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| 5 | Confidence & Self EsteemKnow your limits. Having doubts and fears is normal, wallowing in these is toxic. I am not a hero, nor I pretend to be. Respect other people's fears and limits. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 08:46 PM |
| 2 | GhostedLeave colleagues alone. It's a workplace, not a club. You could end up in front of HR. | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 05:57 AM |
| 6 | How to have masculine “energy” in a charismatic way?By being successful, confident and relaxed . | /r/seduction | 25/01/24 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Having a mindset of gratitude is an underrated component of being attractiveBy understanding others ... | /r/seduction | 04/11/22 07:45 AM |
| 4 | How do I work on my confidence?They are after something (casual sex) that is very, very scarce. Instinctively, women are not inclined to promiscuity (apart from a minority): the risks of pregnancy, std and, last by not least, social stigma are excessive. To be chosen for casual sex, a man has to be outstanding and in the right place at the right time. It's like counting on the lottery to pay the bills. | /r/seduction | 03/11/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I work on my confidence?... and this is why they are not in sync with women. A woman will evaluate a man as a possible long term partner, most of the times. No enormous amount of work needs to be put in, really, just understanding how the other side sees the mating dance. | /r/seduction | 03/11/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I work on my confidence?Indeed, but if they themselves are "average", that's the domain. In terms of ranking, there are other factors to consider, beyond the mere physical appearance. Is she intelligent, compassionate, interesting? A super attractive body is worth attention (and this is why we should strive to improve our own) but, is a shallow, gold digging supermodel really a 100k contract? | /r/seduction | 03/11/22 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone know where to find girls? I wanna start pulling but my phone is super dry and when I’m out not a lot of people talk to me. How do I find more people and be more widely known amongst girls.Dancing classes. Girls:boys = 5:1 | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I work on my confidence?You can't stand rejection and you are insecure. That's a starting point, it's not all bad, because you know your current limitations and this is important. Of course rejection is humiliating. It's a risk to be taken, but, as always with risks, an assessment is due. The best advice I can give is that 1) you should become "outcome independent". Think that, if you were a salesperson and you had to meet a client to place a £100 contract, you would be stressed, for x amount. If you were to meet a £10… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl I like flirted with me months ago, but I was blind to the hints until now. Is it still salvageable, and how should I approach if so?In my personal experience, no. Opportunities missed are not salvageable. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Going to a Halloween party this weekend - how do I flirt?Understand.women | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Going to a Halloween party this weekend - how do I flirt?This | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Ever given a second chance from a girl who initially rejected you?That you should make your intentions clear ... | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Ever given a second chance from a girl who initially rejected you?I would say so, because when you parted she offered you the friendzone, so she might think that this is what you're up to ... | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 06:18 PM |
| 6 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?No, if they're having fun. Endless choice of suitors, gratification from validation, not committing to any of them. Bit like a videogame ... could be seen as a waste of time, or not? | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 10:29 AM |
| 12 | How do you minimise the chances of flaking before a date?It is fun ... for them. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | BBC News - At least 11 dead after attack on Russian army recruits training to fight in Ukraine. OP: Bound to happen when men are drafted against their will.Is elimination of the surplus of men a byproduct of the war, or is the war a byproduct of the surplus of men? | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 05:29 AM |
| 2 | I’m killer at making women laugh, but I quickly run into an issue in my interactionsLess is more. Don't overdo. | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I've had an awkward conversation with the girl I like..You'll discover ... | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 10:07 PM |
| 5 | I have initiated all conversations for the past week or so. How do I get her to initiate?I would not accept that. Respect is fine, treat her kindly but sex is a must. If she doesn't feel like having it with you and has these inhibitions, as you said, what kind of relationship are you tying yourself in? A nightmare. I would run away but your life, your choice. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for people living in conservative countries?He wrote his memories. Amazing guy, also quite a good writer (and violinist). | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 10:20 PM |
| 2 | I have initiated all conversations for the past week or so. How do I get her to initiate?I didn't say that. I said that I would move on, if I was you ... but I'm not you. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 7 | I have initiated all conversations for the past week or so. How do I get her to initiate?I would move on. Thats my 2p advice. You do what you want. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | I have initiated all conversations for the past week or so. How do I get her to initiate?How old are you both? | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryYes, and they follow a cliché: 1) a mysterious stranger appears (insert here factors of attractiveness); 2) the protagonist can't classify him, and he seems confident, therefore she uses her secret weapons to attract his attention (tosses her hair / bites her lower lip / looks at him sideways / insert whatever ...); 3) he doesn't seem to notice at first, also because there are other women that do the same, including one that our protagonist despises (the slut with low morals). He obviously has o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:52 AM |
