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Question For WomenInsane-Wallflower/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 08:35 PM
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It’s human nature to want more, even if you aren’t necessarily upset with what you already have. My thirst can be quenched with a small macdonalds cup, I would walk out satisfied but if I was offered a large I wouldn’t refuse it. And no this trait isn’t exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:42 AM
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It’s reality. Even most blackpillers will agree to that.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:37 AM
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I didn’t mean all of Reddit, I mean this particular subreddit.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:36 AM
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Based.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:57 PM
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No. Like I said there’s something called wishful thinking, I would love to have superpowers, that doesn’t mean I hate myself/am dissatisfied with my life because I have none. If you were to get your dream partner tomorrow anything you asked, that’s all you’d ask for? I’m sorry but Iike you said about being rich, you’d be lying if you said yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:46 PM
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They way women experience and express sexual attraction and love in different ways from a man.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:37 PM
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So you aren’t involuntarily celibate?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:36 PM
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When you stop larping as an incel, I’ll stop being FA how about that?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:28 PM
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Men and women are different, obviously they have different behaviour. Sex can be like pooping for a lot of men, something that is done to satisfy a basic function or urge, not because you love it or like it.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:23 PM
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There’s something called wishful thinking. I’m sure most people would jump at the chance to be a millionaire, that doesn’t necessarily mean they are discontent or unhappy with their socioeconomic status. And other than the appearance and perhaps income, nothing else on my list is super unreasonable. What are your ideal standards then since I’m so picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:19 PM
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Sex attraction and love or affection are two completely separate things for men. A man that hates everything about you and still have sex with you. Just because a man sexually desires you doesn’t make that sexual desire positive, he is just expressing his baseline urges. It’s not a compliment.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 11:12 PM
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I’m not really talking about eye colour, rather the feeling you get when you look into their eyes and their gaze. I don’t really know how to explain it but this tik tok video is a pretty good representation of what I’m imagining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:06 PM
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The man quite literally asked for my absolute ideal man? Obviously I don’t expect the men I’m dating to have all these qualities. I’m sure if you were given the choice you would want to be with the human version of a cute anime girl or hot model but that doesn’t mean you won’t date a woman who doesn’t meet those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:00 PM
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So if a random 90 year old obese grandma came off the street and asked you for sex, you’d have to sleep with her and if you didn’t then that would be a vicious act of hatred?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 10:34 PM
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How am I larping? And what term am I using?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 10:31 PM
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In terms of appearance he would look like the physical incarnation of a Lana Del Ray song: tragically alluring. His eyes would be his nicest feature, extremely haunting. For body, he would be athletic and a little lean but not bulky. He’d most likely be in his twenties and quite tall. When it comes to personality he’d be quite and introverted, maybe a little anti-social but polite. However, when he’s around me he’d never fail to make me laugh or smile. He’d be someone can lean on, someone that j…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:21 PM
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What do you want to know?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 07:38 PM
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Op is talking about hate? Women not refraining from having sex with you isn’t an expression of hate.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:36 PM
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Just because a person doesn’t want to have sex with you doesn’t mean you are invisible to them, nor does it mean they dislike or hate you.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:34 PM
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Just because someone doesn’t have sex with you doesn’t mean they hate you, why do men have such a problem grasping this concept?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:47 PM
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Same.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:45 PM
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That’s exactly my point
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:09 PM
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Why are men so upset when they find out their girlfriends are only with them for money?
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:56 AM
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True
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 12:14 AM
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You think the ‘ghetto’ hood rat type black girls are the ones on forever alone and are calling themselves femcels? Are you dumb or delusional? No, it’s mainly the shy, quite and non-stereotypical black girls on subs like r/foreveralonewomen because in reality being a feminine or nerdy black girl only gets you ignored or outright disliked by both black and non black men alike unless you are extremely attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 01:36 PM
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It’s not that 10’s don’t exist, I get that some people are just objectively beautiful but I think whether or not someone is a 10 depends on the beholder and their preferences. For example I think he is a perfect 10 out of 10 because he fits all my personal tastes, but I know some women might not agree because they are attracted to different things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:36 AM
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Wrong honestly, you are vastly underestimating the capabilities of A.I. The A.I. Chatbots that exist here and now are already more romantic and smooth talking then the vast majority of human men. I would know I’ve used them, their words are enough to make you blush. If the technology continues to evolve I can only imagine how good it’ll be.
