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Inlo94/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:26 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:43 PM
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It's not control for age from what I've seen but women are less likely to seek another relationship after divorce. I think it's because they are more rooted in a community
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:56 AM
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The stats say that's unlikely to happen tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:53 AM
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You chose to hold to your beliefs instead of looking at facts. That's your choice, but don't you dare calling yourself rational after this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:42 AM
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Sex sucks for many women and we were taught it was degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 09:32 PM
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That's not what the stats say. People marry in the same tax brackets.Single women are the happiest demographic according to study from LSE university. Men are much more likely to seek a 'ew partner after a divorce.Women are more likely to ask for divorce. Also, see number incels compared to femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:55 PM
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You said yourself men kill themselves to get power to have access to power because women like power then ask a woman why she is seeking power ? Because she likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:44 PM
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Preferences are not reality. The reality is that men are not the workhorses. Most couples share costs and when they have kids women take care of all the the house and child rearing. Which is why married men are the happiest and single women are the happiest according to data
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:39 PM
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If men want youth and beauty and they offer that in great abundance, how are they shooting out of their league ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:22 PM
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Workhorse do not exist for this generation anymore. We all have to work now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:21 PM
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1) Just because a word is misused by some people on twitter does nit change its meaning. 2) Mansplaining isn't labeled as toxic masculinity but as straight up misogyny. 3) It actually is and it actually used as an argument for women to have their own money. Heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:45 AM
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Rightfully so, unforrunatly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:36 AM
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It's been explained multiple times that toxic masxulinity are the behaviors which deserve men but encouraged because seen as toxic ie : not processing emotions corrextly, self medicating instead of seekint help etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:35 AM
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Yes he did and it was good but he didn't care about that anymore he was looking for a relationship and he regretted having "smashed" so many women cause it made him suck at relationships. See outside of reddit, men care about connecting outside of sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 11:10 AM
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They defend her because they agreed to be in an open relationship. He fucked other women too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:42 PM
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I agree. And they'd agree too. It's more that they want smart/educated partners and diplomas are a good (though not fully effective way) to weed the under average now. But they'd be fine with a self taught woman with a good career. Basically, they want someone who'd be able to help their kids to overachieve in everyway and continue the legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:37 PM
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Hum now That I think of it, is true that I live in bubble (surrounded by tech people). But those men are fit and wealthy they get to pick. Also, in weathy areas everybody te'ds to look good (money for the gym, treatments, healthy food etc)... So being attractive is a given and you need to differentiate somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:33 PM
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I agree but unfortunatly it wasn't his case. He was great at sex though so that was a positive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:27 PM
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I've ended a relationship because of this. He was cynical about women and relationships while I was so optmistic and innocent. It ruined my mood to be with someone whose mindset was constantly "been there, done that"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:32 PM
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Well, the op said "based on your observations" And based on my observations that's not what's happening. The women I know found better mates in their 30's once everyone became more stable finacianlly and mentally. It's not a bonus. Looks are the door entry. Afterwards it's all about personality and accomplishments. Especially in highly educated circles. All of my male friends said they did not want someone with less than a master's and all their gilrfriends except one actually a master's or a ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:29 PM
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The stuff described here (AFBB, Chad, being passed ovet for Stacy) happen at a much smaller frequency and smaller intensity. The wall isn't a thing unless you get fat. Older men who attract young women (without help of money) attracted women in their youth. Except some exceptions the men who did terrible with women in their youth are doing even worse in their 30's. Men actually care about women's accomplishments and degrees, especially when they are accomplished themselves. Men actually take car…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 07:52 AM
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What's most likely to happen is you will approached by 95% who aren't your top, 3% will send clear signals and the 2% remaining will be the ones to be your type and actually approach
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:01 PM
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Personally I'm fine with the stares (even from ugly len) and I'm also fine with being appraoched. However, the second I say "I'm not interested" please leave and oggle from a distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:56 PM
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Again, I've seen it play first hand, men hit on slightly less hot women than Stacy and then say Becky doesn't want them. They don't notice Becky. And, if Becky asked them out they m'd accept but will make low effort. That's not what Becky wants so she just gives up and lives her life quietly and occasionaly complains on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:01 PM
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Society has not taught us that. When I see an older man I see my dad and I'm confused as to how he does not see his daughter when he sees me. Also they don't get as hard as younger man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:48 PM
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It just train you on how to be a pickme. While TRP is a tool box with advice on casual sex znd relationships, RPW just teaches you how to be a submissive partner. Nothing about how to satisfy the female imperative in all types of ways
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:35 PM
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I'm gonna go against the grain and say no. Because male value does npt rely as much on attractiveness. You need to be handsome and competent at something whereas as a woman, you just need to be beautiful and anything else is seen as a nice bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:31 PM
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It's usually guys who ask women to date. If average joe does not ask Becky to go out, it's fair to assume he is not interested. You also over estimate the amount of attention Chad gives to Becky. Chad is Chad and therefore can bang Stacy, Ming Lee, Tanisha and Camila (stacies from different ethniticies) without commitment. He doesn't need Becky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:23 PM
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I come from an ethnic group wherebit was common practice. My grandfather had 4 wives. Men ended it, not the women who'd rather be wife number 4 to a rich man, than wife number 1 to a peasant. So what happened was that they kicked out the weak men because they were useless. So when christianity and monogamy came about all those single men ran with it. Also having to feed so many kids mkes it so you barely have time for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:38 PM
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Don't get me wrong : I do know you can still escalate and be feminine. Many women do know. However, the consensus among my friends' circle is that they are then seen as slutty because the man thinks "if she does it with me, she's done it with mant other men probably" I don't care and escalate regarldess. I've never had that issue. But it seems like maybe those of you who like that should make it known to the woman that you love it so they can shrug it off that one time some dude doesn't like it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:32 PM
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No you guys have a skewed view of what Becky looks like. Becky does not even register in men's radar most of the time. Becky is not Stacy's slightly less hot friend. Becky is slightly overweight with average style (t shirt, jeans). Men do not pay much attention to her in day to day life. She needs to dress up and go clubbing to get attention. Chad won't put up with that shit and average joe will pretend to tolerate it and want comittment until he can fuck her and ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:22 PM