| 15 | Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of HistoryExactly. Keep women subjugated, by disseminating jokes about their "low morality" and how they should be controlled. In my experience, as a man, these kind of jokes are common across countries and cultures. What I always experienced is that women crave romance, men crave sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Need help starting a conversationThis is why IRL is much better. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Why she laughs when the jokes are at me but when I make jokes, everyone laughs but her?She finds you unattractive. Nothing you can do. Ignore her and have fun with the friends (assuming that these other people can be considered "friends"). | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | not having partner slows or distract your journey towards having successful career?And? | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 05:27 AM |
| 8 | [Looking for feedback] AI-generated replies for dating appsI find it brilliant... | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Any good tips on flirting for non-basement dwellers?Read any book by Bill Bryson, watch a "Fish called Wanda" and the series "Friends", "The big bang theory". To start with ... | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Any good tips on flirting for non-basement dwellers?Read books, watch movies, watch comedians, learn to see the funny side of things ... | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Any good tips on flirting for non-basement dwellers?Humour helps humans | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:48 PM |
| -1 | [33M] My game is tight in all areas: look good, feel good, make good money, well built etc. I just don't have the balls to approach! How to work my way up to an approach?Parties, clubs, dancing lessons ... | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:47 PM |
| 30 | Do people who engage in casual sex usually only do so with strangers (bars, nightclubs, pubs etc…) or is it just as commonly done between friends and people who know each other?Both. Promiscuous people shag each other, often they don't know each other before, then, once they made an acquaintance, they continue ... now knowing each other. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Girl seems interested, but doesn't want to spend much time with me.Have sex. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you not let failure at dating affect your self esteem?Humans communicate verbally and non verbally. Most women / girls are shy and, since they are more afraid than us of rejection, when interested in a guy, they communicate it non verbally (body language) and these signs are most often subtle and elusive. https://youtu.be/jsb7StyCKxk Other times, flirting is a more open approach bolder women will take. They might say something (usually mildly humoristic), meant to invite you to flirt and then you'll have to play by her rules: https://youtu.be/r-G2L… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:20 PM |
| 10 | I keep attracting what I don't want.Modern / Western society allows for premarital / entertainment sex: that's OK but, when it comes to reproduction, the two genders have different priorities. It's simple. The man's optimal strategy is to inseminate as many women as possible, with minimal or no investment in the aftermath (raising children, providing for a family, ...). This is because sperm is cheap and super-abundant, in each man's gonads and passing one's own genes is a simple numbers game. Women, on the other hand, want to att… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 09:04 AM |
| 29 | Cant get an erectionQuit porn, only have sex with girls and exercise regularly. No alcohol, no cigarettes. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do people do thisI would say I am average and I got approached. Not often, but it happened. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:20 PM |
| 7 | How the hell do people do thisAs simple as that. On the other hand, OLD is the terrain of the "above average" looking guys, due to the demand & supply imbalance. Unfortunately a lot of dudes are also socially inept, which makes approach in real life also difficult. Two ways of improving: 1) become as attractive as possible (gym, style, career), within the genetic cards in hand; 2) develop social skills (flirting, humor, empathy). | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 11:43 AM |
| 40 | How the hell do people do thisAttractive men get approached. Unattractive men have to do the work. Simples. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 07:04 AM |
| 8 | How do you meet women and where have you had the most success?Supermarket cashiers? | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 06:12 PM |