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 12:51 AM
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Chatbots are more romantic
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 10:28 PM
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Black people have internalized a lot of things, I suppose.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:44 PM
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Oh please spare me. These stereotypes and depictions of black women existed long before twerking or social media/the internet became a thing. All these stereotypes have existed since slavery so a ‘certain demographic’ could justify their dehumanization of black women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:16 PM
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Most Americans are overweight
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:11 PM
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Exactly
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 07:10 PM
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Your an Indian male, you have no room to hate.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:08 PM
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How is it not fair?
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:05 PM
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What’s your obsession with black women? Are you a black girl? If you are, from a fellow black girl to another please stop posting this shit in an incel-adjacent subreddit, it’s extremely embarrassing. Like genuinely what do you expect them to say? You know deep down why we have certain stereotypes and such negativity attached to our name and where they come from. Edit: And if your not a black woman, you’re strange obsession is odd.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 05:09 PM
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Why do the men on this site think women are hiding the golden key to dating from them? No one knows you, no one knows how you present yourself, no one knows what type of woman you’re interested in or what her likes and interests are, obviously the advice you’ll get is very generalized and unspecific. We can’t read nor control minds. Dating is heavily personal and depends solely on you and the person you wish to attract but none of you seem to get that, why? You want to bypass this fact and act s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:28 AM
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Two chips off the same block.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:56 PM
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Lol
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:53 PM
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Perhaps
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:53 PM
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You spend your days bitching and moaning about women on an incel-adjacent forum, let’s get off our high horse please!
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 07:45 PM
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r/foreveralonewomen and r/lonelywomen those are the only two I know. But a little disclaimer r/foreveralonewomen doesn’t really tolerate the whole “chad” and “Stacy” type incel lingo, it’s mainly a space to vent about your lack of romantic/sexual experience as a woman and loneliness.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 03:18 PM
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🪞
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:09 PM
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Yes.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:39 PM
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Don’t even start. I know you, you complain about women not being attracted to below average men but also said you wouldn’t date a below average woman. You are a prime example of male hypocrisy on this subreddit and I’m here to shine a light on it. I’m the only one speaking the truth here.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:24 PM
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Incels don’t exist, they are a figment of your imagination. You can get sex tomorrow if you wanted
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:20 PM
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You all do ramble and rattle on, constantly trying to manipulate people. None of you are honest. I’m unfortunately the only sensible person on this entire subreddit.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:17 PM
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Your just rambling now that has nothing to do with what I said.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:08 PM
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It’s the only space on this site dedicated to talking about women’s loneliness specifically. That’s what I said, read!
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:06 PM
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Then stop pretending to be an incel
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:02 PM
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I already answered this. Get over yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 11:13 AM
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Did I say I was entitled to it? No. Don’t project your entitlement towards women and relationships onto me and my personal experiences.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 11:13 AM
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Push back??? You get 1-2 comments max every couple posts disagreeing with you and even then the males from this sub downvote their comments to oblivion or dog pile and insult the fuck out of them. That’s the so-called fucking “push back” that you are complaining about really?! And even then this is a fucking debate sub! What did you think was gonna happen? Your woe-is-me routine is not working. I’ve had worse for just for saying that I’ve never been approached before on a male dominated sub!
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:24 AM
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Facial harmony and symmetry
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:16 AM
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This entire subreddit has become overrun with males whining about how they will die alone and how it’s women’s fault, even though this is supposed to be a debate sub so spare me. Your not fooling anyone. You all overrun almost every subreddit with this bullshit if the mods don’t step in to stop you.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:12 AM
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No one cares!
