InkedGirl_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Disgusting bio on a dating site:	MALE DEPRAVITY	InkedGirl_	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 05:22 AM

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129	All the men in the replies saying that it's unfair, getting immediately shut down 💅 In the era of covid, calling in sick to work has become tricky. While my (and I think all) employers are not entitled to details of why, they do insist on getting a Covid test if any symptoms are present as I work in healthcare. After calling in sick and being questioned about a need for a Covid test, I explained that it was related to cramps keeping me up most of the night and impacting my ability to concentrate enough on my job, despite working from home. I was met with judgement and resistanc…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/21 06:04 AM
86	Cries in spinster. Why is it that women become 'spinsters' with a negative connotation while men remain 'eligible bachelors'? I am fully on board with reclaiming the term 'spinster' as positive rather than negative term.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 11:15 PM
37	The only D you need is Dignity (and sometimes Divorce) This is a fantastic perspective. Thank you for sharing! Junk food has been my downfall lately and my justifications (read: excuses) have been plenty, such as not having enough time to prep healthy food between full time work and grad school. Another thinking trap that I have fallen into: thinking that it does not matter if I am not in great shape because I am not going to be dating any time soon, nor will any man see my naked body for quite some time if/when I do. This is STILL putting my worth …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 05:30 PM
12	I see a lot of ladies here feel shame about the way they used to be. But please understand that most of us have been some level of pick me in the past. Some still have remnants of pick me mentality yet to overcome. Please forgive yourself. Keep growing and becoming. This is profound. Thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 04:50 PM
42	Is not asking for a ‘got home safe’ text a bad sign? These are all excellent points! I was coming here to say something similar to point 4, but your response is so eloquently stated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 02:35 AM
5	Thank you, Queens Happy Birthday and thank you for sharing!! It’s inspiring to read about your success!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 01:42 AM
39	Effects of Porn From "Why Does He Do That" Pornography is warping the minds of men, and so-called sex-positive pushers are only amplifying this message to vulnerable women who are already dealing with histories of sexual trauma (97% of all women!) and it makes me sick! I am so grateful for FDS to be a safe place to discuss this and support healthy growth among women while setting solid boundaries against continued misogyny.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 11:37 PM
50	You don’t know him yet! Why it’s important to emotionally detach yourself from him during the early stages of courting him Thank you for such helpful guidance. These are all situations that I have previously found myself in - hence being single again at 40. While I am not intending to dive back into the dating pool any time soon, I will certainly be storing this information away to help guide me in the future.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 10:24 PM
4	We all know it. If he wanted to, he WOULD. This is a wonderful example and excellent reminder. Each time I find myself questioning a recent break up, I remind myself if this fact: if he wanted to, he would have. Hope you have a wonderful birthday!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 04:30 PM
2	They Tried it, We Denied it As a substance use disorder/addiction counsellor, I often work with men who have been “diagnosed” (by external sources) with porn addiction in addition to substance use disorders. However, we use the DSM-5 which does not include porn or even sex as addictions. It would seem that calling their use of porn (or engaging in sexual infidelity, etc) an addiction allows men to have an excuse for their behaviour. To be fair, there are certainly people I work with who have multiple maladaptive coping str…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 04:45 AM