| 34 | the approach anxiety is way more complex than what u might thinkWeigh the fear of rejection against the fear of not having sex for another 27 years ... | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Help me curve the friend zone!Look in the eyes, smile, touch ... kiss | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Am I Undateable/Unf**kable?You know what the problem is ... | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there a middle ground between the Simp and the Recluse?Stop being an introvert | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | So there’s this cute girl at work…Leave coworkers alone. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | What do I talk about with girl I am seeingHers | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | What do I talk about with girl I am seeingGo for the lips | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Help/Tip please !I've seen scenario three happened to a colleague. Beware. Affairs in the workplace = trouble. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Help/Tip please !The first scenario is that you fail in your intent and/or she's not attracted, and then being in the same workplace will be awkward (beware: scenario one can also degenerate into scenario three). Scenario two: you succeed and you have an affair and it ends up, being in the same workplace will be awkward, again. Third and worst case scenario: you split up acrimoniously and she reports you for sexual harassment, you get fired and the incident stays in your records. Your call ... | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop living inside my own head when I'm in a social situation?It's fear. Of other people's judgement. One day you'll realise that, sadly, most people don't care about you (apart from your social / family circle). It makes sense to be concerned with the judgement of people who know you and deal with you but perfect strangers? ... nah. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Regret is so bad. What's wrong?There are no shortcuts. Trial and error. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | I miss her so much that I became depressedYou got rejected. It's a disappointment, there will be others in life. Accept it, stop whingeing and move on. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Is she playing hard to get or just not interested?Yep, she was interested there and then, that's it. Missed the opportunity... | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Getting mix signals from cold approachYou have to reply with some silly humour ... e.g. "Uuuh ... please let me know before the clock strikes twelve, otherwise the cab might turn into a pumpkin". You might think of better puns, but you get the idea. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Getting mix signals from cold approachWell, not really... they are famous for throwing sh*t tests and giving mixed signals. A man's challenge is to see through these smokescreens ... | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How to not let rejection bother you?Care about what a friend thinks of you, a relative, your line manager at work... a perfect stranger? Not much at all. Obviously, don't be a d*ck, but if you're in your right, go ahead. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Getting mix signals from cold approachStop being shy. You don't need to overdo or be some kind of James Bond, just be normal. People and girls, in particular, are not there to eat you. Learn to understand body language. She was waiting for you and smiling. It couldn't be clearer ... | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I am a 19 year old male struggling to date someoneGood | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I am a 19 year old male struggling to date someoneWith professional help. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | I am a 19 year old male struggling to date someoneFix your anxiety first. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Which statements can I make, early on, to put the woman in a reactive state?What, like a magic scroll? | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:23 AM |
| 5 | How do i get a girlfriend?Fix your depression first. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:22 AM |
| 11 | what can I do to develop an abundance mindset?Go out, in a busy place, e.g. a club, a mall, a concert, and count how many attractive girls there are. You have to increase the number of opportunities of interaction, plain and simple, and stop giving your attention away for free. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Is there any way to have a one night stand in Italy? as a non-ItalianMy experience is that most girls in Italy are quite traditional, e.g. looking for a relationship, rather than a ons. However ... go to a club, if you are very handsome, you might be lucky. Otherwise, you cold approach daytime, if the girl is eager to practice her English you might have a chance. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I work on being less dry in conversations with newly met people?Learn to read and understand other people's body language, micro expressions and, ultimately, emotions. Learn to listen to these people while they talk and don't be into yourself too much ... | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Asking for feedback from ex datesNo, this is very needy. A date is similar to a job interview but it's different ... you might have not done anything wrong and still get rejected, because there's no "chemistry" between you two or because she's close to "that week" or because you did not make the right moves at the right moment or so many other reasons. As If she's attracted to you she'll make the escalation easy and give you opportunities. If she's not attracted, she'll decline further dates. Best understand quickly if she's at… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Asking for feedback from ex datesThis | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls usually like starting an argument out of nothing ? So I’ve read girls want drama . What is drama exactly ? And how do we give them healthy drama ?Periods | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 0 | older coworkerLeave coworkers alone | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 14 | Have you noticed you’re assessing her when you’re talking to her? Stop. You’re just having a conversation.I agree with you. The big problem many are facing is the scarcity of interactions. If one has many opportunities to interact as a normal person (not as a thirsty creep), with different girls /women, should do the trick ... | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:59 PM |