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Yes, we people are shallow. DumbStacy is endearing, Stacy with anger issues is spicy, Smart Stacy is the whole package, neurodivergent Stacy is quirky and cute... But Dumb Becky is insufferable, angry Becky has hysteria and Smart Becky is pretentious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:28 PM
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Would you be okay if the woman escalated ? Because I know many women who'd be fine being the one escalating but they are scared of it ruining theor chances/being emasculating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:21 PM
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My experience in cultures where those things are constrained is that girls are even more sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:56 AM
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Same with "all women are fake and hate eachother". No. When I politely shade that bitch Tiffany from accounting both her and I perfectly knows what's going on : we hate eachother's gutt and neither would ever think of calling the other in case of need.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:47 AM
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No it's not unless your husband is rich and your maid raises your kid while you go drink mimosas with your friend after pilate class
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:44 AM
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How do they even measure "happiness". My family is from thirrd world country. People are not " Happy".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:42 AM
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Mosr abusers are very good at showing comforting behaviors. That'show the cycle of abuse is created. Ifhe was terrible 100% of the timz you would leave. But if he alternates both it keeps you hooked. It'scommon psychology and men are not immune to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:23 AM
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I don't dislike men though. AndI don't think most women dislike men. I think women expect some interpersonal skills which men did not learn to developp and now that they don't need to tolerate it, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:12 AM
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What if she actually didn't like anal but did it out of agreaableness ? Women are more comfortable setting boundaries as rhey age. And for sex life, the husband dind't even bother trying to have sex with his wife which is why she started fantasizing about her ex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:06 AM
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Femininty is like ballet, when done well it needs to look easy, nobody wants to see the dancer's ugly feet or see her painting in the backstage or sweat profusely. It kills the magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:49 AM
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It seems evzn those type of women tolerate it up until a certain point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:41 PM
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I got your point. I just don't believe in "alpha behavior". People just don't like to be cheated on. Even by " Alphas". And she knex she'd be entitled to a lot of money by leaving. So even if he was "alpha".I think she would have left
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:38 PM
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I see what you mean. That's like people who say they were "taken for granted" by some past partners who probably thought they were above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:35 PM
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Those type of men would go along with more masculine womzn but becausz they are masculine don't bother as much with making themselves attractive. It's a catch 22.And the attractive ones have so many options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:57 PM
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Jeff Bezos cheated and she divorced like most people do when they get cheated on in the western world
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:22 PM
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That's not dread then that's jist common sense. Self respecting people don't stay in shitty relationships by fear of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:21 PM
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People do change but we are talking about attraction and dating. People wanna have enjoyable dates and someone interesting to talk to. If youre not like that most people will favor those who are instead of the boring person.Getting with someone in the hope they will change is a recipe for disaster.Present is guaranteed. The future isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:29 AM
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Seems like it's more the cute ballet dancer with a banker dad marrying a new money banker than a never been to college working class woman working at mcdonalds marrying a banker. And I think people think bmore of the latter when they talk about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:01 PM
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I'm talking about OP's situation. It's largely possible for him to be finacially sensible while having a nice lifestyle. I'd even say that is what attractive with wealth in thr first place you can enjoy fine things while not having to sacrifice financial stability or essential items.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:47 PM
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Some people manage to save money while still living a nice lifestyle with a 6 figure income, that's very possible. FIRE is great but, having experiences in your youth is important
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:50 AM
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No he should change his mindset.Seek therapy if needed. Some people live very traumatic events but manage to not be jaded cause they developped healthy coping mechanisms.He is saying that he basically does nothing besides working and he is jaded. So why should someone want to hang out with him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:29 AM
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Having hobbies and interests outside of work is alpha ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:18 PM
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Isn't you being jaded the issue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:10 PM
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Lol women on reddit are like sooooo not representative of the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 01:09 PM
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Would you be fine with a dominant woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:23 PM
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Also I've lived with real tradcons, they all told us to wait before having kids. Cause now their houses are empty, their husbands are taking them fir granted and they live vicariously through their children
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:23 PM
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I mean I'm sure there are many women who want kids earky but they are not the majority if we look at the polls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:11 PM
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Well I guess you're right. Men cringe at being "Beta bux" but it seems that if it happens before the woman is 30, they are okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:53 PM
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I quite frankly do not think women compare men among themselves that much honestly. It's more like there is a threshold of standards under which women would rather stay alone than have a companion. I think only maybe the bittom 20% of men would be totally fucked. Like the amount of men who think basic hygene is too much to ask of them is just... Too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:28 PM
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It's not the ideal but it's the best compromise. Legalizedand destigmatized prostitution. That being said, I think many men would do better if they at least learned how to beautify themselves. This is something women and gay men have known for years : you need to make yourself aesthetically pleasing to the eyes to be attractive. For me the real issue is cohabitation. Seems like women don't enjoy living under the same roof as men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:57 AM
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I'm afraid there isn't one beside maybe legalized prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 07:41 AM
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There is a difference between the "eh it's silly but i enjoy this content because after a long day I don't wanna be serious" And "oh those people are so dumb they are the scum of the earth. Let me give them views everyday and therefore incentive to put out more dumb content tho"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:09 AM
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I think it is, though it's up for debate. One motivation to stop for many drug users is to not have to deal with people from "the scene" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:02 AM
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I knew someone would say something along those lines. But, usually, people go on popular hub sites like youporn or pornhub which are both known to even doing a poor job at checking if the people in the vids are 18+ and consenting to be filmed. They make money through the adds so you are at least making those questionable porn platforms rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:45 PM
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He is good looking but it skyrocketed when he got his job and I appeared on his feed. So d say it's combination of looks, good job and pre selection by a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:30 PM
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Well I'm quite happy they aren't. Finding it "fun" is even more questionable but ypu do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:26 PM
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False analogy since people on that sub weren't murdered for the purpose of being put online and make money. Also weren't mostvof the deaths on that subs due to suicide ? Watching that sub was very quzstionable though. The fact that reddit banned it speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:21 PM
