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| 4 | Should I (29M) end things with my girlfriend (24F) after she told me to be more dominantI know she won't cheat but I picture her one day masturbating to her past experiences as crazy as I sound (she has a very high sex drive) or that she is picturing some alpha guy doing those things to her in her thoughts You don't know that. And stop playing these fabricated scenarios in your mind. I saw your comment below about not being emotionally invested. You are extremely emotionally invested. It's written all over your post. If she doesn't want it all the time doesn't that mean at some tim… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Redpillers who conceal carry, what gun do you recommend?What ever fits your hand best. Personally, I prefer glocks. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Can you trust a girl with a male roommateWould you trust any girl so soon? If this is new, and I’m assuming it is, then it shouldn’t be an issue. You’re not thinking about a LTR already, right? Then I see no reason why it should matter. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How to Deal with Loser RoommateI let a friend rent a room out of my house who consistently exhibits low value behaviors. I.e. - He sat down and watched 47 movies, not including the shows he watched and did next to nothing last year during the initial part of shutdown in march thru the end of April. That's just one example. His track record with women and goals in life are another story entirely. Point is, I found myself visibly irritated by his presence and disgusted with his behavior, uncleanliness, etc. So I sympathize. At … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | lost interest or?Sounds like you're overthinking. What's to plan? Just set the date/time/place and go. All this "am I doing the right thing?" is going to show through in your actions. Are you a cool, confident guy? She would be lucky to go out with you, right? You only put out the idea of a date. Just set it. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be a high value male if you're bald? I'm doubtful.Not even remotely a reason to feel inferior or at a disadvantage. Look at all the dudes that have hair and and choose to go bald or with a buzzcut. Change your mindset. You'll be at an advantage when you are confident in what you bring to the table. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Differentiating Gratitude and HungerThe two are mutually exclusive as both can exist at the same time. You can be grateful for the opportunities you've had, will have, and everything good and bad that has happened in your life because it shaped you. Being hungry is the desire for more and taking consistent, aggressive action towards that end. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Asked tinder slut for threesome what's nextNot all heroes wear capes. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Asked tinder slut for threesome what's nextFuck her friend. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR gets mad when I’m quietJust look at her with visible concern on your face and say this. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you react when a girl your talking to is grinding on another guy?What would you tell your buddy if he came to you with this question? Hopefully, its along the lines of "Have some self-respect. Hit up other women." | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How to integrate into friend groupsGo where people with high SMV would be, develop a relationship. Learn from them. Lessen your time spent with those who aren't going where you are. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 02:49 AM |
| 9 | Meaning behind "you two are a cute couple"?Mind = Blown. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 02:33 AM |
| 4 | So i told the girl im talking to that i started talking to my ex plz readAbundance is implied. Not thrown in their face. And I know your SMV isn't high enough to get away with that. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 11:29 PM |
| 13 | the bf of a female friend who I talk on IG sends friend request why ?He wants to slide in your DMs | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Best way to instill alpha mindset? I've lost it as I got olderIt isn't in the reading, it's in the doing. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Always Prepping...Words of wisdom | /r/askMRP | 15/03/20 10:19 PM |
| 20 | Always Prepping...Before coronavirus I used to cough to cover a fart. Now I fart to cover a cough.. | /r/askMRP | 13/03/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Fear the Reaper | Kill to PartyDoesn't have to be. It's reality. Now we can use it to our advantage. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Jealous of other people lives, what to do?Kid, that's the point. You're wasting energy being depressed and watching everyone else live their lives. You just told everyone here you're too much of a pussy to go do the basics. Those are your words. Giving the benefit of the doubt that this isn't a troll post, which I probably fucking shouldn't, you either do the work or you don't. How long do want to continue to be the self-described below average, anti-social loser? If it was me, I'd say not for another fucking second. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | How to step things up when she visits your room?Get out of your head. Get her in your room. Last girl I had over was already waiting for me on my bed when I walked back into the room. Threw on a show, laid next to her, kino escalated and the hook was set. Fucked 3 times in 2 hours. The difference between her and the women I didn't fuck was that this time I didn't worry about following some formula it'd go down. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Jealous of other people lives, what to do?Didn't read. Focus on your own. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Once you're an orbiter (LJBF/Friendzone), is there a way out?Yes, but she damn sure better not be the reason you put in the work to get there. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | TRP made me manipulativeThat is like hating money just because you have to actively learn about finance to be better at accumulating it. In other words, pointless. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 07:36 PM |
