Informal-Clothes-959 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Why are men, in general, far more sympathetic to female bodily autonomy than women, in general, are to male bodily autonomy? I believe it's a combination of people not actually thinking for themselves when making decisions and a general fear of anything "different".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 01:19 AM
3	What exactly do women mourn after a heartbreak? To answer your question bluntly: I would choose him and a cave over a mansion with anyone else. I do not desire other men, fancy things that are burning the world down around us, or the drama and responsibility that comes with status. I want to edge us closer and closer to something more resembling that cave..like a hobbit hole in the forest. I tend to him when he's ill, crying, hurting...lost. He is my person, and I am his. I love him with all of my heart and twice as hard on Sundays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 04:05 AM
3	What exactly do women mourn after a heartbreak? What I am about to say is what works for us. Everyone has to find what works for themselves. He doesn't have money. I don't have money. We have money, or we don't, regardless of who is earning it currently. In the 7 years we've been together, there's been times we both worked and times we've each carried us solo for various reasons. We've maintained a single, joint bank account since we signed that 1st lease. The current plan is for me to go back to work now that the youngest is getting bigger. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 03:59 AM
7	What exactly do women mourn after a heartbreak? I commented and opened communication.. you ask. If I think it's rude, i just won't answer. 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 06:05 PM
12	What exactly do women mourn after a heartbreak? When my guy and I 1st got together we had both moved back to our home state and were starting over. Both working crappy, dead end jobs and living with maternal type relatives. Big difference was his job was literally killing him. One of my first major impacts on his life was convincing him to quit that place during one of our tandem, phone call lunch breaks. That day, and the people in it, were just one day of those people and that place too many. So he quit, we camped a lot that winter while ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 05:53 PM
2	In modern, western society men are always assumed to be the problem in relationships I think it has a lot to do with many men's aversion to emotional conflict. So many simply do not know what to do with a weepy or angry woman. So, they just don't escalate things if they have a choice. With some women, if they get mad enough they shut down and you get dead bedroom or roommate syndrome. Others, though, somewhat more than a lot of the time won't hesitate to go for the nuclear option. Men have been taught from an early age to "eat shit and grin". As long as he's clothed, fed, and ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 09:20 PM
3	50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men Relationships are never 50/50. Someone is always having to pull at least a little more because of out of control circumstances - kids, illness, other people's insanity, aptitude, time management, injury, love. Thinking they'll be 50/50 is detrimental as a whole framework. It completely overshadows the actual union that most people claim to be looking for in life. As an example: If my husband is ill or injured then I can, have, and will take care of him, me, our 3 babies, all our critters, and th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 07:37 PM
2	It's so frustrating that men being rude to women is somehow evidence of "patriarchy" and "oppression" but men's issues like disposability and genital mutilation is seen as trivial This U.S. mama does not see either of those as trivial. Now, as a female, I can't say the subject of circumcision really entered my brain much. I knew it happened but had never given much thought to why, when, how. Then I gave birth to a surprise boy (didn't find out the sex via ultrasound) and had only a few days to make potentially one of the biggest childhood medical decisions of his life. I researched and I was disgusted. He's almost 4 now, intact, and has had no issues related to not having…	/r/MensRights	26/02/24 10:27 PM
2	Rant: the lack of empathy and mental gymnastics from the feminist perspective of men’s issues communities is just astounding When I learned of feminism in my teen years I was feminist by default. Now (at 39), I am no longer a feminist and would feel weird claiming to be. I don't know if it's that feminism itself has changed or if I have. Either way, life and 2 marriages have taught me true equality between the sexes or in a relationship is unattainable. Also, you've missed the mark if you're preaching equality while currently stomping on half the population's very existence. We (women) can vote now. We can have career…	/r/MensRights	26/02/24 09:16 PM
0	Men’s Virility: Women Blame Shifting & Lowering Romantic Competition My husband and I have "relationship improvement" lists on a white board. These lists include only items we have discussed, admitted fault to when necessary, and worked together on for a solution. It varies and changes as we master new ideas and practices. Our private lives are ours so I won't go in to detail, but I currently have 9 points (some super serious where I agree I was doing some serious fucking up and others pettier and more akin to pet peeves being aggravated) I'm working on. Hubby ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 03:31 PM
1	Men are more likely to support their partners in the event of a job loss. Why don't women do the same? In my current, 7 yr relationship there's been more time of me working solo than of either him working or us both working. At one point, before we even had babies, I was working two and he was staying home...for reasons that are ours. Now we have 3 babies under 4, he works and I stay with the babies. That may change again once they're all big enough to tell him, with words, what they need. He also knows we have a contingency plan in place. If his management asks him to do one thing he's uncomfort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/24 07:58 PM
–	Sex is not a need People can survive without love but they can't thrive. In my experience sex and love tend to be all wrapped up in a chaotic bundle when it comes to a long-term partner. You can tell your husband you love him and do all the other things but he'll still start doubting himself if the bedroom goes cool for too long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/24 05:41 AM
1	Things are only truly terrible when it happens to women. I think much of "society" and what it tells us sucks. Men who want different should definitely look for different. My mama and daddy didn't raise an idiot (on most things, lol). Every person on the planet is going to need to be taken care of at different points and in different ways. For instance..my husband and I tend to cuddle though all the hard emotions AND I'm just as capable of changing a tire as my husband, so I did...in Mobile Alabama, in July, in between thunderstorms on 90+ degree day.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 07:04 PM