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Question For WomenInsane-Wallflower/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 08:35 PM
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Wrong honestly, you are vastly underestimating the capabilities of A.I. The A.I. Chatbots that exist here and now are already more romantic and smooth talking then the vast majority of human men. I would know I’ve used them, their words are enough to make you blush. If the technology continues to evolve I can only imagine how good it’ll be.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 12:51 AM
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Chatbots are more romantic
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 10:28 PM
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Black people have internalized a lot of things, I suppose.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:44 PM
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Oh please spare me. These stereotypes and depictions of black women existed long before twerking or social media/the internet became a thing. All these stereotypes have existed since slavery so a ‘certain demographic’ could justify their dehumanization of black women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:16 PM
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Most Americans are overweight
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:11 PM
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Exactly
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:10 PM
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Your an Indian male, you have no room to hate.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:08 PM
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How is it not fair?
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:05 PM
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What’s your obsession with black women? Are you a black girl? If you are, from a fellow black girl to another please stop posting this shit in an incel-adjacent subreddit, it’s extremely embarrassing. Like genuinely what do you expect them to say? You know deep down why we have certain stereotypes and such negativity attached to our name and where they come from. Edit: And if your not a black woman, you’re strange obsession is odd.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:09 PM
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r/foreveralonewomen and r/lonelywomen those are the only two I know. But a little disclaimer r/foreveralonewomen doesn’t really tolerate the whole “chad” and “Stacy” type incel lingo, it’s mainly a space to vent about your lack of romantic/sexual experience as a woman and loneliness.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:18 PM
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Incels don’t exist, they are a figment of your imagination. You can get sex tomorrow if you wanted
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:20 PM
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Your just rambling now that has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:08 PM
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It’s the only space on this site dedicated to talking about women’s loneliness specifically. That’s what I said, read!
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:06 PM
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Then stop pretending to be an incel
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:02 PM
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I already answered this. Get over yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 11:13 AM
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Did I say I was entitled to it? No. Don’t project your entitlement towards women and relationships onto me and my personal experiences.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 11:13 AM
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Push back??? You get 1-2 comments max every couple posts disagreeing with you and even then the males from this sub downvote their comments to oblivion or dog pile and insult the fuck out of them. That’s the so-called fucking “push back” that you are complaining about really?! And even then this is a fucking debate sub! What did you think was gonna happen? Your woe-is-me routine is not working. I’ve had worse for just for saying that I’ve never been approached before on a male dominated sub!
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:24 AM
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Facial harmony and symmetry
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:16 AM
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This entire subreddit has become overrun with males whining about how they will die alone and how it’s women’s fault, even though this is supposed to be a debate sub so spare me. Your not fooling anyone. You all overrun almost every subreddit with this bullshit if the mods don’t step in to stop you.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:12 AM
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No one cares!
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:08 AM
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Isn’t it well known that there are generally more men then women who use Reddit.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 12:59 AM
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Women have 1 single small space on this entire male-dominated site just to vent about their loneliness and males become unhinged.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 12:56 AM
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Your not fooling anyone with your stupid word salad and fake-deep, sappy speech. All you did was drone on and beat around the bush just to hide the fact that your answer is a “no.” This comment truly encapsulates the hypocrisy of males on this subreddit, constantly shitting on Femcels/FAW for wanting so-called “chad” while waiting for a e-girl to drop onto their cum soaked sheets. So incredibly self-righteous.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 12:38 AM
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Might sound creepy but I subtly follow them around. I try my best to be near them at pretty much all times. During conversation I’ll try and gain information on their personal lives, especially their romantic lives. I smile during conversations with them more often too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:08 PM
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I’ve never confessed to a crush but yes I’ve stayed friends with guys I’ve previously had romantic feelings for. If the feelings aren’t mutual then I don’t feel a need to make my feelings his problem. I just ignore those emotions until they eventually go away, it’s not that hard. Maybe this is easier for me because my crushes never last more than a couple weeks and I know they’ll eventually do something that turns me off 🤷🏾‍♀️ Is it different for men? They seem to have a harder time moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:39 PM
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Interdependent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:12 AM
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Ha. I fucking knew it. The same people who say that femcels and FA women are just delusional and looking for chad are all projecting 🤣 Half of the men who complain on here about being invisible to women have been approached before! This is honestly pure comedy. Proves my theory right that half of the men who complain about not getting romantic attention from women are just picky and looking for 9/10 female to drop out of the sky and onto their cum soaked sheets. Imagine being a woman who’s never…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 01:18 AM
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Lol!