| 23 | Gf of 6 months says “I make her feel like she’s not good enough” cancels Valentine’s Day plans"No need. This isn't working for me. Best of luck" | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 0 | Hook up ghosted me?You talked. You're now her girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Do you entertain people or challenge them on their delusions about themselves?Don't engage with losers. Agreeing, disagreeing, challenging... it's all attention. They win no matter how you respond. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Should I just go ahead and live a double life?Do what you want to do. TRP takes an amoral stance. No one here worth taking advice from is going to be your moral compass. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with these mind games..."I think I need to return some video tapes" and leave. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Deployed to Middle East, fiancee cheated on meEnjoy your new found freedom. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Gym or soccerThen you need to manage your time better. We all have the same 168 hours in a week. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | What should I do if I get into a street fight?If you have absolutely no way to avoid it, then you finish it. The only unfair fight is the one you lose. That said, the man who is skilled in violence but only does it when appropriate is the kind of man you don't want to fuck with. Walk away at any opportunity. Act in your own best interest. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Gym or soccerGym over soccer, but that's only because the gym translates into so many other aspects of your life. Soccer included. You can, and should, do both if YOU want to. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Lifting and diet questionMaster the basics before you start going down to far down this rabbit hole. Your focus right now should be lifting, sleeping, and eating. That's it. Anything else for you right now is focusing on the wrong things. Your body doesn't grow in the gym. It's grows by what you feed it and how well you sleep at night. I've read that insulin sensitivity is much better when lean which will help partition calories better You're already smaller than you want to be. A starved body is going to crave food reg… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How long till I notice results from lifting?This screams of needy, attention-seeking behavior. Lifting is a life long process. They aren't noticing you because you're obviously giving too many fucks about it. There is an abundance of guys in your gym not giving a shit about whether or not women are creating slip hazards where they stand when they look they look at them. They're just in the gym doing their thing, not giving a fuck and displaying abundance. Go friend one of those guys. Learn. Stop ego-lifting. You're nowhere close to where … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How can i stop my son (14) from being a beta?Be the example. Make sure you're good to go and he'll emulate. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Lifting and diet questionWhen do I start to bulk? Once I'm happy with my body fat %? I'll be skinny as fuck at 10-12%. I'd like to see my abs again though. If your goal is to get big, then you need to forget about having any abdominal definition. That's an ego problem and it is going to get you nowhere. Take it in increments. Bulk your way up to 170-175lbs and get your body used to being at that weight. Your body will adapt. Then bulk up to 185-190lbs. Rinse and repeat. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | [Wake me up] Ghosted by a 8 and feeling miserableShe is just a girl, regardless of the HB rating you gave her. Internalize that. You put her on a pedestal and view yourself beneath her. Get over that thinking. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How much lifting progress can I make between now and the end of August 2020?Should be easy to eat fairly clean then. Hard part will be when you come home and youre used to all your food being prepped for you | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How much lifting progress can I make between now and the end of August 2020?Spend a solid chunk of that deployment building muscle. If you're eating MREs and T Rats, it's going to suck. If you're eating at a DFAC, you'll have more options. Spend the last 3 months or so cutting down. Short answer is, you CAN make a lot of progress. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Does she see me as a friend or a guy she wants to fuck?You set up a meet. The time you "waste" will be the time it takes between texts. Then you will have your answer. And make it one on one. Come on.. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 03:12 AM |
| 4 | How do you reply to girls sending you selfies and pictures of themselves?I had a girl send me photos I didn't ask for. In one she covered herself with her arm. I simply said "Your arm is in the way." She replied that it was meant to be seen in person (can't argue with that) and I didn't reply. A few minutes later she sent more pics, hiding nothing. I told her "Thanks for the early Christmas present." And to the point of some of the other posts, she wasn't sending them only to me. Not unless she can teleport to her bed after I just saw her in public 2 minutes before. … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Attraction - Body languageFinding an excuse to be near you, touching you, biting her lip, always looking at you in a way that is obviously different from how often normal people look at you. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 12:41 AM |