| 19 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?That's the best, simplest answer so far. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Please help! I need advice.Make a choice | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Please help! I need advice.Rent a car | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Am I contacting too much or too little?Be understanding: " ... let ma know when you are free" | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:49 AM |
| 6 | Am I contacting too much or too little?She's probably a good person and, given her job, She's struggling to balance life with work. That said, a) you don't seem to be at the top of her priorities b) she enjoys your company but she doesn't particularly miss you when you're not there ... You do you but if I was in your situation, I would leave the ball in her park and move on. Her job is very demanding and would always be between you two . | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:58 AM |
| 2 | I need adviceLearn Spanish | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 18 | I'm a socially boring person...You sound depressed | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Matched with a girl Saturday would it be too much to ask her to lunch/ dinner then head back to my place?Maybe, or maybe not. Maybe it's what she wants and, after seeing you live, will go wild. Maybe she'll throw in an excuse and then ghost you... you can't know unless you try. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Got ghosted by someone I really like and I don't know why but I keep blaming myself for it. How do you deal with this?Happened to me with a girl I was in love with. I was lame, because I invested too much emotionally and didn't dare being sexual, so she lost interest. All too typical. We all made this mistake, next time flirt from the start. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I get laid on short noticeDo what you want ... | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | How can I get laid on short noticeSmoking weed does not help. It does not make you charismatic, funny or charming. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 4 | What makes girl want to sleep with a guy?Be attractive, don't be unattractive... | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | How can I get laid on short noticeNo | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Some lessons from my fuck upIn my experience, no. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on asking girls out you work with?Coworkers have friends and can enlarge the social circle, but flirting or having affairs, nono ... Not worth it. Too much risk. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 11:05 PM |
| -1 | When flirting, should I send a clear signal or subtle signal?It has to be just right, and timed to perfection. Like baking a cake ... | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:06 PM |
| 3 | What strategies/openers to use for women while working as a sales assistant at a fashion retail?Don't. You're risking your job. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How to know if a women wants to spend more time with me ?Looks at you in the eyes ... | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Come to final conclusion that I’m not good enough. I’m just going to accept itOk. What do you want to hear? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 18 | The JanitorThe one night stand opportunities could be there plenty, e.g. a Saturday night girl looking for a night of sex but, as far as relationships go, women date upwards (socially). | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Why is flirting with girls so hard?Women's investment in reproduction is much higher than men's, therefore they have to weed out those who in the medium / long term will be losers, unable to provide for them and the offspring. Their ways are somehow imperfect, atavic and easily tricked or bypassed by those who master the game. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:19 PM |
| 31 | Why is flirting with girls so hard?Women's investment in reproduction is much higher than men's, therefore they have to weed out those who in the medium / long term will be losers, unable to provide for them and the offspring. Their ways are somehow imperfect, atavic and easily tricked or bypassed by those who master the game. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:18 PM |
| 121 | Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?Yes. It's rare, but possible ... | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:04 PM |
| 25 | Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?Yes. It's rare, but possible... | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with extreme, almost overwhelming Approach Anxiety?Join a dancing class | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Why do I feel like I'm no longer able to make women laugh?Depression; beware, it's serious. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | No matter how many dates I go on I’m always nervous, is this normal?Similar reactions before job interviews, exams, medical examinations? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:02 AM |
| 23 | The natural cycle of dating in the beginningThey must perceive you as 'attractive'. You brought value and, in effect, you managed to seduce them successfully, they now want more of you. I think there is an important point | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 09:07 PM |
| 9 | Why do women with endless options tend to get hung up on certain guys who aren’t even “high value”?Attraction is not a rational process. If you could choose one among ten supermodels, all super attractive and willing to sleep with you, how would you choose the lucky one to spend the night with? Women have a holistic approach, looks is a component, income is a component but so are demeanour, intelligence, culture, style, etc. It all boils down to the primeval choosing of the best partner to mate and raise children with. It's mostly an instinctual balance of the above mix of characters, sprinkl… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:40 AM |
| 22 | Talk less have more successWell done. Women typically give men a short window of opportunity. Timing is crucial... | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:13 AM |