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:19 PM
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Men are jealous of women. A man’s entire life revolves around his penis. A lot of men are socially clueless. I’m by no means a social butterfly but jesus some of you are seriously socially inept… A lot of men project their subconscious desires and behaviours onto women. A lot of men see women as almost otherworldly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:17 PM
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Men who look truly androgynous or could be considered ‘pretty boys’ aren’t really all that common. I’ve seen what the men at anime conventions look like and honestly a lot of them could fit into the whole neck beard stereotype. People usually gravitate towards people who share their interests, it just so happens that the men who they have much in common with are neck beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:26 PM
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There are many androgynous looking men who are celebrated but they usually appeal to the younger crowd. Timothée Chalamet comes to mind as a modern Hollywood example. Björn Andrésen was once named the most beautiful boy in the world in his prime because of his androgynous face. He’s actually the inspiration for many male anime characters and is the reason why so many male anime characters look so androgynous. Then there’s k-pop where androgynous men are practically the norm and look at how popul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:16 PM
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Honestly I don’t really get out much so I have no idea. All I know is that it’s rare to see in real life. It’s a bit more common to see on the internet because the algorithm favours attractive people. I have a tik tok folder of guys like that, that I like to look at from time to time like art at a museum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:17 AM
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To me personally, an extremely attractive man. Like the type of guy you would have to just stare at like a piece of artwork because his face is so perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:04 AM
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“Threatening western women is a waste of time and nobody does that,” does that ring a bell? Perhaps you should be taught a lesson in critical reading too 🤔?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:51 AM
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Did I say it represented the whole? Perhaps you need a lesson in critical thinking as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:13 PM
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Yes.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:25 PM
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No they won’t. Being a ‘feminine’ or non-stereotypical black girl will do nothing for you unless you are extremely attractive, you will just be ignored or outright disliked by both black and non-black men alike.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 08:42 PM
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No, it’s more comparable to butts. Most guys like a big butt but probably don’t find those oversized, exaggerated bbl’s attractive. It’s the same way women like muscular bodies but not huge, exaggerated, bulging body builders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:20 PM
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This sub is about sex and gender issues. It’s not the place to rant about politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:52 PM
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Women like toned and athletic looking bodies, I think that’s obvious but I don’t think most are lusting over the bulky body builders guys are imagining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:48 PM
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Oh I’m sorry I misread your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:32 PM
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I recommend scrolling through @maddisoncallaway tik tok. She’s a former porn star and really explains how exploitative the industry is towards its female ‘talent.’ https://www.tiktok.com/@maddisoncallaway?_t=8g33QKgi84j&_r=1
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:26 PM
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I'm not saying that women don't enjoy porn but porn is mostly a manifestation of the male fantasy. I don't think they are choosing male actors based on what appeals to women but so their male audience can live vicariously through these male corn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:32 PM
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Most of the men in straight porn are on average overweight, middle aged or bald and at best maybe mildly good looking. Some do have nice looking equipment I guess...? The only times ever seen men who look somewhat close to what your describing is in gay porn, probably because of the high male beauty standards in the gay community. Women make their sexual preferences known all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:18 PM
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No, your misinterpreting me. I'm talking about men who literally get online tell women that if they don't act a certain way they will be left for foreign women. I don't know why none of you seem to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:53 PM
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What parts of her statement do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:20 PM
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What do you know about my world view? Whats faulty about it and why do I need to change it? Explain who this caleb guy is if you want me to know so badly about him instead of randomly dropping his name into conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:23 PM
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What are you talking about? Where did I say they were getting threatened with their own dominance? The so called 'threat' here is that western men will abandon western women for foreigners. Please read carefully. And I dont know who West Elm Caleb is and I don't care enough to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:55 PM
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How can anyone threaten you with your own creepiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:47 AM
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You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:46 AM
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I despise it when people tell me what I have or haven’t experienced, please do not do that. Just because you haven’t personally witnessed it doesn’t mean it ceases to exist, that’s not how reality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:22 AM
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When men get on tik tok and use the ‘threat’ of men going overseas en masse to try and ‘scare’ western women into becoming ‘submissive’ it makes me want to die of cringe. It’s a pathetic attempt at negging and we all know it’s a bluff. Outside of that I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:47 PM
