InsanityIsSaneHere Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	I don’t think I’ll romantically love or trust another man again . I'm in the same boat too. Even the men who come across as decent end up being liars. I'm done wasting anymore time on relationships with men. I get a lot more out of my sisterhood & it doesn't drain my energy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/21 01:59 AM
1	Why do men refuse to break up with you when they are not into you? They're cowards. I don't allow cowards near me anymore. They're wasting our precious time & energy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 08:59 PM
2	“Men fake entire relationships” My ex admitted he married someone even though he wasn't really in love & didn't want marriage, because it got them better military funds. The old sick me, didn't leave but stayed for few years. He dumped me & I was desperately trying to get him back for months after. Geezus - I was delusional then. He has never finalized divorce either. He was in that marriage for a decade. I don't want this guy back at all anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 08:55 PM
1	Part of loving yourself is holding yourself accountable. Often times, we can be our own worst enemies because we act out on momentary emotion instead of stepping back and approaching the situation with clarity and purpose. I've found it so beneficial to learn some quick grounding exercises & pausing before responding. I used to let me emotions get the best of me & made several mistakes in the past. I am fully accountable for those errors. It feels very good to take control of my own emotions & make better decisions because doing the innee work leads to a calmer self. I respond slowly more than react quickly, now 😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 08:18 PM
2	Marriage has not only NOT been a boon for women's sexual needs, it mostly runs against our interests, even in terms of sexual stability. I'm 46 now - ever since age 9, never wanted marriage & never wanted to have kids. That hasn't changed. I've had both men & women make unwanted comments on these choices, over the years - trying to cut me down because "that's what every woman wants". Fuck no, it is not. I tell men who are wife shopping - I'm not looking for a husband & he should find someone who wants to be a wife. I've had men tell me, when I'm older, I'll regret those choices. Yeah, no. I don't regret my choices & think it's bo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 08:06 PM
1	Held off on sex, it was horrible In my 20s, dated a guy like this. It took me awhile to find out he was a porn addict. He had some issues with getting hard & I realized it was due to him masterbating excessively to porn for several hours a day. It disgusted me. I dumped him fast & never looked back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 08:00 PM
14	Slow Fade This is one of the worst & most cowardly ways to exit. Fuck men who think we'd not see through their bullshit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 07:58 PM
40	The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date. I've worked with men who brag about all the women they've met in OLD & how these women are all interested so they can pick & choose who to have a fling with. I've also heard men at work advising each other to use OLD to find new women & get in bed with them to get over their ex. From the hundreds of shit conversations I've heard from men about OLD - it's pretty clear it's a cesspool of shitty men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 07:09 PM
4	I broke up with my boyfriend today He pursued me at the start & was the one who initiated the relationship. Looking back with more clarity - realized I agreed to move faster than I was actually comfortable with. He wanted to be exclusive & put a label on our relationship very early. I was introduced to his family in less than 2 months. I had no idea he was bringing me into a lion's den with zero protection. He didn't stand up for me as a partner - despite wanting me as his life partner/soulmate. I always had his back & didn't all…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 07:01 PM
8	Why would anybody put up with this?! This fool thinks he's funny. Ick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 05:32 PM
10	This is one of reasons why FDS is successful I got ostracized & attacked for not being quiet about creepy old guys trying to hit on me & be inappropriate. Told all sorts of excuses by enablers - he didn't mean it that way, he's got some mental issues, maybe you're taking things the wrong way, I'm sure he didn't mean it like that, He's got a wife & I've never seen him to that to anyone before, etc. Fuck those people. I won't ever shut up about it, if it happens to me or if I see it happening to someone else.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 05:31 PM
17	Stay vigilant. Stay vetting. Kisses <3 I love my sex toys! Get off & don't need a man to orgasm. I'm choosing celibacy & going on 2 years without sex with a man in April. My focus is on my own healing & super empowerment journey & I'm having a lot of fun falling head over in heels in love with myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 05:24 PM
10	How I've been feeling. This is how I'm feeling too. In no rush & don't need a man to feel happy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 05:15 PM
22	The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date. Gawd. Reading that made me feel a bit sick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 11:04 PM
27	I broke up with my boyfriend today My ex is avoidant attachment. He was breadcrumbing me & before I woke the heck up & silently reclaimed my personal power, was OK getting tiny morsels if it meant I got to keep him in my life. He hasn't put in the serious work to address his attachment style & I don't want to be with anyone who avoids doing the real inner work. I've done lots of that & am still making good investments into myself, because I really do believe that self improvement is a lifelong process. I deserve a partner who is …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/21 10:39 PM