a balloon animal and couldn’t get it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:21 PM
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Booked in for my birth control removal after 14 years of being on it. Gonna be weird having a menstrual cycle again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:01 AM
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Low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:39 PM
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Then yeah I’d be fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:04 PM
1

Depends why they’re leaving me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:59 PM
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I’ve been told my type is “awkward”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:42 PM
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I don’t know even if there is a looks difference. I just feel uglier because of the pure hatred of average looking women on this sub when they’re shared. I’m not affected in the same way by ratings of men on here, because I know what I think looks good on a man and other peoples opinions isn’t gonna change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:57 PM
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It’s fucked up my opinion of me tbh but not men or relationships. My partner is amazing and nothing like some of the walking red flags in here. I never used to care about looks but hanging out here makes me assess my own looks and feel pretty ugly. I look at my partner sometimes and think “why would he be with this? I’m a mess”. I try to focus on other stuff but the constant lookism on here has fucked me up a little. Why am I still here when it’s having a negative impact? Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:49 PM
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Popular extroverted guys got with popular extroverted girls at my school. Go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:55 PM
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It’s just you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:33 PM
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I’m reporting myself here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:19 PM
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Fucking hell, this is gross and you are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:19 PM
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Be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:07 PM
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Relax my man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:06 PM
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I miss a certain Racoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:03 PM
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I love this place. I only hang out here a few times a year but the insanity is great
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:02 PM
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Why do men want approval to get a paternity test?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:47 PM
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I’ve not been here in a while. Is Andrew Tate still popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:30 PM
1

He’s more than happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:29 PM
1

Who was the hottest woman of the 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:51 PM
1

This place is more bitter on Friday nights than it is usually. I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:28 PM
1

Checkmate feminists am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:20 PM
1

For him, but I find the weight stuff hilarious. You’ve been a great addition to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:56 PM
1

What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:48 PM
1

It’s ppd, what you gonna do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:40 PM
1

He does all cooking. We split it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:40 PM
1

My bf is getting married to me in a couple weeks. I can’t wait
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:37 PM
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Hey, he does all cooking. I’m happy to do the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:36 PM
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Nah I mean he does fuck all cleaning. He cooks a delicious curry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:36 PM
1

Egalitarian in this household baby
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:31 PM
1

Th am fully in addicted to cleaning so he never has to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:27 PM
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Lol. He already does fuck all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:27 PM
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I promise I’ll make him a happy man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:22 PM
1

Toxic but true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:20 PM
1

He’s scared of spiders. Is that losing frame?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:19 PM
1

Too late. I’ve roped him in now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:19 PM
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No chance of that. He’s hot AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:18 PM
1

Great advice bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:18 PM
1

I think people mix up red and black pretty regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:05 PM
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Getting married V soon. Advice for my bf from the men on the sub please?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:02 PM
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Yes in UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:56 PM
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Can you link one. Most of the stories seem to me like the guy is toxic AF and the manosphere stuff is just the explanation, not the only issue in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:31 AM
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Talking so much shit it hurts. Block me mods. I’m done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:38 PM
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I think most of my female friend’s partners are good looking but I’m not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:59 PM
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I don’t really understand this distinction. Can you explain a little more?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:54 PM
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I would love if we had more shitty female characters in movies/tv. So many Mary Sues out there. It’s boring AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:47 PM
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Q4A If your partner never initiated sex, but was always up for it when you initiated, would you stay with them? Or do you need them to show active interest in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:40 PM
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Not everywhere. It’s legal in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:23 PM
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No. Don’t think they mean anything in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:10 PM
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Not had any side effects from birth control. It’s a fucking dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:40 AM
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How fat is that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:38 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:32 PM
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How much weight (as you all apparently care about weight so much here) would your other half have to gain for it to be a breakup issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:31 PM
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Q4A have you actually read any studies about sexual competition? Or are you basing all your animosity on feels from tik tok videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:57 PM
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I was bitten by radioactive Plan B and now have super contraceptive powers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:50 PM
1

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:47 PM
1

I like men bigger than me. That’s not a hard achievement at 5’3.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:46 PM
1

Are there redpillers anymore? I thought they’d all regressed to black.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:45 PM
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It sucks being a small woman cause you’re maintenance calories are like 1600 and you can’t eat a whole pizza if you don’t want to gain weight. Wish I was 8ft
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:35 PM
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I don’t think your question was very clear tbh. You said “how many of you all” like you we’re expecting an answer to that in general. Personally. I sometimes joking say men suck to my bf but he ignores me cause it’s clearly me being a dickhead. He makes similar jokes. It’s all banger. Nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:26 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:21 PM
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I don’t know how many women shit on men as a whole to bad out significant other. I’m not a mind reader
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:18 PM
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I do think a lot of men here are under the impression that every woman has guys approaching them in the street every waking second they’re outside of the house. But it’s just not the case. Saw a survey recently that says 74% of women under the age of 26 which they were approached more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:05 PM
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Same reason I listen to true crime podcasts. Weird things/people/places intrigue me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:21 AM
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I think one hypothesis was if they’re lubed up and ready to go in any sexual situation they’re less likely to be internally damaged by rape
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:14 PM
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Apparently it’s pupil dilation, do you have another study? Cause it doesn’t seem to match what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:52 PM
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I’ve got a feeling no one here has actually read the study
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:51 PM
1

So not genital arousal then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:51 PM
1

Overweight is healthier to underweight iirc so that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:48 PM
1