| 4 | This girl won’t talk to me, but would look down and smile when I talk to her, any ideas why?Leave coworkers alone | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How to ask someone out through IG?Why? | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Can't talk to Women for shitBe outcome independent. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How to ask someone out through IG?"Would you like to go out, some time?" | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing themNo | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Should I be concerned or does she just like meYou decide, or toss a coin ... | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.Try different strategies until you find the one that works. Maybe clubs are not your thing. With regards to your being or not attractive, I cannot tell a) because you haven't posted a picture and b) I am a straight man, therefore I would not know. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 09:45 AM |
| 3 | I love clubbing, but i really never get any IOIs even while interacting.If you keep doing the same things, don't expect different results | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:35 AM |
| 6 | Seducing girls in customers serviceStop it. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Girl I met suddenly went cold on meShe has too many options. You were interesting for a short while, now she's being entertained by some other dude. Move on. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I’m in love with my coworker who’s taken. Do you have any advice?Leave coworkers alone. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:11 AM |
| 2 | What do to when you miss your "escalation window"?Most likely not. Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 07:52 PM |
| 39 | Got attached then got refused.What have you learnt about confessing your feelings? | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Does it make sense to hold on or move on?I would erase her, but I am I and you is you | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | When can physical contact be performed?You don't do it because you don't want to stain your record in case you wanted to emigrate. How appropriate. How about women's right not to be touched, if they don't want to, e.g. harassed? | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | When can physical contact be performed?I hope so. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 06:17 AM |
| 4 | When can physical contact be performed?So, do you grope any woman that you approach? | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I seem to be attracted to girls who have a bad attitude or they act like they are above everyone else. Is there something wrong with me ?You're not doing yourself a favour. Expect to be rejected, abused, humiliated, ridiculed ... any kind of evil behaviour, as soon as they discover any of your weaknesses ... because they can. Read The Predatory Female: A Field Guide to Dating and the Marriage-Divorce Industry Lawrence Shannon Avoid such specimen. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | If a girl is always near a guy, could that mean anything in regards to attraction?It could | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:06 AM |
| 6 | Can someone volunteer to review my Tinder profile?From the horse's mouth ... | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Field report: This girl going to be married soon, but on "date" with me, help me understandShe comes to this country, where you are know and she knows you from a past friendship. It is normal that she wants to meet and have company. If she said that she's getting married = immediate showstopper. I would be friendly and meet again as a friend but no kino, no flirting. As you said, she's traditional and it's utterly unlikely that she'll risk her upcoming marriage. Forget any romantic ambition unless she was very, very explicit about wanting to sleep with you, before getting married and … | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps popping up periodically to me on IG and messaging me, then disappears, shall I just leave her on ‘seen’ ?Respond with normal (minimal) courtesy when she sends a message, without any flirting. Avoid spending more than a minute. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:45 AM |
| 2 | I need the help of the Vets in the game!! What's the best way to handle this situation? Do I close the doors completely or play it cool. How do I regain the spot as the prize regardless of the outcome?Handle it in a way that you would admire yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | There's a girl from my work I like..Coworkers? Nono ... | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 09:42 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Trial, error and learning | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | I need help on making my personality more attractive/seductiveExactly! | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Need help! What should I respond or Should I respond at all?Move on | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | How tf deal you deal with the flakiness and bailsWhat are you waiting for, to move on? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to flirt.Trial and error, as simple as that. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Low self esteem in dating, wanna disconect from dating workYes, do that. Easy. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Zodiac signIt's a typical non-serious topic of conversation with some girls, it's a conduit to talk about personality, character, etc. It's total bs but some people believe it's real. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Had a first date yesterday, how long should i wait to text, and should i text at all?Do what you want and own the outcome (success or the failure). | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Extremely confused, should I pursue or leave it?Correct, work is work, seduction is private life. Secondly, women validate themselves by teasing men (revealing clothes, makeup, ...): nothing gives them more satisfaction than seeing a man longing for them sexually and then walking away, leaving him humiliated. It happened to me and, I'm sure, to many others. Learn to discern the girls that are genuinely attracted from the teasers. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Are most girls looking for a relationship?I think that there is a trend in that direction but very fluid ... | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | People should revisit the old maxim to not date a coworkerLeave coworkers alone. You can be accused of sexual harassment, then good luck with finding another job. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | How much does looks matter really because I always kinda feel I have got no success because of my looks or either it is personality.If girls initiate a flirty conversation or give you signals (smile, look in the eyes ...), it means that you are attractive. The more often it happens, the more attractive you are. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?What's the point if there is no point? | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?Yes you're right. There's no point. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | any ideas on how to be fun/exciting without being a badboyIt's simple: what does excite / interest / entertain you? Pursue that, with intent. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | How to approach her?Try and learn from your success or failure ... | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 9 | White European man struggling getting White European womenAnything to do with the relative wealth? | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How to pull on a lads holiday?Drink, chat, escalate ... | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?Be more attractive | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 11:11 PM |
| 4 | How can I get a woman to want to have sex with meYou can't. If she wants it already, you'll have to understand her signals and identify her. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:02 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop outcasting myselfSeek professional advice / therapy, not reddit advice. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Quick smiles from womenIt means that they are willing to be perceived as friendly, maybe even attracted. You won't know until you initiate an approach... | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:45 PM |
| 5 | How to approach a girl in a bouldering /climbing gym?If they want to be approached they will smile, come close, even initiate a conversation. If they give no similar hints, you can still try but you have to own the consequences... | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Putting thoughts into actionBecause these techniques are not yours. It's like wearing somebody else's clothes and feeling uncomfortable at it (and looking weird, too). You have to develop your own style, by trial & error. After a success, or a rejection, you elaborate and adjust. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 05:41 AM |
| 2 | What is the best way to start meeting women?Overthinking and not acting | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Is she still interested?Rest assured that if she was interested, she would not have flaked or "forgot to inform you" the next morning. The outcome is only too clear. Move on. Don't act butthurt, be civil but replace her with other girls and ghost her for good. Even if she comes back ... | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Hidden motives of relationshipsWill to make sacrifices together and build a family. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | limiting belief of what to say to herYou know yourself what the problem is. If you want money, you'll have to work, if you want a degree, you have to study, if you want a body, you have to lift weights, if you want a girl, you have to risk rejection. There is no gain without pain (unless born millionaire , etc): accept it as a fact of life and learn to cope. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:29 AM |
| 0 | Girl gave me number and decided to meet in college next day. I texted her. She seenzoned. What's going on in her mind?The message is clear. She's not into you. Gave you number and agreed to meet just to make you leave her alone. Common outcome. Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | How forward/direct/sexual should you be?If a girl is attracted, she'll drop a subtle hint ... | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:12 AM |
| 2 | how to respond to online date rejectionThis. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Improvements and Techniques"No worries, have a nice day/evening/weekend" | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Improvements and TechniquesMy advice, for what it's worth , is that the only approach that builds expertise is trial and error. There are no magic scrolls nor shortcuts, other than: 1. Understand the woman you're interacting with and her emotions (as much as possible). Body language is as important as words, if not more; 2. Develop your own style (which is the good old "be yourself", with a twist): if you are a nerd, don't pretend to be some kind of "bad boy" ... girls discover fake personas in a split second (unless you'… | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Most common terrible dating advice: Just be yourselfAgree totally. I would add that putting up a fake persona (e.g. a dominant "bad boy", "succesful entrepreneur" ...) would be detected and readily unmasked by the girls' evolutionary radar for male insecurities. That said, a psychopath or a professional actor can create a successful profile and adapt to their seduction target but normal people would fail at it. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:08 AM |
| -1 | Messaged my crush and got a responseStop being anxious about rejection. It's all about your fragile little ego. There are much more serious sources of concern out there ... how about unemployment, cancer, war, polltion, global warming? In the grand scheme of things rejections are irrelevant. One, two hurt. Have many options instead of oneitis. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:58 PM |
