InksPenandPaper Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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14	Weight loss fixed my marriage… don’t know how to feel? Do you not take any accountability here though? Even if he did bring up the "D" word, why did he bring it up? It sounds like the man was trying despite dealing with E.D. and you question his motive even now. The man is trying to love you and you keep looking for things wrong with him. You keep looking for things that you believe he finds wrong with you. This projection has got to stop. Let's say half of this is all his fault and I'm sure you have running list in your mind of it, but be fair: Wha…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/25 05:08 AM
56	Weight loss fixed my marriage… don’t know how to feel? I lacked confidence and was lashing out/certainly not “love and light”, he was not attracted to me but assured me that he was (and I knew he was lying/having “duty sex” which was so uncomfortable), and overall it seemed like things were slowly sliding toward either separation or divorce. Sometimes, being overweight can turn us into jerks, lashing out at people we love, as you did. In that state, due to lack of confidence, you assumed he was not attracted to you though he said otherwise and you p…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/25 03:48 AM
3	I feel rejected, my bf told me "I don't think I can just keep paying for everything", how do I deal with this situation? Owning a business and being older doesn't mean one has a lot of money. I dated a man that was both. And while his business brought in a good amount in gross, his take-home net wasn't impressive at all. Often time, business owners prize working for themselves, providing jobs for others and work-life flexibility more than making a lot of money. They may have employees, but it comes at the cost of giving themselves raises many times. At any rate, you could talk to him about what his expectations ar…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/25 02:40 AM
5	"men prefer younger women" Men generally do, but women generally also prefer older men on the whole. My partner is 10 years older than me and it's perfect. Instead of worrying about a man leaving you for a younger woman, shoot for a man 5 to 20 years older. If that age gap comes with mutual respect, open communication, a willingness to satisfy each other in the bedroom when each of you want it at different times, he supports the household whole you manage it, both make the effort to maintain the relationship (keep dating …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/25 10:32 PM
2	Sometimes guys post their financials, red flag or? Men with assets never advertise it. Why attract the immediate, unwanted attention from ne'er-do-well women they don't want, as well as make them selves targets of crime? Men who post that info often do not have the assets they claim, but what do they care of it gets them and easy lay (maintain your self-worth and do not be "easy" with any suitor)? Good mean, both hard working to weathly, will seek a good woman out, not often the other way around and their gentlemenly nature (whether blue collar …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/25 06:44 PM
0	Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch? End it.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/24 08:04 PM
9	Reluctant about monogamy If he asked his previous wife for a one-sided open marriagesl and gave her no kids, you can expect a repeat and a waste of your time. He's not a good fit for you.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/24 12:00 AM
4	I’m considering leaving my fiance, I need to get this off my chest You're not happy with the choices he's made for you, how he belittls people, the unsafe area you live in and he doesn't make you feel safe. You wrote several paragraphs on what makes you want to leave him and one small paragraph regarding his positive traits. He's not the man for you, but you already know that.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/24 04:49 AM
77	AITA for not voluntarily closing my side of the marriage until my husband has had an equal amount of encounters? This may seem like a fun way to ruin a marriage but it's actually quite painful and damaging. Open marriages are such a bad idea for all the reasons you listed and reasons not listed. I've never known a married couple to survive it.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/10/24 04:58 AM
12	15 years difference of age I think a lot of women misconstrued being well educated or having work experience as being unnecessary, if, in the end they intend to be stay at home wives and or stay at home mothers. Simply being a woman does not make one a good wife or a good mother. Simply being born into this gender doesn't mean you automatically know how to balance the checking accounts and savings or make and set a budget. Being a woman doesn't mean you automatically know how to take initiative or learn how to de-escalate…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/10/24 04:27 PM
11	15 years difference of age You have self-control, right? You have a sense of morality and dignity, correct? If so, you can focus on your career in the modern world without sleeping around. You can focus on your career, college, focus on building who you are without becoming bossy. You can do all these things and be a happily married mother who runs their own business at the end of it. You can do all these things and be a stay-at-home mother of three and live a happy life with your spouse. It just depends on what you want,…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/10/24 04:02 PM
4	15 years difference of age Date this gentleman for more than 4 months. Give it at least a year before you confidently say he's everything you've ever wanted in a man. I've been in a relationship with a similar age gap, and while it was absolutely not the reason the relationship eventually ended 17 years later, I would urge you to give it a little more time before you commit yourself to this man. You do not have to go out at this age and date tons of men and sleep around to know or develop what you want in a man and relati…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/10/24 03:45 PM
50	Countries where men have housewives This has more to do with the man you pick and if you are housewife material. I know some women that want to be a housewife so bad, but they do not know how to cook or clean. They don't know how to budget and are always overdrawn in the accounts. They overspend on useless items and complain about having to work. They mouth off to men and women alike and want no children. One or two of those things alone is enough to put off a man that wants to be a loving husband to a good woman that will contrib…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/10/24 06:05 PM