How? What does it physically measure? Lubrication?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:46 PM
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How was genital arousal measured
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:44 PM
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No. If I want him, then I’m pretty much ready to get in his pants there and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:22 PM
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Depends. Am I like their shifty ex? Do I need to fix something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:55 PM
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Not the actual number but how he got it. Has he cheated on every woman he’s dated? Has he had a host of STIs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:53 PM
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Women are bigger slut shamers then men have ever been in my experience. Judging other women for sleeping around. Looking down on outfits they wear. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:35 PM
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I have no idea. >100. People talk about their relationships all the time. Even perfect strangers will bring up their relationships in passing. It’s hard to meet someone and not have them bring up their other half.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:18 PM
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I wasn’t implying that at all. Again, a complete misreading of the situation. But continue to keep telling me what I actually meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:26 PM
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Ok. Well I won’t comment in future in case you decide to read into my facts that I didn’t say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:31 PM
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You’re reading far too much into what I said. I didn’t give a reason. I just stated a fact. There was no “who is to blame” in my comment. It was literally a statement of facts. I said nothing about victims of circumstances etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:10 PM
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Do people not just hold the door for those around them. Baffles me that this is gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:08 PM
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I read that if you get cheated on you’re more likely to get cheated on in future. There are some people who just attract cheaters it seems. It’s the same in abusive relationships. If you get into one of those, much more likely to get in another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:50 AM
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All my first dates were fine. Mostly cause I only ever dated guys I knew I had stuff in common with first. I’d either been friends with the guy first or been chatting for a good while on tinder before we met up (so I knew we had lots in common) so that’s not exactly a surprise. The one guy I got with from cold approach, it turned out he was actually a friend of a friend by complete coincidence and again, we had lots in common. It’s annoying. Means I don’t have any good stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:26 AM
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No. I don’t want to know. If he’s not planning to do it again. Made a mistake. Loves me etc. then telling me will only cause me pain. He should suck it up and feel guilt forever and keep me in my happy delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:21 AM
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He was putting out though…that’s what hooking up means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:29 AM
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I think 80 year olds are cute AF. They’re like wrinkly babies and they bake cakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:02 PM
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I was a cringey NLOG when I was a teen. I most definitely was not a pickme. You’re right. They’re different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:50 PM
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Loads of old, overweight people are in relationships dude. Given how fat the west is it’s not a particularly rare event either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:38 PM
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I wish half the men spouting red pill on here practiced what they preached and went to the fucking gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:27 PM
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I’ve dated a couple of guys I was friends with first. The first guy I’d known from childhood so there was initial spark/attraction when I met him: In fact I remember not really liking him at all as a kid. My now fiancé - I remember meeting him and thinking “this guy’s cute, his girlfriend has done a good job snagging him” when I first met him. So I don’t think it’s necessary to have that initial attraction but it helps for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:08 PM
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How much you wanting to lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:16 PM
1

What’s the correct way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:11 PM
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You’ll get there!! One day you shall have it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:08 PM
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The refractory period.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:31 PM
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Well that person is obviously not included in my explanation. I’ve seen a lot of posts written by autistic people themselves which is fine. Post like you’ve described are obviously ridiculous and offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:01 PM
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How’s your husband feeling now? Hope he’s ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:57 PM
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I think it’s likely an autistic person or persons who’re worried about ableism towards themselves that are bringing it up as a topic a lot tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:56 PM
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You monster
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:34 PM
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My bf didn’t want to have too much of a commute and I didn’t care about location. So we life like 30 mins from his work
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:42 AM
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POTS?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:29 AM
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I remember my ex a month or so before we broke up saying “I could get another woman in a heartbeat”. It sort of backfired because when he said that I didn’t even feel slightly jealous. I was like “cool, you go do that buddy. I’ll go get someone else too. Byeee”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:25 AM
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Yes and no. I’m sure there is a least some percentage of women who are just shy and take a little while to come out of their shell. No idea what proportion this would be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:21 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:20 PM
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Would you leave her if she remained fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:40 PM
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What ended it? Was he fat when you got together?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:40 PM
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Another weight based Q4A: what do you consider as too fat to date. Feel free to give me a BMI or a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:39 PM
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So would you leave someone if they got fat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:38 PM
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Q4A: Would you date a fat person? If no, would you leave a partner if they got fat? Also are you fat yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:24 PM
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Zero. Early 30s woman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:31 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:43 PM
1

My friends never call without texting “can I call” so I’d answer cause it’s likely an emergency. If I answer and nothing is up I’ll tell her I’m busy and hang up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:30 AM
1

Sign me up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:04 PM
1

Absolutely. You have similar looks to my ex actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:04 PM
1

Do you know what the bmi healthy range is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:40 PM
1

Nothing. They men remaining are thirsty enough to keep the demand up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:13 PM
1

I had a break from here so thankfully avoided the JH discourse. Weird to come back and see it’s still going for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:10 PM
1

I kinda want to do both in the one day 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:03 PM
1

Who’s going to see Barbie?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:55 PM
1

I’m gonna do both those things even though it could hurt me financially…so yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:51 PM
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Slavery is bad? This really a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:38 AM
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Do men think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:32 PM
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I was being jokey so you shouldn’t have given me the benefit of the doubt tbh. I’ll be more serious now in my response. Some meds can kill a person’s libido. Stone dead. I wouldn’t say the fact that the person experiencing that is not feeling it means they’ve “settled”. I do agree with you however, that constantly putting off sex could absolutely mean the person is unattracted to their partner and that it’s important to make sex a priority to ensure a happy loving relationship. That being said, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:23 PM
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What thread? I read OP’s statement and responded
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:18 PM
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Maybe he should have been more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:09 PM
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How often do you need to let them know you list after them before it’s considered settling? “Hey babe, I know I haven’t been lusty this week but my dog got put down, can I write you a lust iou?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:08 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:50 PM
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