| 3 | How to approach girls wearing earphones?No | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:50 PM |
| 0 | I CAN'T FIND WHAT'S THE PROBLEM TO WORK ONAgain, you know already. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:02 AM |
| 0 | I CAN'T FIND WHAT'S THE PROBLEM TO WORK ONYou know yourself where the problems are ... if you get no results it means the improvement is still insufficient | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | I am a very social person but I have a problem…By trial and error. There are no shortcuts. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:54 AM |
| -6 | Am I being paranoid about being labeled as a 'creep'?Cold approach never worked for me. You have to be very attractive and I am not | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:48 PM |
| 3 | I suck at meeting new peopleIntroduce yourself, then whatever ask her, you'll be rejected by some. Others will happily interact. It's part of the game, there are no magic spells of sorts. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Female co-workerBe professional, work is work | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | It’s kind of crazy how opportunities sneak up on you. Be constantly awareI never approach, unless I have something genuine to say. Recently I was in a hotel, I travel quite a lot for work and in the morning, at the buffet, I was looking for the cutlery and this young manager-like lady was looking for something herself. I said something like "I would like to understand the logic of putting the knives and forks in a tray on this table and the spoons on a table on the other side of the room ..." she smiled and said "I was wondering the same myself". We had breakfast tog… | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:09 PM |
| 4 | How do you have success with mental illness?Therapy, with a professional | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:27 PM |
| -1 | 13 Ways To Make Her Want YouExcellent advice, should go on the sidebar! | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:23 PM |
| 3 | How to handle this weird rejectionSaying that she wants to sleep with you costs nothing, doing it for real might have consequences. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:16 PM |
| 8 | How to handle this weird rejectionYoung girls' words and deeds are incoherent? What a surprise. In reality this applies to people in general: deeds are 10x more relevant than the words, always watch what people do, not so much what they say | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 4 | What “common phrases” should i learn in local language when travelling abroad to help me pull girlsMost young people in Europe speak English anyway ... | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:08 PM |
| 3 | I need dating advice!! help :)How many times have you said "I"? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Those of you who have had success with the woman you’re on a date with inviting you back to her placeQuite the contrary. Women, as any person, deserve to be treated with respect and a normal, civilised attitude. Treating them as goddesses is cringe, plus it almost never achieve the objective of intimacy ... because women are suspicious of this 'doormat' attitude. Maybe I wasn't clear, English is not my first language... | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Work colleague questionFirst: leave coworkers alone. Second she doesn't seem keen at all and third, there is potential risk that, if you were too insistent, she might report harassment to HR. Finally, there is gossip, which is bad anyway, because you'll be seen as a flirt, rather than a committed member of staff and this will damage your career. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | What are some fun things to do besides sex, that are still sexual?Body painting | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | What are the benefits of a meaningful long-term relationship?Family | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Those of you who have had success with the woman you’re on a date with inviting you back to her placeTreating a woman like a person is different from treating her like a goddess. Some girls fall for the latter, I suppose (I'm a man), but I believe that too much flattery feels cheesy and fake. If I was a woman, I'd be very suspicious of the doormat man; if he has no respect for himself, will he disrespect me, as soon as I became for any reason vulnerable? The attractive ones, especially, want to be treated like human beings, by normal human beings. It is that simple. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Is she playing with me? Please I need your helpI can only see trouble and drama with this one (with or without the advisory sister behind the scenes). Move on. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Where can I learn the social skills to be an attractive manAccept that without some pain there is no gain. Make your moves, learn from your mistakes and improve... | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 10:11 PM |
| 10 | How to be less boring of a person?Develop interests FOR YOU, not the others. What are YOU interested in? | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Girl ignored me on our date.Chances are she won't... never mind. She was quite rude, while you were quite gentlemanly, which is good. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Girl ignored me on our date.You need to decode the person underneath a beautiful body and face. She wasn't subtle at all ... has she tried to re-contact at all? | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 06:57 AM |
| 30 | How to act after a rejection?Imagine being a girl, approached by somebody who she's not attracted to (happens often) ... she manages to make it clear that it's a no; what would be a civilised vs. an awkward reaction? Be civilised: smile, shrug and say something like "OK, no worries, have a nice rest of the evening" and walk away. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:44 PM |
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