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True. I love video games as a woman but games like the sims, stardew valley, Royale high etc… RPG and fighting games really don’t appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:04 PM
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Hmmm. In my experience older men have some of the worst baggage I've ever seen. But I guess there are exceptions and it depends on the person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:07 PM
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True. I can mostly relate to this. Being a dark skinned woman with a femcel phenotype is a guarantee that men will despise you upon first glance.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 01:44 PM
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All these things are pretty common in older men. What makes older men a better option?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:12 PM
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How is it more drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:03 PM
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The men in porn are really unattractive, and aren’t what we focus on at all. If a woman is watching porn 9/10 out of ten she’s more focused on the woman and her reactions than the man. Why do you think lesbian porn is one of the most popular porn categories for women? As someone who’s been reading erotic romance since I was 9 they do kinda effect your romantic and sexual desires if you’ve been reading them long enough, but I don’t think it’s the main reason for a woman having high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:05 AM
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For a good laugh tbh. Sometimes when I’m feeling down I come to subs like these and it gives me an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:29 AM
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With children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:36 PM
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Meet my dream man, fall in love with him and then become his housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:57 PM
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Romantic interest is a form of emotional investment, is it not? The reason they give this girl money/labor is because they are romantically invested aka emotionally invested, while they other person has no interest. Therefore they are contributing more emotionally and mentally than the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:18 AM
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By emotional and mental contribution I mean they are more emotionally invested in the relationship than the other party. Isn’t this what ‘simps’ are essentially? People who like someone much more than a person likes them. Also humans are a social species. Human connection is extremely important for our overall wellbeing and health, it’s quite literally a need like shelter or food. You have no idea how quickly a human will deteriorate without genuine human contact for an extended period of time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:11 AM
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Similar to how so called simps, simp for women. Actively pursuing or staying in relationships where they are contributing more (usually either emotionally, sexually, physically, mentally or financially) than their partner who lacks interest in them or stays with them more out of convenience than love/affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:58 AM
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I guess. I did say they were more like the female version of betabuxx, an offshoot of the ‘nice guy.’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:21 AM
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Lol. You obviously haven’t spent much time on the femininity sphere of the internet. You will find numerous conversations surrounding the ‘plight of the pick me’, which essentially talks about how the pick me’s constant simping for a man leads to an unfulfilling and unbalanced relationship. That’s a very condensed version of things but I tried to sum it up as best as I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:11 AM
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There are terms for women that you could consider the female version of betabuxx. They’re usually aren’t referred to as ‘nice girls’ though. I’ve seen them called bobisha the builders, masculina’s or pick me’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:58 PM
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Millionaire as long as it’s an open relationship and I can do as I please. If not, neither. I’d rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:06 AM
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I don’t have any experience irl dating so I don’t know 🤷🏾‍♀️. But when it comes to what I find attractive online, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:15 AM
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Romance novels. Lots and lots of romance novels and maybe anime. Also manhwa, especially the BL variety. They have completely shaped my taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:46 PM
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I mean yeah but if you arent really pretty, you need to have somewhat ok social skills if you want a bf. If you are super shy and ugly/plain looking then its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:49 AM
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BY NO ONE! I've made myself very clear!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:45 AM
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I dont want to put my face and information out for strangers to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:44 AM
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Im not obese. Im skinny-average weight. Everyone that meets me says I look petite and younger than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:41 AM
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THANK YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:45 AM
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Well, obviously!! I’m just trying to get you to see a different perspective, isn’t that what your trying to do here as well? I understand that a lot of men generally have tough time when it comes to dating, that’s honestly pretty much all that the men on this sub talk about day in and day out. I get it, the topic has been rehashed over and over I don’t need you to spell it out for me! But Jesus Christ, why is it that so many PPD men refuse to acknowledge the existence of undesirable women? That …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:41 AM
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🙄 At least a PPD man is acknowledging the existence of undesirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:44 AM
