Inner-game Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
56	[FR] I'm old and out of practice, but inner game goes a LONG way		Inner-game	/r/seduction	10/05/16 04:30 AM
1	How do I operate without an emotional shield?		Inner-game	/r/seduction	16/05/16 05:16 AM

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1	How do I operate without an emotional shield? Exactly, but the caring is part of why I'm so good at connecting.	/r/seduction	16/05/16 10:17 PM
1	How do I operate without an emotional shield? Yeah I don't talk about my childhood or anything super deep like that. I just get so involved with them as a person. Like when I talk to someone I treat them like they are the only person in the world, and they respond really positively to that. It allows me to create a closeness in a short amount of time, even if we aren't sobbing it out talking a jut our childhoods. It's more learning and sharing what gets them excited and what gets me excited. Sharing passion creates rapport. I'm not sure how…	/r/seduction	16/05/16 07:36 AM
2	How To Manage Polyamory (one guy, more women) Also the book "More Than Two" is excellent. It's a must-read for anyone seriously looking into polyamory. I'm married and still date other girls and that book really helped us navigate the waters of what would have otherwise been really rough.	/r/seduction	13/05/16 10:20 PM
6	Not all women are going to like you and that's fine. Don't make the mistake of trying to realign yourself just to please those who have no interest in you. The key is not becoming something you don't want to be just to please someone else. It's to become the best version of you that you can be, and that happens to also please other people.	/r/seduction	12/05/16 04:23 AM
2	What happened in your life that led to you developing confidence? Is there a particular book or video series you recommend to get started? I have a lot of time to kill at my job and practicing sleight of hand would be an ideal way to pass the time.	/r/seduction	10/05/16 10:49 PM
2	Finally lost my virginity, but felt slightly weird during it... First time is weird for a lot of people. I remember the first time I had sex I thought "wait, this is it? WTF this just feels weird." It wasn't until the third time that I got used to it and then it became amazing.	/r/seduction	10/05/16 12:16 PM
14	[FR] I'm old and out of practice, but inner game goes a LONG way FR#3: back home, I saw a girl at the coffee shop and did an old school opinion opener with a false time constraint and got her #. I set up a date with her. Date was fine. We met for drinks at a restaurant/bar at a high end mall, but the guy put us at a table that was too big for kino and I couldn't naturally reach across to touch her hand or anything. We talked about travel (we both have been to Europe and she found this exciting) for a bit, then I suggested this other bar that has good drink sp…	/r/seduction	10/05/16 04:32 AM
11	[FR] I'm old and out of practice, but inner game goes a LONG way FR#2: next day. I opened a HB who was watching the basketball game at a restaurant/bar with her friend. Not great execution (listen I'm rusty), but it was enough to talk about Steph Curry. She was a Warriors fan, so we talked about that for a bit. I had a few jokes and kind of just led the conversation to what she was passionate about. (Admittedly I don't consciously do this - it's just very natural at this point.) I should have isolated and I got lucky that the friend had to meet someone and th…	/r/seduction	10/05/16 04:32 AM