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And after googling r worded slur : it's even more stupid to say things like "r-worded" than using other words especially when there are so many alternative ways to express it. You sound like an 8th grader who's in his edgy phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:41 PM
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Unfortunatly, there isn't much we can do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:38 PM
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Unless that's not what I said. But again go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:34 PM
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This is a gross over simplification but go off I guess. I don't know what r-worded means
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:58 PM
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I've addressed the "not paying" Argument multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:57 PM
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You are enjoying their degradation. That's kind of perverse in its litteral sense. I also personally think there is something quite degrading about watching porn for the person who watches it but that's another conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:56 PM
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Yup that's hypocritical. As stated somewhere else we all kind of are.it's hard to not be in a capitalist society without having a mental breakdown. But again life isn't black and white phones became a necessity in these day and age so did you buy it brand new or second hand ? I also know some people who need new computers regularly because of their job but support orgs trying to regulate the tech production market. We do what we can do. Basically, I just don't understand why men (and people in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:31 PM
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Then you're not against the opioid per se but the way it was used and commercialized. Also life isn't black and white, most people would agree to make exceptions to laws when it's a health situation. For example, some countries forbid prostitution except for disabled people because there are no ways for them to get intimacy otherwise and it really affects their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:19 PM
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I think what would make you a hypocrite would be then to say it's okay for you to watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:04 PM
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First off I'd like to point out that we are all hypocritical to some degree because living constantly according to your ideals is exhausting.So don't see this as a judgement of your character. One example i can give is this : I like animals yet I'm not vegan.There are pretty much three way to resolve this : convince myself that killing animals is okay,stop consuming animal product or accept the dissonance between my ideals and my behavior. Ideally I think nothing should come out of animal produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:57 PM
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Yes it's hypocritical because you are making two contradictory actions. You look down on people for their work while enjoying the product of their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:43 PM
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Yes it's the looking down on them that bothers me. Don't date hoes if you're not a hoe yourself, you're going to suffer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:39 PM
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Watching makes it profitable for those who produce it. So yes you are sustaining it. If it doesn't then you do not fall into the category of men I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:36 PM
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Just because it's free doesn't mean the company making it does not profit off of it. Most content online is free yet so many cobtent creators are making money. Attraction is not hypocritical. Hot people are hot, that's straightfoward. What's hypocritical are the lies we tell ourselves to rationalize ourselves when the hot person doeqn't fit our moral code. Then fair enough, as stated before I do not think not wanting a promiscuous partner is hypocritical if you are not promiscuious yourself. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:33 PM
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Well what's bashing to you ? I'm thinking about all those guys who get mad at only fan girls, instathots and pornstars, saying they should be banned and then like all their content at night and subscribe to their accounts. I'm not booty hurt quite frankly, just the way I speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:26 PM
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You're sustaining an industry which goes against your moral code that's hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:16 PM
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Get off your soap box , my original comment clearly stated that not wanting to date promiscuious people is not hypocritical. What I find hypocrital is sustaining an industry you think is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:13 PM
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If there was no demand, it wouldn't be out there so somebody needs to break the circle and it won't be those who get monzy from it and don't see it as morally wrong.You cannot be against something and then be the reason why it's still sustaining without creating some kind of dissonance. You are actively participating to an industry which by your own accord devalues women. It also shows a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:11 PM
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True but even consuming it for free is hypocrital if you think making porn is degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:02 PM
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I don't find it hypocrite. What I find hypocrital is bashing sex workers and then buying their products.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:24 PM
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He is good looking with a nice job. He publishes nox and then on instagram.And, weirdly enough ever since he published a picture of us ladies flock to him. Blond girls who are triggered one of their men was "stolen" by an asian and other asian girls who think they may have a bigger chance with him than with another dude mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:20 PM
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I do have links but they are in french.I can link them if you want, i guess deepl translation could work. Multipletests have been done like one where the same man posted himsel as Michael, Yanis and Hicham. Michael got matches, Yanis which is, an ambiguous name a little less. Hicham an obviously muslim name got none. There are also studieq which show women (including arab women) are ten times more likely to answer with hostility to a man who seems muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:28 PM
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I don't know where that myth is coming from. Studies have been done muslim immigrant men are struggling to get sex in Europe. The least wanted race on tinder in europe are north africans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:29 PM
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That is true but the situations which would lead us to cheat are not via instagram dms we both have access to and to which we only respond to "i'm not interested". We identified the situations in which we would be tempted and put hard boundaries on them. Instagram thirsty messages from lower quality partners are not one of those situations. I'm also a very " It is what it is" kinda of person. Cheating would suck but wouldn't phase me that much. We agreed that as long as the cheating is just ohys…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:57 PM
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Eh I dunno, most people I know have their insta dms open. But i suppose we surrounded ourselves with like minded individuals like most people do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:39 PM
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No anybody can dm you on instagram unless you change your settings. We both don't care enough to change them. He knows my password and I know his. We are both neurodivergent weirdos who got blessed with good looks late in life. We started dating when we were odd looking nerds playing dnd. We basically loved eachother at our worse and we now enjoying our best.and we both know it'd be hard to find somewhere else such a good combinationon of emonotional, intelectual and sexual compatibility. We rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:22 PM
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As long as he tells them to get lost, yes I am okay with that. Just like i get the men in my dms to get lost
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:49 AM
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My parents told me I needed to be pretty, be agreeable, smart, have a good job and know how to clean a house and take care of kids. They told my brother he needed a good job. I grew up wanting someone handsome, wirh a good job and a nice personality and who knows how to take care of their house and children... And I was mostly surrounded with men with good jobs only. God bless my boyfriend, he is drowning in dms because the bar is litteraly in hell for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:40 AM
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Yes I've read the reasoning and I could understand the logic behind it. Though the logic is kinda sound i still think that's why you failed. 6 years apart is not that unsual but the average this day is 3 years. This, added to all your other standards was shooting yourself in the foot. From what'ive seen you should have started looking at 25 for a long term gf in the 21-24 bracket and gotten married around 29. I think telling men they have more time than women is bad advice. I mean in theory they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:34 PM
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You are right most coders and whatnot tend to be men however genz girls are catching up at a high race. Many typical admin tasks could indeed be automized and actually are where i live but there is a need for new more complex tasks in those jobs. For example, in hr all the cv filtering is automated but the hiring requires a human to asses new demands such as creativity and pedagogical abililty (for context i work in the online learning field a quite booming and lucrative field espeiciall with co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 09:21 PM