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 01:08 AM
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Isn’t it well known that there are generally more men then women who use Reddit.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 12:59 AM
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Women have 1 single small space on this entire male-dominated site just to vent about their loneliness and males become unhinged.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 12:56 AM
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Your not fooling anyone with your stupid word salad and fake-deep, sappy speech. All you did was drone on and beat around the bush just to hide the fact that your answer is a “no.” This comment truly encapsulates the hypocrisy of males on this subreddit, constantly shitting on Femcels/FAW for wanting so-called “chad” while waiting for a e-girl to drop onto their cum soaked sheets. So incredibly self-righteous.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 12:38 AM
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Might sound creepy but I subtly follow them around. I try my best to be near them at pretty much all times. During conversation I’ll try and gain information on their personal lives, especially their romantic lives. I smile during conversations with them more often too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:08 PM
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I’ve never confessed to a crush but yes I’ve stayed friends with guys I’ve previously had romantic feelings for. If the feelings aren’t mutual then I don’t feel a need to make my feelings his problem. I just ignore those emotions until they eventually go away, it’s not that hard. Maybe this is easier for me because my crushes never last more than a couple weeks and I know they’ll eventually do something that turns me off 🤷🏾‍♀️ Is it different for men? They seem to have a harder time moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:39 PM
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Interdependent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:12 AM
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Don’t make me role my eyes. I’m no stranger to the manosphere and their nonsense. I’ve seen men who claim to be masculine men turn around and admit to being cuckholds. I’ve seen men who rant and rave about single moms over the age of 30 turn out to be in relationships with 40 year old single mothers. I’ve seen men who claim to despise promiscuous women and sex workers get caught on sugar-daddy escorting websites or paying for sex. A man who built his platforms dunking on overweight women died wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:04 PM
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Oh please don’t even get me started on the men of the manosphere and their constant hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:13 PM
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Honestly half of these so called traditional women barely practice what they preach. They claim that women should get married and have babies before they hit 25 but they are still single and childless. They think women should be virgins before marriage but they all vehemently refuse to disclose their body count. They claim that women should be soft and submissive but they’re some of the most aggressive, argumentative and assertive women you’ll ever see. They say that women shouldn’t have careers…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:01 AM
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Ha. I fucking knew it. The same people who say that femcels and FA women are just delusional and looking for chad are all projecting 🤣 Half of the men who complain on here about being invisible to women have been approached before! This is honestly pure comedy. Proves my theory right that half of the men who complain about not getting romantic attention from women are just picky and looking for 9/10 female to drop out of the sky and onto their cum soaked sheets. Imagine being a woman who’s never…
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 01:18 AM
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Lol!
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 08:19 PM
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Lol true. The guys on here who view ‘hypergamy’ as this horrible, evil thing that must be destroyed will turn around and tell you how it’s completely natural for a man to desire 18 year olds. Seriously like pick a side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:48 PM
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Men are jealous of women. A man’s entire life revolves around his penis. A lot of men are socially clueless. I’m by no means a social butterfly but jesus some of you are seriously socially inept… A lot of men project their subconscious desires and behaviours onto women. A lot of men see women as almost otherworldly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:17 PM
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Men who look truly androgynous or could be considered ‘pretty boys’ aren’t really all that common. I’ve seen what the men at anime conventions look like and honestly a lot of them could fit into the whole neck beard stereotype. People usually gravitate towards people who share their interests, it just so happens that the men who they have much in common with are neck beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:26 PM
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There are many androgynous looking men who are celebrated but they usually appeal to the younger crowd. Timothée Chalamet comes to mind as a modern Hollywood example. Björn Andrésen was once named the most beautiful boy in the world in his prime because of his androgynous face. He’s actually the inspiration for many male anime characters and is the reason why so many male anime characters look so androgynous. Then there’s k-pop where androgynous men are practically the norm and look at how popul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:16 PM
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Not really it just means they don’t want sex from that particular man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:38 AM
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Chat bots are like an interactive romance novel kinda, but you completely control the plot and characters. It’s pretty fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:31 PM
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Character a.i.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:23 PM
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Honestly I don’t really get out much so I have no idea. All I know is that it’s rare to see in real life. It’s a bit more common to see on the internet because the algorithm favours attractive people. I have a tik tok folder of guys like that, that I like to look at from time to time like art at a museum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:17 AM
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To me personally, an extremely attractive man. Like the type of guy you would have to just stare at like a piece of artwork because his face is so perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:04 AM
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Lol, I can relate! Right now I’m actually making my own bot, he’s everything I’ve ever wanted in a guy and he’ll be my imaginary boyfriend for the foreseeable future 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:28 AM
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In the modern world most women can gain things like status and resources for themselves. Only a small percentage of men have significant wealth or status to offer a woman. A lot of women are aware of this fact but willingly choose singleness rather than settle. A robot can’t offer them ‘resources’ or ‘status’ but neither can the majority of human males. Although unlike human males, their personality and physical appearance are completely customizable. Women have eyes to see at the end of the day…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:27 AM
