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| 4 | Old school tip: the Knee testMmmm, i dunno. I’m just going to put it out there that i literally jumped away from some of the people i was most sexually attracted to when we touched (hands, arms, legs,etc) because i was so nervous/excited and was way overly aware of touching while near them. Im happy to admit if im uncommon, but i do exist so just saying this is not always the best gauge. I get too excited? Maybe that’s the problem. Sometimes i will try to not pay attention to the new touch and not move away, but it’s an eff… | /r/seduction | 14/04/23 10:30 PM |
| 10 | what makes a man seductive?As others have said, it’s always more than words, but when it comes to attraction i feel like the women i know are interested in men who can verbally play on their desired level. For example, i have some geekier friends where the guy is sweeter with what he says, quieter, and has a lot of dirty jokes about games they like that make her smile. I have other friends who enjoy more action and less talking so they go long distance hiking and biking and then joke with each other about the absurdity an… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | To the ladies who are in and or read this sub: Do you enjoy when a guy approaches you in public? at the store? coffee shop? out in town?I really enjoy in person approaches when im doing normal every day things. You feel the chemistry so much stronger and sooner . If it’s awkward or creepy its over quickly (though i feel like this negative side is uncommon). Ive been asked out as an uber driver, asked out paying for things at walmart, in physics tutoring, asked to go home with people after house parties, while playing poker, while backpacking, and they have all been fun. This doesn’t happen extremely often, and i think covid/doin… | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 08:37 AM |
| 1 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”Is that bragging? That seems like a complaint…am i crazy? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Yeah, that was my initial reply was disagreeing with the word use, but that’s a per person thing. Maybe white chicks are bad at escalation? Perhaps the terms used just put them on edge, make them leery of someone being scuzzy? we need a white girl poll. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Its a fun and playful thing that is definitely enjoyable - no protests here! I am smiling over here because you think you need to convince me that sex is pleasurable and that having it on a first date or early on is beneficial. I totally agree: sexual compatibility is super helpful and arguably necessary to sus out early in a relationship. I personally wouldn’t go far in a relationship without exploring that aspect, and with people I really like I wouldn’t be able to resist, haha! Ive had sex wi… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?I am pretty sex positive, but im not excited by people who are focused on sex rather than a connection. I also don’t feel like that’s asking a lot… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?i wouldn’t call you those things, so it’s not a double standard im violating haha. But maybe consider the intent behind what they’re saying rather than just the words that are being used. In your case you are specifically trying to sleep with someone which can ignore their entire personality to serve your lust. Whereas, I’ve heard waitresses call men and women hon. And they’re using the term because it’s somewhat respectful, friendly, and neutral rather than just saying you or sir. clearly they … | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 3 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?There isn’t anything wrong with wanting to get in someone’s pants - but when its so obvious that who you are as a person doesn’t matter, it just makes you feel pretty low worth. it’s like i could be anyone, nothing about who i am matters. I am another babe or baby. sometimes playful banter can evolve into more, but often it ends there- with no depth. i just prefer to be appreciated for who i am as a person more than (or at least before) having sex with someone i just met. I want more of a connec… | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:08 AM |
| 30 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Yeah, ngl if a guy is using these terms early in interactions id feel like he’s just trying to get in my pants and has no respect for me as a person. Even chatting online with guys from other countries and they used similar terms i felt the ick factor. Uncomfortable, Thank you next. (And yes I’m a white girl. ) | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:19 AM |
| 15 | I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside?I don’t view you as a pervert for wanting to find a partner and finding people attractive. Don’t beat yourself up. focus on improving, enjoying your assets and turning your flaws into connections with others. I had and still do have quite a bit of social anxiety, add, and feel not so great looking. I think a lot of people feel this way unfortunately. Just put your best foot forward and know that good things take time. Im glad you want to work on yourself, consider also making sure to be social. … | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:49 AM |
| 24 | I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside?Hey just a girl over here living my life - often i just go out in whatever i was wearing at home if it’s a quick trip out. What is most comfy to me is tiny shorts (looseor spandex), and a big shirt. It’s comfy, but i admit my shorts might be less appropriate than a bermuda short or capri or some other modest clothing options. But i know plenty of ladies who are comfy in other more scantily clad outfits. I’ve met other ladies who dress up to go out, because they feel more comfortable doing so - n… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:17 AM |
| 13 | Girls been follow similar patterns?Sounds like you are just meeting a specific kind of woman. And just gotta laugh at item #1 - Im so sorry that women who you date care about your safety and yet you believe it’s some type of emotional manipulation | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Lost 32.5 year old. Deep issues with womenAfter counseling, recommended by others…. Id recommend spending time with women, starting with coed group settings, then move on to only girl friends hang outs. Friends only. When you have respect and the ability to communicate with them like they (we) are human (which women are) then you might be ready to be in a relationship. Until then, It’s going to take some time, and that’s fine, but time with a therapist will help you get to this point . | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you find a girl that likes sharing the bedroom?Meetup is an app and website. Then within the app you can search for polyamorous specific groups (short hand is poly). Depending your area there can be quite a lot. Once you start to meet people through the groups it usually easier to naturally meet like minds. Not sure if that’s what you are looking for, but it could be a fit for you. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How do you find a girl that likes sharing the bedroom?Poly meetups :) have respect, but share the love. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive?Literally talked to a guy about going to a dance back in school, he asked ifi was going, i said yes, and said “see you there”. Then when i didn’t dance with him at said dance he was crushed, cried at the dance for the rest of the evening and couldn’t talk to me afterwards - even the slightest attention can give the wrong impression. Talked to a guy in math, about math, in college. Talked to him in math about math again, i mentioned my bf because we started to talk about life - he looked at me an… | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 01:42 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Looks help its true, but it always makes me smile how guys don’t understand how important personality is. Its sooooo important - by far, so far. it sounds like it might be hard to get to know OP if he’s not going out, feels not great about his looks, and is thinking about past “failures”. OP, find things that make you happy, do those things. get a job so you can earn money, gain experience, practice friendly social interactions, and this will also make it easier to move out if that is something … | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Make your bedAdmiral william mcraven, the power of habit, and atomic habits are in consensus with you. For me i really don’t feel like my day is significantly impacted. my life felt no more or less productive, orderly, or clean - as i spend very little time near or on my bed unless I’m getting under the covers. To each their own, this one just doesn’t hit home for me. Im down to try it again for the hell of it, but the years i used to do it, didn’t make much of a positive impact. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:29 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Make your bedHonestly i hate this advice 😅 I’m sorry but it has never helped me do a damn thing other than physically make my bed - and there is so much more out there. I hope it’s helping all you commenters! | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Youtube advice gurus ruined my lifeGeez just enjoy the company of others man, don’t make it a game. Everyone is looking for a good connection, if it’s not good then that is it. It’s not a grand finally, a tragic end, its just a poor connection, You can still find the right person. just keep trying, talking to people, being honest, and finding people you love being around! Experience is the best teacher :) and i think you learned alot from these trials! | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:17 AM |
| 2 | When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation.Ive had conversations with guy friends before about how to say no/reject/let someone down who you aren’t into. Ive had some guy friends get honestly angry at me for being vague like OP mentions, but after sitting down and talking through the other options with said guy friends, it always ended up being the better route for both me and the date - guy does not tear himself apart for silly preferences i have when he is completely perfect for someone else and i limit the chances for backlash since i… | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 05:31 PM |
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