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I think the "no woman under 32" was probably tge deciding factor in your failure when you yourself hit 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:44 PM
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As someone who got hot later in life... Yes absolutely. I work in tech and work is pretty much a free buffet. I will stick to my boyfriend though. His goofy ass liked me when i had unflattering glasses, no boobs andquestionable fashion tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:32 PM
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I cannot talk about gender and diversity jobs as those don't exist in my country but all the promissing start ups i've worked at sank when the hr and /or the accoyntant sucked. Furthermore there are more female doctors now, same with nurses and teachers as well as biologists so I do not think all the useful jobs are done my men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:17 PM
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I work with kids. I have received training. I grew up in cultures where having kids young is expected and where communal families are the norm. Yet most women my age I know don't want kids until late 20's. It just feels like a waste of one's potential to have them earlier. Even the youtube tradcons I see never have them before 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:38 PM
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I don't know about men but I think for many women, most of us do not want kids before 25 at the earliest. It just disrupt our lives in a way men cannot really comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:29 PM
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That's your prerogative for you as an individual to not care. Time for you to either settle young yourself or ti get rich.But many men do which is why many are fine with marrying a 30 year old so to come here and act like women have no option at 30 is disgenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:02 PM
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The parental rights would be a valid point if men massively asked for equal access to the kids. Theydon't. As for the financial part, except for upper middle class and up, both people involved end up worse off after a divorce. As for running at first sign of dissatisfaction, that's not true. Women usually leave after years of what the men perceive of being naggy towards them aka trying to have the issue fixed. Then when they're done, they're done.That's when the women stop nagging and are calmly…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:59 PM
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Interest in building a family. Interestat all. Mostof us 20 something aren't interested in older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:46 AM
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As the men love to remember here , women initiate 70% of divirces so I guess men get unbearable to live with after the r honeymoon phase
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:41 AM
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This is due to male comittment being kind if worthless now with contraception and female independance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:18 AM
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Yes he would. That's why we are told to not give ugly men a chance. You dating thme gives them social proof ans they start cheating with their newfound options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:15 AM
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The kpop stars are not effeminate by asian standards tho their fans understand that and are attracted to their masculine qualities (protective, stoic, hard working etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:45 PM
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You know, acting like a shallow airhead a'd or bitchy s more efficient than being smart and kind as a woman
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 08:01 PM
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RPW actually worked for me. But I attracted traditional manly men who could not handle my weirdness. So I went back to being weird and attracted an equally weird man and we are living our best weirdo lives
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 11:44 PM
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My limit is 10 years difference and it's pushing it. Anything over 35 is a no and the 30-35 range are exceptions because the men in that age I'd actually date seem to prefer women their own age
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 09:21 AM
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"I'm open to dating black people because some of them may have features which cater to the euro centric features I like. I'm so open"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:32 PM
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Women marry later everywhere in the world. Even in Japan which is the least feminist country in the developped word
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:51 PM
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Well, i'm 25 and i've never been hit on as much in my life
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 02:24 PM
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lol if you ran out of things to say, just say that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:33 PM
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I was referring to how reacts. He gets more horny when I'm dolled up. But if you ask him he won't see the link. He'll just say "you're pretty today" and be horny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:15 PM
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No I'm comparing this on average days where I go to work or classes. I get more attention and more offers. Well it's true it's different but when my bf specifically says this, he wants to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:11 PM
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What I meant is : men say they don't care but you do get much more asked out/lusted after by your boyfriend when you do those things as a woman. They don't realize it tho. They just say "you are pretty today"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:33 AM
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From experience, those details matter but men don't realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:40 AM
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Well it kind of is the case. Blue collar jobs bring in more money that pink collar jobs. White collar jobs don't depend on phyisical strenght tho so the double standards doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:23 PM
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You point out outliers of traumatized women fantasizing about a world without men and placate it over a whole gender. You make sweeping generalizations. There are a bunch of mysoginistic groups on this site who say women shouldn't have civil rights, should have male gardians and what not. They are men who fantasize about a world without women and they actually act on it. They're the ones killing women because they are women, like Eliot Rodger. Yet I'm not over here stating he is a representative…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:31 AM
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Observing something isn't being offended though. You just want to be right at all costs and move around topic to auto confirm your false beliefs that women like men less than men like women. Me thinking this isn't being offended I'm just drawung conclusions from what i'm reading here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:45 AM
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Oh I don't mind hearing about it. You just pulled out cheating out of nowhere and when asked to elaborate on your idea you gave absolutely zero insight
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 10:42 AM
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It's not relevant to our discussion, don'tbe dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 08:17 AM
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Except that I'm not offended, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 08:16 AM
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Okay and ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 11:06 PM
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Oh please, you were just taking shots at women. You went off context messages ago
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 11:06 PM
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You didn't say it explicetly but that's what your comments inply when you make statements like "Women like dark triad men"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 07:42 PM
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lol why are you bringing up cheating ? But yes you are in a relationship with your spouse. And if your affaire goes beyond the bedroom, you are in an alduterous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 07:41 PM
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Exclusivity and doing things outside the bedroom like dates and phone conversations. Having emotional support. Helping eachother. NSAsex is just that, sex. It ain't a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:44 AM
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My point was that you are making it a gendered issue when your article states BOTH women and men with dark triad traits are more successful for short mating strategied. Dark triad women get picked first too for the same reasons their male counterpart do : they confidently pursue the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:41 AM
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No the dude does not a relationship, he wants no string attached sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:11 AM
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Per your own source "More specifically, the number of lifetime sexual partners and sexual motivation were both positively related to narcissism, boldness, and disinhibition in both men and women". People with dark triad traits are more successfull overall not because people like their shitty personnality but because they are attracted to the confident their exude. It also states those people are more interested in sex. Who is more likely to get sex ? A nice guy who doesn't talk to women or a dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:07 AM