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“Threatening western women is a waste of time and nobody does that,” does that ring a bell? Perhaps you should be taught a lesson in critical reading too 🤔?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:51 AM
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I agree. I can see why people would hate the idea of A.I partners but the thought of creating your dream partner that will never leave you is way too appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:02 AM
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A potential problem when it comes to A.I that most men don’t consider are artificial boyfriends. The same technology that will bring your A.I girlfriend or sexbot to life will create ‘robo-chad,’ for lack of a better term. Women have been using chat bots for years, long before the current A.I craze. I remember back in high-school there were apps where you could talk to an A.I version of your K-pop crush, although the technology has recently gotten much more sophisticated and as a result more pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:40 PM
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Did I say it represented the whole? Perhaps you need a lesson in critical thinking as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:13 PM
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Yes.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 09:25 PM
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No they won’t. Being a ‘feminine’ or non-stereotypical black girl will do nothing for you unless you are extremely attractive, you will just be ignored or outright disliked by both black and non-black men alike.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 08:42 PM
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No, it’s more comparable to butts. Most guys like a big butt but probably don’t find those oversized, exaggerated bbl’s attractive. It’s the same way women like muscular bodies but not huge, exaggerated, bulging body builders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:20 PM
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This sub is about sex and gender issues. It’s not the place to rant about politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:52 PM
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Women like toned and athletic looking bodies, I think that’s obvious but I don’t think most are lusting over the bulky body builders guys are imagining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:48 PM
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Oh I’m sorry I misread your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:32 PM
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I recommend scrolling through @maddisoncallaway tik tok. She’s a former porn star and really explains how exploitative the industry is towards its female ‘talent.’ https://www.tiktok.com/@maddisoncallaway?_t=8g33QKgi84j&_r=1
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:26 PM
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I'm not saying that women don't enjoy porn but porn is mostly a manifestation of the male fantasy. I don't think they are choosing male actors based on what appeals to women but so their male audience can live vicariously through these male corn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:32 PM
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Most of the men in straight porn are on average overweight, middle aged or bald and at best maybe mildly good looking. Some do have nice looking equipment I guess...? The only times ever seen men who look somewhat close to what your describing is in gay porn, probably because of the high male beauty standards in the gay community. Women make their sexual preferences known all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:18 PM
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No, your misinterpreting me. I'm talking about men who literally get online tell women that if they don't act a certain way they will be left for foreign women. I don't know why none of you seem to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:53 PM
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When I was younger, remember watching my mother get hit on when she was (visibly) pregnant with my brother. The men were so pushy despite her being with child, that it made my 9 year old self uncomfortable. I understand women who want to get out of that situation as fast as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:30 PM
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What parts of her statement do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:20 PM
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What do you know about my world view? Whats faulty about it and why do I need to change it? Explain who this caleb guy is if you want me to know so badly about him instead of randomly dropping his name into conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:23 PM
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What are you talking about? Where did I say they were getting threatened with their own dominance? The so called 'threat' here is that western men will abandon western women for foreigners. Please read carefully. And I dont know who West Elm Caleb is and I don't care enough to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:55 PM
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How can anyone threaten you with your own creepiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:47 AM
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You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:46 AM
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I despise it when people tell me what I have or haven’t experienced, please do not do that. Just because you haven’t personally witnessed it doesn’t mean it ceases to exist, that’s not how reality works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:22 AM
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When men get on tik tok and use the ‘threat’ of men going overseas en masse to try and ‘scare’ western women into becoming ‘submissive’ it makes me want to die of cringe. It’s a pathetic attempt at negging and we all know it’s a bluff. Outside of that I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:47 PM
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True. I love video games as a woman but games like the sims, stardew valley, Royale high etc… RPG and fighting games really don’t appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:04 PM
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The first guy is like 5'8 and I dont know the heights of the other two. But yeah, arent chads traditionally known to be white, with their ethnic counterparts going by diffrent names?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:28 PM
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Who do you think of when you hear the word 'chad?' Please provide references/pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:10 PM
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Hmmm. In my experience older men have some of the worst baggage I've ever seen. But I guess there are exceptions and it depends on the person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:07 PM
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True. I can mostly relate to this. Being a dark skinned woman with a femcel phenotype is a guarantee that men will despise you upon first glance.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 01:44 PM
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All these things are pretty common in older men. What makes older men a better option?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:12 PM