| 12 | How do I act like I have abundance when I don't?Relax and stop overthinking. They're just women. Engage her like you would anyone else. You're looking at her like her value is higher than yours, and perception is reality. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 12:37 AM |
| 3 | A Worthy Goal To Work TowardsIt does get diluted the bigger the audience gets but the fundamentals will always be there to fall back on. Real or not, whatever. The message was solid. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/19 11:59 PM |
| 3 | anyone else feel like tinder is where the losers who are afraid to cold approach go?Maximize all your options. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | My anxiety takes control of me in social situations and I mess up completely.I am a people pleaser in the sense that when people say shit to me I dont react but I dont give them shit back either- most definitely because i want to be a part of their group and I feel like arguing with them will just make things worse. And they know this. If they are doing nothing to add value to your life, then why would you want to be a part of their group? You teach people how to treat you, and you're showing them you'll accept being the lowest status person in the group. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Is it a lost cause?Read the sidebar. You're problem sucks, but it isn't unique. Do the work, for you. Not for her. The answers are there, so start studying and then apply. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How badly did I fuck up?I mean, I'd hope not. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How badly did I fuck up?Dont apologize. Show her. Take her out. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Feel stagnantI have no purpose or mission. I have goals (save 10k and get to 200lbs) but nothing that I can really throw myself into. There's your answer. Your goals are aimless. Think about a hobby or skill you have and want to develop, then find a way to monetize it. You're in prime spot to improve your social skills, game women, and figure out the next direction. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 12:08 AM |
| 44 | Ever since breaking up with my ex for treating me poorly, I get a sense of impending doom when I wake up. What gives?Withdrawal. It's going to take time for you to get past your present conditioning and reframe your perspective. When you make someone a priority and they treat you like shit, it fucks with your head. Remind yourself of the shit you went through, own the shit you let yourself tolerate. You cut out that cancer for a reason. Study the sidebar/read. Work on yourself. Apply the principles, meet other women. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when your relationship with a person doesn’t seem to build up or it builds up slow?There isn't a formula on your Excel spreadsheet that is going to fix this for you. You're overthinking. Enjoy being with her and stop giving a fuck about this nonsense your vomiting | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 11:44 PM |
| 11 | Girlfriend is sweet but doesn't have a lot of ambition or passionsFocus on your own interests. You're inviting her into your life, remember? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 11:40 PM |
| 10 | LTR 6 months "Doesn't want to overdo something she's not ready for and get lost in it"You're rationalizing to protect your ego. Be indifferent to what she does. She is looking for the door. She's 19. Hasn't even hit her peak yet. Neither have you for that matter. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Alpha guys and teachersAgreed. A frequent saying in the military is "You can't lead if you don't know how to follow." | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you do on your birthday?Whatever I want. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Debating/arguing on the first date?No. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan. - My issues here and am I messing this up with my LTRYou're making videos for your portfolio and to further your career. That's your frame of mind for these videos. She's just along for the ride. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Is main lifts really necessary for muscle gain?Squat, Deadlift, OHP activate the most muscle fibers. They also help release the most GH, especially squatting. This is maximizing your training to make you stronger and promote hypertrophy in the most efficient way. It is what it is. Focus on your rehabilitation and add them in slowly. It can be done. Matt Wenning, powerlifter/strength coach, was chewed up and spit out by a car when it ran him over. Look him up. It can be done. Hire a trainer if you need guidance. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:40 AM |
| 6 | What to do about this situation with this chick?Unmatching was a pointless move. If you were planning to soft next, she has no way of reaching you now. It's over. Next. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:32 AM |