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Chad osn't attractive because of Dark Triad traits, his potentially Dark Triad traits are overlooked because his looks. Looks can be a factor but when women complain about not finding men, look isn't the maint issue they bring up. They just feel like a lot of emotional work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:46 AM
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Oh and settling down =/ marriage either. Many men don't want to be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:18 AM
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The men she wants =/ Chad. Many men just don't know how to add value besides bringing in money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:16 AM
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Yes they are, especially in this day and age. I don't know why people act like men want to settle down in their 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:42 PM
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They absolutely do have troibles. The only easy thing for women is getting casual sex most of them don't want it and prefer relationships which are hard to get
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:01 AM
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The same can be said about the women who would rather be alone so then again, I don't see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:01 AM
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Many men are okay being alone too (see mgtow) so I think it evens out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:13 PM
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Well no, they just adjust their expectations. Even if they did get what they want, what's bad with that ? You'd rather have them get into shitty marriages ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:20 PM
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You now have the sources so goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:31 PM
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The majority don't because you don't gain money from divorce, it just results in two poorer people.it's not hard to understand : you have to support two households with the same amount of money. https://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C5&q=women+do+worse+financially+after+divorce&btnG=#d=gs_qabs&u=%23p%3DQXfRn35gRB8J The Global South is going through its demographic transition but birthrates under replacement level are an issue in the developped world only. Men do have a say.Especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:27 PM
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I agree. Well it seems everyone subscously thinks dicks degrades the person who lets it penetrate them so there is that. A girl known for sleeping with a bunch of girls won't be called names (unless the place is homophobic)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:22 PM
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Women do not divorce their husband for money. To benefit from divorce the husband needs to be rich. Womenare worse off fiancially after a divorce. The West influences the rest of the World for now and not the other way around. And as stzted before aging population and declining birth rates are western problems. also,men do not want more children either anyway so I don't know why you frame it as only women refusing to reproduce. Your initial sentence assumed I took the study nuanced in your link …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:20 PM
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Anything impkying they are having a lot of sex sounds flattering when applied to men. They don't get nearly as offended as women when called fuckboy compared to slut
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:42 PM
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There are many more traditional women than female who kill their husbands. We're not talking about the world, those phenomenons are Western world specific and yes the population is slowing down there. "Reread the source you took this nonsense from" even though O didn't my source from there. I'm failing to see how this will solve the dating issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:33 PM
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Oh by hypergamy i meant seeking someone of a higher social background (basically richer) not hotter. Wanting hot people is present in both men ans women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:12 PM
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I see. I personally call it the Ghengis Khan syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:07 PM
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Being a fuckboy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:50 PM
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There are many more traditional women/women who halted their careers for children than female killers so that's irrelevant I didn't take it from there so go ahead. Your sentence is just strawmaning what I've said so I won't bother answering to that point. Yes, and that's a good thing as we need less people as society evolves. What's your solution anyway ? You cannot force people who do not want to pair up to pair up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:32 PM
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It's similar but they need to actively pursue de the women and the hypergamy component isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:06 PM
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The numbers include women who who chose a traditional lifestyle and who obviously did not earn money. It does not mean they did not contribute to society. Women under 35 outearn men now. I don't see the problem as the world changes and we don't need many workers anymore we need fewer but highly skilled people. So no I don't see the issue in highly educated women rhaving very few children who are raised to be highly educated themselves by said women. Lol no we are aldready saying the changes, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:04 PM
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Women pay taxes too though and the single ones without children at the most likely to contribute. The only real issue is women getting married when they don't want to but as society pressure on that matter dissapears , it will be a non issue in a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:45 PM
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Many women seem to be happier without men in their lives. I'm failing to see where the issue is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:06 PM
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The ball litteraly was for that. The king invited all the women in age to get married to find someone for his son. The disney versions of those movies typically start with the girl singing about the prince they are waiting for. Fairy tales were wittren by men ( as in wrote on paper) but nobody really knows who invented them and their purspose was to teach a moral about life so it doesn't matter if they are true it's the subtext which is important. I guess that's why women don't feel lied to by s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:08 AM
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Cinderella wanted to go to the ball though a ball is always with important people. She made herself pretty and the prince found her so beautiful he decided to marry her. This is what girl game is. Make yourself pretty and be atplaces with high calibermen when so you get the attention of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:01 AM
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So, per your own comment, women don't always get what they want. They either find it or stay single. It's their prerogative to choose to be alone instead of settling if they handle singledom better than tolerating someone they are not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:29 AM
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But Prince Charming...is a prince while the girl is usually a commoner. Isn't that hypergamy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:57 AM
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That's not true and it's off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:40 AM
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And childfree men still like young, pretty fertile looking women. We are not going to change our biological imperative so swiftly edit : forgot a word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:15 AM
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Oh and as for my friends : some still date them and some don't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:35 PM
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Actually I live in a very multicultural progressive bubble so I think I've had dates with everything under the rainbow. When it comes to real boyfriends though one was asian, one was black and the current one is white. More than wethet the woman stays at home or not it's about the pay gap. Like my mom worked at some point but her salary what was my dad had to pay in taxes. So her money was "her" Money and my dad's money was "their " Money. In exchange she did everything around the house and adju…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:34 PM
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With men who bailed, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:52 PM
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There are not because theor traditional role is to bear kids. The fact is when kids are born women are more likemy to suffer financial losses in order to make sure to have a comfortable lifestyle, they need men to pick up the monetary loss. As society becomes more equalitarian in matters less and less
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:43 PM
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I don't know.most help for kids are for the kids regardless of the parent who takes care of them.I also think that when it comes to child rearing, women are criticized much more harshly by both men and women. Fathers who are somewhat involved in their kid's life are praised like they invented the cure to covid. What I do think it is true though is that an irresponsible father will be judged harshly by tsociety and will either step up or simply abandon the child. Actually there is probably some k…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:19 PM