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How is it more drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:03 PM
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The men in porn are really unattractive, and aren’t what we focus on at all. If a woman is watching porn 9/10 out of ten she’s more focused on the woman and her reactions than the man. Why do you think lesbian porn is one of the most popular porn categories for women? As someone who’s been reading erotic romance since I was 9 they do kinda effect your romantic and sexual desires if you’ve been reading them long enough, but I don’t think it’s the main reason for a woman having high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:05 AM
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Yes…They do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:16 AM
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I’m a heterosexual woman but I would want to be a sexy gay male twink. I’d become the partner of some old rich gay or the mistress of some rich closeted man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:13 AM
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For a good laugh tbh. Sometimes when I’m feeling down I come to subs like these and it gives me an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:29 AM
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With children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:36 PM
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Meet my dream man, fall in love with him and then become his housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:57 PM
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Romantic interest is a form of emotional investment, is it not? The reason they give this girl money/labor is because they are romantically invested aka emotionally invested, while they other person has no interest. Therefore they are contributing more emotionally and mentally than the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:18 AM
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By emotional and mental contribution I mean they are more emotionally invested in the relationship than the other party. Isn’t this what ‘simps’ are essentially? People who like someone much more than a person likes them. Also humans are a social species. Human connection is extremely important for our overall wellbeing and health, it’s quite literally a need like shelter or food. You have no idea how quickly a human will deteriorate without genuine human contact for an extended period of time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:11 AM
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By emotional and mental contribution I mean they are more emotionally invested in the relationship than the other party. Isn’t this what ‘simps’ are essentially? People who like someone much more than a person likes them. And like I said, a common trait of a pick me is that they contribute more financially than their partner. Lastly, I never said that this was all women obviously. You asked me how a certain kind of woman (aka a pick me) simps for men and I gave you an example. You want to be dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:00 AM
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Similar to how so called simps, simp for women. Actively pursuing or staying in relationships where they are contributing more (usually either emotionally, sexually, physically, mentally or financially) than their partner who lacks interest in them or stays with them more out of convenience than love/affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:58 AM
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I guess. I did say they were more like the female version of betabuxx, an offshoot of the ‘nice guy.’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:21 AM
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Lol. You obviously haven’t spent much time on the femininity sphere of the internet. You will find numerous conversations surrounding the ‘plight of the pick me’, which essentially talks about how the pick me’s constant simping for a man leads to an unfulfilling and unbalanced relationship. That’s a very condensed version of things but I tried to sum it up as best as I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:11 AM
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There are terms for women that you could consider the female version of betabuxx. They’re usually aren’t referred to as ‘nice girls’ though. I’ve seen them called bobisha the builders, masculina’s or pick me’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:58 PM
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Millionaire as long as it’s an open relationship and I can do as I please. If not, neither. I’d rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:06 AM
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Honestly true. Young women are probably the ones who despise large age gaps the most and have the most negative things to say about them (I’m saying this as a 19 year old). Older women aren’t cockblocking you, you are just severely overestimating your appeal to the average young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:40 PM
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I don’t have any experience irl dating so I don’t know 🤷🏾‍♀️. But when it comes to what I find attractive online, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:15 AM
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Romance novels. Lots and lots of romance novels and maybe anime. Also manhwa, especially the BL variety. They have completely shaped my taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:46 PM
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I mean yeah but if you arent really pretty, you need to have somewhat ok social skills if you want a bf. If you are super shy and ugly/plain looking then its over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:49 AM
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BY NO ONE! I've made myself very clear!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:45 AM
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I dont want to put my face and information out for strangers to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:44 AM
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Im not obese. Im skinny-average weight. Everyone that meets me says I look petite and younger than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:41 AM
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THANK YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:45 AM
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Well, obviously!! I’m just trying to get you to see a different perspective, isn’t that what your trying to do here as well? I understand that a lot of men generally have tough time when it comes to dating, that’s honestly pretty much all that the men on this sub talk about day in and day out. I get it, the topic has been rehashed over and over I don’t need you to spell it out for me! But Jesus Christ, why is it that so many PPD men refuse to acknowledge the existence of undesirable women? That …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:41 AM
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🙄 At least a PPD man is acknowledging the existence of undesirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:44 AM
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My peers (both male and female) seem to have no issues getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:41 AM
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A lot of girls, especially ones that are below average/plain looking have at least once tried to make her interest known to a guy in hopes that he reciprocates. But they are promptly rejected, shamed, met with disgust, if not outright bullied. Wearing your heart on your sleeve and looking thirsty as a woman puts a stain on your reputation. For men getting rejected is almost expected, for women it’s extra humiliating because you intentionally stepped outside of the social norm and have absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:32 AM