| 7 | My ego is destroyedShe's your ex. Who cares if she's with someone else. Enjoy the girl you're with and others. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | You're Not Hers; it's Just Her TurnI've applied this exact same thought. Simple and effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Situation I had with a girl. Concise post, need quick advice.If you escalated, her behavior would flip. You aren't, so you're confused...why? | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have tips for cutting?Adjust your nutrition incrementally. Your body will adapt. Don't starve yourself. I'm a fan of Stan Efferding's Vertical Diet. Drink enough water. Apply the basic fundamentals: Eat, Sleep, Train. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Would you even go to a spot without a confirmation reply?This. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Best friend ghosting meGood choice. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Obvious IOIs - Not sure what I should have doneBut, it is clear that formal "dates" and asking someone on a date is pretty much dead for current college students. Wrong assumption. If she's interested, she'll find a way to see you. I don't know how to make that happen while I don't have my own place If you have you're own room, you have the logistics to bring a girl over and fuck her. Basically I'm just unsure of how to go from seeing a girl in class occasionally to being in a position where sex is remotely possible Ask her out. Invite h… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Best friend ghosting meYou don't "do" anything with this except walk your path. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I seem to be caught in this oneitis/orbit, best ways to escape here?What do you mean by the weird, co-dependent dynamic? I have a fair idea of what you're talking about. You didn't move on it and denied her. Now you're bothered that she may be losing interest. She likes the attention you're obviously giving her and vice versa. Read your post back to yourself. What would you tell someone that came to you with this? | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Returning to college at an older age, and staying focused/driven?Discipline. Set your priorities. It allows you to still enjoy one without sacrificing the other. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | I seem to be caught in this oneitis/orbit, best ways to escape here?Don't shit where you eat. Sounds like you're using this weird, co-dependent dynamic for validation. It's as easy as deciding she isn't an option and treating her like every other human being you interact with. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Best friend ghosting mePeople take different paths. My closest friends now aren't the same friends I had 13 years ago. Accept it as a part of life. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Im not the prize. In fact im a piece of shit. Just tell me where I did wrong.Own it. Rome wasn't built in a day. Keep working on yourself. When I was married, my then-wife was constantly diagnosing with "personality disorders." Shit Tests. Two days ago, a female co-worker told me one of her employees spotted me and inquired who I was and said that she could smell the narcissism on me from where she was standing. She laughed and told her she nailed it. Later, she felt the need to tell me about it, and I could see the search for a reaction in her eyes. More shit tests. Don… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of Watsonfit on Instagram? He’s a hard bad ass mfer who seems very red pulled but at the same time he seems to treat his girlfriend in ways TRP says won’t let it last but it looks like a very strong relationship in my eyes.He does what he wants. TRP is theoretical sexual strategy, where it also emphasizes doing what YOU want to do which is where you see the connection. Watson is building his brand based on his philosophy for anyone to take or leave. I wouldn't get wrapped around comparing the two. I don't consider him a "beta" but I also don't think he gives a fuck about making sure his content aligns with TRP. If you're wondering if he's worth listening to... It's your journey. Your time is better spent developin… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Bulk or cut?You're 16. Master the basics. Eat - Sleep - Train. That's your focus. Set a goal. Adopt a plan to start with. Stronglifts 5x5 or 5/3/1 are solid go-tos. Personally, I perform compound movements first. Depending on how I set myself up for the day, I'll add volume in to whatever body part I decide to do using free weights primarily and machines secondary. For example, Deadlift 5x5 Barbell Rows 4x10 DB Rows 4x10 Pull Ups 4xMax Starting off, you won't need much more than that. Graduate to more as yo… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Sadness phase, end good ltr, what is love, .. Makes me fucking depressedHe is putting her on a pedestal in the form of considering staying with her to spare her feelings which is putting her above himself. On a pedestal. OP, you know what you want to do. You're looking for validation to do it. You're drinking too much of your own fucking kool-aid if you think you're going to ruin her love life forever. Who's feelings are you trying to spare? Hers or your own? It fucking sucks. Based off your post.. Gotta rip that band-aid off now. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 03:52 AM |
| 17 | More to Life than Banging out Chicks?It's having freedom and living your best life. On your terms. TRP is the tool. Like all tools, you have to learn how to use it. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Girl telling me she thinks a guy near us is cuteSo this co-worker I’ve been hitting on(don’t give me the don’t shit where you eat bit I’ve thought this out) Oh, you've thought this out. If only anyone who considers making a move on a coworker had done this. Let's add this to the top of the sidebar. ‘Oh yeah? You gonna raise his kid too?’ ‘Oh ok, didnt know you were into the homewrecking scene’ Super butthurt. Intended or not. Find a girl that doesn't come with a potential sexual harassment charge. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 12:05 AM |
| 4 | 18, never kissed, missed opportunities. Escalation is my Achille's heel, I have a few questions to help change that.Relax and practice. Relax and practice. Go for it. Have fun, don't over think it. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Girl wants me to be designated driver for a party?tell her straight out that you'll be the designated driver if you can sleep with her that night Negotiating for sex. No. She can Uber | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:15 PM |
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