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More than things they expect me to do it's how they expect me to be : i'm not innocent, I say pretty plainly what I think, I'm not very gullible. Or for example I didn't let one have a say in how I dress. Or I took decisions concerning my future plans without consulting them and he found it offensive. Even though it had no bearing into his life or our relationship. As for the finances : in many households it's very common that the man gives the entire salary to the woman and yes of course he has…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:06 PM
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I mean not gonna lie people do use cute a lot to describe me overall as i have a high pitched voice and I have a small frame. But as I said, it's obvious 5 mins into talking to me that I am not the quiet type. Yet they still act shocked 2 months into dating me that I will not be waifu "but you're asian !!". I don't really like that stéreotype either tbh because I think that kind of household dynamic is detrimental: overworked , unappreciated fathers, no sex life, stressed out wives etc. However …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:57 PM
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They do better because they is a selection at play. A single father probably chose to be one and are probably older since most of them became one through divorce or due to the mother's death. so they are probably very responsible and invested in their role. The single mother side is a mixed bag of teen moms, irresponsible crackheads, responisble professionals, widows, divorcés etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:43 PM
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Except that it happens quite frequently that it's not just the physical aspect but also perceived character traits and also "any asians will do" is very apparent on online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:36 PM
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That's my point, I get approached by those guys even though I am loud and assertive and do absolutely nothing to hide it. Quite frankly I bother less and less trying to know what's the reasoning behind it.If said in person I ask and if it's only physical traits it's okay. On dating apps, I automatically unmatch. Hhaha yes t is one but one which is based on some cultural reality contrary to the submissive waifu which is just a manga/hentai export. They act les chivalrous, they don't try as much :…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:32 PM
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I just had a conversation below but to me you are conflating preferences with fetishes. Aka "I like black straight hair and alomond shaped eyes" isn't the same as "I only want asians any of them will do because they all seem like a monolith to me and I want them because I project some weird fantasies" aka "They are submissive, they will tolerate my mysogyny, they put white men on a pedestal". Noboy wants to feel like they are repleacable or being treated like a stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:15 PM
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Lol first of all, you are missing the point. The issue isn't wether those things are true or not the issue is that I want to be treated as an individual. Secondly no, they don't say it as grossly they are actually covert in their actions which is why I now avoid those with an asian preference. They'll say stuff like "oh asian women are less bitchy than the western ones". Then act in a domeering way and act shocked where you draw boundaries. Thirdly, yes that stereotype is false, most asian women…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:01 PM
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well "I like asians because I love black straight hair and they tend to have it" isn't the same as assuming things on my personality based on my ethnicity. Stereotypes are sometimes based on reality but a reality that is outdated, or have too many outliners to base a relationship on this. Some are also completely false and based on racist myths. Like the very sexual black women to justify their rapes suring slavery. In a romantic context, you want to be appreciated on an individual level so "I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:09 PM
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Fair enough, but are men willing to be trad husbands and being the submissive ones in the relationship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:57 PM
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being unconfident is a recipe for failure in every aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:50 PM
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Yes because unfortunatly the creeps yet again ruined it for everybody. I always ask "why" when somebody says that and see if the answer is based on stereotypes or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:33 PM
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I actually find it charming how Zuckerberg acts more lively around his wife ...Who contrary to the red pill myth, is around his age, is not a Stacy and has a phd. I find their love story cute. Two nerdy adults who found love in college and gathered massive success in their fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:20 PM
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She met him before he got rich and even worked for amazone for free in its beginnig. So why assume she was not interested in sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:17 PM
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they can and are dating younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:31 PM
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be hot yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:17 PM
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I'm failing to see how it's wrong to factor in the partner's money while choosing one. Living in poverty is not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:12 PM
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That shit stops in high school ifyou are not emotionally stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:05 PM
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The fetishization thing goes beyond preference. "I have a thing for asians" isn't the same as "I only want asians any of them will do because they all seem like a monolith to me and I want them because I project some weird fantasies" aka "They are submissive, they will tolerate my mysogyny, they put white men on a pedestal". Noboy wants to feel like they are repleacable or being treated like a stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:04 PM
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what do you mean by you don't buy the fetishization thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:01 PM
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I think both can happen. Some may be scared to not be seen as gf material or they are not that attracted to the guy they are with, so they are less kinky. Some need to be with someone they trust to make sure that person won't overstep their boundaries. I am quite frankly at my kinkiest with my bf but to be fair he is the hottest among the guys I have been with. My bf and I lucked out tho. We were friends and ugly ducklings growing up and then we met 5 years after high school and we both got hot …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:04 PM
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Quite frankly I never understood the big deal. Most men just wanna make sure that if they present their gf somewhere there won't be a bunch of men smiling cause they fucked her too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:01 PM
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He asked while we were talking about our past exeperiences.And I quite frankly didn't care. But I live in Europe, we are more laxed with sex.In the US you are both obssessed with it and repressive so thoses questions trigger over emotional reactions. Well he didn't like the idea of the emotional bond reinforced with sex. He thinks women are more likely to do kinky things with long time partners and he didn't like the idea that someone saw my kinky side before him. Well we are not the norm but we…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 07:52 PM
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Yes people from toxic backgrounds need to work on themselves before they can enter healthy relationships. My mom and dad lived traditionally and it worked well for them.They tried to enforce it on me though so I became a hardcore feminist and was toxic to the men involved.Now I more have of live and let live mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:13 PM
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Well, my n count is 3.One was casual.My boyfriend asked and I did tell him and he didn't care about the casual one but the regular one because he knew more of me sexually. It depends on age also. After 25 it gets tricky.There are a lot of girls in their early 20's who are virgin. In my friend group of 10, 7 of us lost our virginity around 21. The men i'volved were 23/25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:04 PM
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Many women aren't happy in that seeting. Many len aren't happy in that seeting. That model only benefits kids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:31 PM
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If you want less than 5 partners that's realistic. If you want a virgin it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:10 PM
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I think she just was being insufferable so you would leave her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:09 PM
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Coincidently, this happens now that those men have a more western mindset... Also, most non white men see white women are prizes so they do want western (white) women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:58 PM
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Congrats, you found your answer. Enjoy your redditing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:42 AM
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Again, I see what you are trying to do and it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:48 AM
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The sources i've mentionned are easy to find. If you are too lazy to look it up, just say that. I see what you are trying to do with your second sentence : it won't work. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:54 AM
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Sources : PISA tests, UN reports along with multiple research centers accross western nations (finland, the UK, France and the US) all report boys doing worse in both verbal and reading comprehension. The people who hire me don't doubt it and that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:44 AM