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Yes men are expected to and usually do the pursing. Men will make their interest clear by approaching you. Now imagine as a woman you’ve never been approached before. It’s safe to assume that men aren’t attracted to you or they aren’t interested in you enough to be worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:28 AM
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I could honestly ask the same question to the men who claim they are ‘invisible’ to women. How do you know some average/below average women aren’t interested in you secretly, but are instead too shy to make their intentions clear? Especially when there’s the pre-existing fear that doing so would step outside of the societal norm? And if they are rejected, they will be seen as desperate or thirsty. Does it matter in the grand scheme of things? You aren’t clairvoyant to read their mind without cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:34 PM
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I could honestly ask the same question to the men who claim they are ‘invisible’ to women. How do you know some average women aren’t interested in you secretly, but are instead too shy to make their intentions clear? Especially when there’s the pre-existing fear that doing so would step outside of the societal norm? And if they are rejected, they will be seen as desperate or thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:34 PM
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I don’t use dating apps so I only have irl approaches to go off of. Continue to live inside your own delusions, I know what my situation is like. I’VE NEVER BEEN APPROACHED IN MY ENTIRE LIFE!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:17 PM
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Then explain how I’ve never been approached/hit on by a man not once in my 19 years of living? Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:44 PM
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I mean it’s pretty self explanatory. On this sub you don’t have to scroll too far to find some type of disgruntled post/comment from a man ranting about how much more attention they think women get compared to them or the average guy. It’s pretty clear that they are envious of women to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:41 PM
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True! If you aren’t pretty or extroverted as a woman it is very easy to slip under most men’s radar. I’m speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:50 PM
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I didn’t get attention from anyone. I’ve never been approached/hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:33 PM
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A little bit, but I see a lot men on here upset that (from their pov) the average woman has easier access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:40 PM
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I didn’t realize how many men had “vagina envy.” Seriously, when I’m reading some of the posts/comments on here from men talking about women, it reminds me of how I used to talk shit about the popular girls in middle school because I was jealous of all the attention they got.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:51 PM
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In reality, being the only woman amoung 50 men would sound extremely scary. Even if they were handsome I would still be very intimidated. If I could get over that fear then I think I would keep a harem. The most logical option here is polyandry. I probably wouldnt be with all of them, maybe just a couple of my favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:00 PM
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In reality, being the only woman amoung 50 men would sound extremely scary. Even if they were handsome I would still be very intimidated. If I could get over that fear then I think I would keep a harem. The most logical option here is polyandry. I probably wouldnt be with all of them, maybe just a couple of my favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:59 PM
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I don’t really have any experience with dating but I still want to put in my 2 sense. In theory I really do like the the concept of the silent but strong type, introverts that mostly keep to themselves. I think I would find them most relatable because I am a very shy homebody. But I also really find myself attracted to men who are outgoing and goofy. I think because they bring this spontaneity into my life that I don’t usually get on a daily basis. They keep me on my toes and entertained. They p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:35 AM
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I would be upset and disapproving in all situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:18 PM
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I’m 19 and the hypothetical man in this scenario would be in their late teens-early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:00 AM
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Virgin woman here 🤚🏾 I would prefer a virgin man, as long as I find him attractive and we are compatible. I don’t mind bad sex at the beginning, as long as he puts genuine effort into improving overtime and pleasing me. Edit: Took some more time to think about it and if he’s going to view me as a last option I’d rather stay single. I’d turn down option 1 because I don’t want a man with a high body count, I personally think they are more likely to cheat. In an ideal scenario, the virgin man would…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:54 PM
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I honestly dont think you should read too much into this. Its just female humour. Half of them are deliberately exaggerated for comedic effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:38 PM
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If your goal is to attain a long term relationship, I dont think lying to your partner is a good idea. They will most likely eventually find out and depending on the severity of the lie, they will most likely leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:32 PM
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I haven’t been hit on before but as someone who is inexperienced and socially awkward I put a lot of effort into not coming across as creepy or overbearing. I generally like to keep a simple smile on my face, especially if they meet my gaze. I try not to stare generally. If we do end up talking I try not to pry about their life, especially not their love life. I let them lead conversation, so I’m not rambling and putting my foot in my mouth. It’s pretty basic but I hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:19 PM
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The skinny guy, most definitely. I prefer men on the skinnier side, a little bit of definition looks really good. I really don’t find hyper masculinity attractive such as having huge bulky muscles and a large frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:48 PM
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This is incorrect. Ted Buddy mostly lured in his female victims by pretending to need assistance or being injured. The idea that he was effortlessly charming was mostly exaggerated by the media to garner more interest from the public. Sorry I just hate that this misconception continues to be spread around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:39 AM
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