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My peers (both male and female) seem to have no issues getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:41 AM
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A lot of girls, especially ones that are below average/plain looking have at least once tried to make her interest known to a guy in hopes that he reciprocates. But they are promptly rejected, shamed, met with disgust, if not outright bullied. Wearing your heart on your sleeve and looking thirsty as a woman puts a stain on your reputation. For men getting rejected is almost expected, for women it’s extra humiliating because you intentionally stepped outside of the social norm and have absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:32 AM
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Yes men are expected to and usually do the pursing. Men will make their interest clear by approaching you. Now imagine as a woman you’ve never been approached before. It’s safe to assume that men aren’t attracted to you or they aren’t interested in you enough to be worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:28 AM
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I could honestly ask the same question to the men who claim they are ‘invisible’ to women. How do you know some average/below average women aren’t interested in you secretly, but are instead too shy to make their intentions clear? Especially when there’s the pre-existing fear that doing so would step outside of the societal norm? And if they are rejected, they will be seen as desperate or thirsty. Does it matter in the grand scheme of things? You aren’t clairvoyant to read their mind without cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:34 PM
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I don’t use dating apps so I only have irl approaches to go off of. Continue to live inside your own delusions, I know what my situation is like. I’VE NEVER BEEN APPROACHED IN MY ENTIRE LIFE!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:17 PM
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Then explain how I’ve never been approached/hit on by a man not once in my 19 years of living? Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:44 PM
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I mean it’s pretty self explanatory. On this sub you don’t have to scroll too far to find some type of disgruntled post/comment from a man ranting about how much more attention they think women get compared to them or the average guy. It’s pretty clear that they are envious of women to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:41 PM
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True! If you aren’t pretty or extroverted as a woman it is very easy to slip under most men’s radar. I’m speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:50 PM
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I didn’t get attention from anyone. I’ve never been approached/hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:33 PM
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A little bit, but I see a lot men on here upset that (from their pov) the average woman has easier access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:40 PM
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I didn’t realize how many men had “vagina envy.” Seriously, when I’m reading some of the posts/comments on here from men talking about women, it reminds me of how I used to talk shit about the popular girls in middle school because I was jealous of all the attention they got.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:51 PM
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In reality, being the only woman amoung 50 men would sound extremely scary. Even if they were handsome I would still be very intimidated. If I could get over that fear then I think I would keep a harem. The most logical option here is polyandry. I probably wouldnt be with all of them, maybe just a couple of my favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:00 PM
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In reality, being the only woman amoung 50 men would sound extremely scary. Even if they were handsome I would still be very intimidated. If I could get over that fear then I think I would keep a harem. The most logical option here is polyandry. I probably wouldnt be with all of them, maybe just a couple of my favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:59 PM
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I don’t really have any experience with dating but I still want to put in my 2 sense. In theory I really do like the the concept of the silent but strong type, introverts that mostly keep to themselves. I think I would find them most relatable because I am a very shy homebody. But I also really find myself attracted to men who are outgoing and goofy. I think because they bring this spontaneity into my life that I don’t usually get on a daily basis. They keep me on my toes and entertained. They p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:35 AM
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I would be upset and disapproving in all situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:18 PM
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I’m 19 and the hypothetical man in this scenario would be in their late teens-early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:00 AM
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Virgin woman here 🤚🏾 I would prefer a virgin man, as long as I find him attractive and we are compatible. I don’t mind bad sex at the beginning, as long as he puts genuine effort into improving overtime and pleasing me. Edit: Took some more time to think about it and if he’s going to view me as a last option I’d rather stay single. I’d turn down option 1 because I don’t want a man with a high body count, I personally think they are more likely to cheat. In an ideal scenario, the virgin man would…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:54 PM
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I honestly dont think you should read too much into this. Its just female humour. Half of them are deliberately exaggerated for comedic effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:38 PM
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If your goal is to attain a long term relationship, I dont think lying to your partner is a good idea. They will most likely eventually find out and depending on the severity of the lie, they will most likely leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:32 PM
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I haven’t been hit on before but as someone who is inexperienced and socially awkward I put a lot of effort into not coming across as creepy or overbearing. I generally like to keep a simple smile on my face, especially if they meet my gaze. I try not to stare generally. If we do end up talking I try not to pry about their life, especially not their love life. I let them lead conversation, so I’m not rambling and putting my foot in my mouth. It’s pretty basic but I hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:19 PM
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