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Fair enough but I've experience this while talking too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:11 PM
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Lol reseach has been made. Men do worse in verbal comprehension. By "long texts" I just mean something that has more than 2 sentences. And I just said I've tailored my writing style to the guys I talk to. So yes, I'm good at my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:06 PM
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That's what I do for a living and itns a very competitive field. So no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:28 AM
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I thought they were doing this on purpose but turns out they just suck at reading. If I make a long text with neutral quzstions my bf tends to only answer to half of the questions. It's more effective to split the mesaage in smaller messages
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:29 AM
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Lol y ou may be right I don't know. I'm just under the impression maybe we underestimate how much people liked sex back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:53 AM
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It's true that while young they can delude themselves into thinking sex isn't good (I doubt it tho. What is Romeo Juliette but the tell of two horny teens doing reckless things because of hormones ?). But I also think somewhere around early 20's women do realize something is wrong. All you need is one encounter with a person you have chemistry with to make you question everything. I also know many traditional families where the couple is in a dead bedroom or where the woman makes herself unattra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:43 AM
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Well I'm not sure about that. Herein my cpuntry (France) most of our litterature and history is basee around people who married for convenience and then seek lovers because they resent their spouses. "Mme Bovary" for example talks about an UMC woman who got married as a virgin but still cannot stand her husband because he doesn't give her the tingles. So she fucks 18th centuzry Chad and then kills herself. Also, even as a vorgin, you have eyes. You know who is hot and who isn't just from looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:33 AM
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I still disagree for reasons I have stated above. No, in this context it's the perfect example. He is successful, has female attention he should command respect according to your own criteria. Yet men are quick to disrepect him proving that 1) femininty isn't valued 2) the reason it's not valued isn't because it's unattractive in men. I think the conversation has been exhausted now. Let's just agree to disagree. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:49 PM
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"It is not".Prove that it isn't then. Yes his success plays a part but the fact remains his feminine clothes don't lower his sex appeal. If feminity wasn't respected because it's not sexy unless you are successful in your craft then we would encourage feminine men to excel at their feminine interests instead of forcing masculinity on them.And men wouldn't be shitting on Harry Styles since he is getting female attention.IT goes deeper than just sex appeal. They won't be valued in men if they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:21 PM
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I know, I'm part Chinese, what ypu read in the media is partially biased. Those men do not want more educated women because those women have requirements they know they will not fufill. The in laws will also very explicitely tell you why they think you're unworthy of their daughter. But, all things considered a more succesfull woman is better than no woman for these men. But the Chinese are pragmatic they know successful women won't put aside the hypergamy. The term "left over women" is a way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:44 PM
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It is. You could find links saying kkk members respect black people but theu would be some obscure blogs and websites. Submission being seen as feminine is agrred upon in the scientific litterature and on wikipedia. No, it's like saying porn stars are respected because men look at their work. They are desired not respected. Kpop boysgroups wear tight clothes, makeup sing emotional lyrics. They also tend to have high voices and are not very muscular. They have no facial hair. They dance. Both the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:33 AM
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I think you're the norm. i have a masters, planningon doing a phd, my boyfriend has a PHD and all of his friends date girls who at least have a bachelor, career ambitions and hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:21 AM
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Because of one child policy and female fetusabortion China has a gender disparity and the women there are extremely picky.Couples who kept their girls tended to be wealthy and from the city. those so called "left over women" are just successful women from provincincial backgrounds who wanted men as successful or more successful than them and who are perfectly fine with being their mistresses if they can't marry them. The term was coined in an attempt to shame them into marrying some provincial b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:14 AM
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Being sexy=/being respected. The execessively masculine women are not attractive ever. There is a big niche of young women swooning over feminine men : see the success of kpop boygroups, Thimothée Chalet gets thirst tweets everyday. Thefew straight guys at my dance and drama lessons were drowning in sexual offers. We have shows saying being sahm is the hardest job in the world as a reaction to people saying they are lazy and useless.It's a cope to gain value in society.Technically, being a mom i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:50 AM
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The fact is most men can't afford it so it is mathematically not an option mpst women will have. Now, if you found a man rich enough to do it, more power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:33 AM
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The traits you have indicated are physical traits. I'm talking about personality traits. The traits you mentionned cannot be found in men. A man cannot give birth. And having good looks is praised in both sexes. Muscular guys with now faces also have a heavy following on social media. So, if we are sticking to such a shallow idea of felininty, feminine men cannot exist because of biology. Except that femininty is more than that. It'sthe personality traits and interests which are associated with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:12 AM
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I'm asking for the last time : what are feminine traits according to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:32 PM
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Im in my early 20's...it's not an option anymore for the majority of us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:09 PM
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And again those aren't my views on femininty those are societies views on femininty. Against which feminists rebelled because again those are not respected traits. From wikipedia "Traits such as nurturance, sensitivity, sweetness,[14] supportiveness,[10][7] gentleness,[7][8] warmth,[10][8] passivity, cooperativeness, expressiveness,[24] modesty, humility, empathy,[7] affection, tenderness,[10] and being emotional, kind, helpful, devoted, and understanding[8] have been cited as stereotypically fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:01 PM
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*non gender conforming
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:52 PM
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And which post did I supposedly edited to the point where it changes the whole point exactly ? I've been saying the same thing over and over again : boys can't be gender conforming because feminine traits arenseen as lesser than the masculine ones. So we need to respect those traits first as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:51 PM
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You still haven't answered my question : what are the feminine per personality traits according to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:49 PM
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I'm talking about personality traits, I've aldready said multiple times beauty is the only feminine thing that is praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 10:08 AM
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I think you are not debating in good faith, you are purposely derailing the subject and never answered my simple question "what are the feminine traits for which women are praised for"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:24 AM
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I did specify I edited my post so no, it's not the original post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:11 AM
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And again, if the things I have listed are not feminine to you, then what is femininty ? What are its attributes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:25 AM
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It doesn't matter what modern women think. I'm talking about what is seen as traditionally feminine. And those traits are part of it. They are attributed to women in the Bible which is a fundamental book to understand how western society developped. Women who enter STEM are valued yes. But STEM is not a feminine field, it is male dominated and does not require feminine skills. It's safe to say the women in stem are not feminine in their personality. They earn more money because they are more mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:23 AM
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Lol it's not a battle where someone gets ti claim they won. And yes they often talk about how they built a buisness and are "girl bosses" and in the comments the women praise them for making money too. just like how Kylie Jenner was acclaimed for being the youngest self made billionaire. Besides you've only mentionned beauty as a feminine trait.So so far you have not disproven what I've said many messages earlier :beauty is the only feminine trait that is praised. Nobody cares about the rest. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:04 PM
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You're running in circles so let's make it simple. What are the feminine traits according to you ? And who is praised for them ? Besides beauty as I've aldready said it's the only accepted feminine trait in the West. Yes, they would, doesn't make it less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 07:52 PM
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You've given instagram models and I poi'ted out they don't have the classic feminine traits. And you failed to prove how they show feminine traits. Having a career requires discipli'e, drive, competitiveness. Those are masculine traits. Submissiveness in many cultures is seen as a feminine traits both the Quran and the Bible describe the ideal female as submissive. The Yin, the representatio' of female energy also includes submissiveness among its qualities. Yes, it's a hard sell and it proves m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 05:31 PM
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You tell me I am wrong and yet failed to show me a single counter example. Of course they would, because feminine traits are not respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:29 AM
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Those instagram models have feminine looks but not feminine traits. They own buisnesses, are building careers.They are driven and material success oriented.They do not have children nor are they really interested in motherhood And, they're not even respected by everyone, it's pretty split precisely because of the nature of wjat they are selling : their beauty. Men want them but don't necessarly respect them. Being desired does not mean being respected.You seem to not understa'd what I mean by fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:33 AM
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I babysat for a lot of families with working parents and even when the mom works she is still the one ruling the household. They usually have my numbers when the fathers don't, they're the the ones going to parents teachers meeting, they had maids a'd they were the one hiring them and making sure they were doing a good job. Basically they worked two jobs which is not viable long term so it's either the husba'd steps up to take care of those chores too or she cuts back hours at wprk to keep her s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:32 AM
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We do not respect feminine women.They are attractive and people want to fuck them but can you truly cite a famous woman acclaimed by the general public who actually displays feminine traits ?.The only female trait men like is beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:10 AM
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Lol why would they fuck men displaying these traits when women in western society don't even like these traits displayed in other women. No, we need to give respect to the feminine traits first
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 11:29 PM
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You are not treated as valuable regardless of looks if you are a woman. It is deeply tied to looks. I can see it , i was an ugly teen, I am now pretty in my early 20's and the way people treat me is light and day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:38 PM
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Your two cases are contradictory. If he is self reliable what's the use of a housewife ? Also, you said it yourself men will cheat anyway so you can be the best woman ever if he wants to cheat he is going to cheat. He is responsible for his shortcomings not the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:29 PM
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They scare me. I know they can be good butI mostly see them as potential threats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:02 PM
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Because nobody respects feminity. Being a boyish female is seens as overcoming your female limitations being a girlish male is seen as someone who reduces themselves to a weakling. The only way to fix this is changing how we view femininty and I don't see it changing anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:59 PM
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It is indeed a skill that everyone can learn but, those who stay a virgin for a long time may be more likely to not care about acuiring that skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 10:57 PM
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I give this marriage 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 08:01 PM
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Well, this is bullshit. You named very competitive places.Especiallyn the last one is one which is very looks focused and looks are a touchy subject for women to begin wwith. It's been shown girls are happier in female only schools for example. Nurses and docrors thrive in their female spaces, same with teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:27 AM
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I don't have compassion not because he is a man but because he chose to leave his faithfull partner and mother of his kids for a young psycho bitch. He made his bed and can now lie in it. Amber Heard deserves to be cancelled and thrown in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:15 AM
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I think many men here are on the autistic spectrum and this is why they struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 10:42 AM
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That's a colloquial obviously other things are taken into account while choosing my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:19 PM
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As women, being blunt doesn't get you anywhere. People chastise much more strongly women who are not being agreeable.Not being agreeable can isolate you which means in tougher environments dying and seeing your children die. And, in modern times, saying the blunt truth to a man puts you in unecessary danger. As I said : this would work if that girl would be a bro only in her way of communicating. But, this also means she probably won't bother with her appearance, won't be the mothering or caring…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:46 AM
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It works better than being blunt so it won't change.Deal with it. If you want a really feminine girl that is. You could find a girl with a more "manly" mind but chances are, you won't find her hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:22 AM
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We do say the truth, just not bluntly because direct communication is useless. "I don't think we have chemistry"=I don't think I'm attracted enough to you. " You're not my type"=I don't think you're good looking". If you can't read between the lines, that's on you. You should have paid more attention in lit class to acquire that skill. Women are indirect with you, withtheir boyfriends and among themselves. It's not going to change because that type of comlunication is more effective for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:12 AM
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Good looking does not mean Chad only. Or maybe it does I dunno what you guys think of when you say "Chad".I am very much attracted to my boyfriend of 4 years and it's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:03 AM
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I don't give a damn tbh. The problem a lot of women have is tht they need to have their preferences endorsed by the majority to say them. And, the few who do realize it's bs keep their views to themselves because people don't wanna hear harsh truths from women.Men on here can complain as much as they want about female duplicity the fact is they find the fake nice girls more attractive than the honest ones.Hence the "blue pill lies".I like good looking men and only date them. I don't care if it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:04 PM
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Ah I see, I would put all those things under compatibility not needs which for me describe things ensuring your basic survival. Buti get your point And I do think people follow way too much the butterflies in the stomach (desirability) instead of checking for compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 12:28 PM
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Well, could you explain what you mean by "life projects" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:19 AM
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I quite agree actually. The only thing is I want kids and it seems like all of us folks who grew up in 2 parents at home are doing better in all areas of life so I am torn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:05 AM
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It was a rethorical question actually. My parents emigrated "from there".The men have more say so are usually satisfied but with women it's a really ranom lottery. Some are happy but those who are not are really miserable. They bear with it because they think God will compensate them in the afterlife They purposefully gain weight to repel the husband and have less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 02:20 AM
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One reason why I left teaching. The principal kept abolishing my punishments a'd didn't want to expel bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 01:57 AM
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What if the resentment grew to the point where she decides to not need you ? Ex: you help her financially but she seeks a job and leave ? Or you supported her emotionally and seeks therapy to be more independant herself ?Or find someone who provides her needs better ? Isn't that unstable too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 01:29 AM
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They have the same rate. Not to mention, they ocvur in cultures where it's taboo to divorce sor are they really successful ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 12:37 AM
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Yes
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